It's so fun to see reactors go through the journey of "We have to get rid of Sadness" to "We need to let Sadness do her thing". The movie works at teaching its lesson!
I don't get how people can't see how meta it is, so how could they get angry with something that is just a reflection of Riley's experiences? It's not like they're normal characters, they're emotions.
"Maybe she didn't need to dye her hair another color; maybe she needed to be listened to and understood." That's gonna hit for a lot of people I just know. So true. This movie has a lot to teach. Thanks for watching it, it's one of Pixar's best imo
Absolutely! Loved that he caught that and said it aloud. Also appreciated the highlighted “Joy’s understanding how important Sadness really was,” and the need to express these feelings with others so as to work through them. 💯 However, the “compartmentalization” comment is a misunderstood lesson. After all, it’s a defense mechanism; an adult’s way of maintaining noncomplex views/memories of difficult situations. All emotions are real and important, deserving of validation. Hence the movie ending with Riley’s memories being made of mixed emotions, rather than a singular emotion. :)
That "take her to the moon for me" breaks me every time. It sounds almost like a parent letting go of their child for whatever reason, but much sadder because Bingbong ceased to exist and Riley would forget about him forever.
the saddest part for me is it reminds me that I had an imagination friend too, I remember the feeling and blur memories that I had one, but I cant remember what my imagination friend was. I don;t know how when and why he or she sacrificed him/herself for me in a dark moment to cheer me up. but I will bring myself to the moon, I promise.
My sons name is Riley. I had to give him to my parents (homelessness), and had another baby who was born when I was not homeless anymore who passed while I was getting things ready to get Riley back. So Bingbong saying "Go save Riley!" as he's fading away feels like it resonates in a way. I sobbed rewatching this movie
Let's just be clear: If it is violence to hit a person your own age who is capable of defending themself, then it is *extremely* violent to hit someone who is incapable of defending themself (a child!) - no matter the skin colour! Break the cycle of violence!!!
It's crazy to me that if you even THREATEN a grown adult, you can have charges put against you, but if you beat your child (who not only can't defend themselves, but doesn't want to because they love & fear you) then that's just discipline. And it statistically is at best, slightly worse than alternative methods of discipline & more likely to push your child to be a criminal. If you believe the only way to discipline your child is to beat them, you shouldn't be a parent because clearly you don't have the maturity for it.
Raising kids is tricky. You don't want to be too much of one thing, not even "too loving"'. Raise your kid giving everything they want to keep them happy, they become spoiled brats. Raising your kid by holding their hand in anything they're supposed to do alone, they don't know how to do anything. Raising your kid in a way where you console them every time they have a problem, they become overly dependent on you for the most minor inconvenience. I hope I don't need to explain what happens if you go to the other extreme (Neglecting your child, being apathetic to their feelings, and absent parenting). There's a difference between using force to beat a child and discipline a child. One or two spankings will do just fine, anything more than that is just sadistic. You don't need to make them bleed and turn black-and-blue from bruises to make your point across.
@user-ih8np2fm1z nah. Frankly spanking has just been shown to make parents feel better. Basically nothing else. If you can't communicate why what they're doing is wrong you shouldn't be throwing hands.
@@Kittsim As someone who works with suicidal people on a daily basis all I can say is, a parent should ask themself: "is my child old enough to understand reason?" If yes, reason with your child. If you spank them they won't reason "love" as the reason, i GUARANTEE you that. If no, spanking your child will scar them cuz they won't undersand the reason why you're spanking them. In no situation is hurting your child the right choice. ever.
@@Kittsim "Spanking has been shown to make parents feel better." And that's the problem. That's not disciplining or spanking, that's beating your child. The difference between disciplining and beating your child is the intention. A disciplining parent would know that using force should be used responsibly and sparingly, and that good verbal communication is still necessary.
Bing Bong gets me every time 😢 as adults, we know that's a piece of childhood being left behind. We're all grinding through life, and as we've grown, we had to keep leaving little pieces of that childlike spirit behind. It's tough out here.
Facts... But we gotta keep it positive! What are some "Bing Bongs" that you HAVE held on to? Like fart jokes! 😅❤ Edit: My daughter isn't quite 4 yet and she already knows that farts are funny as long as you say excuse me lmfao
I work with adults with learning disabilities. They've all got the dirty minds of ten year old boys. Innuendos and fart jokes are a constant, as well as just general silliness and childish behaviour. Growing up sucks. It never takes a new staff member long to settle into being a weirdo and silly like the rest of us, and stop caring so much what other ppl are thinking about us. It relieves a lot of day to day life pressure, even if the general public don't "get" us 🤣
Half way through it made me so sad to hear you say you would beat the feeling of anger out of a child, I hope that is something that you reconsider. Emotions are definitely not easy to go through and kids need their parents to help and guide them gently. Anger can't get rid of anger, it only fuels it, even if it is suppressed in the moment, it will explode later. Parents can guide children with love even if they don't like their reactions, hitting a child doesn't need to ever be the answer.
@@emmaebaldwin I had an invisible friend named George that I don't remember but I can only hope that he went out in a blaze of glory like Bing Bong. RIP George and Bing Bong.
Man I haven't cried during this movie since the first time I watched it. But watching your realization of BingBong's importance and not quite being able to express why it hit so hard... tears. Never have been able to rightly explain it but dang did that funky creature make me cry. Excellent reaction. Thanks.
Adison, I'm with you man. The last part of Bing Bong's piece in this story legit still brings me to tears. Just watching your video and yep... right there. "One more time, Joy. I've got a good feeling about this one." Onions.
I also really enjoy that while Joy is kinda like the ring leader for Riley’s emotions, mom’s is Sadness and Dad’s is Anger. The other emotions help temper and enrich the core emotion into other emotions like Empathy (Sadness) and Passion (Anger)
Beating children doesn't actually teach them right from wrong or why their behavior is bad. It just teaches them that if they do something again you will physically hurt them. If you can't discipline and guide your children in the right direction without resorting to violence you're not a very good parent.
@@luna.tic_7409 Yeah, and the only thing it teaches the kid is to avoid misbehaving in front of their parents. It teaches them that they should be sneaky about it.
@@okeykid780okea9Raising kids right takes a hell of a lot more effort than beating the shit out of them. That’s why parenting is hard and should be taken more seriously. Kids stop giving a shit about you if you beat them, they’ll just be scared or angry at you as they grow up. They’ll just learn to care about not getting you mad, not about the person you are.
@@BambooSoop I’m not saying that’s the only way to discipline em and have u heard of the belt u can’t be saying beat the shit outta them like that cuz that sounds crazy I’m just saying raise em a certain way it’ll never have to come to that
About the meaningful purpose of each emotion, they said it in the begining of the movie: Fear keeps Riley safe, Disgust keeps her from being poisoned and Anger is very passionate about things being fair.
You talking about getting the belt when it comes to dealing with a child’s emotions made my stomach turn. It’s really sad to see. And don’t tell me you still turned out right despite the spankings, because your immediate willingness to turn violent on a defenseless child is far from right. It‘s horrible and weak. I got hit once by my dad and many times by school mates and it severely broke my heart every time.
it is wild because if someone ran up to you on the street and did that you would react defensively or get the police or try to toss them in jail, how is that a tool of teaching .. why would you want that in your house and the kid is already probably confused and trying to figure things out and you are just going to make them more perplexed and realize they have no trust and safety and loyalty at the core with the only people they have to rely on, such a shame
@@alexcanning5383do you think he was joking? i noticed in some videos i think he is into the mythology of catholicism, and it really confounds me how like people are into this or that but it doesn't seem to shake them awake, even with 'so called' rules to be a good person .. i feel like it just is and can not be taught like if you are a person to be nice to plants and animals and kids that are trying to grow, how would you even convince or persuade a person to be gentle and kind, and would you want to be friends with someone that didn't have that understood from the starting line
Bing Bong a real one. That part absolutely wrecked me and no matter how many times I see it I still get emotional. The writing in this movie was top notch.
