Cuz it's a loser joke that exists only to be used and abused and taken from as others see fit!!! These types make the world turn as they make it possible for others to actually achieve happiness and success and get free stuff!!! Get it girl, take that loser for all its worth!!!! Hahahahaha
S1. Wow she cheated. He divorced her and still gave her money so she leaves him alone? What? How hard is it to hit the block button? . Wtf? AP need self respect but OP need it more.
"Why did she propose to me, if she wasn't ready to settle down?" Freaking really? Someone needed to support her, along with any kids she had with whoever. Once she married OP, condoms were a thing of the past. Does he not get that he's just her wallet? Guarantee he makes good money.
" if I ever really loved her..." "She's a completely different person" How could he have ever loved her, if she's completely different? It's like she paying narcissist's bingo, and just throwing out catch phrases without paying attention to when she contradicts herself.
I'll lay 10-1 odds that shell say "I settled for you", or an equivalent at the end. This guy is a stepping stone on her way to the life she "deserves".
1. OP should have walked out of that living room and not looked back. Also, never do this without involving lawyers and a contract. 2. You love her and were willing to tolerate her BS. Send her out to her parents.
Story 1 - OP might not be an AH, but he sure is an easy mark as evidenced by him giviing her some unentitled money. She knew who to play. Can anyone introduce me to him?
He’s typical nice guy, they are easy targets. Notice how he keeps getting angry. Nice guys get angry with people who shouldn’t have any affect on them. This guy is an A$$hole bc he gave her money.
First case: How narcissistic can someone be? She proposed him, cheated on him (with many guys), married someone else then expects him to still have love for him when she needs something? Damn.. I have no problem with his revenge.
Lol typical nice guy. I instantly delete ex’s contacts. Anytime one has tried to reach out to me it’s been me saying “who is this?” Then responding and me hanging up. Even if I would have nothing going on that day, I would never entertain a phone conversation let alone go over to their place.
As long as it's not violent and doesn't hurt children, I have absolutely no problem with revenge. In fact, I'd encourage it. It helps level the playing field.
Wow, he's a wallet and a doormat... "How could she think to ask me for money?!" well, jajajaaj, he proved exactly why she asked him and will keep asking him 😂🤣 "How is she with this man, it should be easy to leave him" jajajajaa dude!! She cheated on you, left you, manipulated you, got you into her house with her new husband and you're still there 😂🤣🤣🤣
Dude is pathetic. Also if my current gf proposed to me I would break up with her. Don’t care if “society thinks women should be able to propose blah blah blah”, that’s not something I would even entertain. Typical nice guy progressive doormat like a lot of guys are now.
I think the OP doesn't know the meaning of revenge. If she did that to me. I would give the money Ex wanted, but on my own terms by making a contract. I would put a period in the contract and then charge interest on timeout. Of course they won't be able to pay that money. Then I would take them to court and have them arrested. OP missed a huge opportunity. No one can turn their backs on me and leave in peace after humiliating me.
@@johnsmith-kt7ef Man, they're modern men. They are just like modern women. ;) If a man is not jealous of his wife, he does not love her. Well, they have a privacy thing. I see the whole of my wife with and without underwear. This is not a privacy violation. But looking at your phone is a privacy violation. It's so ridiculous. ;)
Story 1 - OP is destined to be taken advantage of in every relationship. Talk about being a doormat. Can't believe he was willing to pay his ex-wife money to live with her new husband.
What the hell?!! Give her money to leave you alone? Hey dude, I am the child your high school sweet heart didn’t tell you about. I am going to need you to pay that child support you didn’t pay for 20 plus years. I will cut you deal, just pay for the last 10 years and I will go away and never bother you again.
I would never have given her a cent why did you do that soemthing is seriously wrong with you geez if you wanted to heelp someone out why not give money to well actually my fav charity is St. Judes but you get my meaning. to give it to a criminal what is wrong with you
story 1: Op already knew and his first impression was the correct one and her sudden proposal was just a ruse to tie him to her so she can use his then dump him if he was rich she was going to milk him
Op1 she had a nerve manipulating op with his emotions. An à time low KARMA CAME KNOCKING OP NTA. No way would I help her she knew what she was doing op.
story 1 if OP wanted to be really vindictive and petty rather than just laughing at them tell her to charge for her 'services' since she likes to sleep around
2 nd story, you are her daddy, why should she do chores when daddy does them, this is the pitfalls of an older man dating a younger girl, let this little girl go and find a daddy that will appreciate her vulnerability, and you find yourself a grown up.
