Suicide stems from Identity issues. Kpop beats the identity out of its members and assigns them new names, faces, hair color, and personalities. The real Identity is suppressed by their projected image/persona and public expectations. When a person is un-centered, they are easily "tipped over" by accusations and criticism(real or imagined). The dangers of "being famous" is loosing yourself while trying to get there.
This is sad, it just shows that when we are under overwhelming stress n pressure to do or be our best, we can't see the people who would love us n will be there for us no matter what, we forget that our close family n friends do actually miss us feel pain if something happens to us
I Agree I have been a fan of koop since 2009 but I realize over the years that unlike American artists who are always giving us their true personality. Idols are a lot different because of the korean society and their companies controlling their personality and body image. I even notice now that the international fans of today have even become very obsessively possessive like korean fans which doesn't help the situation.
Glad to see someone taking a more granular approach to understanding this instead of just blanket blaming companies, fans and bullying which just means nothing will change. This explanation also accounts for individual responsibility on idols parts too...without idols there's no kpop and fans fail to realise when they spend in support of a group or person they are endorsing the system like a friend who pays a drug dealer to keep pumping dangerous drugs into their other friend. Granted kpop wouldn't have the allure without the manufactured aspect but certainly idols don't seem to be aware of this phenomenon which is not much different to actors who have to get therapy after acting roles to stay sane.
What concerns me is that people have learnt *nothing* after all these deaths, they still hate on people, people much better than them, and they think that they won’t see those comments and be hurt.
sparkyxsora Yes that’s true. Someone: Depressed. People: Omg, stop being such a crybaby. Like, grow up.. 🙄 Someone: Commits suicide. People: nOoo!! I aM sO sOrRy!!! 😭😳😱 I rEaLLy miSs yOu!!! oMg!!
Debts, debts, debts. Not bullying, not men rights or women rights, not pressure, not bad comment. Sure they contribute to it but the main cause is their inability to pay back. One flop in their career and it is over. The interest just keep piling up. All the fun in colored glittered clothing, classes and schooling, promotions, travelling and music videos. Now they have to pay back. Every time they put something in their mouth, every time they refused to laugh and take selfies with their creepy fans, every time the spend something they do not own. They have to pay back, every single one of them. Welcome to Korea.
In India this happens a lot , not with Idols but with normal people because of study, family pressure,etc,etc...I mean in aisa depression is no joke, well not only in Asia depression is not joke in any of the country over the world..
Its because asias standards in studies, looks and every tiny thing is too high and when people wonder why many asians commit suicide they do not realise that we were moslt left to cope with things alone as a child
@@jhansiy691 actually that's not true. India's population is 1.3 billion out of 6-7 billion world population so even if the percentage of people committing suicide is low the number of people is really high.
I feel bad for k-pop stars, they aren't free. People are obsessed with them and think they are able to relate to them... but what lies on the inside is something you will never relate to.
Normal fans would support there idols no matter what but the reason the arnt free is because of the sasaeng fans that follow them everywhere and get jealous if they are in relationships
This isn’t just in Asia either, it’s everywhere. Jessy from Little Mix was constantly harassed and abused online about “looking fat” after she went on X factor. She said she fell into a severe severe depression and even tried to take her own life because of this. The internet’s just so toxic (some people are nice on there).
Sulli is definitely the #1 kpop star that is abused online. (yup even after her death she still is harassed) She is my favourite member of f(x) and one of my favourite people, I cried for months after her death and still continue to from time to time
do you think it's korea a good country to build your future in? Because i need to continue my studies abroad and i don't know what to choose Germany or South Korea
@@armyrv2263 I think Germany is better I mean I really love Korea but I think that in Germany is easier than in Korea so if you can study hard Korea if you are lazy or you just can't than Germany
@@teodoraavramovic2527 yes i think That too...I'm a hardworking and i study very well but after my graduation 🎓 do you think that i will find a job in korea even if I'm foreign.. So many Koreans don't allow foreigners to work instead of Germany
Same.. That's what my heart says! People in greed of money are mentally, personally and socially constricted into a 'tumor'. Even if they gain money, the greed does not stop, Ultimately this 'tumor' overcomes them, and ruins their personality
@@karinnamerino7232 sensitive isn't really a degrading term, but it is misleading because it has 2 meanings, it can mean one with lots of empathy or someone relatively easier to get their feelings hurt. But there's no universal threshold for when a person is considered sensitive.
@@karinnamerino7232 sensitive is a degrading word? People who are kind hearted are always vulnerable as well...it is a psychological state when feel hurt towards such harsh words used for them, be it whether these words are true or not, no one has the right to tell anyone if they have some flaws and make fun of it or anything. Artists are more sensitive than others.
Also some boys who bully girls they like, then the girl will get depression. A boy threw tomatoes at me. A week later he apologized and said it was to impress me. As if that will impress me... 😑 Edit: Of course not all boys are jerks, but those who are, learn to respect females.
I don’t even know most of these kpop stars but every time I hear “suicide” or someone talks about suicide...something in my heart pierces me and it’s just so heartbreaking, people taking their lives because of not being able to say how they feel or being able to live freely...it’s so scary and absolutely heartbreaking...NOBODY NOBODY DESERVES TO FEEL LIKE THAT whether it’s a celebrity or a common man
That reason causes me to support the idols and feel sympathy for them, you know? I'm not an absolutely sick in the head saesang, I support them more like...idk...a distant...friend..
You know, most music industries are almost just as bad. Your don't have a higher moral ground for not liking K-pop. I don't like it too but it doesn't necessarily mean I'm a better person.
Geraldi Gosal kpop is music, if you feel uncomfortable with it it’s okay to not get involved with it, but I’m just trying to say like you don’t have to care about the toxicity just care about the idols whom you support
yeah well that's how it works. the more idols, the more competition, the more stress, the more the company controls their every action, leading to the big s word. it breaks my heart how extreme it is.
Jonghyun was hopeless from a young age..nothing has changed and being an idol made it worse. He started questioning everything long before he commited suicide..he was isolated from a young age. His father was probably manipulative and strict.I fully understand how that feels and anove that they lived in poverty.. I think music eased the pain for him.yet constantly being in the spotlight is overwhelming and stressful. I cannot blame him. I can only say that he did well and deserve the best. He was a very strong person He faught untill he couldnt anymore. The days he spend awake.sleepless.hopeless. no signs of help even when he's screaming out just for a shoulder or a hand to guide him. Lets not even talk about his therapist.. I whish he could just live a normal life or get the support he deserved..
I hope BTS doesn’t do this too Edit: thx for the likes Another edit: When did I ever say that I only cared about BTS? I didn’t wish for your favorite kpop idols to commit, I just didn’t list them. Do you actually want me to list every single kpop idols name, ever? It’s been a full year since I posted this. Calm. Down.
Can we plz not bring up god/allah to this subject, even religious ppl commit suïcide, dont be the ppl who thingk religion can cure and prevent everything”like depression”
I can understand they are trying to help, but it just does not have any real meaning, God should have prevented bad things to their followers. so it is just trivializing the issues here, I just feel sad
Child: *Mom, why do good people die first, than bad people?* Mom: *My child, if you were in the garden.* Mom: *Which flower will you pick. The beautiful one or the bad one?* Child: *The beautiful one!* Mom: *Do you get it now my child?* *Rest in Piece our Angels 😢*
S U N N Y P I N K S reality is sad, but still we’re not for sure. I hope everyone else is doing good, this stuff is tragic. Cyberbully is never a right thing.
It's not just about Kpop Idols, guys there are normal people like our siblings or classmates that suffer from depression and are thinking about killing themselves. It's not just celebreties. We are all infected and I hate media for always just coming up with that topic when someone who is famous commited suicide. Not only famous people are important but also you and me.
this makes me so sad. this makes me so sad. we’ve lost so many beautiful and handsome people. they had their whole life ahead of them. the internet is toxic
The amounts of suicides in Asia are absolutely ridiculous. It's not just the K-stars. Students, even random people online are taking their lives away. This is getting out of hand and it should not be joked about. No one ever learns ANYTHING. No matter who dies. We still continue to hate, discriminate, bully, etc. It needs to STOP. It starts with you, do something kind. Anything. Do something kind every day. You never know what someone was going through.
do you think it's korea a good country to build your future in? Because i need to continue my studies abroad and i don't know what to choose Germany or South Korea
Actually all entertainment industries and their artist suffer too. And it's not just the kpop industry treating it's artists like that. It's also the amount of haters they've got and also so many death threats for being too "feminine" or whatever reason tbh. In Asia especially, pple don't take depression or suicide issues seriously (coming from an Asian myself) Students esp commit suicide, it's not just the stars, amd it's a growing problem here. so yeah I hope pple take mental health seriously for this to improve.
