That’s such great advice Dee. It’s good to take it with you when you’re shopping so you know how things will fit with your shapewear on. See that’s why I love y’all. Thanks boo. Going to pin your comment. 😘♥️
@tenwaystowearit You are always so fun to watch and I appreciate that you take time out to do this while holding down a regular job, a bf and all the fam! Girl you are amazing!🥰
That's awesome! I have worked in service jobs that require a uniform most of my life and I try to dress nice when I go out too. It makes me feel confident and happy.🥰
Saving my clothes for special occasions has been my downfall! You should see me walking my dog now🤣🤣🤣…but I’m feelin’ damn good with my doggie by my side since I’ve included my personal style on the sidewalks❤️👍🏻😃. Love your videos!
This video is therapy in itself! I used to visualize that I still had my youthful, slim body - and actually shopped as if I was a size 6 instead of the size 14 that I am. But now I shop for my real-time-body. I look so much better and feel more confident. Also, I tend to ask myself if my clothing/style is age-appropriate. Why do I do that to myself? There’s no age listed on the sizing tags! Your video has given me a new and freeing perspective. Thanks so much!
Oh my good Sandy. I can relate with everything you said. And I have a great video coming about about age and style. I don’t believe in the whole age-appropriate thing either. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me. This means a lot. 😘♥️
Such a great video. You are so right about saving your clothes for a special event. The pandemic has taught me that life is short. I wear my clothes and try not to leave them hanging in the closet. I still dress up for church even though we are so casual these days. I don’t care I want to look good in house of the Lord.😀. I always enjoy your videos. Keep them coming. You have helped me a lot for a retired 62 year old. ❤️
Thank you so much Sharon. You are so right about everything you stated. And I’m the same with my church. Our church is pretty casual but most of us still choose to dress up a little and just show that respect. I can’t see myself dressing up for dinner with friends but not dressing up for the Lord. I look forward to my Sundays at church. I don’t go every Sunday but I’m starting to go a lot more. At least 2-3 times a month. Thank you babe. ♥️♥️♥️
Wow, you have really stuck a nerve with that. When I buy a dress it would always be for church first, my priority being to dress properly for the Lord's house. So when others think I'm being a snob for dressing up, I really don't care. This has been excellent advice.
If there were awards for best presented content in a YT video you would definitely have my vote, Alisha! Loved this topic & your very personal & relatable presentation right down to today’s sponsor. The last two on your list really hit home for me personally & I’m glad you included them. Thanks for sharing and always being authentically amazing you! Love you back girl & all you do for your community of devoted subbies!❤️
You are the BOMB! If I lived near you I would pay for you to style my ENTIRE wardrobe. These other "fashion" girls don't have style they just buy label after label, then do videos about luxury regrets and how the stuff falling apart. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't ever change!!!
Hi Alisha! You are so right! I used to wait for special occasions to wear my special clothes, but no more! Living is a special enough reason to wear all the "special" clothes! You have to accept the skin you're and be happy! Whatever positive changes one makes, then you'll be better for it! Love yourself!❤❤
I found you through a comment section and decided to check out your content, and was pleasantly surprised. I find this advice very helpful and you seem like a great roll model to follow as a 16 year old aspiring fashionista 😊
Ohhhh my goodness. #9 hit hard. "In Costco looking fly AF" --- I LOVE it! And every other syllable in that particular segment. Loved ALL your trips, but felt this one big. Thank you!
It's all about growth. When you know better you do better. I would encourage you not to beat up and yourself. I have been watching your for a while, my style is growing along with your style.
I honestly just love your personality. You’re so warm and generous with how you share with us. I’m at a point in my life where I’m beginning to care so much less about other’s opinion of me. I’m newly single and losing weight and struggling with my personal style. These tips are super helpful. Thanks!
I get dressed up for even going grocery shopping. I also stop saving my clothes for special occasion. We only live once so make use of thing when you have good health. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I have always loved fashion and dressing, but finding you and your real style that’s really nice and reachable like clothes that I can actually wear out has made me completely reevaluate my looks. So now, every time you share your new ideas, it prompts me to evaluate my wardrobe too! Shapewear is absolutely key, my mother stressed this importance even as a young woman. Thank you for your hard work putting all of this together.❤
I always say if someone doesn't like what I'm wearing, that's their problem, not mine. You look wonderful in all the outfits you showed in this video! I especially love the green checkered pants outfit with the white blazer over it! 🥰
I love your style I have my own style and I don't care what people think my own sister told me I used to think you dressed weird but she seen how I felt about myself and she started dressing better after she went shopping with me and seen how she could look better and feel better.
I love it Rosie! You sound amazing and sounds like you even helped your sister out just by you being yourself. That’s powerful. Keep rocking girlfriend. Lots of love to you. 😘♥️😘
ALICIA, OMG, you so hit the nail on the head with me regarding saving clothes for a special occasion. Girl, like a month ago, I started wearing my clothes that I was saving. I loved this whole video
This, and you are Awesome! I was just about to get ready to go and meet up some of my friends for an early dinner. I had my outfit ready and I sat and watched this video, and now I have changed out my purse and shoes and added some and jewelry ... NOW, I am ready to go out and I am looking so cute now and feeling great. Thank you for videos.
