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At the age of 36. I think it is safe to say becoming an introvert was the best thing I did for myself. Unfortunately, we live in a very needy mentally unhealthy world. Allowing someone into your space is not easy when you love independent growth. Many fall jelouse of it eventually and become a distraction or make a issue of it nomatter how much time and attention you give them. Ungreatfullness has no room in a introverts life. Peace and love 💛
Ungreatfullness has no room in a introverts life ..... well said bro Allowing someone into your space is not easy when you love independent growth.... people are just distraction not helpful for us, we try to be helpful not making them uncomfortable
I find having to explain myself frustrating. People misconstrue quiet, reserved individuals as brooding and aloof, but we don't talk unless we have something to say.
I am an introvert and extremely happy alone. I don’t do obligation. I work from home and love my job. I do not want to be anything but single where I do me and others do themselves. I can’t tolerate too much stimulation and learned from harsh experience that being with an extrovert is too draining and too much drama. I love these videos. Thank you. Marriage to me is a death sentence. Being happily single is pure joy.
I agree with you. One thing I hate about relationships is that everyone wants attention from anything. I hate it when others force me to give them explanations for everything and don't leave me alone to catch my breath after a hard day's work. Another thing I forgot to mention is that I'm tired of being others' slave and tending to their needs forgetting myself and my needs in the process.
People are too much work for me now. Ive worked enough so i would like someone to work for me now. Like a CPA or a friend to come by once a week & help me w/chores. But bc of covid no one is working that position
I finally understand why the relationships in my life have all failed, I've always known I like to spend time alone, but this video explains it all to me perfectly. I'm definitely an introvert.
Introverts will only meet extroverts at most social gatherings, which is fun for a few hours, but not sustainable. Trying to meet another introvert who's also just enjoying their solitude at home for the most part is a challenge. Unless anyone wants to develop a sure to fail dating app for that market. There used to be something called a bookstore, or a music store... that somewhat improved the odds. I belive that opposites do attract, but they have to undertand each other's limits and have a work around, such as attention seeking from other attention seeking friends. Never understood why they force themselves on those who clearly aren't interested.
I'm an introvert who has difficulty communicating with other people, not good at socializing with other people and it's very difficult once to adapt to a new environment, but I struggled hard to change into a classy introvert who is not lackluster and into a high-value man.
I'm an introvert. Asexual and possibly on the autism spectrum. Through my life I changed sexuality alot. Started out straight, felt bisexual but more leaning towards men and now I consider myself Asexual but Biromantic. Life can be hard and I feel like I'm not ready or capable of handling a relationship. Anxiety and bonding issues are also two huge problems. Tbh I'd rather stay single cuz it's easier but sometimes I do wanna know how it feels to be in a relationship. If you're ever feeling lonely or wondering what or who you wanna be. You're never alone.
7:32 I mean, come on. Who doesn't want to stay indoors, all alone, on a hot sofa with all the snacks you want, binge watching anime after anime all day? That's like a frickin' dream for me.
Count me in,,someone asked me you don't fell lonely while your staying in your room in the whole day?? My answer is no i fell energetic and happy alone ,quite inviroment is my safe zone while watching my Bl series or anime series my day is complete ,my mind at peace ..
Maybe not anime for me, but some truecrime or horror movies, or playing some world of warcraft and listen to heavy metal (I also listen to other music genre, but mostly heavy metal).
People can be exhausting. That said, when we find a kindred spirit, someone drama-free, who doesn't need to perpetually be the focus of everyone's attention, doesn't require an endless stream of validation to feel like they matter, someone who has hobbies and interests that make it so they don't need constant, rapt attention to avoid "getting bored," we have no problem developing a mutually beneficial relationship with them. "Sympatico" is a healthy state to be in. It lends itself to the creation of meaningful, long-term relationships. Absent that dynamic, we do prefer to be alone.
Before I love someone else like finding a partner, I would like to love myself first. And these are the accurate reasons of why I prefer being single rather than being in relationship, I know in myself that loving myself can take a long time to achieve but I'm fine with that.
We are introverts. We have no friends. Of course we are not going to have a girlfriend nor a boyfriend. We have nobody in our lives because we are clueless how to be social. We do not want to be social. We want to remain anonymous, as unnoticed as possible. If someone asks us for our name, we do not want to give it. We are not better than other people. We are simply afraid to be social. It makes us uncomfortable. We will be single all our lives. The thought of being connected to anybody, as a friend or a romantic interest, terrifies us. We need our solitude. We do not want to be part of the social herd.
