There are many advantages to being small especially when you are aging----you won't need a breast lift, your clothes fir better and you look more youthful.
I am large chested but petite. My large chest makes working out difficult. I have to wear 2-3 super tight bras to contain them. Clothing is always a struggle. It fits my shoulder but is too tight in the front. Sweaters make my busy look giant. Low cut tops make me look slutty. 😔
TubnQT Same problem here! I can’t do a lot of things I did when I was younger (pre-puberty) like gymnastics, running fast, looking normal lol. I’ve considered a reduction because of constant issues with my shoulder and back pain. 😕 I also can’t wear too deep of a v neck or whoops! I’m showing off the girls too much again and I just de-elevated my look from classy to trashy! So annoying! I have to buy tops a full size or two larger than jeans because I need room to breathe lol. * Sigh* When I run I have to buy expensive sports bras to keep things in place and if they’re cheaper sports bras I’ll wear 2 at a time. 😏 I have smaller shoulders but you wouldn’t know because I have to wear huge baggy tops to fit my chest. Grrrr. Don’t get me started on button up shirts. I can’t even deal with the gaps.😡 It’s a struggle between being decent and classy but still having a fit shape. I end up a shapeless blob in a sweatshirt or baby doll top. Any style tips for us larger ladies up top would be soooooo appreciated! It’s such a struggle! Daily!
I’ve been ashamed all my life for only having comfortable size A boobs. I felt like a fraud as a woman and felt I was jipping my husband of something, even though he’s NEVER made a negative comment about my body or made me feel less than. It’s all the magazines and ideas pushed on society from tv/insta/porn/etc. and it was all in my head. I finally realized its MY job to be happy, and it’s MY job to protect myself from all those negative ideals that are not me. I quit the magazines, stopped comparing, and realized my husband loves me just as I am and I should too.
What a blessing to have a God given blessing to have ahusband like that! In my cultural background if you have smaller boobs like you and me, than our men suggest we get implants, fantasize about other women or just boob-watch when they are with us. It is so frustrating and your feelings and thoughts are so real. I can relate. Thanks for sharing and being honest!
It took me a long time to not care any more about my smaller chest. I really like it now. I can wear anything. Media and society try to make us feel not good enough to keep us down. It’s all BS. You are beautiful. There are many advantages to having a smaller chest. For one thing, clothes tend to fit us smaller chested gals better. If you are under the age of 35 and want to get breast implants. Please wait until you are older. I am so incredibly grateful that I never altered my body to fit a fad or what others think looks better. Ladies, if you have a smaller chest, you are lucky. Check out others saggy breasts and hear their stories of woe. If you want guys to notice you and you think they won’t because of your breast size, those are the guys we should avoid anyways. No man has ever complained about my small chest, they just compliment me on it. You are so much more than some extra fat tissue on your chest. 💕
I did get Breast implants when young! I had them removed 3 weeks ago with a 4 hour surgery to remove capsules and implants Enbloc! They were so painful inside of me!! I’m so glad you never got them! The great surgeons like mine that only take them out are trying to get them banned! The silicone starts leaking into the body as soon as they’re put in but the manufacturers and the surgeons don’t tell you that!
The beauty of this video is, if you have the reverse “issue”, just flip the advice: DON’T wear scarves or extra material on your tops or bras, wear jewelry that draws the eye UP (shorter chains, earrings), wear dark colors on top, don’t wear plunging necklines. One additional thought: large chests tend to look bigger in boatneck/crew neck/turtleneck tops, so those might enhance smaller chests? (Bigger chests look best in a modest vneck or scoop.). And horizontal stripes/color blocking should help smaller chests, while the opposite is true for larger chests. Keep those videos coming Shea!
Thank you! *Large chested lady here* lol. No wonder I’m not drawn to scarves and busier tops😂 I’ve read that large prints should be avoided as well as it draws the eye to that area. Oh and I have been picked on for wearing lots of dark colors but hey, it helps me not feel so conspicuous honestly! Plus it goes better with my skin tone so I’m told...🤔
I threw away the padded bras bc I found myself feeling bad when taking them off, I’ve accepted the bralettes and the pretty options they come in. However, I do wear a pendant kinda lower like you suggested and I feel it gives the chest a nice look. 🥰
Ive had very small breasts. I felt bad about it when i was around 12 and all my clasmmates were "growing". Not that i am way older , my body looks young because of its boyish figure. Clothes look great on me. And now my clasmates envy my body.
@•NerdyShortie _Playz!• i know how that feels. I wore my first bra in College already. I envy the other girls who were growing hips and breasts . I was thin and rectangular. They went to parties . I went into sports. Did very well and met more boys in the world of sports. What im saying is , do things to improve your skills, personality, etc. Remember , models are flat too.
I also have small breasts and I am 13.Before this comment I was so insecure...my classmates are growing and I am not..but now I came to know what will actually happen..Thank You😊
Getting my implants removed and will be small, and this video made me so happy and excited! Going to share it in the Breast implant illness group. Thanks Shea!
Isn't that just infuriating? I have a cousin with an extremely large chest and the amount of vulgar attention she gets is just unbearable. She feels like an object all the time and I'm always just so frustrated for her and how she is looked at and treated
I used to feel inadequate in my 20s (the mean, nasty comments from idiotic men i dated and dumped for bringing me down just based on not being tall enough or well endowed enough certainly didn't help with my self esteem!). But I've grown to accept and love not just my breasts but also that i have very thin hair so I'm forced to keep it short, petite and short frame (just 5'1") and curls. I love my body and now work with it, instead of against what is naturally given to me. Never been happier. :-) I get compliments now on my skin and hair and even my body because i chose to dress for my frame and do all the good stuff like eat well and exercise and just indulge in my hobbies. I find your happy and positive nature really inspiring. Subscribing!