Congrats! I am happy to see that you accepted the body that you were blessed with and began to dress with clothes that are beautiful and flattering for your body shape. Kudos to you and Congrats.
You are so helpful to me personally. I've thought about all these tips but always concerned myself with fitting in. I'm 68 and I want to STAND OUT!!! Society has accepted a casual look but there is difference in casual and sloppy. When I organized my closet and invested in well-fitted shape wear and forgave my body for not being Jane Fonda I started having much more fun getting dressed. You have been a reassuring part of what I already knew. Thank you for all your hard work!!!
Make no mistake, you have great style!!! I love how you put unusual things together and one of my favorite outfits, I copied and everyone loves it...I receive so many compliments on it!! Drum role... It's my camo pants, black combat boots, black low cut tank top, paired with the Amazon long red and black cheetah sweater!!! Do you remember it? I also purchased the green and black cheetah sweater and wear it sometimes!!! You look fantastic in everything you put together!!! Thanks for your tips and ideas!
Awwww thank you so much Gillian. I really appreciate your kind words and I’m so glad to have you here. So thankful for all the people like you who make doing this so wonderful. Lots of love to you babe. 😘♥️😘
I love seeing that you’ve uploaded and this video is top shelf! The messages and the outfits are spot on! So modern and classy, edgy and sophisticated. Your styling is extraordinary - SO good. Your advice is universal, delivered in a very genuine way. Applause!
I've watched you for a while now and you always make good fashion sense. YES! YES! you are so right, stop saving clothing because everyday is a special occasion. You are helping women of all ages, Thank You!
In the words of the dearly departed Tina Turner, you are simply the best , better than all the rest. This video was right on time for me. Loving my new size. I went from a 8 to a 10/12 and still squeezed into the 8s looking a hot mess and waiting to lose the covid weight. Well I’m a 10/12 and have accepted it.
You are speaking for a lot of folks; Covid has been a monster in quite a few ways. You don’t have to be a size 8 to be stylish and beautiful; work whatcha got!👏🏽🥰
You👈🏾 Have had such a positive impact on me! This is THE BEST VIDEO EVER!!!!!!! I happened upon you and I now look forward to your content weekly. I have witnessed how you've grown in style and maturity over time..I went back and watched almost all of your old vids😅 Thank you for being YOU. I have two Style Content Creators YOU & Angela Michelle...you both are OUTSTANDING. I'm 55 so you help me keep my edgy flair and Angela ties into my "you somebody's GlamMa vibe" L❤ve you💕🦋
You have nailed your style and know what suits you! Many of these outfits are spectacular. They seem effortless, but I can tell you took a lot of time and attention to perfect them. Jumpsuit at 3:59, 2-piece set at 12:39, B/W zebra at 16:41, and orange and white at 18:32 (the SHOES!) are my favorites. It's wonderful how well you know yourself!
Dee Gee, you are soooo right. This is a fantastic video!!!. I was already this person and have been for years. People who know me will have to admit that this is me 100%. What I am about to do now is try to get my girlfriends to listens to this from start to finish. I know I will be met with some resistance, but , at least I have tried. This is very timely and so important in so many ways.
This was actually very helpful. I definitely need to organize ( declutter and donate) my wardrobe for sure. Knowing where things are and being able to see them is helpful. I honestly have so many clothes I have not worn or do not plan to wear again but find it hard to get rid of. Soon I’ll be with you in Target looking like a DIVA!! 😂🥂
I heard that Carolyn. 🥰 And I can relate with you so much on struggling to get rid of things. I have major attachment issues to my stuff so it’s definitely been a struggle. Just keep working at it. Lots of love babe. 😘♥️
Girl, you’re a rockstar! Thanks for this amazing video, especially for being so candid about mental health. I’m a work in progress in terms of style but love where I’m at. I get a lot of inspiration from you. Your style is fabulous and commensurate your body type. 😍
Thank you so much for your sweet and encouraging words Monique. I really appreciate you being here babe. We’re all a work in progress just doing the best we can. 😘♥️
I really appreciate how you have grown in your style and sharing your journey. I look forward to your videos and the insights you share for my style journey.
Alisha, I really loved your list. I've seen your growth, including how much your wardrobe has changed throughout the years and how your confidence has grown with those changes. I love you because you are authentic and do it your own way! Keep up the good work!
Thank you so much Gayla. I truly appreciate it. And thanks for rocking with a Sista for this long. I’m so blessed to have lovely ladies like you on this platform. 😘♥️
One of your best videos! Thank you. And your confidence is contagious. I’ll try to remember all of these great tips AND not care about what others think of how I dress.
Thank you so much Ketrice. It’s so wonderful to hear that so many of you ladies can relate and understand where I’m coming from. I truly appreciate you. 😘♥️
I really loved this video. You are one positive person and you should be very proud of your accomplishments! I will take all your tips into consideration. May God continue to bless you with great health as you continue on this journey called life!
Such a great video! OMG!!! I have been told that I have a great shape. Of course I see the issues. I love the clothes you wear and how you wear them. I can tell that you are clued into what looks best on you. I need to consider every one of these steps. Thx.
Well, in this video you provide the most logical and useful style advice that I’ve consumed on TH-cam and I consume A LOT of style advice content! Thank you!
