Well I appreciate that. I feel like I don’t have much doll at all but thank you for saying that. I always feel like I’m kind of boring but I thank you very very much and sending you lots of love.💝💝💝💝
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By this time in my life (68), I think wearing something flattering is more important than wearing something that's currently fashionable. This was very helpful. You have a lot of good tips on this subject. Thank you very much. xo~linda
Thank you for that. And you know I agree too. I just kind of know what suits me and some things that come along have been there before and I don’t want to see them again. LOL. 🤣🤣🤣
That was a great video. Thank you. I just turned 67 years old on June 27th and I am retired. I just work a few months a year during tax season, so I appreciate this video. I do have a lot of clothing from years of working in an office but since I do not make that kind of money now, I am looking for cheaper alternative.
I just *love* you. My mom and her whole side of the family are from Memphis. I've been far from home (Jordan) for ten years this month. Listening to you is chicken soup for my soul. Plus your common sense, youthful spirit and singularly southern groundedness is exceptionally refreshing. Thank you so much for keeping up this cozy and useful and uplifting channel. God bless you from far across the pond.
That was such a sweet comment and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate it. I hope you are doing well and this will be a good week. . You just really made my day brighter. I thank you.
I have AMAZING clothes, lol.........& I am a PENNY PINCHER! ....everything I own is used.......Salvation Army, Goodwill, Consignment shop, tag sales....& the hunt is so fun! ....I hav items w/ tags still on them.......Ann Klein shirt, Guess Dresses, ect..... just bought a beautiful halter / built in necklace with Leather & REAL turquoise Stone ( my fave/ trademark!! I am known for my hippie style/ western) keep hunting for those Gems !!!😍Great video!
"Know your body type". True. I think as we get older we know what suits us and don't blindly follow fashion. You look beautiful all the time Melissa. Xx
You did a great job explaining the tips & tricks of building a wardrobe. I appreciate your take on affordable clothing. I share your love of affordable clothes, and solid colors. My only difference is I live “tiny” so my closet is super small. I have one dresser and a small closet. I buy affordable & slightly higher brands (on sale) and mix the two. I love your tips on “caring” for your clothes which I feel is super important. I have a lint roller, a sweater fuzz remover & a small ironing board & iron to care for my clothing and I hang dry so many things on my shower curtain area. I buy quality t-shirts that fit properly as well, as we live in the desert. I also, appreciated your tips on the shape of your clothing based on your body type. I understand why you wear the neckline you like, it gives you the balance you want. I recently found Sophia Vagara jeans online with Walmart and ordered two pair in a flare leg. They are holding up well. You’re the sweetest and thank you for your great advice & reminders ♥️
My mum had a lovely "neat" figure and looked so well in a tee and skirt. She would put a Gucci belt around her waist and her big black YSL sunnies and she looked amazing. She swore on splurging on accessories, fresh cottons and linen. She was similar to your style icon Jackie O.
Melissa I have just watched another influencer who has bought 5 pairs of ghastly expensive shoes and you look 100 times better,more beautiful and classy.... you are a true inspiration you look stunning thank you 🙏
I just watched a video of you and your husband from 2016, you two are something else. You both are such good and kind loving people!!!! One thing you need to stop worrying!!!!! I know first hand worry will make you feel sick too. I will pray for you and hou pray for me, ok? Your husband is sweet and you and him make a really good pair💕
Great content! I follow a lot of these rules. Another fun topic would be what is one of the oldest pieces in your wardrobe. Why you bought it and why you keep it. Would love to see those long haul pieces that stand the rest of time. 💐💕
Oh Lori, thank you so much!!!!! You know, when you start looking, it's amazing what you find that you don't realize you have. I did do a video one time kind of similar to what you are thinking about. Let me link it - I was amazed at what I found! lol I sure appreciate you! th-cam.com/video/CTov219HOvY/w-d-xo.html
I agree with your comments and suggestions. I am retired so I do not get dressed up as often. I like scarves too and often wore them with my work clothes. Now I have lost weight, so many outfits no longer fit. Time to dump them and get some new things that do fit! I do not want to look frumpy!! 🤣🤣🤣 Take care, Melissa! Enjoy the summer activities!
I love to thrift and have found very expensive finds as cashmere and name brands that I’d never be able to afford at thrift stores. One thing I do is if I see something I want I immediately jump on eBay and find that item for a great reasonable price.
You are a really good shopper. We don’t really have a great thrift store in the area, because it is a small town, but I’ve heard in larger cities especially in areas where wealthy people live, you can get amazing finds. I appreciate it and hope you have a good weekend.💋💋💋
As always you are just the sweetest person MaryEllen. Thank you for this and I hope you are doing OK and not getting too much hot weather. Stay safe and love you.🌹🌹🌹
I thought this video was very helpful with lots of good reminders. I think my skin tone has even changed a little over the years, so I should probably recheck my colors. You look like a runway model in your outfits. I hope you have a wonderful summer. Do not worry about getting back to us. You’re living your life and that’s important. Have a great week.
You look beautiful in your off the shoulder tops. Looks so elegant on you always. I am 71 and wear clothes that I love, not something that is trending for 2-3 months. I shop at Amazon, Walmart and TJ MAXX (my favorite). I have started to purge lot of items from my closet. I have way too many clothes now especially since I retired. This has been a great video, you always explain everything so well. 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌸🌸🌸🌸
Thank you Dianne for saying that. I always worry that I either over explain or stumble over my words and don’t get my meaning across. LOL. So thank you for saying that. You know I think our clothes buying is going to fluctuate at different times in our lives. When I was a young mother I barely bought anything because I was at home and just needed my jeans in the winter time and shorts in the summertime. And I had babies that would spit up on me. So it is always good to realize what place you are in your life. I probably should’ve said that. But anyway I appreciate it.♥️♥️♥️
Thanking you for sharing your tips Melissa. I love your style and you always look beautiful my friend! Enjoy your grandchildren this summer and all of their events! Grands are so much fun!
I tend to color block everything ! Black & cream my fave ! Although I will buy a great pair of patterned slacks & top with a solid color top & shoe! Just to snazz it up a bit ! Accesorries help alot ! You alway's look fantastic Melissa not mattter what you are wearing !
Well thank you so much. Oh I like the way that you buy and dress. I too have bought some patterned slacks and mixed with a solid color top and I really like that look. Take care and have a blessed weekend.🌺🌺🌺
This video was very informative! It all comes down to our priorities and we all have different ones. Thank you so much for sharing this with us today!!
Oh thank you so much. Yes priorities are important and what your perspective is too. What I think is very expensive may not be to someone else. I hope you have a good weekend and I appreciate this. 💜💜💜
Hi Melissa, You hit the nail on the head with all of your great tips. If you care for your clothing properly it will last for a long time. I like to shop at the factory outlets and I look for sales at Macy's, Nordstrom. J. Crew, Express to name a few. Target, Kohl's, Old Navy, and H&M are also good. Don't like Walmart clothing though I see many Walmart fashion hauls on TH-cam. Have a happy & safe 4th weekend.