Kind of ironic how you kept saying "anger shouldnt take the lead" and then your reaction to Rileys anger was to respond with anger to the level of hitting a child
That wasn't anger that was called disciplining a child who is out of line. Correcting a bad behavior because you love the child. Something the good book advises by the way! -Adison
@@ednif the “good book” is telling you that hitting your children is in any way shape or form okay.. or even in the vicinity, then it isn’t a good book. Nor is it a religion worth following. You’re talking about a book where a god murdered the first born of every family that didn’t put blood above their door.. who supposedly drowned the entire planet.. because he didn’t like his creations. I wouldn’t base my thoughts on that book. Let alone let it shape my life.
All emotions can be harmful when not managed and balanced. Anger can cloud your judgment. Sadness takes away motivation. Disgust can lead to prejudice. Fear can lead to stagnancy. And Joy can become toxic positivity. This movie helps open up a serious discussion about identifying and managing our feelings before they control us. Emotions are not for the weak, not having control of them is a sign of weakness.
lol i love your reactions but the amount of times you expressed wanting to spank Riley in the first 5 minutes as she was a toddler was crazy 😂 and throughout the movie . You didn’t once seem to mention what she was going through internally at all in the first half. She just moved away from her friends and everything she knows . She was trying to be happy for her parents and wasn’t mature enough to talk to her parents about how she felt . It turned into anger after the first day of school cause now everything feels bad and it feels like it’s all their fault & her feelings don’t matter 😭. She’s having an emotional issue and solving it with physical punishment would only surpress happy and sadness more . Riley would’ve gotten real angry and rebellious
Bing bong is my man. I was genuinely torn up because what that means is the the Innocence of a child being left behind as they grow. That little side of you when you were a young boy, or girl, that gets left behind as we grow into todays world with the standards and maturity the world demands. Wonder how many things we’ve already forgotten that we held in high regard when we were little. Ngl sometimes with how life goes I want to go back to that innocent time for a second 😅
There are more reactors talking about being spanked as a kid and they all want to lock up sadness in the beginning. I think that's interesting. Raised to be tough, maybe? A "don't you dare cry" over something small? Or you just need to be tough in a harsh environment? Or is it a male thing. I think researches could learn a lot from analyzing reactors watching this movie 🤔
I think it's most adult's automatic reaction to want to lock sadness up because they want to see Riley be happy. Notice his reaction when the mom said it's important to be happy for the sake of others. They don't remember what it's like to be a kid so if anything, these reactors you're seeing a pattern from were likely required to be more mature for their age with a lot of responsibility as children. Simply put, these are adults who didn't have a carefree childhood.
I'll just leave this phrase here "stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about" and/or "fix your face" They tried to raise us tough to deal with the world, and to a degree it worked, but it also did a lot of internal damage. Can't speak about all black folk but it's a common experience (man or woman).
Favorite Pixar movie! As much as we try to classify certain emotions or parts of ourselves as "negative" or "positive", it's all still US in the end. And if it doesn't get proper attention and respect, great harm can be done.
The father was ruled by anger as his emotional leader. What’s really unfortunate here is that he didn’t try to understand the Enron behind the words. Also, how can you spank Riley for reacting? She literally did not have happiness there - it was only going to be fear, disgust, or anger. The dad did nothing to build a relationship! I was spanked as a kid and beat and it does not make you a better adult!
One thing I find interesting is how the child has joy running the show, the mum has sadness running it and the dad has anger, I’m sure when the parents were kids they had joy running the show too… goes to show the changes life can take
To me the movie was basically saying the parents are secretly unhappily married. In addition to Sadness being the emotion in charge, the mother's fantasies are of an imaginary man who ISN'T her husband, not even an idealized version of him, it's just someone else. The self-imposed, societally reinforced pressures of manhood and hypermasculinity make it easy enough to understand why the father's chief emotion is anger, but while at the dinner table, the time to be focused on his family, he's instead also checked out thinking of the hockey game. They're not actually happy together, with some combination of Riley and their own resignation likely being the glue that keeps them that way. The movie never explores it, but it's the way things are, much like actual life. Most of the time, "happily ever after" really looks like, "eh, we're here and we're making it work". Though it kind of disappoints me that all this seems to flying over this guy's head.
I love how the whole point of this movie is that we have to let our emotions run their course or else things will get very out of control very fast. Kids especially it’s so important to remember that they have access to all these emotions but their brains aren’t developed enough to experience them AND be logical people. None of Riley’s emotions know what to do because Riley doesn’t know what to do
@@ednBruh it’s a kid😭 Just teach the kid and if the kid still doesn’t respect the parent, simply give them consequences and tell them WHY you’re doing what you do. Ground them, take away certain privileges, but try not to beat a literal kid. I love your videos man and this is probably just how you grew up. Same here, but it brought terrible consequences to my family. As a fellow Christian, I know that there’s always a better way!
I can relate to Sadness as a child because I always cried everytime Daddy left for work lol, I was very clingy. :D Love this movie, super important lesson about feeling *all* your feelings.
That's actually an interesting conclusion. I never thought of it that way, but you're right. It makes sense that sadness would evolve into empathy as Riley grows. All the pain she experiences growing up would result in her feeling empathy for anyone else in a similar situation, just like how her parents empathized with her situation about missing home. Which is pretty much the message of the movie. Great stuff!
The reason we have a hard time seeing Bing bong's death scene or him disappearing it triggers us because deep down inside we all once imagine a friend to be in our lives. And to us they were real and we all had a wonderful childhood. At least in my case I know that's why this scene hit me so hard I remember my imaginary friend and it's kind of like those small memories you don't think about, but they do still exist inside us somewhere in our hearts and memories. But the emotions are a lot but Sadness is correct sadness is needed in our lives weather we can relate to or not is up to other people but to me I can see how Sadness can make us show Empathy for others and also bring in help when we need it, because when your sad it's the time most try to listen. if you try to hide all your emotions like Joy tries to do, it's not a good thing, in that case it's kind of toxic in my opinion because you can't live your life like that, and the reasons Sandess is reacting this way, it's because Raily's body is changing, and her moving away caused the emotions to become stronger and more mixed of confusion and sadness.
I understand that you grew up with the perception that physical discipline is the proper way to correct a child’s behavior/teach them, but it doesn’t work. Riley in this movie would probably qualify as clinically depressed, and one of the common symptoms of depression in children/teens is anger and irritability. So she’s not being agitated and disrespectful for no reason; when you are experiencing depression you cannot control your symptoms. The anger IS intense and would be considered “irrational” by outside people, but she is angry because her brain is MAKING her angry. Joy and Sadness being “banished” from the tower is actually pretty realistic to how depression might affect Riley. When Riley has Anger take the wheel, it’s because Joy isn’t an option. Anger has to try and make do with the situation, as do Fear and Disgust. So, “beating the anger out” of Riley won’t make her behave, it will just make Fear or Disgust the next controller. I grew up with childhood depression-so I know what the situation can be like for both kids and parents-and WOW was I angry all the time! I never did anything crazy, but the agitation would radiate off of me. There were times where my parents and I would get in yelling, crying, door-slamming arguments. It wasn’t because I didn’t respect my parents, or know how to deal with things, but because I was miserable and didn’t know why. A huge part of my remission was through the help of my parents. Instead of hitting me for being so angry, they asked me WHY I was so angry, and if they could help me stop being angry. This made it easier for my parents and myself to understand that I wasn’t a “bad” child, but rather a sick child. And let me emphasize that I did not go undisciplined! Middle school me spent many days being grounded and lectured at. Sure, I loathed it, but I am forever grateful that I was never physically disciplined. The grounding and lectures made it clear that my parents were punishing my behavior, rather than my feelings.
