I’m so proud of you my sister!! Stay strong and don’t listen to all those haters! Live your life for yourself only. They w always judge but know that the only one who can judge us is God! Thanks for sharing ❤
Cas hauv lub ntiaj teb no es tau cov nyab zoo hos tau cov niam pog phem2, ho cov nyab phem ho tau niam pog zoo2. Why??? Yog tau ib tug txiv/tsev neeg xyob txhiaj, siab phem npaum no lawm ces ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo. Zoo siab qhov koj muaj zoo niam zoo txiv hlub thiab txhawb koj os mog.
Girl, you not only have haters, you have fans. These men have no morals and their mother defends them regardless! He caused a lot of problems in your marriage and yet you get blamed for everything that happens to him. SMH! Zoo tsis npaum yus lawm os mog. Yus uv li uv xwb, laj ua neej nrog cov neeg lim hiam no. I’m glad you realize your own worth and respect yourself to leave that miserable life. Work on yourself and make your own money. Don’t listen to the haters who are just jealous of your success. Their opinions don’t matter and they don’t pay your bills. The best revenge is moving on to better things and happiness. The haters can’t stand it that’s why they try to sabotage your life.
Oyo, some people just have too much time and energy to waste on non-productive dramas. This lady must've just learned this lesson after marrying her ex. I'm glad my parents taught me this lesson early on. There's no future with a loser like her ex. The sooner you leave, the better off you'll be.
Do you have to say kuv tus txiv doctor? It doesn’t matter whether he’s a lawyer or doctor, but rather you found someone who loves you. It’s a bit bragging when you keep mentioning your new husband’s status.
It's not really bragging. It's the honest truth. She's entitled to it, especially after that p.o.s. ex-husband of hers. She should've reported him and pressed charges against him for domestic abuse. Put him behind bars.
The sister in law with all the times she spent w/o about you she should spend that time to better herself always keep in mind that even woman has her own problems you just remember you can only focus on yours not everyone
You ain’t doing it right unless you got haters. That means you’re doing it right. Keep living your best life girl! Let them talk. That’s all they got anyways.
It's your life, live it. Nobody is feeding you or paying your bills. We are living in the United States and will die here. We are hmong Americans so what's going on with hmong people being discriminatory against hmong women married to Caucasian? The hmong people are not this discriminatory against hmong men marrying another race. Everyone needs to move forward with change.
This is a good lesson for everyone. When you have to divorce make that change for better. Continue to strive to be the better person. Eventually time will always tell who made what decisions in that marriage that didn’t allow the marriage to grow to its full potential.
The only things that should matter to you are those that love you. Let the rest talk until they burned out. If anything, they're just bored & needed entertainment in their lives.
I applaud you for leaving your abusive husband and to his family, such haters and will always be blind that their son is abusive. They’re hating because your life is better now. Continue your life and let the haters talk. They get no where. Its all because of jealousy
Yus yog Dr. Txhob tuaj khav ma. Xav deb deb tias yus kawm tau ces zoo rau yus xwb yog tus kawm tsis tau ne twb yeej kawm nyiab kawmbtsis tau na. Not everyone.
Yus uv kom txaus2 lawm ces tseem sib nrauj lawm los yeej tsis muaj ib qho yuav nco yuav khuv xim li nawb hos muaj ib txhia tos lawv sib nrauj tag tseem khuv xim los vim lawv yeej tsis tau uv lawv siab ceev tsis sib zam chim ces sib mob siab sib nrauj ces Tom qab ho khuv xim na,
Most, if not all, of May stories are lectures and advising only. Idk if the people who submitted the stories also lectures or May does that on her own to make the stories longer, but it's every single one of her story that i start to feel it's May adding to it. I'm getting tired of lecture stories now. Same words, same lectures, same advices. I don't even need to hear and i already know what the lectures will say.
To the lady in this story, if you are truly who you proclaim to be than you should not come to social media to air your dirty laundry or air your ex. There is no competition here but your mental state. Also, understand that your story is your own narrative and there are always two sides to the story. I don't condone those that comes here and air the dirty laundry of others...........good luck to you 600K house and Mekas doctor husband!
your American husband is last to you because he is older than you 12+ years, and you married him when he is old enough to change for a new wife. But, if you were married to him when you and he were younger, life was not guaranteed. As my observation, almost all of our people who married to black, white, and other group persons have not been last after ages 45 and up!