@@marygadau4443 I think there are more of us than many believe, and on the uprise. People are starting to see how disgusting society is and are opting to not be part of it any more. As society continues its accelerated decay, there will be more introverts leaving social, herds.
@@AbhishekChaudhary-fz2dm We do not require the support of the herd, nor want it. We are far more independent, self-reliant, and crafty than extroverts. We are also a lot more creative with our time and efforts.
I'm an introvert also. I hate crowds and loud noises that I can't get away from. I'm married to an extrovert whom I love dearly but even after 33 years she's still going nonstop and does not know when to stop talking and leave me be. My most loved time of the day is when I am alone in the house and all I hear is the Grandfather clock ticking.
Im a single woman w/1 bad marriage on paper only - but i can relate to your comment. I choose to stay alone & single the rest of my solitary life. Relationships makes me feel trapped like an animal cuz im a loner and introverted hermit now that loves to be alone with God
6:38 - Loneliness about feeling of being out of place, it's a sad feeling. And how long can I stay comfortable with being "alone" or loneliness? Well I already realized and get used to it, I don't live to please everyone...just want them to understand me.
Moving at least a 5 hr drive away helps, though some will need to be told that you don't do phone calls, texting, social media etc and not to take it personally. In the same way extroverts chase dopamine incessantly through social interactions, you also are compelled to do what's best for you, which is chase dopamine through solitude, music, reading, exploring ideas rather than people. Social interaction is our green kryptonite. It makes extroverts stronger, but drains introverts. That's the idea behind Bizarro Superman who was created based on Carl Jeung's ideas.
@@georgianagheorghe8848 It's hard for a good, honourable person to not feel obligated, but there's no reasoning with the overbearing mother. They only care about themselves, and that personality type is a major reason some have no choice but to cut off ties completely to preserve their health, sanity and to move forward.
Iam 38, and close relationsships have always felt wrong, even if i wanted one when i was i was younger. But as the years passed, i baceme very comfortable with being an introvert. I tried some "fitting in"-stuff when i was in school, by being more social than i actually wanted. But it was never very succesful, becuse it becomes fake, and i sometimes found myself asking people the same question two, or even three times, becuse i was always somewhere else in my mind and so bored with the meaningless conversation about nothing.
I have a simple check mark graph of days that I spend alone versus my mood, and it is clear that when I'm alone I'm happy and when I am with others I am not. However, finding another introvert to have conversation or to spend time with alone even in silence is quite remarkable. It's almost an exchange of energy and understanding that is on a spiritual level.
I am an introvert, and I’m not opposed to having a boyfriend someday. But I’m not going to waste time dating someone who isn’t wroth it. I don’t want him calling me at unreasonably early hours of the morning. Or crazy late hours at night. I don’t want him blowing up my phone with texts about pointless stuff. I don’t want him around me every second of every day. (Just like, 3-5 hours together a day?-maybe 1 full day together) He needs to understand that I am an introvert and respect that.
I stay single for the moment because finding someone is not my priority in my self-growth and I have a huge fear of being with someone who is unreliable as hell or doesn't respect my need for alone time to relax
True for me & my broken heart. Theres no one woman man for me & most guys are insecure & jealous. I rather be alone the rest of my life. Screw that crap
I love being alone every day all month. I am retired from working dead end jobs & i love being alone cuz i have too many appts m-f i have to be home for. For medical reasons.
Friends are for children. Adults do not need them. They are nothing but low level intruders and enemies that will sooner betray you than ever help you or like you. The powers-that-be over stress that humans must be social to be successful and viable. This is to keep everyone clustered together to make humans easier to monitor. There are no benefits to having friends nor are they necessities.
I had a woman who I liked from middle school from 2017 to 2024. I still put out my feelings, it's hard to express them, now it's better to focus on achieving my success in the future, even though I'm an introvert who has difficulty communicating with other people, not good at socializing with other people and it's very difficult It's very important to adapt to a new environment, but I'm struggling hard to change into a classy introvert who isn't sluggish and becomes a man of high value, Bismillah, God willing, I will definitely be able to overcome this obstacle.
