Ogomegbunam(may my goodness not kill me)as my name implies is what I pray to God for so that you won’t recieve bad in return. You are not m.a.d in Jesus name😂😂😂😂. May we not stop being good because of what people do to us🙏🙏🙏
sincere grattitude is food to the heart, me too am grateful for even the smallest things, i completly understand you, yes i feel bad if i don't say thank you my concsience will worry me too
I have fallen into this so many times. Due to people's ungratefulness i made up my mind this year to be scarce because they made me feel less valued because i was always available for them.
Thank you and appreciation are magical, When I do something for someone and they don't appreciate it, I just cut off. Because one I did what I did from the bottom of my heart and how I was led by the spirit, but if someone somewhere feel its their right then I wouldn't bother anymore I just cut off.
I finally realized in my big age, that people will drain good and giving people. Come and see people dropping off, as soon as i made the decision to look out more for myself, instead of others. it was like an epidemic.. Small thing people don vex, don't call back, holding grudges. All the years of good deeds and sacrifices all gone, as in! All because they know you are a nice person and you will find a way to fix things. But they will wait for eternity, that was in my past life. Great topic NJ.
Appreciation is very necessary. Even God wants us to show gratitude.. David in the bible knew how to praise and thank God , that's why he was a man after God's heart.
Thank you goes a long way. It’s something I was taught and had to teach myself better as I got older. I know the power” thank you” holds and I never cease to show my appreciation when something nice is being done to me. I think entitlement plays a huge role to this
Nj God will keep blessing, you will continue to shine! pls continue doing good and being nice to people, dnt let any ungrateful person stop you from being who you are! Me av helped someone that I thought by now should be helping too but instead she block me everywhere.... Very sad indeed.
Nj dear, you're adorable and just too kind; it's unfortunate a lot of people take you for granted. Just don't let people abuse your niceness. Happy Sunday.
Even God Himself asks for gratitude/thanks when he blesses us or rescues us, so who am I not to expect the least form of gratitude from those I go outta my way to help from the most sincere part of my heart. Some even claim they didn't beg me for it, so I guess because of that I don't deserve any from of gratitude from them, it hurts! God will help me because I still give regardless. I GENUINELY enjoy giving and putting smiles on people's faces. I'll be fine, God helping 🙏🏾
My dear NJ, I have made up my mind to choose my happiness over ingrates Cos you can please humans for sure you will just keep hurting yourself over & over again. So best decision is to draw the line.ie stay far away from such people cos they will drain your positive energy.
It’s natural for humans to want to feel appreciated It’s a turn off when people don’t appreciate We have to learn to appreciate even the littlest things, not only when people move mountains
You are right NJ some people thinks that the little help you rendered to them is not out of kindness but their right may God keep us away from such people
I understand exactly all you are saying...some of us are born to be givers and it is a gift from GOD! Even so we must exercise wisdom because as we are giving some are only there for the taking and it can become draining to a GIVER! then u just want to be separated from them...REMEMBER your giving is of GOD and he always helps HIS OWN with wisdom!
Am actually dealing with a bunch of ungrateful beings around me, but I have decided to advise myself. Right now, I don't care anymore. I do what makes me feel at peace with God and myself, period.
Ungratefulness and entitlement is a disease and I think it should be a crime too, May our goodness never hunt us, I’ve experienced these things too and it hurts so badly
I added my first comment before completing this video. You mentioned something around people giving excuses for others - e.g. an excuse of, oh this person’s parent is late/they are orphans. I accommodated someone who is an orphan and for all her ingratitude I gave excuses saying oh, she’s an orphan and missed on love following all the life story she shared.
Some people can never, and again those type of people can never even talk something good about you to other people on behalf of you even when they hear people talk good about you, they can never respond positive about you i weakness so many like this and it even happened to me countless time
My sister as you said, it goes a long way not on the side of the giver because you already have a enough and wish to give, is on the side of the receiver because it motivates the giver to give more. Ungrateful people.
Sometimes showing kindness is not because we are really nice. It’s because we are looking for validation. Let us ask ourselves true questions. Why do we do what we do? Do they really ‘need’ that help or did we go out of our way to enable bad behavior for our own selfish reasons. Just thinking out loud ❤
Nj don't allow people take you for granted, you a lady with a good heart and that's why some people take you for granted. Whatever you do for any one is not a right, it's a privilege.
Nelo is also your sister, you are allowed to forgive her one million times just like she will do same. Other people might not give same grace when you have an issue with them. No one should compare themselves with your sisters or family members.