I love your videos I don’t care what you’re talking about I think you’re so genuine and kind and real and I love your smile and you’re so passionate about what you’re talking about and trying to help everyone. I think you’re adorable! Great advice ! Xoxo 😘
I really can’t tell you how much I appreciate this. Because honestly sometimes I will film things several times because I feel like I’m not making my point clear enough. LOL. I tend to ramble and over explain. But thank you for this. ♥️♥️♥️
You always look so well put together Melissa! I agree, you don't necessarily have to spend a lot of money for nice things. I store my clothes and accessories with care and I have some pieces that look brand new, even though I've had them for years. ~Susanne
🦋Happy Friday and Fourth to you and your Family, Melissa and audience. A great topic with excellent suggestions as always. Enjoy the weekend, please stay safe and healthy 🇺🇸🎈🎊🎉❤️
Great tips!!! High-end accessories are worth the investment. You can often find great sales. Having a nice high quality purse, wallet, jewelry, etc. make such a difference. Having one piece that is higher end along with less expensive items works. To me, low quality accessories are a dead giveaway. High quality does not have to be expensive, but sometimes it is. There are also second hand stores and things like that. They often have items that look brand new.
Wonderful advice! I recently started reinventing my wardrobe and discovered the 50's style dresses available online at Walmart - it arrived made of the most divine material and fits so well, I was surprised to find something affordable that fits. Thank you for sharing your tips💖💖💖
Melissa, I believe off-the-shoulder tops are still in fashion. I just purchased one from Anthropologie! They are very flattering, especially as you get older, as your shoulders do not age😉 They also cover the top part of my arms (which I rarely show). I am 75, thin and petite, but I have a large bust, so they work to help conceal that, too. If something is "not in style" right now, I know it will be again. I wear what flatters me most.
I buy my whole wardrobe at Ross for every season! I get really good things but never pay full price. I am an avid shopper and have been my whole life. Great video Melissa! Xo
When I lived in California, the Ross stores there were pretty good, I could find the Natori brand there sometimes, but out here in Vegas, not such good Ross stores.
I had a point in my life where I had to make my old clothes look new. So I added some accessories to them, that definitely gave them a facelift. In my closet there are some outfits I refuse to get rid of. Just some timeless styles that keep working for me. Love this video. 💝✨🌹💐💄
Oh thank you! I think so many of us have had those points and adding the accessories sounds just great. I bet you looked like a million bucks! I sure appreciate it!!! xox
Happy 4th to you and your beautiful family. So many good tips. I totally agree with you…you don’t need to spend a fortune to look great. Hair, makeup and accessories will definitely take it up a notch. And always shop your closet. Have a wonderful weekend!!💕💕
Loved your tips Melissa. Yes, what a year this has been. I too, have pieces in my wardrobe that I’ve owned for 15+ years. Love finding a classic number that hasn’t cost me an arm and a leg 💛
I agree. It’s always a surprise a pleasant surprise, when you get some thing out and realize that you can make it work. I sure do appreciate you. Take care.🌻🌻🌻
Hey sweet lady, you look amazing as usual. I love my off the shoulder tops as well, and have heard many people say they are out of style. However, I have ask some other ladies who have channels, they said no that the off shoulder tops are not out of style, just the ones that are cold shoulder or the ones with straps. Now, not sure anymore, but keep wearing what makes you happy, regardless . The off shoulder tops look nice on you. I also am bigger on bottom, and those shapewear is a miracle.. xoxoxo
I’m telling you Shapeware is seriously a miracle item. LOL. It’s hard to know about fashion and what is in style or not. I tell you the truth, I have about gotten to the point where I just wear what I think looks best on me and what suits me and my lifestyle. I just can’t keep up with what’s in or out anymore. Well I never really did but now I do even less. LOL. I appreciate it 💜💜💜
You are so right there’s always lots of workarounds. And I have a feeling if I had unlimited funds I would have a closet full of clothes with nothing to wear. LOL. Many thanks.🌺🌺🌺
Excellent video, Melissa. I have stuff I haven’t been wearing because I’m not working right now (but will at some point). So I’m always looking for less expensive options. Like you, I accent with jewelry, scarves, etc. I also had my colors done 20+ years ago. I’m a “summer” color scheme and it was the best money I ever spent and I had a color swatch sheet that made selection easy. Thanks so much! ❣️
Hi Melissa I also spend more on skincare, then hair and makeup. We wear our face and hair every single day, whereas an expensive outfit is worn fairly rarely tbh. My look is a little different - I'm curvy with a more boho vibe and slightly more eclectic taste. I scour sale rails and online bargain buys, but most of my clothing comes from charity shops/thrift stores. Often the items are brand new with tickets or barely worn. I get some really good stuff and some of it was expensive when the person bought it. I'm fairly clued up on labels and fabrics - cost is not always as indicative of quality, as might be assumed. There are many well cut decent fabric pieces from more mid range brands, many of which I've owned for many years. i love jewellery, leather handbags, scarves and other accessories. Here in Scotland we wear a lot of scarves lol, as the weather is colder here. I volunteer one day a week in a cancer charity shop, so i get first pick and a small staff discount - a great way to add to your wardrobe whilst doing something worthwhile. The only pieces of clothing I will invest in is decent underwear. i'm a fairly large chested woman and a decent bra is an absolute essential for any clothing to look good. I'm the window dresser for the shop so I pay attention to the latest styles, but I dress how I want without that being an overriding concern. I get a lot of compliments on my clothing and asked for an opinion by customers as to what I would suggest for them - so hopefully that's a good sign lol. You're very tall, slim and elegant so clothing will always hang well on you and those classic pieces/shapes look fab. My more bohemian look is more flattering on my body shape and I too have learned what suits me over time - colour, cut and style. I thought there was a lot of sensible advice given in this video and I also take good care of my clothing, so it lasts. I hope you enjoy all these activities you have planned and best wishes.
Totally agree about the solid colors, my closet is filled w/ solids, much more time-enduring, classic, and versatile. Patterns are fun but are trended & tend to be more 'dated,' it's fun to kick it up w/patterned shoes, scarves or handbags instead.
I really like the points that you made in this. Do it with accessories and really you can probably get by on less clothing because with your solids most things will go with each other or can be mixed and matched. Thank you and take care. 🤍🤍🤍
Most days, head to toe Target for me (including undies, socks,shoes & handbag ) This week added bathing suits and hats for summer.! I always get so many compliments...and it makes me laugh that I'm rocking a $25 handbag! (Less 5%).But you are so right... you need to focus and not haul it all home. I always try to edit and then return things I'm not in love with. My four rules for buying clothes..must fit my limited palette (mainly black and neutrals), must coordinate with something else I already own, has to be my personal style (mostly classic so always in style), and must LOVE IT. And also within budget,but I will occasionally splurge for something special that I know I will wear forever. Thanks for taking the time to make this video. Xoxo
So interesting Melissa. Good info. You are so right about less expensive clothes being thinner in material. Easier to ruin as well. Everything looked very nice on you. Classics are timeless. Also, only wear pieces that bring "joy" while wearing it. I have this one top that I dont like but it's very functional (has a long backside) over shorts, but I dont like it at all. Time to donate it. Enjoy your summer;). See you next time 👏👏👏❤❤🥰🥰🥰
You really know your figure well. You know how to dress to look your best. Doesn’t matter whether the clothes are cheap or expensive. It’s important to have a good fit & to know what looks good on you. You have amazing fashion sense. You look stylish always. Lots of good rules for looking your best. Have a wonderful summer with the kids. Love you, Lucy
Good topic! You covered it well! Yes, I did color analysis 45 years ago and it taught me so much. As much as I love navy blue it just does not help my look.
Oh thank you, Ann! I do think it helps to know at least some of the colors that are our best. It is interesting to really look at the different ones. I appreciate this. xox, Melissa
Marshalls is my go-to, sometimes I can really hit the jackpot, although lately they’re getting too much like Ross (too cheap-looking stuff). Dillard’s has great online sales and clearances, the best costume jewelry. Nordstrom Rack for shoes. I’ll have to start looking at Amazon; why not, we get everything else from them LOL! Do you have a video on your skin care and makeup? I’m 69 and not too bad looking, haha. You look no more than early 40s, absolutely stunning, and I believe yours is the channel I’ve been looking for.