Been there too. In my teen/twenties I hated my small breasts and being very tall and skinny. Gosh, I don't even think I cared that much myself, but those mean comments I got from the age of 11 actually ruined my self image for years and years. Thankfully, being in my 30s now I came to my senses and started to love my body. I know how to dress myself to show what I want and I am not afraid to play with sexy/pretty underwear just because I'm on the smaller side. Used to think that the sexy underwear was just for the ladies who have a lot to put in it 😅 but it's just a matter of finding the right pieces that fit.
Guys in their 20s and 30s even are such sh1tty people, honestly. I've been through the same. Not with guys I've dated but with random guys in the street or at work who tell me what I should look like.
@@BiTe-Me you're so right! More power to all the women. We must stop listening to anyone who tries to bring us down and just focus on our own inner light. I, too, indulge in sexy innerwear just to feel good. I don't listen to others regarding my clothes either. If I pay for what I wear, I'll only listen to constructive opinions. Not those designed to make me feel lesser than others
I'm flat chested and very, very thin. Instead of trying to make my chest look bigger, I've realized that the best thing I can do is to wear clothes that emphasize my slimness and my small waist. In part, that might be because personally, I prefer the small waist kinda curvy instead of the big bust kinda curvy.
for example, instead of wearing scarves or frilly tops, I'd wear wide necked blouses that show off my collarbones and tuck them into wide legged trousers.
This made me feel so much better about myself so THANK YOU! I've been struggling with the idea of implants even though I hate it just because I can't stand how my (tiny) breasts look. It's a daily struggle and I find it hard to ever feel sexy (or even look my age).
If I may say Nellie, I'd hate to see you get breast implants. I think the natural look is 100% sexy and I'd find you attractive no matter what size your breasts are. In fact, I prefer them on the small side. I understand being self-conscious because breasts are obviously front and center for everyone to see. But you will be very surprised at how many men are turned on by small breasts! A real man will be attracted to you for what you ARE, not just your body type. Try for it not to affect your self-esteem. Confidence in a woman is the most attractive quality!
I think the best part of having a smaller chest is not sagging at all as you get older. I used to envy my friends with bigger chests when I was younger but now when I see what happens I'm more appreciative of my smaller chest. I don't wear regular bras anymore, just sports bras and they are super comfy. And I tell you, I can only imagine the pain of the larger chested ladies at my gym when we do high impact moves. Thanks for this vid Shea!
@@BB-co7kp I must be lucky because I'm 60 and mine don't. Actually, I look young for my age. People think I'm in my 30's. So, yes I guess I'm lucky! LOL!!!💚
I loved this!! You are fantastic! This was posted on a group page I’m a part of for woman that are removing breast implants that are killing them!! I Explanted 3 weeks ago and now have my littles back and am loving them!! So much healing still left but thank you so much for loving your body and helping many women to do the same!!!
When I was waaaaay younger, I was jealous of my more voluptuous friends, but now that I’m older, I’ve learned to appreciate my small breasts for ALL the reasons you stated!
Yes!!! Thank you for thinking about small chests! It is so hard to get dressed and shop when many brands make dresses and tops tailored to women with big chests.
I loved this, Shea. I was teeny Weeny until I was 30. I had an augmentation. Hated them. I gained weight, and ended up with BII, and they’re coming out soon, hopefully. I think you look WONderful! Small is better for all the reasons you listed. Yayyyy!
Lauren Michero iam a man n I do like women with bigger chest but to me truthfully I really dont mind if a girl has a smaller chest because my ex-girlfriend had a small chest n not once did I ever say anything negative about her small chest to me the most important thing is haveing feelings , love her n care about the woman iam with as my partner GOD made everyone one of us the way he wanted n we should love yourself no matter what other people think n say about our body
I’ve been thin and wore a 32-A, and used to say, 32 negative A. Seriously. Then, my health changed, at the same time I hit menopause and I gained weight and had cleavage. I wore a 38B. I hated it. So many times I said, “ I would rather be flat and thin, than be fat and have breasts.” Thankfully, I’ve lost down to within a few pounds of my older normal self. The size I was age 23-50. I’m so grateful to be flat again.😊Love your channel and sense of humor.
One year I dressed up as a Hooters girl as a joke for Halloween (I am completely flat-chested). I got a huge bra, stuffed it, put on the Hooters uniform and went out to a party. Oh. My. God. Never in my life had I experienced the problem of men talking to my chest and not my face! It was fascinating and turned out to be quite the enlightening experience. Definitely recommend you do a video experimenting with this idea.
I love this video! Share more tips on embracing the small chest and how to work with it please!! After nursing 3 kids followed by weight loss... just a little empty skin is all I’m working with here 😁😝
LOVE this video!!! You made this kind of awkward topic really funny and entertaining but also full of great tips that I need! I am very small up top and need all the help I can get! ❤️
I cannot jog or run due to my large chest. Most of the women in my family have had reduction surgery due to discomfort. I am really jealous of my flat friends. 👯
Thank you for helping all of us look our best Shea! I would love to see a video on how you cook for your family... Or maybe household tips? I always love your content though!
Shea how are you confident with your body when you're intimate with your husband? I am flat chested, your tips crack me up because they're so real! I can feel confident in clothing, but when I'm in the nude, especially laying down, I hate my chest 😱 TMI lol
To be honest I TRULY don't even think about it!!! My husband has always said a huge chest would look odd on me! I'm thankful I'm with someone that makes me feel great how I am!