That should've been the first thing in mind. And a lot of these companies treat their idols like trap and it makes you feel kinda bad for their rookies following after them. If they only knew how bad things went with their seniors, they'd probably have second thoughts on which company to join, or just don't become an idol for their own sakes
No One I don't think that's the main cause I see they still renew their contract after being in company in years. The main cause is the culture. They don't take serously about mental health, if you said having a problem with your physichological, people will look down on you.
Goo Hara got bullied by conservative men after her boyfriend leaked private information and after she tried to commit suicide earlier this year they made fun of it, Sulli and her were best friends and after sulli died from bullying from men as well she was seen showing unstable behaviour and it was showing before her suicide. Jonghyun suffered frkm depression and was close friends with sulli and after he died she was treated badly as well because I believe she didn't attend his funeral but the thing is sulli left their comoany before so MOST likely she didn't get an invite
yes, and people have finally started taking actions, in fact recently the most popular korean search engines have disabled all comments sections and all comments are going to be monitored and checked before they're published under the articles. Such as an easy solution that could've made their mental health a bit better, and yet it took this long to put it in action...
@@aninani8294 pretty sure they will have unbiased people monitoring the comments, or people who can objectively interpret things, without hindering any freedom of speech. In any case, even mere ''jokes'' can easily cross the line and become direct insults or harassment, and anyone with common sense can tell them apart from ''innocent jokes''. Remember we can never know what will emotionally hurt another person, or what others are insecure about in themselves, especially idols who can't express such things in public and always appear confident. So it's always better to keep unnecessary remarks to ourselves when it comes to someone's physical characteristics
Some people here are making comments on this sensitive issue ....preaching others "about turning to their lord or worshiping God"; surely, they might have positive intention. But it's time we stop being judgmental and break the stereotype that only people with weak faith or atheists get depression or any kind of mental illness because having depression is not a punishment from God and it has lots of other causes and contributing factors; and anyone could go through this phase in their lives.....regardless of their personal believes. And start treating mental health like any other physical problem that we face. Passing judgment about people with any kind of mental illness or depression is nothing more than just being ignorant and insensitive. I am also suffering from depression and really going through a tough phase of my life - I am also a believer and consider myself a religious person- and that doesn't mean that Ii have turned away from God or being punished! Love and prayers for all the people that are survivors like me🙏🙏🙏And please be sensitive towards problems like this and consider about what others might have gone through to reach at such phase of their lives !
Munazza don't believe these people their are of God even Jesus don't agree with religion but have personal relationship with him everything in life is hard even christians but true christian know God wont forsaken you or leave you and remember we also have an enemy in this world which is the devil and he is fallen ones real and he is to devour and kill trust me its not of God why you think people don't talk about the devil but only attack God this world is full of deception all i can say trust in God open up to him humble yourself to him even the devil too taking over music industry some of them who take music see the truth there is a battle going around not physical but spiritual take care God love you
@@brightstar9285 that was confusing and hard to read but I just wanted to say that the commenter is Muslim. She wears a hijab in her pfp. But yeah same message.
@S U R V I V O R end of the world we atheists will survive seriously dude you sound just like any other religious person who is trying to convert others into there religion
R.I.P. Cha Inha 3.12.19 R.I.P. Goo Hara 24. 11.19 R.I.P. Choi Jinri 14.10.19 We lost so many talented young people in the last two months, may they rest in peace. Lots of love to their families, friends and fans. You're missed ❤️
Why? theyre chasing a dream that isnt healthy for them physically or mentally considering the industry in their countries and how its run. You should pity them for being so short sighted and egotistical to believe that becoming a famous artist would make then happy. they asked for that life, they get everything including the stress that comes with it. No one has a gun to their head saying "you have to be a singer". It's unfortunate that these people have died but it's well known at this point that becoming a superstar is not good for your physical health or mental well-being as most of them die early or have it end up destroying their lives for one reason or another. I blame the modern culture in these Asian countries for putting so much pressure on the Youth of today if you told me right now that 95% of Asian school children have attempted suicide it would not surprise me at all the pressure they put on those kids is unbelievable no wonder most of them never seem to develop much of a social based personality or identity they never have the drive desire or option 2 while growing up So once they're in college it's not like they're going to start becoming a totally different unique person at that age its to late. Their parents brainwash them into perfect little doctors and scientists..not individuals, thats why us whites joke that they all look alike. Because theyre all raised identically and have no personality, its like their actual robots. Thats how they act and talk, theyre raised so afraid their going to upset their parents that it socially and emotionally inhibits them for the rest of their lives it seems.. thsyre more concerned with pleasing theyre dying 70-90 year old parents then they are with having their own life and human experience that doesnt involve playing piano and having a finacially stable life due to a job they were forced into training for due to guilt from theyre family. All cultures have their problems but with Asians their problems are very very obvious to everybody
@@napperforlife2020 I was thinking exactly the same. Taeyeon seems the most fragile, IU and Hechull seem stronger, they don't let thing get to them as easly
marishkaspirit I feel Like IU And Heechul are stronger mentally because heechul has always been a strong minded person but even the strongest personality’s are prone but also I feel like IU is stronger because she has already been through it and experienced the hate and bullying when she first started out and beat everything by proving everyone wrong and making herself successful, I just hope and pray I won’t ever wake up to one of them having taken their life’s ever.😔
@@bmona7550 True that. Most of his fans are pretty easy going and not as intense. It's probably since he's been around in the industry for over a decade and built a strong base. Not only that but he's a man. Say what you want but it's easier to be a male idol. Yes, they got it tough as hell too but they get away with a lot of stuff that a woman wouldn't. Like Korean fans nitpick Sulli and Taeyeons and Jennies every insignificant move. I have never seen a male idol that gets as much hate as females on the regular. It is what it is.
They expect them to be perfect instead of being real, pretending to be someone you're not can make u depressed, and the stress too. There's lot of stuff that break them down 😟 After all they're also humans, they have feelings too
Amusis Shut up? Shut up?! The comment was right. Keep it inside. Idols have to do deal with daily harassment and even death threats. I don’t know how you would feel if people kept bashing you for being yourself. My God.
I'd like to remind everyone to be respectful of those who have passed away and their families. I see a lot of ignorance and comments of unrelated topics in the comments. It doesn't matter what background, ethnicity, nationality or religion you have. If one is prone to mental illness, they'll get it. People who suffer from depression, anxiety and other related illnesses need a lot of time to rest, to just BE and do things which might help to get them back on track. They need SPECIAL and REAL help, from REAL specialists, who truly care for other people and want to help them. Unfortunately all around the world, in best case you get prescribed with pills. The stress and pressure these poor, sweet souls went through without time to heal is inhumane. On top of it, to live in such a judgemental society where one always has to be perfect to the eyes of others... So toxic! So please stop mentioning religions in here. If you truly are religious, you should know that we humans have no right to judge. Who are YOU to judge? That's right. Just another person walking this planet. Therefore your comments are irrelevant. I know people of various backgrounds and religions who suffer from mental illnesses. So keep that to yourselves. ~ For once again, rest in peace sweet souls and lots of light to your near ones. ~
Who DA freak judged them, since when lol They brought the verse in the Quran to proof that the Quran is not wrong and also for us to understand and learn not to commit the same mistake they made, what Quran mentioned happened physically towards them Do they remember the Almighty, No. Do they have the faith, No. Dats y their fate happened the way Quran had mentioned, open yours eyes and minds U know the way you responsed clearly approved of the statement of the beloved messenger peace be upon to him he said 1400 years ago, mehh it's not even a coincidental thing There a hadith for that 🙂🙂
Calling people you don't agree with "ignorant", "irrelevant", implying that they're judgemental......Oh, the hypocrisy. You're right, "Who are YOU to judge?" someone else's intent, are you psychic? People have opinions on things. You are entitled to yours as I am to mine.