Those are all some really great suggestions. And sometimes I can get some good deals from ASOS. I do tend to shop online since I live in such a small town that we really don’t have those stores that we can find in a larger place so most of mine does end up online. Oh thank you for that. I do have a skin care video that I did last year and I will link it. I sure appreciate it. m.th-cam.com/video/6j7eJJVYhko/w-d-xo.html
Thank you Melissa. I am almost 69 and don’t know what colors or styles look good on me, I wear whatever I have and most of my clothing came from garage sales. I raised three children 90% by myself and could never afford to spend money on myself.
I admire you so much, Paula. You were a good mom and it's incredibly hard to do what you did on your own. You are an inspiration. Take care! xox, Melissa
@@Melissa55 thank you. My kids are grown now and are very successful in their lives, I am so proud of the adults they have become. I truly believe they watched me struggle through life that they didn’t want to grow up to be like me, they wanted a better life and now they have it and doing a fabulous job raising their own children.
Is it just me or this lady needs to go in one of those shows where people guess the age of a person? They will for sure guess her age to be around 40 or maybe even less. 👍
Totally agree with what you said 110%, after I retired I gave all my expensive suits and clothes away, we live in TX and we live in shorts and flip flops, I don’t even own a dress anymore, we’re homebodies and don’t go out much unless we go out of state to visit our kids and grandchildren.🥰
I love that. And really you prove a great point. Your fashion style will change over the years. As a young stay at home mother I just needed a couple of pairs of shorts and some jeans. And a winter coat. LOL. Then when the kids started school and I worked and was a single mother, I needed to buy more work clothes. So it kind of ebbs and flows over the years I think. I really appreciate your comments so much. Take care and have a great weekend. 🌺🌺😊
I recently bought a dress for £11 it's the nicest most flattering dress I have ever owned 😍 it's made from recycled fabric and I always get compliments when wearing this dress🙏
I absolutely love that. What a great find that is. You certainly have gotten more wear out of it than what you actually paid. That’s marvelous. Many thanks.💜💜💜
I follow most of the rules you talked about. I do know one rule I follow is about stripes. Less expensive clothing the stripes dont match at the seams. Good quality clothing does. I have Walmart maxi dresses that the stripes match. I have had them several years and look great. I just think if I wear a top or dress with uneven stripes that everyone notices. I love crisp white blouses. Thankx for the great video. I watch you every day
I tend to think the same way you do Melissa. I do like to spend a little more on skin care but not so much on makeup. I think there are so many inexpensive make up lines out there that work just as well. I could never bring myself to spend $60 or better on an eye shadow palette, I just personally think it’s ridiculous, for me anyway! There are also many clothing lines that are inexpensive that have held up better for me than the higher priced items. I can keep my clothes for years and they still look brand new because I take good care of my clothes (must be the virgo in me) lol! You look lovely in this video Melissa. Hope you have a wonderful weekend sweet lady!❤️
Thank you so much Joyce, and I think you are a very wise shopper. And I do believe that we have our priorities that we spend our money on too, things that are important to us. I know a lot of people that hardly spend any money on skin care but buy very expensive clothing. Which is fine those are their priorities. It’s very interesting to think about. I appreciate you and many thanks. 💝💝💝
Melissa, thanks for this great video. I agree with your theories, I don't buy a lot of designer fashions, most of my purchases are on the less pricey side. A year or 2 ago you showed some beautiful solid color knit blouses (I think they were from an Amazon seller). They had a lovely neckline with narrow bands coming across in an X. (mercy, I'm awful at descriptions, sorry). I ordered them and LOVE them! They aren't expensive. The only drawback is a long delivery time, but I like them so much I don't mind that. Thanks for sharing, you are such a stylish, classy lady! Have a blessed weekend and 4th of July!
This just made my day and I thank you so very much. I remember those tops, I think I still have mine. LOL. I hope you have a wonderful weekend and I hope that your summer is just going really well. Take care and many thanks. ❣️❣️❣️
Hi Melissa, Wonderful tips for making outfits look more elegant and expensive. My mom used to do this. She always looked put together and beautiful. You are so creative. Thank you so much for a fun, and helpful video. I hope you and your family have a wonderful, festive and Happy 4th of July!! Love, Karen
Thank you so much Karen. My mom was really good at it too. My mom didn’t have any money, but she looked like she was rich. I don’t know how she did it but she did. Thank you my sweet friend and I’ll talk to you soon.💋💋💋
I retired in 2016 and what I’ve learned is to think hard about if I really need it, where and how often would I wear it, etc. As I worked from home the last 20 or so years, I mostly wear jeans and T-shirts. Levi’s fit me the best because I like skinny, high-rise jeans and they last longer than any $200 pair I’ve ever bought. One good black pant or skirt suit and dress, and some pearls will take you just about anywhere. (I’m 69 and 95 lbs.) It’s hard to make that work-to-retirement transition in so many ways other than clothing, so best of luck to you.
The belk app has great deals.. i have a silk bodysuit that was 100.00 and i paid 12.99 for it. Also a pair of black lace pants, lined scalloped around the ankles.. just so pretty.. had been 100.00 and i paid 5.99!! There was only 2 pair left both 8 petite.. so guess they were supposed to be mine! They have certainly saved me on a couple of popup events!
Love this Melissa! I appreciate how you share more affordable fashion ideas with us. It’s a bit discouraging when so many on TH-cam recommend such expensive items ($450 tennis shoes?) You always look so ELEGANT and PRETTY! ❤️❤️❤️have. Happy 4th of July! ❤️🇺🇸❤️🇺🇸❤️
If you get basics, for example, at a place like Old Navy or Marshall’s, places like that, then you can put more $ into shoes, and that’s the item that most people will notice first, and a good leather belt that will last for years, a well-designed handbag, everything on sale or discounted, of course. I dream of owning a pair of Gucci loafers, but that will most likely always be just a dream! Oh, and a Gucci robe. Just those two items would run around $2000.
@@cookiesspirit2329 And I think that is wonderful for you to aim for those items. There is nothing wrong with that because these things are things that you really do want. I would love to have a designer purse some day I have to admit. And perhaps we’ll both get the things that we do want. LOL. I appreciate you sharing this. You take care.
Totally agree about classic patterns. I love to shop Loft and Target but each year they put out trendy patterns that scream where you got them. I always look for animal print or stripes and very basic classic cuts that you could find at any price point. That way you always look classy and still unique. And not everyone knows you got it at Target
Great ideas Melissa! I buy most of my clothes on sale at Belk and Kohl’s. They usually have great deals. I also like Target and TJ Maxx. Enjoy your summer with your kids and grandkids. I found out recently my daughter is having another baby and it’s a boy! Willy and Malachi are so excited. I’m thrilled to have another grandson to love and spoil. Have a great 4th of July. God Bless! ❤️
Those are really great places to shop Debbie. And I am so excited for you. I know your boys are just going to be thrilled to have a new little baby to love. Congratulations to your family.💝💝💝💝
You are adorable 💖 I do most of my purchases at thrift stores...I don't pay more than $20 on anything brand new. I think I am a very well dressed ladies I know. Personality in clothing is everything. I feel you and I could be friends you're a dolly. Xo
I haven't purchased designer clothes in years. I'm purchasing more clothing from Amazon. I much prefer to spend $$$ skincare/haircare first. Good video 🙂
Thank you Cassie. I think you and I spend money on the same things. I just guess skin care has just always been more of a priority. I appreciate it and many thanks. 🤗🤗🤗
You're so right! Solid colors in less expensive clothes is a must because the seems don't match on patterns! Is it just me or does that drive everyone crazy????