How did he not see this behavior earlier? I understand that everyone makes stupid mistakes when they first move away from their parents (He had to explain how to use a dishwasher), but there's a learning curve. She straight up refuses to learn any task she feels is beneath her. I'm guessing she's pulled stunts like the lawnmower before. Show complete incompetence at something and someone else will do it instead. Instead of feeling foolish for screwing up, she feels empowered because she got someone to work for/serve her.
@@christa0chellew I agree. I'm 56 and if I ever met the 20 something me I'd kick his ass for being so stupid. I ignored so many (now) obvious warning signs back then. Fortunately I did eventually learn what sort of people to avoid or disassociate with once they started showing their true selves.
Story one. So this guy blew past red flags, marries her anyway, finds out she’s been cheating but is willing to move past that. Finds out she’s been cheating with more than one dude and his big concern is does she feel guilty and would she do it again. Divorces her but still comes when she snaps her fingers and rolls over to be her ATM again. Simps we have found your king.
Non, no , no. Have nothing to do with dishonest people who are scamming everyone. Do not associate with her or you could be connected to these scams and be blamed too. She is a Narcissists. They are always a victim when others wont help them. She will never leave you alone if you give her money. Now that you have....you just connected yourself to her scams and bad dealings. I pray you don’t go to jail. Dealing with demonic people connects you to the devils work. Please No more money to people like this.
Last story: NTA and your friend needs a wake up call. Your FATHER is a grown man who’s supposed to care for HIS children and mourn in his bed at night or get therapy. You don’t need to tiptoe around your parents feelings like they’re some delicate rose petal. If anything, you were quite considerate of the time and your words. It’s time he took back his responsibilities and let you live your life.
I Think it's too late to take back responsibility. Dad waited until the kid is 10, the take care of the baby time is over. OP has already sacrificed her childhood, why allow dad to take credit for the good job she's done now? If she transfers colleges & starts an independent life, the brother will feel abandoned & like he wasn't good enough for OP to stick with him. He will start acting up, I'm sure.
@@marshawargo7238 he’s young enough to turn it around if dad truly makes an effort. Op might just have to take him with her if he becomes traumatized and get her dad to pay child support. It’s definitely a nasty situation and I don’t envy her position. Poor girl never got to live her youth and she too might feel the pressure when he reaches his teens.
My mother was a spoiled rich girl and made crap out of her life. She was raised to be incapable of doing almost anything except paint and play tennis.. We had a full time maid when I was growing up who did everything around the houe and was there all day. She was conniving and played games with us, trying to hide her frivilous ways. She was never there for us. She was too busy running around with her spoiled rich girl friends that she had all her life. How could she be friends with anyone else. She wa s an even worse grandmother and never took my boys out ot give my wife a break, IE my wife worked a 40 hr job beyond being a mother. Never. She played favorites too. My sister got all her attention and money. When she died we really did'nt care she was nothing in our life. Isnt this sad. We almost had to force our boys to go to the funeral as they hardly ever saw her and we liived less than five miles away. Sheesh
Last Story Your father turned you into a parent you missed out on so much because he could not be a parent,I think noe you should say okay dad I going to do all the things I wanted write a letter listing all the things you sacrificed while he was grieving and tell him you where to but some one had to cook clean and look after his son your brother it's possible he doesn't even realise that's why your little brother looks to you but now you know his willing to be a parent you a willing to be a single young woman and you even sacrificed your college and does he remember asking you to cancel events and now you think that he needs therapy with his son
I know story 1 is getting a lot of grief for returning evil deeds with good one but he practiced “ turning the other cheek”. In a whole screaming “ scorch the earth or an eye for an eye” you sent this woman who hurt you away with one last kind guesture. Many ppl call you weak or a fool. I think if you know your the bigger person who can let evil go and do something like this I hope you sleep well for the rest of your wonderful life.
