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We know that there are many stereotypes about Asian women. Can you give us the true facts about dating a Chinese woman in China? What are the positives and the negatives?
As A American Male, i see it as insulting our genes and purity of our dna....our culture. But, I understand why people lash out. There are multiple other reasons, I believe that there isnt enough women for men in china, so it takes away possible families for these men. As Americans and western Men flee our countries from our TOXIC Females, we are seeking traditional WOMEN. Not masculine Modern women. Its best to just concentrate on ourselves.... Just a little information from a Man....
I am from the US and I have had 2 long term Chinese girlfriends. Both of them would receive comments from random Chinese men when we would go out. No one would ever say anything to me but she would hear the comments being directed toward her in Chinese all the time. They had even had a few older Chinese men approach them to tell them that what they are doing is not right and that they need to stick to their own kind. I am Mexican American btw.
The Chinese men are angry because you are not cooking delicious Mexican food for your girlfriend. I would be pissed too 🔥😡 Why you no cool delicious Mexican food for you and Chinese people? ❤️😘😘❤️
@@dongshengdi773 Interesting view point. I do not disagree with you. 1- Although I am well aware that there are like 3 Chinese women for every 10 Chinese men. It must be real tough in the mainland, but here in the US especially here in California there are lots of Chinese women here and I learned that as long as your friendly and respectful they are easy to talk to. 2. Umm I dont know about that, It seems like its just as much as any other race but for myself growing up in a primarily Chinese community I wouldn't say there are a abundance of gay Chinese women. 3. I mean... there cant be that many rich peaople in Chinese to take away that many Chinese girls. 4. Ok this one I have heard a lot of so I will take your word for it. 5. You know I am sure this is true to some extent but I have had many Chinese female friends and this has never really been a concern for them. its more of a stereotype. 6. Ya I will agree with you on this, most non asian women are not really into Asian men. But more recently with the rise of Jpop and Kpop more western women are starting to open up to the idea of them. 7.What do you consider a secondhand woman?
@@dongshengdi773 - Leftover women is a real thing in China and other asian countries. I expressed interest in a woman they called leftover and I retorted to them that she was a gem and was a wise woman who would make a good wife... I liked her attitude. Even being a leftover woman they were mad and objected about half breed babies. Racism is MUCH WORSE in asia than in the west. They told me to come and take her away... But I noticed they were trying to convince her after that to choose one of them instead of me. WTF. They were not interested until I was interested.
I’m from Poland and I saw the same type of comments on Polish forums. Some women in Poland feel disgusted about other Polish women in relationships with foreingers. They feel also disgusted about Polish men dating and getting married with Ukrainian women. But the true is that in Polish internet the biggest mysoginist are women. I’m with Vietnamese man born in France. My sister was not happy that he’s Asian just because he’s Asian.
See the same in the US. I speak to educated intelligent American women but when I say I'm thinking of moving to SE Asia because the women there are so great it triggers the American woman into a misogynistic rant. I assume it's their lack of self-confidence. A confident woman would of course have no problem with any American man going to another country to find a partner.
That's why I've said in another comment this isn't just a Chinese thing. This is pretty universal especially the more homogenous the society, I can imagine a black dude getting stares in East Europe when he's dating a white lady. I'm a brown Mexican, I've had dirty looks from white men when I went out to lunch with a blonde lady, and get this....we weren't even dating and she's just a colleague.
@@MrWaterbugdesign I have seen that. it's crazy how these women will then try to so hard to villify the men, saying they are predators only looking for submissive "sex-slaves" and then go on to say how bad asian women are or that asian women want only a greencard and don't love the foreign men they date. it's incredibly funny how western women like to make it seem they are so progressive and tolerant, but as soon as you bruise their ego as women they will turn so quickly on other women and also become really fucking racist as well lmao
I forgot to add: I’m not a big fan of Polish culture. In Poland it is socially accepted that the men do nothing after work, and woman works, clean and takes care of kids. Because of that, I promised myself to be never in relationship with any Polish guy (the culture has big impact in Poland). When I speak on any Polish forums that I’m not going to date ever Polish men, other Polish women are attacking me verbally for my decision. They don’t care that I don’t live in Poland anymore. In option of many people, even if you live in another country, you should be in relationship with a person from the country you were born in.
As the world becomes smaller in terms of our abilities to travel and experience other cultures, I find that humanity itself is a rare commodity. Hate, distrust and racism remain very normal in many countries.
Self-preservation becomes harder. It should be understandable. People like you often mistake benign motives like self-preservation with hate-filled racism. China is filled with men who are going to die alone and will never have the chance to get married and have a family. Try to be more understanding.
Exactly its like everywhere you go, there's always someone miserable. You just gotta look out for them like their out to get you or grape you of your joy in life. The haters can't seem to stay far away. 🙏🏽🤦🏾♂️
Globalized liberalism is bad. You can't expect people a world apart to simply submit to other cultures. For example: People that believe in sharia law are fine as long as they stay in their own country and keep it to themselves. It's a corporate model. They want everyone in the world to be equal consumers on every level. If the liberals and Nato really cared about humanity over profit we would have crushed the CCP long ago. As we speak they have over a million slaves making Amazon basics. It's all controlled by the corrupt greedy corporate masters and their paid for politicians. The WEF, New world order. Figured like Biden and the corrupt nature of globalism needs to be stopped. It's important for all parties involved in a relationship to keep their own identity while accepting others for who they are. As long as tyranny and cruelty are not apart of it. Those types of people simply need to be removed from society. The world would be a much better place if it wasnt based on money and power on an international level. Imagine what it would be like if we could barter resources instead of worrying about making a buck. Every country to help each other grow while remaining independent from one another. Globalism simply gives all the wrong people all the control. Imagine a world where everyone in every country wasn't afraid to fight against this... it would be ugly adlbd terrible at first... The reward when it's over would be worth the price. True freedom for all while eliminating these self proclaimed "leaders." If I was the US president... Prepare for war if you truly want peace. Unfortunately the US government is more corrupt than anyone can imagine. We control the most powerful military in the world. Ofcourse everything had to go through Washington. Washington allows the CCP to do what they want... $$$$$$
Having lived in Japan, I cannot tell you how many times, the ladies I dated were called 'yellow cabs' by Japanese men, right in front of me, because they thought I did not speak Japanese, Living in America and having dated a Black women, I cannot tell you how many times, she was called a wh**e for dating me, also I cannot tell you how many times I was told, by black men to go back to my own race, many times physical threats... This is world wide, from my experience anyway...
In the final analysis, damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead! Each person must do what they feel will bring them true fulfillment and happines, and later for those who are sticking their nose where it doesn’t belong!
Thank you so much for doing this video. It was so well done and you were so well spoken. Racism, colorism and bigotry all of diseases of the narrow minded. As well as a person that believes that others should be just as limited in their thinking as they are. I hope your video reaches the world. Thanks again
Those who hide behind the argument of racism are the actual racists and have entitled minds. These Chinese men do have a genuine concern and you're shaming them because you don't have any respect for the continuity of their people. Millions of men are going to die alone without the chance to ever marry and have kids in the first place. Foreign men pursuing the shallow available women exacerbates the problem, and you're pissing on these men. You're shallow minded.
I am an Indian based in Brunei and my wife is Chinese from Brunei. We have been together for some time yet till date, wherever we go we get stared at and the Chinese dialects go in full swing 🤣😂. My wife ignores it but I can't help but laugh at sheer ignorance of their mindset. 2 consenting adults with each other bound by legal marriage and even in other countries (when we travel), we still get the odd looks. Some Chinese even told my wife prior to us getting married, why are you with this Indian guy and does he smell of Curry Hahaha. My wife told them none of your business and my husband is a neat freak Hahaha 🤣😂. I can understand all the issues that stem from insecurity! Great video 👍
What's the problem with curry and why do people use that as an insult towards Indians?🤷🏽♂️ I love curry that shits great!! Ya'll Indians should really embrace those types of "insults".
@@umbrellacorporationwuhanfa3731 I think basically I don't care but some do since I can laugh at myself and make fun of myself and others with equal ease 😂
I can see that many Indian men see snagging a Chinese wife to be some sort of snagging a trophy. There are so many unmarried young Indian women around.
It’s the other way around for me mostly. My wife is German/Dutch ancestry while I’m pure Southern Chinese. She had to put up with a lot of crappy comments from almost half of my relatives, unexpectedly it was mostly the younger relatives not the older ones or elders. Most surprisingly is some of the elders who are the patriarch or matriarch of their side of the family tree are the ones scolding the youngers whenever they hear someone made those comments. Luckily we haven’t had to deal with random guy on the street on this matter but I know it happens
@@dominicjohnson310 TBH so many possible reasons I can't even begin to guess, could possibly be some of the reasons or all of the reasons in various combination. Though conventional wisdom would dictate that the younger ones would be the more open-minded ones, guess not all stereotypes hold true. Simplest answer would be your good ole racism but I think its more nuanced than that. Could be I'm perceived as a traitor to my kind for marrying what is perceived as a colonial imperialist, there is still much resentment on the centuries of exploitation but only recently where the middle class in Asia is growing by leaps and bounds that this resentment is fast coming to the surface. The concept of "pure bloodlines" is still very much ingrained in most Asian cultures today so I'm basically screwing with that, could be another reason. Etc etc etc etc. We're at a point where we just smile, ignore, move on. Much happier life without letting others butt into our life choices. etc. etc. etc.
@@WarrenKLiu I just think it’s crazy it’s only the young ones. Maybe they feel like you aren’t contributing to a strong China 🇨🇳 by diluting the bloodline.