Depends on the couple. Every race have good & bad. Been with my non-Hmong husband for almost 20 years & both of us r over 45 years-old. My 2 sisters who married Hmong got divorced before they turned 40 years-old.
Sister don't care what people say about your face, care who love you, and the end of the day who pay your bill this is American. Not like in the 70s back in laos!
Why does what other people say about u bother u? U live a better life so just ignore them & be the better person with ur head held high. U boast & preach too much & make too many generalizations.
Can’t May or these people just tell their stories without the lecture? 🙄 the irony is she says to not care about what people say about you but it’s obvious she does for paying this much attention to the gossip and feels the need to tell the world about it
Evil 😈 🦹♂️family Evil 😈 sister tsev cov neeg es pheej cem tom qab tuaj pheej rhuav yus lub neej nws tsis yog neeg zoo nws yog neeg phem nyob hauv lub qab ntuj no cov neeg lub siab dab ntxwg nyoog coob tshaj cov neeg coj zoo cov neeg zoo mas 40% xwb cov neeg coj siab dab ntxwg nyoog coob......npaum 60% nawb hmoob. Hom neeg taug xaiv mas khib........nws heev li hom neeg nyiam2 ua tuv txias tom tom pob tw mas zoo li no nws tsis muab nws lub qhov muag saib muab qhov muag ntsia los ua qhov tseeb. Li nawb nws muab nws lub qhov ntsej los mloog xwb nawb hom neeg taug xaiv na
OMFG, all those ex in laws are just haters. They're so jealous and envious of you. They just want to destroy your life. They know their brother is the screw up but they want to hinder and ruined your reputation and name. I'm just trying to understand why you didn't sued them for slandering, deformation etc.
Not every parents will love their children and not every child will love their parents.. yes, you are lucky to have loving parents, but not everyone is lucky like you! Not everyone is lucky to have loving families
I’m so proud of you my sister!! Stay strong and don’t listen to all those haters! Live your life for yourself only. They w always judge but know that the only one who can judge us is God! Thanks for sharing ❤
I'm so glad you found your happiness. Thanks for sharing your story and for sharing your advice.
All the haters are just jealous of you. Keep being happy while the haters continue to hate you and be miserable.
Cas hauv lub ntiaj teb no es tau cov nyab zoo hos tau cov niam pog phem2, ho cov nyab phem ho tau niam pog zoo2. Why??? Yog tau ib tug txiv/tsev neeg xyob txhiaj, siab phem npaum no lawm ces ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo. Zoo siab qhov koj muaj zoo niam zoo txiv hlub thiab txhawb koj os mog.
Girl, you not only have haters, you have fans. These men have no morals and their mother defends them regardless! He caused a lot of problems in your marriage and yet you get blamed for everything that happens to him. SMH! Zoo tsis npaum yus lawm os mog. Yus uv li uv xwb, laj ua neej nrog cov neeg lim hiam no. I’m glad you realize your own worth and respect yourself to leave that miserable life. Work on yourself and make your own money. Don’t listen to the haters who are just jealous of your success. Their opinions don’t matter and they don’t pay your bills. The best revenge is moving on to better things and happiness. The haters can’t stand it that’s why they try to sabotage your life.
Oyo, some people just have too much time and energy to waste on non-productive dramas. This lady must've just learned this lesson after marrying her ex. I'm glad my parents taught me this lesson early on. There's no future with a loser like her ex. The sooner you leave, the better off you'll be.
Do you have to say kuv tus txiv doctor? It doesn’t matter whether he’s a lawyer or doctor, but rather you found someone who loves you. It’s a bit bragging when you keep mentioning your new husband’s status.
You should already know how Hmong people are though. You have to make that own because we care about our face.
Technically speaking, she is speaking facts. lol.
I should ask my spouse if he labels me as his “doctor wife.” If u achieve it, then u deserve the recognition.
