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I admit I been wearing lace fronts for years I wish I had the time to really grow out my own hair and care for it it used to be long in my early 20s thanks for the links
@@user-ry2xd2yu6c Yeah, it takes work. I found with my hair, after it started growing all crazy there would be times where half the day was dedicated to hair care. SMH Lmao!
Kloops Lo yup we do. Black hair grows just as fast and long as any other race hair if taken care of. The only reason why black hair seen as slower/shorter growth is simply bc of SHRINKAGE! Shrinkage gives so many false illusions lol
And now other races think this too. I’ve heard many mixed people with long hair say that white people were surprised their hair got so long because of their black side.
Even when you are natural you should control your hair I wouldn't go out in the street or to my job with my hair all over my head natural don't mean got your hands flying Michael Tumbleweed and looking dry like tumbleweed natural means that you don't put chemicals in your head that's what it really means but you take care of it you don't see how high it can grow especially if you in the workplace let's say you are a nurse operating room technician Food Service office work Correctional work you don't have your hair flying all over that is not what natural is natural is you use as less chemicals or no chemicals at all that's what natural mean
Renita Savory My comment was in reference to the fact that many people were in disbelief of the fact that her hair is so long naturally. Don’t roll your eyes too hard though, they might get stuck that way ❤️
ITS NOT MONEY ITS JUST BEYONCE JEANS. BEYONCE IS THE MOST GORGEOUS OF ALL WOMEN IN THE WORLD AND EVEN scientifically PROVEN THAT BEYONCE GENES AND FEATURES ARE UNIQUE AND DIFFERENT FROM THE WHOLE WORLD. HER FACE IS SHAPED MOST GORGEOUS OF ANYONE ELSE IN THE WORLD. BEYONCE AAALLLLLWAYS HAD LONG BEAUTIFUL NATURAL HAIR. EVEN IN HER YOUNGER CHILDHOOD PHOTOS BEYONCE HAIR WAS ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL.ITS A SHAME HOW JEALOUS HEARTED WOMEN ARE....SOOO MONEY IST THE REASON HER HAIR IS LONG....BALCK WOMEN AAAALLL WAYS HAD BEAUTIFUL LONG HAIR....BUT BEYONCE BEAUTY IS BEYONG THIS WORLD EVEN IF SHE WAS BROKE AND IF I SAW HER I WOULD LET HER KNOW HOW . GORGEOUS SHE IS....THE THING IS MEN REALLY DO NOT GIVE A FUCK WHEN IT COME DOWN TO IT EVERY MAN ON THE PLANET TALKS ABPUT HOW BAD THEY WANT HER. IM A DUDE AND A WHIT GUY....I DATED A WHITE GIRL WITH FUCKED UP HAIR, BAD GENES....WHITE WOMEN,CHINES,INDIAN,THEY HAVE BAD HAIR TOO. EVEN BEFORE BEYONCE HAD MONEY HONEY HER HAIR WAS beautiful BECAUSE SHE WAS BORN THAT Way...sorry to bust your bubble hahaha
Honestly the “shock” for me is that her hair is so long and healthy looking WITH her hair COLOR. That BLONDE can do so much DAMAGE so the fact that it’s that long and thriving is quite IMPRESSIVE
@@Monrentho2008 true but all of the ppl who colored their hair blonde their hair looks fried..no matter if u have the best hair products and hairstylist..it look dry
Vana MAC I think, when you barely touch your hair with heat and chemicals because of good wigs, you can get long, healthy hair easily! She gets braids and changes her looks accordingly! Also, that haircolor in that video is close to her natural hair color, that's all! 🤷♀️
Black women need to redirect this energy spent on hair and nails to taking better care of our minds and bodies. Thinking right, eating right and exercising.
I don't see anything wrong with discussing hair per se. It is a very feminine topic after all along with beauty makeup Etc. It's not like we can't take care of ourselves as love being feminine and still be concerned about other issues. It's not that deep
Blue Ivy is such an adorable little girl, I was sad that North West was uplifted for her natural hair and Blue Ivy was being bashed and put down so early in life! That kinda disgusted me! 😢
My mom used to say black women cant grow their hair long when I was little. Proved her wrong. It’s to my bra strap now. I will never tell my baby that mess.
Please come on that's not all her hair I'm mixed have very nice long hair the way she parts the hard it's very careful things that make you go hmmmmmmm.she had nice hair when she was younger. True but that's not all hero's and if you believe that I have a a solid gold bar to give you .
Christina Alisa Took me a long time to figure out my own formula. I stopped relaxing my hair for one. But I use sulphate and paraben free shampoo and conditioner. 5-1 argon oil spray, I have some aveda products like scalp remedy-brilliant oil-smooth infusion and universal styling creme, and then I put black Castor oil on my ends. I only use a tiny bit of each once a week after washing. The brilliant emollient oil has rice and bran oil which helps a lot!
TheBlackLady OfChaosAndHavoc right? I can’t stand that mentality. My grandma on my moms side has beautiful soft hair but thinks it’s “nappy” so she keeps ruining it. My other grandma has long pretty hair too. My mom completely ruined hers with the weaves and now her edges are gone. My hair would have been past my hips if my grandma hadn’t put a relaxer on my head at 7 smh.
It’s because Solange’s hair isn’t straightened or dyed. The combo is a death sentence to most black women. That’s why people question Beyoncé’s hair. Not the length rather the complete lack of texture. Not even type 2 haired black women have hair that slick. I personally think Beyoncé is wearing a weave. A bit back in 2008 there was a picture of B with completely short hair spread before getting a wig weaved on.
It's crazy because if I wear It natural everyone knows it's my hair . Without heat my hair is 4 inches with heat it comes down to about 10. Everyone thinks I have a weave with a simple blow out.
They've been calling Beyonce bald headed for years🤣🤣. And even though Tina parted the hair to show that it's real, there will still be haters just cause.
Exactly ladies. It's not Black women obsessed with Beyonce's hair. It's PEOPLE who are obsessed with BEYONCE PERIOD! Plenty of black women have hair like that. We aren't OBSESSED. They need to STOP IT! Yes we wear weave because the texture of the weave is wayyyyy easier MAINTENANCE than our NATURAL HAIR!
ALICHIA HICKMAN ....I assume you didn’t see the comments in the shaderoom. A majority of the ones making fun of Tina and Beyoncé and proclaiming this wasn’t her real hair were from black women. So, no, more rational black women aren’t obsessed with Beyoncé’s hair but we can’t act like it doesn’t exist amongst us.
landryb. Yes You're Absolutely Correct My Dear Sister, Black Women's Self Hatred Is Big Business. Just Ask The Wealthy Koreans, And The Rest Of The Asian Communities!!!
How do you think Madam C.J. Walker became the first female millionaire while being a black woman? In 1910s! No white female beautician could profit so much of their race’s self-hatred.
Beyonce has been wearing single/partial braids (Destiny's Child days) and weaves since 1997, if not longer. I fully expect her hair to have grown out in *22 YEARS* of protective styling, which is basically what that was. 22 years is almost half her life. It's not rocket science here.
Da Diva Your facts are not straight. Come on now...let's give credit where credit is due. Beyoncé does NOT have 22 years of protective styling. That makes no sense. Beyoncé's hair grew that long in just 6 years. IT can be done and a lot of women do it if they take care of their hair and SHE does. Beyoncé cut her hair off SUPER SHORT in 2013. TMZ reported it and also SHOWED it. Go to You Tube and type "BEYONCE CUTS OFF ALL HER HAIR" and you will see the video posted by TMZ back in 2013. IT is extremely short. A cute pixie cut. Yes, she got the long length in about 6 years. Just by taking care of it under her wigs. It looks awesome and I love what her mother did because it's nice to see our women show-case our hair more often. But of course it grows really long and stays healthy like that because we have it braided and protected under the wigs. But....no....it is NOT 22 years of protective styling, just 6. Blessings to you.
It appears as though some black people allow their self-loathing of some sort to allow some others to define what our beauty is. If we don't tell others what is beautiful to them, we shouldn't let others tell us what is beautiful to us. Stand for something. Most black people don't have naturally curly hair and shouldn't hate themselves or allow others to hate them for what God gave or did not give them. Kinky, curly, or coily, love the skin you are in.
Crisscross 😂🤣 The content creators have to be creative with their video titles now 😂 Our comments too. They started demonetizing videos if the comments have certain words too! 😒
Yeah, I never get crazy over long hair. My mom, aunts, sister, friends all have long hair, and all are Black...So it's the norm for me because I've seen it all my life.
Exactly, growing up having long hair was my goal , when I reached that goal I was like I don't want to live my entire life with my hair the same length. So I cut it off and went natural.
@@leila_de_hautjardin I just finished trimming my ends the other day with my hair length reaching my shoulder blades. When I did my wash and go it disappeared.
Bringing Clarity to Confusion Right because black men and fathers never demean black hair and features and never praise lighter/mixed/ features. Black mothers only are just born with the self hate gene. Got it. Clearly you have not grown up or been around many black men.
@@librascales4767 I have... I'm saying is the males learn it from the females, then perpetuate the hate also... If a woman never question a weave on another woman, then the males will never know. Just like spanx, butt pads, or push up bras. The only reason that men know about these things are because other women question them and let out the cosmetic enhancements.
Bringing Clarity to Confusion And I am saying the females equally learn it from males. There is too much evidence. You can even see it in old ass writings and blues music way before weave, spandex and plastic surgery. There is even documented men from the slave narratives taken in the 1930s degrading dark women. If men were not INITIALLY vocal in there preferences at the expense of belittling others, women would have never perpetuated this.
Bringing Clarity to Confusion Also, J find it funny how black men can never learn anything positive from the females in their life, like you know, stay out of trouble and get an education or skill. And I find it amazing that black fathers are allegedly so involved with raising their children but still cannot stop or reduce colorism.
Even white female stars all have extensions, wigs and weaves. Kardashian’s, Ariana grande, Taylor Swift, Katy perry, Miley Cyrus, etc. I don’t understand why no one bats an eyelash if a white woman posts a picture with long hair. But goes into an uproar when a black woman does the same thing.
Idk I don’t have a problem with it they probably rage because white people can grow straight hair naturally (not all but the ones you mentioned). That’s what I think....
There’s no secret to growing long hair. water,wholesome diet,low manipulation, satin bonnet,castor oil for the scalp ,moisture,protective styles. Your welcome.
I think the stunt of growth or inability to achieve long and healthy hair stems from our parents damaging our hair through perms, hot combs, traction alopecia, and straight up neglect. I feel if we were taught how to properly manage, treat, style and learn to love our hair (in all the different textures) we all would have a beautiful, full head of healthy long kinky but easily managed hair!
Totally agree. My baby is about to turn 1 and because her hair is short, family is already telling me to “do” her hair. It’s so fine and delicate. Some parents be wrecking their kids follicles before they start school
Thank you. Perms are TOXIC. I cut my hair and use literally olive oil, black seed oil, jojoba and other seeds. If I cant use it on a frying pan ( I hate oil in food but making a point) dont put it in your hair. These chemicals is not only damaging to human flesh but deadly. I am happy black women now embrace natural hair
@@mbalu9018 No offense but your family is wrong. I literally began noticing black women here in South Africa and Botswana with NO edges. Not being rude but some look like sumo wrestlers because it starts in the middle of their heads. Pulling on a child's hair is not going to be great in the long run. My cousin has a little girl who just turned one in June, she dont put nothing in it and I have no kids so I aint know but aint it still baby hair at one?
Totally agree. My baby is about to turn 1 and because her hair is short, family are already telling me to “do” her hair. It’s so fine and delicate. Some parents be wrecking their kids follicles before they start school
@@oneel3859 Im from Botswana and I am transitioning to go natural because growing up my mom would perm my hair she actually hates kinky hair it's sad but true and you are right In SA and Botswana you see alot of well missing edges and damaged hair and whenever I go to the salon because of my thick 4b hair they are quick to get lazy and immediately wanna perm my hair💀😒
Britt Coils Girl my hair isn’t even that long, it’s barely past my shoulders before and after cutting it. And my grandmother always accuses me of wearing a hair piece or putting in hair😒 It’s like she never saw a black person with long hair before. And same thing used to happen to me in High school.It ain’t even that long people!!!