@@SheaWhitney that's great, I hope to be there. My husband is the same way, but it's hard for me to accept myself. I'll ge there! When I see women like you who are so beautiful and rock a small chest, I forget that my husband can see me that way too! Thanks for the video💜
Please remember that having small breasts does not make you less of a woman. Real men will appreciate your natural beauty and will be very happy having a woman in their life that's confident and secure in their body. Woman state that they like their man to be confident - well, the same goes for guys too. If you're happy with yourself you will find a guy that appreciates how wonderful you really are!
I remember having a small bust when I was young and I would trade in a hot second as I hate having a bigger bust! You are so right to be grateful for a small bust!
You are clearly one of the most absolute perfectly beautiful ultimate cover girl model of a young lady in every way possible. Never change because you where born to be perfect
Love love love! Thank you for making this video. Most videos are about how to dress to look slimmer, but these are not the only style tips we need to know. Some of us do not need to look slimmer, but our concern is our small chest. Thank you for all the tips. Thank you for being so transparent as well.
I’m glad you aren’t too worried about it, I’m very small and there are people who actually think I care 🤣🤣🤣 I wear a little bit of padding but not overly much. The most fun ever is my yearly mammogram!!!
I love my small chest too!! I love to sleep on my tummy and working out is a breeze and I don’t have to wear a bra and wear any top!! And we do do save money on bras because we don’t have to buy super expensive ones!! Love yourself girl there’s pros and cons to everything! I used to be self conscious when I was younger now in my mid 30s with 2 kids I have learn to accept myself be 😃
Your spot on with the pro’s!! I can never wear backless! I was a bridesmaid to my sisters wedding & she chose a backless strapless dress & man it was absolutely painful to find something with support! Since having kids & breastfeeding I couldn’t even wear those stick on cups!! Ooh the horrible memories & stress of the day!!! 😩
I appreciate that you understand being larger has it’s downfalls! Being well endowed myself (like reallllllly well endowed) it can get a little frustrating hearing flatter chested girls say how lucky I am. Back pain, that’s a real thing and sports? Ya, not so fun. As always thanks for the awesome content! ❤️
😁👍🏻 great video and tips, Whitney! At the end of the day it’s all about your confidence! It doesn’t matter how small or big you’re in some areas of your body. 💜💜💜
@@britnisonsky2717 not really, I always had hips even when I was very thin. But no butt or boobs. Well luckily I grew up in a time frame where big boobs and no butt were necessary! That was in the 60s and 70s.😀😔😞
Great tips, Shea! It would definitely be interesting to try the big busted versus small busted people treatment experiment. I am finishing up treatment for breast cancer and my hair is just now growing back in. (I had very long hair, my stylist said it will take me 2 years to grow back ) It looks very manly at this point. I noticed that men are definitely treating me differently. They look at me and are disgusted. They will start to hold the door, look back, have a face of disgust when they see me, and let the door go. I asked some other people in treatment if they had similar experiences and they said yes. I started wearing a headband to try and look more feminine. It was very upsetting, especially after being disfigured as well. 👎👎
Love your videos Shea! I think the phrase “Itty Bitty Titty Committee” is from the movie, 13 Going on 30, right? Lol At 25 yrs old, I’ve embraced being flat chested, my husband doesn’t mind, so neither do I😊 I’m so glad I ditched the tortuous underwire bras and now wear bralettes. I felt so fake
Totally agree with the bennies of having IBT, which got worse when I lost about 15 lbs . I quit wearing underwire bras, which suck, and love that I can wear seamless bralettes (mostly to cover up the nips and prevent visible bounce in public ;). I bought some silicone inserts to balance out my tops and those do improve how I look in fitted knit tops/sweaters.
I came here hoping I could find stylish ways to dress that will flatter my body shape and all I got was a reminder why I have always felt ashamed of my body the way it is. I dont need to look bigger or wear padding, I need to love the body I have. I liked the last reccomendation for the open blouse and necklace.
Used all that tricks in my life. As for Black it looks amazing if it’s a tight top with a high neck. Really makes that area look bigger and more defined. Also high waste line in your dresses
Hi Shea! I love your tips for smaller chested women. Unfortunately, I am not so fortunate as to be one of you. That being the case, I thought I’d share a couple of the disadvantages I thought of right away to having a larger chest. 😁 First, you generally don’t encounter problems with “gapping” in button-down shirts. I love a good button-down! They look so effortlessly classy, but it’s not as easy to make them work for you (without having to sew in snaps) when you have 38DDD’s!!! 😅 Secondly, men love talking to boobs. I suppose I’m as used to it as I’m going to get at 40, but I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve been mid-conversation with a guy (professionally or otherwise) and caught him speaking to them instead of looking me in the eyes. 🙄 I get that they’re kind of hard to miss, but come on, you know?! That leads to the last disadvantage. Larger chested women generally aren’t taken as seriously as smaller chested women, in my observation (and personal experience). Anyway, that’s just my take on the subject at hand. 🤷♀️ Thanks for the entertaining video! 💗
Yes, we are treated differently. I been breasted all the time. Hello my face is up here. I am a double D since sixth grade, now age 58. And the negative comments gets worse but I try to only see the positive. Consider yourself HIGHLY favored and blessed because there are lots of health issues with big bust.
This was the first actual helpful video I’ve found on TH-cam. All the other videos are like “embrace your small chest” like thanks, that doesn’t help. Lol. The pasties you recommended that have lift, do they actually provide some volume? I normally stick to bras with 3 inches of padding and I’d like something similar in the form of a pasty/stick on bra so I can wear backless stuff and still have volume in front.
Oh my goodness, I've found my daughter in grown up form. I'm saving this to see if I'm right, you guys talk exactly the same! hahha Also, good tips, love it.
There are a lot of pros to being smaller chested! You have such a benefit of wearing the adorable backless shirt, backless dress and so much more! I personally am on the opposite end of the spectrum and man I wish I had a smaller top area No back pain! I wish! Totally good points!
