Thank you for being so realistic about setting boundaries, there's lots of boundary setting information out there, but they often miss this part out, thank you.
Thank you for sharing your story Renee. Your videos have helped me so much with deep trauma and feeling powerless in time of court proceedings. Thank you a million times for being brave and continuing to move forward! Your approach is so authentic yet, sweet and in tune. It helps so many people just by you being you!! ❤ With love, Mikayla
This is very insightful information. I had to set a few boundaries and it did not feel good at all. But it is done now and now I am feeling the aftermath however I feel much better because I was in my truth and so I am able to understand that their reaction is on them. This is much better than feeling not being authentic any day!!!!
This video came at the perfect time. I just did this with my husband (with whom I am separated but was hoping for a reunion)…and I was very afraid. Because of my abandonment wounds. But I realized I was abandoning myself by not setting the boundary, no matter what the outcome was…oof
I respect authentic people, that stand up for themselves. and I wish I could become one of them.. you are of great help Renee. Your videos are a great source of affirmations for me, and I also feel safe when watching you. Thank you
I am glad I found you. I appreciate this topic. I have always felt too scared to set boundaries. Over the years I denied even having needs because of this, and now I am working to reconnect with them. Most people, I find, get angry or take it personally. I feel that to truly respect someone, you need to know what their boundaries are. But I also find many people don't recognise respect. They don't perceive correctly others motives. I still detect the topic of feelings or anything deeper than chit chat to confuse people. It is a lonely existence for me, which is why having access to people like yourself helps tremendously.
I know how it can feel to be scared to set boundaries and deny your own needs and happy you're starting to find yourself again. Also, happy you found a place that helps you feel more understood. Much Love
So I had to set boundries with my in-laws, they would control every choice we made and did, such as when and how many kids we could have, they told me that being in their family meant that our house was theirs as well, there is way too much to share here but, the last thing that was said to me after trying to set healthy boundries was " you are just gifted with being married to my son this is our family and his father and I come first you are just really a girl friend with kids". I knew I had to draw more boundries at this point and I did but, what happened afterwards cost me everything we ended up divorced and his mother paid all his court fees took me literally to court every 5 to 6 months for almost 10 years and told me she was going to punish me for as long as she could. Sometimes I think I should have just kept my mouth shut and just gone along with everything. I have never been myself even after all this time. I think I would have been ok with it all if we got divorced and that was the end of of it but, the dragging out and constant battling over kids and things just never let anyone move on and heal. I don't even know which kind of tapping session I would do to heal this???😊
Appreciate this video, been doing a lot of deep work lately including have to have a difficult conversation with someone I've known the last 16 yrs the other day about boundaries and me possibly having to step away from them. It went better than I thought but I'm still at a place of seeing did they really take in what I said and change their actions. Either way, I'm at a point where I'm ready not to feel so drained from others constantly taking or me constantly giving too much and not enough to myself. Change is hard but beautiful.
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“You’re not responsible for someone else’s reaction “ ❤❤❤
Thank you for being so realistic about setting boundaries, there's lots of boundary setting information out there, but they often miss this part out, thank you.
Thank you for sharing your story Renee. Your videos have helped me so much with deep trauma and feeling powerless in time of court proceedings. Thank you a million times for being brave and continuing to move forward! Your approach is so authentic yet, sweet and in tune. It helps so many people just by you being you!! ❤ With love, Mikayla
This is very insightful information. I had to set a few boundaries and it did not feel good at all. But it is done now and now I am feeling the aftermath however I feel much better because I was in my truth and so I am able to understand that their reaction is on them. This is much better than feeling not being authentic any day!!!!
This video came at the perfect time. I just did this with my husband (with whom I am separated but was hoping for a reunion)…and I was very afraid. Because of my abandonment wounds. But I realized I was abandoning myself by not setting the boundary, no matter what the outcome was…oof
Oh my word, yes. "Abandon myself if not setting the boundary." So true, so true.
I respect authentic people, that stand up for themselves. and I wish I could become one of them.. you are of great help Renee. Your videos are a great source of affirmations for me, and I also feel safe when watching you. Thank you
Thank you. I needed this
I am glad I found you. I appreciate this topic. I have always felt too scared to set boundaries. Over the years I denied even having needs because of this, and now I am working to reconnect with them.
Most people, I find, get angry or take it personally. I feel that to truly respect someone, you need to know what their boundaries are. But I also find many people don't recognise respect. They don't perceive correctly others motives. I still detect the topic of feelings or anything deeper than chit chat to confuse people.
It is a lonely existence for me, which is why having access to people like yourself helps tremendously.
I know how it can feel to be scared to set boundaries and deny your own needs and happy you're starting to find yourself again. Also, happy you found a place that helps you feel more understood. Much Love
So I had to set boundries with my in-laws, they would control every choice we made and did, such as when and how many kids we could have, they told me that being in their family meant that our house was theirs as well, there is way too much to share here but, the last thing that was said to me after trying to set healthy boundries was " you are just gifted with being married to my son this is our family and his father and I come first you are just really a girl friend with kids". I knew I had to draw more boundries at this point and I did but, what happened afterwards cost me everything we ended up divorced and his mother paid all his court fees took me literally to court every 5 to 6 months for almost 10 years and told me she was going to punish me for as long as she could. Sometimes I think I should have just kept my mouth shut and just gone along with everything.
I have never been myself even after all this time. I think I would have been ok with it all if we got divorced and that was the end of of it but, the dragging out and constant battling over kids and things just never let anyone move on and heal. I don't even know which kind of tapping session I would do to heal this???😊
So good❤
Appreciate this video, been doing a lot of deep work lately including have to have a difficult conversation with someone I've known the last 16 yrs the other day about boundaries and me possibly having to step away from them. It went better than I thought but I'm still at a place of seeing did they really take in what I said and change their actions. Either way, I'm at a point where I'm ready not to feel so drained from others constantly taking or me constantly giving too much and not enough to myself. Change is hard but beautiful.
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