I was obsessed over about my hair n I don't understand how they didn't know my mom was taking care of it. Simple as that.... My Aunts was perming my cousins hair n giving em Jerry curls n stuff... N my mom kept me braided and or pressed n thats it... N pressed was only for church on special church fats you kkow Christmas n Easter back in the 80s that was it... But they obsessed over my hair like this until my one lil cousin came along with 3c hair fully black n it was long if course... So they started kinda seeing tho it was in the upkeep... Now they know but lived they whole lives being forced to get perms to straighten it because they had 4c or even more course... Im like a 2 whatever n a 3c n just like a sliver of 4c not even at all worth claiming I can't hold an afro for the life of me... Makes me mad lol. I think alot of this has been a problem with moisturizing products... The products they had out at that time did not support any other type of hair... If it was beyond 2 or 3 that mean you hadda get a perm back then... Now I love that black women are not. All textures are beautiful and I'm so glad to see 4c sisters showing out.
@@RegisteredHuman-pk3ed girl omg.... They always was saying my pony tail was fake in the early 90s cuz it moved n was fluffy n probably the biggest of all the black girls n my school. All the girls had a greasy stiff perm forced on them by their moms... When I did finally get a perm at 11 cuz I begged my mom... My hair was in the middle of my back n that was even from wearing a top head ponytail.. Well this little girl came in the bathroom after me n was yanking my head from the other stall... Saying she knew it was fake... I told in her... But that shit was ridiculous. She was hella jealous... Goes back to like the story where them little girls scalped that little girl... N they was always after me because I was dark skin with it so they wanted to fight.
You know why. Because most black people don’t have long, full hair. Exact same reason why it’s not a thing with white people. Because a lot of them long hair.
Amy Zorah False! Google Natural Afro hair and see how many pictures of black women with long natural hair. Just look at all the natural hair TH-cam channels
My long thick black hair is a mix between 4a/4b/4c. My secret is to treat my hair like a plant in the amazon I mist my hair every day or other day that's all. I give my hair attention and drink clean water.
Yes! Blue's hair has consistently been flourishing since she got out the womb because her parents weren't snatching her edges up into tight ass ponytails all the time.
MIHKAH TALKS they look at us the same way as we look at them when they're arguing about who's a real blonde and who's not a real blonde who's a bleach blonde who's a natural redhead who's not a natural redhead. Who black edges is showing under the blonde bleach... Lol
global princess first of all this took me out lmfao My question was serious as hell but I really forgot people argue about that too. And be dead serious. I’m always like “ummm okay?” 😩
MIHKAH TALKS I'm only commenting because you asked. Mainly confusion and sadness on my end. I never even realized hair was such a sensitive topic to black women until I started watching these types of videos. I didn't really understand why it was such a big deal and why they couldn't just keep their natural hair and maintain it instead of applying all these harsh chemicals... but the more I looked in to it, I understood it was years and years of being put down and systematic brainwashing, often by their own peers too, so I guess I just have a lot of empathy for black women. But it does make me sad to think that so many black women grow up with so much self hatred. Not just black women, but a lot of women in general, grow up not feeling beautiful in their own skin so they end up doing as much as they can to alter their natural selves. If black women want to wear wigs/weaves/whatever, it's their choice and I fully support it because hey, which lady doesn't like to change up her look? But I do wish that the decision to do so wasn't rooted in self hate... because every person deserves to feel absolutely beautiful in their own skin. I wish more women, not just black women, would stand up to society and just say a big f**k you and embrace their natural selves instead of us giving in to society's (mainly fuelled by businesses cause hey, insecurity is the best way to get that $$$) idea of what a woman should and shouldn't look like. God bless.
I believe that Beyonce has long hair because she takes care of it. She took care of her daughters hair when black folks said that it wasn't combed(put in tight rubber bands and braids). Now look at Blue's hair. It's full and voluminous. Longer than most black girls hair at that age.
Most little girls have longer hair than grown women it seems. Their minds haven’t been convinced that everything other than natural is good and mothers don’t give children wigs and such at that age
It’s them meek mills braids under them wigs that got Beyoncé right. Leaving them relaxers alone, she left that hair braided up, and probably oils and moisturizes her edges every night. She probably deep conditions regularly too. That’s it. It’s not much to it and idc what black women say, black hair doesn’t have to be complicated. It grows, it’s just your job to retain it.
Y’all wanna grow long type 4 hair ?? Use low manipulative hairstyles, protective hairstyles that work with your hair, keep your hair clean & well moisturized. Lemme stress, leave your hair alone & you’ll see how much growth you’ll get.
I would say water and shea butter! I also use water and pink lotion if I'm too broke for shea butter. I still use blue magic coconut hair moisturizer and murrays pomade on a day to day basis.
Tell your friend to not let everybody be touching all on her hair. Next thing you know, it's coming out in patches and sheeeeet. Can't trust folks these days. Just saying.
@justha vingfun Black Americans both south and north, Caribbean were manipulated to self hate so they work and pay their slave masters and become extremely insecure. They forgot their own human being, to the point that now if a black man doesn't interbreed with a non black woman it's considered unacceptable or they deny him access to money and fame. So he has to work and find him a white slave master to fill in the gap of approval wherever he goes. That's why. It's deep self hatred insecurity that developed over hundred years ago and it continues...
people tryna rationalize bey's long hair/loose texture by mentioning her creole background is so funny to me because solange is literally her sister and she got type 4 hair, also that's just not how genetics work
When I clicked on this, I thought we were obsessed with how cool it was Beyoncé was rocking natural hair. But apparently black women cannot quit tearing each other down. I have 4a/b hair that isn’t even that long, and I still get asked “iS iT rEaL?” Y’all need to mind your business.
Same. Everyone is obsessed with my hair bcuz even though it's type for it's longer than average. A lot of black girls think hair needs to be loosely textured for it to grow
SAME. My hair isn't even THAT LONG it's a bog standard medium length and honestly I'm in need of a trim yet I STILL have people saying 'is it real' or 'you have mixed people hair' (I hate that one especially) such absurd comments and again, my hair isn't even long. Just medium.
All black women can grow there hair. BW look crazy losing it over her hair. I grew my hair mid back with little effort. I think the trick is stop trying to have white hair. Stop pushing mixed girl hair. Embrace your texture.
Bree P. I've been using coconut oil as well (everyday). I've also added in avocado oil and black castor oil. I mix these two oils together and I use them about twice a week. I also use a water-based leave in conditioner with them. Profectiv is my favorite (The cream Is pink). I Two strand twist mostly. And a Bun when I blow dry. A lot of people say no blow dryer. However a warm blow dryer has been my best friend.
Princess Yonna that’s the only fake hair I wear and I do them myself so I can control how tight the braids are and so I few leave out my edges. I moisturize my box braids too. Some girls don’t but I do. I treat my braids like my real hair that’s why my hair has grown so long
Why do black women act like they never seen a black woman with long hair ? There are a lot of black women with long hair. My grandma has long hair down her back. I have long hair but my hair shrinks up in its natural state so people are shocked when I flat iron my hair straight and it’s long. I also have been told I had “ good “ hair by black men and women. 🤦🏿♀️
Right! I was born in Kenya and I am Somali, and before I cut my hair like a year ago, my hair was down to my butt lmao! Patience and taking care of ur hair, is gonna grow it.
TheLeah2344 because black American women aren’t taught on how to preserve their hair. It’s hard to maintain length if you don’t know how to take care of it
I am so over this hair-obsession. Most black sisters I know who wear wigs and weaves all the time always be claiming they're "just protecting" their natural hair, but I never see them wearing it out. Ever. Meanwhile they'll be making snide remarks about my type 4A/B hair. They are obsessed with looking a particular way that is not Black, that is why they don't do braids, faux locs or any other protective style that actually looks like their own hair. It's sad. I wish they could see how beautiful they are naturally.
yess omg i always either wear braids or have my hair in a puff, the very girls who wear weave/wigs 24/7 are the same ones to come at me critiquing it smh. The self hate is so damn sad.
JLricas bc its not about that..beyonce quiet any other tome and never Proves shit till someone things the queen baldheaded..how can you bee queen with no crown
Black women don't believe their hair is good bcoz all they constantly hear is insulting comments abt their hair .how many time they called our hair nappy its not our fault.
@@pricillamiza8378 Yess!! Same. My mom used to say, "Why did God give us the worse hair?" The self hate of kinky hair is real out here. I big chopped last year and I've never went back.
@@katnisseverdeen4021 I keep re chopping it tbh, but the top half of my hair grows faster than the bottom. Tips: Water!! I was taught that water and blk hair is a no no but its not. Also, use wild growth. It grows the mess out of your hair. One of the biggest reasons why I keep cutting my hair, I've alopecia traction on my edges and below my ear. And a bald spot from my crown. All of this was from weave and heat damage.
MJ Gee amen and every color is obsessing over here like a bunch of lunatics weather is wigs or whatever there is something sick and sinful about it... God bless you Survivor... you basically just happy to be alive
God Bless you and your health journey. I was trying to say the same thing (see above) that as Black women there are so many things we should be obsessing about like our health but of course I get ripped apart. LOL!!! May you continue to stay cancer free.
Sorry about your breast cancer I feel you hair don't make these people act like she is God wow I can't ok her hair is long and what I suppose to be in love with her cause she got long hair she's not the 1st black person to have long hair 🤔🤔🤔
She is Bella what kinda bull- listen you know how much work it takes to maintain natural hair don't make us seem like we don't care for ourselves and put in the effort ugh so ignorant
robin mcgregor this has to be the dumbest comment ever. There are women that wear their Afros. If there are black women that don’t like their natural texture, they can straighten it because our hair is versatile like that. Foh talking bout we’re forced to love our hair 😂
I remember it made me unconfortable as a kid how people were always commenting on my hair. Even grow up women would be jealous of a little girl's hair. A nanny even ruined my hair 😠. It grew back but still ..! And I wish black girls could wear messy hair styles and be called cute instead of dirty and unkept. Just like white girls messy buns.
Not really. Hair is more spiritual than you think. The bible says it's a woman's glory. I could go deeper but yeah. There's a reason there has been a war against the black womans hair. They wanted us to destroy it. Trust.
Some black women have damaged their own hair and have never seen how long it can grow after TLC, low-manipulation, and moisture, therefore they can’t picture other black women having good, LONG hair.
@@thatthingyouseeatthecorner5249 tnx dear that's true ,mainly type 4c hair is difficult to work with my experience has been very bad and to make things easier for myself I went for dreadlocks since then life has been easy.
Beautifulll B Lets be real. A lot of black Women hair was damaged and mistreated by adults as children. So they are surprised to see unmixed black women with very long natural hair. I do remember in elementary schools only one or two other black girls in the ENTIRE school having hair past their shoulder. Very short and broken looking hair was so common, they thought we couldn't grow long hair! I'm so glad the new generations of moms are caring for and embracing their child's hair.
Exactly. It just doesn't make any sense. Hair is just hair. It doesn't make you smarter, dumber, younger or older. It's just...hair. it's all over your body. Some longer than others, but it doesn't define you.
I was in beauty school and there was a girl who came in to get her hair straighten. She was a client from one of my instructors (who was a black woman and an amazing hairstylist) our instructor brought her into my class to show my class how to press a client with a LOT OF HAIR. This young client had hair down to her ass and her hair was thick as hell. It was gorgeous. She had a tighter curl than beyonce she told us it ran in her family. Her mom and grandmother all had crazy thick hair. She is was full black too and was just a high school student from small town in NY. I think she was just raised to embrace her natural hair as a young age from her mother and grandmother. Which was great because she grew up in a primarily white community but never felt pressure to not wear her hair natural because woman around her let her know how beautiful her natural hair was.
Not everyone is going to achieve long hair. There are several factors that effect a person's hair growth. What people need to start doing now is to appreciate healthy hair at any length.
@@kaysummer5217 I hate when people say you have a very small nose and lips for a black girl 🙄🙄🙄 it was supposed to be a compliment??? Get the fuck out here
Listen, I can't wait for my shoulder length type 4 hair to bloom and grow. I. CAN NOT. WAIT. It's healthy, gorgeous and shrinked beyond belief! Lol oh and I am mixed. So please, let's educate ourselves! Mixed doesn't equal looser curls!
