“It’s ok, you’re learning” you’re so supportive in the readings even when it comes to our own default. I am working on this for sure! I believe I do this because I’m always waiting for the ball drop. Working on this in therapy due to past trauma. (Trying to be in the moment and accept what is instead of waiting for what isn’t)
My pov, rules won't fix broken trust. If anything, rules in a relationship denote lack of trust, so as long as there are rules, there is no trust. If someone breaks my trust, it's on me to work on MY lack of trust, not to work on fixing them so they don't do it again. I personally would rather leave the situation than make rules (control so that i avoid getting hurt which will ultimately end up hurting me because underneath it all it doesn't fix the issue: my lack of trust). Not to be confused with compromise. I understand where you're coming from, just trying to give you a bit of a different perspective ❤️❤️❤️
@@ALIsTarot I see your POV. Very much agree. Did leave the situation, am working on my own trust issues. Maybe the word “rules” triggered the Saggi a little, the Saggi was given rules! 😬😅 Thank you, Ali. You are very appreciated.
Ali your tarot readings always feel like you’re talking to my soul. Everything you said in this was the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I needed this and I felt so emotional throughout. Thank you for sharing your gift and wisdom with me 😢. It’s exactly what I needed to hear right now 😢 xxx
She made an effort I missed the cue next day she made sure i heard her talking about all the cute guys and then was giving my coworker a massage, cool knock yourself out Im not tripping, so I remained cool, next time I saw her I attempted to just say hi flirt just a we bit she gave me an awful look did not even say a word so I was feeling stupid and almost predicted it was one of those games where in the end it was all in my head I imagined it, sadly it was to soon to say anything about it, backed off immediately yes she made me feel stupid because the plane never made lift off so yes this surprised me that she got the result she wanted because she never allowed me to sit at the table not like you (Ali) said that I was trying to control everything, I did not get a chance to control any aspect of this but I came to the conclusion it was the plan all along so life goes on.
Ali this one is hilarious. I am prepared to let go, but admit I have no idea what will happen. At this point I’m like “Surprise me.” Rather than breaking up, I’m experimenting with being more radically myself, which should naturally purge what doesn’t belong. Or… surprise me. :.)
I can't even find the highway never mind knowing what my way is. My only rule I can think of is don't lie to me and take my kindness as weakness. Took me a long time and a lot of pain not to be a doormat. Maybe this just doesn't resonate. You seem angrier than I am. Not looking for a fight. Most of the time I help other overcome their fear and judgement. I love somebody who is a lot different and neither of us feels superior to the other. We just laugh and hug a lot. Maybe I'm just lucky. If you communicate well, you don't need control and can come to boundaries, trust and acceptance.
Yes, that’s because they always want me to follow their rules, 😂if I don’t they punish me, so every once in a while would be nice to have equal give and take. 😂😅😢
The door is there because I intentionally put it there because I need space from people who hurt me to be able to heal and let them be. they could come knock if they cared or had something to say. There's a recent newer person contacting me that might be good. but we will see.
Ali I don’t know if it’s the same thing but I do feel it that I’m distant and I’ve always carried this so even though I’m open now it’s something I’ve had even if I don’t show it. No one actually knows lol.
Thank you Ali.. sometimes I really do need your gentle brutal truths.. sending mega love.. also just remembered the monkey reading lol.. those were funny times.. legend 😂✌️🤍
Beautiful. I'm about to facilitate a women's group discussion meeting in recovery. This is my dark side and so valuable for you to point out. Thank you. Not my way. God's way.
🎉😮 stubborn in others comparing how something went for them & then wanting me to change what I'm doing based on their out comes. I cqre for a older man with Dementia.
I haven't given any thoughts to get involved with anyone but my family is hell bent to introduce me to one of their friends. I want to talk on the phone first before we meet. It's been 15yrs I've been alone. 🥴
Very well I am not open for my ex to come back into my life..we both have moved on..and I don't care form what direction is he coming. He can go back 😅
Wish it was that easy to let go of control , you are right it’s kind of automatic but I try to be open and you’re completely right but how do you fix what you can’t exactly see it, when I become conscious of it I try to retrain my thoughts lol
I'm trying to end a 30 year marriage . Yep . My way highway. Nicely though. Met someone that just from convo had seems we click . Make me oh no! His looks just aren't something I'm attracted to at all. But the conversations and backgrounds connect. First thing is hard enough to deal with. Don't need that other thing. But....
Yes, this Sag. Enter only if you still allow me to demean you to tears again for the third time.. Too bad this Virgo has taken out the huge pair of Virgo Scissors.
Omg I laft at my self the whole reading 😂😂😂 going to work with my pride and ego.. this one hert alot😢 I sufferd psykosis when giving birth 11 years ago and kontroll has ben the one thing I have Ben doing.almost the only thing. So this resonates alot. How can o heal this more?