Thank you sweet Melissa. This video was most informative. I do as you do. I mix and match less expensive items with classic pieces to make an outfit look more expensive than it is. Another tip, I use Rakuten whenever I can. You get cash back, with no gimmick. I find coupon codes, and if there is something I love, I'll wait patiently for it to go on sale. My biggest vice is jewelry. I adore it. I should go through my armoire and see what I haven't used in awhile. Wishing you, Doug, and your family a wonderful and safe 4th of July. Lots of love❣💕😘
Great tips. I enjoyed your video. I do much of the same. Great time to go shopping...lots of sales. I do however pay full price for my shoes because of my shoe size 5 1/2...hard to find.
Great video. One of your best. I totally agree. The only pricey clothes I have are 1 pair of jeans, some shoes, a cashmere sweater and coat 2 scarves, leather jacket and maybe 1 or 2 Marni T shirts & handbags & sunnies. Everything else I buy any H & M or even Kohl’s or old navy. I also sew sometimes or alter cut clothes to keep up with rapidly changing trends. You look gorgeous always & yes off the shoulder is always in fashion for women it looks good on. Have a lovely and safe July 4 th with your beautiful family! Btw I went n bought that coffee oil filter your Doug talked about & girl I love my coffee even more now. Takes a bit longer but worth it. Thanks to you both!!
Agree agree agree! Melissa, I totally agree with the shape wear. Not heavy but smoothing! People seem to think that only overweight people need it and that is SO UNTRUE! The girl that invented SPANX is very slim. Also let me back you up on what you said about visible panty lines(VPL’s)!!!!! It’s better to just not wear any panties rather than have vpl’s for sure!! I wash my clothes on delicate and hang to dry. I only dry my jeans 👖 Everything you said is spot on!!👌You did a fantastic job with this!!!Yall have a fun 4 th of July weekend!!! Muah 💋💋💋😘
Thank for all the great tips. And I do love that top you're wearing and I found the Amazon page. I will look at those clothes there. Have a wonderful day and week 🌞🌞🌄🌄. Greetings from me in Norway 🤗🥰
Melissa, I'm with you 110%..thank you for your candor!! I also can't afford those expensive outlets, and I'm a pear-shaped body type, too. I've not had great luck with Walmart, either, though some others have. Agree with the color choices, too. I think you look absolutely fabulous, always! Stay well, and enjoy your weekend! 🙂 Rosemarie 💖
We really do have a lot in common don’t we? I’ve just never been able to spend a ton of money on clothing, and even if I was very wealthy I don’t know that I would anyway. It’s just would be hard for me to do that. But anyway take care and have a great weekend. 🌻🌻🌻
How did I miss this video? I didn't get a notification! I'm glad I caught it now. I love your videos and this one was fun to watch as well! Enjoy your activities with your family and stay safe! xoxo
You are very classy! You have form like a dancer. When my daughter was in ballet her teacher said she would be good as she had long arms. I think if that every time I see them.
Are J Crew, Banana Republic and Ann Taylor really expensive? I have a closet full of these and other designer labels, never paid over $10 for any item because I shop exclusively at thrift stores. I only buy brand new underwear, everything else is thrifted. Been at it since 1980, hasn't failed me yet! Of course thrifting is a one shot deal, but I love the fact that each item in the store is one of a kind. Location does matter; we have so many thrift options in NYC that retail shopping is just not necessary! Thanks for these tips!
I agree totally with you and go shopping with a plan to purchase solids, however I end up buying patterns because I love color, dark colors really drag me down and I'm a plus size woman so patterns can hide a multitude of bumps and lumps. I also buy cheap clothing. The availability of plus sized clothing compared to what's available in regular sizes is a sin.
I’ve never spent a lot of money on clothing. As far as wardrobe, I invest more in staples such as shoes, outerwear and bags. I’m like you in that I’d rather take care of myself physically and it usually works fine for me.
Great video, as always. You always look classy. The scarves are beautiful too, and really make a big difference. Simple yet effective! I always admire the shoulder-less and boatneck tops on you, but haven’t really tried that style myself. I will have to give it a whirl when we are allowed back in the fitting rooms (all closed currently in the U.K. which makes it really difficult and time consuming as you have to try items at home and then more often than not, go back to the store to return 😫). Great to hear you’re enjoying a lot of family time. 💜
It really has been challenging trying to shop in this current situation. I tend , since I live in a very small town, to buy online from places that will let me exchange. But I have found I don’t have to exchange too often. I will read the reviews and people will say whether it runs true to size, and I will look at their sizing chart which I think has been helpful for me at least. But good luck. It’s a challenge.💜💜💜
The truth is you could put on a brown paper bag and still look so chic and stylish. You're gorgeous and you just have style. xoCathy
Well I appreciate that. I feel like I don’t have much doll at all but thank you for saying that. I always feel like I’m kind of boring but I thank you very very much and sending you lots of love.💝💝💝💝
catmama54, We've watched some of the same TH-camrs for years and it always makes me smile when I see you in the comment section. Take care.
@@carriestandridge4043 aww that’s so nice. Thank you
As another person said, you would look fabulous in a bin bag! You are very, very beautiful and stylish xxxx
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By this time in my life (68), I think wearing something flattering is more important than wearing something that's currently fashionable. This was very helpful. You have a lot of good tips on this subject. Thank you very much.
xo~linda
Thank you for that. And you know I agree too. I just kind of know what suits me and some things that come along have been there before and I don’t want to see them again. LOL. 🤣🤣🤣
That was a great video. Thank you. I just turned 67 years old on June 27th and I am retired. I just work a few months a year during tax season, so I appreciate this video. I do have a lot of clothing from years of working in an office but since I do not make that kind of money now, I am looking for cheaper alternative.
I just *love* you. My mom and her whole side of the family are from Memphis. I've been far from home (Jordan) for ten years this month. Listening to you is chicken soup for my soul. Plus your common sense, youthful spirit and singularly southern groundedness is exceptionally refreshing. Thank you so much for keeping up this cozy and useful and uplifting channel. God bless you from far across the pond.
That was such a sweet comment and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate it. I hope you are doing well and this will be a good week. . You just really made my day brighter. I thank you.
Thank you! I'm so honored by your reply.
I have AMAZING clothes, lol.........& I am a PENNY PINCHER! ....everything I own is used.......Salvation Army, Goodwill, Consignment shop, tag sales....& the hunt is so fun! ....I hav items w/ tags still on them.......Ann Klein shirt, Guess Dresses, ect..... just bought a beautiful halter / built in necklace with Leather & REAL turquoise Stone ( my fave/ trademark!! I am known for my hippie style/ western) keep hunting for those Gems !!!😍Great video!
GREAT video Melissa!!!! I agree! Skincare then other stuff!!
