The sad but honest truth spoken by this song is both tragic but important to hear. Sometimes, if a relationship isn't going anywhere or is even damaging, sometimes the kindest thing a person can do is call it quits. Love, sadly, can both be a wonderful AND terrible thing.
I’m a Lesbian and I love my bff Branwen but I’m bullied for being Lesbian and I’m all like “IM ALREADY DEPRESSED CAN YOU AT LEAST LEAVE ME THE F*CK ALONE?!
Every time I hear this song, it makes me think of him and it still hurts. It's been a year now that we tore each other apart. His abuse and me taking it. I finally got the courage to leave and have him arrested. It's now October 2018. But the love I felt for him is still in my heart. Time will heal those wounds he left.
@@kinkykitty77 you will! Hang in there! You have to tell yourself every day that you ARE a strong woman......you CAN and you WILL be fine.....and I guarantee that you will! Lets see if I can change your perception..........How do I KNOW, you will be fine? Well.........Do you realize the guts it takes to walk away? ESPECIALLY after all that time! Girl, you are already over the hardest part.........now? Relax......breathe in deep..........and let it ALL out.............and the next breath you take will be as beautiful as a spring day............new beginnings beautiful! How exciting is THAT?!?!?! Much love to you and know that I am in your corner, rooting for you!😊❤
I first heard this song standing in line with my kids and ex husband waiting to get on a roller coaster and after I heard it, I knew that he and I weren't meant to be after 12 years of doing everything wrong in his eyes and him physically and mentally abusing me, so songs definitely have an impact in the lives of others!!!!
"...May be we aren't meant to be....".....Nobody wins if every one loses.......its one step forward & two steps back.....can't change your mind. ...what you want is killing me.....baby we aren't meant to be...." So beautiful lyrics echoing the truth .....! WOW....!!
F..k Fake Love. Lesson accepted. Lesson Learned. Chapter closed. Turning the page for the next chapter to unfold. I hope she gives you what I wasn't able too.
This song is perfect for any toxic relationship...honestly I've never had a toxic romantic relationship but I've had other relationships that this song describes perfectly 😕 like it can apply to a father/son relationship or a mother/daughter or even an employee/ manager ...any relationship works for this song
This song works for my relationship with my dad. I was daddy's little girl when I was a kid. But then I grew up and had my own opinions... we haven't spoken in 8 years.
For a monster i am soooo glad i left. He was a p.o.s.but i didnt realize how happy i would be i wasall prepared to be sad but i instantly felt better. He was truly awful and sometimes you dont know til you get away. Go for it!!!!
I was going through a rough divorce and I thought that it was all my fault. Turned out the other way around. But when you love someone you don’t want to let go it’s hard to find yourself and your thinking about her instead and everything else doesn’t matter but after time you can reflect the past and see the truth. Thanks for this song!!! So much better off today than yesterday I’ve truly been blessed!!!
It's the faith that there is some one who will always be with u and never turn u away ...son it's the way to be two gether with the world and keep the balance of the UP and downs it's what spins us around to the moon and stars it shows us the light of the son ... Sun
Breakups suck. Who else is new to the recently single club? (Here, have some treats 🍦🍨🍧🍩🍫🍰🎂🍬🍭) You're beautiful or handsome, don't let anyone or any status get you down. We got this!!
@@shellyjennings9305 I hope ur ok, I haven't been in many relationship's but emotional pain has been my whole life.. just remember love can hurt, but never forget who you are and what you want you want, and you'll end up happy. ..hope this helps. -Sincerely, a love drunk idiot.
Im going through this right now and it hurts so much, I love this woman so much but she has been so mad at me for a little over a month when I have done nothing to deserve all this pain, I have treated her like a queen and now she is throwing it all in my face, she has problems going on in her life and I have helped her as much as I can but she keeps saying I don't care about her or love her and every time I tell her i do care about her and love her so much she basically calls me a liar and all of this is because I can help her with her problems...I have been trying to tell her I love her but she says I don't care or love her and I never want to help her which isn't the case because I would help if I could but I can't...I can't make her see I love her and now I am thinking we aren't meant for each other which is hard to think about since I love her so much but I have done everything I can and its never enough and I can't take it anymore...shes a sweet girl but I think maybe we just aren't meant to be.
DUDE Kaylee bro, you don't need help. Just listen to the music and chillax BUT if your still on repeat from when you posted this to now you do need help
Kaylee Niven I do that too, I’ve been stuck on repeat on several songs for years now. And they are the ones that shred me, still. I hate pain, but I’m wondering if it’s part of the process and maybe one day, someday, it won’t hurt as bad?
Its addictive I heard this song at my local grocery store and loved it ever since I have listened to it at least 4 times today. My relationships is confusing and this song speaks the truth lol God bless you all jesus loves you and me
Nothing is ever good enough. After awhile of doing everything oneself, being taken advantage of, put down and breaking my spirit down, I give warning I leave. Nothing has changed. I just move on much faster cuz I know my self-worth and nobody wins. It's just excuses after excuses after excuses that's left.
the sun and moon fit so well, since i see this song as the soundtrack of the story of artemis and orion. the song is apollo apologizing to his sister for tricking her into killing him
It's always like that...the minute they realize you care, they start taking advantage... Every woman is like that, emotions are their realm, logic is ours... We always got to act from logic! Always! Else, we end up as the suckers...
Going through the motions of this right now.. all we do is fight almost non-stop.. we can't make each other happy anymore and I'm the only one who sees it's starting to be hopeless now.. I want to keep fighting for us.. but I've been fighting for us for months now.. I can't be the only one trying while wanting results form him in return... maybe we just aren't meant to be
I realized this after fighting for a couple of years. When you can't outlive your past and your partner won't allow you a future you have to make a break for it. Am I suggesting running off without a dime to your name? No. Save back so you can break it off and not be in an even worse place. Just smile and keep your promise to yourself deep down inside, safe, where your partner can't hurt you anymore. When the time comes, don't look back. It hurts and doubt will plague you but you have to leave for yourself.