A thing I have noticed as I've gotten older. No chest wrinkles! I notice alot of older, bigger boobed women get wrinkly in the decolletage area due to the extra skin. My skin still looks very youthful in that area.
I'm the exact opposite of Shea: I'm short, overweight, I have short hair, and a very large chest but this video is from Shea so of course I'll watch it anyway! Content doesn't even matter lol as long as it's from Shea!
All great tips! I love having smaller boobs ❤️ the biggest thing for me is to look more hourglass shaped as I'm pear shaped and want to balance out the booty 😀
Trust me, I know you don't. Everyone on my mother's side of the family had double d's, so I assumed since my mother was large-chested I would develop into the same. Boy was I in for a rude awakening my first bra was 32 AAA. Never made it to a b cup till I was 25 years old. I gained a lot of weight since then but my boobs never did catch up. Was always sorely disappointed in this area!!!
I watched this video to make sure I don't make mine look bigger...lol. Mine are ridiculous and I am constamtly trying to look smaller. Good tips. You go girl!
LOL oh Shea, you just crack me up! Even though I am definitely NOT on the small side, this was a great video. I actually wish you could do one for women with larger chests, to show tips and tricks how to carry/style them better. ...but ya... I also see an itty bitty obstacle there :) :) :)
I really love your videos, you are so funny, always brightens my days giving me very useful ideas and inspiration. Yes please do some videos about chosing the correct bras or which brands are you. Thank you!
Small chest gang where u at? 🤔😅
Agata Popo 🙋♀️
Right here at 60💃
B cup
I step above being flat chested
Present!⭐
There are many advantages to being small especially when you are aging----you won't need a breast lift, your clothes fir better and you look more youthful.
I am large chested but petite. My large chest makes working out difficult. I have to wear 2-3 super tight bras to contain them. Clothing is always a struggle. It fits my shoulder but is too tight in the front. Sweaters make my busy look giant. Low cut tops make me look slutty. 😔
TubnQT Same problem here! I can’t do a lot of things I did when I was younger (pre-puberty) like gymnastics, running fast, looking normal lol. I’ve considered a reduction because of constant issues with my shoulder and back pain. 😕 I also can’t wear too deep of a v neck or whoops! I’m showing off the girls too much again and I just de-elevated my look from classy to trashy! So annoying! I have to buy tops a full size or two larger than jeans because I need room to breathe lol. * Sigh* When I run I have to buy expensive sports bras to keep things in place and if they’re cheaper sports bras I’ll wear 2 at a time. 😏 I have smaller shoulders but you wouldn’t know because I have to wear huge baggy tops to fit my chest. Grrrr. Don’t get me started on button up shirts. I can’t even deal with the gaps.😡 It’s a struggle between being decent and classy but still having a fit shape. I end up a shapeless blob in a sweatshirt or baby doll top. Any style tips for us larger ladies up top would be soooooo appreciated! It’s such a struggle! Daily!
TubnQT I am not petite but I just wanted to mention I have issues with a large chest at my height too.😂
Sharon Woryn agreed
Sharon Woryn absolutely!!
I’ve been ashamed all my life for only having comfortable size A boobs. I felt like a fraud as a woman and felt I was jipping my husband of something, even though he’s NEVER made a negative comment about my body or made me feel less than. It’s all the magazines and ideas pushed on society from tv/insta/porn/etc. and it was all in my head. I finally realized its MY job to be happy, and it’s MY job to protect myself from all those negative ideals that are not me. I quit the magazines, stopped comparing, and realized my husband loves me just as I am and I should too.
Amen sista, preach it lol
Ohhh!!! It's one of the most beautiful and powerful and pure comments I've ever read. Thank you and thank you.
Soo nice...
What a blessing to have a God given blessing to have ahusband like that! In my cultural background if you have smaller boobs like you and me, than our men suggest we get implants, fantasize about other women or just boob-watch when they are with us. It is so frustrating and your feelings and thoughts are so real. I can relate. Thanks for sharing and being honest!
A is better than nothing. At least you have "something" to work with.
It took me a long time to not care any more about my smaller chest. I really like it now. I can wear anything. Media and society try to make us feel not good enough to keep us down. It’s all BS. You are beautiful. There are many advantages to having a smaller chest. For one thing, clothes tend to fit us smaller chested gals better. If you are under the age of 35 and want to get breast implants. Please wait until you are older. I am so incredibly grateful that I never altered my body to fit a fad or what others think looks better. Ladies, if you have a smaller chest, you are lucky. Check out others saggy breasts and hear their stories of woe. If you want guys to notice you and you think they won’t because of your breast size, those are the guys we should avoid anyways. No man has ever complained about my small chest, they just compliment me on it. You are so much more than some extra fat tissue on your chest. 💕
My classmate always teased me "wall" "two back" and now I still don't like my chest please help me how can I have a confidence :(((
Thank you so much for this comment ♡
Thank you
Thanks my dear! You speaking to me and I appreciate your comment!
I did get Breast implants when young! I had them removed 3 weeks ago with a 4 hour surgery to remove capsules and implants Enbloc! They were so painful inside of me!! I’m so glad you never got them! The great surgeons like mine that only take them out are trying to get them banned! The silicone starts leaking into the body as soon as they’re put in but the manufacturers and the surgeons don’t tell you that!
"Not all of us are well endowed in the northern region." 😂😂😂
Hahaha! Thanks for watching Emily!
I came here looking for this comment and found yours😂
Emily Hennessey it’s not what it’s cracked up to be. I think smaller breasts are soooo much classier. Strut it, woman! 😋
Is this a quote from something?
Does that mean you are well in doubt in the southern region?