Yes but mother’s in fear of they’re kids being scrutinized about they’re hair pirming and hot combing kids hair damaging it creating breakage also creating the “black girls have short hair” phenomena lol it’s a cycle but I’ve seen less pirming now more then ever honestly 💯💯💯💯 but the 2000s created this idea that black women don’t have hair
Yes. I have light skin and 4 something hair that breaks before shoulder lenght. My sister is very dark and her hair is waist lenght. I use heat and she doen't. But She uses color and I don't. When we were kids, and both with natural hair, her hair just grew like crazy. She keept her natural curl all her like, but colors her hair and it looks amazing. I used relaxers, heat, and did all the wrong things. But we had to learn to style our hair às children because my parents would not let us use weave or braided extensions. I don't care about lenght. I just want to style my natural hair without help. So I don't relax my hair but I do use heat. I like my shoulder lenght. It is manageble and somethimes I do a bob or rock a pixie cut for a while. My sister is the opposite, she loves her curly natural hair super long and she rocks it. Just love your hair and do whatever works for you. Whether it is relaxed, flat ironed, natural, braided. Just do what works for you.
Dark Caesar false assumptions if you take care of your hair as a dark skinned woman it can be like any light skinned girls hair and that’s a fact but the fact that we don’t have much information on how to get this routine down and the fact that it’s expensive as fuck because our hair is so rich it’s hard for every single black woman to just have long long hair 🤷🏾♀️ light skinned girls need less product less help because they have a other textures in there
The Best all hair grows. It’s breakage that makes it appear your hair isn’t growing. I don’t ever get cornrows because me hair will break off. I wash my hair once a week and only brush it when it’s wet and covered in conditioner. I put my hair in a single braid and tuck it under wigs.
And what y’all may not know it’s that Tina Knowles had one of the most successful chic hair salons in the 80’s and early 90’s in Houston. They know how take care of their hair.
Thank you Chrissie for mentioning locs. Locs always seem to be left out of the natural hair conversations which is terrible. You can grow long beautiful hair loose or loc'd and it'll be all yours.
@@JustPassingThrough-ib6qs I got fed up with my loose natural hair as well and I've had locs before so I'm starting another loc journey. I've also cut my loose natural many times. So I completely understand. I also think loc'd kids are adorable and just another way for us to teach black youth to love their natural selves and their hair. :)
@@Nmendenh-rl6ej I started my new journey yesterday. I think that locs are so versatile and it's really sad how some people just refuse to acknowledge natural hair in all of its forms.
Aaliyah, Blac Chyna, Nicki Minaj, Chyna Anne Mcclain and her sisters all black women with naturally long hair amongst other beautiful black women with the same length
@@graces4763 Actually no she didn't. Her hair stylist clearly goes through her hair and shows that is Aaliyah's hair. Are Blacks really that brainwashed?
@Carrie Love With the way weave and lacefronts are done today, not really. But it was obvious Aaliyah wore her hair 90% of the time. It's like people just can't grasp that Black women can grow hair, and it's shame actually. Like an inferiority complex almost. Our hair is NOT inferior, just different.
@@NinaNoFlex To be honest, I really don't have a regimen. I used to straighten my hair everyday for yearssss and wondered why it would never grow. I stopped straightening it and started to braid it regularly. So what I basically do is wash my hair with regular shampoo (doesn't have to be anything fancy), then while its damp, i put oil on it and then braid it. The key is to seal in the moisture (water) while the hair is damp. A lot of people use oil on DRY hair but that doesn't benefit the hair. Water = moisture, and the oil seals in the moisture which then prevents it from breaking. Hope this helps sis lol
Some Black women have been running from their own hair and their whole lives. They never learned what it needs, what you shouldn't do to it. Most of us started getting perms at as young as 3 years old. Black women were raised to hide their kinks whilst Black men get to wear afros and high top fades proudly. It sucks. Keke Palmer posted that at one point she was afraid to be seen with her natural 4c hair
I still am too. It's a learning process. I'm learning to love my hair. When you get told all your life that black women hair is ugly and dirty. As a young child you take offense to that and it just stick with you.
There are so many social and economic pressures that have caused this type of shame of black hair that women face. Im just happy its been shifting with the natural hair movement.
I'm 16 and started my natural hair movement over a year ago and has went from 1 inch to 6👏👏👏😍😍 I so proud of myself because i finally have the courage to where my natural in public. Edit: Omg😱😱😱 thank you guys for all the likes and encouragement
Your gonna hurt some feelings in this video Chrissie. When it’s flat ironed, I’ve had women literally try to put their fingers in my scalp to see if my long waist length natural hair is real 😳
there is a cameroonian girl i was watching who said enough women were sticking their hands without permission to her scalp. I could see why she was frightened.
coreenamusic my mother has said that some of her co-workers do this....I’m sorry but some fingers are getting bent back if it happens to me. That’s equivalent to touching a pregnant woman’s belly without permission. That’s just a no-no.
It really irritates the hell outta me. Cause it's only black women trying to sneak and touch my scalp. One lady tugged my hair. Like what if it wasnt mine and fell out. How would she had felt then?
Izza Zavage My mom permed my hair for 14 years! I’m sixteen now and I’m still trying to catch up. I still cry myself to sleep at night cuz of it. I’ve only been natural for 1 year and 8 months but I would never hate on another’s hair or wear weave. Instead of people hating on others hair they should just take care of themselves and stop being raggedy. 😂😂 it’s honestly really sad.
Izza Zavage Everyone with a perm doesn’t have damage just saying. When I was relaxed my hair was butt length. I’m a year natural and it’s mid back. My hair is extra thick now because it was thick with the relaxers. I will say I’m never going back to relaxers because the burning and itching to achieve straight hair is not worth it
I have relaxed 21 inches long hair & I take care of it. I don't go to the hair salon because most of them are thought to perm your hair every month, I perm my hair every 3 months because of how much inches your hair grow per month. 1 month is not enough months to retouch your hair because there is not enough inches of new growth to perm without getting perm on your hair that is already perm, which then causes over processed hair & damage.
This is my biggest pet peeve! People are always questioning my hair, because it is waist length with a looser texture, and it's not just Black women who question it. Black men and White women do it too!
Ya Azizu, I don't have White friends, but I encountered this problem many times in the workplace. One of them accused me of wearing extensions when I flat ironed my hair. I told her my hair appears longer, because I had it flat ironed. She said, "Are you sure you aren't wearing extensions?" Then she proceeded to follow me down the hall, and hound me about my hair.
Yeap, genetics, diet, hair care have a lot to do with it.... One of my closest friends from college hair is almost to her butt! We went to FSU in Tallahassee and she’s from a small nearby town so she drove about an hour away every 2 weeks to get her hair done... and she NEVER missed an appointment😁
I didn't realize that I wasn't fazed about Beyonce's hair until this video. I've been natural for 10 years and have mid back length 4A/4B hair. Ppl talked so much trash when I first went natural and now all of a sudden I have "good hair." 🙄
Never said 4b and 4c doesn't grow. I am saying she bleaches and dyes her hair a lot and I'm a hair stylist and I no very damaging to your hair. Boyonce hair 4b / 4c hair which cannot take a lot of bleaching and dyes.
AGREED I tell women all the time if a man doesn't want u because you're hair ain't straight or blonde don't get upset just thank God u dodged a bullet💯
@@MeganAllen1738 No, she isn't. She has mixed ancestry. She's not mixed(=biracial). She's a black island girl with Afro-Trinidadian, Indian & Asian ancestry. Both of her parents are black. There is a difference.
With all the natural hair videos and pages and a lot of fully black women with natural hair, that is long (bra strap length and longer), I don't understand why they can't believe that Beyoncé's hair is real?! Black women can grow their hair and we don't have to be "rich" to grow it 🙄... It's all in the technique, not price of products. I also get the questions when I flat iron my bsl natural hair, about weather it is real or not. Tons of black women, including dark skin women have long hair.
Thank you I just cut all mine off cause I love the look but my hair was shoulder length and both my sister's have hair down their back.Sometimes just leave it alone.
So true! I naturally have long hair, but when l was relaxed l begun taking care of it, and it grew even LONGER than l imagined. I was shook, it was the longest my hair had ever been....so that was proof enough for me that Black women can grow long hair and not be mixed. Just take care of your hair, it’s pretty simple!
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My hair grows long like Beyonce but I shaved it off like Iyanla. It's just hair who gives a damn. We all can have long hair it doesn't matter. Just wear your hair nice.
That part!! This obsession with our hair is the real problem. My daughter has long hair and wants to cut it and everyone is telling her she's crazy. I tell her baby it's just hair. I just want her to be free from the obsession of having to have it long.
@@ginabelle7 Same here. I wear locs that have grown to almost mid-back length. Stopped the chemicals nine years ago. The strange (and sometimes dirty) looks that I get from time to time come from.....I'm sad to say......black women. My coworker even asked me if that was all my own hair, and she has known me since grade school and knows I had a lot of hair even back then. SMH.
When I was a teen it was a weakness , any female sexy when her hair was freshly Str8 or whatever just down laying down y'all back and looking at ya guy with that smile on yall face & u beautiful just for ya guy & that makes a guy act dumb inside really, bruh just hold it in but he be geeked if it's natural or shop long as your sexy looking..i don't think its shallow it's just the magic of opposites attract I would agree it's shallow if your ran into that guy that won't let you pass him without shooting his shot or guys..ppl should save some of themselves for spontaneous blindsiding
@@moniquechilds146 Kenya had hair before most begin neglecting their own for weave. And the poor dears still say she wearing weave. Sad that it's unbelievable for bw to have REAL lengthy hair. We always had hair that didn't buy into this sickness that plagued the majority of bc.
I'm mixed, a Mexican mom and white dad. My hair is wavy. I've always really loved natural black hair-- the texture, the poof, the curls in random places, the spongyness, the thickness, when its healthy its soooo gorgeous and really stands out. Black kinks and curls are the sacred spiral, the fibonacci. I cant speak for black culture, or pretend to understand the hair culture, but personally, I'm relieved and happy that the emerging natural hair movement is showing little girls to grow up with well deserved self love, and not hate, for themselves and their hair.
Wow this inspired me and fillled me with pride about my black heritage. I’m Jamaican and Puerto-Rican and it’s amazing to hear our hair described with such universal poetry. Thank you 🙌🏽🙏🏽🥰
This. I cannot understand anyone wanting to hide their beautiful natural hair, natural curl or texture (short or long)...omg it's amazing and something NO OTHER RACE on the planet has claim to. I couldn't achieve #hairgoals like this if I tried.
My sister is mixed and she hates her hair. I always loved it growing up but she said she can't do anything with it and she found it to be boring. She loved my hair. We both have long hair, but mine is super thick 3c/4a and hers is 3a/3b...she hates her hair and loves mine...some of us just can't be satisfied.
@@princessbc9791 My sister in law who had the most gorgeous thick, poofy kinks has ruined her hair with a Brazilian blowout the past 15 years. It looks terrible now. I often wonder if she regrets doing that and misses her previous hair. Right, some people are never satisfied.
You'd be surprised. I know a beautician & her daughter has a lot of hair self-hate. It's more than being a beautician, but a mentality of self-love & acceptance.
Thomas vanDyke agreed but if I would have said that people would assume that I’m saying black girls can’t grow long hair without being mixed so I just left that out lol
BlackGirlLovesAnime6 I said that to my cousin years ago. If you can spend hours in the bathroom doing your weave, why can't you spend hours taking care of your own hair? 😕
@@diah3655 IN GENERAL..I MEAN YES SHE IS BEAUTIFUL SHE DOES A LOT IN HER COMMUNITY..IM SURE SHES A GREAT PERSON FROM WHAT IVE HERD.BUT DAMN PEOPLE TREAT HER LIKE SHES A GOD
Va'tasha Powdrell what if people treat her like god? Does it give you the right to fucking throw shade towards her? You’re just the same as every other black woman who dislikes her. Maybe let some light into your heart and you’d learn how to love
Scientists proved that Black hair has the best quality sebum out of all races. The problem is getting the sebum to travel down the hair shaft for hair growth.
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1st sentence was factual. The next one was inaccurate. Sebum does nothing but coat the hair when it reaches the tail end. The scalp is responsible for hair growth, the hair shaft is responsible for hair retention.
There are ways to get it down the shaft by carefully using your fingers or gently brushing threw with a boar bristle brush but that would disturbed the curl pattern and you would have to keep your hair stretched all the time.
I know plenty of black women with long full length hair. My wife's hair is a huge afro and when she flat iron it, it comes down middle ways of her back. Black women have the healthiest hair of all races.
Afro Thunder you know u can’t say anything positive about a black woman without a salty mf’er coming and saying but what about all women?! 😂😂😂 they get on my nerves. Like damn let us get some praise, we rarely do.
@@ginabelle7 Ikr! I'm a black man that's always giving praise to my black sistas. But it never fails..a pink skin ass cave becky, a black ass bed buck or some other non-black mothafucka wanna come at me! But guess what, im always ready to light they got damn asses the fuck up with the truth!