Oh my goodness the issue I’m going through right now ….. right now I’m not going to stress myself again if you don’t do for me I’m not doing for you, you have to do for me first before I reciprocate
NJ pls my advice for u is that never expect everyone you do good to ….. to reciprocate same way Else it will stop u from doing good I have been in your shoes I used my resources to bail out somebody from being deported and the person does not say hello until date But it does not stop me from still helping I like helping people but I bet u …. A lot will take it for granted as if it’s their right as you said But keep doing good It pays to do good no matter what That is my take
Hello NJ. Beautiful soul. Leave everything to God.Allow God to do his bidding for you. You need not say anything, because, God Almighty himself understands everything.Be yourself. Greetings to your amazing husband.
Ungrateful people should stay far away from me because I won’t be nice when I attack…I have learnt the hard way to stop being nice to ungrateful people sha
Ive seen them so many times .until i advised myself.if the spirit doesn't lead me to help you i dont inconvenience myself for anybody and when i help i dont expect you to be nice in return.carry the help and carry your wahala
Make a prayer to God to give you the ability to do the one you can and leave the rest to God. Our world has changed but you need to also draw a line to how far you need to help. Also don't stop doing Good because God uses it to uplift you.
I can relate to all you have said. I feel a lot of people believe that some people are born to work on their behalf, hence they become entitled. I saw a comment where someone said some people were born to give. lol. After seeing that comment, I began to understand why people behave the way they do. Thank you/gratitude is mandatory. I am intentionally seeking to keep friendships with grateful and kind people. People who I do not only benefit, but who benefit me on the same level or even more.
😂😂😂😂😂 NJ dear please humans will always be ungrateful. We moved When u are ungrateful to me I will not notice because I will be busy with doing more good to others. I understand where u are coming from
I AM THIS PRIVATE LOVER OF IJ THAT HAVE BEEN PROGRAMMED TO LOVE HER LOVERS AND UNSUBSCRIBE TO PEOPLE THAT HURT/HATE HER AND I HAVE NO REGRETS EVEN THOUGH SHE DON'T KNOW ME. I AM NOT READY TO STOP ANYWAY AND I HAVE NO REGRETS. I ALWAYS SEE MYSELF IN YOU IJ. PEOPLE TAKE US FOR GRANTED A LOT BUT YADIBA...
Human beings are very complex, but be rest assured that people who can not appreciate the little things you do for them have a spirit of entitlement ruling them, and there is nothing you can do about them. Take my advice and love people from a distance. You ate better off that way. It hurts to give up a lot for people and be badmouthed. Like our people say, wash a pig, comb a pig, and it will not change who the pig is.
1 Corinthians 5:9-13 New International Version 9 I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people- 10 not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. 11 But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister[a] but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people. 12 What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? 13 God will judge those outside. “Expel the wicked person from among you.”[b]
We being a christian doesn't mean we are foolish.Some people do things just to see as a christian if you will react and they forget we are not GOD 🙏🏾🥰 we are humans 🙏🏾 I hope the person apologies,please forgive 🙏🏾 please don't stop helping people who deserve your kindness mrs Nj 🥰
Wait oh you can't compare Nelo n yourself oh. They are things that I will do for my sister that for others I wouldn't. She appreciates me she is always there. Even if I get her angry she will still appreciate me. So I will always treat her different. If is Nelo we will do it for her because she is a beautiful soul. We love her like that. You aren't Nelo
Ogomegbunam(may my goodness not kill me)as my name implies is what I pray to God for so that you won’t recieve bad in return. You are not m.a.d in Jesus name😂😂😂😂. May we not stop being good because of what people do to us🙏🙏🙏
AMEN O!😂😄 Dalu hinne, Lolo🤍🤍🤍
This year I made sure to set boundaries, if I do something for you and you treat me bad, I will walk away.
Far far away!👌🏽😄🤍
My dear, i have distant myself from someone for the past few months, and i have no regret.
@@BanterWithNj same
Gbammm
Yes ooo! Stop accommodating people that are not accommodating you.
Setting boundaries is self-care
I agree!👌🏽👌🏽
sincere grattitude is food to the heart, me too am grateful for even the smallest things, i completly understand you, yes i feel bad if i don't say thank you my concsience will worry me too
Exactly!👌🏽🤍
Nj you nailed it, I love that statement “ I’m too old for that nonsense “ absolutely Nj dear, water who waters you hooohaaaa 👌
Hoohaaa o!👌🏽👌🏽 Thank you!🤍🤍
I have fallen into this so many times. Due to people's ungratefulness i made up my mind this year to be scarce because they made me feel less valued because i was always available for them.