I'm so sorry Hara, Sulli, and Jonghyun, as well as any and all others who we as a society have failed so dearly. Where ever you are now that you have passed on, I hope it is a better place for you and that things aren't so terrible there.
Thanks for this vid. Keep it up, to increase awareness about depression and suicide. It's really sad. One suffering from depression esp severe depression experiences little to no amount of happiness. The feeling of being down or gloomy worsens and darkens everyday until the things that used to cheer you up doesnt anymore. You dont feel anything anymore except emptiness, hopelessness, pain and gloom. Thats why if you dont go to the doctor to be treated, it will remain continuously until you reach your breaking point, where you cant take it anymore, you want to end this suffering, theres no more hope - thus, most turn to suicide 😔
depression and mental illness is serious matter which should take it seriously by family friends and dear ones..i know ive been diagnosed for how many years now i also lost my only brother because of this for some reason i still holding on.. im praying to see my dear ones who already in heaven soon by not commiting suicide its tough but im praying actually just right now im praying.. this is sad rip anyway.
Many peoples like Sony Billwilliams, Malcolm X,mike Tyson and many famous celebrities find the peace in Islam after their lifes has been ruined by status
@@hasenel3731 Mike Tyson found the wrong type of Islam, the Nation of Islam which is out of the fold of Sunni Islam. He did convert in prison but then left after his release and never went back to NOI
@Migfra Danmark ikr why is it called "idols" just making them seem like some kinda god we have to follow weird and then they work according to this label
Sirat al-Mustaqim I agree and it is not just in the Kpop industry, but I have seen it in the HK entertainment world too. There was this one Andy Lau fan who worshipped him to he point of craziness that her parents sold their house just to have money for her to attend his fan meeting/concert. They asked for Andy to meet with her privately but was refused so her dad committed suicide. How crazy is that??? People just have psychological problems that need to be dealt with.
The fact that this has been going on for years and the country has yet to do something about it. These agencies need to be held accountable no doubt about it. They’re are the main reason why the bullying and the pressure consumes their artists. They are human at the end of the day. Wake up South Korea! Do better and take care of your people!
Nah just hate idol worshipping. So mainstream industry is what I hate in general whether it be Kpop or Hellywood (yes, I did that on purpose) since such industries promote evil one way or another (materialism, selling their souls, sex sells, ect.)
Do you even know how hard Kpop idols need to work to get everything perfect? Depression is not a joke, I do have it myself so I excatly know that this is not a joke.2:00 No not all idols
No matter what’s going on in your life . Taking your life won’t solve anything . You just have to lay low and get help talk abt your feelings no matter how hard it is and things will get batter slowly. Silence will slowly eat you away shaidan is real get help please if your in this situation
No, false. Taking your own life can solve everything you're suffering from. It's the truth though it's sad. But the burden can fall on your parents or any loved ones, that might be a challenging thought.
Man, if this was the situation in India, then the people who were accused of putting the idols on the verge of suicide, would be suffering trials in court. Recently, a gem actor of India committed suicide and his fans have filed a case for him against the people who bullied and boycotted him
@@arnavkmr3895 everyone has woes... There are many who have woes, but don't have anyone to talk to and get them off their chest. But not everyone commits suicide. I was his fan too, and I am still his fan, but this was the most hurting thing that he left all of us suffering just like this.
*Sometimes the best thing you can do is not thinking, not wondering, not imagining, not obsessing and just breathing. Have faith that everything will work out for the best.*
it’s really sad to see such famous idols going down like this. like please, if you hate someone so much please *do not* send them death threats, or bully them into death. if you do do that, you’re not a nice person. what the actual hell did the idols do to you? just because you don’t like how they look or sing doesn’t give you the right to send them death threats or bully them into it
Some ‘fans’ even don’t want their idols to date or even interact with other idols from other groups its making me so worried how they want to control them like they’re some dolls you can play with!
THE MATURE STANS/FANS NEEDS TO GROW AND OUTWEIGH THE IMMATURE ONES!!IN THIS WAY WE CAN ENCOURAGE THE KPOP IDOLS TO BE MORE FREE-RER AS THE COMPANY WILL WORK ACCORDING TO THE FAN'S WISHES (so more immature ones more strict rules to fit into their fantasy or whatever 🙄 so if we get more mature audience then more change will be done according to us)
IU made a song dedicated to her 3 friends mentionned in this video : Jonghyun, Sulli, and Hara , the title of the song is "eight" . We should all remember that idols are humans after all ,so don't hate on them please . They already have enough pressure from the company they are working for .
Under 15 are commiting suicide in our country.😔😔😔yesterday in our state, a 12 year old commited suicide because she has no tv in her house to attend online classes. And today a mother killed her three sons and committed suicide because of debts. Asia is a victim of depression. 😥😖😖
وَمَنْ أَعْرَضَ عَنْ ذِكْرِي فَإِنَّ لَهُ مَعِيشَةً ضَنكاً وَنَحْشُرُهُ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ أَعْمَى (124) قَالَ رَبِّ لِمَ حَشَرْتَنِي أَعْمَى وَقَدْ كُنتُ بَصِيراً (125) قَالَ كَذَلِكَ أَتَتْكَ آيَاتُنَا فَنَسِيتَهَا وَكَذَلِكَ الْيَوْمَ تُنسَى 124: And whoever Turns away from my remembrance he will indeed have a depressed life and we will give him on the day of Resurrection blind . 125 he will say: my Lord why have you raised me blind while I was [once] seeing? [Allah] will say: thus did our sighs come to you and you forgot them : and thus you will this day be forgotten.
I'm depressed now and then, but i keep fighting, i just silent all the times grab my guitar and transfer my feelings on it, But inside im dying, no one would ever know what we are struggling of, because only we know ourselves. Respect one another no matter what they do, because we do not know what they are struggling of....
Someone bulling you online just leave social media . I'm 23 , I've been bullied in school , but social media never even affected me . Currently I'm not using anything other than what's app .. grow up guys and girls you almost reached your 30 .. why behaving like 12 years old.
Goo hara, sulli both are the K-pop idols basically stars, how can they get out of social media. Internet is their daily life. So it was almost impossible for them. Also bullying in School is different from bullying in social media. You can't believe how much extreme it can be in social media. I agree that it's better to leave the social media if it's being too toxic but I believe it's not the actual solution. Like the perpetrator needs to leave the media not the victim. Also what do u mean by being 12?I mean every age group has feelings,they have their own problems. So everyone has the right to get sad!!!
I have no Facebook Account ever... when people and friends heard this they are just shocked by my words... Some of them told me that it is good for me,🙏🙏🙏🙏....
This is real problem in Korea. Why can’t this world be a peaceful place? All I can say is please stop being hateful, please respect people even if you don’t like them. Respect can change the whole perspective positively. Spread Love.
Especially for a 2nd Gen Kpop King G-dragon, the harsh criticisms are high despite his immense contribution in the Kpop world. He is a living legend. We must protect their lives and personal space. And only enjoy what they offer publicly. Celebrities are human beings too.
@@bigboyrambo2009 just like k pop groups you see atheists enjoying money and having a good time but he/she is not happy and is depressed who will stand infront of you and tell you they're depressed? I dont know if you you've watched Dan bilzerian he is a poker player and a millionaire he just tours around the world and has 20 girls with him he has sex with everyone of them every dude will tell you I want that kind of life but when Dan was interviewed he clearly stated he was depressed and that this life was not what he wants,so you might see what they they show you but you're not inside their soul and wont understand what they go through.
You really should grow up sometime and stop attributing everything to nonsense. Science, medicine, mental health, are real. Next time you get sick please don't see a doctor...wait till your lord takes you. The species has no need for vacuity on this scale.
@@afzalhussain2411 your sentiment borders on childish nonsense. Care to prove other people enjoying their lives to actually be sadness? *PROVE IT!* All you come across as is salty and vile. You wish everything bad on those who don't buy into your worldview and expect people to like it? No wonder the world hates your religion...with ambassadors like you, no enemies are needed.
I feel really bad for them😔 some people are so stupid to even think about posting hate comments on someone 🤬 i'm always getting so angry when i see a hate comment!!!
