People are passionate about it because a lot of people are struggling and don’t have parents that will or can take the loans out for them, so they have to do it themselves, and to see someone blessed to have the parents that did AND is in a good financial position to pay them back but just take it for granted instead, grinds peoples hearts. Like just be grateful and pay people back for their goodwill, nothing is free in the world
There's nothing wrong with people sharing their opinions; what matters is practicing emotional resilience so that others' opinions-especially from strangers-don’t negatively impact your emotional state. Most of the time, their opinions reflect more about them than about you.
6:30 you hang out with your friends because they have a good image like dress well talk well and vibe well not because you agree with everything they do. Most people won’t hang around ppl of different values unless there is something in it for them. Because your all social media ppl you all make $$$ off these social relationships normal ppl do not. Your in a different environment than most and your behavior will reflect that.
@@CarBleach exactly. Its as if there aren't a billion hours of videos on the internet showing Emily just being an extremely kind person to everyone shes run across. Going at her so hard over something that obviously doesn't even bother the people involved just seems silly. Folks need to handle their own ish.
@@ivankawnartist no they are weird for caring so much about a family that they know nothing about personally. and taking something like that is so seriously. not much needs to be said except that they are weird
@CarBleach I don't think it's that they care so much. Frankly, it's disingenuous of you to label everyone who may have an opinion on the matter so dramatically. To me, that comes off as you coping to justify blocking out everyone who says something you disagree with.
Emily: I told my parents I'd pay back my tuition Nick and Arther: ok Emily: but I'm not gonna do it, screw them! Chat: wait, that's kinda whack Everyone: omg Emily is getting bullied 🙄🤦♂️
People just feel its their privilege to have an opinion on anything and then give a take. "Gotta send my thoughts through glass for a whole world to see."
@@BryanJordan1 Not really? It sounds like you're right if you reduce my statement to something contextless but the context here matters; it's literally part of what makes up the information. So "anything" is the sticking point. It's not weird to talk about you and your parents and your college situation - in fact, its relatable. What's weird that people feel they're entitled to weigh in on but are not (unless you ask) is what you and your parents should be doing. Nobody literally asked. Again, I commented on this video without overstepping on Nicks personal situation and dictating how he needs to handle it because that's a fucking weird thing to do.
If you release information on something about your self do expect them to share their opinions on it. The audience didn't ask her to share what she did, but she did so it up to her either way, but she can't control they way people react its a part if the game she is a part of.
@keneola Your hypocrisy is immaculate. You probably think your 💩 smells like roses. Drop the holier than thou/rules for thee but not for me flapdoodle.
It's not just that she didn't want to pay it back. It was her attitude or the way/manner she said the whole thing, which made her look like she doesn't have any gratitude towards her parent.
You also have warped perception of reality, to think can make a full conclusion on someone’s character and or a situation without knowing the full context or the dynamics is just beyond idiotic.
Tbh if your parents took a loan out for you to go to college regardless if it’s in your name or not, you should still feel the responsibility to pay them back if you’re in a position of wealth to do so. That’s the humane thing to do, kinda of weird that just cuz legally u don’t have to you that u don’t feel the need to so.
Nick and Artur are a part of the problem. They literally pressed her about paying back her parents on stream in New York. And Nicks saying internet changing someones opinion is cringe. Iloved his content for years and it was my safe space but 2024 really proved to me this guy kinda sucks.
Yeah, as crazy as it seems to say Malena really did anchor him more than we knew. He's really spiraled without her when it comes to certain behaviors, especially Jackass behaviors
@@ivankawnartistno anyone who amicably voiced their opinion about it is fine, the people who made personal attacks or spewed hate (hence “big mad”) are the people that need to calm down
@@ivankawnartist i actually never said i agree/disagree or with whom. all i'm saying the people who attacked emily, either because she didn't pay them back or the people who white knighted/defended her and called the attackers names are kind of all in the wrong. what she does with her money and her family, is none of our business. if i was emily i wouldn't have brought it up in the first place. keep that stuff to yourself. there's certain things your fans just don't have a right to know. what's done is done, but i hope she learns from this experience.
@deathbyzen It's in the job description. It's absolutely mad for any person who makes a career out of being in the public eye to expect limitations on those engagements. You don't get to pick and choose in life
parents exist for their kid. there was nothing wrong with what she did/didnt. it was wrong for her to change her mind into believing she did something bad.
Parents do not exist for their kids. Parents are the caretakers of children until they become adults, then the adult children gain adult responsibilities. That’s how a family works.
@@Lightwaverable That is subjective. In some countries like Switzerland, parents have to finance their children's first education (up to and including a Master's degree) according to the law.
If she's so affected by these negative opinions of her it's probably for a good reason. If she doesn't care about having principles why should anybody care about her feelings?
People are passionate about it because a lot of people are struggling and don’t have parents that will or can take the loans out for them, so they have to do it themselves, and to see someone blessed to have the parents that did AND is in a good financial position to pay them back but just take it for granted instead, grinds peoples hearts. Like just be grateful and pay people back for their goodwill, nothing is free in the world
Im too unvolved. Posted 3min ago and Ive been waiting for this vid...
There's nothing wrong with people sharing their opinions; what matters is practicing emotional resilience so that others' opinions-especially from strangers-don’t negatively impact your emotional state. Most of the time, their opinions reflect more about them than about you.
6:30 you hang out with your friends because they have a good image like dress well talk well and vibe well not because you agree with everything they do. Most people won’t hang around ppl of different values unless there is something in it for them. Because your all social media ppl you all make $$$ off these social relationships normal ppl do not. Your in a different environment than most and your behavior will reflect that.