I wasn’t expecting for this movie to hit me as hard as it did when I first watched it, i obvs cried when bingbong dies. But when Riley came back home thattt got me also 😅
U have great observations. Our imagination can help us cope when all our emotions can't. However, Binging or Imagination is sacrificed the older we get because we are able to control all of our emotions better. Imagination is no longer needed as a coping mechanism. Sadness is just as vital as all the other emotions. There is nothing wrong with sadness. It helps u process things and destress to keep things balance. Great job on all of your perceptions.
I saw this movie in theaters, and it obviously wrecked me because I’m a human being lol. It’s now my 6 year old daughter’s favorite movie, so we watch it almost every day 🥲 seeing it from a parent’s perspective hits hard. When Joy is in the memory dump and looks at all of Riley’s old baby memories, I break every time. She speaks like a mom. It’s easy to fall in that trap of “I need to keep my kid as happy as possible to be a good parent”. But that doesn’t prepare them for life, and kids have all kinds of big feelings they don’t understand yet. You have to show up for them all, and teach them they don’t have to force joy when times are tough.
The nostalgic essence at the beginning...missing the sound of the light bouncing and the original excitement when we saw the castle and the arch and fireworks in 2D animation...we couldn't just skip it. We had to wait until it finished before the movie started. 😂 these kids now have no clue what that feeling is. Or waking up at 8 on a Saturday to watch cartoons for an hour with commercials before going outside and having to run home when the street lamps came on.
Love your set up, Adison! Your vibe, video edits, and everything are all so dope & authentic. Were subbed, tuned in and rooting for all of your channel’s successes 🙌🏽
Y'know, hearing Addison keep referring to the memories as marbles, it made me think about that phrase "lose your marbles". I mean, it fits with the premise of the movie, now that I think about it.
I was SOBBING when I went to see this movie in theaters. I went in honestly not knowing what the heck it was even about and walked out with red eyes and crying like a baby 😂
Whaaaat! I'm so excited you watched this! Pixar movies are on a totally different level from other animation studios. They resonate for all ages so I'm glad you gave this a shot. I hope you watch some more! 'Coco" and "Up" are fantastic. "Like a black Mirror episode," 🤣🤣🤣 loool accurate.
I love this movie so much, there's so many great messages to take from it. Back when disney movies had quality to them. That bit with bing bong at the end always gets me even at my big age 😂
@@Georgiaaara If nothing else you should DEFINITELY try to watch Soul. I went in with low expectations and was pleasantly surprised. Elemental was pretty charming too.
Give it a go. Disney definitely misses every now and again, but they still pump out some quality movies that touch on timeless themes, but a little more mature than old Disney movies in my opinion@@Georgiaaara
@@BOFAMET The animation and concept with Elemental was great. The creators inspiration for the movie was from personal experience so that endeared it more for me.
Seriously, the belt? That’s what you would choose to teach a child how to understand and regulate emotions? It’s typical of lazy, abusive and controlling parents with double standards. I encourage all families with these patterns to level up and do the work.
Do you consider yourself to be smarter than God? Because that is where I got my guidance for situations like this. You can keep your new age discipline methods. Telling a parent “Shut Up” is not acceptable communication whatsoever. Giving a whooping for certain behaviors is because I LOVE the child and want them to understand what behaviors can have immediate consequences. Not for the sake of just beating on people for no reason. 🤦🏾♂️ -Adison
@@edn Where does it say that in the Bible? A child says shut up and you hit them, then what? What was the lesson? What did they learn from that other than to be scared their parent will hurt them? If you’re gonna talk to them about their behavior and tell them why it’s wrong after you hit them then what was the point of hitting them? If you said shut up and your child hit you, how will you deal with that? How can you explain it’s wrong from them to hit you for that behavior when you hit them for the same thing? Where does the line get drawn? Why is it okay to hit a small defenseless child for that behavior but not your parents, or your spouse, or your friends, or your coworkers, or strangers?
@@danimoorehead a conversation will definitely be involved as well and explained before or after the whooping has been delivered. They will know full well why they received the punishment they did and exactly what was wrong about it. As far as the scripture is concerned go checkout Proverbs 13:24. -Adison
@@edn That’s exactly the scripture I expected but what do you think a rod is? A rod is used to lead sheep, it’s to show them who has authority. You don’t hit the sheep with the rod. That scripture means to lead your child and give them guidance, not hit them.
Lol and I knew you asked me for the scripture to bring up this exact point. Read the full scripture for context the word “chasteneth” is used and in case you don’t know the definition of chastisement it deals with physical punishment. And “betimes” means in short time or occasionally. Guidance is intended and and an occasional whooping when a child acts out of line is a method to lead them in the right direction and to understand not only right and wrong but that consequences can come from that. -Adison
"Our" you don't seem to be speaking for me or what I represent. Especially not talking about crack the way you did. Do better & be better. Sounds like you could have used a belt growing up. -Adison
@@SpidermanandhisAmazingFriends lol I'm going back and forth with someone with the username "SpidermanandhisAmazingFriends" this must be a kid who is fresh off of just getting a whooping and found this video 😂😂. Go clean up your room before your dad gets home. -Adison
@@Nyx_2142 nah he actually raised me and was/ is present my entire life. Sorry to ruin your mean little joke you had going though. 🤷🏾♂️ You’re more than welcome to try again. -Adison
The best way I can understand the character of bing bong is childhood imagination before we hit a certain point in our growing up stages and it dies bing bong's death I feel is the visual and literal transcribing of that😢😢
lol pls stop joking about abusing kids bro :-( I get that it's common in our communities but it doesn't make it right. I'm sorry your parents did that to you though. Ultimately parents should be the safe place for their kids. That type of behavior even if normalized can make it so that kids have no safe space to go to. Kids don't deserve violence, they deserve understanding and patience.
I appreciate you for tuning in much love! But all jokes aside If a kids tells their parents to “Shut up” that is definitely grounds for a spanking. Disciplining your children with spankings is safe. My parents did it and I thank them for it. I’d rather discipline my child if they talked crazy to me like that out of love than have them say it to a stranger or someone who doesn’t care about them and they get into an altercation and potentially get seriously hurt if not killed for saying whatever comes to their mind. And this is not a concept my community came up with this is direction given from the good book! -Adison
I agree. Often teaches children to grow up and accept violence as love. End up in relationships where they are told "I'm only hurting you because I love you. This is for your own good to teach you to be better". This why domestic abuse of all genders is so high. People don't leave cause they feel like they deserve it or it's what they are familiar with 🥲🥲🥲 hope we can move past that one day
@@aleiaknightwith respect, I think violence verses discipline is many times twisted. Yes I’m sure some think what they’re doing is discipline, which is where there is a problem. But usually adults are thankful for them once they grow up since that kept them from worse situations later. The point isn’t “beating” children to discipline them. Animal kingdom does use an association to those triggers as a lesson many times, and we are part of the animal kingdom. Out of love not malice. And thankfully we as intelligent creatures know the difference.. It’s not used over every single issue, mostly it is a hug and a talk.
Please don’t have children until you can work through the trauma you’ve had to live through. There is absolutely zero reason someone should be whipping a child with a belt,period! I am sorry you had to go through that and know that it was wrong and you didn’t deserve it.
Only 65% of kids have an imaginary friend, so it's not surprising that you didn't. I did. Mine was a giant black unicorn. I can't remember how old I was before I left it behind. 7 or 8 I think.