@@dominicjohnson310 I'm not in China but I am of Chinese ancestry but yes its possibly rooted in the Chinese culture itself since its has quite a lot of xenophobic elements for better or worse. But this "pure" bloodline concept isn't unique to the Chinese or other Asian cultures. Yes I was actually quite surprised how well the elders accepted my wife. I was dreading that first meet almost 10 years ago and it turned out so well I was ignored for the whole time. It was only when my peers and youngers started meeting her at gatherings that this crap started.
I am a Black man who has dated women of many ethnicities and nationalities. This type of behavior, unfortunately, is common amongst all men of every race and nationality. And yes, this includes black men as well. In my opinion, the reason is usually because those men ultimately see this as a rejection of themselves and they do not know how to deal with it. Great video. I am sorry for anyone who has to go through this because you choose to date someone that doesn't quite look like you.
Sports Picks 49er I know about passport bros. Hell, I have my passport. This comment doesn't disprove my statement tho, but rather supports it. Some of the stories from passport bros talk about how some of the local men aren't exactly pleased to see us scooping up there women. One guy talked about how he was in Poland and some dude stopped him and asked why the hell was he with that Polish woman. I believe they refer to this as "Dick Policing" lol
@@Poshkin It's all good, because they know we're a threat. Black men generally don't care. We just do our thing. The most persecuted people on the planet and yet we still make other men shiver. 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
As an Indonesian-Chinese I learnt a lot about China and the culture there from this video (although maybe that wasn't the initial intention). Thank you, keep up the good work :)
To answer your question I'm Australian and married to Filipina and have never been attacked by Filipino's. In fact I have many Filipino friends here in Australia and in Philippines.
Possibly due to the huge Filipino diaspora living and working all over the world, Filipino culture has become outwardly accepting as opposed to inward looking and xenophobic.
Awesome video Jo! This was a great analysis on a lot of the problems regarding Chinese masculinity and echos a lot of my own personal experiences as well.
Due to the gender imbalance in China, Chinese women have the advantage in selecting a partner. Those women who are not happy with a misogynistic male-orientated culture, obsessed with continuing the male line, are choosing foreigners because maybe they feel more respected and valued. Rather than insulting these women, perhaps the people who post such hate-filled comments should turn the mirror on, not just themselves, but the culture that breeds such hatred.
That women in China are called "left over women" when they have reached the age of 27 or 28 and are not married, says a lot about the misogynistic male-orientated culture in China. But on the other hand the Chinese government is pushing women to study and so that they can have a successful career. I also know a chinese girl which is currently studying in Japan and she said to me that she never ever will date a Chinese man again, cause her last 2 BFs were really disgusting to her and didnt treat her very well. So I'm not surpised that Chinese women are searching for men outside of their culture which will respect and treat them well.
@@agentorange1291the foreign men they go after are members of the most misogynistic race on the planet. So, miss us with that “Asian patriarchy” bullshit 💯!
My wife is originally from China we have been married 31 years with two sons. She has received similar comments when we lived in Shanghai. Usually from trolls that would say something and run away.
You're awesome. I really enjoyed this video. Fact is, this is a problem that will never go away. Folks can only be strong in their love. Ignore the ignorant people around you and embrace your love. Life is too fragile and short to care anymore about the thoughts and aggression of bigots. Thanks again for your videos.
Where I live, men are heavily critiqued for not dating western women, white women with black men, its amazing the shear ignorance, too many are wrapped up in stereotypes and the such, which denies the chance for people to experience the joy of the love of a family, keep up the awesomeness mate, #KeepUpTheAwesomeness ❤️🦄❤️
I had a Chinese girlfriend from Shenzehn, she was a business lady who owned several noodle bars...She told me how Chinese men are jealous because she was together with a foreigner and also a Jamaican at that. I didn´t feel in any way that I was discriminated against...but ok I was there just a short while....lately foreigners have been getting lots of verbal abuses from many Chinese men...I´m happy I left China never to return. I take my hat off for my girlfriend who stayed with me and ignored all the verbal abuses.
Thank you Jo Moon!!! 🙏 New subscriber 🌝 Very interesting video... Im definitely infatuated with knowing more about Chinese ladies. Personally I think they are very beautiful women.. I do know some Black men that love Asian women.. I will follow your journey with interest... 😇
Thank you for starting your channel! I am a black man from the United States, who is interested in traveling to the orient to find love. It is quite refreshing to hear your viewpoint, and I look forward to hearing more comments on relevant issues from you in the future! By the way, what city in China are you in?
as a black living in China (Shanghai) since 5 years ago, I wouldn't advise you to waste your time coming here to find a woman.The society is still way behind in terms of mentalities
Well depending on your age . And if you are not very black . I live in China. There are many issues but if u got money u can get a girl easy and if you look nice. This is if you are in your 20s . My generation tends to love black people much more. People thing it's hard to marry but that true for Chinese men too.
But China is in no way about love. Neither non Chinese or Chinese most people don't believe in fantasy like that .social pressures make people lost in China .u will hurt yourself if u look for authenticity. Mental illness is so bad in China.. best bet is university students
As a Canadian I've dated multiculturally and multiracially. I've experienced this from many races and cultures. It's even more prevalent and extreme when it comes to dating outside of a religion. It's racism, pure and simple.
Very informal video and receipts to validate each claim. Oftentimes ppl are simply expressing their innate insecurities or lack of understanding for other cultures because they have become so accountable to living inside a vacuum all their lives.
Chinese women are more educated and have more economic independence these days. I have heard in the past from older American male colleagues here in China that they aren’t so popular as before, and in-shape younger guys are preferred. I suppose it narks Chinese men that Chinese girls have more options these days, and as you said in an earlier video, there are less women to go around.
There will always be some differences within every coomunity, i am older now but my Parents told me amd my siblings that whomever they brought home they would love them as well... I think its very small minded to control someones life narratives in life and love
It’s easier if you are white (some have inferiority complex). But either way people will talk about you subtly, if not directly. HK is also a bit more progressive than China.
Love the video! I myself have had a pretty great experience up to this current day with my interracial marriage of 20 yrs, we met in Hong Kong while she was in medical school, back in 2001, I myself being a Black American &, she being Chinese from a very, very very traditional family. However I was actually super surprised that her parents, siblings as well as her grandparents, even her distant relatives family from other parts of mainland china excepted me without any issues, (NONE) they only said if she's happy and she's well taken care of then we are happy as well. They love me and our kids unconditionally. I'm guessing I'm one of the lucky ones!
Well most western men find Asian women very attractive, however the same cannot be said about the opposite Western women don't find Asian men as appealing.
1:35 in the U.S. you'll see a lot of women saying insults to this extreme towards men leaving the country to find relationships with someone from other nations. Physical violence against men can occur for this as well, but violence against men has become commonplace in Western countries in general, even over trivial things such as a man sitting down with his legs spread too far apart because he has testicles.
@mikeyg2178: There is plenty of misogony in the west and men still run things including incompetents like Trump and Biden and worse..A lot of men miss the dictatorship their granddads exercised over women.
Yeah this happens all over the world. I'm just not sure if it's to this extreme. I'm an Asian minority and within my community this dose happen but not as often as it did back in the late 80s or 90s.
I'm a white male. My father told me that he would rather me be unhappy with a white woman than blissfully happy with another race. I'll happily disappoint him if I can find another woman to date.
Yes it happens in other countries as well. Many "women" behave in the same way when they think "their men" date from outside of their culture. I guess some men (and some women) think that "their men" belong to THEM like some sort of possession. Thank you for your message.
I am an American white male. There is diversity in marriage in USA. Not so much when I was a child as it was a very racial tension time (especially between white and black people). I am older now yet I have to be honest. I have all my life desired to be married to a Chinese lady as they are beautiful, seem really educated and more. I know there is a issue when it comes to language. By the way I must say, I feel you speak very well English, and frankly speak better than many Americans. 👍👍🙂. Yet in my mind or my way of thinking, Chinese ladies DO NOT like American white males unless they are very rich. So sad, but money does not make one so happy. Yes money is very important for daily life, but money has wings and flies away rapidly. Where as truly happiness, honor, respect and faithfulness is more important as long as one has the financial stability. Thank you for you honest, outright knowledge and teaching us about your culture. To end, I still dream of finding a Chinese lady even if only in my dreams.
I am canadian white caucasian and when i was going out for shopping or doing activities with my Chinese girlfriend last summer older people looked at us as like WTF sometimes(not all the times) and i didn't bother what they were thinking, i was so happy and proud to be with her. When i presented my chinese girlfriend to my mom, my girlfriend was very impressed that i present her so early. 😂She's from Beijing and she likes Canada very much.Now she wants to come and live with me forever.
Hello really good views keep up the good work 👍 life is ever changeing mixed marrages are more normal now adays it all comes back to the character of the person and sometimes it's there life situations 🙏
Jo Moon, thank you for this video. What you said at the end, beginning at 14:05 shows you have much wisdom. Concentrate on things you enjoy doing and stop being obsessed about dating and relationships. There are other things in life.
Im from america and black and it happens here to amonst my people to. It's weird but its all insecurity an the part of the person complaining. Like they worry that seeing you do that means your making a statement about them. lol its ridiculous.
@audiohourtapes7632: There is nothing weird about it to those who were born at the tail end of jim crow who saw the white community (and others) at their worse...That wasn't a trillion years ago, and the race war never ended in spite of lots of propaganda to the contrary. The weird thing is people rejecting "their people" in favor of the group which has harmed them and their families, and repeating their anti-black racist talking points and demanding respect while doing so.
If you think this only happens to Chinese women from Chinese men and this doesn't happen in other races, you are kidding yourself. As a brown Mexican I've had dirty looks from white men in the USA when I was having lunch with a blonde woman and get this, we were not even dating, we were just colleagues lol.