"Know your body type". True. I think as we get older we know what suits us and don't blindly follow fashion. You look beautiful all the time Melissa. Xx
You did a great job explaining the tips & tricks of building a wardrobe. I appreciate your take on affordable clothing. I share your love of affordable clothes, and solid colors. My only difference is I live “tiny” so my closet is super small. I have one dresser and a small closet. I buy affordable & slightly higher brands (on sale) and mix the two. I love your tips on “caring” for your clothes which I feel is super important. I have a lint roller, a sweater fuzz remover & a small ironing board & iron to care for my clothing and I hang dry so many things on my shower curtain area. I buy quality t-shirts that fit properly as well, as we live in the desert. I also, appreciated your tips on the shape of your clothing based on your body type. I understand why you wear the neckline you like, it gives you the balance you want. I recently found Sophia Vagara jeans online with Walmart and ordered two pair in a flare leg. They are holding up well. You’re the sweetest and thank you for your great advice & reminders ♥️
My mum had a lovely "neat" figure and looked so well in a tee and skirt. She would put a Gucci belt around her waist and her big black YSL sunnies and she looked amazing. She swore on splurging on accessories, fresh cottons and linen. She was similar to your style icon Jackie O.
I can vividly picture her in my mind. I love that story. Thank you. I think I would have loved her style.
Clever mom!
Yes!! She is my role model for aging. The manufacturers of Retin-A need to pay her.
Melissa I have just watched another influencer who has bought 5 pairs of ghastly expensive shoes and you look 100 times better,more beautiful and classy.... you are a true inspiration you look stunning thank you 🙏
I just watched a video of you and your husband from 2016, you two are something else. You both are such good and kind loving people!!!! One thing you need to stop worrying!!!!! I know first hand worry will make you feel sick too. I will pray for you and hou pray for me, ok? Your husband is sweet and you and him make a really good pair💕
Great content! I follow a lot of these rules. Another fun topic would be what is one of the oldest pieces in your wardrobe. Why you bought it and why you keep it. Would love to see those long haul pieces that stand the rest of time. 💐💕
Oh Lori, thank you so much!!!!! You know, when you start looking, it's amazing what you find that you don't realize you have. I did do a video one time kind of similar to what you are thinking about. Let me link it - I was amazed at what I found! lol I sure appreciate you! th-cam.com/video/CTov219HOvY/w-d-xo.html
Hi Melissa, I agree with you on every point. I also will spend money on skincare before clothing. Great examples. 🤗😘
I agree with your comments and suggestions. I am retired so I do not get dressed up as often. I like scarves too and often wore them with my work clothes. Now I have lost weight, so many outfits no longer fit. Time to dump them and get some new things that do fit! I do not want to look frumpy!! 🤣🤣🤣 Take care, Melissa! Enjoy the summer activities!
Love you! Absolutely gorgeous, sincere, kind, and simply wonderful content. 💕
I love to thrift and have found very expensive finds as cashmere and name brands that I’d never be able to afford at thrift stores. One thing I do is if I see something I want I immediately jump on eBay and find that item for a great reasonable price.
You are a really good shopper. We don’t really have a great thrift store in the area, because it is a small town, but I’ve heard in larger cities especially in areas where wealthy people live, you can get amazing finds. I appreciate it and hope you have a good weekend.💋💋💋
That is true about wearing colors that brighten your eyes. I have loved this video.❤️
You covered so many good points, Melissa!! Loved your comparison photos. Always a pleasure to watch you videos, my beautiful friend...MaryEllen
As always you are just the sweetest person MaryEllen. Thank you for this and I hope you are doing OK and not getting too much hot weather. Stay safe and love you.🌹🌹🌹
I thought this video was very helpful with lots of good reminders. I think my skin tone has even changed a little over the years, so I should probably recheck my colors. You look like a runway model in your outfits. I hope you have a wonderful summer. Do not worry about getting back to us. You’re living your life and that’s important. Have a great week.
I agree with you about black..if something doesn’t look good in black..forget it. I love navy in summer…your navy and white top..classy. 👍..Liz🌷
You look beautiful in your off the shoulder tops. Looks so elegant on you always. I am 71 and wear clothes that I love, not something that is trending for 2-3 months. I shop at Amazon, Walmart and TJ MAXX (my favorite). I have started to purge lot of items from my closet. I have way too many clothes now especially since I retired. This has been a great video, you always explain everything so well. 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌸🌸🌸🌸
Same here.
Thank you Dianne for saying that. I always worry that I either over explain or stumble over my words and don’t get my meaning across. LOL. So thank you for saying that. You know I think our clothes buying is going to fluctuate at different times in our lives. When I was a young mother I barely bought anything because I was at home and just needed my jeans in the winter time and shorts in the summertime. And I had babies that would spit up on me. So it is always good to realize what place you are in your life. I probably should’ve said that. But anyway I appreciate it.♥️♥️♥️
I just discovered your channel. You are so lovely and positive. Thanks for the great videos and your encouraging manner!
Thanking you for sharing your tips Melissa. I love your style and you always look beautiful my friend! Enjoy your grandchildren this summer and all of their events! Grands are so much fun!
I tend to color block everything ! Black & cream my fave ! Although I will buy a great pair of patterned slacks & top with a solid color top & shoe! Just to snazz it up a bit ! Accesorries help alot ! You alway's look fantastic Melissa not mattter what you are wearing !
Well thank you so much. Oh I like the way that you buy and dress. I too have bought some patterned slacks and mixed with a solid color top and I really like that look. Take care and have a blessed weekend.🌺🌺🌺
This video was very informative! It all comes down to our priorities and we all have different ones. Thank you so much for sharing this with us today!!
Oh thank you so much. Yes priorities are important and what your perspective is too. What I think is very expensive may not be to someone else. I hope you have a good weekend and I appreciate this. 💜💜💜
Melissa, you make everything look great.
Hi Melissa, You hit the nail on the head with all of your great tips. If you care for your clothing properly it will last for a long time. I like to shop at the factory outlets and I look for sales at Macy's, Nordstrom. J. Crew, Express to name a few. Target, Kohl's, Old Navy, and H&M are also good. Don't like Walmart clothing though I see many Walmart fashion hauls on TH-cam. Have a happy & safe 4th weekend.
You're so right! Solid colors on less expensive clothes is a must because the seams don't match on patterns! I buy all my solid t shirts at Target.
I love your videos I don’t care what you’re talking about I think you’re so genuine and kind and real and I love your smile and you’re so passionate about what you’re talking about and trying to help everyone. I think you’re adorable! Great advice ! Xoxo 😘
I really can’t tell you how much I appreciate this. Because honestly sometimes I will film things several times because I feel like I’m not making my point clear enough. LOL. I tend to ramble and over explain. But thank you for this. ♥️♥️♥️
Excellent and sound advice! Thank you.
You always look so well put together Melissa! I agree, you don't necessarily have to spend a lot of money for nice things. I store my clothes and accessories with care and I have some pieces that look brand new, even though I've had them for years. ~Susanne
I agree with the nice comments below.....You are gorgeous, do not look your age. thank you for the great information on clothing.....
🦋Happy Friday and Fourth to you and your Family, Melissa and audience. A great topic with excellent suggestions as always. Enjoy the weekend, please stay safe and healthy 🇺🇸🎈🎊🎉❤️
Thank you so much, Dee!!!! I hope it's a wonderful weekend for you, too and I always appreciate you so much. Love ya!
Happy 4th to you Dee. 🇺🇸
Hi Melissa, I absolutely enjoyed your video! Thank you so much! Have a beautiful evening!!! 💗
Great tips!!!
High-end accessories are worth the investment. You can often find great sales. Having a nice high quality purse, wallet, jewelry, etc. make such a difference. Having one piece that is higher end along with less expensive items works. To me, low quality accessories are a dead giveaway. High quality does not have to be expensive, but sometimes it is. There are also second hand stores and things like that. They often have items that look brand new.