Beating a child is nothing to joke about. Beating a child with a belt is NOTHING to joke about. Hard to believe for the rest of the civilized world that physically disciplining children is still legal in the US. Sometimes I think u people are so lost.
This is a Disney film reaction…just chill. 10/10 if I ever hear a kid tell their parent to shut up (and they aren’t an infant of course) then I’d definitely recommend that child get a whooping. Period. End of discussion. You are not changing my mind on that. I’ll stick to what God says on this issue and not some random person who gets triggered by Pixar Disney reaction videos. -Adison
@@edn Praying that god never blesses you with a child you can abuse. You should seriously consider psychological health since you clearly have a lot you need to process and work through if you think using a belt on a child is anything related to love, and using the warped view of scripture that you CHOOSE as the interpretation you want to follow as justification is a disgrace to everything Jesus stood for. It makes sense if you psychologically must force yourself to believe this, because if it isn't true, then how can you conceptualize the abuse you faced as a child as worth it in the end. It can be much easier to believe it made you stronger than to accept that you were cruelly mistreated and dehumanized. You deserve to have your autonomy respected, and so does every child. I pray you get the help you need. I'm begging you to please reconsider.
@@saramarshall1082 Maybe you are talking about some other fake God because the bible actually gives specific instructions about how to raise children. Maybe you should read the bible before writing comments like this. Also the lack of a "G" on the God you referred to lets me know a lot... -Adison
All the s*** you were talking about Bing Bong, I was scared it wouldn't affect you like it did. Sorry but I'm so glad it did lol. I was a full on mess, I had to pause n walk away! Great reaction to a fantastic movie! I can't wait for the 2nd one! ❤
In 2015, they moved to San Francisco so their dad could take a job that requires talking to investors up front. That screams techbro with a startup. I guarantee you he's a billionaire by now. They explained the emotions' purposes at the start. Anger makes sure things are fair for Riley, Fear keeps her safe, and Disgust keeps her from being poisoned (physically or socially). Bing Bong's last words: "take her to the moon for me." And that's why Riley grew up to be a crypto influencer. No bus is ever going to stop on a freeway onramp.
Boy I’m screaming “sadness needing a new hair color to help her mood” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you must have sisters and/or a wife bc that’s the damn truth! I have a hair color appt with fantasy colors in a few weeks bc I’m trying to convey “brave” to myself 🎉 6:54
..I feel kinda bad for you. In the black community, violence against your own children is not only seen as acceptable, but inevitable. That's deeply sad. No child deserves violence against them, especially from the GROWN ADULTS whose job and responsibility it is to raise them right in the first place. If you feel the need, as an adult, to physically harm a child, your own child, you did NOT do your job, imo. Unless your child is literally a diagnosed sociopath who actively harms others, there's no reason to put hands on a child - and even then, they need mental health help. Not beatings..
@@edn I'm grateful to my parents too, but that doesn't mean that I turn a blind eye to their mistakes. I appreciate that they did the best they could for us, bearing the burdens of their own parents too, but I'm definitely not raising my own kids like that. Learn from them, from the good stuff and the bad. That doesn't mean that you disrespect them.
@@yongeomma I can't speak to your parents. I don't know if they were God fearing folks or not but as far as my parents, they didn't make a "mistake" when it came to giving us a whooping if we were out of line. If I ever received a whooping in my youth I most likely deserved it. -Adison
Not the point, but Fog Horns is an amazing mascot! It plays on the location (San Diego), has a unique cheer, and is not racist! That last one seems to be a struggle for mascots.
Menah menah, doo doo dododo... (Memory that will not go away) A LOT of the things you like in this were PIXAR innovations that Disney appropriated when they ... bought ... Pixar. Things like out of pocket characters (Anger talking about swearing,) deep/thought provoking plot, the fun end credits, not to mention, the girl literally saves herself.
@@edn oh goodness no. But there are tons of Pixar shorts that are great. Like “kitbull” and “piper” kitbull I think would be great to react to. The Lovely Bones is just one of those movies that is really intense and I would like to watch y’all react to. Its a super natural drama that is originally a novel. Your Harry Potter reactions are my favorite so far though!
I'm VERY late but not you being a loud advocate for adult humans to refuse to VERBALLY communicate and only know violence. At least you don't hide your domestic violence use, I can not relate. Decolonizing your mind and learning to communicate will open a whole new world.
Depending on the type of behavior that we are dealing with then yeah I'm standing 10 toes down on a child getting a whooping. ESPECIALLY if a child tells a parent to "Shut Up" when they are a certain age. -Adison
it's interesting to think about, i feel like if a kid has been informed and nurtured then there is no room for bad behavior? and if something is out of line then there are consequences and that means people see you as an impolite or improper or mean person, people are who they are, beating them to stifle their agency just makes it worse, and it puts your ides of what is acceptable on them whereas maybe if the kid is on a sports team or classroom with many varying perspectives others would only find the "terrible" behavior only annoying or not so bad at all .. i would guess it is better to guide the child to seek out people that maintain health in their life, rather than imposing your flawed preferences
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It's so fun to see reactors go through the journey of "We have to get rid of Sadness" to "We need to let Sadness do her thing". The movie works at teaching its lesson!
She pissed me off sooo much in the beginning 💀😭
I don't get how people can't see how meta it is, so how could they get angry with something that is just a reflection of Riley's experiences? It's not like they're normal characters, they're emotions.
"Maybe she didn't need to dye her hair another color; maybe she needed to be listened to and understood." That's gonna hit for a lot of people I just know. So true. This movie has a lot to teach. Thanks for watching it, it's one of Pixar's best imo
Absolutely! Loved that he caught that and said it aloud.
Also appreciated the highlighted “Joy’s understanding how important Sadness really was,” and the need to express these feelings with others so as to work through them. 💯
However, the “compartmentalization” comment is a misunderstood lesson. After all, it’s a defense mechanism; an adult’s way of maintaining noncomplex views/memories of difficult situations. All emotions are real and important, deserving of validation. Hence the movie ending with Riley’s memories being made of mixed emotions, rather than a singular emotion. :)
Omg yes! Came here say this ❤
I always read the comments before a reaction video. I had no idea what this could possibly mean, but it was satisfying when it hit lol
That "take her to the moon for me" breaks me every time. It sounds almost like a parent letting go of their child for whatever reason, but much sadder because Bingbong ceased to exist and Riley would forget about him forever.
The saddest part is that the actor of Bingbong also cried when saying these last line
Was a really beautiful scene, between Bingbong and her breaking down to her parents after running away, this movie gives all the feels.
the saddest part for me is it reminds me that I had an imagination friend too, I remember the feeling and blur memories that I had one, but I cant remember what my imagination friend was. I don;t know how when and why he or she sacrificed him/herself for me in a dark moment to cheer me up. but I will bring myself to the moon, I promise.
My sons name is Riley. I had to give him to my parents (homelessness), and had another baby who was born when I was not homeless anymore who passed while I was getting things ready to get Riley back. So Bingbong saying "Go save Riley!" as he's fading away feels like it resonates in a way. I sobbed rewatching this movie
Let's just be clear:
If it is violence to hit a person your own age who is capable of defending themself, then it is *extremely* violent to hit someone who is incapable of defending themself (a child!) - no matter the skin colour!
Break the cycle of violence!!!
It's crazy to me that if you even THREATEN a grown adult, you can have charges put against you, but if you beat your child (who not only can't defend themselves, but doesn't want to because they love & fear you) then that's just discipline.
And it statistically is at best, slightly worse than alternative methods of discipline & more likely to push your child to be a criminal. If you believe the only way to discipline your child is to beat them, you shouldn't be a parent because clearly you don't have the maturity for it.