As an introvert myself I have always been misunderstood by my family. This always caused them to either caused them to avoid me. Many of them would start arguments with me at family gatherings. Eventually I stopped going and the truth is I'm glad I did. It's a relief not to go to things like that. I used to dread the holidays because I had to spend it with my family. Since the last big argument I quit going. I still talk to my family but I make excuses nowadays not to go to gatherings.
This video has described me perfectly I still have trouble understanding myself and this video just simplifies a lot of my questioning. When meeting someone I always ask what they like to do, their answers let me know if they would be a good fit without letting them know I’m an introvert 😢
This video nailed it. I haven't been in a relationship since 2014 and that before that 2001. The 2014 one was a test for me to see if I wanted that or was missing out but nope. I hated it. My daughters mother was pretty much the last real relationship I had and she's 23 now.
@@jiavillarez2422 There is a test based on introvert, ambivert, and extroverts throughout the internet. I am sure if you do a simple search, you can visit these sites having such tests and get accurate results.
Sorry to say... Relationship for me is annoying... That's why I stay single since birth till now...I love my peaceful world...I know what's happening and how serious the distraction might happen outside of my world..I'm always thinking of ways but I don't want people notice me ... that's why I let it be there's nothing I can do anyway ...and also it troubled me when someone trying to approach me and asking about myself...I really hate that feeling when someone show's interest in me ... really annoying.... I don't mind dying alone there's still my relatives who will bury my body anyway...
I stay single because depression and i was gonna start dating but then i saw a lot of videos of woman using men for money or cheating im not saying every woman is bad im just over it i will stop trying because its rare to find a loyal woman
Being introverted is about having the ability, to be honest with yourself and others, being extroverted just means that you just lack that ability. Even so-called extroverts get dreaded of so-called "social" interactions which are dishonest in their nature, it pisses off even them, but the extroverts don't have the inner strength to say that they don't like it.
Fuck it man the only things that bring me joy are working on my cars, trucks and dirt bikes, riding dirt bikes and helping other people by working on their stuff. I don’t care to be social I just enjoy the quiet 😂😂
Honestly I don't see myself in a relationship. I'm 17 in highschool and while all the girls are talking about boys and prom, I find myself not interested. The thought of having to talk to my "bf/gf" everyday, or them wanting to hang out makes me feel trapped. Like I saw you at school why do you wanna talk to me when I get home? I know that sounds selfish but when I go home, I just wanna chill in my room by myself.i hope i get over this "phase" its kinda ruining my social life😂😂
Introvert as i am is too hard to give trust to someone and if ever i give my trust to that person but they didn't valued and was been wasted it takes a time or year to give my courage to trust again ,
I'm an introvert. Marriage is a 50/50 chance of ending in divorce, including in the religious community in the current age. Marriages are ending after 20 to 35 years of commitment. Not going to waste my time
Being in a relationship (at least from the man's perspective...I don't know how it is for women) means constantly having to entertain the other person because they don't have anything to keep themselves occupied. I just don't have the energy for that. It's like being at a loud party for the rest of your life.
As an INFP I can relate to most of them. Rather than have a boyfriend or girlfriend (I am bisexual), I just want to have a or more (I dont believe in "the one") close friend i can cuddle with sometimes. And yes i do feel people do not understand me 100%, that are one friend that are close, but not 100%.
Im tired of being lied on & lied to for some dusty, no good, loose womanizing pos that wants a moma cuz he hasnt learned how to do for himself & be independent
Some of us are in the spectrum and at the same time we aren’t attractive to most people do to xyz . Its not easy finding romance but we are capable . I keep being myself , keep moving forward - it doesn’t guarantee a partner . if we die alone at least we died being ourselves not being superficial/shallow . Im 25 my viewpoint might change later
I've heard some great stories of geeky couples who meet pursuing their hobby. Really, it IS hard to find someone who understands you. But there's bound to be at least 10 at every comic con. Odds are you'll find one you like. 😂
The world wants extrovert behavior and look what happens. It isn't worth it if you have a conscience and don't really care to fit into some magical "box". We are all unique in our own way and nobody should pressure anyone without understanding the consequences....like extroverts talking without actually thinking. I'm an introvert and have friends, I go out and do things I enjoy doing. I just don't thrive off attention 🙂
A have a friend whos an introvert and he talks about how lonely he is. He just works and goes home. I tell him all the time a girl is never going to come knocking on his door neither is she going to hit on him while hes at work. I told him even if you dont mind someone flirting with you while your working the girl doesnt know that.