The beauty of this video is, if you have the reverse “issue”, just flip the advice: DON’T wear scarves or extra material on your tops or bras, wear jewelry that draws the eye UP (shorter chains, earrings), wear dark colors on top, don’t wear plunging necklines. One additional thought: large chests tend to look bigger in boatneck/crew neck/turtleneck tops, so those might enhance smaller chests? (Bigger chests look best in a modest vneck or scoop.). And horizontal stripes/color blocking should help smaller chests, while the opposite is true for larger chests. Keep those videos coming Shea!
Jo Taubert this is amazing!!
Thank you! *Large chested lady here* lol. No wonder I’m not drawn to scarves and busier tops😂 I’ve read that large prints should be avoided as well as it draws the eye to that area. Oh and I have been picked on for wearing lots of dark colors but hey, it helps me not feel so conspicuous honestly! Plus it goes better with my skin tone so I’m told...🤔
38G here! Don’t come between me and my scarves ! 🧣❤️😂
Really good points! :-)
I threw away the padded bras bc I found myself feeling bad when taking them off, I’ve accepted the bralettes and the pretty options they come in. However, I do wear a pendant kinda lower like you suggested and I feel it gives the chest a nice look. 🥰
Yes!! I felt the same way. I'm trying to embrace the body I have
Same here💞
to me i feel like jewelry draws the eye to my man body 😭
@@vintagelover2211 Jewelry draws attention to your elegant torso, You should say.
omg i thought i was the only one who feel like that,i do feel bad.
Ive had very small breasts. I felt bad about it when i was around 12 and all my clasmmates were "growing". Not that i am way older , my body looks young because of its boyish figure. Clothes look great on me. And now my clasmates envy my body.
@•NerdyShortie _Playz!• i know how that feels. I wore my first bra in College already. I envy the other girls who were growing hips and breasts . I was thin and rectangular. They went to parties . I went into sports. Did very well and met more boys in the world of sports. What im saying is , do things to improve your skills, personality, etc. Remember , models are flat too.
I also have small breasts and I am 13.Before this comment I was so insecure...my classmates are growing and I am not..but now I came to know what will actually happen..Thank You😊
Not trynna offend you or anything I'm just saying that I'm 11 and I already have an 36B😬
Erica Morales that’s fucking insane . . .
i never wanted big tits😂 and i still got my lil ones 😎
Getting my implants removed and will be small, and this video made me so happy and excited! Going to share it in the Breast implant illness group. Thanks Shea!
I think itty bitty is great. And btw all the freakin models on the runway and on magazines of high end fashion are small!
Not all of them
Maja_ _ all of them unless they’re plus size
But man prefers curvy actresses like Kylie Jenner, Scar Jo or Monica Bellucci
@Macy Ah my bad, I put that bastard name on the list :"
I like the look tbh I don’t want to have men staring at me like that plus Ariana grande has smaller breasts and she makes me love having a small chest
My experience...Yes; small vs large chested women get treated differently. But I would love to see a video on that!
Isn't that just infuriating? I have a cousin with an extremely large chest and the amount of vulgar attention she gets is just unbearable. She feels like an object all the time and I'm always just so frustrated for her and how she is looked at and treated
Lama Mer absolutely! I condemned certain outfits from my work attire because of the looks I get.
Ana Najera Ugh
I find myself in the middle I have small boobs but jiggly butt and I'm short I'm still figuring my style of fashion
@@LamaMerhi I have a cousin too with same problem . big boobs don't have all the perks
I used to feel inadequate in my 20s (the mean, nasty comments from idiotic men i dated and dumped for bringing me down just based on not being tall enough or well endowed enough certainly didn't help with my self esteem!). But I've grown to accept and love not just my breasts but also that i have very thin hair so I'm forced to keep it short, petite and short frame (just 5'1") and curls. I love my body and now work with it, instead of against what is naturally given to me. Never been happier. :-) I get compliments now on my skin and hair and even my body because i chose to dress for my frame and do all the good stuff like eat well and exercise and just indulge in my hobbies. I find your happy and positive nature really inspiring. Subscribing!
Been there too. In my teen/twenties I hated my small breasts and being very tall and skinny. Gosh, I don't even think I cared that much myself, but those mean comments I got from the age of 11 actually ruined my self image for years and years. Thankfully, being in my 30s now I came to my senses and started to love my body. I know how to dress myself to show what I want and I am not afraid to play with sexy/pretty underwear just because I'm on the smaller side. Used to think that the sexy underwear was just for the ladies who have a lot to put in it 😅 but it's just a matter of finding the right pieces that fit.
Violetta It’s rare to see someone with my name, but here we are. Where are you from?
Guys in their 20s and 30s even are such sh1tty people, honestly. I've been through the same. Not with guys I've dated but with random guys in the street or at work who tell me what I should look like.
@@BiTe-Me you're so right! More power to all the women. We must stop listening to anyone who tries to bring us down and just focus on our own inner light. I, too, indulge in sexy innerwear just to feel good. I don't listen to others regarding my clothes either. If I pay for what I wear, I'll only listen to constructive opinions. Not those designed to make me feel lesser than others
@@butterflymoon6368 so, so true! Some people should really learn to keep their idiotic opinions to themselves
I'm flat chested and very, very thin. Instead of trying to make my chest look bigger, I've realized that the best thing I can do is to wear clothes that emphasize my slimness and my small waist. In part, that might be because personally, I prefer the small waist kinda curvy instead of the big bust kinda curvy.
for example, instead of wearing scarves or frilly tops, I'd wear wide necked blouses that show off my collarbones and tuck them into wide legged trousers.
This made me feel so much better about myself so THANK YOU! I've been struggling with the idea of implants even though I hate it just because I can't stand how my (tiny) breasts look. It's a daily struggle and I find it hard to ever feel sexy (or even look my age).