6 months ago I was in an abusive relationship. This was his favorite band. I keep thinking I have something to apologize for when I don't. He got me all kinds of messed up. For the past week I have been listening to this song on a loop.
This is my favorite song by these guys. Sometimes no matter what you do it's just not meant to be. It sucks. Been there and don't ever want to go back.
It's never enough to say I'm sorry It's never enough to say I care But I'm caught between what you wanted from me And knowing that if I give that to you I might just disappear Nobody wins when everyone's losing It's like one step forward and two steps back No matter what I do you're always mad And I, I can't change your mind I know it's like trying to turn around on a one way street I can't give you what you want And it's killing me And I, I'm starting to see Maybe we're not meant to be It's never enough to say I love you No, it's never enough to say I try It's hard to believe That there's no way out for you and me And it seems to be the story of our lives Nobody wins when everyone's losing It's like one step forward and two steps back No matter what I do you're always mad And I, I can't change your mind I know it's like trying to turn around on a one way street I can't give you what you want And it's killing me And I, I'm starting to see Maybe we're not meant to be There's still time to turn this around You could build this up instead of tearing it down But I keep thinking Maybe it's too late It's like one step forward and two steps back No matter what I do you're always mad And I, I can't change your mind I know it's like trying to turn around on a one way street I can't give you what you want And it's killing me And I, I'm starting to see Maybe we're not meant to be It's like one step forward and two steps back No matter what I do you're always mad And I, baby I'm sorry to see Maybe we're not meant to be
Thank you theary of a dead man to come out with this great great tune this has changed my life on a bad relationship and because of you guys I'm free from that terrible situation.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
We never were meant to be, and I can see that now. We weren't meant to be anything. So now we aren't anything. We're just strangers, the way it should've been and always will be. Sometimes I just wish I never met him because he caused me so much pain. I'm still trying to get rid of him in my sour thoughts, but he's everywhere. No matter where I turn or where I go he's there. He's gone in my life, but he's forever a monster in my mind. God bless that man's soul because he's gonna need mercy from God. He's got a good side that I can see, but Lord knows there's a terrible side.
I couldn't have said it better myself! I know by what you're very going through. Goin through the same thing myself. 😞Relationships are feeling kinda neveragainish to me now!
That's exactly how I feel about my baby daddy. What makes it worse is the fact that the person he made me believe he was,the person I'm still so madly in love with was never real to begin with💔.
I feel you but we all gotta move on and keep on going with life. I just got dumped out of a 4 year relationship. Had to pack all my stuff and leave. 2 days later she started talking to another man. But thats on her. I know i truly loved her
I feel you I’m still in love with my baby daddy and he left I haven’t heard from him in 2 months. we are to toxic thou and it’s not healthy at all especially with a child on the way
We tried and I really loved you, I can't say I was the only one hurt because it destroyed us both but deep down no matter how many "beautiful" girls I date, deep down I will always love you... When the world told us we weren't meant to be, we both made stupid mistakes. I love you and I'm so sorry that things ended like that, I know that I may have you as a friend but I still love you.......
Jared McLey when his abuse went towards my 8 year son, love my friend has been dead for many years... he's hurt me for last time! I will not have my innocent child abused by that monster!! enough is enough!!! I pray for you to heal, and find your true love!!!
My girlfriend just left me. I gave her my all though she felt like I could do more. We both care about eachother but we just kept hurting eachother. I am so sad shes gone, but I know she will be better off without me. This song is accurate.
This is so hard to grasp... 4 years and 3 babies later, I finally realized he just isn't gonna grow up... He's never gonna change because he just doesn't want to. It's always gonna be excuses and blaming me... these lyrics hit hard as I imagine going from the perfect little family, to a single mother of 3 under 3.... fml. I've tried to make this work, but starting to think the end is inevitable, unless I always wanna be the one putting all the work in and hoping he steps up one day... and I can't take it much longer...
i know how u feel, my best friend moved away and i have tried calling him but he does't answer. All my other friends say yea he will call, but i dont think he ill
Can't go on to say how much it makes me feel, comparing this to my relationship now... I fear that someone could treat her better and this kills me inside so I keep trying to better. But like the song said, "two steps forward and one step back" I can't face the truth that we're not meant to be, I can't bear the thought of losing her as she's been a reason of why I'm here today. I've never felt this way about anyone, she says it's alright but it never feels like so! I often find myself in the corner thinking of how to make her better. I just fear she'll go behind my back... I'll never know it too.. Those thoughts linger and fear me apart like searing flesh. Eat me hole as I work to finding closure. Just find myself like a skipping record, stuck on repeat. A cycle that looks like it will never end, then I'm always faced with the question.. "should I find someone else?" I can't leave her tbh... I'm bound and always will regardless of what happens...
17 here. All it takes is one asshat 5 mins to rip away all the good memories I've stored up since the LAST time. So who's the REAL fool here...me that's who
"It's never enough to say I love you It's never enough to say I care no matter what I do your always mad" those words hit so close to home because It reminds me of the day I realized no matter how hard I tried to make it work In the end she made me realize the bitter truth that we weren't meant to be and that memory haunts me.
If actions contradict words it will never be enough But the things that go unsaid when they need to be heard are the worse things to create the awkwardness
I agree 💯 you have to speak up an spit out the actual names an feelings for that one person that you're wanting to be with...You can't expect them to figure it out wen ur saying hey Bob and Jen are going on a date an in all reality your talking about urself and ur side person that you're wanting to hide or what not you know ...I already have a hard time with me talking about how I feel an my feeling's when I do get them
What sucks is wanting someone so bad and never being enough. Trying to forget them by putting urself out there only to see no one else wants u either...TIRED! ANGRY! DONE!!!
Judith Rios toxic relationships = equals false love or false relationships....😪😪...ive gone through myself one example of such relationship was with a woman who used attraction lust and money from her side no love and crazy bitch all love from mine from moment i saw her
I have a memory of this song playing while playing the Resident Evil Remake back in the summer of 08. This song will always remind me of the basement lab of the Spencer Estate.
