KwentoJuan - Singlehood to Fatherhood and Finding Joy in the Process Ft. Drew Arellano [EP 4]

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  • How would you know if you're REALLY ready for a relationship? Financial Freedom? Emotional Stability? Maturity? In this episode, Drew Arellano walks us through the process he went through, from singlehood to fatherhood and how he managed to find happiness in every step of the way.
    @lifewiththearellanos
    Contents of this Video:
    00:00 - Opening
    01:01 - Welcome to KwentoJuan!
    2:00 - Kamustahan with Drew Arellano
    2:30 - What did you miss about traveling?
    04:52 - The “Drewspiration”
    07:37 - Drew on Maximizing Singlehood
    09:00 - Love what You’re Doing 10:50 - Work Wisely / Work Hard
    12:55 - The Real Measure of Success
    14:30 - Finding Happiness in the “Small” things
    15:25 - When you’re Happy, Excellence follows
    16:25 - The Reward of Waiting
    20:27 - Best part of Marriage
    22:25 - You can Never be Fully Ready for Marriage
    23:59 - Readiness is different for everyJuan
    25:25 - Expectation vs. Reality of being a Dad
    27:39 - Good fathers create Good fathers
    28:10 - Don’t let the past Dictate your Future
    30:23 - The “Drew Impartation”
    33:00 - How did Quarantine affect your relationship with your Family?
    34:18 - Drew’s message for Future Fathers
    37:35 - Know more about kuya Drew!
    38:55 - Category Game
    46:06 - CBB/ Closing Credits
    #KwentoJuan
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    IG: / thejuansofficial
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ความคิดเห็น • 114

  • @jollytiria1535
    @jollytiria1535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Don't be in hurry when it comes to relationships.
    To having a relationship always be ready for sufferings.

  • @ruthrambano1207
    @ruthrambano1207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    you'll know chael is an engineer when he's using engineering terms like Lanai, Foyer, etc. haha!

    • @clarisse5734
      @clarisse5734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nagtratrabaho pa rin ba siya as an engineer or fulltime the juans na talaga siya?

  • @jadelongasa6035
    @jadelongasa6035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    CHAEL STAN!!!! HERE!!!

  • @gregmontemayor2535
    @gregmontemayor2535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    WE STAN AN AMAZING HUMBLE AND KIND HEARTED BOY GROUP. WHO'S AGREE WITH ME! LET'S SHOUT GO THE JUANS! HOPING YOU'LL GO INTERNATIONAL SOON. WE'RE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU PO. LOVE LOTSSS ♥

  • @aphroditeregalado2452
    @aphroditeregalado2452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I also admire Carl for being a good listener of advices given to him and despite the journey being long and still on process, he never gave up and still lifts himself up kahit we all know he’s also having that down moments without him really showing it.

  • @cristinadelacruz3842
    @cristinadelacruz3842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "You can be happy with what you have and enjoy what you have"
    When time comes that you lost things that excite you, may you never run out of courage to seek for them in places you never expected. Just that sometimes, the happiness we never think we deserved is hidden within that partly open door we never bothered to enter. Life itself takes courage, so is happiness.

  • @revelenecarbonell1236
    @revelenecarbonell1236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Napaka positive po ni Drew, parang when you listen and talk to him ang gaan lang ng buhay. Nakaka inspire na gawin ang mga bagay na dati kinakatakutan natin. So much wisdom, God bless every Juan. 😉

  • @jadelongasa6035
    @jadelongasa6035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    RJ STAN HERE!!

  • @franzbalbin
    @franzbalbin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Humor + wisdom = Drew Arellano forever idol 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @aphroditeregalado2452
    @aphroditeregalado2452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Personally, I will bring the learnings I got from this episode. Mr. Drew’s wisdom are not only helpful for men to explain themselves, but for us women who are probably having that feeling we weren’t good enough because it’s taking time for the other to be ready. Or siguro, because of the pressure we’re in din nako-confuse kami. This is with no doubt a reminder to everyone na nawawala sa basics ng buhay. I wanted to also add that this ep does not only talk about what is in the title but of mental health. Thank you, The Juans!