Screw all this waiting bc he isn’t ready to talk. Enough time given while he just sleeps around and still cannot see what he did to someone he loved so freaking much??? Mix signals for months.
Shouldn’t sag make an apology to Leo. After 18 months, changed and ghosted Leo. It is upsetting that they get to control everything and walk away not giving a shit how he left her as if he died? So it’s horrible that sag takes no responsibility and will not even speak to Leo. He made boundaries and Leo respected it for the 6 mths. Leo should have a right to express to him how much pain she was and still in. So sick of hearing that he is still thinking of Leo and I think it’s time Leo speaks and stops being nice. Help
Hmm interesting! No space at my table for a covert Narcissist. When the MF left he took his chair with him ! But thanks for playing devils advocate anyways. it’s good to be challenged. it’s just made me even more sure of my decisions. (I think 😅)
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I woke up this morning mad as hell and I wasn't sure why but you just got me. Thank you very much!! I didn't want to hear it but you made me smile.
“It’s ok, you’re learning” you’re so supportive in the readings even when it comes to our own default. I am working on this for sure! I believe I do this because I’m always waiting for the ball drop. Working on this in therapy due to past trauma.
(Trying to be in the moment and accept what is instead of waiting for what isn’t)
Sometimes, rules are actually necessary boundaries, especially when trust is broken 😕❤
Yep!🕊️
My pov, rules won't fix broken trust. If anything, rules in a relationship denote lack of trust, so as long as there are rules, there is no trust. If someone breaks my trust, it's on me to work on MY lack of trust, not to work on fixing them so they don't do it again. I personally would rather leave the situation than make rules (control so that i avoid getting hurt which will ultimately end up hurting me because underneath it all it doesn't fix the issue: my lack of trust). Not to be confused with compromise. I understand where you're coming from, just trying to give you a bit of a different perspective ❤️❤️❤️
@@ALIsTarot
I see your POV. Very much agree.
Did leave the situation, am working on my own trust issues. Maybe the word “rules” triggered the Saggi a little, the Saggi was given rules! 😬😅
Thank you, Ali. You are very appreciated.
@@ALIsTarot wow alison, that was top notch! I loved it.Thankyou for sharing your perspective. Can we get more of those from you
@@ALIsTarot I don't trust him with my heart so he can't have my body. It's deep pain. How do I work on trusting him again?
“Idc about the rules they need to follow mine” 😅😅 called me out
I feel called out too LOLOL cause we Sagittarius has no patience. We want it now not later.
Thank you for being so relatable. We all are controlling. It's just a chance to work with those energies.
Eyes 👀 wide open hoping I can notice my control so used to myself not other's.....Thank you needed to hear this
Ali your tarot readings always feel like you’re talking to my soul. Everything you said in this was the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I needed this and I felt so emotional throughout. Thank you for sharing your gift and wisdom with me 😢. It’s exactly what I needed to hear right now 😢 xxx
Same for me. And you said exactly what I felt
She made an effort I missed the cue next day she made sure i heard her talking about all the cute guys and then was giving my coworker a massage, cool knock yourself out Im not tripping, so I remained cool, next time I saw her I attempted to just say hi flirt just a we bit she gave me an awful look did not even say a word so I was feeling stupid and almost predicted it was one of those games where in the end it was all in my head I imagined it, sadly it was to soon to say anything about it, backed off immediately yes she made me feel stupid because the plane never made lift off so yes this surprised me that she got the result she wanted because she never allowed me to sit at the table not like you (Ali) said that I was trying to control everything, I did not get a chance to control any aspect of this but I came to the conclusion it was the plan all along so life goes on.
Uve nailed my personality on the head my lack of patience massively has a knock on effect in my life
Thank you Ali, this has been yet another eye opening reading
i feel this is like opening up the door to love for me
After everything we've been through it's my turn now. It is my rules or nothing. I understand the door and all.
Ali this one is hilarious. I am prepared to let go, but admit I have no idea what will happen. At this point I’m like “Surprise me.” Rather than breaking up, I’m experimenting with being more radically myself, which should naturally purge what doesn’t belong. Or… surprise me. :.)
This was fun! Love how it came together at the end and the look on your face as it did.... I actually enjoy you giving me a hard time! 😅
I can't even find the highway never mind knowing what my way is. My only rule I can think of is don't lie to me and take my kindness as weakness. Took me a long time and a lot of pain not to be a doormat. Maybe this just doesn't resonate. You seem angrier than I am. Not looking for a fight. Most of the time I help other overcome their fear and judgement. I love somebody who is a lot different and neither of us feels superior to the other. We just laugh and hug a lot. Maybe I'm just lucky. If you communicate well, you don't need control and can come to boundaries, trust and acceptance.
Love that look u gave when u said " when things don't go your way" with the "standstill" card...lol 19:47
Thank you for showing me Me!🎉❤
How wonderfully you use your Gifts!