Who are all these introvert videos for exactly? Introverts, or Extroverts? Like honestly, an extrovert isn't likely to find themselves watching these videos. And an introvert would already know these things about themselves. Can we get a poll here? comment if you're an introvert or extrovert.
Nobody loves. Nobody is real, monogamous & selfless anymore. People always "want" something from me that they will not give me & then get an attitude w/me when i want to be alone w/me, myself & i forever.
2-3 hours, that's just how long I can stand being 'sociable' with people I don't personally know. After that, it's just draining all my energy, it feels like. If someone was silly enough to find me compatible, I'd probably scare her away by needing just a single room in our house reserved for me and my PC. Or paper and old-fashioned pen. Well, whatever, no other person present for a set number of hours to let me be creative. Or just waste my time playing video games, if it was that time of the decade... 😝
Along I Live, I never dated someone. Other people see me as a weird one cause I don't want to join them eating or gossipping. But, i promise i am very fine about that cause people really terrifiy me. 😢
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00:14 10 They Find Companionships Suffocating Sometimes.
01:14 09 They're Pretty Much Reserved.
02:04 08 They Unconsciously Avoid Anything That Distracts Them From Their Goals.
03:05 07 It Is Difficult To Find Someone Who Genuinely Understands Them.
03:43 06 They Hate Social Pressure.
04:43 05 They're Incredibly Self-Sufficient.
05:40 04 They Enjoy Their Company.
06:43 03 They Don’t Want To Worry About Arguments.
07:30 02 They Like Staying Most Of The Time Indoors.
08:35 01 They Don’t Need Relationships That Remind Them Of How Different They Are.
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we just tired of getting hurt from people 😭.... we just want total peace ... no hurt/violence
Amen.
Amen.
Amen
Amen
Never been hurt myself been lucky and very careful.
It's hard to find someone who truly understands us
Do you really really want someone to understand you?
I didn't think so.
@@mikeywestside8509 Yes you don't think so
So true u are rite
At the age of 36. I think it is safe to say becoming an introvert was the best thing I did for myself. Unfortunately, we live in a very needy mentally unhealthy world. Allowing someone into your space is not easy when you love independent growth. Many fall jelouse of it eventually and become a distraction or make a issue of it nomatter how much time and attention you give them. Ungreatfullness has no room in a introverts life. Peace and love 💛
You don't become an introvert. You are either born one or not.
@@tabarnakopoulos sometimes atmosphere can make
Just like lockdown made me
@@tabarnakopoulos I said the same thing in my head 😭
Ungreatfullness has no room in a introverts life ..... well said bro
Allowing someone into your space is not easy when you love independent growth.... people are just distraction not helpful for us, we try to be helpful not making them uncomfortable
@@tabarnakopoulos i feel/think we are genetically envolved to persue knowledge/truth ... not money ?
I find having to explain myself frustrating. People misconstrue quiet, reserved individuals as brooding and aloof, but we don't talk unless we have something to say.
I enjoy my own company.
I am an introvert and extremely happy alone. I don’t do obligation. I work from home and love my job. I do not want to be anything but single where I do me and others do themselves. I can’t tolerate too much stimulation and learned from harsh experience that being with an extrovert is too draining and too much drama. I love these videos. Thank you. Marriage to me is a death sentence. Being happily single is pure joy.
So eloquently stated!!!
I agree with you. One thing I hate about relationships is that everyone wants attention from anything. I hate it when others force me to give them explanations for everything and don't leave me alone to catch my breath after a hard day's work. Another thing I forgot to mention is that I'm tired of being others' slave and tending to their needs forgetting myself and my needs in the process.
AAAMEN!
Now I know what to tell people when they ask me why I never married. I just answer back, 'Because it's a death sentence.' Great answer!!
Same here ,well said 😁🤗👏❤
I just don't have the energy to entertain another person enough to make them wanna be with me
People are too much work for me now. Ive worked enough so i would like someone to work for me now. Like a CPA or a friend to come by once a week & help me w/chores. But bc of covid no one is working that position
I finally understand why the relationships in my life have all failed, I've always known I like to spend time alone, but this video explains it all to me perfectly. I'm definitely an introvert.
It’s difficult for me to find someone who understands me.
Me too. Only my female associates understand me but they are jealous too
Introverts will only meet extroverts at most social gatherings, which is fun for a few hours, but not sustainable. Trying to meet another introvert who's also just enjoying their solitude at home for the most part is a challenge. Unless anyone wants to develop a sure to fail dating app for that market.