I absolutely understand. Do what's best for you🤍🤍
Ungrateful people are everywhere
. Am so happy for u😂😂😂
I don't blame you!🤣🤣🤣
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yes i have felt that ingrattitude and it was from a family member, very bad
Thank you and appreciation are magical,
When I do something for someone and they don't appreciate it, I just cut off. Because one I did what I did from the bottom of my heart and how I was led by the spirit, but if someone somewhere feel its their right then I wouldn't bother anymore I just cut off.
I finally realized in my big age, that people will drain good and giving people. Come and see people dropping off, as soon as i made the decision to look out more for myself, instead of others. it was like an epidemic.. Small thing people don vex, don't call back, holding grudges. All the years of good deeds and sacrifices all gone, as in! All because they know you are a nice person and you will find a way to fix things. But they will wait for eternity, that was in my past life. Great topic NJ.
That's good for you, Sweetheart! Well done!🤗🤍 Thank you for watching🤍
Kaiiiiii NJ, you are me and I am you. Very similar school of thoughts and all. That's why I have loved you from day one
Keep shining babes ❤❤
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Yes say thank you is good for people that are good to you and nice ❤
Appreciation is very necessary.
Even God wants us to show gratitude.. David in the bible knew how to praise and thank God , that's why he was a man after God's heart.
Exactly!👌🏽 Thank you🤍
You can never satisfy an entitled person,no matter what you do,sorry about your experience NJ
Thank you🤍🤍
Setting boundaries can never be over emphasized
Thank you goes a long way. It’s something I was taught and had to teach myself better as I got older. I know the power” thank you” holds and I never cease to show my appreciation when something nice is being done to me. I think entitlement plays a huge role to this
You are right, Pamela! The spirit of entitlement has a front row seat in the matter!👌🏽🤦🏽♀️
I have had this experience countless times all through my lifetime,so now,I try to avoid helping the same people again.Only God can reward us.
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Appreciation and showing gratitude is a goal...
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Yes! Nj , this is so true
Louder for the people at the back
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Some people are just so entitled. It baffles me
Thank you🤍
Infact , I just dealt with one few weeks ago. I can relate to your story very well.
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I learned this the very hardest way. I nearly got depressed from an experience!!
Nj God will keep blessing, you will continue to shine! pls continue doing good and being nice to people, dnt let any ungrateful person stop you from being who you are! Me av helped someone that I thought by now should be helping too but instead she block me everywhere.... Very sad indeed.
That's really terrible!🤦🏽♀️ God keep helping us🙏🏼 Thank you🤍🤍🤍
Nj dear, you're adorable and just too kind;
it's unfortunate a lot of people take you for granted.
Just don't let people abuse your niceness.
Happy Sunday.
Thank you🤍🤍🤍 Happy Monday to you😉😄
NOBODY CAN STOP YOUR SHINE,,,, KEEP FLOURISHING MY QUEEN N.J ❤❤❤❤
Thank you🤍🤍🤍🤍
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You are definitely making points and not blabbing, i hate ungrateful and entitled people.
Thank you!🤍
Hi beautiful Nj! True, the moment I begin to feel bad about doing something for someone, then I’m not going to do it.
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They feel entitled i agree with you 100%
Even God Himself asks for gratitude/thanks when he blesses us or rescues us, so who am I not to expect the least form of gratitude from those I go outta my way to help from the most sincere part of my heart. Some even claim they didn't beg me for it, so I guess because of that I don't deserve any from of gratitude from them, it hurts! God will help me because I still give regardless. I GENUINELY enjoy giving and putting smiles on people's faces. I'll be fine, God helping 🙏🏾
I can definitely relate to what you've said! May God keep helping us🙏🏼🙏🏼 Thank you so much for watching🤍🤍🤍
Sometimes even better than you treat yourself. It is well.
My dear NJ, I have made up my mind to choose my happiness over ingrates Cos you can please humans for sure you will just keep hurting yourself over & over again. So best decision is to draw the line.ie stay far away from such people cos they will drain your positive energy.
Thank you🤍
You have said it all....its time to move
It’s natural for humans to want to feel appreciated
It’s a turn off when people don’t appreciate
We have to learn to appreciate even the littlest things, not only when people move mountains
You are right NJ some people thinks that the little help you rendered to them is not out of kindness but their right may God keep us away from such people
AMEN!!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Thank you🤍🤍
Nj number 1 in saying thank you 1million times ❤
Even at that, I still no pass you!😜😄
@@BanterWithNj 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you us the magic word, it goes a very long way
It really does👌🏽🤍
Story of my life ooo,the sense of entitlement is on another level.