Raising kids is tricky. You don't want to be too much of one thing, not even "too loving"'.
Raise your kid giving everything they want to keep them happy, they become spoiled brats.
Raising your kid by holding their hand in anything they're supposed to do alone, they don't know how to do anything.
Raising your kid in a way where you console them every time they have a problem, they become overly dependent on you for the most minor inconvenience.
I hope I don't need to explain what happens if you go to the other extreme (Neglecting your child, being apathetic to their feelings, and absent parenting).
There's a difference between using force to beat a child and discipline a child. One or two spankings will do just fine, anything more than that is just sadistic.
You don't need to make them bleed and turn black-and-blue from bruises to make your point across.
@user-ih8np2fm1z nah. Frankly spanking has just been shown to make parents feel better. Basically nothing else. If you can't communicate why what they're doing is wrong you shouldn't be throwing hands.
@@Kittsim As someone who works with suicidal people on a daily basis all I can say is, a parent should ask themself:
"is my child old enough to understand reason?"
If yes, reason with your child. If you spank them they won't reason "love" as the reason, i GUARANTEE you that.
If no, spanking your child will scar them cuz they won't undersand the reason why you're spanking them.
In no situation is hurting your child the right choice. ever.
@@Kittsim "Spanking has been shown to make parents feel better."
And that's the problem. That's not disciplining or spanking, that's beating your child.
The difference between disciplining and beating your child is the intention. A disciplining parent would know that using force should be used responsibly and sparingly, and that good verbal communication is still necessary.
Bing Bong gets me every time 😢 as adults, we know that's a piece of childhood being left behind. We're all grinding through life, and as we've grown, we had to keep leaving little pieces of that childlike spirit behind. It's tough out here.
Facts... But we gotta keep it positive! What are some "Bing Bongs" that you HAVE held on to?
Like fart jokes! 😅❤
Edit: My daughter isn't quite 4 yet and she already knows that farts are funny as long as you say excuse me lmfao
I work with adults with learning disabilities. They've all got the dirty minds of ten year old boys. Innuendos and fart jokes are a constant, as well as just general silliness and childish behaviour. Growing up sucks. It never takes a new staff member long to settle into being a weirdo and silly like the rest of us, and stop caring so much what other ppl are thinking about us. It relieves a lot of day to day life pressure, even if the general public don't "get" us 🤣
you can get him back love, find that part of peace in yourself to enjoy in the seconds you have
Half way through it made me so sad to hear you say you would beat the feeling of anger out of a child, I hope that is something that you reconsider. Emotions are definitely not easy to go through and kids need their parents to help and guide them gently. Anger can't get rid of anger, it only fuels it, even if it is suppressed in the moment, it will explode later. Parents can guide children with love even if they don't like their reactions, hitting a child doesn't need to ever be the answer.
💯 agree with you!!!
Thank God he doesn't have a child 😅
The reaction to Bing Bong was also concerning. Like you have to be boring, and no fun to contribute to society. Teens and adults need to play, too.
@@emmaebaldwin I had an invisible friend named George that I don't remember but I can only hope that he went out in a blaze of glory like Bing Bong. RIP George and Bing Bong.
same, that kind of triggered me as a person who was dealing with physical abuse :/
Man I haven't cried during this movie since the first time I watched it. But watching your realization of BingBong's importance and not quite being able to express why it hit so hard... tears. Never have been able to rightly explain it but dang did that funky creature make me cry. Excellent reaction. Thanks.
To me, Bing Bong represents many things, including faith, innocence, and the spirit.
I love you even more than before for covering this movie!
Adison, I'm with you man. The last part of Bing Bong's piece in this story legit still brings me to tears. Just watching your video and yep... right there. "One more time, Joy. I've got a good feeling about this one."
Onions.
I also really enjoy that while Joy is kinda like the ring leader for Riley’s emotions, mom’s is Sadness and Dad’s is Anger. The other emotions help temper and enrich the core emotion into other emotions like Empathy (Sadness) and Passion (Anger)
Beating children doesn't actually teach them right from wrong or why their behavior is bad. It just teaches them that if they do something again you will physically hurt them. If you can't discipline and guide your children in the right direction without resorting to violence you're not a very good parent.
This! The only reason spanking "works" is because it teaches pain avoidance. However, no actual lesson is taught
@@luna.tic_7409 Yeah, and the only thing it teaches the kid is to avoid misbehaving in front of their parents. It teaches them that they should be sneaky about it.
But sometimes the kid take not getting hit for granted and might not take u that serious unless u raise em right they gon disrespect tf outta u
@@okeykid780okea9Raising kids right takes a hell of a lot more effort than beating the shit out of them. That’s why parenting is hard and should be taken more seriously.
Kids stop giving a shit about you if you beat them, they’ll just be scared or angry at you as they grow up. They’ll just learn to care about not getting you mad, not about the person you are.
@@BambooSoop I’m not saying that’s the only way to discipline em and have u heard of the belt u can’t be saying beat the shit outta them like that cuz that sounds crazy I’m just saying raise em a certain way it’ll never have to come to that
The purpose of anger is to set boundaries and it gives us the drive to take action.
About the meaningful purpose of each emotion, they said it in the begining of the movie: Fear keeps Riley safe, Disgust keeps her from being poisoned and Anger is very passionate about things being fair.
Yeah - at the start of the movie Joy does not know what Sadness is for.
You talking about getting the belt when it comes to dealing with a child’s emotions made my stomach turn. It’s really sad to see. And don’t tell me you still turned out right despite the spankings, because your immediate willingness to turn violent on a defenseless child is far from right. It‘s horrible and weak. I got hit once by my dad and many times by school mates and it severely broke my heart every time.
I think people say it’s as a joke sometimes but it’s so so disturbing
it is wild because if someone ran up to you on the street and did that you would react defensively or get the police or try to toss them in jail, how is that a tool of teaching .. why would you want that in your house and the kid is already probably confused and trying to figure things out and you are just going to make them more perplexed and realize they have no trust and safety and loyalty at the core with the only people they have to rely on, such a shame
@@alexcanning5383do you think he was joking? i noticed in some videos i think he is into the mythology of catholicism, and it really confounds me how like people are into this or that but it doesn't seem to shake them awake, even with 'so called' rules to be a good person .. i feel like it just is and can not be taught like if you are a person to be nice to plants and animals and kids that are trying to grow, how would you even convince or persuade a person to be gentle and kind, and would you want to be friends with someone that didn't have that understood from the starting line
@@annakatherine2489 he’s not joking. He’s justifying it in the comments because that’s what happened to him.
@@annakatherine2489 “the mythology of Catholicism”. Yeah okay buddy
Bing Bong a real one. That part absolutely wrecked me and no matter how many times I see it I still get emotional. The writing in this movie was top notch.
Kind of ironic how you kept saying "anger shouldnt take the lead" and then your reaction to Rileys anger was to respond with anger to the level of hitting a child
That wasn't anger that was called disciplining a child who is out of line. Correcting a bad behavior because you love the child. Something the good book advises by the way!
-Adison
@@edn yikes
@@edn "Good" book.... Yeah
... 😬 Please don't ever have children.
@@edn which some form of anger drives you to do...
@@ednif the “good book” is telling you that hitting your children is in any way shape or form okay.. or even in the vicinity, then it isn’t a good book. Nor is it a religion worth following. You’re talking about a book where a god murdered the first born of every family that didn’t put blood above their door.. who supposedly drowned the entire planet.. because he didn’t like his creations. I wouldn’t base my thoughts on that book. Let alone let it shape my life.
All emotions can be harmful when not managed and balanced.
Anger can cloud your judgment.
Sadness takes away motivation.
Disgust can lead to prejudice.
Fear can lead to stagnancy.