Wonderful advice! I recently started reinventing my wardrobe and discovered the 50's style dresses available online at Walmart - it arrived made of the most divine material and fits so well, I was surprised to find something affordable that fits. Thank you for sharing your tips💖💖💖
OMG, I have to look for those! I absolutely love fashion from the 30s to 50s.
HI ! I'v worn cheaper clothes my whole life and they all have held up ,even all my 80's clothes :) connie
Melissa, I believe off-the-shoulder tops are still in fashion. I just purchased one from Anthropologie! They are very flattering, especially as you get older, as your shoulders do not age😉 They also cover the top part of my arms (which I rarely show). I am 75, thin and petite, but I have a large bust, so they work to help conceal that, too. If something is "not in style" right now, I know it will be again. I wear what flatters me most.
I buy my whole wardrobe at Ross for every season! I get really good things but never pay full price. I am an avid shopper and have been my whole life. Great video Melissa! Xo
When I lived in California, the Ross stores there were pretty good, I could find the Natori brand there sometimes, but out here in Vegas, not such good Ross stores.
I had a point in my life where I had to make my old clothes look new. So I added some accessories to them, that definitely gave them a facelift. In my closet there are some outfits I refuse to get rid of. Just some timeless styles that keep working for me. Love this video. 💝✨🌹💐💄
Oh thank you! I think so many of us have had those points and adding the accessories sounds just great. I bet you looked like a million bucks! I sure appreciate it!!! xox
Happy 4th to you and your beautiful family. So many good tips. I totally agree with you…you don’t need to spend a fortune to look great. Hair, makeup and accessories will definitely take it up a notch. And always shop your closet. Have a wonderful weekend!!💕💕
Loved your tips Melissa. Yes, what a year this has been. I too, have pieces in my wardrobe that I’ve owned for 15+ years. Love finding a classic number that hasn’t cost me an arm and a leg 💛
I agree. It’s always a surprise a pleasant surprise, when you get some thing out and realize that you can make it work. I sure do appreciate you. Take care.🌻🌻🌻
Hey sweet lady, you look amazing as usual. I love my off the shoulder tops as well, and have heard many people say they are out of style. However, I have ask some other ladies who have channels, they said no that the off shoulder tops are not out of style, just the ones that are cold shoulder or the ones with straps. Now, not sure anymore, but keep wearing what makes you happy, regardless . The off shoulder tops look nice on you. I also am bigger on bottom, and those shapewear is a miracle.. xoxoxo
I’m telling you Shapeware is seriously a miracle item. LOL. It’s hard to know about fashion and what is in style or not. I tell you the truth, I have about gotten to the point where I just wear what I think looks best on me and what suits me and my lifestyle. I just can’t keep up with what’s in or out anymore. Well I never really did but now I do even less. LOL. I appreciate it 💜💜💜
I so appreciate this. These are great ideas. I’ve always needed to be conscious of what I spend on clothes and that’s okay. There are workarounds.
You are so right there’s always lots of workarounds. And I have a feeling if I had unlimited funds I would have a closet full of clothes with nothing to wear. LOL. Many thanks.🌺🌺🌺
Excellent video, Melissa. I have stuff I haven’t been wearing because I’m not working right now (but will at some point). So I’m always looking for less expensive options. Like you, I accent with jewelry, scarves, etc. I also had my colors done 20+ years ago. I’m a “summer” color scheme and it was the best money I ever spent and I had a color swatch sheet that made selection easy. Thanks so much! ❣️
Hi Melissa I also spend more on skincare, then hair and makeup. We wear our face and hair every single day, whereas an expensive outfit is worn fairly rarely tbh. My look is a little different - I'm curvy with a more boho vibe and slightly more eclectic taste. I scour sale rails and online bargain buys, but most of my clothing comes from charity shops/thrift stores. Often the items are brand new with tickets or barely worn. I get some really good stuff and some of it was expensive when the person bought it. I'm fairly clued up on labels and fabrics - cost is not always as indicative of quality, as might be assumed. There are many well cut decent fabric pieces from more mid range brands, many of which I've owned for many years. i love jewellery, leather handbags, scarves and other accessories. Here in Scotland we wear a lot of scarves lol, as the weather is colder here. I volunteer one day a week in a cancer charity shop, so i get first pick and a small staff discount - a great way to add to your wardrobe whilst doing something worthwhile. The only pieces of clothing I will invest in is decent underwear. i'm a fairly large chested woman and a decent bra is an absolute essential for any clothing to look good. I'm the window dresser for the shop so I pay attention to the latest styles, but I dress how I want without that being an overriding concern. I get a lot of compliments on my clothing and asked for an opinion by customers as to what I would suggest for them - so hopefully that's a good sign lol.
You're very tall, slim and elegant so clothing will always hang well on you and those classic pieces/shapes look fab. My more bohemian look is more flattering on my body shape and I too have learned what suits me over time - colour, cut and style.
I thought there was a lot of sensible advice given in this video and I also take good care of my clothing, so it lasts. I hope you enjoy all these activities you have planned and best wishes.
Totally agree about the solid colors, my closet is filled w/ solids, much more time-enduring, classic, and versatile. Patterns are fun but are trended & tend to be more 'dated,' it's fun to kick it up w/patterned shoes, scarves or handbags instead.
I really like the points that you made in this. Do it with accessories and really you can probably get by on less clothing because with your solids most things will go with each other or can be mixed and matched. Thank you and take care. 🤍🤍🤍
Most days, head to toe Target for me (including undies, socks,shoes & handbag ) This week added bathing suits and hats for summer.! I always get so many compliments...and it makes me laugh that I'm rocking a $25 handbag! (Less 5%).But you are so right... you need to focus and not haul it all home. I always try to edit and then return things I'm not in love with. My four rules for buying clothes..must fit my limited palette (mainly black and neutrals), must coordinate with something else I already own, has to be my personal style (mostly classic so always in style), and must LOVE IT. And also within budget,but I will occasionally splurge for something special that I know I will wear forever. Thanks for taking the time to make this video. Xoxo
So interesting Melissa. Good info. You are so right about less expensive clothes being thinner in material. Easier to ruin as well. Everything looked very nice on you. Classics are timeless. Also, only wear pieces that bring "joy" while wearing it. I have this one top that I dont like but it's very functional (has a long backside) over shorts, but I dont like it at all. Time to donate it. Enjoy your summer;). See you next time 👏👏👏❤❤🥰🥰🥰
You really know your figure well. You know how to dress to look your best. Doesn’t matter whether the clothes are cheap or expensive. It’s important to have a good fit & to know what looks good on you. You have amazing fashion sense. You look stylish always. Lots of good rules for looking your best. Have a wonderful summer with the kids. Love you, Lucy
Greetings from Ireland, you look fabulous as always, I have lots of scarves and never wear them, plus just love your accent
Great video Melissa! 💖💕🇨🇦🌸
Good topic! You covered it well! Yes, I did color analysis 45 years ago and it taught me so much. As much as I love navy blue it just does not help my look.
Oh thank you, Ann! I do think it helps to know at least some of the colors that are our best. It is interesting to really look at the different ones. I appreciate this. xox, Melissa
Marshalls is my go-to, sometimes I can really hit the jackpot, although lately they’re getting too much like Ross (too cheap-looking stuff). Dillard’s has great online sales and clearances, the best costume jewelry. Nordstrom Rack for shoes. I’ll have to start looking at Amazon; why not, we get everything else from them LOL! Do you have a video on your skin care and makeup? I’m 69 and not too bad looking, haha. You look no more than early 40s, absolutely stunning, and I believe yours is the channel I’ve been looking for.