Exactly! I have blamed myself for what I didn’t do! I was always devoted! Now I am done with everything! He can have the social media and what goes with it! He has been there all alone! Enjoy!
Right. Its a huge bummer being in a situation where.... you are just trying so, so hard for so, so long... trying to love someone who may not want to be loved back. Or just not from you at least. I don't understand how something going so smoothly can all of a sudden go to complete $h!7 in literally a second.. and out of nowhere. After all of that time fighting to be with someone... but then still not having any sort of steady foundation or full on trust to fall back on, sucks. ... Well I guess what the hell is the point (besides learning) of trying so hard for a relathionship that just wasn't meant to be?? ...I mean at least there were to a ton of important soul lessons to be learned through all of that tough and roughness that we go through.. right?? 😊
Go the other way. The earth is round. You'll find me right all along. Then go right pass me, with your head down. Then do that every next time you meet me, until your head is so low it touches the earth that is welcoming you, then look at that hole and except the mad that you gave me. Then we are done.
-lovely flower full of pain, your colors have ran away and now all you see is gray skies and dullness around but you still see beauty all over the place. you dont need happy colors to survive all you need is a little bit of light - i don't deserve a friend like you. im sorry, i cant really apologize for being myself the way my brain works is fucked up. sometimes i feel like people are better off without me so i kinda..., ugh is hard to explain i dont really know when you will get to read this maybe in a matter of seconds or maybe it will take even years, that i do not know but eventually you will come across it and you will realize how this makes no sense ... (probably cause im writting with tears in my eyes but thats another story) thank you for being always there when no one was i say this alot but you might not realize how meaningful this is to me. you are my soul sister and im a jerk. you were right about eveything and it hurts, it hurts a little too much and i cry a little before i go to sleep i drown myself in my own thoughts but i brought this to myself isnt that right? im sorry. i just want to let you know that i truly love you thats why is best to stay away. hey there• im running for you. im running for me, i wish you were by my side. but that quite imposible am i rigth? arent i a smarty type? please forgive me for i am a major fuck up.
Gabby Ruiz When you go to sleep tonight, you depend on the sun to rise tomorrow. You depend on the moon to guide your dreams and the stars to grant your wishes. You depend on people to be there and listen to what you have to say. However, it is when the sun is stuck behind clouds, you begin to feel discouraged. When the moon does not appear in the sky, how do you dream? When you wake up and nothing has changed, do you blame it on the stars? Sometimes, it's hard to depend on the things that aren't certain. I am sorry if I'm never there or if at times I don't listen. People are filled with so much wonder and that is my argument. I'm so stuck in my own head and, like we've talked about before, I care too much or not at all. All I can say is that I'm proud of you and everything you are fighting. I'm proud to call you my friend. I wish that there was more people like you in the world... and maybe they are out there somewhere. Maybe, they are as lost as everyone else? Lets hope that they find their way while we find ours. xx
*Something else* All this shit is an illusion, right? If that is true, how do tell what is reality? If we are living in an illusion, then this is our reality. I guess we have to make peace with that. xx
Hey There i will not be in peace until i die. i have heard stories, that you don't start living until you take your final breath and go to the other side. what is real and made up? is heaven for real or is hell where i belong? my nightmares, they haunt me. but is this what i really hide from myself? the things i keep behind my back? you lie to yourself until you can't take it anymore. your dreams turn into nightmares. is this real or made up? is this an illusion? its all fucked up. i don't wanna close my eyes, when everything goes to blackness i can't control what goes through my mind. helphelphelphelp. can't you hear me? is my voice breaking down struggling to say goobye. i know what will happen if i don't get those words out of my mouth, they will haunt me for the rest of my days. those letters you are afraid to hear are the letters I'm dying to say.
Gabby Ruiz As much as you don't want to hear this, you can't accept help you don't want. You can scream it to the whole world, take a hit and say to yourself, "This helps," but if you have to escape your mind, how is that benefiting you? Yea, I'm listening. Maybe you should take a step backwards and look around you. Observe, don't obsess. Look at all the things that change in beautiful ways. Take a step back and look up. How long has it been since you looked at the sky? How long has it been since you thought of someone else? I can't beg you to hear these words and I can't keep repeating them. Whem you take a step forward look how everything changed. How does it look? Is it something you're proud of? I don't want you to answer these questions because some of them are from the past and the others are in the future. Don't rush, but never slow down. Illusions and disillusion... what the fuck to they matter? We can't escape; as far as I know, we can't make them. Why care? I'm done. xx
Hey There everything looks the same. believe me when i say this i have seen it all before and travel to different places, i see the beauty of the sky and how blue it is, i hear the birds singing their songs crossing around like they are supposed to, everything makes sense and makes no sense at all at the same time. i see the beauty of the world, but i also see sorrow and pain, its all full of colors but my eyes focus on the gray. i think i fell from the sky, my body feels completely numb. i think i lost myself in your brown huge eyes. with your big eyes and your big lies, i used to think that i could trust you, to my surprise you were fraud, it feels lonely with your goodbye. what have i become? begging for your eyes to meet with mine just so i can know i still cross by your mind. i don't know what goes through your mind, and I'm afraid to the unknown i know i wasn't to you important but for me you were part of my world. why will you love someone like me anyways? nobody likes broken people, nobody likes dealing with with messy messes. it seems like i was meant to love more than what i will ever be loved for. meant to be alive. meant to feel pain but also love. meant to prove you wrong. i will not crack you won't destroy me. i promise to come back, you will adore me. don't go... i don't want to be alone again. I'm used to you leaving but i will never get uses to this sadness that you leave behind.
He never realized I was waiting for him....he never knew. It broke my heart when I saw that he wasn't for me, because I loved him so much. Every time I think of him, I cry. "It's like one step foward and two steps back, no matter what I do, you're always mad." I relate to those lyrics so much, I can't explain it. 😭 I miss him so much.