No good deed goes unstoned. At some point she will be back for more because he is a weakling. Never do good to people who abuse you. That is simply stupid and will always make you feel bad in the end.
Why the hell did OP give her the money, also that woman have no shame, respect and she look him right in the face, but tells you this but it's not going to be last time she reached out about a other sad story. However OP put on your big boy pants and never ever allow yourself to talk, help or any other way. OP do hope that you find someone who can love you for you and not for what you can do for them.. GOOD LUCK 👍
The 41yo man dating the 28yo female for the last 4 years; seriously dude? First, try dating an adult. She figures dating someone closer to her dad's age, than her own, she would have a daddy to take care of her. You are ridiculous, date a child, expect the actions of a child.
These old men act so shocked when a young girl uses them while they completely use these young girls for sex. As the older one he should know better. I just don’t get how these old men feel themselves entitled to sleep with very young women for nothing. It’s a well known fact that you have to pay to play.
Story 1: No NTA, children with special needs like the OP cannot be judged as having an IQ greater than 70, and clearly the OP is way below that level, why did she marry you? I think your actions say it all, free money to the ex-wife and her AP, a man who ends up paying those who cheated on him doesn't need to show more "credentials"; Why they had this conversation in front of the current husband, because they made you act illogically, it became a competition between the OP and the AP, again, and you lose badly both times, and the worst, in the end OP gave them thousands of dollars, probably tens of thousands and hearing so many stupid things put together I would not doubt that he would give them 6 figures, this is called an spectacular return on the investment of a few tears and maybe several hours of acting, and the cherry on top of the cake, free of any charges or penalties, who would do this if not the OP, who is so convinced that he did so well that he dared to publish it here, I imagine he also sent this BS to nuclear revenge too, which It makes me laugh even more are the answers, I prefer to believe that this story is not real, it gives me more hope for the future of humanity, nobody can be so pathetic!
YTA you actually gave her the money that is the only part of the story that makes you the AH you should have laughed in her face again walked out and blocked her on everything. This person is a lying cheating narcissist and by giving in she will continue to use you in anyway she can that’s how narcissist work. You open the door for her to continue to disrupt your life if she can spin a big enough sob story.
EX- KNEW YOU WERE GOING 2 FOLD & BREAK BREAD 🍞 !!! LIKE JESUS SAID. SHE TOLD HUSBAND THAT YOUR MONEY 💴 WAS A FOR-SURE THING !!!! MONEY 💵 WAS IN THE BAG.
First story OP is an AH, he just gave her the money, no verification, did not ensure those who were the most affected got their money back. He just gave her money, she scammed him and got the last laugh ... and he felt good. Oh boy.
S1 why is this guy talking to her for Closer ?? Dude Dude you have your closure your living a good life with out Her in your life WTH are you some kind Of goody goody 2 shoes For God sake I hope you told everyone And I mean everyone her parents his Parents I mean everyone
I’m sorry but the dude in the second story seems kinda like a douche to me. She don’t know how to fill the dishwasher so you really expect her to cut the grass? Wtf kinda logic is that. Seems like he was looking for a reason to tell her to pay rent when they should obviously just break up. I wouldn’t cut the grass at all but I also know how to do other things
When you discover that a woman likes to be in control, it is the first sign that your relationship could be in trouble, but as a result of love, good sex and the need for company, we believe that we can control this type of woman who only thinks of herself.
Story 1 you are the AH fir giving into your ex - they swindled people (even close friends out of what 100’s of thousands of money) and you’re wrong she and hubby was in this scam together- so yes she is responsible- you wanted her to divorce her hubby for what to come back to you - that was false wishing and yet you fell fir her BS once again - block her, change your number if you really want to get rid of her and PLEASE move on - sheesh
Why the hell did he give her the money?
Cuz it's a loser joke that exists only to be used and abused and taken from as others see fit!!! These types make the world turn as they make it possible for others to actually achieve happiness and success and get free stuff!!! Get it girl, take that loser for all its worth!!!! Hahahahaha
He is a 10-50. "Up Around the Bend".