Thank you so much for the great content in this video sis! I like using your name, but refuse to spell it wrong. I know, I have issues. 🤣🤣🤣I'm a mental health advocate, so the Better Help piece really resonated with me! Thank you for raising the awareness that HELP is available. My favorite tip was about NOT saving stuff for a special occasion. I'm my mama's daughter and be rocking to the NINES on ANY day! LOL! Somebody made a comment one day about how I was dressed, indicating that I was overdressed for a regular day. Chile please...It bothered me for a hot second and I went about my business. Don't hate, APPRECIATE! That's all. Thanks again Queen. Keep bringing the🔥🔥🔥 Peace, Love, and Blessings💚💚💚
Thank you so much Cynthia. And I love what you said. I too have had people attempt to insult me by saying I’m overdressed or just doing too much but I find that it usually comes from a place of either jealousy or unfamiliarity. Especially out here in L.A. They’re so used to everybody walking around in gym clothes all the time so when you actually get dressed they look at you like you’re crazy. These days I’m like look and learn. 😂 Thank you sis for understanding where I’m coming from. Big hugs. 😘♥️
Your videos are always on point! This one spoke volumes to me! Thank you!! “Stop caring what people think, invest in good shapewear, love and dress your body the way it is!! Yes gauuuud!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Definitely appreciate you and this video, you are speaking the truth about being authentic to yourself. I love your style and energy, everything might not be for me but you rock everything you wear. You make me look at my wardrobe… I know I already need to remove 3 dresses I love but they don’t love me. Yes, dressing for the size we are makes you look put together.. thank you for spreading these gems 🎉🎉
Perfect Timing 👌🏾. I was actually saying it's time to get rid of all my graphic tees because I want to definitely elevate my look that's more age appropriate. These tips were speaking to me on a personal level and on a business level for my online women's boutique. Thanks for a great video ❤
Great tips! I love all the advice, so true. I need to clean out my closet, that’s the tip I’m working on. Thank you for sharing. I’ve also seen your style evolve and I’m inspired by you and your bravery. Good for you!!!
You are describing me. I kept trying to dress in my old size. Finally accepting and loving body now. Instead of thinking, I'll be happier after I lose 20 lbs. I'm buying what fits me now. No more living in the future! You gave very good advice!
Alisha, I’m have this problem, but I’m am trying doing better with loving my body and trying to appreciate what it is! We have similar body type and I am so glad I found you channel. It has really helped with my styling when I see items to wear, thank you!
I loved this video! I’ve been watching your videos for a few years and I found you because we have similar body types, so I thought I could use your ideas as an outfit idea inspiration. Now I see you branching out and it’s so wonderful to see your content growing. I would love for you to do a closet organization video because mine is a mess and I do not know how to make it look like something I want to dip into and play with. Anyway, I’d like to close with a thank you for your continued positing. Love, jennifer
I love this video! You are so encouraging Alisha. I learned to love my body because of you. Being a older woman, I always feel that I didn't dress the way an older woman should, but now I am so confident in what I wear. My mother was a sophisticated dresser and looked good in everything, but just like me, she had to find her style because when she was young, she didn't feel that she had the nicest clothes. My mother is my inspiration and so are you and I had to except my body and dress it they way that I should and I feel so much happier now with my personal style. Thank you! 😊
Good for you! I was the same way, afraid of people thinking that I was “trying to look young” (I’m 60). I don’t want to look ‘young’, but I am trying to look stylish and that is exactly what I do now. I love it when younger women compliment me🥰
I love love, love this video and your content in general. You have got to be the most down to earth, fashionista on TH-cam! Also, as a therapist with BetterHelp, I second your motion! Peace
This video is my game changer when it comes to personal styling and confidence. I dressed to impress the society that was around me but I wasnt happy. After watching this I dress in what makes me happy and suits my body shape. My confidence level is on a high and I just love how I feel. This video is great and right now I am watching your other videos for great tips.
I appreciate all the effort you put into your videos. All that you say resonates with me. I definitely need to shop for my body type and current size and buy quality and timely pieces. I truly appreciate your advice 🙂
Just watched your video. And it was inspiring. I’ve watched you a couple of times before. But….., Today I subscribed because you have grown into a very authentic influencer. I’m over 60 and dress very modern; not old ladyish. You gave me more confidence today. Keep being you. And the heck with what others think. Blessings to you.
TWTWI, you are A-mazing! I just didn’t want this video to end. Great suggestions/tips. Thank you also for giving attention to the topic of Mental Health. There is no good physical health without good mental health. Great job, sis❤️😊.
I think your an awesome "BRAVE" young woman... There is something beautifully humble in you that is awesome humble and brave all in the same person is super rare!!!! Thats it!! Your a rare gem !!!! A pleasure to watch thank you!!!!
I love your style! I'm turning 60 years young next month and I believe you can dress modestly and still look nice without revealing it all. I have been wearing shapewear for years and it definitely makes the outfits I wear look well put together.
Wonderful informative video. I am in total agreement. We went to the nursery to get plants and I was dressed in casual sport outfit that I contrasted with a bright colored shrug and updo messy bun and the store clerk complimented me and asked if I was going to a special event. Girl your recommendations are right on!!