Its easy people are insecure to the point that they don't realize that words do.matter they don't realize how much.power they have I mean they are willing to take responsibility for the deaths of people they don't know. Isn't that sad.
The risk our idols take for them to entertain us is just a VERY BIG job! And then there are these haters who ruin their job for them... I love all my idols! And rest in peace Sulli, Hara and anybody who died because of depression in South Korea... I can't imagine their courage...
Although that I wasn't a fan of their Bands, I was crying for them and the others. I keep thinking when Kpop idols commit suicide how hard it was for you to sink so deep. I wish with all my heart that not more Kpop idols have to die. Everyone who reads this should know that he is not alone, you do not have to hide. I and many other people are there for you to listen to what worries or thoughts are on your mind, so that you do not carry this heavy burden alone, we are there for you and support you so that you feel yourself better and you realize how bad it would be if you were no longer in the world. We all love you too when we don't always show it. Each and every one of you deserves to be in the world, so appreciate that too. Kiss😘😘❤️❤️🌞🍀 I love you🌻
It’s alright to have your opinion such as dislike a certain person, thing, etc. Yes you can like a group more than another but What is not ok is that you send that hate toward them. Just keep it yourself if you know it hurts keep it to yourself cuz I know the people who did this wouldn’t like if they were bullied. People who are like this(bully’s) are disgusting. RIP TO ALL TO Jonghyun, Sulli, Goo hara, and others as well 💜💜💜
im glad that companies are starting to pull out idols from schedules because of anxiety now. i doubt they wouoldve done this before but now soo many idols have been going on hiatus or not participating in schedules due to anxiety and im glad the company is letting them
Suicide stems from Identity issues. Kpop beats the identity out of its members and assigns them new names, faces, hair color, and personalities. The real Identity is suppressed by their projected image/persona and public expectations. When a person is un-centered, they are easily "tipped over" by accusations and criticism(real or imagined). The dangers of "being famous" is loosing yourself while trying to get there.
This is sad, it just shows that when we are under overwhelming stress n pressure to do or be our best, we can't see the people who would love us n will be there for us no matter what, we forget that our close family n friends do actually miss us feel pain if something happens to us
agreed..
I Agree I have been a fan of koop since 2009 but I realize over the years that unlike American artists who are always giving us their true personality. Idols are a lot different because of the korean society and their companies controlling their personality and body image. I even notice now that the international fans of today have even become very obsessively possessive like korean fans which doesn't help the situation.
Not to mention some of their korean fans are perfectionists and nit picky
Glad to see someone taking a more granular approach to understanding this instead of just blanket blaming companies, fans and bullying which just means nothing will change. This explanation also accounts for individual responsibility on idols parts too...without idols there's no kpop and fans fail to realise when they spend in support of a group or person they are endorsing the system like a friend who pays a drug dealer to keep pumping dangerous drugs into their other friend. Granted kpop wouldn't have the allure without the manufactured aspect but certainly idols don't seem to be aware of this phenomenon which is not much different to actors who have to get therapy after acting roles to stay sane.
What concerns me is that people have learnt *nothing* after all these deaths, they still hate on people, people much better than them, and they think that they won’t see those comments and be hurt.
Click clack Bada bing bada boom it’s the k netizens that are the problem most of the time........
Freedom of speech
The Fans who support this Slave industry are to blame.
@@hhhuthhhjj5599 Human Decency
mainly the k-netz
Society after someone suicides: NOOOOOO
Also Society before someone suicides: Get lost we dont need you!
they only care when its gone 😔
Luckily the word society does not mean everyone. :)
sparkyxsora Yes that’s true.
Someone: Depressed.
People: Omg, stop being such a crybaby. Like, grow up.. 🙄
Someone: Commits suicide.
People: nOoo!! I aM sO sOrRy!!! 😭😳😱 I rEaLLy miSs yOu!!! oMg!!
@@emilyvillamil sad
Society is evil
It's not suicide, it's actually murder.
What you said isnt wrong
True.
truth
Debts, debts, debts.
Not bullying, not men rights or women rights, not pressure, not bad comment. Sure they contribute to it but the main cause is their inability to pay back. One flop in their career and it is over. The interest just keep piling up.
All the fun in colored glittered clothing, classes and schooling, promotions, travelling and music videos. Now they have to pay back. Every time they put something in their mouth, every time they refused to laugh and take selfies with their creepy fans, every time the spend something they do not own. They have to pay back, every single one of them. Welcome to Korea.
Shivani Narendran, yes you are right
Celebrity life is not life it's a job to impressed others.
No
Yes , that’s why it’s called “entertainment” and those who do this job are called “entertainers”
That could screw my entire hopes of being an actress.
And to inspire
Totally agree they are meant to entertained public , If the public likes it then they are Stars 😑
In India this happens a lot , not with Idols but with normal people because of study, family pressure,etc,etc...I mean in aisa depression is no joke, well not only in Asia depression is not joke in any of the country over the world..
But not this much.its just 0.0001% we were taught to handle pressure,so we don't do suicide that easily.and our lives are not exploited by anyone.
Its because asias standards in studies, looks and every tiny thing is too high and when people wonder why many asians commit suicide they do not realise that we were moslt left to cope with things alone as a child
@Gauri Pawar Same with Bangladesh💔💔💔😭😭😭
@@jhansiy691 actually that's not true. India's population is 1.3 billion out of 6-7 billion world population so even if the percentage of people committing suicide is low the number of people is really high.
yet people in america think it's racist to speak up about it
I feel bad for k-pop stars, they aren't free. People are obsessed with them and think they are able to relate to them... but what lies on the inside is something you will never relate to.
Normal fans would support there idols no matter what but the reason the arnt free is because of the sasaeng fans that follow them everywhere and get jealous if they are in relationships
@@alexburden3035 literally!
Theyre just mentally weak, if you want to get famous you should know how to handle fame
This isn’t just in Asia either, it’s everywhere. Jessy from Little Mix was constantly harassed and abused online about “looking fat” after she went on X factor. She said she fell into a severe severe depression and even tried to take her own life because of this.
The internet’s just so toxic (some people are nice on there).
Even Normani had to go through hate from Camila fans
Well you can't please anyone when your a celebrity you need too have a thick skin and not let these horrible comments go into your mind
Hmmm sad
☝️
A great example right here
Trolls nothing to do with there miserable life
@fares ousama thats you not me 🤣 you cant what im feeling right now cuz u don't know me dumbass 😂
I am worried about Bae Suzy, she's one of the most bullied stars in korea.
if shes still here then hopefully she will hold on
Hopefully, same with IU losing all her closest friends
@@1mmy its not about holding on its about how people would reach to her.
Huh .. why is she the most bullied? I‘ve never heard about it 😱
Sulli is definitely the #1 kpop star that is abused online. (yup even after her death she still is harassed)
She is my favourite member of f(x) and one of my favourite people, I cried for months after her death and still continue to from time to time
It's an entire culture all together
E
You again
True tho
And why do I see you everywhere-
I didn't expect u to be here-
At this point, I'm just going to conclude that I will see you every week in TH-cam. 😂😂😂
Don’t bully Jennie , she deserves much more love
I don't like her but I don't hate I never hate someone it's just stupid to hate on someone to look cool
@@morklee1790 can i ask why u dont like her?
@@omaimabenmansour5442 i just don't like Blackpink
@@morklee1790 yeah and i asked u why? There has to be a reason lmao
@@omaimabenmansour5442 blackpink does not fit to everyone's taste you know :)
Their supposed to be ARTIST not SLAVES! 😭
do you think it's korea a good country to build your future in?
Because i need to continue my studies abroad and i don't know what to choose Germany or South Korea
@@armyrv2263 I think Germany is better I mean I really love Korea but I think that in Germany is easier than in Korea so if you can study hard Korea if you are lazy or you just can't than Germany
@@teodoraavramovic2527 yes i think That too...I'm a hardworking and i study very well but after my graduation 🎓 do you think that i will find a job in korea even if I'm foreign.. So many Koreans don't allow foreigners to work instead of Germany
@@armyrv2263 Hm... Well, I think Germany is better for you to live that just what I think. I wish you all the best in your future live!😊
Then it's no better than the Northern side of that country, eh?