@NJ thank you for speaking my mind.
I understand exactly all you are saying...some of us are born to be givers and it is a gift from GOD! Even so we must exercise wisdom because as we are giving some are only there for the taking and it can become draining to a GIVER! then u just want to be separated from them...REMEMBER your giving is of GOD and he always helps HIS OWN with wisdom!
Thank you🤍
Yea in every situation kindness needs to be appreciated, it takes nothing
You are making sense, thank you goes a long way, and it will make the person do more next time 😘
Nj, biko dont let these people stress u again. You are loved already. My Nj ❤
Thank you🤍🤍🤍
Thank you aunty Nj for this wonderful piece of information❤ Gratitude is the best attitude anyone can wear ✌️
Very true!👌🏽 Thank you, Onyi🤍🤍
Am actually dealing with a bunch of ungrateful beings around me, but I have decided to advise myself. Right now, I don't care anymore. I do what makes me feel at peace with God and myself, period.
The right attitude!👌🏽👌🏽 Thank you!🤍🤍
Something to aspire to.
I really wish we can see through people to know the people that deserves our kindness so we don’t have to waste it on ungrateful ones.
Honestly!😩
Its well ...... God almighty will reward you of your good deeds ❤
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Ungratefulness and entitlement is a disease and I think it should be a crime too,
May our goodness never hunt us, I’ve experienced these things too and it hurts so badly
AMEN!🙏🏼 Thank you🤍
I added my first comment before completing this video. You mentioned something around people giving excuses for others - e.g. an excuse of, oh this person’s parent is late/they are orphans. I accommodated someone who is an orphan and for all her ingratitude I gave excuses saying oh, she’s an orphan and missed on love following all the life story she shared.
I am sorry about that🤍🤍🤍
People should be able to show gratitude. It takes you nothing to say thank you.❤❤
Exactly! Thank you🤍
That's life for you sis ungrateful people full everywhere
Plenty sense in this video 👏👏❤
Thank you, Og🤍
N.J MY QUEEN,,, YOU'RE RIGHT 💯💯💝🌸 UNGRATEFUL PEOPLE HHHMMMM.......
Yes say thank you is good for people that are good to you and nice
This video is filled with a lot of sense
Thank you, Ogo🤍🤍
It's really hurts, after everything paying u bck evil for good
NJ , the last facial comment is so funny. " If the shoes fit, wear it."
Welcome to the ungrateful world 😂😂
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Some people can never, and again those type of people can never even talk something good about you to other people on behalf of you even when they hear people talk good about you, they can never respond positive about you i weakness so many like this and it even happened to me countless time
My sister as you said, it goes a long way not on the side of the giver because you already have a enough and wish to give, is on the side of the receiver because it motivates the giver to give more. Ungrateful people.
Sometimes showing kindness is not because we are really nice. It’s because we are looking for validation. Let us ask ourselves true questions. Why do we do what we do? Do they really ‘need’ that help or did we go out of our way to enable bad behavior for our own selfish reasons. Just thinking out loud ❤
Food for thought.. Thank you🤍
@@BanterWithNj anytime!! Love and admire you ❤️
Ungreatful people are not just bad but evil period.
yes oo they are ungrateful❤❤
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I can relate o ,but i wont waste time to let you know that you can't use me.
Entitlement mentality is very common and it’s the root of ungratefulness!
Nj don't allow people take you for granted, you a lady with a good heart and that's why some people take you for granted.
Whatever you do for any one is not a right, it's a privilege.
Nelo is also your sister, you are allowed to forgive her one million times just like she will do same. Other people might not give same grace when you have an issue with them. No one should compare themselves with your sisters or family members.
You're absolutely right!👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽 Thank you so much!🤍🤍
NJ baby you just nailed it, it's a fact,
Thank you!🤍
You’re the best Nj ❤❤❤
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Oh my goodness the issue I’m going through right now ….. right now I’m not going to stress myself again if you don’t do for me I’m not doing for you, you have to do for me first before I reciprocate
yes o you are right👍
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Honestly dealing with ungrateful people is not easy ooo
NJ pls my advice for u is that never expect everyone you do good to ….. to reciprocate same way
Else it will stop u from doing good
I have been in your shoes
I used my resources to bail out somebody from being deported and the person does not say hello until date
But it does not stop me from still helping
I like helping people but I bet u …. A lot will take it for granted as if it’s their right as you said
But keep doing good
It pays to do good no matter what
That is my take
Hello NJ.