Had no idea this song was by this band, this is part of my childhood ! Cool to find out though, there are other songs of theirs I really like so it's cool to see my liking their music goes back that far
No matter what i do you're always mad i feel that and when there is anger in a relationship overtime it will ruin it sometimes you gotta let it go and move on and that can be the realist act of love but the most painful doesn't mean that you don't love each other it means you love them to let them live their life 😭💔 even with out you there 😥
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The sad but honest truth spoken by this song is both tragic but important to hear. Sometimes, if a relationship isn't going anywhere or is even damaging, sometimes the kindest thing a person can do is call it quits.
Love, sadly, can both be a wonderful AND terrible thing.
"I can't give you what you want and it's killing me" that hit home.
Kolton Moore it hits close to me to, i tried so hard to make her happy but it just wasnt enough ig, now im up at 4am crying and missin her
I’m a Lesbian and I love my bff Branwen but I’m bullied for being Lesbian and I’m all like “IM ALREADY DEPRESSED CAN YOU AT LEAST LEAVE ME THE F*CK ALONE?!
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Lance Coleman ??? ^
It does! I tried everything and it just wasn't enough :(
It sucks when you're the only one giving a damn in the relationship just to realize the feeling is not mutual.
Ik this feeling
Friendships even😢
Went through this this week. Finally cut them out of my life. That's why I'm here.
U r right
Amen
This song can hit a person hard if they feel like there relationship is fallen apart or if there stuck in a rut 💯
Tammy Harmon I went threw the same thing back in 1998 when I was in High School
Truth
Very true
Ok
That’s the truth
Story of my current situation. Love when lyrics speak what you cant.
Amen
run
i had a girlfriend who im sure would relate to this song with me as i do for her.
Ya know the feeling when they can't be a man and tell you he is in love with someone else
There's a song fer every feeling or emotion a person goes through ..... Good or bad ...... Music can say what you can't find the words fer
Every time I hear this song, it makes me think of him and it still hurts. It's been a year now that we tore each other apart. His abuse and me taking it. I finally got the courage to leave and have him arrested. It's now October 2018. But the love I felt for him is still in my heart. Time will heal those wounds he left.
I walked away after 3 years......I warned him for the last YEAR.........put me second? I will put you last. Deuce bro.........✌
#NOREGRETS
I left my husband of 12 years in January and I am still not 100% confident but I'm getting there.
@@kinkykitty77 you will! Hang in there! You have to tell yourself every day that you ARE a strong woman......you CAN and you WILL be fine.....and I guarantee that you will! Lets see if I can change your perception..........How do I KNOW, you will be fine? Well.........Do you realize the guts it takes to walk away? ESPECIALLY after all that time! Girl, you are already over the hardest part.........now? Relax......breathe in deep..........and let it ALL out.............and the next breath you take will be as beautiful as a spring day............new beginnings beautiful! How exciting is THAT?!?!?! Much love to you and know that I am in your corner, rooting for you!😊❤
I just got out of a ten year relationship n this is my aunt's account ha. But I am feeling better step by step everyday
Facts !!! I'm doing it right now. Not going to be anyone's 2nd choice . Never
Stop being so narcissistic. Yall aremt as important as yall think.
Here in 2019!! Glad to see people still have taste in music!!
Count me in.
Fuck yeah
Love this fits my feelings perfectly
@@angeliahillman4462 I totally agree
Im saying, music now isn't music. It's nothing like these,, love it
This song will always be there for someone
I first heard this song standing in line with my kids and ex husband waiting to get on a roller coaster and after I heard it, I knew that he and I weren't meant to be after 12 years of doing everything wrong in his eyes and him physically and mentally abusing me, so songs definitely have an impact in the lives of others!!!!
Smh you corny,broke up over a song
You’re a monster
But maybe it is....with work.
I feel ya Trish.I realized same thing after 10 years.Just keep your head up and everything will be fine. Take 3 steps forward and none back
Oh Honey! ❤ I’ve been there. 12 years, 3 babies, and they are the only saving grace I have now.
This must be arguably their best ballad even though it did not quite make the charts that matter...
ian scerri The General by Dispatch takes the cake..
My favorite part is: "It's like trying to turn around on a one way street, I can't give you what you want and it's killing me....."
Saw them in concert. Very talented... Great music... Good pick ... Good channel!
can``t stop listening to this it`s so good.Miss when they used to make music like this
Me too music ain't what it used to be its a shame rock died long live rock n roll 🤟
One of my absolute favorite songs. Never even knew the title or who sings it till 2 day. Thank u, God! 👍
"...May be we aren't meant to be....".....Nobody wins if every one loses.......its one step forward & two steps back.....can't change your mind. ...what you want is killing me.....baby we aren't meant to be...." So beautiful lyrics echoing the truth .....! WOW....!!
F..k Fake Love. Lesson accepted. Lesson Learned. Chapter closed. Turning the page for the next chapter to unfold. I hope she gives you what I wasn't able too.
Not that I gave up, I just surrendered and let it be, with you or without. No one has control of my happiness, but me. I choose love & joy❤️❤️❤️❤️
This song is perfect for any toxic relationship...honestly I've never had a toxic romantic relationship but I've had other relationships that this song describes perfectly 😕 like it can apply to a father/son relationship or a mother/daughter or even an employee/ manager ...any relationship works for this song
This song works for my relationship with my dad. I was daddy's little girl when I was a kid. But then I grew up and had my own opinions... we haven't spoken in 8 years.
For a monster i am soooo glad i left. He was a p.o.s.but i didnt realize how happy i would be i wasall prepared to be sad but i instantly felt better. He was truly awful and sometimes you dont know til you get away. Go for it!!!!
Damn ninjas chopping onions around me whenever i hear this masterpiece :/
hahaha good one... and actually i have the same ninja issues
HOW COME THIS IS SO FUNNY LIKE OH MY GOD YOU'RE A GENIUS LMAO
Gomilopez1 the best excuse ever lol I'm jacking this
Fuck those ninjas dude lol
Lmfao props dude.. them damned ninjas..