If I may say Nellie, I'd hate to see you get breast implants. I think the natural look is 100% sexy and I'd find you attractive no matter what size your breasts are. In fact, I prefer them on the small side. I understand being self-conscious because breasts are obviously front and center for everyone to see. But you will be very surprised at how many men are turned on by small breasts! A real man will be attracted to you for what you ARE, not just your body type. Try for it not to affect your self-esteem. Confidence in a woman is the most attractive quality!
I think the best part of having a smaller chest is not sagging at all as you get older. I used to envy my friends with bigger chests when I was younger but now when I see what happens I'm more appreciative of my smaller chest. I don't wear regular bras anymore, just sports bras and they are super comfy. And I tell you, I can only imagine the pain of the larger chested ladies at my gym when we do high impact moves. Thanks for this vid Shea!
Trust me small sags too
@@BB-co7kp I must be lucky because I'm 60 and mine don't. Actually, I look young for my age. People think I'm in my 30's. So, yes I guess I'm lucky! LOL!!!💚
I loved this!! You are fantastic! This was posted on a group page I’m a part of for woman that are removing breast implants that are killing them!! I Explanted 3 weeks ago and now have my littles back and am loving them!! So much healing still left but thank you so much for loving your body and helping many women to do the same!!!
I really appreciate this!! Being small chested all my life no one ever talks about it!
When I was waaaaay younger, I was jealous of my more voluptuous friends, but now that I’m older, I’ve learned to appreciate my small breasts for ALL the reasons you stated!
Yes!!! Thank you for thinking about small chests!
It is so hard to get dressed and shop when many brands make dresses and tops tailored to women with big chests.
I loved this, Shea. I was teeny Weeny until I was 30. I had an augmentation. Hated them. I gained weight, and ended up with BII, and they’re coming out soon, hopefully. I think you look WONderful! Small is better for all the reasons you listed. Yayyyy!
Same story here! Check out “Size Happy” with Christina on TH-cam she’s helped me go through BII and my self love journey ❤️
That Wal-Mart top is actually really cute. 👀👀
I just removed breast implants after 18 years and this video was just what I needed to watch! xx
I used to want larger ones but for several years I’ve been really glad to be blessed with a smaller “northern region” 😂
Haha yes!! There are pro’s and con’s to both!❤️ Embrace what you’ve been given!
Lauren Michero stay that way. Big breasted ness is wwaaaayyyyyyy overrated! xoxo
Same it used to be my biggest like main insecurity
Then i got acne and the insecurity shifted and now i love my chest lol
Lauren Michero iam a man n I do like women with bigger chest but to me truthfully I really dont mind if a girl has a smaller chest because my ex-girlfriend had a small chest n not once did I ever say anything negative about her small chest to me the most important thing is haveing feelings , love her n care about the woman iam with as my partner GOD made everyone one of us the way he wanted n we should love yourself no matter what other people think n say about our body
I’ve been thin and wore a 32-A, and used to say, 32 negative A. Seriously. Then, my health changed, at the same time I hit menopause and I gained weight and had cleavage. I wore a 38B. I hated it. So many times I said, “ I would rather be flat and thin, than be fat and have breasts.” Thankfully, I’ve lost down to within a few pounds of my older normal self. The size I was age 23-50. I’m so grateful to be flat again.😊Love your channel and sense of humor.
One year I dressed up as a Hooters girl as a joke for Halloween (I am completely flat-chested). I got a huge bra, stuffed it, put on the Hooters uniform and went out to a party. Oh. My. God. Never in my life had I experienced the problem of men talking to my chest and not my face! It was fascinating and turned out to be quite the enlightening experience. Definitely recommend you do a video experimenting with this idea.
I'm flat chested too and I loved it, not wearing a bra is the best feeling ever , new subscriber here, I loved your channel
Please do the social experiment with regular vs. big chest in public! That's so interesting.
There are already a lot of videos on that and also threads on forums about unwanted attention
I love this video! Share more tips on embracing the small chest and how to work with it please!! After nursing 3 kids followed by weight loss... just a little empty skin is all I’m working with here 😁😝
I adore you Shea! You gave me a shot of self love and confidence! Small chested girls team💕
LOVE this video!!! You made this kind of awkward topic really funny and entertaining but also full of great tips that I need! I am very small up top and need all the help I can get! ❤️
I’m so glad you liked this video!!! Yay!!
Thank you for making this video, Shea 💕 you’re my favorite youtuber 😊
My favorite too!
I cannot jog or run due to my large chest. Most of the women in my family have had reduction surgery due to discomfort. I am really jealous of my flat friends. 👯
All the women in my family are HUGE except me. I'm very thankful! My back has enough issues!
And the way I long for big boobs. I'm so flat chested and not proud of that. Have always wished I had a bump on my chest.
Thank you for helping all of us look our best Shea! I would love to see a video on how you cook for your family... Or maybe household tips? I always love your content though!
What’s funny is I had never noticed that you are small chested. Thanks for the tips!
Shea how are you confident with your body when you're intimate with your husband? I am flat chested, your tips crack me up because they're so real! I can feel confident in clothing, but when I'm in the nude, especially laying down, I hate my chest 😱 TMI lol
To be honest I TRULY don't even think about it!!! My husband has always said a huge chest would look odd on me! I'm thankful I'm with someone that makes me feel great how I am!
Lingerie or go on top!
Tmi, but it's true!
@@SheaWhitney that's great, I hope to be there. My husband is the same way, but it's hard for me to accept myself. I'll ge there! When I see women like you who are so beautiful and rock a small chest, I forget that my husband can see me that way too! Thanks for the video💜
She has a beautiful body. Why do you think she looks so good in clothes? Her body is proportioned and very sexy.
Gotta say...I've only gotten 3 minutes into this but I already feel way more confident about my figure 🤣Thanks so much!! I love your energy!