Trudy J, genetics plays a role but not a major one. I have met a lot of black women who have grown their out and most of the women in their families have short hair because they don't deep condition it on a weekly basis and they damage it.
Genetics does play a big role . My mom and aunts are all relaxed and don't take of their hair but yet my mom is the only one who's hair grew past bra strap length. Same with me...my hair has always been longer than my cousins and I didn't start taking care of it until 2012 when I started transitioning.
I agree. Im european in my country every girl has thick shiny hair. I have extremely thin hair. I dont even know who i got it from because everyone in my family has normal hair. But since i was a kid this was my biggest insecurity. Im obsessed with hair to a point the first thing i look on other people is their hair and how i envy them. But no matter what i do ill never hair thick hair .. i used to always have extensions in my hair and it made my hair even weaker. Now i dont wear extensions anymore dont use all those fake products im always trimming and its a little better. I accepted that ill never hair long hair my goal is a healthy one. Even though ive always wanted real long hair. Sometimes i feel like im not woman enough because i dont have nice hair. Like it determines my femininity. Its hard because big hair is all over the media but we have to understand that there is so much more value to a woman than her hair.
Hair care is all that it boils down to. People keep doing so much when really they just need to do less. Stop doing routines that are meant for other hair types. It’s really that simple. Drink water eat veggies and watch your hair flourish. Genetics has nothing on good habits !
Omg I hate when people reference dreads !! Dreads don’t shed the dead hair so of course it’s going to be long !!! Stop referencing dreads it’s not the same ... coming from someone who used to have locs !!!!
What does it matter if no one ever sees it , that’s like a person who purposely wears shoes that are to big for them constantly saying “ my feet are actually smaller than this if I take off my shoes “ and they NEVER take off their damn shoes to let you see and then want to complain when people keep saying they have BIG FEET !! Welll ...
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I admit I been wearing lace fronts for years I wish I had the time to really grow out my own hair and care for it it used to be long in my early 20s thanks for the links
Chrissie thank you so much for this information 🙏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
I don't ger the obsession. Like black wowen can get long hair...SMH...
💯💯 I totally agree with this video. Thank you for this
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People don’t even realize that type 4 hair grows just as much as any other type. We just have shrinkage.
Exactly!!
d a right & with retaining moisture but we just have to get to know/find what’s good for our hair and not be lazy
Also we have to recognize that hair grows up and out and not necessarily down and around our shoulders. A big ass afro IS long hair.
@@user-ry2xd2yu6c Yeah, it takes work. I found with my hair, after it started growing all crazy there would be times where half the day was dedicated to hair care. SMH Lmao!
Daja Elum Exactly and even if if I cut my hair shorter it’ll grow back fast as hell in less than two weeks
I don’t understand why black women think that we (black women) can’t grow strong, healthy, and long hair. News Flash: WE CAN AND DO!
Kloops Lo yup we do. Black hair grows just as fast and long as any other race hair if taken care of. The only reason why black hair seen as slower/shorter growth is simply bc of SHRINKAGE! Shrinkage gives so many false illusions lol
I agree completely✊
Kloops Lo It’s only the bald head ones hating. My shit goes past my ass.
@@sozuruQ2 So true. Exactly.
I be saying this.
And now other races think this too. I’ve heard many mixed people with long hair say that white people were surprised their hair got so long because of their black side.
The same women get mad when non black people say we have no hair/ugly hair/we can't grow our hair... Smh 🙄
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Valérie Cohen Hey salut Valérie ! Ça va et toi ? 😀 Ça fait toujours plaisir de reconnaître les zoiveuses dans d’autres vidéos !
Even when you are natural you should control your hair I wouldn't go out in the street or to my job with my hair all over my head natural don't mean got your hands flying Michael Tumbleweed and looking dry like tumbleweed natural means that you don't put chemicals in your head that's what it really means but you take care of it you don't see how high it can grow especially if you in the workplace let's say you are a nurse operating room technician Food Service office work Correctional work you don't have your hair flying all over that is not what natural is natural is you use as less chemicals or no chemicals at all that's what natural mean
@@sheilaorangd1967 No natural means the unprocessed hair of a black women and we can wear our hair however we please.
Why is it so hard to believe? She has the best products and hair stylists money can buy
Trip Bee exactly
y'all obviously didn't watch the whole video *rolls eyes*
Renita Savory My comment was in reference to the fact that many people were in disbelief of the fact that her hair is so long naturally. Don’t roll your eyes too hard though, they might get stuck that way ❤️
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ITS NOT MONEY ITS JUST BEYONCE JEANS. BEYONCE IS THE MOST GORGEOUS OF ALL WOMEN IN THE WORLD AND EVEN scientifically PROVEN THAT BEYONCE GENES AND FEATURES ARE UNIQUE AND DIFFERENT FROM THE WHOLE WORLD. HER FACE IS SHAPED MOST GORGEOUS OF ANYONE ELSE IN THE WORLD. BEYONCE AAALLLLLWAYS HAD LONG BEAUTIFUL NATURAL HAIR. EVEN IN HER YOUNGER CHILDHOOD PHOTOS BEYONCE HAIR WAS ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL.ITS A SHAME HOW JEALOUS HEARTED WOMEN ARE....SOOO MONEY IST THE REASON HER HAIR IS LONG....BALCK WOMEN AAAALLL WAYS HAD BEAUTIFUL LONG HAIR....BUT BEYONCE BEAUTY IS BEYONG THIS WORLD EVEN IF SHE WAS BROKE AND IF I SAW HER I WOULD LET HER KNOW HOW . GORGEOUS SHE IS....THE THING IS MEN REALLY DO NOT GIVE A FUCK WHEN IT COME DOWN TO IT EVERY MAN ON THE PLANET TALKS ABPUT HOW BAD THEY WANT HER. IM A DUDE AND A WHIT GUY....I DATED A WHITE GIRL WITH FUCKED UP HAIR, BAD GENES....WHITE WOMEN,CHINES,INDIAN,THEY HAVE BAD HAIR TOO. EVEN BEFORE BEYONCE HAD MONEY HONEY HER HAIR WAS beautiful BECAUSE SHE WAS BORN THAT Way...sorry to bust your bubble hahaha
Honestly the “shock” for me is that her hair is so long and healthy looking WITH her hair COLOR. That BLONDE can do so much DAMAGE so the fact that it’s that long and thriving is quite IMPRESSIVE
Vana MAC She has a great amount of wealth to maintain her hair, I don’t know why y’all are surprised...🙄
@@Monrentho2008 true but all of the ppl who colored their hair blonde their hair looks fried..no matter if u have the best hair products and hairstylist..it look dry
Vana MAC And don’t forget Momma Tina was a hairstylist
why not look up Olaplex. Can lift from a deep brunette to platinum in hours with minimal damage. Lots of neat products out now
Vana MAC I think, when you barely touch your hair with heat and chemicals because of good wigs, you can get long, healthy hair easily! She gets braids and changes her looks accordingly! Also, that haircolor in that video is close to her natural hair color, that's all! 🤷♀️
Black women need to redirect this energy spent on hair and nails to taking better care of our minds and bodies. Thinking right, eating right and exercising.
You said it Denise! So true. We can do both though.
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You look me and your writing sounds just like me. What is this, Invasion of the Body Snatchers? Be yourself. I am already taken.
There are women in Africa who have natural long hair, it's not a big deal. Short or long; black women are beautiful.
@@theblacksuitconclave7908 No, you stupid idiot. We're not.
Rafael Reyes True 🙌🏽❤️👩🏽🦱
@@theblacksuitconclave7908 Look at my bald African head on my profile pic.
Leila you look beautiful, sis. Your hair is healthy and beautiful/
@@leila_de_hautjardin You're so pretty
It's really irritating to see us obsessed over hair. When we have bigger fish to fry in our community
Yes, you are so right!!!
Facts
I don't see anything wrong with discussing hair per se. It is a very feminine topic after all along with beauty makeup Etc. It's not like we can't take care of ourselves as love being feminine and still be concerned about other issues. It's not that deep
One negative stereotype to destroy at a time to build esteem which builds the community.These are still steps to progression, don’t spit on that.
Savannah M TRUE!!!!
"Self hate is a billion dollar business " was the sum of the whole video.
Period
Beauty is vain favor is deceitful!!!!
Truth!!
@@calvinluciano Seriously? Drop the link to your "imaginary" business. Let's see what's REALLY going on.
@@calvinluciano Again. Where's your proof? And if you're telling the truth then what percentage of African American Women do you employ?
Blue Ivy is such an adorable little girl, I was sad that North West was uplifted for her natural hair and Blue Ivy was being bashed and put down so early in life! That kinda disgusted me! 😢
Miyu Yamazato I’ve been saying that for years!! Only because both of her parents are black
Kinda it was disrespectful
No people where also coming for kim k when she started straightening her daughter north's mixed hair
Texturism is bullshit
No wonder why Beyonce said call Becky with good hair. I'm tired of this stereotypes played on black women. Our hair is good period!
My mom used to say black women cant grow their hair long when I was little. Proved her wrong. It’s to my bra strap now. I will never tell my baby that mess.
Josephine how did you get your hair that long ?
I'm black and most of the women in my family have long hair. Lol the foolishness
Please come on that's not all her hair I'm mixed have very nice long hair the way she parts the hard it's very careful things that make you go hmmmmmmm.she had nice hair when she was younger. True but that's not all hero's and if you believe that I have a a solid gold bar to give you .
Christina Alisa Took me a long time to figure out my own formula. I stopped relaxing my hair for one. But I use sulphate and paraben free shampoo and conditioner. 5-1 argon oil spray, I have some aveda products like scalp remedy-brilliant oil-smooth infusion and universal styling creme, and then I put black Castor oil on my ends. I only use a tiny bit of each once a week after washing. The brilliant emollient oil has rice and bran oil which helps a lot!
TheBlackLady OfChaosAndHavoc right? I can’t stand that mentality. My grandma on my moms side has beautiful soft hair but thinks it’s “nappy” so she keeps ruining it. My other grandma has long pretty hair too. My mom completely ruined hers with the weaves and now her edges are gone. My hair would have been past my hips if my grandma hadn’t put a relaxer on my head at 7 smh.
Nobody talks about Solange’s hair like that, she was my inspo to go back natural
Same.
Solange's hair is BEAUTIFUL.
Right. Solange is beautiful! She’s soo pretty and her hair is pretty long too, I guess Solange took more of her dads hair than her mommas
It’s because Solange’s hair isn’t straightened or dyed. The combo is a death sentence to most black women. That’s why people question Beyoncé’s hair. Not the length rather the complete lack of texture. Not even type 2 haired black women have hair that slick. I personally think Beyoncé is wearing a weave. A bit back in 2008 there was a picture of B with completely short hair spread before getting a wig weaved on.
Yh me too
People see my hair length and always ask me what I'm "mixed with"? I'm like black and black... stay mad 🤷🏾♀️
Exactly 💅🏿
Period!
It's crazy because if I wear It natural everyone knows it's my hair . Without heat my hair is 4 inches with heat it comes down to about 10. Everyone thinks I have a weave with a simple blow out.
Lmao..Right and mines only 14inch🤣🤣
lol
They've been calling Beyonce bald headed for years🤣🤣. And even though Tina parted the hair to show that it's real, there will still be haters just cause.
I wonder were they heard that from I guess is from their black kings 😏
Facts!
I never heard anyone call her bald head. I thought everyone knew she had long hair from when she was on star search.
@@Godfirst986 I don't think she actually had natural hair back then. I remember she said her mom used to put weave in her hair when she was a kid.
Arent you confusing with Rihanna?
I am a black woman and I AM NOT OBSESSED with Beyonce's hair.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Same. Just wanted to check out this video, lol.
ALICHIA HICKMAN 🤣🤣exactly cause I have natural long hair myself
Exactly ladies. It's not Black women obsessed with Beyonce's hair. It's PEOPLE who are obsessed with BEYONCE PERIOD! Plenty of black women have hair like that. We aren't OBSESSED. They need to STOP IT! Yes we wear weave because the texture of the weave is wayyyyy easier MAINTENANCE than our NATURAL HAIR!
ALICHIA HICKMAN ....I assume you didn’t see the comments in the shaderoom. A majority of the ones making fun of Tina and Beyoncé and proclaiming this wasn’t her real hair were from black women. So, no, more rational black women aren’t obsessed with Beyoncé’s hair but we can’t act like it doesn’t exist amongst us.
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“Our self hate is a business”.. wow- lightbulb moment.