I worked for 1O years in China. I also worked in Cambodia. My current fiancee is from Philippines. East asian women are wonderful. In PRC the American women used to hate the locals. they couldn't compete.
Yes, this happens in other places to. I am from the Netherlands. We are a diverse multi cultural country. There are a lot of native man that like to shame woman for dating immigrants and coloured people.
I was explaining this to my date the other day, I said that it was probably because that Chinese men think that all Chinese women are their properties and that by dating a foreigner, these women wouldn't choose one of them... Thanks for making the video, very spot on and I think I will send this to him :)
There are many men in China who will never have a chance to find a wife, so I'm sure it makes them angry when they see a Chinese woman who has decided NOT to marry a Chinese man. The words that spill out are just some attempt to justify their anger.
Alright calm down. Most of China is pretty homogenous and there are still millions of Chinese couples. I don’t get it. Why are there so many Mgtow white men on the internet being extremely racist towards asian men and fetishizing asian women? The sense of superiority men feel when it comes to degrading other men just for pussy is pathetic. I am asian American with a white step dad and he is the nicest person I know who loves my mom for who she is, not because she is an asian woman or Taiwanese woman. He also respects me and my heritage instead of saying shitty stuff like this. You all deserve nobody if you have to degrade any race of men as being inferior while fantasizing about women you will never attract. Go fuck yourself. My white male friends irl are the coolest people though.
Tbh I think her view and media are oversensationalised, are there Chinese men that are angry when Chinese women date foreigners? Yes. Is it a widespread issue? Not really no, at least most people in HK and major Chinese cities don't really care. The same can be said, are there white men who are angry when they see a white woman dating a black guy or Asian guy? I'm sure there are.
Wow! Ms. Moon, You present such a deep, and thoughtful exploration of this touchy subject. You ask why they feel this way... unfortunately as a foreign Devil, it's impossible for me to understand the thoughts of the Chines guys. I try to assume it's just a matter of education and sociatial impacts. In general, people haven't had the opportunity to travel and expeience other cultures. They are only allowed what's presented to them. It's natural that they (and I) form biases based on these observed experiances. I feel they are correct based on the experiances they have seen but deprived of the bigger picture. As a westerner who's married to a Chinese, I need to keep this in mind; My wife is correct from her perspective. And in fact, when traveling in China I keep in mind that when people say disparaging things about me - it's correct from their point of view and what they have learned. Here, in California, with a very large number of Chinese - it's less frequent (even rare) to hear disparaging comments. Thanks for posting - thought provoking!
I live in Austria. I had a 4yrs realtionship with a woman who has taiwanese roots. (we broke up recently) She herself was born in Austria, her parents immigrated decades ago. I have never experienced something like that with her. Funny thing: I never really noticed that we were of different ethnicity, this is something only everybody else around us noticed... (We often heard bad jokes referring to Hangover 2 from people around us, like if I was Stu for her parents,..."Stu is Chok. Chok is Soft white rice in lukewarm water" :D)
Thank you for your bravery.. it's very very difficult to do things like this because everybody is looking to form groups and ruin the lives of those who even speak the truth publicly.. and that's not even mentioning those who publicly have black male friends.. even worse when people discover you want to enter a relationship with one of us.. we know this so we value any nearly woman of any background that shows a romantic interest and staying in a relationship with a black male.. the world knows we as black males will accept whomever wants to be with us.. and we value her bravery.. it's so important to us..
Especially if you're dating white or latin women. I could only imagine how enraged their dads and brothers get when they hear their daughter is dating a black guy. It's pathetic honestly. But I can't help but respect those girls for breaking away from that indoctrination/racism.
While I do feel that I understand where the tribalism comes from, it doesn’t have to be that way. I’ve been married to an Asian wife for 30 years and we haven’t experienced any problems with attitudes in my area of the US. It’s very educated and somewhat diverse in my area and there isn’t social problems, crime or poverty, to speak of. Mixed couples are so prevalent that nobody thinks of them as mixed. That’s my feeling but I can’t read everyone’s mind. Every place is different. The easy way to assess the place is if different races are randomly intermixed in public places like malls. If you see that, you’re in a healthy place and are going to have a lot more fun with culture in those places. If you’re in a nasty place, just explore and vote with your feet by moving the best place that embraces and appreciates culture.
Hello Jo, I'm a male who was born and raised in all white (European) suburbia New Orleans, LA. USA and now 66 yrs. Even after Civil Rights was passed in early 1960's, a black and white couple were considered low class and basically spit on so to speak even by some blacks especially in the south. I think since about the mid 80's, more people were accepting black/white couples but I don't think it will ever go away completely. Asian's and whites dating were socially accepted as I remember. I started into the work force in high school by working at a Chinese restaurant and I found the Chinese very good to work for and love their food. There was an older Chinese girl who worked there who was beautiful named Coy as a waitress but I'm sure she was considerably older and had no interest in me and it was all business when we worked. Of course if she had made it obvious to me I would have responded that I would have liked to date her. As I got older I saw another attractive Asian girl frequently at clubs always by herself but would she never respond to my advances yet I never saw her with another guy. I considered myself at least somewhat attractive because I rarely got rejected and even had come on's by many girls. I even dated a beautiful natural blonde haired blue eyed Colombian girl new to the US. So I resolved that the Asian club girl was either race specific or a lesbian. What do you think Jo?
I’m a Chinese born woman who moved abroad when I was very young. I found that in my parent’s generation, marrying a foreign white man was the pinnacle of success for a Chinese woman. I didn’t realize it’s flipped now?
Here in Mexico, woman in big cities are contaminated with a lot of the western thinking, is so hard to find a woman that is worth your time. If you go to small towns is a bit different, you may find better kind of people, but in my case I seek for something more. I am attracted to asian woman specially, because you are very intelligent, hard working and beautiful, so in the near future I plan to move to an Asian destination in order to find an Asian woman to share my life with. About people going out with foreigners, I don't feel anybody will judge you because of dating one.
I think due to the one child policy the Chinese population has more men than women ( I believe over 300 million more men than women) which is almost the same as the entire US population. Because of this side effect, there is a phenomenon happening in which woman have a lot more options to marry and millions of men are left alone in the uneven and very competitive sexual marketplace. I think it especially angers Chinese men when they can’t find a mate and they see some of their options choose to go with a foreigner. The same situation is playing out in the USA with African American women who are the least likely to marry and their most compatible options (African American men) are beginning to look elsewhere for wives especially in Southeast Asia and Latin America (look up the term passport bros). African American females seem to have the exact same response to this new trend by mocking and demeaning the men who choose to look for different partners. In the end the Chinese men only have to blame their fathers and grandfathers for not having the balls to stand up to that evil government that caused this situation. Maybe they’ll stand up now and give their future generations a better life.
I don’t think that’s what aa women are making fun of, maybe not my place cause I’m Japanese but everytime i see the passport bros on my feed on Instagram or tiktok they are dissing aa women saying they are all whores and sluts and u needa leave the U.S. to find a wife and just disrespecting them and play innocent when they r offended i as a Japanese man love black women but i don’t usually pull any cause they don’t really date outside their race as much as other women like white women usually white girls only like Asian guys if u like look a korean popstar or anime character tho🤷🏻♂️
Could Chinese men reactions be the consequency of one-child policies in some way ? I read an article a few years ago about male/female rate in China (the article was about Sichuan, but since Sichuan is the most populated region of China, it was quite meaningful). Due to one child policy and girl infanticide issue, the ratio was 117 men for 100 women at this time, so that, besides all the other demographic problems caused, about 20% of these men won't be technically in situation to marry themselves. If I was in this case, I surely would find mixed mariages somehow a kind of waste and insult. 但是这只是我的意见。
Hi, nice to meet you. You my friend are very smart and have a good outlook. 1, you have high toned people who understand aspects of life and grant beingnesss to others. 2, you have the middle range people. They are good people and just want their family to survive the best they can. 3, you have the low toned people, the negative ones. it's best to stay away from them as they are blind to life and will always belittle one no matter what you do.
Those keyboard warriors are really scary. I've seen cases where people have shared private messages or just said things about people on social media platforms to get them in trouble. Stuff like this should not be allowed. It can ruin people's lives.
I have noticed this treatment over the past 20 years. While living in China I met some truly lovely women who are wholesome and intelligent. What about men who date foreign women?
I Live in California, which is a socially progressive state in the U.S. Prejudice exists everywhere, although I have never seen overt prejudice on a social platform like what you presented. Interracial relationships have become commonplace anymore. The vast majority of people here, really don’t care. Prejudice usually occurs privately, in the homes of first generation American immigrants or those people who are intolerant, racists. In situation where people are immigrants, usually the son or daughter will either date who they want or must wait to date until they are out of their parents home. It is unfortunate , because the heart, and eyes of our young people fall in Love without consideration of race, ethnic group or religion. It’s sad to see the comments made against Chinese Women who date non-Chinese men. As the World continues to open , hopefully, these people will realize we have more in common than our differences.
I am an American and I used live in Mexico. While there, I dated many Mexican ladies. One day a female friend and I were walking around the town square. She decided to grab my hand as if we were a couple. I did not mind at all, but as soon as we passed some guy sitting on a bench, I could here him yelling in Spanish about me for being with a Mexican. At first, my friend didn't realize the guy was yell at me. As she turned around to see the guy, the guy as going crazy. I explained what was made at and why. I then asked my friend if she wanted to really make the guy crazy? She said yes and I said kiss as if we were dating. She planted a massive kiss on my lips and kissed for about a minute. After the kiss, I looked over at the guy and smiled. My lips were covered in lipstick and the was loosing his mind. My friend died laughing in my arms. And we walked away happy. Many Mexican men would say in Spanish some horrible things my Mexican dates and they would insult me as well. Most of these guys would be shocked when I answered back in fluent Mexican Spanish without any hint of a Gringo accent. They would run off after being found out.