Please remember that having small breasts does not make you less of a woman. Real men will appreciate your natural beauty and will be very happy having a woman in their life that's confident and secure in their body. Woman state that they like their man to be confident - well, the same goes for guys too. If you're happy with yourself you will find a guy that appreciates how wonderful you really are!
I remember having a small bust when I was young and I would trade in a hot second as I hate having a bigger bust! You are so right to be grateful for a small bust!
You are clearly one of the most absolute perfectly beautiful ultimate cover girl model of a young lady in every way possible. Never change because you where born to be perfect
Love love love! Thank you for making this video. Most videos are about how to dress to look slimmer, but these are not the only style tips we need to know. Some of us do not need to look slimmer, but our concern is our small chest. Thank you for all the tips. Thank you for being so transparent as well.
Shea, you are so wholesome! Lol I love it. There are a billion fashion channels on YT, but your genuine spirit sets you apart!
yes to the video on being treated differently depending on cleavage
I’m glad you aren’t too worried about it, I’m very small and there are people who actually think I care 🤣🤣🤣 I wear a little bit of padding but not overly much. The most fun ever is my yearly mammogram!!!
I never even noticed your lack in the northern region because you look good in everything and you have a great sense of style ❤
Not all of us unfortunately working out being a 36 DD is not easy 😂😂😂😂 but it makes my waist look smaller 😁
That is so true
I love my small chest too!! I love to sleep on my tummy and working out is a breeze and I don’t have to wear a bra and wear any top!! And we do do save money on bras because we don’t have to buy super expensive ones!! Love yourself girl there’s pros and cons to everything! I used to be self conscious when I was younger now in my mid 30s with 2 kids I have learn to accept myself be 😃
Ok I'm here for this! me and my flat chest 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Your spot on with the pro’s!! I can never wear backless! I was a bridesmaid to my sisters wedding & she chose a backless strapless dress & man it was absolutely painful to find something with support! Since having kids & breastfeeding I couldn’t even wear those stick on cups!! Ooh the horrible memories & stress of the day!!! 😩
This is pure gold!!! A cup for the win! I love being smaller chested! 😂🙌🏼👏🏼
And importantly one dont look vulgar no matter how they dress (mini/ mini mini 🤣🤣)
Exactly! Nobody will ever accuse us of trying to be trashy!!
I appreciate that you understand being larger has it’s downfalls! Being well endowed myself (like reallllllly well endowed) it can get a little frustrating hearing flatter chested girls say how lucky I am. Back pain, that’s a real thing and sports? Ya, not so fun. As always thanks for the awesome content! ❤️
Angeline Life Omg for real! And having to buy more expensive bras that need to be replaced every 6 months 🙄💰
Really needed this...🤣🤣you are really fun to watch...love all your videos🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Awe I'm glad you liked it!!!
Finally!! A video that is for the smaller chested women like me!! 😊😊😊
😁👍🏻 great video and tips, Whitney! At the end of the day it’s all about your confidence! It doesn’t matter how small or big you’re in some areas of your body. 💜💜💜
Can you do a video about how to dress when you have a flat bum and small hips (near to no hips)
Oh my I'm sorry! No hips or butt that's got to be rough!
Ellen Richardson Wtf
Ellen Richardson that’s weirdly condescending lmao
@@britnisonsky2717 not really, I always had hips even when I was very thin. But no butt or boobs. Well luckily I grew up in a time frame where big boobs and no butt were necessary! That was in the 60s and 70s.😀😔😞
@@ellenrichardson8701 imagine being old asf and coming on a video to help young girls feel ok with what they're born with and shaming them
Great tips, Shea! It would definitely be interesting to try the big busted versus small busted people treatment experiment. I am finishing up treatment for breast cancer and my hair is just now growing back in. (I had very long hair, my stylist said it will take me 2 years to grow back ) It looks very manly at this point. I noticed that men are definitely treating me differently. They look at me and are disgusted. They will start to hold the door, look back, have a face of disgust when they see me, and let the door go. I asked some other people in treatment if they had similar experiences and they said yes. I started wearing a headband to try and look more feminine. It was very upsetting, especially after being disfigured as well. 👎👎
Those men who reacted that way are very odd. I'm sorry that happened. I wish you well in your recovery.
@@jjverde5685 thank you for your kind response and well wishes❤️
I love your natural humor! Thanks for another informative and entertaining video ❤️
Love your videos Shea! I think the phrase “Itty Bitty Titty Committee” is from the movie, 13 Going on 30, right? Lol At 25 yrs old, I’ve embraced being flat chested, my husband doesn’t mind, so neither do I😊 I’m so glad I ditched the tortuous underwire bras and now wear bralettes. I felt so fake
Totally agree with the bennies of having IBT, which got worse when I lost about 15 lbs . I quit wearing underwire bras, which suck, and love that I can wear seamless bralettes (mostly to cover up the nips and prevent visible bounce in public ;). I bought some silicone inserts to balance out my tops and those do improve how I look in fitted knit tops/sweaters.
One of your best videos Shea, super funny too!👍👍
I like to be active and honestly never have to worry about my chest running, doing sports or anything and it’s awesome!
You have my kind of sense of humor! Love it; keep it up, doll!
I came here hoping I could find stylish ways to dress that will flatter my body shape and all I got was a reminder why I have always felt ashamed of my body the way it is. I dont need to look bigger or wear padding, I need to love the body I have. I liked the last reccomendation for the open blouse and necklace.
Used all that tricks in my life. As for Black it looks amazing if it’s a tight top with a high neck. Really makes that area look bigger and more defined. Also high waste line in your dresses
I do the scarf trick sometimes. Like a security blanket.