Mathematical calculation🤔
But that’s just about every race. HOWEVER, love the way that this was conveyed!
Even our poop is big business🤔 Why wouldn't everything else about us be a business🤔
landryb. Yes You're Absolutely Correct My Dear Sister, Black Women's Self Hatred Is Big Business. Just Ask The Wealthy Koreans, And The Rest Of The Asian Communities!!!
How do you think Madam C.J. Walker became the first female millionaire while being a black woman?
In 1910s!
No white female beautician could profit so much of their race’s self-hatred.
Beyonce has been wearing single/partial braids (Destiny's Child days) and weaves since 1997, if not longer. I fully expect her hair to have grown out in *22 YEARS* of protective styling, which is basically what that was. 22 years is almost half her life. It's not rocket science here.
Yeah but she definitely cut those 22 years off some years ago
Facts
It took me 2 years to grow my hair from a bob to past the length of Beyoncé’s. People just need to leave their hair alone.
Thank you, 22 years is correct because beyonce had really short hair along time ago
Da Diva Your facts are not straight. Come on now...let's give credit where credit is due. Beyoncé does NOT have 22 years of protective styling. That makes no sense. Beyoncé's hair grew that long in just 6 years. IT can be done and a lot of women do it if they take care of their hair and SHE does. Beyoncé cut her hair off SUPER SHORT in 2013. TMZ reported it and also SHOWED it. Go to You Tube and type "BEYONCE CUTS OFF ALL HER HAIR" and you will see the video posted by TMZ back in 2013. IT is extremely short. A cute pixie cut. Yes, she got the long length in about 6 years. Just by taking care of it under her wigs. It looks awesome and I love what her mother did because it's nice to see our women show-case our hair more often. But of course it grows really long and stays healthy like that because we have it braided and protected under the wigs. But....no....it is NOT 22 years of protective styling, just 6. Blessings to you.
"OUR SELF-HATE IS A BUSINESS" ... This is the most PROFOUND statement (AMEN)!
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K.v. Khai Sadly that’s so true! 🤦🏾♀️
It appears as though some black people allow their self-loathing of some sort to allow some others to define what our beauty is. If we don't tell others what is beautiful to them, we shouldn't let others tell us what is beautiful to us. Stand for something. Most black people don't have naturally curly hair and shouldn't hate themselves or allow others to hate them for what God gave or did not give them. Kinky, curly, or coily, love the skin you are in.
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The way Chrissie has to censor the word “black” in the titles always has me dyin 🤣🤣🤣🤣 can’t blame her tho TH-cam is triflin
I just notice that when you made this comment. I never paid attention to it. What happens if she doesn't censor it?
@SparklyBanana13 thanks. Good to know
Crisscross 😂🤣 The content creators have to be creative with their video titles now 😂
Our comments too. They started demonetizing videos if the comments have certain words too! 😒
@@jaicbacote3494 wow! That's crazy. They really trying to turn TH-cam into the next Disney channel. SMH.
I’m 30 and my mom still braids my hair for me! I love her 🥰
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Nurse Dom 🥰 awwwww🥺🥺🥺❤️
@the jezebel theory yes you are and u should know thats wrong
Thats cool
@thejezebeltheory Nigga take your negativity elsewhere, how 'bout that?
I couldn't care less about beyonce hair. There are plenty of black non-creole, non mixed women with long THICK hair.
Correct!
U sound really mad sis 😂
@@robincarter6474 how
Yeah, I never get crazy over long hair. My mom, aunts, sister, friends all have long hair, and all are Black...So it's the norm for me because I've seen it all my life.
Exactly, growing up having long hair was my goal , when I reached that goal I was like I don't want to live my entire life with my hair the same length. So I cut it off and went natural.
And let's be real you can have type 4 abcdg hair and your hair can still be hella long. Shrinkage is for real. 🤦🏾♀️
I have waist length hair. But when it's shrunken it's ear length 😨
Yes - true. My daughter and I are living proof of that.
@@leila_de_hautjardin I just finished trimming my ends the other day with my hair length reaching my shoulder blades. When I did my wash and go it disappeared.
My hair is armpit length, but when when it goes barely past my neck! My bangs go past my chin, but when wet it barely touches my eyebrows!! smh...
Exactly. God I wish I can post my hair pic lol. My shrinkage be playing tf outta me.
I hate seeing this. It perpetuates the whole "black girls can't grow long hair" thing.
Me too! And we dont even think of the bullshit it reinforces on the world stage I.e social media, especially! THINK about the bigger picture
Bringing Clarity to Confusion Right because black men and fathers never demean black hair and features and never praise lighter/mixed/ features. Black mothers only are just born with the self hate gene. Got it. Clearly you have not grown up or been around many black men.
@@librascales4767 I have... I'm saying is the males learn it from the females, then perpetuate the hate also... If a woman never question a weave on another woman, then the males will never know. Just like spanx, butt pads, or push up bras. The only reason that men know about these things are because other women question them and let out the cosmetic enhancements.
Bringing Clarity to Confusion And I am saying the females equally learn it from males. There is too much evidence. You can even see it in old ass writings and blues music way before weave, spandex and plastic surgery. There is even documented men from the slave narratives taken in the 1930s degrading dark women. If men were not INITIALLY vocal in there preferences at the expense of belittling others, women would have never perpetuated this.
Bringing Clarity to Confusion Also, J find it funny how black men can never learn anything positive from the females in their life, like you know, stay out of trouble and get an education or skill. And I find it amazing that black fathers are allegedly so involved with raising their children but still cannot stop or reduce colorism.
Even white female stars all have extensions, wigs and weaves. Kardashian’s, Ariana grande, Taylor Swift, Katy perry, Miley Cyrus, etc.
I don’t understand why no one bats an eyelash if a white woman posts a picture with long hair. But goes into an uproar when a black woman does the same thing.
GIAW .X. Exactly 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Idk I don’t have a problem with it they probably rage because white people can grow straight hair naturally (not all but the ones you mentioned). That’s what I think....
GIAW .X. Because straightish long hair is typically not a black thing
I don’t think Taylor uses one, if she does it’s a veeeeery natural one, but Ariana grande does wears one FOR SURE
GIAW .X. The Kardashian’s are Armenia not white
There’s no secret to growing long hair.
water,wholesome diet,low manipulation, satin bonnet,castor oil for the scalp ,moisture,protective styles. Your welcome.
Proper detangling tools! I still see homegirls using fine tooth comb or wypipo's brushes to detangle 4c hair
All facts 💯🙌🏾 (add patience to the list 😂)
Idk sometimes length is genetics I tried all the above and my hair stops growing at a certain point 🤷🏽♀️
I love the Jamaican castor oil
@Madamelogicbombdroper
Yasssss
I think the stunt of growth or inability to achieve long and healthy hair stems from our parents damaging our hair through perms, hot combs, traction alopecia, and straight up neglect. I feel if we were taught how to properly manage, treat, style and learn to love our hair (in all the different textures) we all would have a beautiful, full head of healthy long kinky but easily managed hair!
Totally agree. My baby is about to turn 1 and because her hair is short, family is already telling me to “do” her hair. It’s so fine and delicate. Some parents be wrecking their kids follicles before they start school
Thank you. Perms are TOXIC. I cut my hair and use literally olive oil, black seed oil, jojoba and other seeds. If I cant use it on a frying pan ( I hate oil in food but making a point) dont put it in your hair. These chemicals is not only damaging to human flesh but deadly. I am happy black women now embrace natural hair
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No offense but your family is wrong. I literally began noticing black women here in South Africa and Botswana with NO edges. Not being rude but some look like sumo wrestlers because it starts in the middle of their heads. Pulling on a child's hair is not going to be great in the long run. My cousin has a little girl who just turned one in June, she dont put nothing in it and I have no kids so I aint know but aint it still baby hair at one?
Totally agree. My baby is about to turn 1 and because her hair is short, family are already telling me to “do” her hair. It’s so fine and delicate. Some parents be wrecking their kids follicles before they start school
@@oneel3859 Im from Botswana and I am transitioning to go natural because growing up my mom would perm my hair she actually hates kinky hair it's sad but true and you are right In SA and Botswana you see alot of well missing edges and damaged hair and whenever I go to the salon because of my thick 4b hair they are quick to get lazy and immediately wanna perm my hair💀😒
I agree it’s like black women act like they ain’t never seen long black hair before
Britt Coils ikr wat nonsense it’s just hair why do ppl make it a big deal lol
Britt Coils Girl my hair isn’t even that long, it’s barely past my shoulders before and after cutting it. And my grandmother always accuses me of wearing a hair piece or putting in hair😒 It’s like she never saw a black person with long hair before. And same thing used to happen to me in High school.It ain’t even that long people!!!
Where do these people live that all the black women are bald headed?
I was obsessed over about my hair n I don't understand how they didn't know my mom was taking care of it. Simple as that.... My Aunts was perming my cousins hair n giving em Jerry curls n stuff... N my mom kept me braided and or pressed n thats it... N pressed was only for church on special church fats you kkow Christmas n Easter back in the 80s that was it... But they obsessed over my hair like this until my one lil cousin came along with 3c hair fully black n it was long if course... So they started kinda seeing tho it was in the upkeep... Now they know but lived they whole lives being forced to get perms to straighten it because they had 4c or even more course... Im like a 2 whatever n a 3c n just like a sliver of 4c not even at all worth claiming I can't hold an afro for the life of me... Makes me mad lol. I think alot of this has been a problem with moisturizing products... The products they had out at that time did not support any other type of hair... If it was beyond 2 or 3 that mean you hadda get a perm back then... Now I love that black women are not. All textures are beautiful and I'm so glad to see 4c sisters showing out.
@@RegisteredHuman-pk3ed girl omg.... They always was saying my pony tail was fake in the early 90s cuz it moved n was fluffy n probably the biggest of all the black girls n my school. All the girls had a greasy stiff perm forced on them by their moms... When I did finally get a perm at 11 cuz I begged my mom... My hair was in the middle of my back n that was even from wearing a top head ponytail.. Well this little girl came in the bathroom after me n was yanking my head from the other stall... Saying she knew it was fake... I told in her... But that shit was ridiculous. She was hella jealous... Goes back to like the story where them little girls scalped that little girl... N they was always after me because I was dark skin with it so they wanted to fight.
A white woman has long hair and no one bats an eye,a black woman has long natural hair and everyone losses their minds! 🙄 I just don’t get it🤷🏽♀️
Simply KeKe when you see a thick black girl no one bats an eye when u see a thick white girl everyone loses their mind!
J M 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Facts!!!
You know why. Because most black people don’t have long, full hair. Exact same reason why it’s not a thing with white people. Because a lot of them long hair.
Amy Zorah False! Google Natural Afro hair and see how many pictures of black women with long natural hair. Just look at all the natural hair TH-cam channels
Becky and brad have hair so its not a big issue
Black hair just wants to be left alone to achieve length retention.
@CowboyLakersFan 13 Yup, the proof is in the pudding.
Yes, wash, moisturize, protective styling, little stress = long natural hair.
My long thick black hair is a mix between 4a/4b/4c. My secret is to treat my hair like a plant in the amazon I mist my hair every day or other day that's all. I give my hair attention and drink clean water.
I’m so glad they ignored the comments about Blu Ivey’s hair. She looks so gorgeous with that full, thick hair 😍
Yes! Blue's hair has consistently been flourishing since she got out the womb because her parents weren't snatching her edges up into tight ass ponytails all the time.
I love Blu's hair❤
The Little Blerdmaid exactly
So true.
Plus shes just a kid
I don't know if she cut her hair, but Keisha Knight Pulliam has had long hair for the longest.
Exactly !!!
I used to love watching her on the Cosby show as a young teen. She had beautiful hair. Just so full and healthy.
This! People used to call me Rudy growing up because I had long, thick hair like her.
Thank gawd she's not the only one
I get that but in the discussion of black women please remember that she is half Asian. ..