I like emily but hard to have sympathy when you tried to make a joke out of the situation and it turned on you lol
others just took it way to seriously because they’re weird
@@CarBleach exactly. Its as if there aren't a billion hours of videos on the internet showing Emily just being an extremely kind person to everyone shes run across. Going at her so hard over something that obviously doesn't even bother the people involved just seems silly. Folks need to handle their own ish.
@@CarBleachAh, yes. Just call others weird when you disagree. Copium 101.
@@ivankawnartist no they are weird for caring so much about a family that they know nothing about personally. and taking something like that is so seriously. not much needs to be said except that they are weird
@CarBleach I don't think it's that they care so much. Frankly, it's disingenuous of you to label everyone who may have an opinion on the matter so dramatically. To me, that comes off as you coping to justify blocking out everyone who says something you disagree with.
Emily: I told my parents I'd pay back my tuition
Nick and Arther: ok
Emily: but I'm not gonna do it, screw them!
Chat: wait, that's kinda whack
Everyone: omg Emily is getting bullied
🙄🤦♂️
People just feel its their privilege to have an opinion on anything and then give a take. "Gotta send my thoughts through glass for a whole world to see."
You're doing the same thing right now.
@@BryanJordan1 Not really? It sounds like you're right if you reduce my statement to something contextless but the context here matters; it's literally part of what makes up the information. So "anything" is the sticking point. It's not weird to talk about you and your parents and your college situation - in fact, its relatable. What's weird that people feel they're entitled to weigh in on but are not (unless you ask) is what you and your parents should be doing. Nobody literally asked. Again, I commented on this video without overstepping on Nicks personal situation and dictating how he needs to handle it because that's a fucking weird thing to do.
If you release information on something about your self do expect them to share their opinions on it. The audience didn't ask her to share what she did, but she did so it up to her either way, but she can't control they way people react its a part if the game she is a part of.
@keneola Your hypocrisy is immaculate. You probably think your 💩 smells like roses. Drop the holier than thou/rules for thee but not for me flapdoodle.
@@lextheking5431 100% Nailed it!
It's not just that she didn't want to pay it back. It was her attitude or the way/manner she said the whole thing, which made her look like she doesn't have any gratitude towards her parent.
Nick didn't spot the issue of entitlement because he grew up with it too
Why are ppl confused her statement has traction?? Like it’s a abnormal topic lol 🤷🏾♂️
Legit criticism about shitty behavior is now classified as being “Bullied”. These streamers have such a warped perception of reality. Holy shit. 🙄
It's just the US, big on freedom of speech, can buy guns like groceries but can't take anything cause everything is an offense 😂😂 so soy.
receiving threats against you, your parents, and your sponsors, isn’t “criticism”
You also have warped perception of reality, to think can make a full conclusion on someone’s character and or a situation without knowing the full context or the dynamics is just beyond idiotic.
@notjusttin
You must be new to the internet.
@3self
How you managed to get ALL of that from my initial statement is wild af. 😂 🤨
The internet was a mistake. People have become too entitled to other people's actions.
All I got from this is, if you're poor, DON'T HAVE KIDS! It's a privilege to be a parent.
Tbh if your parents took a loan out for you to go to college regardless if it’s in your name or not, you should still feel the responsibility to pay them back if you’re in a position of wealth to do so. That’s the humane thing to do, kinda of weird that just cuz legally u don’t have to you that u don’t feel the need to so.
Nick and Artur are a part of the problem. They literally pressed her about paying back her parents on stream in New York. And Nicks saying internet changing someones opinion is cringe. Iloved his content for years and it was my safe space but 2024 really proved to me this guy kinda sucks.
Yeah, as crazy as it seems to say Malena really did anchor him more than we knew. He's really spiraled without her when it comes to certain behaviors, especially Jackass behaviors
Does nick have a real laugh?
no
Anyone who got big mad about this needs to 1) mind their own business 2) chill out 3) repeat steps 1 and 2 until you’ve calmed down
Sounds like you're big mad that people can amicably voice an opinion that you don't agree with.
@@ivankawnartistno anyone who amicably voiced their opinion about it is fine, the people who made personal attacks or spewed hate (hence “big mad”) are the people that need to calm down
@deathbyzen Yeah, but when you just call everyone who disagrees big mad, your entire argument loses credibility.
@@ivankawnartist i actually never said i agree/disagree or with whom. all i'm saying the people who attacked emily, either because she didn't pay them back or the people who white knighted/defended her and called the attackers names are kind of all in the wrong. what she does with her money and her family, is none of our business. if i was emily i wouldn't have brought it up in the first place. keep that stuff to yourself. there's certain things your fans just don't have a right to know. what's done is done, but i hope she learns from this experience.
@deathbyzen It's in the job description. It's absolutely mad for any person who makes a career out of being in the public eye to expect limitations on those engagements. You don't get to pick and choose in life
Damn what happed to this dude.............I swear he went from 26000 subs to 10000 in the span of 2 weeks
Took a break in dec
katchii left
sub count doesnt matter much, his view count is still at 20k+.
parents exist for their kid. there was nothing wrong with what she did/didnt. it was wrong for her to change her mind into believing she did something bad.
Parents do not exist for their kids. Parents are the caretakers of children until they become adults, then the adult children gain adult responsibilities. That’s how a family works.
@@Lightwaverable That is subjective. In some countries like Switzerland, parents have to finance their children's first education (up to and including a Master's degree) according to the law.
@@Lightwaverable family dynamics work differently in different cultures.
@datahoarder2739 In my culture, once you reach a certain age, you are a men or women and must stand on your own.
She initially agreed to pay the tuition back. And then she reneged on that. That was an issue that even she couldn't defend.
If she's so affected by these negative opinions of her it's probably for a good reason. If she doesn't care about having principles why should anybody care about her feelings?