  • @angelicaflores5250
    @angelicaflores5250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Si drew inspirasyon nya yung pamilya nya, yung mga anak nya that is why he was always happy doing everything in his life while ako hetoo waiting na mapansin ako ng inspirasyon ko which is SKEM!!🥺

  • @ay-jae7
    @ay-jae7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Two things I've realized in this episode, "positivity is a choice" and "what you want to be is depends on your mindset".
    You can find joy in the process for choosing to have a positive mindset.

  • @paulmaris7097
    @paulmaris7097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I LOVE THIS BAND SO MUCH KEEP INSPIRING PEOPLE GOD IS SO SO GOOD.

  • @JaneAbregana
    @JaneAbregana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    KwentuJuan and Sky Podcast (Slater Young & Kryz Uy) podcast collab soon huhu. Gusto ko magkaroon ng interaction si chael and slater

  • @robindacio7154
    @robindacio7154 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is lot more easier to do for something that you really love to do. And if you do what really love then it will produce excellence and more fulfillment.

  • @jadelongasa6035
    @jadelongasa6035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    JOSH STAN!!!!!!!! HERE!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @marjabuan
    @marjabuan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yung mga lugar sa bahay na pinagsasabi ni Engr. Chael. Hahaha. Lakas makayaman. 💜

  • @emilyabadlagera9322
    @emilyabadlagera9322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Blessings po talaga sa akin, sa aming mag-asawa ang panonood ng episode nyo with Drew Arellano. Maraming pangyayari, topics, ideas, life lessons ang nakaka-relate kami. Praying na marami pang maabot na genres ang inyong channel with its content/calling/privilege given to you guys. All glory to God alone.

  • @jameeclare
    @jameeclare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved this ep!! and ung jokes ni RJ hahahahaha Every episode is a treasure. Grabe pati ung mga wisdom!

  • @bertingbogart4277
    @bertingbogart4277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Few things na natutunan ko base sa karanasan at karanasan ng malapit sakin na may asawa na:
    1.) Ang away ng mag-asawa, hangga't maaari sa inyo lang. Hangga't maaari maayos nyo nang kayo lang nang walang sumbungan na nagaganap sa side mo. Unang-una walang nagsusumbong na lugi sila sa kwento nila (madalas may dagdag bawas yan). Pangalawa di mo marerealize kung gano kadali lang pala sanang maayos ang problema kapag mainit ang ulo mo. Pangatlo, sooner or later bati na kayo ng asawa mo pero yung pamilyang sinumbungan mo, di makakalimot yan. Syempre pamilya mo yun e kahit anong mangyari sayo kakampi yan.
    2.) Love is a choice. Merong mga solid na pagsubok. Dapat you and me against the problem ang mindset. Pero kung mga kasalanan gaya ng cheating, pananakit syempre next level sh!t na yan ekis na yan.
    3.) Wag uuwi sa pamilya mo pag may problema. Hindi na kayo highschool couple. Hindi totoo yung sinasabi ng iba na wag kang matutulog na hindi kayo bati. Tao lang tayo. Normal na hindi humupa agad yung galit. Pero you can still show affection kahit magkaaway kayo. Way of saying na "hey. I'm still a bit mad but I still love you".
    4.) Kung nakikitira kayong mag-asawa sa parents mo/parents nya. Maging bibo. Bawal ang tamad.

  • @mewigweys
    @mewigweys 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I suggest to please have Nate Punzalan, Cathy Go, Barbie Almalbis or Kim Atienza as your next guests please. Thank you! 🙏

  • @maeangelicafortu
    @maeangelicafortu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Make it happen and shock everyone.#KwentoJuanEP4

  • @donnafaye603
    @donnafaye603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed watching this. Thank you, gents. You are doing a great job. I like seeing The Juans all ears and eyes to Drew.