I truly wonder how others look at us for arguing about hair 😩
MIHKAH TALKS they look at us the same way as we look at them when they're arguing about who's a real blonde and who's not a real blonde who's a bleach blonde who's a natural redhead who's not a natural redhead. Who black edges is showing under the blonde bleach... Lol
global princess first of all this took me out lmfao My question was serious as hell but I really forgot people argue about that too. And be dead serious. I’m always like “ummm okay?” 😩
I really dgaf how they look at us
MIHKAH TALKS I'm only commenting because you asked. Mainly confusion and sadness on my end. I never even realized hair was such a sensitive topic to black women until I started watching these types of videos. I didn't really understand why it was such a big deal and why they couldn't just keep their natural hair and maintain it instead of applying all these harsh chemicals... but the more I looked in to it, I understood it was years and years of being put down and systematic brainwashing, often by their own peers too, so I guess I just have a lot of empathy for black women. But it does make me sad to think that so many black women grow up with so much self hatred. Not just black women, but a lot of women in general, grow up not feeling beautiful in their own skin so they end up doing as much as they can to alter their natural selves. If black women want to wear wigs/weaves/whatever, it's their choice and I fully support it because hey, which lady doesn't like to change up her look? But I do wish that the decision to do so wasn't rooted in self hate... because every person deserves to feel absolutely beautiful in their own skin. I wish more women, not just black women, would stand up to society and just say a big f**k you and embrace their natural selves instead of us giving in to society's (mainly fuelled by businesses cause hey, insecurity is the best way to get that $$$) idea of what a woman should and shouldn't look like. God bless.
@@StarrAmour Thank you for your thoughts & kind words. God bless as well. 🙏🏾
Right! You don't need to be mixed to grow long hair!
@UCRZQJPhIXmMlxc1XDm2MrvQ Yes, she has beautiful hair
Facts keisha knight off the Cosby Show is another example
Kenya Moore proved that 😏
@@pricillamiza8378 Kenya's hair is stunning 😍
Agatha jay exactly pure Africans. Ethiopians for sure are not mixed.
I believe that Beyonce has long hair because she takes care of it. She took care of her daughters hair when black folks said that it wasn't combed(put in tight rubber bands and braids). Now look at Blue's hair. It's full and voluminous. Longer than most black girls hair at that age.
My hair was like that before my mother permed it 😒😒😒
Most little girls have longer hair than grown women it seems. Their minds haven’t been convinced that everything other than natural is good and mothers don’t give children wigs and such at that age
Beyonces mom is also Creole which probably explains it as well. My great grandma is Creole and has hair that long
Vallier *:・。 a black woman does not need to be mixed to have long hair.
@@Kiyonce.Kartier Never said that. Im just saying that could be the reason.
It’s them meek mills braids under them wigs that got Beyoncé right. Leaving them relaxers alone, she left that hair braided up, and probably oils and moisturizes her edges every night. She probably deep conditions regularly too. That’s it. It’s not much to it and idc what black women say, black hair doesn’t have to be complicated. It grows, it’s just your job to retain it.
Telletell your comment is on point. :)
Exactly. I went natural in 2008 and spent years with my hair in braids and under wigs. Now that my hair is long, people still think I'm wearing wigs!
Shanchan EXACTLY
Thank uuuuuuuuu!!!!!
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When you're mixed , it's not always visible. You can be dark and have type 4 hair and still be mixed.
Truth
My sister lol
Yup. That's why hispanics identify by their ethnicity. They're not 100% 1 race even if they look it.
i mean most not mixed black american are 20 to 40% european so yall basically mixed
Me
Y’all wanna grow long type 4 hair ??
Use low manipulative hairstyles, protective hairstyles that work with your hair, keep your hair clean & well moisturized.
Lemme stress, leave your hair alone & you’ll see how much growth you’ll get.
What's a gr8 moisturizer for 4c hair?
Tbh
I would say water and shea butter! I also use water and pink lotion if I'm too broke for shea butter. I still use blue magic coconut hair moisturizer and murrays pomade on a day to day basis.
Janaia Amaria moisturize with what name a oroduct
I use organic solid cocoa butter, it's great for calming itchy scalp especially if you wear braids and moisturizes well.
My friend is black and she has long wavy hair and all the black people are OBSESSED with her hair and it's kinda weird.
It's because she's a black woman with "Good hair" if her hair was 4c I'm sure their reactions would be different😑
@@dionnacarter293It gets kinda annoying when people are obsessed with my facial features because they are slender.
Tell your friend to not let everybody be touching all on her hair. Next thing you know, it's coming out in patches and sheeeeet. Can't trust folks these days. Just saying.
@@dionnacarter293 4c hair is beautiful and thick.
@justha vingfun Black Americans both south and north, Caribbean were manipulated to self hate so they work and pay their slave masters and become extremely insecure. They forgot their own human being, to the point that now if a black man doesn't interbreed with a non black woman it's considered unacceptable or they deny him access to money and fame. So he has to work and find him a white slave master to fill in the gap of approval wherever he goes.
That's why. It's deep self hatred insecurity that developed over hundred years ago and it continues...
people tryna rationalize bey's long hair/loose texture by mentioning her creole background is so funny to me because solange is literally her sister and she got type 4 hair, also that's just not how genetics work
aanaa felema Exactly lol
Sure is
Her sister does not have 4 type hair but 3 type hair
@Miriam L she does not
@@highdefinition8261 yes she does. She practically has no curl pattern
When I clicked on this, I thought we were obsessed with how cool it was Beyoncé was rocking natural hair. But apparently black women cannot quit tearing each other down. I have 4a/b hair that isn’t even that long, and I still get asked “iS iT rEaL?”
Y’all need to mind your business.
Yes!!
Same. Everyone is obsessed with my hair bcuz even though it's type for it's longer than average. A lot of black girls think hair needs to be loosely textured for it to grow
Jealousy runs deep in the black society.
SAME. My hair isn't even THAT LONG it's a bog standard medium length and honestly I'm in need of a trim yet I STILL have people saying 'is it real' or 'you have mixed people hair' (I hate that one especially) such absurd comments and again, my hair isn't even long. Just medium.
In every society towards black women. Do you think other races get along? I can assure you they are jealous in other cultures too. @@MissNolver2
All black women can grow there hair. BW look crazy losing it over her hair. I grew my hair mid back with little effort. I think the trick is stop trying to have white hair. Stop pushing mixed girl hair. Embrace your texture.
Bree P. I've been using coconut oil as well (everyday). I've also added in avocado oil and black castor oil. I mix these two oils together and I use them about twice a week. I also use a water-based leave in conditioner with them. Profectiv is my favorite (The cream Is pink). I Two strand twist mostly. And a Bun when I blow dry. A lot of people say no blow dryer. However a warm blow dryer has been my best friend.
I wear box braids a lot...that's apart of black culture and not wearing someone else texture
Princess Yonna that’s the only fake hair I wear and I do them myself so I can control how tight the braids are and so I few leave out my edges. I moisturize my box braids too. Some girls don’t but I do. I treat my braids like my real hair that’s why my hair has grown so long
@@Brandiisbeloved same .. I either do my own box braids or I'll get the crochet kind
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Why do black women act like they never seen a black woman with long hair ? There are a lot of black women with long hair. My grandma has long hair down her back. I have long hair but my hair shrinks up in its natural state so people are shocked when I flat iron my hair straight and it’s long. I also have been told I had “ good “ hair by black men and women. 🤦🏿♀️
TheLeah2344 Exactly
Because it is a recent phemnom
Honestly it’s more of the Bey Hive and people being obsessed with her period... I think everyone knows that black women can grow long hair😒
Right! I was born in Kenya and I am Somali, and before I cut my hair like a year ago, my hair was down to my butt lmao! Patience and taking care of ur hair, is gonna grow it.
TheLeah2344 because black American women aren’t taught on how to preserve their hair. It’s hard to maintain length if you don’t know how to take care of it
SZA has long healthy hair, it's no big deal.
NiYah Sailor SZA!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? ¡¿¡¿¡¿¡¿ 😂😂😂
Sis, sza rocks a good weave
@@dkblue317 no ma'am look her up she has long healthy hair
And they said it was fake 😣
NiYah Sailor she just posted an ig pic of her completely natural. It’s healthy looking. But it is about shoulder/collar bone length.
I am so over this hair-obsession. Most black sisters I know who wear wigs and weaves all the time always be claiming they're "just protecting" their natural hair, but I never see them wearing it out. Ever. Meanwhile they'll be making snide remarks about my type 4A/B hair. They are obsessed with looking a particular way that is not Black, that is why they don't do braids, faux locs or any other protective style that actually looks like their own hair. It's sad. I wish they could see how beautiful they are naturally.
So true.
TRUE!
yess omg i always either wear braids or have my hair in a puff, the very girls who wear weave/wigs 24/7 are the same ones to come at me critiquing it smh. The self hate is so damn sad.
right. then they wonder why their hair never grows 🙄
Y are you worried about somebody else's hair anyway??? What's it to you. Sound like a hater. You probably ugly.
There are so many black natural youtubers with hair hanging down their backs......what's the big deal???
Agreed, I don't get it.
@@tkay5904 yeah, I guess not
I didn't see anyone as hyped up with Kenya from the RHOA. And she's been having long beautiful Black hair...
Exactly
JLricas yes beyonce just wanted to be the queen
JLricas bc its not about that..beyonce quiet any other tome and never Proves shit till someone things the queen baldheaded..how can you bee queen with no crown
JLricas yep! And we all know why too.
And a whole hair care line 🤦🏾♀️
Blue Ivy is gorgeous and so is her hair! I don’t care if Bey has floor length hair or 1 inch hair.
i don't understand why grown ass people would make fun of a literal CHILD but the internet continues to surprise
"Wear your texture, Wear it well, Wear it immaculately" i needed to hear this.
It wasn’t a big deal to me either 🤦🏾♀️
Them questioning her hair like that is so cringe!! 😩 I’m so over it smh
Black women don't believe their hair is good bcoz all they constantly hear is insulting comments abt their hair .how many time they called our hair nappy its not our fault.
Rightt!!
@@pricillamiza8378 Yess!! Same. My mom used to say, "Why did God give us the worse hair?" The self hate of kinky hair is real out here. I big chopped last year and I've never went back.
@@puppyprincess2822 Is it long? I big chopped too in June if so do you have any tips?
@@katnisseverdeen4021 I keep re chopping it tbh, but the top half of my hair grows faster than the bottom. Tips: Water!! I was taught that water and blk hair is a no no but its not. Also, use wild growth. It grows the mess out of your hair.
One of the biggest reasons why I keep cutting my hair, I've alopecia traction on my edges and below my ear. And a bald spot from my crown. All of this was from weave and heat damage.
Coming from a breast cancer survivor I can give two bleeps about hair.
I second that ad as a breast cancer survivor myself. I’m natural and mine is mid back length. It was the same way when I was relaxed to .
Tell it!
MJ Gee amen and every color is obsessing over here like a bunch of lunatics weather is wigs or whatever there is something sick and sinful about it... God bless you Survivor... you basically just happy to be alive
God Bless you and your health journey. I was trying to say the same thing (see above) that as Black women there are so many things we should be obsessing about like our health but of course I get ripped apart. LOL!!! May you continue to stay cancer free.
Sorry about your breast cancer I feel you hair don't make these people act like she is God wow I can't ok her hair is long and what I suppose to be in love with her cause she got long hair she's not the 1st black person to have long hair 🤔🤔🤔
Natural hair is "f" boy repellant lol the realest thing I ever heard ha! 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
True story...if u want to attract real people ... Where real hair
So true.
Lmaooooo this can be true in so many cases
She is Bella what kinda bull- listen you know how much work it takes to maintain natural hair don't make us seem like we don't care for ourselves and put in the effort ugh so ignorant
Nah because then you get f boys from other nations who are curious lolol
I had always admired black women’s hair. Weaves are fine but you cannot compare it to a natural Afro, it’s just so beautiful.
You're just trying to be nice Andrea. You don't really think that.
Tina Why are you so certain of that? Do you believe nobody likes natural hair?
robin mcgregor this has to be the dumbest comment ever. There are women that wear their Afros. If there are black women that don’t like their natural texture, they can straighten it because our hair is versatile like that. Foh talking bout we’re forced to love our hair 😂
the way we as a collective are obsessed with hair is APPALLING.
I remember it made me unconfortable as a kid how people were always commenting on my hair. Even grow up women would be jealous of a little girl's hair. A nanny even ruined my hair 😠. It grew back but still ..!
And I wish black girls could wear messy hair styles and be called cute instead of dirty and unkept. Just like white girls messy buns.
Right!
Not really. Hair is more spiritual than you think. The bible says it's a woman's glory. I could go deeper but yeah. There's a reason there has been a war against the black womans hair. They wanted us to destroy it. Trust.
Paul Mooney said it best we relaxed our hair so white ppl could relax. And we still stressing over hair even through the natural hair movement.
It has historical roots. We just gotta purge the negative mindsets put onto us by white people.
Some black women have damaged their own hair and have never seen how long it can grow after TLC, low-manipulation, and moisture, therefore they can’t picture other black women having good, LONG hair.