There used to be something called a bookstore, or a music store... that somewhat improved the odds.
I belive that opposites do attract, but they have to undertand each other's limits and have a work around, such as attention seeking from other attention seeking friends. Never understood why they force themselves on those who clearly aren't interested.
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Thats normal, My Grandfather live with his Wife alone. My Father go mostly alone through life. He has only one friend. I go alone through life.
I'm an introvert. Asexual and possibly on the autism spectrum. Through my life I changed sexuality alot. Started out straight, felt bisexual but more leaning towards men and now I consider myself Asexual but Biromantic. Life can be hard and I feel like I'm not ready or capable of handling a relationship. Anxiety and bonding issues are also two huge problems. Tbh I'd rather stay single cuz it's easier but sometimes I do wanna know how it feels to be in a relationship.
If you're ever feeling lonely or wondering what or who you wanna be. You're never alone.
7:32 I mean, come on.
Who doesn't want to stay indoors, all alone, on a hot sofa with all the snacks you want, binge watching anime after anime all day?
That's like a frickin' dream for me.
Yes, we all want
Who doesn't want to stay indoors
Safe and simple💯
And avoid all the dangers outside -- especially PEOPLE.
Count me in,,someone asked me you don't fell lonely while your staying in your room in the whole day??
My answer is no i fell energetic and happy alone ,quite inviroment is my safe zone while watching my Bl series or anime series my day is complete ,my mind at peace ..
Maybe not anime for me, but some truecrime or horror movies, or playing some world of warcraft and listen to heavy metal (I also listen to other music genre, but mostly heavy metal).
People can be exhausting.
That said, when we find a kindred spirit, someone drama-free, who doesn't need to perpetually be the focus of everyone's attention, doesn't require an endless stream of validation to feel like they matter, someone who has hobbies and interests that make it so they don't need constant, rapt attention to avoid "getting bored," we have no problem developing a mutually beneficial relationship with them.
"Sympatico" is a healthy state to be in. It lends itself to the creation of meaningful, long-term relationships.
Absent that dynamic, we do prefer to be alone.
Before I love someone else like finding a partner, I would like to love myself first. And these are the accurate reasons of why I prefer being single rather than being in relationship, I know in myself that loving myself can take a long time to achieve but I'm fine with that.
Do you feel it's challenging when dating, Rather not go through the daily steps.
We are introverts. We have no friends. Of course we are not going to have a girlfriend nor a boyfriend. We have nobody in our lives because we are clueless how to be social. We do not want to be social. We want to remain anonymous, as unnoticed as possible. If someone asks us for our name, we do not want to give it. We are not better than other people. We are simply afraid to be social. It makes us uncomfortable. We will be single all our lives. The thought of being connected to anybody, as a friend or a romantic interest, terrifies us. We need our solitude. We do not want to be part of the social herd.
Hahaha they are unique.
@@marygadau4443 I think there are more of us than many believe, and on the uprise. People are starting to see how disgusting society is and are opting to not be part of it any more. As society continues its accelerated decay, there will be more introverts leaving social, herds.
We better than extrovert in terms of thinking and logic abilities
@@AbhishekChaudhary-fz2dm We do not require the support of the herd, nor want it. We are far more independent, self-reliant, and crafty than extroverts. We are also a lot more creative with our time and efforts.
@@indridcold8433 ya we can enjoy our own company
I'm an introvert also. I hate crowds and loud noises that I can't get away from. I'm married to an extrovert whom I love dearly but even after 33 years she's still going nonstop and does not know when to stop talking and leave me be. My most loved time of the day is when I am alone in the house and all I hear is the Grandfather clock ticking.
Im a single woman w/1 bad marriage on paper only - but i can relate to your comment. I choose to stay alone & single the rest of my solitary life. Relationships makes me feel trapped like an animal cuz im a loner and introverted hermit now that loves to be alone with God
@@anndavis2920Hey, nothing wrong with that. More power to you!
6:38
- Loneliness about feeling of being out of place, it's a sad feeling. And how long can I stay comfortable with being "alone" or loneliness?
Well I already realized and get used to it, I don't live to please everyone...just want them to understand me.
Amen.
Being obligated for family gatherings is a nightmare, but you HAVE to live that one
You're telling me. My mother is unbearable. Nothing I do pleases her and she makes my brother and I neglect our needs to do hers.