I was going through a rough divorce and I thought that it was all my fault. Turned out the other way around. But when you love someone you don’t want to let go it’s hard to find yourself and your thinking about her instead and everything else doesn’t matter but after time you can reflect the past and see the truth. Thanks for this song!!! So much better off today than yesterday I’ve truly been blessed!!!
Forgot this song for a while, feels good listening to it after a long time.. Love it!
It's the faith that there is some one who will always be with u and never turn u away ...son it's the way to be two gether with the world and keep the balance of the UP and downs it's what spins us around to the moon and stars it shows us the light of the son ... Sun
Breakups suck. Who else is new to the recently single club?
(Here, have some treats 🍦🍨🍧🍩🍫🍰🎂🍬🍭) You're beautiful or handsome, don't let anyone or any status get you down. We got this!!
Hope so
Hell yeah we do!
Just became single 6 hrs ago....idk what to do without him
@@shellyjennings9305 I hope ur ok, I haven't been in many relationship's but emotional pain has been my whole life.. just remember love can hurt, but never forget who you are and what you want you want, and you'll end up happy. ..hope this helps. -Sincerely, a love drunk idiot.
Chloe Jones I’m not new I’m a veteran 😒
Im going through this right now and it hurts so much, I love this woman so much but she has been so mad at me for a little over a month when I have done nothing to deserve all this pain, I have treated her like a queen and now she is throwing it all in my face, she has problems going on in her life and I have helped her as much as I can but she keeps saying I don't care about her or love her and every time I tell her i do care about her and love her so much she basically calls me a liar and all of this is because I can help her with her problems...I have been trying to tell her I love her but she says I don't care or love her and I never want to help her which isn't the case because I would help if I could but I can't...I can't make her see I love her and now I am thinking we aren't meant for each other which is hard to think about since I love her so much but I have done everything I can and its never enough and I can't take it anymore...shes a sweet girl but I think maybe we just aren't meant to be.
I've been listening to this on repeat for like an hour. someone help.
I know. Good ass song
DUDE Kaylee bro, you don't need help. Just listen to the music and chillax
BUT if your still on repeat from when you posted this to now you do need help
Kaylee Niven I do that too, I’ve been stuck on repeat on several songs for years now. And they are the ones that shred me, still. I hate pain, but I’m wondering if it’s part of the process and maybe one day, someday, it won’t hurt as bad?
Its addictive I heard this song at my local grocery store and loved it ever since I have listened to it at least 4 times today. My relationships is confusing and this song speaks the truth lol God bless you all jesus loves you and me
Yur OK... If we knew what the future had to bring.... How fun wud that be...gotta have bad times to enjoy the good 1s....god bless...
I’ve been trying to find this song for years! I’m so glad I found it.
Dammit.........you just had to hit me right in the feelers
right in them feelers
Right?
No matter how hard I try i always feel like i can never be good enough for him ......💔
Bailey T same here, friend..
That just means theres someone better for you out there.
Fuck him then
Same
your good enough for him, and if he cant see that than he has bad eye site.
"no matter what I do your always mad" - this reminds me of my Mom so much. Actually this whole song does.
Logan Beaty right
Same
She's not happy. Probably wants a divorce and can't get out. Give your mom a hug. You don't know what our kids hugs do for our hearts. ✌️❤️
Love her no matter because one day she will be gone....
Nothing is ever good enough. After awhile of doing everything oneself, being taken advantage of, put down and breaking my spirit down, I give warning I leave. Nothing has changed. I just move on much faster cuz I know my self-worth and nobody wins. It's just excuses after excuses after excuses that's left.
the sun and moon fit so well, since i see this song as the soundtrack of the story of artemis and orion. the song is apollo apologizing to his sister for tricking her into killing him
Poured my heart out for this girl and she always gave me shit for nothing and always tried bringing me down.
Same
Aww same happened to me I’m sorry buddy
Her loss. Your better than this
That sounds like my soon to be exhusband
It's always like that...the minute they realize you care, they start taking advantage... Every woman is like that, emotions are their realm, logic is ours... We always got to act from logic! Always! Else, we end up as the suckers...
Going through the motions of this right now.. all we do is fight almost non-stop.. we can't make each other happy anymore and I'm the only one who sees it's starting to be hopeless now.. I want to keep fighting for us.. but I've been fighting for us for months now.. I can't be the only one trying while wanting results form him in return... maybe we just aren't meant to be
I feel this deeply.
I feel it💔💔 saddest shit in my life rn!.
I realized this after fighting for a couple of years. When you can't outlive your past and your partner won't allow you a future you have to make a break for it. Am I suggesting running off without a dime to your name? No. Save back so you can break it off and not be in an even worse place. Just smile and keep your promise to yourself deep down inside, safe, where your partner can't hurt you anymore. When the time comes, don't look back. It hurts and doubt will plague you but you have to leave for yourself.
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Damn this cut me in ways I can't explain I relate to this
6 months ago I was in an abusive relationship. This was his favorite band. I keep thinking I have something to apologize for when I don't. He got me all kinds of messed up. For the past week I have been listening to this song on a loop.
m gaines You are capable of being happy. He will just go on being a shit.
This is my favorite song by these guys. Sometimes no matter what you do it's just not meant to be. It sucks. Been there and don't ever want to go back.
It's 2020 an am still listening to this music for ever.....👌👌💯💯💯💯
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2021!!!
Try 2022
2022!**
2023 ❤❤❤
This song not only on the scars and souvenirs but also in the soundtrack of Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen.
Mannnnn this brings back memories that I left behind for a reason
Thank you for this comment. This song is so powerful.
Damn. Truth.
Haven't heard this in forever but I'm glad I came across it again still amazing in March 2019. I'm in a mood for old school music today!