A message for those who follow money 💰: *Money is not everything*
Same..
That's what my heart says!
People in greed of money are mentally, personally and socially constricted into a 'tumor'. Even if they gain money, the greed does not stop, Ultimately this 'tumor' overcomes them, and ruins their personality
Hassan Khan
oh yes it is everything
it is their wrong mentality that causes them to commit suicide
Send me yours please, i will pray for you.
Money may not be everything but power is
@@Gg-qx3vo money is power
It is always nasty bullies trolling everywhere, jealous of others. Shame on such people who push sensitive people to limits.
You don't have to be sensitive. Even strong people have limits.
“Sensitive”? NO. A person is not even a human without empathy. Do not use such a degrading term.
@@karinnamerino7232 sensitive isn't really a degrading term, but it is misleading because it has 2 meanings, it can mean one with lots of empathy or someone relatively easier to get their feelings hurt. But there's no universal threshold for when a person is considered sensitive.
@@karinnamerino7232 sensitive is a degrading word? People who are kind hearted are always vulnerable as well...it is a psychological state when feel hurt towards such harsh words used for them, be it whether these words are true or not, no one has the right to tell anyone if they have some flaws and make fun of it or anything. Artists are more sensitive than others.
Also some boys who bully girls they like, then the girl will get depression. A boy threw tomatoes at me. A week later he apologized and said it was to impress me. As if that will impress me... 😑
Edit: Of course not all boys are jerks, but those who are, learn to respect females.
TODAY WE LOST ANOTHER ONE . MOONBIN 😭😭😭 THE K-POP INDUSTRY IS THE MOST TOXIC OF ALL ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRIES.
Woah really?
I don’t even know most of these kpop stars but every time I hear “suicide” or someone talks about suicide...something in my heart pierces me and it’s just so heartbreaking, people taking their lives because of not being able to say how they feel or being able to live freely...it’s so scary and absolutely heartbreaking...NOBODY NOBODY DESERVES TO FEEL LIKE THAT whether it’s a celebrity or a common man
You know what's even more concerning? People believe you need to "earn" basic human decency
The main reason I'm not into KPop, the toxic behind it
That reason causes me to support the idols and feel sympathy for them, you know? I'm not an absolutely sick in the head saesang, I support them more like...idk...a distant...friend..
You know, most music industries are almost just as bad. Your don't have a higher moral ground for not liking K-pop. I don't like it too but it doesn't necessarily mean I'm a better person.
Geraldi Gosal kpop is music, if you feel uncomfortable with it it’s okay to not get involved with it, but I’m just trying to say like you don’t have to care about the toxicity just care about the idols whom you support
Yes K pop fan is very toxic.
You're so right, Geraldi Gosal 👏🏻
I feel like the more the big Kpop gets the more mental issues and pressure idols get.
yeah well that's how it works. the more idols, the more competition, the more stress, the more the company controls their every action, leading to the big s word. it breaks my heart how extreme it is.
Jonghyun was hopeless from a young age..nothing has changed and being an idol made it worse. He started questioning everything long before he commited suicide..he was isolated from a young age. His father was probably manipulative and strict.I fully understand how that feels and anove that they lived in poverty..
I think music eased the pain for him.yet constantly being in the spotlight is overwhelming and stressful.
I cannot blame him. I can only say that he did well and deserve the best.
He was a very strong person
He faught untill he couldnt anymore.
The days he spend awake.sleepless.hopeless. no signs of help even when he's screaming out just for a shoulder or a hand to guide him.
Lets not even talk about his therapist..
I whish he could just live a normal life or get the support he deserved..
I hope BTS doesn’t do this too
Edit: thx for the likes
Another edit: When did I ever say that I only cared about BTS? I didn’t wish for your favorite kpop idols to commit, I just didn’t list them. Do you actually want me to list every single kpop idols name, ever? It’s been a full year since I posted this. Calm. Down.
Not only BTS all the kpop idol😔
Why
So u only care for BTS?????:|
Stha Raunak no they are just my favorite
@@victoriapear647 BTS IS Ur favourite! !!
Nice to hear it but u also should think about other idols,shouldn't U??
This is awful. Something clearly needs to change in the industry. People also need to treat K-pop stars better.
Hell no.
Uhh no they need to grow thicker skin.
That's what they get for getting into a toxic industry.
@@amateruss, you are honestly disgusting for wishing death on people...
@@Hasansworstnightmare, sure jan, and I bet you know what it's like to be them huh?
Can we plz not bring up god/allah to this subject, even religious ppl commit suïcide, dont be the ppl who thingk religion can cure and prevent everything”like depression”
I can understand they are trying to help, but it just does not have any real meaning, God should have prevented bad things to their followers. so it is just trivializing the issues here, I just feel sad
The one who suicides is not religious.
@@RandomAccessMemory
So you mean Muslims don't commit suicide? Next joke
@pink girl please don't try to be condescending to people who don't share same religious beliefs.
@Sara Touzani What? Please get some help, this is not healthy!
Child: *Mom, why do good people die first, than bad people?*
Mom: *My child, if you were in the garden.*
Mom: *Which flower will you pick. The beautiful one or the bad one?*
Child: *The beautiful one!*
Mom: *Do you get it now my child?*
*Rest in Piece our Angels 😢*
@@hilo9308 jimin
@@hilo9308 r u jimin
@@baldheadedhos WTF??
So old, it should be life can do terrible thing
S U N N Y P I N K S reality is sad, but still we’re not for sure. I hope everyone else is doing good, this stuff is tragic. Cyberbully is never a right thing.
It's not just about Kpop Idols, guys there are normal people like our siblings or classmates that suffer from depression and are thinking about killing themselves. It's not just celebreties. We are all infected and I hate media for always just coming up with that topic when someone who is famous commited suicide. Not only famous people are important but also you and me.
Yes, I agree with you. I have depression and I'm tired of fighting myself. I don't want anything, just disappear...
@@Emilija297you are so worth it 👌 ❤it
This is why I live to spread positivity and love on kpop music videos. We need more positive vibes and more love in this world
Channy Whocares huh? I don’t understand
@Channy Whocares this is degrading and disrespectful
YASSSS POSITIVITY
Nah false fake forced positivism is worse
More Understanding .
Companies gives lots of pressure on k-pop idols which lead to depression, and that make's. me feel sad😭😭😭😢😢😢😞😞
Even tho Lisa manoban was receiving unnecessary hate one time.
That why Qur'an says: Never harm anyone with ur tongue or hands ♥️
Good quote
@@davidregi7571 yeah but it verse from Quran !
True ☹️💜
Yes
LOUDERRRRR
:( I want this to stop, the companies aren’t treating KPOP idols right ):
This is a serious issue that is never going away. South Korea, you need to act now because I don't want other K-Pop singers to suffer.
The only end of suffering is death if you dont wanna die go on living man and i dont wanna die either
this makes me so sad. this makes me so sad. we’ve lost so many beautiful and handsome people. they had their whole life ahead of them. the internet is toxic
If they are not beautyfull or handsome you dont fel sad for them ??
L
Maria by Hwasa and Gunshot by KARD shows how kpop artists had to go through so much hate and pressure.
Omg kard 🙈❤️
How?!
@@sunwoosjalebi878 read the lyrics translation
Hwasa was so strong!
The amounts of suicides in Asia are absolutely ridiculous. It's not just the K-stars. Students, even random people online are taking their lives away. This is getting out of hand and it should not be joked about. No one ever learns ANYTHING. No matter who dies. We still continue to hate, discriminate, bully, etc. It needs to STOP. It starts with you, do something kind. Anything. Do something kind every day. You never know what someone was going through.
I’m so sad that we are losing Kpop idols that we love and the Korean fans are just so toxic
do you think it's korea a good country to build your future in?
Because i need to continue my studies abroad and i don't know what to choose Germany or South Korea
@@armyrv2263 do your own research. Don't just randomly ask
@@armyrv2263 south korea really??? Is already overpopulated like india.. if you are to settle SK is not a good option
they want to "be famous"
but in depth they loose their own self.
kpop is always a big competetion between rival companies,groups etc.