Because he is a lifelong doormat. She knew that he is a doormat that's why she pestered him.
Because HE is the AH.
S1. Wow she cheated. He divorced her and still gave her money so she leaves him alone? What? How hard is it to hit the block button? . Wtf? AP need self respect but OP need it more.
She knew an easy mark.
He was ready to forgive and forget. He is a doormat and will be taken advantage by people forever
Agree. Stupid stupid man.
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I wouldn't have given her a cent, laughed in her face and blocked her on everything as soon as I left the restaurant
"Why did she propose to me, if she wasn't ready to settle down?"
Freaking really? Someone needed to support her, along with any kids she had with whoever. Once she married OP, condoms were a thing of the past. Does he not get that he's just her wallet? Guarantee he makes good money.
" if I ever really loved her..."
"She's a completely different person"
How could he have ever loved her, if she's completely different? It's like she paying narcissist's bingo, and just throwing out catch phrases without paying attention to when she contradicts herself.
That guy is the biggest simp. Hopefully he recovered from being a simp.
I'll lay 10-1 odds that shell say "I settled for you", or an equivalent at the end. This guy is a stepping stone on her way to the life she "deserves".
Wow she’s selfish like after cheating and trying to drag her ex in her legal troubles and emasculating her current husband she has no shame
1. OP should have walked out of that living room and not looked back. Also, never do this without involving lawyers and a contract. 2. You love her and were willing to tolerate her BS. Send her out to her parents.
This man is ah she totally disrespects him than he goes and gives her his money.
YTA.. giving her money
Story 1 - OP might not be an AH, but he sure is an easy mark as evidenced by him giviing her some unentitled money. She knew who to play. Can anyone introduce me to him?
He’s typical nice guy, they are easy targets. Notice how he keeps getting angry. Nice guys get angry with people who shouldn’t have any affect on them. This guy is an A$$hole bc he gave her money.
First case: How narcissistic can someone be? She proposed him, cheated on him (with many guys), married someone else then expects him to still have love for him when she needs something? Damn..
I have no problem with his revenge.
What revenge? He folded like a towel and gave her the money
I would not have given her any money
NTA Some times a person needs a slap in the face to make them understand or think about what they have done.
Story 1:
Was I an AHole or justified? You can be both. And that is often the case. You gave her the money??? YTA to yourself
Your Father is an adult, he needed a wake up call!!!!! Who does he think did everything…..fairies????
😂😂😂that woman is delusional so is her husband ridiculous pair , you did the right thing .
Op should have told her he needs to get his crap together and let me live my life
#2: NTA. Chores or rent. One must be chosen.
She is not an adult.
OP is kind of a doormat giving her money he should have left her to rot in her own mess
"my girlfriend, 28, and I, 41, have been dating for 4 years"
uuuuuugghhhhhhhhhh here we go agaiiin
Lol typical nice guy. I instantly delete ex’s contacts. Anytime one has tried to reach out to me it’s been me saying “who is this?” Then responding and me hanging up. Even if I would have nothing going on that day, I would never entertain a phone conversation let alone go over to their place.
What's the odds on her being back for more money ' one last time' ad infinitum?
As long as it's not violent and doesn't hurt children, I have absolutely no problem with revenge. In fact, I'd encourage it. It helps level the playing field.
If wait awhile you'll get a chance for proper revenge.
Good for op for laughing at ex wife and her husband
Wow, he's a wallet and a doormat... "How could she think to ask me for money?!" well, jajajaaj, he proved exactly why she asked him and will keep asking him 😂🤣 "How is she with this man, it should be easy to leave him" jajajajaa dude!! She cheated on you, left you, manipulated you, got you into her house with her new husband and you're still there 😂🤣🤣🤣
Dude is pathetic. Also if my current gf proposed to me I would break up with her. Don’t care if “society thinks women should be able to propose blah blah blah”, that’s not something I would even entertain. Typical nice guy progressive doormat like a lot of guys are now.
I think the OP doesn't know the meaning of revenge. If she did that to me. I would give the money Ex wanted, but on my own terms by making a contract. I would put a period in the contract and then charge interest on timeout. Of course they won't be able to pay that money. Then I would take them to court and have them arrested. OP missed a huge opportunity. No one can turn their backs on me and leave in peace after humiliating me.