Yes with the "no wearing of bras"!! I can go out with just a hoodie on and without a bra😅😂
I love her😂 This is the first video of her that I'm watching yet I'm already finding her quite hilarious..
Thank you. I was a DD but I had a double mastectomy and am having a hard time trying to figure out what looks good on this whole new body.
Can’t relate, but giving you all the views, thumbs up, and love!! Keep up the great content, Shea!! 😊
This video is very entertaining. 😁 I'm so here for this! I'm an A cup so I appreciate this!
Hi Shea! I love your tips for smaller chested women. Unfortunately, I am not so fortunate as to be one of you. That being the case, I thought I’d share a couple of the disadvantages I thought of right away to having a larger chest. 😁 First, you generally don’t encounter problems with “gapping” in button-down shirts. I love a good button-down! They look so effortlessly classy, but it’s not as easy to make them work for you (without having to sew in snaps) when you have 38DDD’s!!! 😅 Secondly, men love talking to boobs. I suppose I’m as used to it as I’m going to get at 40, but I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve been mid-conversation with a guy (professionally or otherwise) and caught him speaking to them instead of looking me in the eyes. 🙄 I get that they’re kind of hard to miss, but come on, you know?! That leads to the last disadvantage. Larger chested women generally aren’t taken as seriously as smaller chested women, in my observation (and personal experience). Anyway, that’s just my take on the subject at hand. 🤷♀️ Thanks for the entertaining video! 💗
LOVED THIS SHEA!!!!!! Thank you for all the amazing tips. Can you please do tips on how to look slimmer or thinner!!
Yes, we are treated differently. I been breasted all the time. Hello my face is up here. I am a double D since sixth grade, now age 58. And the negative comments gets worse but I try to only see the positive. Consider yourself HIGHLY favored and blessed because there are lots of health issues with big bust.
I don't even have a small chest but still watching cz I like all of your videos 🥺
This was the first actual helpful video I’ve found on TH-cam. All the other videos are like “embrace your small chest” like thanks, that doesn’t help. Lol.
The pasties you recommended that have lift, do they actually provide some volume? I normally stick to bras with 3 inches of padding and I’d like something similar in the form of a pasty/stick on bra so I can wear backless stuff and still have volume in front.
Oh my goodness, I've found my daughter in grown up form. I'm saving this to see if I'm right, you guys talk exactly the same! hahha Also, good tips, love it.
I honestly found your personality a breath of fresh air 🤣😂
Omg you are so sweet , I'm flat chested and I feel better now after I watched your video . ❤️❤️ The video is so sweet 😘😘 thank you
There are a lot of pros to being smaller chested! You have such a benefit of wearing the adorable backless shirt, backless dress and so much more! I personally am on the opposite end of the spectrum and man I wish I had a smaller top area
No back pain! I wish! Totally good points!
A thing I have noticed as I've gotten older. No chest wrinkles! I notice alot of older, bigger boobed women get wrinkly in the decolletage area due to the extra skin. My skin still looks very youthful in that area.
Padded bras are the BEST! I swear I could stop bullets with some of mine!😂😂😂
barbara dufner LoL. Sometimes the huge padded ones make me feel like I have two stuffed animals stuck to my chest 🤪
@@pre-javelinaflips-anne1779
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I actually have the opposite problem. I even have cleavage in a turtle neck. 😂 But here I am, watching anyway, because I love your videos.
I only just started watching your videos. In browsing older ones vs. newer ones....You're getting funnier. It's awesome.
That black ruffle and lace shirt looks like Harry styles’ Gucci outfit on the red carpet🤩
I'm the exact opposite of Shea: I'm short, overweight, I have short hair, and a very large chest but this video is from Shea so of course I'll watch it anyway! Content doesn't even matter lol as long as it's from Shea!
After watching this video am like does that even matter having big/flat chest?!! She's confident, gorgeous and adorable and so can I.
All great tips! I love having smaller boobs ❤️ the biggest thing for me is to look more hourglass shaped as I'm pear shaped and want to balance out the booty 😀
Caiti M yes, definitely! I love a strong shoulder ❤️
Wearing low cut tops without a ton of cleavage is a perk of smaller chests I’ve always been envious of!
Tip #1
Be confident in how you are.
The end.
Early!! Love you Shea!!
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YAY! Thank you Tory!
That’s a nice trick with the scarf! And I didn’t even think that necklaces enhance the chest, and I luv necklaces😊
Shea! Thank you! You came with it just when I needed this body positivity!
As a full chested women, DD, I wish I had small ones!!
Interesting!! Well thank you for still watching!
Trust me, I know you don't. Everyone on my mother's side of the family had double d's, so I assumed since my mother was large-chested I would develop into the same. Boy was I in for a rude awakening my first bra was 32 AAA. Never made it to a b cup till I was 25 years old. I gained a lot of weight since then but my boobs never did catch up. Was always sorely disappointed in this area!!!
Same. I would be happy with a b.
Would be cool to do this with other bloggers/friends of different shapes at the same time so there's tricks for everyone 👌
I watched this video to make sure I don't make mine look bigger...lol. Mine are ridiculous and I am constamtly trying to look smaller. Good tips. You go girl!
LOL oh Shea, you just crack me up! Even though I am definitely NOT on the small side, this was a great video. I actually wish you could do one for women with larger chests, to show tips and tricks how to carry/style them better. ...but ya... I also see an itty bitty obstacle there :) :) :)
Girl you crack me up! Always love to watch your videos!
The best thing I've noticed is I can wear shirts that are tight and not have to size up and usually sale racks have xs and s left over
I really love your videos, you are so funny, always brightens my days giving me very useful ideas and inspiration. Yes please do some videos about chosing the correct bras or which brands are you. Thank you!
She is so sweet! Love her personality
I'm not part of the club, but I enjoyed watching this video anyway :)