I strongly support anyone who has an mixed race relationship marriage or family, I'm proud you're breaking the cycle of racism, I support all my Chinese brothers and sisters, stand strong against the CCP
While there are always some haters everywhere in the world, around me interracial relationships are common. Haters gonna hate. Lovers gonna love. You can't worry about them.
Not sure if you are aware of this but our senate in the USA had to just pass a bill to protect marriage between same sex, AND interracial marriages. This means that before now it was not just, your country that was not ok with diff nationalities to marry. It wasn't a problem before, but our supreme court was talking about making same sex and interracial marriages illegal. Something weird is going on, and I don't know why people think it matters who someone ELSE is with...
First off my chest is your English delivery is superb. Learning about Asian culture is a process that continues to intrigue me. American culture has changed in the past few decades and dating life exponentially so. I am 57 never married and never started a family illegitimate. Hope to hear (and see you) in more videos.
Am black Norwegian and live in The Philippines. Chinese ladies are most elegant and beautiful 🤩 Anyway, girls in Norway, dont usually like Norwegian men date Asian ,African or South Americans . Also here in The Philippines, many local men, dont like Filipina girls date foreigners, unless if she is poor. Thats why most foreigners here, find poor Filipina . I personally dont understand the problem and i dont care who others date .
yeah, I heard about that. scandinavian countries actually have a epidemic of swedisch, norwegian and danish men apparently dating and marrying thai women and I think even the swedish (correction: denmark) government tried to convince danish men to marry danish women lmao edit: another correction, I think it's actually both danish and swedish governments asking their men to marry their women lmao
I'm from the very group of men that Asian women seem to love the most:- the white male with Aspergers. Having said that, I don't generally find Asian women as attractive as other races. I love European and African/African American due to their curves and more varied personality types. The media and advertising industry appears to have an agenda of promoting mixed Asian/white pairings in ads for everything from cars to washing powder, and it's really annoying. I'm sure it bothers Asian men, and it bothers me! We shouldn't be told who is trendy to marry or reject. These mixed pairings often occur in the West (with exceptions). So you have a dynamic whereby the whites are being mixed out everywhere they exist, but not the Asians in Asia due to their far more monogamous demographics. My belief is that Asian men need their women, and we should not be taking them. We got to start learning how to have relations and commitment with our own women again, something many have lost the ability to do.
Do other countries give a hard time to people in their country dating foreigners.... Yes. Here's a good example; feminists in Switzerland actually had that issue A lot of the men in their country were leaving due to Western ideologies, and it high risk of divorce, And so they ended up marrying Filipinos and people around Asia and women in Southeast Europe because of their traditional values. That brought a lot of hate and they attempted to pass a law about it but that failed.
There is another channel, and when guys were askd (small sample size but okay) about dating a foreign woman, more than expected asnwered about "the size issue". It was funny but also sad. So when you get a comment, just answer about the horse like laowhy.
Personally, I could care less what anyone thinks as to whom I date, but I think this is fairly common across all groups to behave in the manner as you're explaining. They'll have their way of reacting to interacial dating in various degrees.
Americans as a whole don’t care what race dates or marries what race. Yes there are some who sound like the Chinese men you mentioned but mostly we are a very diversified nation. I have dated Chinese ,Philippine and Native American women and have loved each one of them. I have quite a few friends who are married to Ladies from different races and they are all great.
Bullshit. Look at the hell, black women raise, seeing a black man with a non black women. It used to just be white guys speaking negative about it in the media. Now, it is black women. American is far from as accepting ass it pretends to be
Hi Jo.. I,m 68 and am married to a Chinese lady. We have been married 10 yrs.. When we married we went to visit her Farther..he was very upset she married a foreigner.. Perhaps it was because I did not give him any money..All her family where against the wedding and none came... And it is not as if my wife was a young bride,,she was in mid forties.. Me and my wife visited people in her village and I never thought there was any issues ,,all treated me perfectly with both grace and charm,even her aged aunt was very nice to me ,,but her family well that was a different matter... Now years have gone by and we are all speaking ...I have met her son with no issues and we are going back to China this year.Hopefully all is forgotten...
true black men are trying to figure out why black women say we are traitors to the black race if we date outside the race. Treated like we are property. Martin Luther king’s dream was for this to happen 💯
The is simple actually, due to the one child policy in China for decade more boys were born than girls because of that there is about 3 times for Chinese men than women, so they have a lot of what they call “bare branches” men that will never get married so the Chinese men don’t like the few women that they do have dating or getting married to someone outside there race/nationality, especially if that race is black.
its like everywhere you go, there's always someone miserable. You just gotta look out for them like their out to get you or grape you of your joy in life. The haters can't seem to stay far away. 🙏🏽🤦🏾♂️
I’m glad my wife could care less about what other people think. I see so many Americans with Chinese wives, especially in Chinatown. We once walked into a Korean barbecue restaurant and saw that every Asian woman was with an American husband! Lastly, Chinese women are not easy. The phrase she changed to “Good Chinese women are not difficult to get along with.. They don’t have the drama and bad attitudes many western women have. They are usually Fit, Feminine, Friendly, and Cooperative. They focus on family, not just themselves. They also look for men who are established and have good values. A good person finding love, what kind of person would not want that?
I'm a Chinese man and let me make things clear. I don't hate the Chinese women who date foreigners, if they really love one another I would congratulate them whole-heartedly. But the thing is I dislike certain Chinese women who constantly belittle Chinese men in front of foreigners. TBH this behavior isn't unique among Chinese women I've also seen some Chinese men who belittle Chinese women in front of foreigners. Both types are bad. Yes you can date foreigners, but there's no need to despise or belittle fellow brothers and sisters.
@weifan9533: Thanks for being honest. Almost everyone on this thread is dancing around the unjust racial hierarchy that drives the world: white on top, black on the bottom and everyone else somewhere in between which drives a lot of these relationships and peoples responses to them. It is stupid not to expect nations with long histories of racial injustice and ongoing tensions like the US and other places in the Americas and elsewhere NOT to be troubled by interracial relationships. Especially when many of those involved in them take some perverse pride in denigrating and rejecting "their people" while embracing outsiders with histories of animosity towards their families.
I’m not sure what’s going on there but me as an American I would love to date a Chinese woman but to be honest I would not move to China, I would like her to move here. Here she has rights choose her education can choose any career she wants and have a good life. I am 5’9” tall 62 years old Caucasian/white Average looking and available for a relationship. I know it has nothing to do with your subject but I thought I’d put myself out there. I have noticed in multiple countries though where the men did not like the women dating outside of their country. Philippines is one good example. It was nice running across you on TH-cam. If I like what I see I’ll start following thanks for your story. I just can’t shut up; I was just watching how popular are foreigners in China and you mention a lot of Chinese women are trying to avoid being tan. Tan is very nice and I don’t care if a woman is white or tan or black I’m universal it’s the woman that counts not the color of her skin it’s what’s inside the head and the body and the heart.
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Isn't it hard because male population outnumbers women population?
We know that there are many stereotypes about Asian women. Can you give us the true facts about dating a Chinese woman in China? What are the positives and the negatives?
Its contaminated not cum-taminted
There is the one man policy that created a surplus of men in the country.
As A American Male, i see it as insulting our genes and purity of our dna....our culture. But, I understand why people lash out. There are multiple other reasons, I believe that there isnt enough women for men in china, so it takes away possible families for these men.
As Americans and western Men flee our countries from our TOXIC Females, we are seeking traditional WOMEN. Not masculine Modern women. Its best to just concentrate on ourselves....
Just a little information from a Man....
I am from the US and I have had 2 long term Chinese girlfriends. Both of them would receive comments from random Chinese men when we would go out. No one would ever say anything to me but she would hear the comments being directed toward her in Chinese all the time. They had even had a few older Chinese men approach them to tell them that what they are doing is not right and that they need to stick to their own kind. I am Mexican American btw.
The Chinese men are angry because you are not cooking delicious Mexican food for your girlfriend.
I would be pissed too 🔥😡
Why you no cool delicious Mexican food for you and Chinese people? ❤️😘😘❤️
How can i get my gf to let me have another one
@@zame2050 another what?
@@dongshengdi773 Interesting view point. I do not disagree with you.
1- Although I am well aware that there are like 3 Chinese women for every 10 Chinese men. It must be real tough in the mainland, but here in the US especially here in California there are lots of Chinese women here and I learned that as long as your friendly and respectful they are easy to talk to.
2. Umm I dont know about that, It seems like its just as much as any other race but for myself growing up in a primarily Chinese community I wouldn't say there are a abundance of gay Chinese women.
3. I mean... there cant be that many rich peaople in Chinese to take away that many Chinese girls.
4. Ok this one I have heard a lot of so I will take your word for it.
5. You know I am sure this is true to some extent but I have had many Chinese female friends and this has never really been a concern for them. its more of a stereotype.
6. Ya I will agree with you on this, most non asian women are not really into Asian men. But more recently with the rise of Jpop and Kpop more western women are starting to open up to the idea of them.
7.What do you consider a secondhand woman?
@@dongshengdi773 - Leftover women is a real thing in China and other asian countries. I expressed interest in a woman they called leftover and I retorted to them that she was a gem and was a wise woman who would make a good wife... I liked her attitude. Even being a leftover woman they were mad and objected about half breed babies. Racism is MUCH WORSE in asia than in the west. They told me to come and take her away... But I noticed they were trying to convince her after that to choose one of them instead of me. WTF. They were not interested until I was interested.