I loved your content so much. Just about everything you said is how i use to think never really believing in myself, now I dress for me and i have stop saving clothes for special occasions that never come. So nice to watch your video because my spirit comes alive just watching you. Your videos give me so much confidence to keep branching out. Thanks Alisha ❤
Thank you so much Maxine. I love your comments so much. I’m so glad that a lot of you beautiful ladies can relate and understand where I’m coming from. It means a lot. Sending you lots of love my dear. 😘♥️
Love that youre not into brand names and living above your means. And yes ladies, pleeease wear some shapewear...dont ruin the garment. Know your shape and what works well with it, your style. Love all your videos and advice
Hey sis, I love your style, and just the fact that you always dress with things you like. It's so important not to worry about others'opinions and be your authentic self. I love it. Blessings ❤❤🤗
You look amazing. I've been watching your channel for 2 years, and I love your style for you. You wear it well, and you've definitely elevated your style.
This was such a GREAT video! This is what sets you apart from the others…you post really insightful videos. Getting a divorce helped me tremendously in improving my style. And you’re so right about not waiting for an occasion to wear my clothes. I’m sure the people at the foot doctor found me overdressed this morning…but I found me beautiful!!! Thanks for great content Alisha! 😊
You can take I see your TH-cam award you go girl I've been watching you for a while enjoy the content that you give and stay blessed and stay beautiful and stay happy❤
I couldn’t agree more with the idea of wearing my clothes whenever and wherever instead of keeping them for special occasions. Thanks for the inspiration. 👍🏽👍😎
Such a great video!! I relate to ALLL of it. And thank you for highlighting how we all can benefit from therapy. I definitely was making the same wardrobe mistakes on my journey as well. LOVE LOVE LOVE.
This is a great video!!! Shapewear is so key!! Now I take/wear shapewear when I go shopping!! Have a great day! I can’t wait to see the next video!!
That’s such great advice Dee. It’s good to take it with you when you’re shopping so you know how things will fit with your shapewear on. See that’s why I love y’all. Thanks boo. Going to pin your comment. 😘♥️
@@tenwaystowearit Love u more!!!
Really valid tips Dee. You are so correct
great idea!
The biggest tip I've taken from you over the last year is to stop saving my clothes for a special occasion. Now I just look bomb all the time!
That’s wonderful Lara. I love to hear it babe. Thank you for being here. I really appreciate it. 😘♥️
@tenwaystowearit You are always so fun to watch and I appreciate that you take time out to do this while holding down a regular job, a bf and all the fam! Girl you are amazing!🥰
That's what I had to do too anout 2/3 years ago. Covid really made throw the whole thing g of 'Saving it for a special occasion out of the window'
That's awesome! I have worked in service jobs that require a uniform most of my life and I try to dress nice when I go out too. It makes me feel confident and happy.🥰
Exactly. I am doing that at last. Making myself look good all the time.😁
Saving my clothes for special occasions has been my downfall! You should see me walking my dog now🤣🤣🤣…but I’m feelin’ damn good with my doggie by my side since I’ve included my personal style on the sidewalks❤️👍🏻😃. Love your videos!
I love it Braddock!!! You and your puppy just styling and looking cute. I’m here for it. ♥️♥️♥️
This video is therapy in itself! I used to visualize that I still had my youthful, slim body - and actually shopped as if I was a size 6 instead of the size 14 that I am. But now I shop for my real-time-body. I look so much better and feel more confident. Also, I tend to ask myself if my clothing/style is age-appropriate. Why do I do that to myself? There’s no age listed on the sizing tags! Your video has given me a new and freeing perspective. Thanks so much!
Same or I wouldn't buy any new cute outfits because I was waiting to "lose weight" lol. Naw I'm going to dress cute NOW at my current size!
Omg,me too. I'm finally starting to realize I need to shop things that look good on me now instead of back then. I'm not alone😊
Oh my good Sandy. I can relate with everything you said. And I have a great video coming about about age and style. I don’t believe in the whole age-appropriate thing either. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me. This means a lot. 😘♥️
@@vonnieb7411 you’re not alone Vonnie. I did the same thing my whole life. ♥️😘
@ sandy Mason facts, there is no age on the tag. Shop what makes you happy!
I started improving my personal style when I started watching you. Honestly you have helped me tremendously.
Same!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Mee toooo🎉
Yes,,, She is amazing...
This^^^
Awwwww thank you so much Tee. That means a lot to me babe. I really appreciate it. 😘
Such a great video. You are so right about saving your clothes for a special event. The pandemic has taught me that life is short. I wear my clothes and try not to leave them hanging in the closet. I still dress up for church even though we are so casual these days. I don’t care I want to look good in house of the Lord.😀. I always enjoy your videos. Keep them coming. You have helped me a lot for a retired 62 year old. ❤️
I still dress up for church also!
@@msdiva2847 😃👍🏽
Thank you so much Sharon. You are so right about everything you stated. And I’m the same with my church. Our church is pretty casual but most of us still choose to dress up a little and just show that respect. I can’t see myself dressing up for dinner with friends but not dressing up for the Lord. I look forward to my Sundays at church. I don’t go every Sunday but I’m starting to go a lot more. At least 2-3 times a month. Thank you babe. ♥️♥️♥️
@@msdiva2847 me too. I look forward to it.