Naomi Campbell and her fucked up edges 😂😂😂. its a shame that we go through this for no reason most black men prefer natural hair .
Beautifulll B yes exactly!
pricilla miza
I think it’s because many black men (just like black women) prefer looser curly hair rather than the type 4 that most black people have
@@thatthingyouseeatthecorner5249 tnx dear that's true ,mainly type 4c hair is difficult to work with my experience has been very bad and to make things easier for myself I went for dreadlocks since then life has been easy.
Beautifulll B Lets be real. A lot of black Women hair was damaged and mistreated by adults as children. So they are surprised to see unmixed black women with very long natural hair. I do remember in elementary schools only one or two other black girls in the ENTIRE school having hair past their shoulder. Very short and broken looking hair was so common, they thought we couldn't grow long hair! I'm so glad the new generations of moms are caring for and embracing their child's hair.
My hair barely touches my shoulders and I've had people think it was a weave....our obsession with hair is crazy lol
Same literally JUST because of the texture and color smh which was natural
can i kickit I had my natural hair in a ponytail and someone asked me is this your real hair 😶
Exactly. It just doesn't make any sense. Hair is just hair. It doesn't make you smarter, dumber, younger or older. It's just...hair. it's all over your body. Some longer than others, but it doesn't define you.
can i kickit exactly that’s annoying
@@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax someone finally reasons just like I do
I was in beauty school and there was a girl who came in to get her hair straighten. She was a client from one of my instructors (who was a black woman and an amazing hairstylist) our instructor brought her into my class to show my class how to press a client with a LOT OF HAIR. This young client had hair down to her ass and her hair was thick as hell. It was gorgeous. She had a tighter curl than beyonce she told us it ran in her family. Her mom and grandmother all had crazy thick hair. She is was full black too and was just a high school student from small town in NY. I think she was just raised to embrace her natural hair as a young age from her mother and grandmother. Which was great because she grew up in a primarily white community but never felt pressure to not wear her hair natural because woman around her let her know how beautiful her natural hair was.
Not everyone is going to achieve long hair. There are several factors that effect a person's hair growth. What people need to start doing now is to appreciate healthy hair at any length.
THANK YOU FOR THIS🙌👐
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Agreed. It’s in the diet and genes.
Agree
Beautiful Dreamer 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Texturism and length is just as bad as colorism
.....And Featurism
Yes!
Girls it’s WORST!!!!!
@@kaysummer5217 I hate when people say you have a very small nose and lips for a black girl 🙄🙄🙄 it was supposed to be a compliment???
Get the fuck out here
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“Our self hate is a business.” I totally agree with you!
Listen, I can't wait for my shoulder length type 4 hair to bloom and grow. I. CAN NOT. WAIT. It's healthy, gorgeous and shrinked beyond belief! Lol oh and I am mixed. So please, let's educate ourselves! Mixed doesn't equal looser curls!
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lighter skin has absolutely nothing to do with growing long hair. It’s all in how you take care of it.
Shannon Wells the fact that they pulled skin color to talk about hair length is ridiculous and miserable
Right! I’m light skinned with type 4c. I had dark skinned friends with super long curl or hair. Ppl are stupid
Yes but mother’s in fear of they’re kids being scrutinized about they’re hair pirming and hot combing kids hair damaging it creating breakage also creating the “black girls have short hair” phenomena lol it’s a cycle but I’ve seen less pirming now more then ever honestly 💯💯💯💯 but the 2000s created this idea that black women don’t have hair
Yes. I have light skin and 4 something hair that breaks before shoulder lenght. My sister is very dark and her hair is waist lenght. I use heat and she doen't. But She uses color and I don't. When we were kids, and both with natural hair, her hair just grew like crazy. She keept her natural curl all her like, but colors her hair and it looks amazing. I used relaxers, heat, and did all the wrong things. But we had to learn to style our hair às children because my parents would not let us use weave or braided extensions. I don't care about lenght. I just want to style my natural hair without help. So I don't relax my hair but I do use heat. I like my shoulder lenght. It is manageble and somethimes I do a bob or rock a pixie cut for a while. My sister is the opposite, she loves her curly natural hair super long and she rocks it. Just love your hair and do whatever works for you. Whether it is relaxed, flat ironed, natural, braided. Just do what works for you.
Dark Caesar false assumptions if you take care of your hair as a dark skinned woman it can be like any light skinned girls hair and that’s a fact but the fact that we don’t have much information on how to get this routine down and the fact that it’s expensive as fuck because our hair is so rich it’s hard for every single black woman to just have long long hair 🤷🏾♀️ light skinned girls need less product less help because they have a other textures in there
Lets be obsessed with uplifting one another! How about that!
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Well said
Jessica H 👏 👏 👏
The Black Suit Conclave whar-
I love this.. If only people would listen
I’m dark skinned and my hair reach my elbows. My hair is natural 4c type hair, I’m not rich! all I do is take care of my hair 🤷🏾♀️
It really doesn't take money either. It's just respecting your hair and finding out what works for it
Exactly
Ava Plus3 right. And that’s it
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Periodt
I have over 20 inches of 4c hair..still wearing wigs everyday. Just because I’m wearing a wig doesn’t mean shit
The Best all hair grows. It’s breakage that makes it appear your hair isn’t growing. I don’t ever get cornrows because me hair will break off. I wash my hair once a week and only brush it when it’s wet and covered in conditioner. I put my hair in a single braid and tuck it under wigs.
Kylie perioddd me too
@@kylie6701, u don’t wash out the conditioner?
Go girl ❤ wig will grow your hair so fast
And what y’all may not know it’s that Tina Knowles had one of the most successful chic hair salons in the 80’s and early 90’s in Houston. They know how take care of their hair.
Nersy Williams true
Thank you.
Nersy Williams exactly
Nersy williams thank u
Thank you Chrissie for mentioning locs. Locs always seem to be left out of the natural hair conversations which is terrible. You can grow long beautiful hair loose or loc'd and it'll be all yours.
Periodt! I just started my loc journey last year. We’re always left out.
@@JustPassingThrough-ib6qs I got fed up with my loose natural hair as well and I've had locs before so I'm starting another loc journey. I've also cut my loose natural many times. So I completely understand. I also think loc'd kids are adorable and just another way for us to teach black youth to love their natural selves and their hair. :)
@@Nmendenh-rl6ej I started my new journey yesterday. I think that locs are so versatile and it's really sad how some people just refuse to acknowledge natural hair in all of its forms.
I start my loc journey Wednesday and I can’t tell u how excited I am 🤗
Chloe and Halle are locs goals. I love the way they style their hair.
Aaliyah, Blac Chyna, Nicki Minaj, Chyna Anne Mcclain and her sisters all black women with naturally long hair amongst other beautiful black women with the same length
Marci Anoni Aaliyah wore extensions.
@@graces4763 she did but her hair was long without them especially as a kid on Star Search
@@graces4763 Actually no she didn't. Her hair stylist clearly goes through her hair and shows that is Aaliyah's hair. Are Blacks really that brainwashed?
@Carrie Love With the way weave and lacefronts are done today, not really. But it was obvious Aaliyah wore her hair 90% of the time. It's like people just can't grasp that Black women can grow hair, and it's shame actually. Like an inferiority complex almost. Our hair is NOT inferior, just different.
Nicki is half Indian
I'm Ethiopian and my hair is down to my ass. Black women CAN grow long hair, you have to take care of it.
Regimen please?
@@NinaNoFlex To be honest, I really don't have a regimen. I used to straighten my hair everyday for yearssss and wondered why it would never grow. I stopped straightening it and started to braid it regularly. So what I basically do is wash my hair with regular shampoo (doesn't have to be anything fancy), then while its damp, i put oil on it and then braid it. The key is to seal in the moisture (water) while the hair is damp. A lot of people use oil on DRY hair but that doesn't benefit the hair. Water = moisture, and the oil seals in the moisture which then prevents it from breaking. Hope this helps sis lol
omg same I'm Ethiopian and my hair goes down to my butt too! I heard that Ethiopians/Eritreans are common to have long hair
@holly xx 4a
Im somali and I have grown my hair to my lower back. Take care of your hair and you will get results.
Some Black women have been running from their own hair and their whole lives. They never learned what it needs, what you shouldn't do to it. Most of us started getting perms at as young as 3 years old. Black women were raised to hide their kinks whilst Black men get to wear afros and high top fades proudly. It sucks. Keke Palmer posted that at one point she was afraid to be seen with her natural 4c hair
I still am too. It's a learning process. I'm learning to love my hair. When you get told all your life that black women hair is ugly and dirty. As a young child you take offense to that and it just stick with you.
There are so many social and economic pressures that have caused this type of shame of black hair that women face. Im just happy its been shifting with the natural hair movement.
I'm 16 and started my natural hair movement over a year ago and has went from 1 inch to 6👏👏👏😍😍 I so proud of myself because i finally have the courage to where my natural in public.
Edit: Omg😱😱😱 thank you guys for all the likes and encouragement
Good for you 🙌🏾👑💛
There you go babygirl!!!
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5- 6 inch is the average yearly growth for black women.
Same 🖤✨
Your gonna hurt some feelings in this video Chrissie. When it’s flat ironed, I’ve had women literally try to put their fingers in my scalp to see if my long waist length natural hair is real 😳
there is a cameroonian girl i was watching who said enough women were sticking their hands without permission to her scalp. I could see why she was frightened.
Same it's like nobody appreciates black hair unless it's long
SAME! and not for nothing, it’s always been the ultra naturalistas that have done it to me
coreenamusic my mother has said that some of her co-workers do this....I’m sorry but some fingers are getting bent back if it happens to me. That’s equivalent to touching a pregnant woman’s belly without permission. That’s just a no-no.
It really irritates the hell outta me. Cause it's only black women trying to sneak and touch my scalp. One lady tugged my hair. Like what if it wasnt mine and fell out. How would she had felt then?
They just mad that their hair got burned off by all the relaxers and perms they got.
Izza Zavage
My mom permed my hair for 14 years! I’m sixteen now and I’m still trying to catch up. I still cry myself to sleep at night cuz of it. I’ve only been natural for 1 year and 8 months but I would never hate on another’s hair or wear weave. Instead of people hating on others hair they should just take care of themselves and stop being raggedy. 😂😂 it’s honestly really sad.
Izza Zavage Everyone with a perm doesn’t have damage just saying. When I was relaxed my hair was butt length. I’m a year natural and it’s mid back. My hair is extra thick now because it was thick with the relaxers. I will say I’m never going back to relaxers because the burning and itching to achieve straight hair is not worth it
I actually see a lot of women with long permed hair
I have relaxed 21 inches long hair & I take care of it. I don't go to the hair salon because most of them are thought to perm your hair every month, I perm my hair every 3 months because of how much inches your hair grow per month. 1 month is not enough months to retouch your hair because there is not enough inches of new growth to perm without getting perm on your hair that is already perm, which then causes over processed hair & damage.
This is my biggest pet peeve! People are always questioning my hair, because it is waist length with a looser texture, and it's not just Black women who question it. Black men and White women do it too!
My grandmother is mixed and racist would yank her hair because she was black now she wears it short.
LangBellsChannel Wow! That's crazy!
Ya Azizu, I don't have White friends, but I encountered this problem many times in the workplace. One of them accused me of wearing extensions when I flat ironed my hair. I told her my hair appears longer, because I had it flat ironed. She said, "Are you sure you aren't wearing extensions?" Then she proceeded to follow me down the hall, and hound me about my hair.
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Yessss plenty of black women who aren't rich with long hair 🙋🏽🙋🏽🙋🏽 I definitely have more hair than money 🤣🤣🤣
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Yeap, genetics, diet, hair care have a lot to do with it.... One of my closest friends from college hair is almost to her butt! We went to FSU in Tallahassee and she’s from a small nearby town so she drove about an hour away every 2 weeks to get her hair done... and she NEVER missed an appointment😁
Vibrant Hues I love it
Katrina Shelise girl I know so many of us have very long hair
I didn't realize that I wasn't fazed about Beyonce's hair until this video. I've been natural for 10 years and have mid back length 4A/4B hair. Ppl talked so much trash when I first went natural and now all of a sudden I have "good hair." 🙄
Hearing Beyonce say ' mom that's embarrassing '..
Aaaahh😆😆 she's humaaann!. So cute
Have you guys have not seen beyonce mother hair ???? Hair is also genetics !
Yes and she has black father with 4b/4c hair, as well.
Maryena Gross 4b/4c hair grows as well !