@@alihaydaryalnz6118🤣 I like your vibe
@@johnsmith-kt7ef Man, they're modern men. They are just like modern women. ;) If a man is not jealous of his wife, he does not love her. Well, they have a privacy thing. I see the whole of my wife with and without underwear. This is not a privacy violation. But looking at your phone is a privacy violation. It's so ridiculous. ;)
Story 1 - OP is destined to be taken advantage of in every relationship. Talk about being a doormat. Can't believe he was willing to pay his ex-wife money to live with her new husband.
Look in the mirror, to remind yourself what a ATM looks like.
Story 1 NTA & YTA Denying the request is NTA, Trying to seak revenge over such a trivial thing is YTA.
I would had left her because I can’t have someone living with me who doesn’t nothing around the house 🏠
Story 1: YTA for giving her money. She knew you were a pushover and you obliged.
What the hell?!! Give her money to leave you alone? Hey dude, I am the child your high school sweet heart didn’t tell you about. I am going to need you to pay that child support you didn’t pay for 20 plus years. I will cut you deal, just pay for the last 10 years and I will go away and never bother you again.
#1So he compensated her for all the wrong they did to OP. Smh
#2 a little bit of an AH.
Story 1: OP is a fool. He should have let the ex drown.
1st story. The only thing that makes you the a hole is the fact that you have her money. She will be back next to e she is I. Trouble. Stupid move.
I would never have given her a cent why did you do that soemthing is seriously wrong with you geez if you wanted to heelp someone out why not give money to well actually my fav charity is St. Judes but you get my meaning. to give it to a criminal what is wrong with you
story 1: Op already knew and his first impression was the correct one and her sudden proposal was just a ruse to tie him to her so she can use his then dump him if he was rich she was going to milk him
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Op1 she had a nerve manipulating op with his emotions. An à time low KARMA CAME KNOCKING OP NTA. No way would I help her she knew what she was doing op.
Op 2 doesn’t have a girlfrien, he has an incompetent, slothful, entitled, MUYHT!
First story should've ended with OP hanging up the phone once he heard her voice. Didn't need to go any further than that
If my wife cheated on me then I divorce her I would had block her number and move on with life. Story 1
Story 1 what a freaking doormat
Lol, he gave her the money
VERY disappointed in OP and he should not have given her a dime. Bleep her. Let her go walk the streets for money. OP is the AH himself.
Alwaise block exs
story 1 if OP wanted to be really vindictive and petty rather than just laughing at them tell her to charge for her 'services' since she likes to sleep around
The incompetent gf story. The gf has undergone learned helplessness. It makes her dependent on someone. Parents will do it as a means of control.
2 nd story, you are her daddy, why should she do chores when daddy does them, this is the pitfalls of an older man dating a younger girl, let this little girl go and find a daddy that will appreciate her vulnerability, and you find yourself a grown up.
She might be a chaned woman,but i wouldn't give her money, just like a gambler she gonna try to make it grow in a get rich quick scheme again,
I don't remember the story # but if she expects you or daddy to do everything for her, you need to dump that dingbat baby.
Story 1: “If you give me the money I’ll do anything you want including leaving you alone”. No bitch, here’s a restraining order!
The dtory about the useless girlfriend…… like at some point it stops being the parents fault my dude. Its solely hers
How did he not see this behavior earlier? I understand that everyone makes stupid mistakes when they first move away from their parents (He had to explain how to use a dishwasher), but there's a learning curve. She straight up refuses to learn any task she feels is beneath her.
I'm guessing she's pulled stunts like the lawnmower before. Show complete incompetence at something and someone else will do it instead. Instead of feeling foolish for screwing up, she feels empowered because she got someone to work for/serve her.
@@christopherconard2831 sometimes people are willfull when it comes to people they care about and refuse to analyze the situation correctly
@@christa0chellew I agree. I'm 56 and if I ever met the 20 something me I'd kick his ass for being so stupid. I ignored so many (now) obvious warning signs back then. Fortunately I did eventually learn what sort of people to avoid or disassociate with once they started showing their true selves.