Wow, you have really stuck a nerve with that. When I buy a dress it would always be for church first, my priority being to dress properly for the Lord's house. So when others think I'm being a snob for dressing up, I really don't care. This has been excellent advice.
If there were awards for best presented content in a YT video you would definitely have my vote, Alisha! Loved this topic & your very personal & relatable presentation right down to today’s sponsor. The last two on your list really hit home for me personally & I’m glad you included them. Thanks for sharing and always being authentically amazing you! Love you back girl & all you do for your community of devoted subbies!❤️
Wow!!! Thank you so much Catdyane. That’s such a wonderful compliment. I truly do appreciate it. 😘
@@tenwaystowearit ❤️
You are the BOMB! If I lived near you I would pay for you to style my ENTIRE wardrobe. These other "fashion" girls don't have style they just buy label after label, then do videos about luxury regrets and how the stuff falling apart. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't ever change!!!
Hi Alisha! You are so right! I used to wait for special occasions to wear my special clothes, but no more! Living is a special enough reason to wear all the "special" clothes! You have to accept the skin you're and be happy! Whatever positive changes one makes, then you'll be better for it! Love yourself!❤❤
Absolutely Velada! I love you for this. I completely agree babe. 😘♥️
I found you through a comment section and decided to check out your content, and was pleasantly surprised. I find this advice very helpful and you seem like a great roll model to follow as a 16 year old aspiring fashionista 😊
Yes, PLEASE do a separate video for finding your core elements and understanding your style!! This is the best style channel on you tube chyy!!!
Thank you so much Shana. I got you baby. I’ll start working on it tomorrow. Stay tuned. 😘♥️
Ohhhh my goodness. #9 hit hard. "In Costco looking fly AF" --- I LOVE it! And every other syllable in that particular segment. Loved ALL your trips, but felt this one big. Thank you!
I totally agree with your tips! I dress the way I want, despite what others might be wearing. Thanks for the style inserts!
I love it. I bet you inspire so many people around you just by being you. They’ll never say it but I bet you do sis. Big hugs! 😘♥️😘
It's all about growth. When you know better you do better. I would encourage you not to beat up and yourself. I have been watching your for a while, my style is growing along with your style.
Yesssss! Beautifully stated 👏🏾! Thank you so much love. 😘♥️😘
I honestly just love your personality. You’re so warm and generous with how you share with us. I’m at a point in my life where I’m beginning to care so much less about other’s opinion of me. I’m newly single and losing weight and struggling with my personal style. These tips are super helpful. Thanks!
Insecurity, low self esteem, and lack self confidence contribute immensely to the choices we make, generally in life.
I get dressed up for even going grocery shopping. I also stop saving my clothes for special occasion. We only live once so make use of thing when you have good health. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I agree!👏🏽🥰
LADY you are so down to earth! keep rolloing. greetings from Switzerland😂😂
I have always loved fashion and dressing, but finding you and your real style that’s really nice and reachable like clothes that I can actually wear out has made me completely reevaluate my looks. So now, every time you share your new ideas, it prompts me to evaluate my wardrobe too! Shapewear is absolutely key, my mother stressed this importance even as a young woman. Thank you for your hard work putting all of this together.❤
I always say if someone doesn't like what I'm wearing, that's their problem, not mine. You look wonderful in all the outfits you showed in this video! I especially love the green checkered pants outfit with the white blazer over it! 🥰
Great informative video Alicia. I dress for me. Don't care if they are out dated. If Iike it, I am going to wear it.😊
I heard that Carol. That’s the best way to live babe. 😘♥️
I love your style I have my own style and I don't care what people think my own sister told me I used to think you dressed weird but she seen how I felt about myself and she started dressing better after she went shopping with me and seen how she could look better and feel better.
I love it Rosie! You sound amazing and sounds like you even helped your sister out just by you being yourself. That’s powerful. Keep rocking girlfriend. Lots of love to you. 😘♥️😘
ALICIA, OMG, you so hit the nail on the head with me regarding saving clothes for a special occasion. Girl, like a month ago, I started wearing my clothes that I was saving. I loved this whole video
YAASSSS HUNTY, ALL OF YOUR TIPS ARE ON POINT... THANK U FOR SHARING, I TOTALLY AGREE. I ABSOLUTELY MUST SHARE!
This, and you are Awesome! I was just about to get ready to go and meet up some of my friends for an early dinner. I had my outfit ready and I sat and watched this video, and now I have changed out my purse and shoes and added some and jewelry ... NOW, I am ready to go out and I am looking so cute now and feeling great. Thank you for videos.
Congrats! I am happy to see that you accepted the body that you were blessed with and began to dress with clothes that are beautiful and flattering for your body shape. Kudos to you and Congrats.
You are so helpful to me personally. I've thought about all these tips but always concerned myself with fitting in. I'm 68 and I want to STAND OUT!!! Society has accepted a casual look but there is difference in casual and sloppy. When I organized my closet and invested in well-fitted shape wear and forgave my body for not being Jane Fonda I started having much more fun getting dressed. You have been a reassuring part of what I already knew. Thank you for all your hard work!!!
Videos like THIS are exactly why I love your channel!!!! Sis! Thanks for such great content!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
You just helped me way more then can be imagined. I struggle with EVERYTHING you mentioned. Thank you so much.