  • @mikkejungaya6010
    @mikkejungaya6010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've already listened to this the other night during Spotify podcast. Kakaiba! Ang daming life lessons and wisdom. Sana mas marami pa silang mashare kasi life changing. Nasheshare ko din siya sa family ko💕

  • @lesylbarcenal7624
    @lesylbarcenal7624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank God that I had time to listen to this episode despite na been busy sa work🥺MAde my day! To more great testimonies

  • @loveyoujah2795
    @loveyoujah2795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I LOVE YOU FIVE

  • @maryalenaflormendoza5271
    @maryalenaflormendoza5271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Grabe si Drew sobrang puno ng wisdom, sobrang impactful nyang tao gusto ko maging katula nya

  • @saemprincipe
    @saemprincipe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tahimik ni Chael. Na miss ko yung insights from Chael. Buti na lang nag games kayo.

  • @jadelongasa6035
    @jadelongasa6035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MGA NAGMAMAHAL SA THE JUANS!!! PILA NG MAAYOS!!

  • @ShelaCrisostomo
    @ShelaCrisostomo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "You can be happy with what you have, enjoy what you have"

  • @marjabuan
    @marjabuan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    RJ being the "bibo" kid. Cute cute. 💜

  • @ajaadventuretv5811
    @ajaadventuretv5811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What I really loved about this podcast is every thoughts and words that came all from your mouth and guest is so inspiring and very true, I really felt the emotion and wisdom guys. Thanks so much for the motivation and always inspiring many people's lives.! ☺️☝️

  • @roycabalce7733
    @roycabalce7733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You should be doing this continuously. It has been a great help most especially in guiding the youth. I enjoyed it myself not only because each one of you has valuable inputs but also the wisdom that your guests are sharing. Truly a mind-blowing experience because not only that I admired your talent but also your character. I only have deep admiration and kind words to say for all the work and the effort you put into your work. Honestly, your songs helped me get through all the things that I went through during my quarantine days. Love your songs most especially "UMAGA" because it is so full of hope and not only that, the melody and lyrics are superb. Keep up the good work! Just want to let you know I have sent Carl and RJ a personal message in your messenger. Hope that I will hear from you soon! An avid fan here saying "Stay blessed and safe always". May God bless you more and the work of your hands!

  • @jellianwonders8353
    @jellianwonders8353 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tayo nlang kaya Carl... hahahha... just kidding!.. always blessed to listen and watch all your episodes. God bless you all!!! Take care always guys!

  • @marjabuan
    @marjabuan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will always be thankful to The Juans for doing this. The content is always 💯. I am looking forward to the next episodes. 💜

  • @ecomifiedwithcoachvinciglodove
    @ecomifiedwithcoachvinciglodove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi mga bros, may mga ganito na pala kayong content, im now sharing this to my team, they'll definitely learn so much from you guys.
    Keep it up!

  • @kellybiasong4341
    @kellybiasong4341 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Underated talaga tong the juans the best podcast nila 🔥🔥

  • @foreverstellvester6616
    @foreverstellvester6616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Present 😊💙

  • @eunicenicoleliwanag1749
    @eunicenicoleliwanag1749 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waitingggggggggg ror!💖💖

  • @dhericareja2827
    @dhericareja2827 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So inspiring ❤️🤗

  • @mickaeladuenos3485
    @mickaeladuenos3485 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Learnings!!! 💯

  • @hananicole6223
    @hananicole6223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    another episode, another set of learnings ❤️

  • @kuyatoyang9747
    @kuyatoyang9747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this episode. Thank you and more power THE JUANS 💪

  • @melanniedador34
    @melanniedador34 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    loooking forward for more KwentoJuan!!! Godbless youuuu more!!!

  • @rosellealtar6033
    @rosellealtar6033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another knowledge and an encouragement from the juans. thank you so much..