Your Reads are a Gift to us! 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
very profound, 8 of swords type of reading. Thanks Ali :)
yes indeed. September has been a VERY confusing time. You did call me out on rules!
Yes its my way or the Highway 😂 thank you, blessings to you and your pets💞🇬🇧
I love the glasses Ali. Thanks for another great reading ❤
Yes!!
Thank you 🙂💚💚
Thanks Ali! Happy Fall everyone! 🍁👻🎃☺️
Yes, that’s because they always want me to follow their rules, 😂if I don’t they punish me, so every once in a while would be nice to have equal give and take. 😂😅😢
Your energy is fun in this reading 😂
So right I’m trying to look at my own reactions and figure out why I respond like I do it’s definitely me
❤❤❤❤ you’re too accurate for your own good
The door is there because I intentionally put it there because I need space from people who hurt me to be able to heal and let them be. they could come knock if they cared or had something to say. There's a recent newer person contacting me that might be good. but we will see.
Thank you 💗
I like your hair done . And you're looking great sister
Your reading very precise 😊
I don't do anything to my hair, but thank you😁❤️
Thanks❤❤❤
You are so right… I’m a little scared as well
Ali I don’t know if it’s the same thing but I do feel it that I’m distant and I’ve always carried this so even though I’m open now it’s something I’ve had even if I don’t show it. No one actually knows lol.
You're are amazing ❤
Thank you Ali.. sometimes I really do need your gentle brutal truths.. sending mega love.. also just remembered the monkey reading lol.. those were funny times.. legend 😂✌️🤍
Beautiful. I'm about to facilitate a women's group discussion meeting in recovery. This is my dark side and so valuable for you to point out. Thank you. Not my way. God's way.
Love this reading ❤
You are so good!!
Heavily accurate!!!!!!!
🎉😮 stubborn in others comparing how something went for them & then wanting me to change what I'm doing based on their out comes. I cqre for a older man with Dementia.
hello my dear friend thank you for your reading, Italy. I have Leo ascending and Cancer in my moon
You are good!
I haven't given any thoughts to get involved with anyone but my family is hell bent to introduce me to one of their friends. I want to talk on the phone first before we meet. It's been 15yrs I've been alone. 🥴
Thank you you rock
Thank you for thissag reading sweetheart
I have that shirt... yes, let's just breathe!
Very well I am not open for my ex to come back into my life..we both have moved on..and I don't care form what direction is he coming. He can go back 😅
😂😂😂😂😂 did she just call me out. WTF are u talking bout? Omygosh that's me
Wish it was that easy to let go of control , you are right it’s kind of automatic but I try to be open and you’re completely right but how do you fix what you can’t exactly see it, when I become conscious of it I try to retrain my thoughts lol
I'm trying to end a 30 year marriage . Yep . My way highway. Nicely though. Met someone that just from convo had seems we click . Make me oh no! His looks just aren't something I'm attracted to at all. But the conversations and backgrounds connect. First thing is hard enough to deal with. Don't need that other thing. But....
Gracias ❤❤❤🙏🏽
Yes, this Sag. Enter only if you still allow me to demean you to tears again for the third time.. Too bad this Virgo has taken out the huge pair of Virgo Scissors.
Ali,whaat is the difference between the mids and September 15th-21? Is it the same time space?
Omg I laft at my self the whole reading 😂😂😂 going to work with my pride and ego.. this one hert alot😢
I sufferd psykosis when giving birth 11 years ago and kontroll has ben the one thing I have Ben doing.almost the only thing. So this resonates alot. How can o heal this more?
Not rules. Boundaries
I’m very controlling and don’t even know I do it
Are us Saggis really that controlling? We’re pretty free and easy, aren’t we?
What zodiac are you dear reader
😂😂 I feel attached
About the rules 😆 but why it have to go their ways ?😥 is it fear ? 🤔
Screw all this waiting bc he isn’t ready to talk. Enough time given while he just sleeps around and still cannot see what he did to someone he loved so freaking much??? Mix signals for months.
Shouldn’t sag make an apology to Leo. After 18 months, changed and ghosted Leo. It is upsetting that they get to control everything and walk away not giving a shit how he left her as if he died? So it’s horrible that sag takes no responsibility and will not even speak to Leo. He made boundaries and Leo respected it for the 6 mths. Leo should have a right to express to him how much pain she was and still in. So sick of hearing that he is still thinking of Leo and I think it’s time Leo speaks and stops being nice.
Help
🙏❤🌹
Ali arguing with herself as a Sag n getting irritated 😂
Hmm interesting! No space at my table for a covert Narcissist. When the MF left he took his chair with him ! But thanks for playing devils advocate anyways. it’s good to be challenged. it’s just made me even more sure of my decisions. (I think 😅)
Well, I have to put up boundaries because he's a narrsisist. Of which I have blocked him....😡
Thanks!
❤️❤️❤️ Thank You ❤️❤️❤️