Not rivals, fair competition -shownu from Montsa X
Note that : " If u cant say good about the person , kindly shut your mouth instead of bullying him\her"
But in my town we beat the crap out of him or her mostly i get beat but who cares hahahaha ha
@@rhoydplaz2853 snap at em because no one cares those people will go to hell :)
@@noyes_0 ok
How can anyone support the kpop industry when they treat people like this. It's absolutely sickening
Actually all entertainment industries and their artist suffer too. And it's not just the kpop industry treating it's artists like that. It's also the amount of haters they've got and also so many death threats for being too "feminine" or whatever reason tbh. In Asia especially, pple don't take depression or suicide issues seriously (coming from an Asian myself) Students esp commit suicide, it's not just the stars, amd it's a growing problem here. so yeah I hope pple take mental health seriously for this to improve.
Celebrity life is pressure especially when social media is around.
And now it's Moonbin
The system make them feel worthless and unlovable eventhough they are so precious. That painful feeling inside is unseen but severe. R.I.P
Just imagine there whole life.. infront of cameras..
They are all human robots
That happen when u try to stop after signed "slave contract"
That should've been the first thing in mind. And a lot of these companies treat their idols like trap and it makes you feel kinda bad for their rookies following after them. If they only knew how bad things went with their seniors, they'd probably have second thoughts on which company to join, or just don't become an idol for their own sakes
It won't. Sulli committed suicide because of the constant hate she was getting because of the fans, the immature and conservative fans.
No One I don't think that's the main cause I see they still renew their contract after being in company in years. The main cause is the culture. They don't take serously about mental health, if you said having a problem with your physichological, people will look down on you.
She changed her company before dying
Goo Hara got bullied by conservative men after her boyfriend leaked private information and after she tried to commit suicide earlier this year they made fun of it, Sulli and her were best friends and after sulli died from bullying from men as well she was seen showing unstable behaviour and it was showing before her suicide. Jonghyun suffered frkm depression and was close friends with sulli and after he died she was treated badly as well because I believe she didn't attend his funeral but the thing is sulli left their comoany before so MOST likely she didn't get an invite
Online bullying must be declared illegal with strict punishment.
yes, and people have finally started taking actions, in fact recently the most popular korean search engines have disabled all comments sections and all comments are going to be monitored and checked before they're published under the articles. Such as an easy solution that could've made their mental health a bit better, and yet it took this long to put it in action...
@@aninani8294 pretty sure they will have unbiased people monitoring the comments, or people who can objectively interpret things, without hindering any freedom of speech. In any case, even mere ''jokes'' can easily cross the line and become direct insults or harassment, and anyone with common sense can tell them apart from ''innocent jokes''. Remember we can never know what will emotionally hurt another person, or what others are insecure about in themselves, especially idols who can't express such things in public and always appear confident. So it's always better to keep unnecessary remarks to ourselves when it comes to someone's physical characteristics
Discipline. Good manners start from home.
if it stays on the net and doesnt leak to real life then its all fair games
What are you gonna do cry?
Its disgusting to see people still hate on and bully idols for no particular reasons
They are anything but human
I still miss you so much Jjong 😭😭😭 I hope you are at peace now. You did so well, sweet angel 😇
I cannot listen to Kpop anymore...it hurts too much 😔
Some people here are making comments on this sensitive issue ....preaching others "about turning to their lord or worshiping God"; surely, they might have positive intention. But it's time we stop being judgmental and break the stereotype that only people with weak faith or atheists get depression or any kind of mental illness because having depression is not a punishment from God and it has lots of other causes and contributing factors; and anyone could go through this phase in their lives.....regardless of their personal believes. And start treating mental health like any other physical problem that we face. Passing judgment about people with any kind of mental illness or depression is nothing more than just being ignorant and insensitive. I am also suffering from depression and really going through a tough phase of my life - I am also a believer and consider myself a religious person- and that doesn't mean that Ii have turned away from God or being punished! Love and prayers for all the people that are survivors like me🙏🙏🙏And please be sensitive towards problems like this and consider about what others might have gone through to reach at such phase of their lives !
Munazza don't believe these people their are of God even Jesus don't agree with religion but have personal relationship with him everything in life is hard even christians but true christian know God wont forsaken you or leave you and remember we also have an enemy in this world which is the devil and he is fallen ones real and he is to devour and kill trust me its not of God why you think people don't talk about the devil but only attack God this world is full of deception all i can say trust in God open up to him humble yourself to him even the devil too taking over music industry some of them who take music see the truth there is a battle going around not physical but spiritual take care God love you
munazza batool hope you will get better soon and find happiness
@@brightstar9285 that was confusing and hard to read but I just wanted to say that the commenter is Muslim. She wears a hijab in her pfp. But yeah same message.
@S U R V I V O R end of the world we atheists will survive seriously dude you sound just like any other religious person who is trying to convert others into there religion
R.I.P. Cha Inha 3.12.19
R.I.P. Goo Hara 24. 11.19
R.I.P. Choi Jinri 14.10.19
We lost so many talented young people in the last two months, may they rest in peace. Lots of love to their families, friends and fans.
You're missed ❤️
Three people is not many.
Koreans : judging others by appearance
Also koreans : love yourself (no one is born ugly we are just born in an judgemental society)
Me: 👁️👄👁️
But who say this two line was diffrent person 😂😂😂
Yes! It was said by namjoon
@@Criselle307 but namjoon is Korean !!!right?
Kokila Ravi ....👈but whatever he/she said is pretty correct ....
@@motivationalme1597 yes, namjoon is a korean
I’m so nervous for jungkook and jennie. They get so much hate, and my life wouldn’t be the same without them.
Not jungkook he is love by everyone
@@sukoonfatima2293 have you been loved by someone?
@@MrKhan-ku7fz what u mean
@@sukoonfatima2293 I mean, does he like you?
Jungkook is loved by everyone even my mum who don't know anything about kpop
I have an unlimited amounts of respect for kpop stars as an individuals, even tho I'm not a fan.
Why? theyre chasing a dream that isnt healthy for them physically or mentally considering the industry in their countries and how its run. You should pity them for being so short sighted and egotistical to believe that becoming a famous artist would make then happy. they asked for that life, they get everything including the stress that comes with it. No one has a gun to their head saying "you have to be a singer". It's unfortunate that these people have died but it's well known at this point that becoming a superstar is not good for your physical health or mental well-being as most of them die early or have it end up destroying their lives for one reason or another. I blame the modern culture in these Asian countries for putting so much pressure on the Youth of today if you told me right now that 95% of Asian school children have attempted suicide it would not surprise me at all the pressure they put on those kids is unbelievable no wonder most of them never seem to develop much of a social based personality or identity they never have the drive desire or option 2 while growing up So once they're in college it's not like they're going to start becoming a totally different unique person at that age its to late. Their parents brainwash them into perfect little doctors and scientists..not individuals, thats why us whites joke that they all look alike. Because theyre all raised identically and have no personality, its like their actual robots. Thats how they act and talk, theyre raised so afraid their going to upset their parents that it socially and emotionally inhibits them for the rest of their lives it seems.. thsyre more concerned with pleasing theyre dying 70-90 year old parents then they are with having their own life and human experience that doesnt involve playing piano and having a finacially stable life due to a job they were forced into training for due to guilt from theyre family. All cultures have their problems but with Asians their problems are very very obvious to everybody
Thank god there is someone who is not hating on them while not being a fan. I respect you
Really worried for taeyeon and iu and that heechul. I mean those three that dead is taeyeon bestfriend plus taeyeon even have deppresion.
Worried for Taeyeon bc she seems the most sensitive
@@napperforlife2020 I was thinking exactly the same. Taeyeon seems the most fragile, IU and Hechull seem stronger, they don't let thing get to them as easly
marishkaspirit I feel Like IU And Heechul are stronger mentally because heechul has always been a strong minded person but even the strongest personality’s are prone but also I feel like IU is stronger because she has already been through it and experienced the hate and bullying when she first started out and beat everything by proving everyone wrong and making herself successful, I just hope and pray I won’t ever wake up to one of them having taken their life’s ever.😔
@@marishkaspirit Heechul is strong because his fan base isn't as toxic
@@bmona7550 True that. Most of his fans are pretty easy going and not as intense. It's probably since he's been around in the industry for over a decade and built a strong base. Not only that but he's a man. Say what you want but it's easier to be a male idol. Yes, they got it tough as hell too but they get away with a lot of stuff that a woman wouldn't. Like Korean fans nitpick Sulli and Taeyeons and Jennies every insignificant move. I have never seen a male idol that gets as much hate as females on the regular. It is what it is.