It's never enough to say I'm sorry
It's never enough to say I care
But I'm caught between what you wanted from me
And knowing that if I give that to you
I might just disappear
Nobody wins when everyone's losing
It's like one step forward and two steps back
No matter what I do you're always mad
And I, I can't change your mind
I know it's like trying to turn around on a one way street
I can't give you what you want
And it's killing me
And I, I'm starting to see
Maybe we're not meant to be
It's never enough to say I love you
No, it's never enough to say I try
It's hard to believe
That there's no way out for you and me
And it seems to be the story of our lives
Nobody wins when everyone's losing
It's like one step forward and two steps back
No matter what I do you're always mad
And I, I can't change your mind
I know it's like trying to turn around on a one way street
I can't give you what you want
And it's killing me
And I, I'm starting to see
Maybe we're not meant to be
There's still time to turn this around
You could build this up instead of tearing it down
But I keep thinking
Maybe it's too late
It's like one step forward and two steps back
No matter what I do you're always mad
And I, I can't change your mind
I know it's like trying to turn around on a one way street
I can't give you what you want
And it's killing me
And I, I'm starting to see
Maybe we're not meant to be
It's like one step forward and two steps back
No matter what I do you're always mad
And I, baby I'm sorry to see
Maybe we're not meant to be
You're a dumbfuck because the lyrics are in the video
@@andyellis5065 that's the funniest shit ever
@@bogusjones6492 lol thanks
Beautiful
Thank you theary of a dead man to come out with this great great tune this has changed my life on a bad relationship and because of you guys I'm free from that terrible situation.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I can't give u what u won't and it's killing me 💔💔💔
We never were meant to be, and I can see that now. We weren't meant to be anything. So now we aren't anything. We're just strangers, the way it should've been and always will be. Sometimes I just wish I never met him because he caused me so much pain. I'm still trying to get rid of him in my sour thoughts, but he's everywhere. No matter where I turn or where I go he's there. He's gone in my life, but he's forever a monster in my mind. God bless that man's soul because he's gonna need mercy from God. He's got a good side that I can see, but Lord knows there's a terrible side.
Wow I am so sorry
So true I have been there so many times
DarkSorceress234 I’m going through the same thing now.
I couldn't have said it better myself! I know by what you're very going through. Goin through the same thing myself. 😞Relationships are feeling kinda neveragainish to me now!
Perfect song to fit my situation, 15 years and now it's just like this all the time. Miss us so much.
" It's like try to turn around on a one way street.. i can't give you what you want and it's killing me.."
Marie Keim true that bro
Me I lost a close friend
princess482473 I’m sorry
princess482473 hugs
Me and my bf
We're not meant to be but my heart and soul will forever be yours
That's exactly how I feel about my baby daddy. What makes it worse is the fact that the person he made me believe he was,the person I'm still so madly in love with was never real to begin with💔.
I feel you but we all gotta move on and keep on going with life. I just got dumped out of a 4 year relationship. Had to pack all my stuff and leave. 2 days later she started talking to another man. But thats on her. I know i truly loved her
@@Mcrsbabe they are good that way.
explains my last relationship perfectly, but sadly now i know were not meant to be
I know exactly what you mean im still madly in love with my ex fience but sadly we can't be together we are to toxic for each other
I totally relate I just realized today that it's not meant to be
Catherine Schwab
I hear ya 100%. In the same boat we love each other so much but toxic is exactly what it is.
I feel you I’m still in love with my baby daddy and he left I haven’t heard from him in 2 months. we are to toxic thou and it’s not healthy at all especially with a child on the way
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I'm jealous of your man! Lol
He's a lucky man!
We have the same taste in music and you are so beautiful!
We tried and I really loved you, I can't say I was the only one hurt because it destroyed us both but deep down no matter how many "beautiful" girls I date, deep down I will always love you... When the world told us we weren't meant to be, we both made stupid mistakes. I love you and I'm so sorry that things ended like that, I know that I may have you as a friend but I still love you.......
same😐
q q the same thing AweäaaAaq
I totally understand!!
Victor Jard Dude... I just went through there, except it's the opposite but idk if he still misses me, hm.
Jared McLey when his abuse went towards my 8 year son, love my friend has been dead for many years... he's hurt me for last time! I will not have my innocent child abused by that monster!! enough is enough!!! I pray for you to heal, and find your true love!!!
Love this song !! And it has a lot of meaning
My girlfriend just left me. I gave her my all though she felt like I could do more. We both care about eachother but we just kept hurting eachother. I am so sad shes gone, but I know she will be better off without me. This song is accurate.
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you'll be better off without her too, just give yourself some time
Same bro but with my wife I love her so much but it just isn’t working I’m scared to not have her I honestly don’t know what to do......
Crazy...so in love and no matter what a person's past is always what screwed it up for me...the constant cut downs killed it all
This is so hard to grasp... 4 years and 3 babies later, I finally realized he just isn't gonna grow up... He's never gonna change because he just doesn't want to. It's always gonna be excuses and blaming me... these lyrics hit hard as I imagine going from the perfect little family, to a single mother of 3 under 3.... fml. I've tried to make this work, but starting to think the end is inevitable, unless I always wanna be the one putting all the work in and hoping he steps up one day... and I can't take it much longer...
Stay strong girl ❤
This song saved my relationship! It helped me see what he sees or feels when I never took notice and it helped me change!
Every time I think about you, I have to remind myself that if you wanted to talk to me you would.😔
_he thought the same_
i know how u feel, my best friend moved away and i have tried calling him but he does't answer. All my other friends say yea he will call, but i dont think he ill
I feel the exact same way. I always wondered if in a world where women made the first move, if she would've asked me out
@@katieeveler4845 sounds like me💔
That part tho!!!!
She was a chapter in my book, I was sentence in hers. Man I miss her
That is a hard hitting statement, I feel it all too well 😕
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They're not worth missing
She is what my whole book is about. 😢
She's not even worth being a footnote my friend. Go find your Love story 📖 ❤️
I feel this song to my soul!! I love it. It's so true..
still listening this song in 2017 ... I love it , the music is just so beautiful and the lyrics so sad but so true at the same time
Can't go on to say how much it makes me feel, comparing this to my relationship now...