@@mulahbbylaujs393my husband has never call me his niam doctor. lol!😂
It's not really bragging. It's the honest truth. She's entitled to it, especially after that p.o.s. ex-husband of hers. She should've reported him and pressed charges against him for domestic abuse. Put him behind bars.
The sister in law with all the times she spent w/o about you she should spend that time to better herself always keep in mind that even woman has her own problems you just remember you can only focus on yours not everyone
Good for you sister...I'm applaud you. Haters will hate regardless. You just do you.❤️
You ain’t doing it right unless you got haters. That means you’re doing it right. Keep living your best life girl! Let them talk. That’s all they got anyways.
Peb ib txhia pojniam ces uv txaus2 lawm txog thaum peb ua siab tawm lawm ces tag kev hlub tsis quaj lawm os
Lawv hais 2 lawv tuag kiag Los tsis mob yus li os, khib khib lawv heev es lawv ua tsis tau li cas rau yus ces lawv hais kom khib yus xwb
It's your life, live it. Nobody is feeding you or paying your bills. We are living in the United States and will die here. We are hmong Americans so what's going on with hmong people being discriminatory against hmong women married to Caucasian? The hmong people are not this discriminatory against hmong men marrying another race. Everyone needs to move forward with change.
Zoo siab nrog koj os tus sister. You live happily ever after ❤
I agree with you sister. Koj hais yog tshaj plaws li os. Kuv ces as txis xav ib yam li koj thiab but now stay single mom hlub yus tus kheej lawm xwb.
This is a good lesson for everyone. When you have to divorce make that change for better. Continue to strive to be the better person. Eventually time will always tell who made what decisions in that marriage that didn’t allow the marriage to grow to its full potential.
Koj lub neejcezoo li kv lub kaig
ขอบคุณ❤
The only things that should matter to you are those that love you. Let the rest talk until they burned out. If anything, they're just bored & needed entertainment in their lives.
You did 👍
I applaud you for leaving your abusive husband and to his family, such haters and will always be blind that their son is abusive. They’re hating because your life is better now. Continue your life and let the haters talk. They get no where. Its all because of jealousy
HiMan
Yus yog Dr. Txhob tuaj khav ma. Xav deb deb tias yus kawm tau ces zoo rau yus xwb yog tus kawm tsis tau ne twb yeej kawm nyiab kawmbtsis tau na. Not everyone.
Txhob chim ma qhov koj tu txiv lawv tsev neeg pheej niaj hnub cem koj lo vim lawv tseem khuv g xim koj lawv rhuav koj rau lwm tus x
Like Jennie said..."the one who talk about you have less than you" you dont see people who has more than you talk about you...🤣🤣🤣
Yus uv kom txaus2 lawm ces tseem sib nrauj lawm los yeej tsis muaj ib qho yuav nco yuav khuv xim li nawb hos muaj ib txhia tos lawv sib nrauj tag tseem khuv xim los vim lawv yeej tsis tau uv lawv siab ceev tsis sib zam chim ces sib mob siab sib nrauj ces Tom qab ho khuv xim na,
Me ntxhais aw ua cas tsis nrhiav kev pab Lwm yam kom txhob muaj2 me nyuam na kuj muab hlob pov tseg xwb los mos ,
Raug kv ua lj li o
Cov qub nom qub tswv lawv cov menyuam tuaj nyob america teb coob leej ntau tus yeej ua tsis tau dabtsi tseem ceeb li a...
Koj cov nyab nus ma ruam tshaj, cas lawv nim yuav txaj muag ua luaj.
Yog! Lawv ua ncuag lawv tsis muaj qhov ncauj hais rov qab. Ruam tiag tiag… Yog kuv mas kuv twv kiag kom lawv hais rau kuv kaw cia es foob kiag!
Kuv tsis paub tias cas hmoob ho xyeej cov neeg tawv dawb...kuv xav mas tsuav yog luag tsis xaiv yus ces yog hmoov zoo no ..
Too much lecturing and advising that this story seems dragging.