They expect them to be perfect instead of being real, pretending to be someone you're not can make u depressed, and the stress too.
There's lot of stuff that break them down 😟
After all they're also humans, they have feelings too
To all the haters IF YOU DON'T LIKE A KPOP IDOL DON'T COMMENT JUST KEEP IT INSIDE
@Amusis you shut up 🙄
Amusis get out
That A Good Method .
If Somebody Is A Haters Just Leave . But Nope , The Haters , Sasaeng , And Immature Fans Is So Dumb To Understand The Advice .
Amusis Shut up? Shut up?! The comment was right. Keep it inside. Idols have to do deal with daily harassment and even death threats. I don’t know how you would feel if people kept bashing you for being yourself. My God.
satzu moments24.7 no you shut up. You have no idea what you could make someone do
I'd like to remind everyone to be respectful of those who have passed away and their families. I see a lot of ignorance and comments of unrelated topics in the comments. It doesn't matter what background, ethnicity, nationality or religion you have. If one is prone to mental illness, they'll get it. People who suffer from depression, anxiety and other related illnesses need a lot of time to rest, to just BE and do things which might help to get them back on track. They need SPECIAL and REAL help, from REAL specialists, who truly care for other people and want to help them. Unfortunately all around the world, in best case you get prescribed with pills. The stress and pressure these poor, sweet souls went through without time to heal is inhumane. On top of it, to live in such a judgemental society where one always has to be perfect to the eyes of others... So toxic! So please stop mentioning religions in here. If you truly are religious, you should know that we humans have no right to judge. Who are YOU to judge? That's right. Just another person walking this planet. Therefore your comments are irrelevant. I know people of various backgrounds and religions who suffer from mental illnesses. So keep that to yourselves. ~ For once again, rest in peace sweet souls and lots of light to your near ones. ~
Agreed.
Who DA freak judged them, since when lol
They brought the verse in the Quran to proof that the Quran is not wrong and also for us to understand and learn not to commit the same mistake they made, what
Quran mentioned happened physically towards them
Do they remember the Almighty, No. Do they have the faith, No. Dats y their fate happened the way Quran had mentioned, open yours eyes and minds
U know the way you responsed clearly approved of the statement of the beloved messenger peace be upon to him he said 1400 years ago, mehh it's not even a coincidental thing
There a hadith for that 🙂🙂
Calling people you don't agree with "ignorant", "irrelevant", implying that they're judgemental......Oh, the hypocrisy.
You're right, "Who are YOU to judge?" someone else's intent, are you psychic? People have opinions on things. You are entitled to yours as I am to mine.
@@user-mc4my8jf1q 👍👍
I'm so sorry Hara, Sulli, and Jonghyun, as well as any and all others who we as a society have failed so dearly. Where ever you are now that you have passed on, I hope it is a better place for you and that things aren't so terrible there.
Thanks for this vid. Keep it up, to increase awareness about depression and suicide.
It's really sad. One suffering from depression esp severe depression experiences little to no amount of happiness. The feeling of being down or gloomy worsens and darkens everyday until the things that used to cheer you up doesnt anymore. You dont feel anything anymore except emptiness, hopelessness, pain and gloom. Thats why if you dont go to the doctor to be treated, it will remain continuously until you reach your breaking point, where you cant take it anymore, you want to end this suffering, theres no more hope - thus, most turn to suicide 😔
depression and mental illness is serious matter which should take it seriously by family friends and dear ones..i know ive been diagnosed for how many years now i also lost my only brother because of this for some reason i still holding on.. im praying to see my dear ones who already in heaven soon by not commiting suicide its tough but im praying actually just right now im praying.. this is sad rip anyway.
Many peoples like Sony Billwilliams, Malcolm X,mike Tyson and many famous celebrities find the peace in Islam after their lifes has been ruined by status
Cat Steven/Yusuf Islam and Sinead O Connor also
Lol Mike Tyson isn't muslim
Islam does bring peace if you meet the right Muslims, some search for Islam and end up in terrorist chatrooms which then leads to them hating Islam
@@hasenel3731 Mike Tyson found the wrong type of Islam, the Nation of Islam which is out of the fold of Sunni Islam. He did convert in prison but then left after his release and never went back to NOI
How about Ice Cube?
Being a Idol is the hardest job ever
@Migfra Danmark ikr why is it called "idols" just making them seem like some kinda god we have to follow weird and then they work according to this label
Sirat al-Mustaqim I agree and it is not just in the Kpop industry, but I have seen it in the HK entertainment world too. There was this one Andy Lau fan who worshipped him to he point of craziness that her parents sold their house just to have money for her to attend his fan meeting/concert. They asked for Andy to meet with her privately but was refused so her dad committed suicide. How crazy is that??? People just have psychological problems that need to be dealt with.
Migfra Danmark kpop,jpop,cpop, etc singers are called idols, its not what you thought
@@marionicolasmartin not all jpop or cpop singers r idols... U need to correct ur info
I know the pain. I know it bro
The fact that this has been going on for years and the country has yet to do something about it. These agencies need to be held accountable no doubt about it. They’re are the main reason why the bullying and the pressure consumes their artists. They are human at the end of the day. Wake up South Korea! Do better and take care of your people!
Other people out there. You don’t see us hating on your fav artists, that doesn’t give you the right to hate on ours
Nah just hate idol worshipping. So mainstream industry is what I hate in general whether it be Kpop or Hellywood (yes, I did that on purpose) since such industries promote evil one way or another (materialism, selling their souls, sex sells, ect.)
@@bmona7550 did every group sell their soul? I think some did but I hope not.(Kpop groups)
As soon as you mentioned Jonghyun, I cried because I pretty much grew up with SHINee and he was my bias from the beginning..💔 RIP Jonghyun my baby ❤😭
Do you even know how hard Kpop idols need to work to get everything perfect? Depression is not a joke, I do have it myself so I excatly know that this is not a joke.2:00 No not all idols
Stop bullying plz!
We have once again lost a jewel 😭
RIP MOONBIN 🙏
I almost cried man I can’t believe that Goo Hara is actually gone still 😭😭❤️
same😭,since she was my queen,even now I still can't believe she was gone💔😭
Me too
No matter what’s going on in your life . Taking your life won’t solve anything . You just have to lay low and get help talk abt your feelings no matter how hard it is and things will get batter slowly. Silence will slowly eat you away shaidan is real get help please if your in this situation
Ok boomer
That’s what I think, no matter how bad I feel taking ur own life isn’t going to solve anything and always thing about the people around u
No, false. Taking your own life can solve everything you're suffering from. It's the truth though it's sad. But the burden can fall on your parents or any loved ones, that might be a challenging thought.
Man, if this was the situation in India, then the people who were accused of putting the idols on the verge of suicide, would be suffering trials in court.
Recently, a gem actor of India committed suicide and his fans have filed a case for him against the people who bullied and boycotted him
@@aayushihiray he turned out to be a loser.....
@@piyu2003 You're the one to talk. We don't have any idea what he went thru all that time
@@arnavkmr3895 everyone has woes... There are many who have woes, but don't have anyone to talk to and get them off their chest.
But not everyone commits suicide.
I was his fan too, and I am still his fan, but this was the most hurting thing that he left all of us suffering just like this.
@@piyu2003 you sure it was a suicide? I still emphasise on his murder by Rhea
*Sometimes the best thing you can do is not thinking, not wondering, not imagining, not obsessing and just breathing. Have faith that everything will work out for the best.*
i’m praying for jennie from blackpink to stay strong....
also rest in piece to everyone who died from society you deserved better :(
Hara, Sulli and jonghyun will be missed and they are in a better place Rip our precious Angels 😇😇😇😇 and now I am heartbroken 😔
it’s really sad to see such famous idols going down like this. like please, if you hate someone so much please *do not* send them death threats, or bully them into death. if you do do that, you’re not a nice person. what the actual hell did the idols do to you? just because you don’t like how they look or sing doesn’t give you the right to send them death threats or bully them into it
it's deeper than cyber bullying.