This is why I love this channel because you are authentic and keep it so honest 🥰
Make no mistake, you have great style!!! I love how you put unusual things together and one of my favorite outfits, I copied and everyone loves it...I receive so many compliments on it!! Drum role... It's my camo pants, black combat boots, black low cut tank top, paired with the Amazon long red and black cheetah sweater!!! Do you remember it? I also purchased the green and black cheetah sweater and wear it sometimes!!! You look fantastic in everything you put together!!! Thanks for your tips and ideas!
WOW, such wisdom in what you shared! So many of us need to adhere to or consider what you presented. Thank you so much.
Alisha, brilliant video. This was free therapy for me. I've been dressing better since I started watching you. So a big thank you my girl 🙏🏾❤
Awwww thank you so much Gillian. I really appreciate your kind words and I’m so glad to have you here. So thankful for all the people like you who make doing this so wonderful. Lots of love to you babe. 😘♥️😘
I love seeing that you’ve uploaded and this video is top shelf! The messages and the outfits are spot on! So modern and classy, edgy and sophisticated. Your styling is extraordinary - SO good. Your advice is universal, delivered in a very genuine way. Applause!
You should be on TV. Period. Classy, consistent, interesting, and on point with every video!! ❤❤❤
I've watched you for a while now and you always make good fashion sense. YES! YES! you are so right, stop saving clothing because everyday is a special occasion. You are helping women of all ages, Thank You!
Thank you so so much Linda! Thanks for rocking with your girl all these years. I really appreciate you and your feedback. Lots of love. 😘😘😘
In the words of the dearly departed Tina Turner, you are simply the best , better than all the rest. This video was right on time for me. Loving my new size. I went from a 8 to a 10/12 and still squeezed into the 8s looking a hot mess and waiting to lose the covid weight. Well I’m a 10/12 and have accepted it.
You are speaking for a lot of folks; Covid has been a monster in quite a few ways. You don’t have to be a size 8 to be stylish and beautiful; work whatcha got!👏🏽🥰
Great tips, this my first time watching you. Love your style. Be blessed sis!!!
You👈🏾 Have had such a positive impact on me! This is THE BEST VIDEO EVER!!!!!!! I happened upon you and I now look forward to your content weekly. I have witnessed how you've grown in style and maturity over time..I went back and watched almost all of your old vids😅 Thank you for being YOU. I have two Style Content Creators
YOU & Angela Michelle...you both are OUTSTANDING. I'm 55 so you help me keep my edgy flair and Angela ties into my "you somebody's GlamMa vibe" L❤ve you💕🦋
They both are fabulous 😍!
Awwww thank you so much Phajah. That means a lot to me. I really appreciate you being here and I’m so glad the content has been helpful. 😘♥️
@@msdiva2847 thanks so much sis. 😘♥️
You have nailed your style and know what suits you! Many of these outfits are spectacular. They seem effortless, but I can tell you took a lot of time and attention to perfect them. Jumpsuit at 3:59, 2-piece set at 12:39, B/W zebra at 16:41, and orange and white at 18:32 (the SHOES!) are my favorites. It's wonderful how well you know yourself!
Honey, you hit it out the park with this one. Thanks so much for your transparency. I love you and your style.. my inspiration❤
This has to be one of my favorite videos that you have ever done. Your style has come a long way and I found these tips really helpful and authentic!
Dee Gee, you are soooo right. This is a fantastic video!!!. I was already this person and have been for years. People who know me will have to admit that this is me 100%. What I am about to do now is try to get my girlfriends to listens to this from start to finish. I know I will be met with some resistance, but , at least I have tried. This is very timely and so important in so many ways.
This was actually very helpful. I definitely need to organize ( declutter and donate) my wardrobe for sure. Knowing where things are and being able to see them is helpful. I honestly have so many clothes I have not worn or do not plan to wear again but find it hard to get rid of. Soon I’ll be with you in Target looking like a DIVA!! 😂🥂
I heard that Carolyn. 🥰 And I can relate with you so much on struggling to get rid of things. I have major attachment issues to my stuff so it’s definitely been a struggle. Just keep working at it. Lots of love babe. 😘♥️
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Girl, you’re a rockstar! Thanks for this amazing video, especially for being so candid about mental health. I’m a work in progress in terms of style but love where I’m at. I get a lot of inspiration from you. Your style is fabulous and commensurate your body type. 😍
Thank you so much for your sweet and encouraging words Monique. I really appreciate you being here babe. We’re all a work in progress just doing the best we can. 😘♥️
Wow, you such an amazing soul
I really appreciate how you have grown in your style and sharing your journey. I look forward to your videos and the insights you share for my style journey.
Phenomenal video!! You touched on so many helpful points!!
Thank you so much J. I really appreciate it love. 😘♥️
Alisha, I really loved your list. I've seen your growth, including how much your wardrobe has changed throughout the years and how your confidence has grown with those changes. I love you because you are authentic and do it your own way! Keep up the good work!
Thank you so much Gayla. I truly appreciate it. And thanks for rocking with a Sista for this long. I’m so blessed to have lovely ladies like you on this platform. 😘♥️
One of your best videos! Thank you. And your confidence is contagious. I’ll try to remember all of these great tips AND not care about what others think of how I dress.
You are so on point with this i was doing the same thing,this is why i love your channel so much thank you for this.