Never said 4b and 4c doesn't grow. I am saying she bleaches and dyes her hair a lot and I'm a hair stylist and I no very damaging to your hair. Boyonce hair 4b / 4c hair which cannot take a lot of bleaching and dyes.
Maryena Gross is just hair ! Is not that serious
BeautiQLove absolutely right, my mom have a fine hair so as me
‘Natural hair is F-ck boy repellent’ quite possibly the greatest line I’ve heard all week 😂👌🏽#AllFacts
Wish natural hair was fuck boy repellent I had locs for years and still got the fuck boy.
G mama Lee me too😭😭😭 I think she means the fros though
Afros are beautiful😍😭😭
AGREED I tell women all the time if a man doesn't want u because you're hair ain't straight or blonde don't get upset just thank God u dodged a bullet💯
sadly the first fuck boy i ever dealt with loved my natural hair😢
Bey been wearin wigs and weaves for 20years. Of course she got hair😂. She better have some hair lol
Ashley G. Exactly what I said... this was not surprising lol
No thats not true i know a lot of black women that wear weaves and wigs and their hair is not long
Anna Williams cause they don’t know how to take care of it
Yes..👏🏾👏🏾
Sis this is so funny to me 😂🤣😂 But yes after years of protective styling she betta!
Nicki Minaj and blacchyna are two that I remember with long hair as well
BLAC CHYNA DON'T COMPARE THAT SLUG TO TALENT😠
tiffany curtis ummm just talking about hair.
Crazy thing is nicki hair is waist length
Nicki is mixed race
@@MeganAllen1738 No, she isn't. She has mixed ancestry. She's not mixed(=biracial). She's a black island girl with Afro-Trinidadian, Indian & Asian ancestry. Both of her parents are black. There is a difference.
The obsession with beyonce in general is bizarre.
It would be nice if people stayed on point with the video's meaning
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Yes it is a lot of grow women embarrassing themselves in the comments 🤭😂
I wholeheartedly agree. 👌
With all the natural hair videos and pages and a lot of fully black women with natural hair, that is long (bra strap length and longer), I don't understand why they can't believe that Beyoncé's hair is real?!
Black women can grow their hair and we don't have to be "rich" to grow it 🙄... It's all in the technique, not price of products. I also get the questions when I flat iron my bsl natural hair, about weather it is real or not. Tons of black women, including dark skin women have long hair.
Thank you I just cut all mine off cause I love the look but my hair was shoulder length and both my sister's have hair down their back.Sometimes just leave it alone.
What techniques do u use I want long hair my hair stops to my collar bone
So true! I naturally have long hair, but when l was relaxed l begun taking care of it, and it grew even LONGER than l imagined. I was shook, it was the longest my hair had ever been....so that was proof enough for me that Black women can grow long hair and not be mixed. Just take care of your hair, it’s pretty simple!
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Michelle Appiah I got a question if I go natural will my hair grow more than it does in braids?
My hair grows long like Beyonce but I shaved it off like Iyanla. It's just hair who gives a damn. We all can have long hair it doesn't matter. Just wear your hair nice.
Hebrew Queen same sis, and when my hair was long ppl were constantly asking if was real.
That part!! This obsession with our hair is the real problem. My daughter has long hair and wants to cut it and everyone is telling her she's crazy. I tell her baby it's just hair. I just want her to be free from the obsession of having to have it long.
Same! I always cut my hair
Yes, hair can always grow back. I've cut mine short several times. I like to switch up looks.
@@ginabelle7 Same here. I wear locs that have grown to almost mid-back length. Stopped the chemicals nine years ago. The strange (and sometimes dirty) looks that I get from time to time come from.....I'm sad to say......black women. My coworker even asked me if that was all my own hair, and she has known me since grade school and knows I had a lot of hair even back then. SMH.
Beyonce looks so good with the blonde/brownish blonde hair. She has the perfect skin tone for it! Blessed.
Can you believe my mother still gives me advice for my long, "nappy" hair when the whole front of her head is bald-headed from wearing weaves?
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Well, your mom is all naturel. As Neil would say.
Pancake Batter sis I don’t care if she’s your mother, you shoulda got the baking on her 🔥
Me too girl 🤣 my momma loves giving hair advice
wait what 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂😂
Black men falling in love with hair, so silly and shallow.
Ms.Catalina What’s wrong with that?! Hair is hair!
All men fall in love with hair. It shows that a women is healthy and that she takes care if herself.
When I was a teen it was a weakness , any female sexy when her hair was freshly Str8 or whatever just down laying down y'all back and looking at ya guy with that smile on yall face & u beautiful just for ya guy & that makes a guy act dumb inside really, bruh just hold it in but he be geeked if it's natural or shop long as your sexy looking..i don't think its shallow it's just the magic of opposites attract I would agree it's shallow if your ran into that guy that won't let you pass him without shooting his shot or guys..ppl should save some of themselves for spontaneous blindsiding
TroubleChizzy2010 shut the fuck up !
....But Kenya Moore’s real hair was questioned. 🤔
Right!
Nicki Minaj real hair was questioned too, I remember black women calling her "baldheaded" until they saw her real hair.
True.
She's dark skinned, you know how they do us.
@@moniquechilds146 Kenya had hair before most begin neglecting their own for weave. And the poor dears still say she wearing weave. Sad that it's unbelievable for bw to have REAL lengthy hair. We always had hair that didn't buy into this sickness that plagued the majority of bc.
I'm mixed, a Mexican mom and white dad. My hair is wavy. I've always really loved natural black hair-- the texture, the poof, the curls in random places, the spongyness, the thickness, when its healthy its soooo gorgeous and really stands out. Black kinks and curls are the sacred spiral, the fibonacci. I cant speak for black culture, or pretend to understand the hair culture, but personally, I'm relieved and happy that the emerging natural hair movement is showing little girls to grow up with well deserved self love, and not hate, for themselves and their hair.
Wow this inspired me and fillled me with pride about my black heritage. I’m Jamaican and Puerto-Rican and it’s amazing to hear our hair described with such universal poetry. Thank you 🙌🏽🙏🏽🥰
@@Sprint622 ♥
This. I cannot understand anyone wanting to hide their beautiful natural hair, natural curl or texture (short or long)...omg it's amazing and something NO OTHER RACE on the planet has claim to. I couldn't achieve #hairgoals like this if I tried.
My sister is mixed and she hates her hair. I always loved it growing up but she said she can't do anything with it and she found it to be boring. She loved my hair. We both have long hair, but mine is super thick 3c/4a and hers is 3a/3b...she hates her hair and loves mine...some of us just can't be satisfied.
@@princessbc9791 My sister in law who had the most gorgeous thick, poofy kinks has ruined her hair with a Brazilian blowout the past 15 years. It looks terrible now. I often wonder if she regrets doing that and misses her previous hair. Right, some people are never satisfied.
She has plenty of money to get her hair taken care of...and her mom’s a beautician...it’s long hair 🤷🏾♀️
it doesn’t even take money to have long hair
You'd be surprised. I know a beautician & her daughter has a lot of hair self-hate. It's more than being a beautician, but a mentality of self-love & acceptance.
Thomas vanDyke agreed but if I would have said that people would assume that I’m saying black girls can’t grow long hair without being mixed so I just left that out lol
Take care of your hair and itll grow. Take care of your real hair the same way yall take care of your weaves lol
BlackGirlLovesAnime6 I said that to my cousin years ago. If you can spend hours in the bathroom doing your weave, why can't you spend hours taking care of your own hair? 😕
Real shit!!! 👏🏽 💯
Clean hair is good hair. I could care less about beyonce's hair. Moving on. See in the next episode. 😁
Exactly
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So why leave a comment?
Robin Carter cuz its a video and people comment on videos. lmfao duhhhh.
@@user-lz3kr5pc7x u mean like I just did sis 🤔
THE OBSESSION WITH BEYONCE IS SICKENING..
In general or her hair?
@@diah3655 IN GENERAL..I MEAN YES SHE IS BEAUTIFUL SHE DOES A LOT IN HER COMMUNITY..IM SURE SHES A GREAT PERSON FROM WHAT IVE HERD.BUT DAMN PEOPLE TREAT HER LIKE SHES A GOD
Va'tasha Powdrell what if people treat her like god? Does it give you the right to fucking throw shade towards her? You’re just the same as every other black woman who dislikes her. Maybe let some light into your heart and you’d learn how to love
Florida Kilos so she doesn’t know how to love because She said Beyoncé is treated like a GOD? Your fucking stupid.
Yes it is. Just ridiculous.
Scientists proved that Black hair has the best quality sebum out of all races. The problem is getting the sebum to travel down the hair shaft for hair growth.
1st sentence was factual. The next one was inaccurate. Sebum does nothing but coat the hair when it reaches the tail end. The scalp is responsible for hair growth, the hair shaft is responsible for hair retention.
I have never heard that before. I would think asians have the best sebum.
There are ways to get it down the shaft by carefully using your fingers or gently brushing threw with a boar bristle brush but that would disturbed the curl pattern and you would have to keep your hair stretched all the time.
Link?
@@mariachiara2616 www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3772921/
This study looked at sebum on the face but sebum is the same throughout the body
I know plenty of black women with long full length hair. My wife's hair is a huge afro and when she flat iron it, it comes down middle ways of her back. Black women have the healthiest hair of all races.
@@pinkskincanthandlethesunli6508 😂😂😂😂😂
Afro Thunder you know u can’t say anything positive about a black woman without a salty mf’er coming and saying but what about all women?! 😂😂😂 they get on my nerves. Like damn let us get some praise, we rarely do.
Don't you DARE compliment a black woman. That's illegal😂
@@ginabelle7 Ikr! I'm a black man that's always giving praise to my black sistas. But it never fails..a pink skin ass cave becky, a black ass bed buck or some other non-black mothafucka wanna come at me! But guess what, im always ready to light they got damn asses the fuck up with the truth!
@@beau1207 Lol. Yeah I'm waiting for anybody to come at me about my comment. I'm impatiently waiting bruh!😂
Wow, Loni is honestly so pretty with and without weave/a wig. Thats how you do it!!
Exactly. We don’t value ourselves yet we want the rest of the work to think black is beautiful. 🤦🏾♀️
I think the goal should be HEALTHY hair and not LONG hair. AND YES , GENETICS PLAYS A MAJOR ROLE!!!
Trudy J, genetics plays a role but not a major one. I have met a lot of black women who have grown their out and most of the women in their families have short hair because they don't deep condition it on a weekly basis and they damage it.
@@misstea-uu3nj Well as we all know everyone is entitled to believe what they want
Genetics does play a big role . My mom and aunts are all relaxed and don't take of their hair but yet my mom is the only one who's hair grew past bra strap length. Same with me...my hair has always been longer than my cousins and I didn't start taking care of it until 2012 when I started transitioning.
I agree. Im european in my country every girl has thick shiny hair. I have extremely thin hair. I dont even know who i got it from because everyone in my family has normal hair. But since i was a kid this was my biggest insecurity. Im obsessed with hair to a point the first thing i look on other people is their hair and how i envy them. But no matter what i do ill never hair thick hair .. i used to always have extensions in my hair and it made my hair even weaker. Now i dont wear extensions anymore dont use all those fake products im always trimming and its a little better. I accepted that ill never hair long hair my goal is a healthy one. Even though ive always wanted real long hair. Sometimes i feel like im not woman enough because i dont have nice hair. Like it determines my femininity. Its hard because big hair is all over the media but we have to understand that there is so much more value to a woman than her hair.
Hair care is all that it boils down to. People keep doing so much when really they just need to do less. Stop doing routines that are meant for other hair types. It’s really that simple. Drink water eat veggies and watch your hair flourish. Genetics has nothing on good habits !
Black hair grows...i mean look at dreads
Remofilwe From South Africa exactly
Yes!! Low manipulation is keyyyy
Say it louder for the folks in back!!! Like weeds!!!💯💯💯💯
Omg I hate when people reference dreads !! Dreads don’t shed the dead hair so of course it’s going to be long !!! Stop referencing dreads it’s not the same ... coming from someone who used to have locs !!!!
@@laurenlocd3180 so dreads are not black hair?
Dont get it twisted with the ignorant comments under Beyonce's post. Many black women have very long hair underneath their weaves. Im just saying.
What does it matter if no one ever sees it , that’s like a person who purposely wears shoes that are to big for them constantly saying “ my feet are actually smaller than this if I take off my shoes “ and they NEVER take off their damn shoes to let you see and then want to complain when people keep saying they have BIG FEET !! Welll ...