And Joy can become toxic positivity.
This movie helps open up a serious discussion about identifying and managing our feelings before they control us.
Emotions are not for the weak, not having control of them is a sign of weakness.
lol i love your reactions but the amount of times you expressed wanting to spank Riley in the first 5 minutes as she was a toddler was crazy 😂 and throughout the movie . You didn’t once seem to mention what she was going through internally at all in the first half. She just moved away from her friends and everything she knows . She was trying to be happy for her parents and wasn’t mature enough to talk to her parents about how she felt . It turned into anger after the first day of school cause now everything feels bad and it feels like it’s all their fault & her feelings don’t matter 😭. She’s having an emotional issue and solving it with physical punishment would only surpress happy and sadness more . Riley would’ve gotten real angry and rebellious
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If Riley was his daughter she would've been ran away & probably never had that moment of realization☹
Bing bong is my man. I was genuinely torn up because what that means is the the Innocence of a child being left behind as they grow. That little side of you when you were a young boy, or girl, that gets left behind as we grow into todays world with the standards and maturity the world demands. Wonder how many things we’ve already forgotten that we held in high regard when we were little.
Ngl sometimes with how life goes I want to go back to that innocent time for a second 😅
There are more reactors talking about being spanked as a kid and they all want to lock up sadness in the beginning. I think that's interesting. Raised to be tough, maybe? A "don't you dare cry" over something small? Or you just need to be tough in a harsh environment? Or is it a male thing. I think researches could learn a lot from analyzing reactors watching this movie 🤔
I think it's most adult's automatic reaction to want to lock sadness up because they want to see Riley be happy. Notice his reaction when the mom said it's important to be happy for the sake of others. They don't remember what it's like to be a kid so if anything, these reactors you're seeing a pattern from were likely required to be more mature for their age with a lot of responsibility as children.
Simply put, these are adults who didn't have a carefree childhood.
I was raised like that too! 46F here! It’s so sad to think about and try to do differently as an adult 😢
I'll just leave this phrase here "stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about" and/or "fix your face" They tried to raise us tough to deal with the world, and to a degree it worked, but it also did a lot of internal damage. Can't speak about all black folk but it's a common experience (man or woman).
@@sjb4280either way it’s abuse for everyone
@@lavinder11 No, he is openly justifying abusing children in his comments. He is 100% meaning it in a toxic manner.
Favorite Pixar movie! As much as we try to classify certain emotions or parts of ourselves as "negative" or "positive", it's all still US in the end. And if it doesn't get proper attention and respect, great harm can be done.
The father was ruled by anger as his emotional leader. What’s really unfortunate here is that he didn’t try to understand the Enron behind the words. Also, how can you spank Riley for reacting? She literally did not have happiness there - it was only going to be fear, disgust, or anger. The dad did nothing to build a relationship! I was spanked as a kid and beat and it does not make you a better adult!
Counselors love this movie.... it explains emotions so well. Sadness & Joy bring us together as humans.... that's why they're the main ones.
One thing I find interesting is how the child has joy running the show, the mum has sadness running it and the dad has anger, I’m sure when the parents were kids they had joy running the show too… goes to show the changes life can take
To me the movie was basically saying the parents are secretly unhappily married. In addition to Sadness being the emotion in charge, the mother's fantasies are of an imaginary man who ISN'T her husband, not even an idealized version of him, it's just someone else. The self-imposed, societally reinforced pressures of manhood and hypermasculinity make it easy enough to understand why the father's chief emotion is anger, but while at the dinner table, the time to be focused on his family, he's instead also checked out thinking of the hockey game. They're not actually happy together, with some combination of Riley and their own resignation likely being the glue that keeps them that way. The movie never explores it, but it's the way things are, much like actual life. Most of the time, "happily ever after" really looks like, "eh, we're here and we're making it work". Though it kind of disappoints me that all this seems to flying over this guy's head.
I love how the whole point of this movie is that we have to let our emotions run their course or else things will get very out of control very fast. Kids especially it’s so important to remember that they have access to all these emotions but their brains aren’t developed enough to experience them AND be logical people. None of Riley’s emotions know what to do because Riley doesn’t know what to do
This was really fun to watch with you, I relived my whole evolution of feelings about the characters 😊
30:15 LMAO this was literally me, I was taking the piss out of Bing Bong but why was I crying?? I couldn't even tell ya
Anger is good because it lets us know that a boundary has been violated or that we have been hurt in some way.
Beltin a kid is wild
Hearing a kid tell their parent to shut up is wild.
-Adison
@@ednBruh it’s a kid😭 Just teach the kid and if the kid still doesn’t respect the parent, simply give them consequences and tell them WHY you’re doing what you do. Ground them, take away certain privileges, but try not to beat a literal kid. I love your videos man and this is probably just how you grew up. Same here, but it brought terrible consequences to my family. As a fellow Christian, I know that there’s always a better way!
I can relate to Sadness as a child because I always cried everytime Daddy left for work lol, I was very clingy. :D Love this movie, super important lesson about feeling *all* your feelings.
Sadness is actually empathy.
That's actually an interesting conclusion. I never thought of it that way, but you're right. It makes sense that sadness would evolve into empathy as Riley grows. All the pain she experiences growing up would result in her feeling empathy for anyone else in a similar situation, just like how her parents empathized with her situation about missing home. Which is pretty much the message of the movie. Great stuff!
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Him: Come on, y'all. You're trying to make it seem like all sad people are short & plump.
Me: I am! 🙋🏽♀️
The reason we have a hard time seeing Bing bong's death scene or him disappearing it triggers us because deep down inside we all once imagine a friend to be in our lives. And to us they were real and we all had a wonderful childhood. At least in my case I know that's why this scene hit me so hard I remember my imaginary friend and it's kind of like those small memories you don't think about, but they do still exist inside us somewhere in our hearts and memories.
But the emotions are a lot but Sadness is correct sadness is needed in our lives weather we can relate to or not is up to other people but to me I can see how Sadness can make us show Empathy for others and also bring in help when we need it, because when your sad it's the time most try to listen. if you try to hide all your emotions like Joy tries to do, it's not a good thing, in that case it's kind of toxic in my opinion because you can't live your life like that, and the reasons Sandess is reacting this way, it's because Raily's body is changing, and her moving away caused the emotions to become stronger and more mixed of confusion and sadness.
I understand that you grew up with the perception that physical discipline is the proper way to correct a child’s behavior/teach them, but it doesn’t work.
Riley in this movie would probably qualify as clinically depressed, and one of the common symptoms of depression in children/teens is anger and irritability. So she’s not being agitated and disrespectful for no reason; when you are experiencing depression you cannot control your symptoms. The anger IS intense and would be considered “irrational” by outside people, but she is angry because her brain is MAKING her angry.
Joy and Sadness being “banished” from the tower is actually pretty realistic to how depression might affect Riley. When Riley has Anger take the wheel, it’s because Joy isn’t an option. Anger has to try and make do with the situation, as do Fear and Disgust. So, “beating the anger out” of Riley won’t make her behave, it will just make Fear or Disgust the next controller.
I grew up with childhood depression-so I know what the situation can be like for both kids and parents-and WOW was I angry all the time! I never did anything crazy, but the agitation would radiate off of me. There were times where my parents and I would get in yelling, crying, door-slamming arguments. It wasn’t because I didn’t respect my parents, or know how to deal with things, but because I was miserable and didn’t know why.
A huge part of my remission was through the help of my parents. Instead of hitting me for being so angry, they asked me WHY I was so angry, and if they could help me stop being angry. This made it easier for my parents and myself to understand that I wasn’t a “bad” child, but rather a sick child.