Story 1: OP lacks a spine and some self-respect. He should have denied her and said the next time she contacted him, he would file for harrassment.
Story one. So this guy blew past red flags, marries her anyway, finds out she’s been cheating but is willing to move past that. Finds out she’s been cheating with more than one dude and his big concern is does she feel guilty and would she do it again. Divorces her but still comes when she snaps her fingers and rolls over to be her ATM again. Simps we have found your king.
Non, no , no. Have nothing to do with dishonest people who are scamming everyone.
Do not associate with her or you could be connected to these scams and be blamed too.
She is a Narcissists. They are always a victim when others wont help them.
She will never leave you alone if you give her money. Now that you have....you just connected yourself to her scams and bad dealings.
I pray you don’t go to jail.
Dealing with demonic people connects you to the devils work. Please No more money to people like this.
Last story: NTA and your friend needs a wake up call. Your FATHER is a grown man who’s supposed to care for HIS children and mourn in his bed at night or get therapy. You don’t need to tiptoe around your parents feelings like they’re some delicate rose petal. If anything, you were quite considerate of the time and your words. It’s time he took back his responsibilities and let you live your life.
I Think it's too late to take back responsibility. Dad waited until the kid is 10, the take care of the baby time is over. OP has already sacrificed her childhood, why allow dad to take credit for the good job she's done now? If she transfers colleges & starts an independent life, the brother will feel abandoned & like he wasn't good enough for OP to stick with him. He will start acting up, I'm sure.
@@marshawargo7238 he’s young enough to turn it around if dad truly makes an effort. Op might just have to take him with her if he becomes traumatized and get her dad to pay child support. It’s definitely a nasty situation and I don’t envy her position. Poor girl never got to live her youth and she too might feel the pressure when he reaches his teens.
Story #1 just served to piss me off royally! OP is the AH, plus the biggest door mat I’ve ever seen. Stupid doesn’t even cover it.
Last story. Father lost his wife but kids lost their mother....
Story#1 what a punk lol well let him keep lien down for her
My mother was a spoiled rich girl and made crap out of her life. She was raised to be incapable of doing almost anything except paint and play tennis.. We had a full time maid when I was growing up who did everything around the houe and was there all day. She was conniving and played games with us, trying to hide her frivilous ways. She was never there for us. She was too busy running around with her spoiled rich girl friends that she had all her life. How could she be friends with anyone else. She wa s an even worse grandmother and never took my boys out ot give my wife a break, IE my wife worked a 40 hr job beyond being a mother. Never. She played favorites too. My sister got all her attention and money. When she died we really did'nt care she was nothing in our life. Isnt this sad. We almost had to force our boys to go to the funeral as they hardly ever saw her and we liived less than five miles away. Sheesh
Op 2 is a bigger schmuck!
Loathed changed to loved is a BIG difference... Im gonna have to give up on this channel soon...
Last Story
Your father turned you into a parent you missed out on so much because he could not be a parent,I think noe you should say okay dad I going to do all the things I wanted write a letter listing all the things you sacrificed while he was grieving and tell him you where to but some one had to cook clean and look after his son your brother it's possible he doesn't even realise that's why your little brother looks to you but now you know his willing to be a parent you a willing to be a single young woman and you even sacrificed your college and does he remember asking you to cancel events and now you think that he needs therapy with his son
Op 3 has a muyht for a father!
Go OP 3!
I know story 1 is getting a lot of grief for returning evil deeds with good one but he practiced “ turning the other cheek”. In a whole screaming “ scorch the earth or an eye for an eye” you sent this woman who hurt you away with one last kind guesture. Many ppl call you weak or a fool. I think if you know your the bigger person who can let evil go and do something like this I hope you sleep well for the rest of your wonderful life.
He could've let evil go by hanging up on her and never talking to her again. He's a fool
No good deed goes unstoned. At some point she will be back for more because he is a weakling. Never do good to people who abuse you. That is simply stupid and will always make you feel bad in the end.
Story 1...NTA, but really dumb.
When my daughter asked me to change her oil with her boyfriend there I told them that they both needed to see other men.