I agree on Marshall’s- cheaper looking clothing lately.
Those are all some really great suggestions. And sometimes I can get some good deals from ASOS. I do tend to shop online since I live in such a small town that we really don’t have those stores that we can find in a larger place so most of mine does end up online. Oh thank you for that. I do have a skin care video that I did last year and I will link it. I sure appreciate it. m.th-cam.com/video/6j7eJJVYhko/w-d-xo.html
Thank you Melissa. I am almost 69 and don’t know what colors or styles look good on me, I wear whatever I have and most of my clothing came from garage sales. I raised three children 90% by myself and could never afford to spend money on myself.
I admire you so much, Paula. You were a good mom and it's incredibly hard to do what you did on your own. You are an inspiration. Take care! xox, Melissa
@@Melissa55 thank you. My kids are grown now and are very successful in their lives, I am so proud of the adults they have become. I truly believe they watched me struggle through life that they didn’t want to grow up to be like me, they wanted a better life and now they have it and doing a fabulous job raising their own children.
Is it just me or this lady needs to go in one of those shows where people guess the age of a person? They will for sure guess her age to be around 40 or maybe even less. 👍
You’re very sweet. I appreciate that. I hope you have a good weekend and again I thank you.💝💝💝
Yes! Absolutely beautiful!
Totally agree with what you said 110%, after I retired I gave all my expensive suits and clothes away, we live in TX and we live in shorts and flip flops, I don’t even own a dress anymore, we’re homebodies and don’t go out much unless we go out of state to visit our kids and grandchildren.🥰
I love that. And really you prove a great point. Your fashion style will change over the years. As a young stay at home mother I just needed a couple of pairs of shorts and some jeans. And a winter coat. LOL. Then when the kids started school and I worked and was a single mother, I needed to buy more work clothes. So it kind of ebbs and flows over the years I think. I really appreciate your comments so much. Take care and have a great weekend. 🌺🌺😊
I recently bought a dress for £11 it's the nicest most flattering dress I have ever owned 😍 it's made from recycled fabric and I always get compliments when wearing this dress🙏
I absolutely love that. What a great find that is. You certainly have gotten more wear out of it than what you actually paid. That’s marvelous. Many thanks.💜💜💜
I follow most of the rules you talked about. I do know one rule I follow is about stripes. Less expensive clothing the stripes dont match at the seams. Good quality clothing does. I have Walmart maxi dresses that the stripes match. I have had them several years and look great. I just think if I wear a top or dress with uneven stripes that everyone notices. I love crisp white blouses. Thankx for the great video. I watch you every day
Yep u look better in one color. I color block..good information 🦋
I tend to think the same way you do Melissa. I do like to spend a little more on skin care but not so much on makeup. I think there are so many inexpensive make up lines out there that work just as well. I could never bring myself to spend $60 or better on an eye shadow palette, I just personally think it’s ridiculous, for me anyway! There are also many clothing lines that are inexpensive that have held up better for me than the higher priced items. I can keep my clothes for years and they still look brand new because I take good care of my clothes (must be the virgo in me) lol! You look lovely in this video Melissa. Hope you have a wonderful weekend sweet lady!❤️
Thank you so much Joyce, and I think you are a very wise shopper. And I do believe that we have our priorities that we spend our money on too, things that are important to us. I know a lot of people that hardly spend any money on skin care but buy very expensive clothing. Which is fine those are their priorities. It’s very interesting to think about. I appreciate you and many thanks. 💝💝💝
Melissa, thanks for this great video. I agree with your theories, I don't buy a lot of designer fashions, most of my purchases are on the less pricey side.
A year or 2 ago you showed some beautiful solid color knit blouses (I think they were from an Amazon seller). They had a lovely neckline with narrow bands coming across in an X. (mercy, I'm awful at descriptions, sorry). I ordered them and LOVE them! They aren't expensive. The only drawback is a long delivery time, but I like them so much I don't mind that. Thanks for sharing, you are such a stylish, classy lady!
Have a blessed weekend and 4th of July!
This just made my day and I thank you so very much. I remember those tops, I think I still have mine. LOL. I hope you have a wonderful weekend and I hope that your summer is just going really well. Take care and many thanks. ❣️❣️❣️
Gah! I actually bought clothes at Family Dollar for a very poor year! You gotta do what you gotta do.
I hang dry my closes to on the plastic hangers in bathroom they last so long ❣️❣️❣️such a great video thank you ❣️
Hi Melissa. Always a pleasure to watch you. Best from Montreal Canada.
Thank you so much Lynn. And a very happy belated Canada Day to you. I appreciate it🤗🤗🤗🤗
Hi Melissa! Thanks for sharing your tips.
Blessings
I really appreciate that and many blessings to you.💝💝💝
Thank you so much for doing this video Melissa! You have given me some great ideas!! 👑🙏❤️
You are such a breath of fresh air💕. I enjoy your channel. I don’t comment much, but you are one of my favs!
Oh that is so sweet Sandy. It really did touch me. I hope you have a great weekend. And thank you again.💋💋💋
Hi Melissa, Wonderful tips for making outfits look more elegant and expensive. My mom used to do this. She always looked put together and beautiful. You are so creative. Thank you so much for a fun, and helpful video. I hope you and your family have a wonderful, festive and Happy 4th of July!! Love, Karen
Thank you so much Karen. My mom was really good at it too. My mom didn’t have any money, but she looked like she was rich. I don’t know how she did it but she did. Thank you my sweet friend and I’ll talk to you soon.💋💋💋
Love the way you think! We are all on budget now. Approaching social security age- got to start reducing " fluffy" expenses. Thanks Melissa.
I retired in 2016 and what I’ve learned is to think hard about if I really need it, where and how often would I wear it, etc. As I worked from home the last 20 or so years, I mostly wear jeans and T-shirts. Levi’s fit me the best because I like skinny, high-rise jeans and they last longer than any $200 pair I’ve ever bought. One good black pant or skirt suit and dress, and some pearls will take you just about anywhere. (I’m 69 and 95 lbs.) It’s hard to make that work-to-retirement transition in so many ways other than clothing, so best of luck to you.
The belk app has great deals.. i have a silk bodysuit that was 100.00 and i paid 12.99 for it. Also a pair of black lace pants, lined scalloped around the ankles.. just so pretty.. had been 100.00 and i paid 5.99!! There was only 2 pair left both 8 petite.. so guess they were supposed to be mine! They have certainly saved me on a couple of popup events!
Love this Melissa! I appreciate how you share more affordable fashion ideas with us. It’s a bit discouraging when so many on TH-cam recommend such expensive items ($450 tennis shoes?)
You always look so ELEGANT and PRETTY! ❤️❤️❤️have. Happy 4th of July! ❤️🇺🇸❤️🇺🇸❤️
If you get basics, for example, at a place like Old Navy or Marshall’s, places like that, then you can put more $ into shoes, and that’s the item that most people will notice first, and a good leather belt that will last for years, a well-designed handbag, everything on sale or discounted, of course. I dream of owning a pair of Gucci loafers, but that will most likely always be just a dream! Oh, and a Gucci robe. Just those two items would run around $2000.
@@cookiesspirit2329 And I think that is wonderful for you to aim for those items. There is nothing wrong with that because these things are things that you really do want. I would love to have a designer purse some day I have to admit. And perhaps we’ll both get the things that we do want. LOL. I appreciate you sharing this. You take care.