I’m from Poland and I saw the same type of comments on Polish forums. Some women in Poland feel disgusted about other Polish women in relationships with foreingers. They feel also disgusted about Polish men dating and getting married with Ukrainian women. But the true is that in Polish internet the biggest mysoginist are women. I’m with Vietnamese man born in France. My sister was not happy that he’s Asian just because he’s Asian.
See the same in the US. I speak to educated intelligent American women but when I say I'm thinking of moving to SE Asia because the women there are so great it triggers the American woman into a misogynistic rant. I assume it's their lack of self-confidence. A confident woman would of course have no problem with any American man going to another country to find a partner.
Vietnamese?? Do your parents know?? 😃😃😃😃
That's why I've said in another comment this isn't just a Chinese thing. This is pretty universal especially the more homogenous the society, I can imagine a black dude getting stares in East Europe when he's dating a white lady. I'm a brown Mexican, I've had dirty looks from white men when I went out to lunch with a blonde lady, and get this....we weren't even dating and she's just a colleague.
@@MrWaterbugdesign I have seen that. it's crazy how these women will then try to so hard to villify the men, saying they are predators only looking for submissive "sex-slaves" and then go on to say how bad asian women are or that asian women want only a greencard and don't love the foreign men they date.
it's incredibly funny how western women like to make it seem they are so progressive and tolerant, but as soon as you bruise their ego as women they will turn so quickly on other women and also become really fucking racist as well lmao
I forgot to add: I’m not a big fan of Polish culture. In Poland it is socially accepted that the men do nothing after work, and woman works, clean and takes care of kids. Because of that, I promised myself to be never in relationship with any Polish guy (the culture has big impact in Poland). When I speak on any Polish forums that I’m not going to date ever Polish men, other Polish women are attacking me verbally for my decision. They don’t care that I don’t live in Poland anymore. In option of many people, even if you live in another country, you should be in relationship with a person from the country you were born in.
As the world becomes smaller in terms of our abilities to travel and experience other cultures, I find that humanity itself is a rare commodity. Hate, distrust and racism remain very normal in many countries.
Self-preservation becomes harder. It should be understandable. People like you often mistake benign motives like self-preservation with hate-filled racism.
China is filled with men who are going to die alone and will never have the chance to get married and have a family. Try to be more understanding.
Racism = insecurity
Exactly its like everywhere you go, there's always someone miserable. You just gotta look out for them like their out to get you or grape you of your joy in life. The haters can't seem to stay far away. 🙏🏽🤦🏾♂️
@@BIGALEX_DRDOOM Do you enjoy pissing on other people where they live and calling them haters when they tell you to stop?
Globalized liberalism is bad. You can't expect people a world apart to simply submit to other cultures. For example: People that believe in sharia law are fine as long as they stay in their own country and keep it to themselves.
It's a corporate model. They want everyone in the world to be equal consumers on every level. If the liberals and Nato really cared about humanity over profit we would have crushed the CCP long ago.
As we speak they have over a million slaves making Amazon basics. It's all controlled by the corrupt greedy corporate masters and their paid for politicians.
The WEF, New world order. Figured like Biden and the corrupt nature of globalism needs to be stopped.
It's important for all parties involved in a relationship to keep their own identity while accepting others for who they are. As long as tyranny and cruelty are not apart of it. Those types of people simply need to be removed from society.
The world would be a much better place if it wasnt based on money and power on an international level. Imagine what it would be like if we could barter resources instead of worrying about making a buck. Every country to help each other grow while remaining independent from one another.
Globalism simply gives all the wrong people all the control. Imagine a world where everyone in every country wasn't afraid to fight against this... it would be ugly adlbd terrible at first... The reward when it's over would be worth the price. True freedom for all while eliminating these self proclaimed "leaders."
If I was the US president... Prepare for war if you truly want peace. Unfortunately the US government is more corrupt than anyone can imagine. We control the most powerful military in the world. Ofcourse everything had to go through Washington.
Washington allows the CCP to do what they want... $$$$$$
Having lived in Japan, I cannot tell you how many times, the ladies I dated were called 'yellow cabs' by Japanese men, right in front of me, because they thought I did not speak Japanese, Living in America and having dated a Black women, I cannot tell you how many times, she was called a wh**e for dating me, also I cannot tell you how many times I was told, by black men to go back to my own race, many times physical threats... This is world wide, from my experience anyway...
Ignorant people everywhere
Never knew brothers getting upset about our sisters dating other races of men, while some brothers are dipping into the interracial pool themselves
Dude... you are all over the place.
Are you a black helicopter or do you identify as something else
In the final analysis, damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead!
Each person must do what they feel will bring them true fulfillment and happines, and later for those who are sticking their nose where it doesn’t belong!
But, I thought only white people were racist...
Thank you so much for doing this video. It was so well done and you were so well spoken. Racism, colorism and bigotry all of diseases of the narrow minded. As well as a person that believes that others should be just as limited in their thinking as they are. I hope your video reaches the world. Thanks again
Those who hide behind the argument of racism are the actual racists and have entitled minds. These Chinese men do have a genuine concern and you're shaming them because you don't have any respect for the continuity of their people. Millions of men are going to die alone without the chance to ever marry and have kids in the first place. Foreign men pursuing the shallow available women exacerbates the problem, and you're pissing on these men. You're shallow minded.
I am an Indian based in Brunei and my wife is Chinese from Brunei. We have been together for some time yet till date, wherever we go we get stared at and the Chinese dialects go in full swing 🤣😂. My wife ignores it but I can't help but laugh at sheer ignorance of their mindset. 2 consenting adults with each other bound by legal marriage and even in other countries (when we travel), we still get the odd looks.
Some Chinese even told my wife prior to us getting married, why are you with this Indian guy and does he smell of Curry Hahaha. My wife told them none of your business and my husband is a neat freak Hahaha 🤣😂.
I can understand all the issues that stem from insecurity! Great video 👍
What's the problem with curry and why do people use that as an insult towards Indians?🤷🏽♂️
I love curry that shits great!!
Ya'll Indians should really embrace those types of "insults".
@@umbrellacorporationwuhanfa3731 I think basically I don't care but some do since I can laugh at myself and make fun of myself and others with equal ease 😂
I can see that many Indian men see snagging a Chinese wife to be some sort of snagging a trophy. There are so many unmarried young Indian women around.
It’s the other way around for me mostly. My wife is German/Dutch ancestry while I’m pure Southern Chinese. She had to put up with a lot of crappy comments from almost half of my relatives, unexpectedly it was mostly the younger relatives not the older ones or elders. Most surprisingly is some of the elders who are the patriarch or matriarch of their side of the family tree are the ones scolding the youngers whenever they hear someone made those comments. Luckily we haven’t had to deal with random guy on the street on this matter but I know it happens
Why do you think the young ones had a problem and not the older?
@@dominicjohnson310 TBH so many possible reasons I can't even begin to guess, could possibly be some of the reasons or all of the reasons in various combination. Though conventional wisdom would dictate that the younger ones would be the more open-minded ones, guess not all stereotypes hold true.
Simplest answer would be your good ole racism but I think its more nuanced than that.
Could be I'm perceived as a traitor to my kind for marrying what is perceived as a colonial imperialist, there is still much resentment on the centuries of exploitation but only recently where the middle class in Asia is growing by leaps and bounds that this resentment is fast coming to the surface.
The concept of "pure bloodlines" is still very much ingrained in most Asian cultures today so I'm basically screwing with that, could be another reason.
Etc etc etc etc.
We're at a point where we just smile, ignore, move on. Much happier life without letting others butt into our life choices.
etc. etc. etc.
@@WarrenKLiu I just think it’s crazy it’s only the young ones. Maybe they feel like you aren’t contributing to a strong China 🇨🇳 by diluting the bloodline.
@@dominicjohnson310 I'm not in China but I am of Chinese ancestry but yes its possibly rooted in the Chinese culture itself since its has quite a lot of xenophobic elements for better or worse. But this "pure" bloodline concept isn't unique to the Chinese or other Asian cultures.
Yes I was actually quite surprised how well the elders accepted my wife. I was dreading that first meet almost 10 years ago and it turned out so well I was ignored for the whole time. It was only when my peers and youngers started meeting her at gatherings that this crap started.
I am a Black man who has dated women of many ethnicities and nationalities. This type of behavior, unfortunately, is common amongst all men of every race and nationality. And yes, this includes black men as well. In my opinion, the reason is usually because those men ultimately see this as a rejection of themselves and they do not know how to deal with it.
Great video. I am sorry for anyone who has to go through this because you choose to date someone that doesn't quite look like you.
Facts Bro. Thank you.
You don't know what you're talking about. Look up "PassportBros." There are many hate videos from Black women attacking us dude
Sports Picks 49er I know about passport bros. Hell, I have my passport. This comment doesn't disprove my statement tho, but rather supports it. Some of the stories from passport bros talk about how some of the local men aren't exactly pleased to see us scooping up there women. One guy talked about how he was in Poland and some dude stopped him and asked why the hell was he with that Polish woman.
I believe they refer to this as "Dick Policing" lol
@@Poshkin It's all good, because they know we're a threat. Black men generally don't care. We just do our thing. The most persecuted people on the planet and yet we still make other men shiver. 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
@@Crypto_Watchman he's speaking from his own experience maybe he isn't familiar with the "passport bros" movement
As an Indonesian-Chinese I learnt a lot about China and the culture there from this video (although maybe that wasn't the initial intention). Thank you, keep up the good work :)
Thank you for making this heart warming honest video. Please continue sharing
I am a Serbian. My wife is from the Philippines. My family loves here. My town loves here.