  • @arianejoysotelo5736
    @arianejoysotelo5736 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOOOOH!!! 👏🏻

  • @micomedel
    @micomedel 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    grabe ang ganda ng topic

  • @paulyngracebernardo4279
    @paulyngracebernardo4279 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So much wisdom every episode! Looking forward for more of your podcasts. We love The Juans

  • @janelanavarra3230
    @janelanavarra3230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Late. As expected I learned a lot thank you Kuya Drew and The Juans!! Keep inspiring people. Ahm thank you dawans for being my source of happiness!!!

  • @lapinigangge1476
    @lapinigangge1476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Until now you keep on inspiring people. Iloveyou The Juans!

  • @Nana-co4oc
    @Nana-co4oc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waiting...

  • @ianhemmings4162
    @ianhemmings4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Grabe substance and sense ni Carl. He can talk about everything and still impart learnings. More respect to The Juans.

  • @henessyjeandomingo5025
    @henessyjeandomingo5025 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    love what your doing
    prioritize working smart than working hard

  • @gregmontemayor2535
    @gregmontemayor2535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks sa palaging pag ku kwnto. Supper worth it ang load sa panonood daming matututunan

  • @markluigiflorendo6674
    @markluigiflorendo6674 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Manhood!!!!!!!!!!!! Awoo!

  • @fatimagracedequina6551
    @fatimagracedequina6551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    dahil po sa podcast niyo ang dami kong natututunan, thank you for existing =)

  • @charlesjason8105
    @charlesjason8105 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks

  • @maxinejoynebre3572
    @maxinejoynebre3572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    mahal ko kayo!

  • @jinph9548
    @jinph9548 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gustong gusto ko tong set-up nila. This gives meva magazine TV vibe.

  • @bonnbrayan
    @bonnbrayan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    katahimik ni chael sa episode na to. Parang every words ata jina-jotdown nya for reference sa future. Hahahaha! Every episode full of learnings talaga. Praying for more seasons.

  • @FA-gh2ru
    @FA-gh2ru 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excited ako lagi pag may post ang The Juans 😍😍😍❤❤❤

  • @nacanakryzmir4981
    @nacanakryzmir4981 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cant stop smiling while watching. Kukulitin ko na naman manood nanay ko nyan hahha

  • @alialako206
    @alialako206 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sarap tlga sa ears yung mga ganitong usapan♥️🤗 nakakainspire tuloy maghanap hahahah charingching😅✌️more kwentoJuan and more fulfilling, more word of wisdom to learn and everything♥️ Thank you so much THE JUANS💙😊 GOD BLESS you all💕😇🙌

  • @danicarioflorido22
    @danicarioflorido22 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Grabeee ang dami kong natutunan kay kuya drew...napapaisip tuloy ako na magasawa na...pero wla pa like @Carl Guevarra...hinihintay ko pa rin.

  • @katberces955
    @katberces955 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    hello! new juanista here! lagi ko na inaabangan podcasts at youtube uploads nyo... nakaka-good vibes na, nakaka-bless pa! Just keep on inspiring us #TheJuans!

  • @altheadomingo6206
    @altheadomingo6206 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    waaah feeling ko knows ko yung place hahahaha,, umaga ep days

  • @arianejoysotelo5736
    @arianejoysotelo5736 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    HELLOOOOO SKEM!!! 💙

  • @estrelleadelle
    @estrelleadelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Napasearch ako sino si Doding Daga 😂 nice one Josh!!

  • @paulaangelicabelencion505
    @paulaangelicabelencion505 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi josh 😍❤

  • @beytwixz__
    @beytwixz__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OT5 💜💜💜

  • @zynettebrutas2393
    @zynettebrutas2393 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite band and favorite host 👍👍👍 God bless and keep safe

  • @beckspace
    @beckspace 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice episode very motivational, p.s sa gumawa na english subtitle saludo ako sayo :) sobrang effort .