I really appreciate it so much. And have a great weekend and many blessings to you. Thank you.😊😊😊
Totally agree about classic patterns. I love to shop Loft and Target but each year they put out trendy patterns that scream where you got them. I always look for animal print or stripes and very basic classic cuts that you could find at any price point. That way you always look classy and still unique. And not everyone knows you got it at Target
Great ideas Melissa! I buy most of my clothes on sale at Belk and Kohl’s. They usually have great deals. I also like Target and TJ Maxx. Enjoy your summer with your kids and grandkids. I found out recently my daughter is having another baby and it’s a boy! Willy and Malachi are so excited. I’m thrilled to have another grandson to love and spoil. Have a great 4th of July. God Bless! ❤️
Those are really great places to shop Debbie. And I am so excited for you. I know your boys are just going to be thrilled to have a new little baby to love. Congratulations to your family.💝💝💝💝
You are adorable 💖 I do most of my purchases at thrift stores...I don't pay more than $20 on anything brand new. I think I am a very well dressed ladies I know. Personality in clothing is everything. I feel you and I could be friends you're a dolly. Xo
Thank you, Melissa! This video has really helped me a lot, you have no idea!❤️
Well I sure appreciate you watching it. It is just so nice of you and I am really really grateful. Take care and thanks again.🌹🌹🌹
I haven't purchased designer clothes in years. I'm purchasing more clothing from Amazon. I much prefer to spend $$$ skincare/haircare first. Good video 🙂
Thank you Cassie. I think you and I spend money on the same things. I just guess skin care has just always been more of a priority. I appreciate it and many thanks. 🤗🤗🤗
Great Content Melissa 😃👍🏻🤗 Have a great week sweetie.🥰
Texas Lady🌹
You're so right! Solid colors in less expensive clothes is a must because the seems don't match on patterns! Is it just me or does that drive everyone crazy????
I love off the shoulder and it looks great in you....HSN/QVC are excellent shows to shop...the quality and cost are great!
That is a really good tip opal. I forgot about those two places but you’re exactly right. Thanks for mentioning it. Have a great weekend.💝💝💝
Lol for heavens's sake don't apologize! It's not ELEVATING!!! You're so hysterical and l always get ideas! I rely on your videos ❤
Thank you sweet Melissa. This video was most informative. I do as you do. I mix and match less expensive items with classic pieces to make an outfit look more expensive than it is. Another tip, I use Rakuten whenever I can. You get cash back, with no gimmick. I find coupon codes, and if there is something I love, I'll wait patiently for it to go on sale. My biggest vice is jewelry. I adore it. I should go through my armoire and see what I haven't used in awhile.
Wishing you, Doug, and your family a wonderful and safe 4th of July. Lots of love❣💕😘
Great tips. I enjoyed your video. I do much of the same. Great time to go shopping...lots of sales. I do however pay full price for my shoes because of my shoe size 5 1/2...hard to find.
Thank you! ❤🤍💙
I sure appreciate you watching! Take care! xox
I am grateful for, Ross, Marshall's. Burlington, Tjmaxx...My go to spots. 👗👠👜👗👜 Dress according to your body type is the winning combination..
🙌🏼🙌🏼 oh this is going to be good!!! I love your style!!!
I appreciate that so much. I hope I didn’t disappoint you. Take care and have a good weekend.🌹🌹🌹
Great video. One of your best. I totally agree. The only pricey clothes I have are 1 pair of jeans, some shoes, a cashmere sweater and coat 2 scarves, leather jacket and maybe 1 or 2 Marni T shirts & handbags & sunnies. Everything else I buy any H & M or even Kohl’s or old navy. I also sew sometimes or alter cut clothes to keep up with rapidly changing trends. You look gorgeous always & yes off the shoulder is always in fashion for women it looks good on. Have a lovely and safe July 4 th with your beautiful family! Btw I went n bought that coffee oil filter your Doug talked about & girl I love my coffee even more now. Takes a bit longer but worth it. Thanks to you both!!
Great tips!
Thank you for sharing 👍🏽🇺🇸
Agree agree agree! Melissa, I totally agree with the shape wear. Not heavy but smoothing! People seem to think that only overweight people need it and that is SO UNTRUE! The girl that invented SPANX is very slim. Also let me back you up on what you said about visible panty lines(VPL’s)!!!!! It’s better to just not wear any panties rather than have vpl’s for sure!! I wash my clothes on delicate and hang to dry. I only dry my jeans 👖 Everything you said is spot on!!👌You did a fantastic job with this!!!Yall have a fun 4 th of July weekend!!! Muah 💋💋💋😘
Thank for all the great tips. And I do love that top you're wearing and I found the Amazon page. I will look at those clothes there. Have a wonderful day and week 🌞🌞🌄🌄. Greetings from me in Norway 🤗🥰
Melissa, I'm with you 110%..thank you for your candor!! I also can't afford those expensive outlets, and I'm a pear-shaped body type, too. I've not had great luck with Walmart, either, though some others have. Agree with the color choices, too. I think you look absolutely fabulous, always! Stay well, and enjoy your weekend! 🙂
Rosemarie 💖
We really do have a lot in common don’t we? I’ve just never been able to spend a ton of money on clothing, and even if I was very wealthy I don’t know that I would anyway. It’s just would be hard for me to do that. But anyway take care and have a great weekend. 🌻🌻🌻
How did I miss this video? I didn't get a notification! I'm glad I caught it now. I love your videos and this one was fun to watch as well! Enjoy your activities with your family and stay safe! xoxo
You are very classy! You have form like a dancer. When my daughter was in ballet her teacher said she would be good as she had long arms. I think if that every time I see them.
Are J Crew, Banana Republic and Ann Taylor really expensive? I have a closet full of these and other designer labels, never paid over $10 for any item because I shop exclusively at thrift stores. I only buy brand new underwear, everything else is thrifted. Been at it since 1980, hasn't failed me yet! Of course thrifting is a one shot deal, but I love the fact that each item in the store is one of a kind. Location does matter; we have so many thrift options in NYC that retail shopping is just not necessary! Thanks for these tips!
I agree totally with you and go shopping with a plan to purchase solids, however I end up buying patterns because I love color, dark colors really drag me down and I'm a plus size woman so patterns can hide a multitude of bumps and lumps. I also buy cheap clothing. The availability of plus sized clothing compared to what's available in regular sizes is a sin.
I’ve never spent a lot of money on clothing. As far as wardrobe, I invest more in staples such as shoes, outerwear and bags. I’m like you in that I’d rather take care of myself physically and it usually works fine for me.
I agree completely, especially shoes, that’s where to spend more money.
Thank you so much Melissa 🥰
You are beautiful inside and out!!
What is a good shape wear to buy that doesn't roll in the waist line?
I love all your looks 🥰
Great video, as always. You always look classy.
The scarves are beautiful too, and really make a big difference. Simple yet effective!
I always admire the shoulder-less and boatneck tops on you, but haven’t really tried that style myself. I will have to give it a whirl when we are allowed back in the fitting rooms (all closed currently in the U.K. which makes it really difficult and time consuming as you have to try items at home and then more often than not, go back to the store to return 😫).
Great to hear you’re enjoying a lot of family time. 💜
It really has been challenging trying to shop in this current situation. I tend , since I live in a very small town, to buy online from places that will let me exchange. But I have found I don’t have to exchange too often. I will read the reviews and people will say whether it runs true to size, and I will look at their sizing chart which I think has been helpful for me at least. But good luck. It’s a challenge.💜💜💜