I fear that someone could treat her better and this kills me inside so I keep trying to better. But like the song said, "two steps forward and one step back"
I can't face the truth that we're not meant to be, I can't bear the thought of losing her as she's been a reason of why I'm here today. I've never felt this way about anyone, she says it's alright but it never feels like so! I often find myself in the corner thinking of how to make her better.
I just fear she'll go behind my back... I'll never know it too..
Those thoughts linger and fear me apart like searing flesh. Eat me hole as I work to finding closure.
Just find myself like a skipping record, stuck on repeat. A cycle that looks like it will never end, then I'm always faced with the question.. "should I find someone else?"
I can't leave her tbh...
I'm bound and always will regardless of what happens...
This song just describes what I want to tell my best friend...if she would listen.
I CLICKED ON THIS AND I DIDN'T KNOW I HAD HEARD IT BEFORE OH MY GOD I DIDN'T KNOW THIS WAS THEIR SONG.
ME TOO, AND I ACTUALLY USED TO LISTEN TO THIS SONG A LOT ON THE RADIO WHAT THE HECK
summer7578 SAME!!! I found their song called Angel and fell in love with it, so I decided to find more of their songs and FOUND THIS ONE
Kim x omg same dude
Kim x same though
Kim x sameeeee
I started listing to this band when i was younger and they have always been my favorite band this song really hits home hard! 💔😔😭
November 2017. Can't ever stop listening to this.
NITISH SURVE same here, friend. December 1st changed my life
Feeling like our love is not meant to be.
Except my lover is imaginative lover and this lyrics giving me its reality.
2019??? Keep it alive
Heard this song so many times as a kid, now discovering Theory of a Deadman (fully) I appreciate the song more
Live and learn... 5 + years and I finally see we are just not meant to be.
9 seconds in and I'm already liking this
wow... I thought theory of a dead man just made rock and roll party songs, I never knew this beautiful song was by them
santa monica is a good song
Angel is also a great song.
XEspadaSaDiosX all or nothing is another good one
You should definitely check "by the way". It kicks you right in the feelings 😉
Damn, my Dad's playlist are amazing. From 70s-80 and to current. Love you Dad.
I’ve been married almost 19 years and I am feeling this song. Unfortunately, everyone loses.
17 here. All it takes is one asshat 5 mins to rip away all the good memories I've stored up since the LAST time. So who's the REAL fool here...me that's who
Thanks for exposing me to this song....I really needed this rn...thanks...
I can't give you what you want and it's killing me!!! I feel this
"It's never enough to say I love you It's never enough to say I care no matter what I do your always mad" those words hit so close to home because It reminds me of the day I realized no matter how hard I tried to make it work In the end she made me realize the bitter truth that we weren't meant to be and that memory haunts me.
If actions contradict words it will never be enough
But the things that go unsaid when they need to be heard are the worse things to create the awkwardness
I agree 💯 you have to speak up an spit out the actual names an feelings for that one person that you're wanting to be with...You can't expect them to figure it out wen ur saying hey Bob and Jen are going on a date an in all reality your talking about urself and ur side person that you're wanting to hide or what not you know ...I already have a hard time with me talking about how I feel an my feeling's when I do get them
My point exactly
still in love with this song it's sad and true but I love it
1 step forward n 2 bigger steps back, we danced for 3 years 🖤“2019”
What sucks is wanting someone so bad and never being enough. Trying to forget them by putting urself out there only to see no one else wants u either...TIRED! ANGRY! DONE!!!
Toxic relationships + this song = my life story 😆😆😆
haha same here
Judith Rios toxic relationships = equals false love or false relationships....😪😪...ive gone through myself one example of such relationship was with a woman who used attraction lust and money from her side no love and crazy bitch all love from mine from moment i saw her
Judith Rios must be a Virgo.
Judith Rios for real it's got me crying like crazy 😭😭
Relatable as fuck
I have a memory of this song playing while playing the Resident Evil Remake back in the summer of 08. This song will always remind me of the basement lab of the Spencer Estate.
Exactly! I have blamed myself for what I didn’t do! I was always devoted! Now I am done with everything! He can have the social media and what goes with it! He has been there all alone! Enjoy!
Social Media has destroyed my marriage. So many thirsty mother truckers out there.
Right. Its a huge bummer being in a situation where.... you are just trying so, so hard for so, so long... trying to love someone who may not want to be loved back. Or just not from you at least.
I don't understand how something going so smoothly can all of a sudden go to complete $h!7 in literally a second.. and out of nowhere.
After all of that time fighting to be with someone... but then still not having any sort of steady foundation or full on trust to fall back on, sucks.
... Well I guess what the hell is the point (besides learning) of trying so hard for a relathionship that just wasn't meant to be??
...I mean at least there were to a ton of important soul lessons to be learned through all of that tough and roughness that we go through.. right?? 😊
Looking back on a long life and seeing this, feeling this. It's just an ache now. But ya always wonder 'what if'.
Sadly, this describes the rather ugly breakup I went through recently. Like, on the dot scary accurate
Me too haha
Me too...!
Go the other way. The earth is round. You'll find me right all along. Then go right pass me, with your head down. Then do that every next time you meet me, until your head is so low it touches the earth that is welcoming you, then look at that hole and except the mad that you gave me. Then we are done.
2018 An still blastin it. 🖤🔥💯
this song is my life right on point!!!! love it!
I had a bad relationship and it was hard but know I can make it on my own know until I can find someone who can treat me better
Hope you find happiness in love and in life. Just keep your eyes and heart open. 😘
Right on! you got this, know your worth. God Bless
I could listen to this song over and over on repeat all day 😍😭
I love this song
These songs really give you a jolt to the gut when you realize that you were the subject of the lyrics.