Thank you so much Ketrice. It’s so wonderful to hear that so many of you ladies can relate and understand where I’m coming from. I truly appreciate you. 😘♥️
I really loved this video. You are one positive person and you should be very proud of your accomplishments! I will take all your tips into consideration. May God continue to bless you with great health as you continue on this journey called life!
I love everything that you did. I absolutely appreciate the wisdom that you have gained. ❤ You look fabulous.
Alisha, you are so right in every way. Thank you.
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All of the tips you give are extremely helpful! Thank you for sharing and for being your authentic self. I loved all of these looks
Such a great video! OMG!!! I have been told that I have a great shape. Of course I see the issues. I love the clothes you wear and how you wear them. I can tell that you are clued into what looks best on you. I need to consider every one of these steps. Thx.
Well, in this video you provide the most logical and useful style advice that I’ve consumed on TH-cam and I consume A LOT of style advice content! Thank you!
Thank you so much for the great content in this video sis! I like using your name, but refuse to spell it wrong. I know, I have issues. 🤣🤣🤣I'm a mental health advocate, so the Better Help piece really resonated with me! Thank you for raising the awareness that HELP is available. My favorite tip was about NOT saving stuff for a special occasion. I'm my mama's daughter and be rocking to the NINES on ANY day! LOL! Somebody made a comment one day about how I was dressed, indicating that I was overdressed for a regular day. Chile please...It bothered me for a hot second and I went about my business. Don't hate, APPRECIATE! That's all. Thanks again Queen. Keep bringing the🔥🔥🔥 Peace, Love, and Blessings💚💚💚
Thank you so much Cynthia. And I love what you said. I too have had people attempt to insult me by saying I’m overdressed or just doing too much but I find that it usually comes from a place of either jealousy or unfamiliarity. Especially out here in L.A. They’re so used to everybody walking around in gym clothes all the time so when you actually get dressed they look at you like you’re crazy. These days I’m like look and learn. 😂 Thank you sis for understanding where I’m coming from. Big hugs. 😘♥️
@@tenwaystowearit you're welcome sis! What YOU said! I love it..."look and learn."😘
Your videos are always on point! This one spoke volumes to me! Thank you!! “Stop caring what people think, invest in good shapewear, love and dress your body the way it is!! Yes gauuuud!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Definitely appreciate you and this video, you are speaking the truth about being authentic to yourself. I love your style and energy, everything might not be for me but you rock everything you wear. You make me look at my wardrobe… I know I already need to remove 3 dresses I love but they don’t love me. Yes, dressing for the size we are makes you look put together.. thank you for spreading these gems 🎉🎉
Perfect Timing 👌🏾. I was actually saying it's time to get rid of all my graphic tees because I want to definitely elevate my look that's more age appropriate. These tips were speaking to me on a personal level and on a business level for my online women's boutique. Thanks for a great video ❤
I'm so happy I found your channel. I needed to hear this. Great scenery, beautiful outfits and great advice. Thank you 💖
Great tips! I love all the advice, so true. I need to clean out my closet, that’s the tip I’m working on. Thank you for sharing.
I’ve also seen your style evolve and I’m inspired by you and your bravery. Good for you!!!
You are describing me. I kept trying to dress in my old size. Finally accepting and loving body now. Instead of thinking, I'll be happier after I lose 20 lbs. I'm buying what fits me now. No more living in the future! You gave very good advice!
Alisha, I’m have this problem, but I’m am trying doing better with loving my body and trying to appreciate what it is! We have similar body type and I am so glad I found you channel. It has really helped with my styling when I see items to wear, thank you!
I always like and appreciate your content. This one is great for core values. Thank you!
Girl! When I tell you, you dropped some nuggets today! Thank you for the boost! I love your channel and your style journey! ❤️
Thank you so much Maple. I’m so glad it was helpful babe. I really appreciate it. 😘♥️
Great video appreciate you sharing these tips. Love your style and content !
Awesome content. I love your personal style and your positive words. Keep up the great work!😊
I loved this video! I’ve been watching your videos for a few years and I found you because we have similar body types, so I thought I could use your ideas as an outfit idea inspiration. Now I see you branching out and it’s so wonderful to see your content growing. I would love for you to do a closet organization video because mine is a mess and I do not know how to make it look like something I want to dip into and play with. Anyway, I’d like to close with a thank you for your continued positing. Love, jennifer
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Finding core element is superb for i create my own fashion and that make me always stand out..
GREAT video...
I love this video! You are so encouraging Alisha. I learned to love my body because of you. Being a older woman, I always feel that I didn't dress the way an older woman should, but now I am so confident in what I wear. My mother was a sophisticated dresser and looked good in everything, but just like me, she had to find her style because when she was young, she didn't feel that she had the nicest clothes. My mother is my inspiration and so are you and I had to except my body and dress it they way that I should and I feel so much happier now with my personal style. Thank you! 😊
Good for you! I was the same way, afraid of people thinking that I was “trying to look young” (I’m 60). I don’t want to look ‘young’, but I am trying to look stylish and that is exactly what I do now. I love it when younger women compliment me🥰
@@liliwms508 me too my friend! ☺️
Wonderful video! This information is so valuable. You’re such an inspiration. Thank you for being true to yourself.