To answer your question I'm Australian and married to Filipina and have never been attacked by Filipino's. In fact I have many Filipino friends here in Australia and in Philippines.
Possibly due to the huge Filipino diaspora living and working all over the world, Filipino culture has become outwardly accepting as opposed to inward looking and xenophobic.
Awesome video Jo! This was a great analysis on a lot of the problems regarding Chinese masculinity and echos a lot of my own personal experiences as well.
Due to the gender imbalance in China, Chinese women have the advantage in selecting a partner. Those women who are not happy with a misogynistic male-orientated culture, obsessed with continuing the male line, are choosing foreigners because maybe they feel more respected and valued. Rather than insulting these women, perhaps the people who post such hate-filled comments should turn the mirror on, not just themselves, but the culture that breeds such hatred.
That women in China are called "left over women" when they have reached the age of 27 or 28 and are not married, says a lot about the misogynistic male-orientated culture in China. But on the other hand the Chinese government is pushing women to study and so that they can have a successful career. I also know a chinese girl which is currently studying in Japan and she said to me that she never ever will date a Chinese man again, cause her last 2 BFs were really disgusting to her and didnt treat her very well. So I'm not surpised that Chinese women are searching for men outside of their culture which will respect and treat them well.
You would have a point if they didn’t always go for the whites. You talk about misogyny. Well, guess who is the most misogynistic race on planet 😐……
@@agentorange1291the foreign men they go after are members of the most misogynistic race on the planet. So, miss us with that “Asian patriarchy” bullshit 💯!
Thank you for this video, it gave some great and what I see needed insight into this subject.
My wife is originally from China we have been married 31 years with two sons. She has received similar comments when we lived in Shanghai. Usually from trolls that would say something and run away.
I totally agree with you....I feel that they feel inadequate as men....
That was a great perspective of the different cultures. You were very much on point. Nice video.
You're awesome.
I really enjoyed this video.
Fact is, this is a problem that will never go away.
Folks can only be strong in their love.
Ignore the ignorant people around you and embrace your love.
Life is too fragile and short to care anymore about the thoughts and aggression of bigots.
Thanks again for your videos.
Thank you for taking the time and effort to explain your experience and concerns about dating in your culture. ( PEACE ✌️ be with you)
Very insightful, I thoroughly enjoyed your perspective and video. Look forward to many more
Thank you 😊
Where I live, men are heavily critiqued for not dating western women, white women with black men, its amazing the shear ignorance, too many are wrapped up in stereotypes and the such, which denies the chance for people to experience the joy of the love of a family, keep up the awesomeness mate, #KeepUpTheAwesomeness ❤️🦄❤️
My wife is from Taiwan. Her father hated the idea of me being with his daughter. Besides that, I haven’t seen or heard anything mean or derogatory.
I had a Chinese girlfriend from Shenzehn, she was a business lady who owned several noodle bars...She told me how Chinese men are jealous because she was together with a foreigner and also a Jamaican at that. I didn´t feel in any way that I was discriminated against...but ok I was there just a short while....lately foreigners have been getting lots of verbal abuses from many Chinese men...I´m happy I left China never to return. I take my hat off for my girlfriend who stayed with me and ignored all the verbal abuses.
I bet your girlfriend is quite attractive. If she looks anything like this girl in the video, no one would really care.
Thank you Jo Moon!!! 🙏 New subscriber 🌝
Very interesting video... Im definitely infatuated with knowing more about Chinese ladies. Personally I think they are very beautiful women..
I do know some Black men that love Asian women..
I will follow your journey with interest... 😇
Thank you uncle Kai and welcome to my channel:))
Thank you for starting your channel! I am a black man from the United States, who is interested in traveling to the orient to find love. It is quite refreshing to hear your viewpoint, and I look forward to hearing more comments on relevant issues from you in the future!
By the way, what city in China are you in?
You are better off in Vancouver, Canada to find a beautiful Chinese woman, i.sae incredible beautiful ones there.
as a black living in China (Shanghai) since 5 years ago, I wouldn't advise you to waste your time coming here to find a woman.The society is still way behind in terms of mentalities
@@celticmulato2609
Thank you!
Well depending on your age . And if you are not very black . I live in China. There are many issues but if u got money u can get a girl easy and if you look nice. This is if you are in your 20s . My generation tends to love black people much more. People thing it's hard to marry but that true for Chinese men too.
But China is in no way about love. Neither non Chinese or Chinese most people don't believe in fantasy like that .social pressures make people lost in China .u will hurt yourself if u look for authenticity. Mental illness is so bad in China.. best bet is university students
As a Canadian I've dated multiculturally and multiracially. I've experienced this from many races and cultures. It's even more prevalent and extreme when it comes to dating outside of a religion. It's racism, pure and simple.
Very informal video and receipts to validate each claim. Oftentimes ppl are simply expressing their innate insecurities or lack of understanding for other cultures because they have become so accountable to living inside a vacuum all their lives.
Chinese women are more educated and have more economic independence these days. I have heard in the past from older American male colleagues here in China that they aren’t so popular as before, and in-shape younger guys are preferred. I suppose it narks Chinese men that Chinese girls have more options these days, and as you said in an earlier video, there are less women to go around.
True! You always have very good views.
American men were a meal ticket before. Now their economy improved. So American men are less in demand. 😃😃😃😃😃
I think you hit the nail on the head. They can find options that treat them as human beings. Obviously it’s not all of them, but a lot.
I would say why that is happening with the men in China. I wonder 🤔
There will always be some differences within every coomunity, i am older now but my Parents told me amd my siblings that whomever they brought home they would love them as well... I think its very small minded to control someones life narratives in life and love
Hi Jo Moon, great video, I've always dated Chinese women and never had any issues, even in Hong Kong
It’s easier if you are white (some have inferiority complex). But either way people will talk about you subtly, if not directly. HK is also a bit more progressive than China.
Love the video! I myself have had a pretty great experience up to this current day with my interracial marriage of 20 yrs, we met in Hong Kong while she was in medical school, back in 2001, I myself being a Black American &, she being Chinese from a very, very very traditional family. However I was actually super surprised that her parents, siblings as well as her grandparents, even her distant relatives family from other parts of mainland china excepted me without any issues, (NONE) they only said if she's happy and she's well taken care of then we are happy as well. They love me and our kids unconditionally. I'm guessing I'm one of the lucky ones!
Well most western men find Asian women very attractive, however the same cannot be said about the opposite Western women don't find Asian men as appealing.
So true!
Sorry I dated a Hebrew
I will never go small in the groin area
1:35 in the U.S. you'll see a lot of women saying insults to this extreme towards men leaving the country to find relationships with someone from other nations. Physical violence against men can occur for this as well, but violence against men has become commonplace in Western countries in general, even over trivial things such as a man sitting down with his legs spread too far apart because he has testicles.
@mikeyg2178: There is plenty of misogony in the west and men still run things including incompetents like Trump and Biden and worse..A lot of men miss the dictatorship their granddads exercised over women.
Yeah this happens all over the world. I'm just not sure if it's to this extreme. I'm an Asian minority and within my community this dose happen but not as often as it did back in the late 80s or 90s.
Also note I'm from American, it's different, we have our own issues of how Asian are treated, depending where in America your from.
Jo Moon thank you for speaking out on this subject. I love Asian Women 😊😊
I'm in USA black afro American my first girl friend was a Korean girl beautiful 22 years we loved each other, here nobody cared
I'm a white male. My father told me that he would rather me be unhappy with a white woman than blissfully happy with another race.
I'll happily disappoint him if I can find another woman to date.
Yes it happens in other countries as well. Many "women" behave in the same way when they think "their men" date from outside of their culture. I guess some men (and some women) think that "their men" belong to THEM like some sort of possession. Thank you for your message.
Thank you ! I want to say with respect , I think you are very smart and beautiful ! 🌺
I am an American white male. There is diversity in marriage in USA. Not so much when I was a child as it was a very racial tension time (especially between white and black people). I am older now yet I have to be honest. I have all my life desired to be married to a Chinese lady as they are beautiful, seem really educated and more. I know there is a issue when it comes to language. By the way I must say, I feel you speak very well English, and frankly speak better than many Americans. 👍👍🙂. Yet in my mind or my way of thinking, Chinese ladies DO NOT like American white males unless they are very rich. So sad, but money does not make one so happy. Yes money is very important for daily life, but money has wings and flies away rapidly. Where as truly happiness, honor, respect and faithfulness is more important as long as one has the financial stability. Thank you for you honest, outright knowledge and teaching us about your culture. To end, I still dream of finding a Chinese lady even if only in my dreams.
Thanks for being honest and open with your opinions&thoughts.
I am canadian white caucasian and when i was going out for shopping or doing activities with my Chinese girlfriend last summer older people looked at us as like WTF sometimes(not all the times) and i didn't bother what they were thinking, i was so happy and proud to be with her. When i presented my chinese girlfriend to my mom, my girlfriend was very impressed that i present her so early. 😂She's from Beijing and she likes Canada very much.Now she wants to come and live with me forever.
Hello really good views keep up the good work 👍 life is ever changeing mixed marrages are more normal now adays it all comes back to the character of the person and sometimes it's there life situations 🙏
Jo Moon, thank you for this video. What you said at the end, beginning at 14:05 shows you have much wisdom. Concentrate on things you enjoy doing and stop being obsessed about dating and relationships. There are other things in life.
Im from america and black and it happens here to amonst my people to. It's weird but its all insecurity an the part of the person complaining. Like they worry that seeing you do that means your making a statement about them. lol its ridiculous.