-lovely flower full of pain, your colors have ran away and now all you see is gray skies and dullness around but you still see beauty all over the place. you dont need happy colors to survive all you need is a little bit of light -
i don't deserve a friend like you. im sorry, i cant really apologize for being myself the way my brain works is fucked up. sometimes i feel like people are better off without me so i kinda..., ugh is hard to explain i dont really know when you will get to read this maybe in a matter of seconds or maybe it will take even years, that i do not know but eventually you will come across it and you will realize how this makes no sense ... (probably cause im writting with tears in my eyes but thats another story) thank you for being always there when no one was i say this alot but you might not realize how meaningful this is to me. you are my soul sister and im a jerk. you were right about eveything and it hurts, it hurts a little too much and i cry a little before i go to sleep i drown myself in my own thoughts but i brought this to myself isnt that right?
im sorry. i just want to let you know that i truly love you thats why is best to stay away.
hey there• im running for you. im running for me, i wish you were by my side. but that quite imposible am i rigth? arent i a smarty type?
please forgive me for i am a major fuck up.
Gabby Ruiz When you go to sleep tonight, you depend on the sun to rise tomorrow. You depend on the moon to guide your dreams and the stars to grant your wishes. You depend on people to be there and listen to what you have to say.
However, it is when the sun is stuck behind clouds, you begin to feel discouraged. When the moon does not appear in the sky, how do you dream? When you wake up and nothing has changed, do you blame it on the stars?
Sometimes, it's hard to depend on the things that aren't certain. I am sorry if I'm never there or if at times I don't listen. People are filled with so much wonder and that is my argument. I'm so stuck in my own head and, like we've talked about before, I care too much or not at all.
All I can say is that I'm proud of you and everything you are fighting. I'm proud to call you my friend.
I wish that there was more people like you in the world... and maybe they are out there somewhere. Maybe, they are as lost as everyone else? Lets hope that they find their way while we find ours.
xx
*Something else*
All this shit is an illusion, right?
If that is true, how do tell what is reality?
If we are living in an illusion, then this is our reality. I guess we have to make peace with that.
xx
Hey There i will not be in peace until i die. i have heard stories, that you don't start living until you take your final breath and go to the other side. what is real and made up? is heaven for real or is hell where i belong? my nightmares, they haunt me. but is this what i really hide from myself? the things i keep behind my back?
you lie to yourself until you can't take it anymore. your dreams turn into nightmares. is this real or made up? is this an illusion? its all fucked up. i don't wanna close my eyes, when everything goes to blackness i can't control what goes through my mind. helphelphelphelp. can't you hear me? is my voice breaking down struggling to say goobye. i know what will happen if i don't get those words out of my mouth, they will haunt me for the rest of my days. those letters you are afraid to hear are the letters I'm dying to say.
Gabby Ruiz As much as you don't want to hear this, you can't accept help you don't want. You can scream it to the whole world, take a hit and say to yourself, "This helps," but if you have to escape your mind, how is that benefiting you?
Yea, I'm listening. Maybe you should take a step backwards and look around you. Observe, don't obsess. Look at all the things that change in beautiful ways. Take a step back and look up. How long has it been since you looked at the sky? How long has it been since you thought of someone else?
I can't beg you to hear these words and I can't keep repeating them. Whem you take a step forward look how everything changed. How does it look? Is it something you're proud of?
I don't want you to answer these questions because some of them are from the past and the others are in the future. Don't rush, but never slow down.
Illusions and disillusion... what the fuck to they matter? We can't escape; as far as I know, we can't make them. Why care?
I'm done.
xx
Hey There everything looks the same. believe me when i say this i have seen it all before and travel to different places, i see the beauty of the sky and how blue it is, i hear the birds singing their songs crossing around like they are supposed to, everything makes sense and makes no sense at all at the same time. i see the beauty of the world, but i also see sorrow and pain, its all full of colors but my eyes focus on the gray.
i think i fell from the sky, my body feels completely numb. i think i lost myself in your brown huge eyes. with your big eyes and your big lies, i used to think that i could trust you, to my surprise you were fraud, it feels lonely with your goodbye. what have i become? begging for your eyes to meet with mine just so i can know i still cross by your mind. i don't know what goes through your mind, and I'm afraid to the unknown i know i wasn't to you important but for me you were part of my world. why will you love someone like me anyways? nobody likes broken people, nobody likes dealing with with messy messes.
it seems like i was meant to love more than what i will ever be loved for.
meant to be alive.
meant to feel pain but also love.
meant to prove you wrong.
i will not crack
you won't destroy me.
i promise to come back, you will adore me.
don't go...
i don't want to be alone again. I'm used to you leaving but i will never get uses to this sadness that you leave behind.
He never realized I was waiting for him....he never knew. It broke my heart when I saw that he wasn't for me, because I loved him so much. Every time I think of him, I cry. "It's like one step foward and two steps back, no matter what I do, you're always mad." I relate to those lyrics so much, I can't explain it. 😭 I miss him so much.
*It's like trying to turn around on a one-way street* Story of my damn life right there.
Had no idea this song was by this band, this is part of my childhood ! Cool to find out though, there are other songs of theirs I really like so it's cool to see my liking their music goes back that far
March 2019🤘♥️
Gina Marie ♥️🤘🏼
Gina Marie march 29 herr
Hinder brought me here lol
April 8, Shinedown brought me here
I'm sorry, George. Aug. 2019
Was searching for Not Meant For Me by Jonathan Davis and came across this...thanks universe!
still love this song, who else still listening this song.
I got the ad for the QUEEN movie!! Can't wait rip freddie mercury
No matter what i do you're always mad i feel that and when there is anger in a relationship overtime it will ruin it sometimes you gotta let it go and move on and that can be the realist act of love but the most painful doesn't mean that you don't love each other it means you love them to let them live their life 😭💔 even with out you there 😥
Reminds me of a friendship that I broke off last year.. we both had a lot of problems and I wasn't strong enough to help us both... I miss them.