Thank you so much babe. 😘♥️
Excellent advice! I'm working on all those steps right now. It's a process for sure. But worth it.
I did the same visualization mess as a younger woman. I’m so thankful that it is behind me😊
I heard that Dee. 🥰 It’s a beautiful thing when you can let that sort of thing go and love yourself. I’m so glad I let that go. 🙏🏾♥️🙌🏾
I love love, love this video and your content in general. You have got to be the most down to earth, fashionista on TH-cam! Also, as a therapist with BetterHelp, I second your motion! Peace
This video is my game changer when it comes to personal styling and confidence. I dressed to impress the society that was around me but I wasnt happy. After watching this I dress in what makes me happy and suits my body shape. My confidence level is on a high and I just love how I feel. This video is great and right now I am watching your other videos for great tips.
I appreciate all the effort you put into your videos. All that you say resonates with me. I definitely need to shop for my body type and current size and buy quality and timely pieces. I truly appreciate your advice 🙂
Just watched your video. And it was inspiring. I’ve watched you a couple of times before. But….., Today I subscribed because you have grown into a very authentic influencer. I’m over 60 and dress very modern; not old ladyish. You gave me more confidence today. Keep being you. And the heck with what others think. Blessings to you.
TWTWI, you are A-mazing! I just didn’t want this video to end. Great suggestions/tips. Thank you also for giving attention to the topic of Mental Health. There is no good physical health without good mental health. Great job, sis❤️😊.
This was a great video, it really made me think on what I need to change. You have definitely upgraded your style and I need to do the same. Thank you
I think your an awesome "BRAVE" young woman... There is something beautifully humble in you that is awesome humble and brave all in the same person is super rare!!!! Thats it!! Your a rare gem !!!! A pleasure to watch thank you!!!!
Awwwww 🥰 thank you Shannan. You’re the sweetest and you made my day. I really appreciate your kind words. Big hugs my dear. 😘♥️
I love your style! I'm turning 60 years young next month and I believe you can dress modestly and still look nice without revealing it all. I have been wearing shapewear for years and it definitely makes the outfits I wear look well put together.
Good for you Alicia. You have it all together! Thanks I may post this to my FB page too.
Thank you so much Marjie. And thank you for sharing the content. That means a lot to me. 😘♥️
Wonderful informative video. I am in total agreement. We went to the nursery to get plants and I was dressed in casual sport outfit that I contrasted with a bright colored shrug and updo messy bun and the store clerk complimented me and asked if I was going to a special event. Girl your recommendations are right on!!
I loved your content so much. Just about everything you said is how i use to think never really believing in myself, now I dress for me and i have stop saving clothes for special occasions that never come. So nice to watch your video because my spirit comes alive just watching you. Your videos give me so much confidence to keep branching out. Thanks Alisha ❤
Thank you so much Maxine. I love your comments so much. I’m so glad that a lot of you beautiful ladies can relate and understand where I’m coming from. It means a lot. Sending you lots of love my dear. 😘♥️
Love that youre not into brand names and living above your means. And yes ladies, pleeease wear some shapewear...dont ruin the garment. Know your shape and what works well with it, your style. Love all your videos and advice
Thanks for sharing you can't worry about what other people think about what you wear your right.
Wow thank you sis…this was good. I’m going through my closet now!!!!
Thank you so much babe. Best of luck with your clear-out/review. 😘♥️
Hey sis, I love your style, and just the fact that you always dress with things you like. It's so important not to worry about others'opinions and be your authentic self. I love it. Blessings ❤❤🤗
Thank you so so much Nee. I really appreciate it love. 😘
You look amazing. I've been watching your channel for 2 years, and I love your style for you. You wear it well, and you've definitely elevated your style.
This was such a GREAT video! This is what sets you apart from the others…you post really insightful videos. Getting a divorce helped me tremendously in improving my style. And you’re so right about not waiting for an occasion to wear my clothes. I’m sure the people at the foot doctor found me overdressed this morning…but I found me beautiful!!! Thanks for great content Alisha! 😊
Bravo!!!! I loved all your tips. You look fabulous and I love your style. That last outfit oooh..lala
You can take I see your TH-cam award you go girl I've been watching you for a while enjoy the content that you give and stay blessed and stay beautiful and stay happy❤
Such a great video!! Thank you so so much for dropping this 🔥 knowledge for us!! You are so amazing and I genuinely enjoy all of your videos ❤
I couldn’t agree more with the idea of wearing my clothes whenever and wherever instead of keeping them for special occasions. Thanks for the inspiration. 👍🏽👍😎
Such a great video!! I relate to ALLL of it. And thank you for highlighting how we all can benefit from therapy. I definitely was making the same wardrobe mistakes on my journey as well. LOVE LOVE LOVE.
Thank you so much Jen. I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. I truly appreciate your kind words. 😘♥️
I truly enjoy your videos and style! Thank you for your style guidance! Love it! ❤
Thank you so much Kimmie. That really means a lot to me babe. Big hugs! 😘
Beautiful dear I enjoy every bit of your pictures and videos love you always keep up the good work
Love every points and will definitely apply tip 9&10 ❤️
Excellent vidéo filled with lots of inspiration. You’re so beautiful! ❤❤❤
Thank you so much Gee! I really appreciate it. 😘♥️