@audiohourtapes7632: There is nothing weird about it to those who were born at the tail end of jim crow who saw the white community (and others) at their worse...That wasn't a trillion years ago, and the race war never ended in spite of lots of propaganda to the contrary. The weird thing is people rejecting "their people" in favor of the group which has harmed them and their families, and repeating their anti-black racist talking points and demanding respect while doing so.
Thank You for your astute analysis keep up the good work
If you think this only happens to Chinese women from Chinese men and this doesn't happen in other races, you are kidding yourself. As a brown Mexican I've had dirty looks from white men in the USA when I was having lunch with a blonde woman and get this, we were not even dating, we were just colleagues lol.
I worked for 1O years in China. I also worked in Cambodia. My current fiancee is from Philippines. East asian women are wonderful. In PRC the American women used to hate the locals. they couldn't compete.
Thank you sooo very much great video
Yes, this happens in other places to. I am from the Netherlands. We are a diverse multi cultural country.
There are a lot of native man that like to shame woman for dating immigrants and coloured people.
I was explaining this to my date the other day, I said that it was probably because that Chinese men think that all Chinese women are their properties and that by dating a foreigner, these women wouldn't choose one of them... Thanks for making the video, very spot on and I think I will send this to him :)
Thanks for the information about china, we didn't know all of these, you win my plus.
There are many men in China who will never have a chance to find a wife, so I'm sure it makes them angry when they see a Chinese woman who has decided NOT to marry a Chinese man. The words that spill out are just some attempt to justify their anger.
Alright calm down. Most of China is pretty homogenous and there are still millions of Chinese couples. I don’t get it. Why are there so many Mgtow white men on the internet being extremely racist towards asian men and fetishizing asian women? The sense of superiority men feel when it comes to degrading other men just for pussy is pathetic. I am asian American with a white step dad and he is the nicest person I know who loves my mom for who she is, not because she is an asian woman or Taiwanese woman. He also respects me and my heritage instead of saying shitty stuff like this. You all deserve nobody if you have to degrade any race of men as being inferior while fantasizing about women you will never attract. Go fuck yourself. My white male friends irl are the coolest people though.
Tbh I think her view and media are oversensationalised, are there Chinese men that are angry when Chinese women date foreigners? Yes. Is it a widespread issue? Not really no, at least most people in HK and major Chinese cities don't really care. The same can be said, are there white men who are angry when they see a white woman dating a black guy or Asian guy? I'm sure there are.
I totally agree with you. people want to just grow up and let others live their lives how they want and worry about thier own lives,
They put Bruce Lee, Linda ,Brandon,and Shannon Lee up there..lol..lol..Great video!!
Wow! Ms. Moon, You present such a deep, and thoughtful exploration of this touchy subject.
You ask why they feel this way... unfortunately as a foreign Devil, it's impossible for me to understand the thoughts of the Chines guys. I try to assume it's just a matter of education and sociatial impacts. In general, people haven't had the opportunity to travel and expeience other cultures. They are only allowed what's presented to them. It's natural that they (and I) form biases based on these observed experiances. I feel they are correct based on the experiances they have seen but deprived of the bigger picture. As a westerner who's married to a Chinese, I need to keep this in mind; My wife is correct from her perspective. And in fact, when traveling in China I keep in mind that when people say disparaging things about me - it's correct from their point of view and what they have learned. Here, in California, with a very large number of Chinese - it's less frequent (even rare) to hear disparaging comments. Thanks for posting - thought provoking!
I live in Austria. I had a 4yrs realtionship with a woman who has taiwanese roots. (we broke up recently) She herself was born in Austria, her parents immigrated decades ago. I have never experienced something like that with her. Funny thing: I never really noticed that we were of different ethnicity, this is something only everybody else around us noticed... (We often heard bad jokes referring to Hangover 2 from people around us, like if I was Stu for her parents,..."Stu is Chok. Chok is Soft white rice in lukewarm water" :D)
Thank you for your bravery.. it's very very difficult to do things like this because everybody is looking to form groups and ruin the lives of those who even speak the truth publicly.. and that's not even mentioning those who publicly have black male friends.. even worse when people discover you want to enter a relationship with one of us.. we know this so we value any nearly woman of any background that shows a romantic interest and staying in a relationship with a black male.. the world knows we as black males will accept whomever wants to be with us.. and we value her bravery.. it's so important to us..
Especially if you're dating white or latin women. I could only imagine how enraged their dads and brothers get when they hear their daughter is dating a black guy. It's pathetic honestly. But I can't help but respect those girls for breaking away from that indoctrination/racism.
While I do feel that I understand where the tribalism comes from, it doesn’t have to be that way. I’ve been married to an Asian wife for 30 years and we haven’t experienced any problems with attitudes in my area of the US. It’s very educated and somewhat diverse in my area and there isn’t social problems, crime or poverty, to speak of. Mixed couples are so prevalent that nobody thinks of them as mixed. That’s my feeling but I can’t read everyone’s mind.
Every place is different. The easy way to assess the place is if different races are randomly intermixed in public places like malls. If you see that, you’re in a healthy place and are going to have a lot more fun with culture in those places.
If you’re in a nasty place, just explore and vote with your feet by moving the best place that embraces and appreciates culture.
This girl es very sensitive and very well educated on the subject.
You are a very intelligent person. I respect you.
Hello Jo, I'm a male who was born and raised in all white (European) suburbia New Orleans, LA. USA and now 66 yrs. Even after Civil Rights was passed in early 1960's, a black and white couple were considered low class and basically spit on so to speak even by some blacks especially in the south. I think since about the mid 80's, more people were accepting black/white couples but I don't think it will ever go away completely. Asian's and whites dating were socially accepted as I remember.
I started into the work force in high school by working at a Chinese restaurant and I found the Chinese very good to work for and love their food. There was an older Chinese girl who worked there who was beautiful named Coy as a waitress but I'm sure she was considerably older and had no interest in me and it was all business when we worked. Of course if she had made it obvious to me I would have responded that I would have liked to date her. As I got older I saw another attractive Asian girl frequently at clubs always by herself but would she never respond to my advances yet I never saw her with another guy. I considered myself at least somewhat attractive because I rarely got rejected and even had come on's by many girls. I even dated a beautiful natural blonde haired blue eyed Colombian girl new to the US. So I resolved that the Asian club girl was either race specific or a lesbian. What do you think Jo?
I see it a lot with American women bashing American men who marry women from southeast Asia.
I’m a Chinese born woman who moved abroad when I was very young.
I found that in my parent’s generation, marrying a foreign white man was the pinnacle of success for a Chinese woman. I didn’t realize it’s flipped now?
Flipped? How? Isn’t it still the same
What up Jo Moon!!!
Here in Mexico, woman in big cities are contaminated with a lot of the western thinking, is so hard to find a woman that is worth your time. If you go to small towns is a bit different, you may find better kind of people, but in my case I seek for something more. I am attracted to asian woman specially, because you are very intelligent, hard working and beautiful, so in the near future I plan to move to an Asian destination in order to find an Asian woman to share my life with. About people going out with foreigners, I don't feel anybody will judge you because of dating one.
I think due to the one child policy the Chinese population has more men than women ( I believe over 300 million more men than women) which is almost the same as the entire US population. Because of this side effect, there is a phenomenon happening in which woman have a lot more options to marry and millions of men are left alone in the uneven and very competitive sexual marketplace. I think it especially angers Chinese men when they can’t find a mate and they see some of their options choose to go with a foreigner. The same situation is playing out in the USA with African American women who are the least likely to marry and their most compatible options (African American men) are beginning to look elsewhere for wives especially in Southeast Asia and Latin America (look up the term passport bros). African American females seem to have the exact same response to this new trend by mocking and demeaning the men who choose to look for different partners. In the end the Chinese men only have to blame their fathers and grandfathers for not having the balls to stand up to that evil government that caused this situation. Maybe they’ll stand up now and give their future generations a better life.
Maybe Chinese men should hook up more with African American females. It’s an option
@@nightbeat1media AA women would not work for them, the cultures are too different, and AA women are anathema to their values.
@@nightbeat1mediaevery one would be kung fu fighting in that relationship 😂
@@nightbeat1media a lot of those women are single cause of broke guys. They don't want poor Chinese
I don’t think that’s what aa women are making fun of, maybe not my place cause I’m Japanese but everytime i see the passport bros on my feed on Instagram or tiktok they are dissing aa women saying they are all whores and sluts and u needa leave the U.S. to find a wife and just disrespecting them and play innocent when they r offended i as a Japanese man love black women but i don’t usually pull any cause they don’t really date outside their race as much as other women like white women usually white girls only like Asian guys if u like look a korean popstar or anime character tho🤷🏻♂️
Could Chinese men reactions be the consequency of one-child policies in some way ? I read an article a few years ago about male/female rate in China (the article was about Sichuan, but since Sichuan is the most populated region of China, it was quite meaningful). Due to one child policy and girl infanticide issue, the ratio was 117 men for 100 women at this time, so that, besides all the other demographic problems caused, about 20% of these men won't be technically in situation to marry themselves.
If I was in this case, I surely would find mixed mariages somehow a kind of waste and insult.
但是这只是我的意见。
Hi, nice to meet you. You my friend are very smart and have a good outlook. 1, you have high toned people who understand aspects of life and grant beingnesss to others. 2, you have the middle range people. They are good people and just want their family to survive the best they can. 3, you have the low toned people, the negative ones. it's best to stay away from them as they are blind to life and will always belittle one no matter what you do.