Yeah... but I closed my toxic fake negative family out of my life... my mom being the most negative shitty
@@georgianagheorghe8848 oh don't get me started with birthdays and holidays. They kids are more mature than the fuckin adults....
Moving at least a 5 hr drive away helps, though some will need to be told that you don't do phone calls, texting, social media etc and not to take it personally. In the same way extroverts chase dopamine incessantly through social interactions, you also are compelled to do what's best for you, which is chase dopamine through solitude, music, reading, exploring ideas rather than people.
Social interaction is our green kryptonite. It makes extroverts stronger, but drains introverts. That's the idea behind Bizarro Superman who was created based on Carl Jeung's ideas.
@@georgianagheorghe8848 It's hard for a good, honourable person to not feel obligated, but there's no reasoning with the overbearing mother.
They only care about themselves, and that personality type is a major reason some have no choice but to cut off ties completely to preserve their health, sanity and to move forward.
I clocked out at “severity.” Introversion is not a disease.
It is easy to stay single as an introvert, and better cause being an introvert myself I'm in my world, and goals 99 percent of the time.
Iam 38, and close relationsships have always felt wrong, even if i wanted one when i was i was younger. But as the years passed, i baceme very comfortable with being an introvert. I tried some "fitting in"-stuff when i was in school, by being more social than i actually wanted. But it was never very succesful, becuse it becomes fake, and i sometimes found myself asking people the same question two, or even three times, becuse i was always somewhere else in my mind and so bored with the meaningless conversation about nothing.
Most people’s conversation is banal and vacuous.
I have a simple check mark graph of days that I spend alone versus my mood, and it is clear that when I'm alone I'm happy and when I am with others I am not. However, finding another introvert to have conversation or to spend time with alone even in silence is quite remarkable. It's almost an exchange of energy and understanding that is on a spiritual level.
I’m incredibly self-sufficient.
Only until you need someone to do something for you
I am an introvert, and I’m not opposed to having a boyfriend someday.
But I’m not going to waste time dating someone who isn’t wroth it.
I don’t want him calling me at unreasonably early hours of the morning.
Or crazy late hours at night.
I don’t want him blowing up my phone with texts about pointless stuff.
I don’t want him around me every second of every day.
(Just like, 3-5 hours together a day?-maybe 1 full day together)
He needs to understand that I am an introvert and respect that.
#6... it's exhausting having to go to every family get together.
I stay single for the moment because finding someone is not my priority in my self-growth and I have a huge fear of being with someone who is unreliable as hell or doesn't respect my need for alone time to relax
We stay single to prevent our hearts from being broken ❤❤❤❤
True for me & my broken heart. Theres no one woman man for me & most guys are insecure & jealous. I rather be alone the rest of my life. Screw that crap
@@anndavis2920 its true bro . better to be single and enjoy life. After a few failed relationships i dont like being hurt over love.
I can relate to all of these. Although I do like getting outdoors and being in nature.
Being in nature is the only outdoor activity i enjoy
That's right! I do enjoy my own company. I am married -- to ME🤠 and MYSELF😎. NO ONE can ever replace them!
Love being alone. I enjoy my own company.
I don’t want anything that distracts me from my goals.
I have been in love with an extrovert before.. that was a nice question to end the video with too
Yes I am single and is incontrol of my life. I feel overwhelmed with a partner around. Don't like arguments and quarrels and like staying home
I'm an Introvert and I came out as Aromantic during lock down. The very thought of a Romantic relationship is exhausting.
Six days out of seven being alone with a three hour period for church one day a week is pure Heaven for me.
I love being alone every day all month. I am retired from working dead end jobs & i love being alone cuz i have too many appts m-f i have to be home for. For medical reasons.
I really love this...only if people could understand that being an introvert is not a disease. Being alone doesn't mean I'm lonely.
I’m pretty much reserved.
"iI is better to be alone than to wish you were."
Friends are for children. Adults do not need them. They are nothing but low level intruders and enemies that will sooner betray you than ever help you or like you. The powers-that-be over stress that humans must be social to be successful and viable. This is to keep everyone clustered together to make humans easier to monitor. There are no benefits to having friends nor are they necessities.