And let me emphasize that I did not go undisciplined! Middle school me spent many days being grounded and lectured at. Sure, I loathed it, but I am forever grateful that I was never physically disciplined. The grounding and lectures made it clear that my parents were punishing my behavior, rather than my feelings.
Aint no way you foreshadowed anxiety and envy💀 (orange hair and when you talk about envy)
I wasn’t expecting for this movie to hit me as hard as it did when I first watched it, i obvs cried when bingbong dies. But when Riley came back home thattt got me also 😅
U have great observations. Our imagination can help us cope when all our emotions can't. However, Binging or Imagination is sacrificed the older we get because we are able to control all of our emotions better. Imagination is no longer needed as a coping mechanism. Sadness is just as vital as all the other emotions. There is nothing wrong with sadness. It helps u process things and destress to keep things balance. Great job on all of your perceptions.
I will randomly belt out "877 cash now" knowing i dont have a structured settlement😂😂
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Songs come up in my head all the time that I don’t even know where I heard them first 😂
Your take on the emotions not being far apart… bingo!
We are whole beings and need to embrace them all to be whole for those around us.
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I saw this movie in theaters, and it obviously wrecked me because I’m a human being lol. It’s now my 6 year old daughter’s favorite movie, so we watch it almost every day 🥲 seeing it from a parent’s perspective hits hard. When Joy is in the memory dump and looks at all of Riley’s old baby memories, I break every time. She speaks like a mom. It’s easy to fall in that trap of “I need to keep my kid as happy as possible to be a good parent”. But that doesn’t prepare them for life, and kids have all kinds of big feelings they don’t understand yet. You have to show up for them all, and teach them they don’t have to force joy when times are tough.
17:01 - "Mutated version of the Cheshire cat that had no regard for the cardio at all" 😂😂😂 ahahahahah
The nostalgic essence at the beginning...missing the sound of the light bouncing and the original excitement when we saw the castle and the arch and fireworks in 2D animation...we couldn't just skip it. We had to wait until it finished before the movie started. 😂 these kids now have no clue what that feeling is.
Or waking up at 8 on a Saturday to watch cartoons for an hour with commercials before going outside and having to run home when the street lamps came on.
Watched this in the cinema with my daughters. It was quite a struggle trying to keep my composure.
This is a great thumbnail btw. I have yet to see anyone else have sadness be the focus!
Love your set up, Adison! Your vibe, video edits, and everything are all so dope & authentic. Were subbed, tuned in and rooting for all of your channel’s successes 🙌🏽
Y'know, hearing Addison keep referring to the memories as marbles, it made me think about that phrase "lose your marbles". I mean, it fits with the premise of the movie, now that I think about it.
Don't worry. The Bing Bong part hit all os us 😅 Love your reaction to this. I love this movie so much.
Take her to the moon for me, gets me everytime haha just saw the second one yesterday, definitely excited for a reaction to the sequel.
I enjoyed watching this with you. Thank you for sharing.
I was SOBBING when I went to see this movie in theaters. I went in honestly not knowing what the heck it was even about and walked out with red eyes and crying like a baby 😂
Whaaaat! I'm so excited you watched this! Pixar movies are on a totally different level from other animation studios. They resonate for all ages so I'm glad you gave this a shot. I hope you watch some more! 'Coco" and "Up" are fantastic. "Like a black Mirror episode," 🤣🤣🤣 loool accurate.
Coco and Up are both beautiful.
I agree, Coco and Up are great movies!
I love this movie so much, there's so many great messages to take from it. Back when disney movies had quality to them. That bit with bing bong at the end always gets me even at my big age 😂
Why do ppl say this? Encanto? Soul? Elemental? Turning Red? All very recent and quality Disney movies
@@lydiaking322 Tbf you have a point. I've not watched Soul or Elemental but as for the others, yeah you're right.
@@Georgiaaara If nothing else you should DEFINITELY try to watch Soul. I went in with low expectations and was pleasantly surprised. Elemental was pretty charming too.
Give it a go. Disney definitely misses every now and again, but they still pump out some quality movies that touch on timeless themes, but a little more mature than old Disney movies in my opinion@@Georgiaaara
@@BOFAMET The animation and concept with Elemental was great. The creators inspiration for the movie was from personal experience so that endeared it more for me.
Fighting anger with anger doesn't make things better, sir. Think again.
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Have you noticed how sadness is in command of mum's and joy is the last on the left and on dad's is hunger
Seriously, the belt? That’s what you would choose to teach a child how to understand and regulate emotions? It’s typical of lazy, abusive and controlling parents with double standards. I encourage all families with these patterns to level up and do the work.
Do you consider yourself to be smarter than God? Because that is where I got my guidance for situations like this. You can keep your new age discipline methods. Telling a parent “Shut Up” is not acceptable communication whatsoever. Giving a whooping for certain behaviors is because I LOVE the child and want them to understand what behaviors can have immediate consequences. Not for the sake of just beating on people for no reason. 🤦🏾♂️
-Adison
@@edn Where does it say that in the Bible?
A child says shut up and you hit them, then what? What was the lesson? What did they learn from that other than to be scared their parent will hurt them? If you’re gonna talk to them about their behavior and tell them why it’s wrong after you hit them then what was the point of hitting them? If you said shut up and your child hit you, how will you deal with that? How can you explain it’s wrong from them to hit you for that behavior when you hit them for the same thing? Where does the line get drawn? Why is it okay to hit a small defenseless child for that behavior but not your parents, or your spouse, or your friends, or your coworkers, or strangers?
@@danimoorehead a conversation will definitely be involved as well and explained before or after the whooping has been delivered. They will know full well why they received the punishment they did and exactly what was wrong about it. As far as the scripture is concerned go checkout Proverbs 13:24.
-Adison
@@edn That’s exactly the scripture I expected but what do you think a rod is? A rod is used to lead sheep, it’s to show them who has authority. You don’t hit the sheep with the rod. That scripture means to lead your child and give them guidance, not hit them.
Lol and I knew you asked me for the scripture to bring up this exact point. Read the full scripture for context the word “chasteneth” is used and in case you don’t know the definition of chastisement it deals with physical punishment. And “betimes” means in short time or occasionally. Guidance is intended and and an occasional whooping when a child acts out of line is a method to lead them in the right direction and to understand not only right and wrong but that consequences can come from that.
-Adison
Nothing like hearing someone brag about the worst stereotypes of our community. Maybe next he'll brag about selling crack 🙄
"Our" you don't seem to be speaking for me or what I represent. Especially not talking about crack the way you did. Do better & be better. Sounds like you could have used a belt growing up.
-Adison
@@edn
I love how child abuse promoters think no one else was abused growing up.
"Do and be better" 🤣 gtfo
@@SpidermanandhisAmazingFriends lol I'm going back and forth with someone with the username "SpidermanandhisAmazingFriends" this must be a kid who is fresh off of just getting a whooping and found this video 😂😂. Go clean up your room before your dad gets home.
-Adison
@@edn "before your dad gets home." At least his dad came home. Yours still gone for milk?
@@Nyx_2142 nah he actually raised me and was/ is present my entire life. Sorry to ruin your mean little joke you had going though. 🤷🏾♂️ You’re more than welcome to try again.
-Adison
The best way I can understand the character of bing bong is childhood imagination before we hit a certain point in our growing up stages and it dies bing bong's death I feel is the visual and literal transcribing of that😢😢
Gotta check out the 2nd one now.
lol pls stop joking about abusing kids bro :-( I get that it's common in our communities but it doesn't make it right. I'm sorry your parents did that to you though. Ultimately parents should be the safe place for their kids. That type of behavior even if normalized can make it so that kids have no safe space to go to. Kids don't deserve violence, they deserve understanding and patience.