Those keyboard warriors are really scary. I've seen cases where people have shared private messages or just said things about people on social media platforms to get them in trouble. Stuff like this should not be allowed. It can ruin people's lives.
It happened in most. But time are changing everywhere not just in China this video is proof. So please keep up the good work and I will Subscribe
I have noticed this treatment over the past 20 years. While living in China I met some truly lovely women who are wholesome and intelligent. What about men who date foreign women?
I Live in California, which is a socially progressive state in the U.S. Prejudice exists everywhere, although I have never seen overt prejudice on a social platform like what you presented. Interracial relationships have become commonplace anymore. The vast majority of people here, really don’t care.
Prejudice usually occurs privately, in the homes of first generation American immigrants or those people who are intolerant, racists. In situation where people are immigrants, usually the son or daughter will either date who they want or must wait to date until they are out of their parents home. It is unfortunate , because the heart, and eyes of our young people fall in Love without consideration of race, ethnic group or religion.
It’s sad to see the comments made against Chinese Women who date non-Chinese men. As the World continues to open , hopefully, these people will realize we have more in common than our differences.
I am an American and I used live in Mexico. While there, I dated many Mexican ladies. One day a female friend and I were walking around the town square. She decided to grab my hand as if we were a couple. I did not mind at all, but as soon as we passed some guy sitting on a bench, I could here him yelling in Spanish about me for being with a Mexican. At first, my friend didn't realize the guy was yell at me. As she turned around to see the guy, the guy as going crazy. I explained what was made at and why. I then asked my friend if she wanted to really make the guy crazy? She said yes and I said kiss as if we were dating. She planted a massive kiss on my lips and kissed for about a minute. After the kiss, I looked over at the guy and smiled. My lips were covered in lipstick and the was loosing his mind. My friend died laughing in my arms. And we walked away happy.
Many Mexican men would say in Spanish some horrible things my Mexican dates and they would insult me as well. Most of these guys would be shocked when I answered back in fluent Mexican Spanish without any hint of a Gringo accent. They would run off after being found out.
That’s interesting
Stunning and brave, you go girl.
I strongly support anyone who has an mixed race relationship marriage or family, I'm proud you're breaking the cycle of racism, I support all my Chinese brothers and sisters, stand strong against the CCP
While there are always some haters everywhere in the world, around me interracial relationships are common. Haters gonna hate. Lovers gonna love. You can't worry about them.
It's just some good old fashioned jealousy. Thank you for the video. I'm subscribing.
Not sure if you are aware of this but our senate in the USA had to just pass a bill to protect marriage between same sex, AND interracial marriages. This means that before now it was not just, your country that was not ok with diff nationalities to marry. It wasn't a problem before, but our supreme court was talking about making same sex and interracial marriages illegal. Something weird is going on, and I don't know why people think it matters who someone ELSE is with...
First off my chest is your English delivery is superb. Learning about Asian culture is a process that continues to intrigue me. American culture has changed in the past few decades and dating life exponentially so. I am 57 never married and never started a family illegitimate. Hope to hear (and see you) in more videos.
Liked and Subscribed. Great monologue.
Good video, young lady, keep up the good videos,
Good Video, from Doral Fl USA 👍👽
Am black Norwegian and live in The Philippines.
Chinese ladies are most elegant and beautiful 🤩
Anyway, girls in Norway, dont usually like Norwegian men date Asian ,African or South Americans .
Also here in The Philippines, many local men, dont like Filipina girls date foreigners, unless if she is poor. Thats why most foreigners here, find poor Filipina .
I personally dont understand the problem and i dont care who others date .
yeah, I heard about that.
scandinavian countries actually have a epidemic of swedisch, norwegian and danish men apparently dating and marrying thai women and I think even the swedish (correction: denmark) government tried to convince danish men to marry danish women lmao
edit: another correction, I think it's actually both danish and swedish governments asking their men to marry their women lmao
Western women are masculine
I'm from the very group of men that Asian women seem to love the most:- the white male with Aspergers. Having said that, I don't generally find Asian women as attractive as other races. I love European and African/African American due to their curves and more varied personality types.
The media and advertising industry appears to have an agenda of promoting mixed Asian/white pairings in ads for everything from cars to washing powder, and it's really annoying. I'm sure it bothers Asian men, and it bothers me! We shouldn't be told who is trendy to marry or reject.
These mixed pairings often occur in the West (with exceptions). So you have a dynamic whereby the whites are being mixed out everywhere they exist, but not the Asians in Asia due to their far more monogamous demographics.
My belief is that Asian men need their women, and we should not be taking them.
We got to start learning how to have relations and commitment with our own women again, something many have lost the ability to do.
Do other countries give a hard time to people in their country dating foreigners.... Yes. Here's a good example; feminists in Switzerland actually had that issue A lot of the men in their country were leaving due to Western ideologies, and it high risk of divorce, And so they ended up marrying Filipinos and people around Asia and women in Southeast Europe because of their traditional values.
That brought a lot of hate and they attempted to pass a law about it but that failed.
There is another channel, and when guys were askd (small sample size but okay) about dating a foreign woman, more than expected asnwered about "the size issue". It was funny but also sad.
So when you get a comment, just answer about the horse like laowhy.
Personally, I could care less what anyone thinks as to whom I date, but I think this is fairly common across all groups to behave in the manner as you're explaining. They'll have their way of reacting to interacial dating in various degrees.
Americans as a whole don’t care what race dates or marries what race. Yes there are some who sound like the Chinese men you mentioned but mostly we are a very diversified nation. I have dated Chinese ,Philippine and Native American women and have loved each one of them. I have quite a few friends who are married to Ladies from different races and they are all great.
Bullshit. Look at the hell, black women raise, seeing a black man with a non black women. It used to just be white guys speaking negative about it in the media. Now, it is black women. American is far from as accepting ass it pretends to be
I'd date a chinese girl any day. I'm a 29 year old finnish guy myself.
Cheers from the land of the thousand lakes, Finland~~
Great information, as a latino men we don't care about who we date because if we love the and the lady love us it is okay.
Hi Jo.. I,m 68 and am married to a Chinese lady. We have been married 10 yrs.. When we married we went to visit her Farther..he was very upset she married a foreigner.. Perhaps it was because I did not give him any money..All her family where against the wedding and none came... And it is not as if my wife was a young bride,,she was in mid forties.. Me and my wife visited people in her village and I never thought there was any issues ,,all treated me perfectly with both grace and charm,even her aged aunt was very nice to me ,,but her family well that was a different matter... Now years have gone by and we are all speaking ...I have met her son with no issues and we are going back to China this year.Hopefully all is forgotten...
Yes type in "passport bros" or black men dating non black women you will see the same or similar thing Chinese women are experience.
Liar
Truth. I was thinking the same. The videos of black women insulting black men à
@@TruthSeeker30_ no this is true just look up passport bros
true black men are trying to figure out why black women say we are traitors to the black race if we date outside the race. Treated like we are property. Martin Luther king’s dream was for this to happen 💯
The is simple actually, due to the one child policy in China for decade more boys were born than girls because of that there is about 3 times for Chinese men than women, so they have a lot of what they call “bare branches” men that will never get married so the Chinese men don’t like the few women that they do have dating or getting married to someone outside there race/nationality, especially if that race is black.
its like everywhere you go, there's always someone miserable. You just gotta look out for them like their out to get you or grape you of your joy in life. The haters can't seem to stay far away. 🙏🏽🤦🏾♂️
I’m glad my wife could care less about what other people think. I see so many Americans with Chinese wives, especially in Chinatown. We once walked into a Korean barbecue restaurant and saw that every Asian woman was with an American husband!
Lastly, Chinese women are not easy. The phrase she changed to “Good Chinese women are not difficult to get along with.. They don’t have the drama and bad attitudes many western women have. They are usually Fit, Feminine, Friendly, and Cooperative. They focus on family, not just themselves. They also look for men who are established and have good values.
A good person finding love, what kind of person would not want that?
I'm a Chinese man and let me make things clear. I don't hate the Chinese women who date foreigners, if they really love one another I would congratulate them whole-heartedly. But the thing is I dislike certain Chinese women who constantly belittle Chinese men in front of foreigners. TBH this behavior isn't unique among Chinese women I've also seen some Chinese men who belittle Chinese women in front of foreigners. Both types are bad. Yes you can date foreigners, but there's no need to despise or belittle fellow brothers and sisters.
@weifan9533: Thanks for being honest. Almost everyone on this thread is dancing around the unjust racial hierarchy that drives the world: white on top, black on the bottom and everyone else somewhere in between which drives a lot of these relationships and peoples responses to them. It is stupid not to expect nations with long histories of racial injustice and ongoing tensions like the US and other places in the Americas and elsewhere NOT to be troubled by interracial relationships. Especially when many of those involved in them take some perverse pride in denigrating and rejecting "their people" while embracing outsiders with histories of animosity towards their families.
谢谢。😊I'm catholic
I’m not sure what’s going on there but me as an American I would love to date a Chinese woman but to be honest I would not move to China, I would like her to move here. Here she has rights choose her education can choose any career she wants and have a good life. I am 5’9” tall 62 years old Caucasian/white Average looking and available for a relationship. I know it has nothing to do with your subject but I thought I’d put myself out there.
I have noticed in multiple countries though where the men did not like the women dating outside of their country. Philippines is one good example. It was nice running across you on TH-cam. If I like what I see I’ll start following thanks for your story.
I just can’t shut up; I was just watching how popular are foreigners in China and you mention a lot of Chinese women are trying to avoid being tan. Tan is very nice and I don’t care if a woman is white or tan or black I’m universal it’s the woman that counts not the color of her skin it’s what’s inside the head and the body and the heart.