I had a woman who I liked from middle school from 2017 to 2024. I still put out my feelings, it's hard to express them, now it's better to focus on achieving my success in the future, even though I'm an introvert who has difficulty communicating with other people, not good at socializing with other people and it's very difficult It's very important to adapt to a new environment, but I'm struggling hard to change into a classy introvert who isn't sluggish and becomes a man of high value, Bismillah, God willing, I will definitely be able to overcome this obstacle.
As an introvert myself I have always been misunderstood by my family. This always caused them to either caused them to avoid me. Many of them would start arguments with me at family gatherings. Eventually I stopped going and the truth is I'm glad I did. It's a relief not to go to things like that. I used to dread the holidays because I had to spend it with my family. Since the last big argument I quit going. I still talk to my family but I make excuses nowadays not to go to gatherings.
I always leave early. It is hard but it has to be done...
This is a great video!
I’m fine and comfortable in my own skin.
I'm an introvert but happen to be happily married ♥️♥️♥️
Traitor
You are very confusing.....,get a clue
Thanks for sharing!
This video has described me perfectly I still have trouble understanding myself and this video just simplifies a lot of my questioning. When meeting someone I always ask what they like to do, their answers let me know if they would be a good fit without letting them know I’m an introvert 😢
As an introvert, I'm single for one good reason...
Because I feel like it.
This video nailed it. I haven't been in a relationship since 2014 and that before that 2001. The 2014 one was a test for me to see if I wanted that or was missing out but nope. I hated it. My daughters mother was pretty much the last real relationship I had and she's 23 now.
Very accurate and well said.
I am more of an ambivert, having both introvert and extrovert qualities. So, it is a hit and miss.
How did you know if you are a ambivert ???I just wanna know??
@@jiavillarez2422 There is a test based on introvert, ambivert, and extroverts throughout the internet. I am sure if you do a simple search, you can visit these sites having such tests and get accurate results.
@@doctorgames101b thanks
I am most definitely a Lonewolf. I like being alone I call my own shots just the way I am.
It depends on the individual. Always remember it folks.
Hit all the points🎯🎯🎯🎯👍👍
All correct, lovely to get affirming all my characteristics, thank you.
...this vid is totally me. :) ty
Sorry to say...
Relationship for me is annoying...
That's why I stay single since birth till now...I love my peaceful world...I know what's happening and how serious the distraction might happen outside of my world..I'm always thinking of ways but I don't want people notice me ... that's why I let it be there's nothing I can do anyway ...and also it troubled me when someone trying to approach me and asking about myself...I really hate that feeling when someone show's interest in me ... really annoying....
I don't mind dying alone there's still my relatives who will bury my body anyway...
Dude u are so on point. As an introvert, all the 10 facts apply to me and I never feel lonely cause I know how to keep myself and my mind busy.
I'm one of them introvert just keeping it real
I stay single because depression and i was gonna start dating but then i saw a lot of videos of woman using men for money or cheating im not saying every woman is bad im just over it i will stop trying because its rare to find a loyal woman
Don't give up 💪
Being introverted is about having the ability, to be honest with yourself and others, being extroverted just means that you just lack that ability. Even so-called extroverts get dreaded of so-called "social" interactions which are dishonest in their nature, it pisses off even them, but the extroverts don't have the inner strength to say that they don't like it.
You are spot on!
Great video. Thank you!
This video describes me 100%!!!
Spot on
Fuck it man the only things that bring me joy are working on my cars, trucks and dirt bikes, riding dirt bikes and helping other people by working on their stuff. I don’t care to be social I just enjoy the quiet 😂😂
Someday, someone will choose you and accept you for who you are and love you unconditionally. 😊
I was with and extrovert and how tiresome that was. I love being home
and he’d scream I’m bored!!! Me like 😯 I’m loving this! 😂
Honestly I don't see myself in a relationship. I'm 17 in highschool and while all the girls are talking about boys and prom, I find myself not interested. The thought of having to talk to my "bf/gf" everyday, or them wanting to hang out makes me feel trapped. Like I saw you at school why do you wanna talk to me when I get home? I know that sounds selfish but when I go home, I just wanna chill in my room by myself.i hope i get over this "phase" its kinda ruining my social life😂😂
Introvert as i am is too hard to give trust to someone and if ever i give my trust to that person but they didn't valued and was been wasted it takes a time or year to give my courage to trust again ,
I'm an introvert. Marriage is a 50/50 chance of ending in divorce, including in the religious community in the current age. Marriages are ending after 20 to 35 years of commitment. Not going to waste my time
I’m a lone wolf.