Beautiful soul. Leave everything to God.Allow God to do his bidding for you.
You need not say anything, because, God Almighty himself understands everything.Be yourself.
Greetings to your amazing husband.
Thank you so much🤍🤍🤍
Yes, you’re so very right
Sooo on point 👌👌👌👌
Thank you🤍
Ungrateful people should stay far away from me because I won’t be nice when I attack…I have learnt the hard way to stop being nice to ungrateful people sha
ODIEGWU!! You! Can you ever learn?????🤨🤨🤨
@@BanterWithNj 🙈🙈🙈
Ive seen them so many times .until i advised myself.if the spirit doesn't lead me to help you i dont inconvenience myself for anybody and when i help i dont expect you to be nice in return.carry the help and carry your wahala
Right attitude!👌🏽😄 Thank you🤍🤍
Make a prayer to God to give you the ability to do the one you can and leave the rest to God.
Our world has changed but you need to also draw a line to how far you need to help.
Also don't stop doing Good because God uses it to uplift you.
Good video Nj 😊
Thank you!🤍
I can relate to all you have said. I feel a lot of people believe that some people are born to work on their behalf, hence they become entitled. I saw a comment where someone said some people were born to give. lol. After seeing that comment, I began to understand why people behave the way they do. Thank you/gratitude is mandatory. I am intentionally seeking to keep friendships with grateful and kind people. People who I do not only benefit, but who benefit me on the same level or even more.
Exactly! Now, is that too much to ask for???😩 Thank you so much🤍🤍
Jehovah God Will continu to bless you in Jesus name Amen❤
AMEN!!🙏🏼 Bless you, too🙏🏼🤍🤍
Me all the time from the beginning I know this video is for me
Good! Listen well!😉😘🤍
You're welcome
Njay I need list of names! I am battle ready! Anything for my Njay! Free of charge
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😂😂😂😂😂 NJ dear please humans will always be ungrateful. We moved
When u are ungrateful to me I will not notice because I will be busy with doing more good to others.
I understand where u are coming from
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My dear , pls don’t mind some people…. For me I will just work away.
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Nwanyioma, your facial expression says it all❤❤❤😅
E dey pain me!😄
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My Love😘😘😘
So many ungrateful people, feeling like is your duties to do them good for me am tired oooo.
NJ is fed up 😭
Demeee Njideka
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Aunty NJ love❤❤
Hey Love👋🏽🤍🤍🤍
I AM THIS PRIVATE LOVER OF IJ THAT HAVE BEEN PROGRAMMED TO LOVE HER LOVERS AND UNSUBSCRIBE TO PEOPLE THAT HURT/HATE HER AND I HAVE NO REGRETS EVEN THOUGH SHE DON'T KNOW ME. I AM NOT READY TO STOP ANYWAY AND I HAVE NO REGRETS. I ALWAYS SEE MYSELF IN YOU IJ. PEOPLE TAKE US FOR GRANTED A LOT BUT YADIBA...
Thank you!🤍🤍🤍
Human beings are very complex, but be rest assured that people who can not appreciate the little things you do for them have a spirit of entitlement ruling them, and there is nothing you can do about them. Take my advice and love people from a distance. You ate better off that way. It hurts to give up a lot for people and be badmouthed. Like our people say, wash a pig, comb a pig, and it will not change who the pig is.
True. Thank you🤍
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Heyyy Nj love 💗
Hey Oglove🤍🤍🤍🤍
1 Corinthians 5:9-13
New International Version
9 I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people- 10 not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. 11 But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister[a] but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.
12 What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? 13 God will judge those outside. “Expel the wicked person from among you.”[b]
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We being a christian doesn't mean we are foolish.Some people do things just to see as a christian if you will react and they forget we are not GOD 🙏🏾🥰 we are humans 🙏🏾 I hope the person apologies,please forgive 🙏🏾 please don't stop helping people who deserve your kindness mrs Nj 🥰
Thank you🤍
Hi fave ❤
Hi Love👋🏼🤍
Hie Nj from South Africa
Hi👋🏼🤍🤍
Wait oh you can't compare Nelo n yourself oh.
They are things that I will do for my sister that for others I wouldn't. She appreciates me she is always there. Even if I get her angry she will still appreciate me. So I will always treat her different.
If is Nelo we will do it for her because she is a beautiful soul. We love her like that.
You aren't Nelo
Exactly! Thank you🤍🤍🤍
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