  • @amansinaya1711
    @amansinaya1711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nahiya ako sa Lanai at Foyer 😭👍🏻

  • @brypipes4486
    @brypipes4486 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU GUYS FOR THE INSIGHTS, GUEST MORE PEOPLE LIKE KUYA DREW. I LEARNED A LOT FROM THIS TYPE OF TALKS. KUDOS! MORE POWER MGA KA JUANS! STAY SAFE AND HEALTHY. GOD BLESS PO!

  • @paulaangelicabelencion505
    @paulaangelicabelencion505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeeeeeeeeeees!!!!!! 😍🧡❤

  • @paulaangelicabelencion505
    @paulaangelicabelencion505 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi chael 😍🧡

  • @maryolabongon1260
    @maryolabongon1260 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another motivational kwentojuan boost 😍😍❤️❤️
    More more kwentojuan that will inspired and motivate us plss 😊😊😊
    Godbless guys 👍❤️😍😇

  • @mariloumangunay7741
    @mariloumangunay7741 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Galing ng spotify pero iba pa rin talaga kapag nakikita yung the Juans.

  • @paulaangelicabelencion505
    @paulaangelicabelencion505 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi rj 😍❤

  • @Nana-co4oc
    @Nana-co4oc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heeeeey there!

  • @jadelongasa6035
    @jadelongasa6035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    CARL STAN HERE!!

  • @paulaangelicabelencion505
    @paulaangelicabelencion505 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi carl 😍❤

  • @jollytiria1535
    @jollytiria1535 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    OT5 Here.

  • @harveyjohntbitotvlogs9105
    @harveyjohntbitotvlogs9105 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Downloaded all the episodes! Dami hugot at pulot. Just a suggestion po, add pictures and videos on specific topics discussed, just like Drew's Dad, I am expecting a pic will be flashed; just like that. Nonetheless I am a fan! I use your music in my mini series 🤣🤣🤣 More projects to come!!

  • @stephaniebulawan1623
    @stephaniebulawan1623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kelan kaya mag gguest sb19? Gandang topic sana all about brother/sisterhood (siblings)

  • @MarielaTrishBDiaz
    @MarielaTrishBDiaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kuya Carl stan here!
    ~Mariela Trish

  • @arbbarbasa1352
    @arbbarbasa1352 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏻

  • @riziaperez
    @riziaperez 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Huhuhuhu CARL ❤️

  • @dorinaborral
    @dorinaborral 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍👍👍

  • @graciousintegro87
    @graciousintegro87 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @armanporio028
    @armanporio028 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Working smart than working hard!"

  • @mariakristelloubaja7899
    @mariakristelloubaja7899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uy Carl, wag ka muna pakasal 😅
    Ang fresh ng topic nato though hindi naman ako magiging tatay 😆 Ang ganda lng nung sinabi ni Kuya Drew to be there sa wife mo especially first time maging nanay. 😍

  • @arianejoysotelo5736
    @arianejoysotelo5736 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    4 episodes palang ng KJ pero ang dami at ang laki na ng naging impact sa life ko ng mga Podcasts niyo. Huhu 🤍 Thank you for all your wisdom. God bless you more! 💙

  • @uenoxbear
    @uenoxbear 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    nakakatalino yung mga terms na binabanggit ni kuya chael ah HAHAHAHAAHAH

  • @arajeanvallesteros0506
    @arajeanvallesteros0506 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ♥️👏

  • @danicarioflorido22
    @danicarioflorido22 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    @Carl Guevarra...ask ko lang may chance ba na isa sa mga juanistas or fans niyo ang ang ligawan mo??

  • @rjmikuwa4489
    @rjmikuwa4489 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💓💯

  • @eldidacir
    @eldidacir 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ang witty tlaga ng mga joke ni Chael, si RJ bibo hahaha

  • @ruthperez1126
    @ruthperez1126 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @paulaangelicabelencion505
    @paulaangelicabelencion505 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍🧡❤