Ed Sheeran once said, "Key to failure is trying to please everyone".
The point is to be yourself. Don't change it, but embrace it.
Some ‘fans’ even don’t want their idols to date or even interact with other idols from other groups its making me so worried how they want to control them like they’re some dolls you can play with!
THE MATURE STANS/FANS NEEDS TO GROW AND OUTWEIGH THE IMMATURE ONES!!IN THIS WAY WE CAN ENCOURAGE THE KPOP IDOLS TO BE MORE FREE-RER AS THE COMPANY WILL WORK ACCORDING TO THE FAN'S WISHES (so more immature ones more strict rules to fit into their fantasy or whatever 🙄 so if we get more mature audience then more change will be done according to us)
cyber-bullying has GOT TO stop. do y’all see what it does to people, how it makes them feel?? stop thinking it’s a joke because this what happens.
I don't like how there is people on social media who doesn't care about Kpop stars and their depression,This needs to stop right now.
@Heartslove 3 sorry but no (:
IU made a song dedicated to her 3 friends mentionned in this video : Jonghyun, Sulli, and Hara , the title of the song is "eight" .
We should all remember that idols are humans after all ,so don't hate on them please .
They already have enough pressure from the company they are working for .
Online Bullying, trolling has become a major issue mainly by these I*d*an toxic trolls. They can go to any extent to troll and abuse someone
In india kpop is not famous..And those who know kpop they admire kpop music... specially beats nd choreography ...
That 's not a nice thing to say ...
You need Jesus in your life ! 😊😊😊😊😊
@@manishmanish-wn3rd yup.
Bollywood is more famous.
RIP to this idols
Under 15 are commiting suicide in our country.😔😔😔yesterday in our state, a 12 year old commited suicide because she has no tv in her house to attend online classes. And today a mother killed her three sons and committed suicide because of debts. Asia is a victim of depression. 😥😖😖
"Indeed in the rememberance of Allah do hearts find rest"(Noble Quran chapter:13 verse:28)
وَمَنْ أَعْرَضَ عَنْ ذِكْرِي فَإِنَّ لَهُ مَعِيشَةً ضَنكاً وَنَحْشُرُهُ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ أَعْمَى (124) قَالَ رَبِّ لِمَ حَشَرْتَنِي أَعْمَى وَقَدْ كُنتُ بَصِيراً (125) قَالَ كَذَلِكَ أَتَتْكَ آيَاتُنَا فَنَسِيتَهَا وَكَذَلِكَ الْيَوْمَ تُنسَى
124: And whoever Turns away from my remembrance he will indeed have a depressed life and we will give him on the day of Resurrection blind .
125 he will say: my Lord why have you raised me blind while I was [once] seeing?
[Allah] will say: thus did our sighs come to you and you forgot them : and thus you will this day be forgotten.
@@manishmanish-wn3rd Please read it with an open-mind.May Allah shower his blessings upon you and guide you.
Very true...that's what I was thinking. May Allah guide us All.
@@manishmanish-wn3rd Filthy Jesus, A Jewish man from A Pagan Religion name *Christianity*
@Rico And yours too, Just like Hinduism.
Turn off the comments to this video please.❌
people keep talking about the toxic and bad comments but i dont see them lol
I'm depressed now and then, but i keep fighting, i just silent all the times grab my guitar and transfer my feelings on it, But inside im dying, no one would ever know what we are struggling of, because only we know ourselves.
Respect one another no matter what they do, because we do not know what they are struggling of....
Keep fighting! Never give up! Don't kill yourself. Be strong.❤️
Someone bulling you online just leave social media . I'm 23 , I've been bullied in school , but social media never even affected me . Currently I'm not using anything other than what's app .. grow up guys and girls you almost reached your 30 .. why behaving like 12 years old.
Goo hara, sulli both are the K-pop idols basically stars, how can they get out of social media. Internet is their daily life. So it was almost impossible for them.
Also bullying in School is different from bullying in social media. You can't believe how much extreme it can be in social media. I agree that it's better to leave the social media if it's being too toxic but I believe it's not the actual solution. Like the perpetrator needs to leave the media not the victim. Also what do u mean by being 12?I mean every age group has feelings,they have their own problems. So everyone has the right to get sad!!!
God wrap your arms around the kpop industry ♥️
I have no Facebook Account ever... when people and friends heard this they are just shocked by my words...
Some of them told me that it is good for me,🙏🙏🙏🙏....
I don't have Facebook account too nor IG nor Twitter....just living a normal life. .....
This is real problem in Korea. Why can’t this world be a peaceful place? All I can say is please stop being hateful, please respect people even if you don’t like them. Respect can change the whole perspective positively. Spread Love.
May their souls rest in peace... They were beautiful ppl 🙏
Especially for a 2nd Gen Kpop King G-dragon, the harsh criticisms are high despite his immense contribution in the Kpop world. He is a living legend. We must protect their lives and personal space. And only enjoy what they offer publicly. Celebrities are human beings too.
And those who don't remember their lord will live a life of depression and anxiety
@@bigboyrambo2009 just like k pop groups you see atheists enjoying money and having a good time but he/she is not happy and is depressed who will stand infront of you and tell you they're depressed? I dont know if you you've watched Dan bilzerian he is a poker player and a millionaire he just tours around the world and has 20 girls with him he has sex with everyone of them every dude will tell you I want that kind of life but when Dan was interviewed he clearly stated he was depressed and that this life was not what he wants,so you might see what they they show you but you're not inside their soul and wont understand what they go through.
@@bigboyrambo2009 lol. Yeah like these k pop guys. Just because they show you happiness doesn't mean they are not depressed.
Bigboy Ramboy no they have empty lives.mountains look magnificent from afar but as you get close all all you see are rocks
You really should grow up sometime and stop attributing everything to nonsense. Science, medicine, mental health, are real. Next time you get sick please don't see a doctor...wait till your lord takes you. The species has no need for vacuity on this scale.
@@afzalhussain2411 your sentiment borders on childish nonsense. Care to prove other people enjoying their lives to actually be sadness? *PROVE IT!* All you come across as is salty and vile. You wish everything bad on those who don't buy into your worldview and expect people to like it? No wonder the world hates your religion...with ambassadors like you, no enemies are needed.
Idk where does this strong hatred comes from ? How much can u hate ?
I feel really bad for them😔 some people are so stupid to even think about posting hate comments on someone 🤬 i'm always getting so angry when i see a hate comment!!!
Its easy people are insecure to the point that they don't realize that words do.matter they don't realize how much.power they have I mean they are willing to take responsibility for the deaths of people they don't know. Isn't that sad.
The risk our idols take for them to entertain us is just a VERY BIG job!
And then there are these haters who ruin their job for them...
I love all my idols!
And rest in peace Sulli, Hara and anybody who died because of depression in South Korea...
I can't imagine their courage...
Although that I wasn't a fan of their Bands, I was crying for them and the others.
I keep thinking when Kpop idols commit suicide how hard it was for you to sink so deep. I wish with all my heart that not more Kpop idols have to die.
Everyone who reads this should know that he is not alone, you do not have to hide. I and many other people are there for you to listen to what worries or thoughts are on your mind, so that you do not carry this heavy burden alone, we are there for you and support you so that you feel yourself better and you realize how bad it would be if you were no longer in the world.
We all love you too when we don't always show it.
Each and every one of you deserves to be in the world, so appreciate that too. Kiss😘😘❤️❤️🌞🍀
I love you🌻
Reason #1 out of infinity why cyber bullying NEEDS TO STOP
I miss Jonghyun so muchhh😭😭😭
I hope that the entertainment agencies in korea will treat their artists well.
It’s alright to have your opinion such as dislike a certain person, thing, etc. Yes you can like a group more than another but What is not ok is that you send that hate toward them. Just keep it yourself if you know it hurts keep it to yourself cuz I know the people who did this wouldn’t like if they were bullied. People who are like this(bully’s) are disgusting. RIP TO ALL TO Jonghyun, Sulli, Goo hara, and others as well 💜💜💜
im glad that companies are starting to pull out idols from schedules because of anxiety now. i doubt they wouoldve done this before but now soo many idols have been going on hiatus or not participating in schedules due to anxiety and im glad the company is letting them