As an introvert i'm not currently interested i want to work in myself and just get My shit together
That's the best!!!
Yes!!!!
Introverted is present now hello teams as scorpion zodiac sign Born October month i have ALSO cats moves
It’s all that’s ever been and all that is familiar in turn making it a fantasy to be in love…
Why have I been exposed
Well that was absolutely on the money ha! 😄😉👌
I’m an introvert that has the biggest crush on another introvert and it’s been hilariously difficult to get things going.
I prefer to remain alone.
Being in a relationship (at least from the man's perspective...I don't know how it is for women) means constantly having to entertain the other person because they don't have anything to keep themselves occupied. I just don't have the energy for that. It's like being at a loud party for the rest of your life.
As an INFP I can relate to most of them. Rather than have a boyfriend or girlfriend (I am bisexual), I just want to have a or more (I dont believe in "the one") close friend i can cuddle with sometimes.
And yes i do feel people do not understand me 100%, that are one friend that are close, but not 100%.
It can be damn hard being an introvert.
I'm a introvert too it's very hard being an introvert It seems like most people are extroverts also and don't understand us introverts
Ye bat sahi hai😊
Im tired of being lied on & lied to for some dusty, no good, loose womanizing pos that wants a moma cuz he hasnt learned how to do for himself & be independent
Some of us are in the spectrum and at the same time we aren’t attractive to most people do to xyz . Its not easy finding romance but we are capable . I keep being myself , keep moving forward - it doesn’t guarantee a partner . if we die alone at least we died being ourselves not being superficial/shallow . Im 25 my viewpoint might change later
❤
There's nothing magical about people. Given time you will need your space. Robert doesn't have any problem with that. 😂😂
Companionship can be suffocating if not carefully managed or maintained.
Amen
They live in their heads, no room for anyone else. The effort required to get them to open up can be exhausting.
Then leave us alone and hang out with other extroverts. Don't expect us to change who we are.
But what happens if you meet another introvert und suddenly you feel home 😂
I've heard some great stories of geeky couples who meet pursuing their hobby. Really, it IS hard to find someone who understands you. But there's bound to be at least 10 at every comic con. Odds are you'll find one you like. 😂
Being single has nothing to do with being an introvert. Our intelligence plays the biggest role.
The world wants extrovert behavior and look what happens.
It isn't worth it if you have a conscience and don't really care to fit into some magical "box".
We are all unique in our own way and nobody should pressure anyone without understanding the consequences....like extroverts talking without actually thinking.
I'm an introvert and have friends, I go out and do things I enjoy doing.
I just don't thrive off attention 🙂
A have a friend whos an introvert and he talks about how lonely he is. He just works and goes home. I tell him all the time a girl is never going to come knocking on his door neither is she going to hit on him while hes at work. I told him even if you dont mind someone flirting with you while your working the girl doesnt know that.
Who are all these introvert videos for exactly? Introverts, or Extroverts? Like honestly, an extrovert isn't likely to find themselves watching these videos. And an introvert would already know these things about themselves.
Can we get a poll here? comment if you're an introvert or extrovert.
Introvert
Yeah but its making me stronger that i and other introverts are rearly common.
Extrovert here sorry but I injoying a lot of video like this lately or I'll say I more listening about all kinds of extroverts
Prefer animals to people, much simpler and less complex. Cats especially 😻
I'm an extrovert trying to learn about a new romantic interest. ❤
I don’t want to be single forever
Nobody loves. Nobody is real, monogamous & selfless anymore. People always "want" something from me that they will not give me & then get an attitude w/me when i want to be alone w/me, myself & i forever.
My ideas (which are creative) are absurd to most extroverted people.
2-3 hours, that's just how long I can stand being 'sociable' with people I don't personally know. After that, it's just draining all my energy, it feels like.
If someone was silly enough to find me compatible, I'd probably scare her away by needing just a single room in our house reserved for me and my PC. Or paper and old-fashioned pen. Well, whatever, no other person present for a set number of hours to let me be creative. Or just waste my time playing video games, if it was that time of the decade... 😝
Along I Live, I never dated someone. Other people see me as a weird one cause I don't want to join them eating or gossipping. But, i promise i am very fine about that cause people really terrifiy me. 😢
Goals? What goals? Already accomplished them. Now I am retired and can do as I please. Everything else is spot-on.
I honestly don't know if I can be in a relationship with a woman because I love being alone