Opie so do you not know where the block button is?
Don't know the difference between Love and Loathe.
Like most women.
Why the hell did OP give her the money, also that woman have no shame, respect and she look him right in the face, but tells you this but it's not going to be last time she reached out about a other sad story. However OP put on your big boy pants and never ever allow yourself to talk, help or any other way.
OP do hope that you find someone who can love you for you and not for what you can do for them.. GOOD LUCK 👍
That was thousands of dollars not money
Trust but verify.
The 41yo man dating the 28yo female for the last 4 years; seriously dude? First, try dating an adult. She figures dating someone closer to her dad's age, than her own, she would have a daddy to take care of her. You are ridiculous, date a child, expect the actions of a child.
These old men act so shocked when a young girl uses them while they completely use these young girls for sex. As the older one he should know better. I just don’t get how these old men feel themselves entitled to sleep with very young women for nothing. It’s a well known fact that you have to pay to play.
Scammers
Story 1: No NTA, children with special needs like the OP cannot be judged as having an IQ greater than 70, and clearly the OP is way below that level, why did she marry you? I think your actions say it all, free money to the ex-wife and her AP, a man who ends up paying those who cheated on him doesn't need to show more "credentials"; Why they had this conversation in front of the current husband, because they made you act illogically, it became a competition between the OP and the AP, again, and you lose badly both times, and the worst, in the end OP gave them thousands of dollars, probably tens of thousands and hearing so many stupid things put together I would not doubt that he would give them 6 figures, this is called an spectacular return on the investment of a few tears and maybe several hours of acting, and the cherry on top of the cake, free of any charges or penalties, who would do this if not the OP, who is so convinced that he did so well that he dared to publish it here, I imagine he also sent this BS to nuclear revenge too, which It makes me laugh even more are the answers, I prefer to believe that this story is not real, it gives me more hope for the future of humanity, nobody can be so pathetic!
YTA you actually gave her the money that is the only part of the story that makes you the AH you should have laughed in her face again walked out and blocked her on everything. This person is a lying cheating narcissist and by giving in she will continue to use you in anyway she can that’s how narcissist work. You open the door for her to continue to disrupt your life if she can spin a big enough sob story.
Story 1 dude desperate as hell
Story1, dude why even contemplate you're the a-hole, she had no right to even ask you at all, she never loved you at all. Don't even help her.
EX- KNEW YOU WERE GOING 2 FOLD & BREAK BREAD 🍞 !!! LIKE JESUS SAID. SHE TOLD HUSBAND THAT YOUR MONEY 💴 WAS A FOR-SURE THING !!!! MONEY 💵 WAS IN THE BAG.
YTA you gave her the money and was exactly what she wanted, you got used yet again....
I'll save you some time, this is a door mat weak man story. His weakness will upset you.
First story OP is an AH, he just gave her the money, no verification, did not ensure those who were the most affected got their money back. He just gave her money, she scammed him and got the last laugh ... and he felt good. Oh boy.
story 1: get a OF page
S1 why is this guy talking to her for
Closer ?? Dude Dude you have your closure your living a good life with out
Her in your life WTH are you some kind
Of goody goody 2 shoes
For God sake I hope you told everyone
And I mean everyone her parents his
Parents I mean everyone
and he said that they are the pathetics ones?? god simps are too much weird
I’m sorry but the dude in the second story seems kinda like a douche to me. She don’t know how to fill the dishwasher so you really expect her to cut the grass? Wtf kinda logic is that. Seems like he was looking for a reason to tell her to pay rent when they should obviously just break up. I wouldn’t cut the grass at all but I also know how to do other things
When you discover that a woman likes to be in control, it is the first sign that your relationship could be in trouble, but as a result of love, good sex and the need for company, we believe that we can control this type of woman who only thinks of herself.
Story 1 you are the AH fir giving into your ex - they swindled people (even close friends out of what 100’s of thousands of money) and you’re wrong she and hubby was in this scam together- so yes she is responsible- you wanted her to divorce her hubby for what to come back to you - that was false wishing and yet you fell fir her BS once again - block her, change your number if you really want to get rid of her and PLEASE move on - sheesh