Most, if not all, of May stories are lectures and advising only. Idk if the people who submitted the stories also lectures or May does that on her own to make the stories longer, but it's every single one of her story that i start to feel it's May adding to it. I'm getting tired of lecture stories now. Same words, same lectures, same advices. I don't even need to hear and i already know what the lectures will say.
Yg tshaj li o
Tej neej neeg sib thuam no ces nyiass qhuas nyias zoo xwb os yeej paub kawg. Koj lo yeej muaj qhov phem2 kawg thiab
Koj Zaj neej neeg kos khan theeb xwb
Hmoob ces yeej tsis hlub hmoob lis os
To the lady in this story, if you are truly who you proclaim to be than you should not come to social media to air your dirty laundry or air your ex. There is no competition here but your mental state. Also, understand that your story is your own narrative and there are always two sides to the story. I don't condone those that comes here and air the dirty laundry of others...........good luck to you 600K house and Mekas doctor husband!
Sister, save all that and file a police report, and sued them for deformation and slandering. They need jail time and to have to pay penalty fines.
Sister, tso IUD chob txivneej ces mus kom doctor kho dua, vim tus tw tsis zoo xwb. Twb muaj ntau hom birth control rau pojniam siv.
Weird…of all the things you asked for their TV when moving out?
Sounds like the parents had multiple tv. And a tv is the main entertainment in a house.
your American husband is last to you because he is older than you 12+ years, and you married him when he is old enough to change for a new wife. But, if you were married to him when you and he were younger, life was not guaranteed. As my observation, almost all of our people who married to black, white, and other group persons have not been last after ages 45 and up!
Depends on the couple. Every race have good & bad. Been with my non-Hmong husband for almost 20 years & both of us r over 45 years-old. My 2 sisters who married Hmong got divorced before they turned 40 years-old.
Ok now let’s hear the other side of the story 😂😂..everyone here is quick to say you’re the good one but haven’t heard the other side 😂😂😂😂..
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Great, another lecture story. 30 mins of lectures. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Sister don't care what people say about your face, care who love you, and the end of the day who pay your bill this is American. Not like in the 70s back in laos!
Funny, these Hmong parents….once daddy heard “doctor”, everything else went out the window! 😂
Right?! Lol. Glad I'm not the only one who caught on that.
Tus pog no zaj neej neeg tsis muaj qab hau li as😅
Why does what other people say about u bother u? U live a better life so just ignore them & be the better person with ur head held high. U boast & preach too much & make too many generalizations.
Can’t May or these people just tell their stories without the lecture? 🙄 the irony is she says to not care about what people say about you but it’s obvious she does for paying this much attention to the gossip and feels the need to tell the world about it
Im so happy for you sister, but your story turned into a boring lecture.
Most, if not all, of May's stories turned into boring lectures towards the end. I think May is doing the lectures to prolong the stories.
👍👍👍👍
Qub nom qub tswv? Sucks!
Evil 😈 🦹♂️family Evil 😈 sister tsev cov neeg es pheej cem tom qab tuaj pheej rhuav yus lub neej nws tsis yog neeg zoo nws yog neeg phem nyob hauv lub qab ntuj no cov neeg lub siab dab ntxwg nyoog coob tshaj cov neeg coj zoo cov neeg zoo mas 40% xwb cov neeg coj siab dab ntxwg nyoog coob......npaum 60% nawb hmoob. Hom neeg taug xaiv mas khib........nws heev li hom neeg nyiam2 ua tuv txias tom tom pob tw mas zoo li no nws tsis muab nws lub qhov muag saib muab qhov muag ntsia los ua qhov tseeb. Li nawb nws muab nws lub qhov ntsej los mloog xwb nawb hom neeg taug xaiv na
OMFG, all those ex in laws are just haters. They're so jealous and envious of you. They just want to destroy your life. They know their brother is the screw up but they want to hinder and ruined your reputation and name. I'm just trying to understand why you didn't sued them for slandering, deformation etc.
They're jealous of you that you're better off than their loser brother.
Wow another DR. Sounds like another made up story. Skipping this story now
Too much rambling
Not every parents will love their children and not every child will love their parents.. yes, you are lucky to have loving parents, but not everyone is lucky like you! Not everyone is lucky to have loving families