I appreciate you for tuning in much love! But all jokes aside If a kids tells their parents to “Shut up” that is definitely grounds for a spanking. Disciplining your children with spankings is safe. My parents did it and I thank them for it. I’d rather discipline my child if they talked crazy to me like that out of love than have them say it to a stranger or someone who doesn’t care about them and they get into an altercation and potentially get seriously hurt if not killed for saying whatever comes to their mind. And this is not a concept my community came up with this is direction given from the good book!
-Adison
I agree. Often teaches children to grow up and accept violence as love. End up in relationships where they are told "I'm only hurting you because I love you. This is for your own good to teach you to be better". This why domestic abuse of all genders is so high. People don't leave cause they feel like they deserve it or it's what they are familiar with 🥲🥲🥲 hope we can move past that one day
@@aleiaknightwith respect, I think violence verses discipline is many times twisted. Yes I’m sure some think what they’re doing is discipline, which is where there is a problem. But usually adults are thankful for them once they grow up since that kept them from worse situations later. The point isn’t “beating” children to discipline them. Animal kingdom does use an association to those triggers as a lesson many times, and we are part of the animal kingdom. Out of love not malice. And thankfully we as intelligent creatures know the difference.. It’s not used over every single issue, mostly it is a hug and a talk.
@@aleiaknight me too. :-(
it is really sad to hear
6:14-6:23 and 11:06-11:16. Why you gotta do sadness like that🤣🤣🤣😭😭
The double mint gum and mentos commercial songs always play in my head randomly 😅
Bing Bong demolished me in theater 😭
Please don’t have children until you can work through the trauma you’ve had to live through. There is absolutely zero reason someone should be whipping a child with a belt,period! I am sorry you had to go through that and know that it was wrong and you didn’t deserve it.
The second movie is coming out this summer guys and I'm excited!
Only 65% of kids have an imaginary friend, so it's not surprising that you didn't. I did. Mine was a giant black unicorn. I can't remember how old I was before I left it behind. 7 or 8 I think.
I forgot Sadness is voiced by Phyllis Smith from The Office. Aww Phyllis. ❤️
Cinema Therapy went through and explained a lot of the psychological bits.
Bing Bong disappearing was shockingly sad. RIP big dawg
My gum commercial song is “Oh oh oh oreillyssss auto parts AWWWWO”
Beating a child is nothing to joke about. Beating a child with a belt is NOTHING to joke about. Hard to believe for the rest of the civilized world that physically disciplining children is still legal in the US. Sometimes I think u people are so lost.
This is a Disney film reaction…just chill. 10/10 if I ever hear a kid tell their parent to shut up (and they aren’t an infant of course) then I’d definitely recommend that child get a whooping. Period. End of discussion. You are not changing my mind on that. I’ll stick to what God says on this issue and not some random person who gets triggered by Pixar Disney reaction videos.
-Adison
@@ednGod tells you to physically assault your children?☠️
@@edn Praying that god never blesses you with a child you can abuse. You should seriously consider psychological health since you clearly have a lot you need to process and work through if you think using a belt on a child is anything related to love, and using the warped view of scripture that you CHOOSE as the interpretation you want to follow as justification is a disgrace to everything Jesus stood for. It makes sense if you psychologically must force yourself to believe this, because if it isn't true, then how can you conceptualize the abuse you faced as a child as worth it in the end. It can be much easier to believe it made you stronger than to accept that you were cruelly mistreated and dehumanized. You deserve to have your autonomy respected, and so does every child. I pray you get the help you need. I'm begging you to please reconsider.
@@saramarshall1082 Maybe you are talking about some other fake God because the bible actually gives specific instructions about how to raise children. Maybe you should read the bible before writing comments like this. Also the lack of a "G" on the God you referred to lets me know a lot...
-Adison
@@edn You say that as if there aren't MANY translations of the Bible that people follow as devoutly as you do yours.
Okay now you gotta watch the trailer for Inside Out 2.
All the s*** you were talking about Bing Bong, I was scared it wouldn't affect you like it did. Sorry but I'm so glad it did lol. I was a full on mess, I had to pause n walk away! Great reaction to a fantastic movie! I can't wait for the 2nd one! ❤
"I bet if sadness just died...
...her hair another color" 😭
😂🤣😭
-Adison
Inside out 2 is just as good and it's in theaters right now!
I’m excited to check it out! I’ll wait till it comes out on streaming platforms so I can check it out with y’all 👌🏾
-Adison
5:15 as a kid my dad took me and my brothers to McDonald's for a month. Definitely can eat anything
If you don't get emotional watching a self-sacrifice, you have something wrong with you. You are a genuine guy. RIP BingBong
Rip bing bong
We will miss u ❤
Forever and ever… #RIPBingBong 😔
-Adison
Would love to see you watch the movie Soul!
In 2015, they moved to San Francisco so their dad could take a job that requires talking to investors up front. That screams techbro with a startup. I guarantee you he's a billionaire by now.
They explained the emotions' purposes at the start. Anger makes sure things are fair for Riley, Fear keeps her safe, and Disgust keeps her from being poisoned (physically or socially).
Bing Bong's last words: "take her to the moon for me." And that's why Riley grew up to be a crypto influencer.
No bus is ever going to stop on a freeway onramp.
You had me screaming talking bout oh naw they need to lock sadness up and only bring her out for spankings and funerals 😂😂😂 I’m dead!
I’m so excited for inside out 2 ☺️💯
Boy I’m screaming “sadness needing a new hair color to help her mood” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you must have sisters and/or a wife bc that’s the damn truth! I have a hair color appt with fantasy colors in a few weeks bc I’m trying to convey “brave” to myself 🎉 6:54
..I feel kinda bad for you. In the black community, violence against your own children is not only seen as acceptable, but inevitable. That's deeply sad. No child deserves violence against them, especially from the GROWN ADULTS whose job and responsibility it is to raise them right in the first place. If you feel the need, as an adult, to physically harm a child, your own child, you did NOT do your job, imo. Unless your child is literally a diagnosed sociopath who actively harms others, there's no reason to put hands on a child - and even then, they need mental health help. Not beatings..
That’s why some of these kids be acting the way they are
No need to feel bad for me. I’m blessed and I’m extremely thankful for the way my parents raised me.
-Adison
@@edn I'm grateful to my parents too, but that doesn't mean that I turn a blind eye to their mistakes. I appreciate that they did the best they could for us, bearing the burdens of their own parents too, but I'm definitely not raising my own kids like that. Learn from them, from the good stuff and the bad. That doesn't mean that you disrespect them.
@@yongeomma I can't speak to your parents. I don't know if they were God fearing folks or not but as far as my parents, they didn't make a "mistake" when it came to giving us a whooping if we were out of line. If I ever received a whooping in my youth I most likely deserved it.
-Adison
@@edn That's a terrible thing to say. NO YOU DIDN'T. And you guys refusing to accept that puts other people, CHILDREN, in danger.
The second movie has new emotions I can’t wait to see it
Yea bingbong gets all of us..also sadness is voiced by Phyllis from the office so she looks a lot like her lol
“im finna have a great life”😭
Have you seen Pixar’s Soul? You should react to it if you haven’t yet.
Not yet! But I can definitely add that to the list!
-Adison
This such emotional film as adult 😊
Man I forgot these Disney films can sneak up on you like that sometimes from the emotional standpoint 😅
-Adison
@@ednYes, they will be out with second film. I cry to much while watching CoCo.
Não, tchau
You gotta see inside out 2 it is just as good as the first.
Not the point, but Fog Horns is an amazing mascot! It plays on the location (San Diego), has a unique cheer, and is not racist! That last one seems to be a struggle for mascots.
9:35 I died.
Inside Out 2???
When is Inside Out 2?
12:33 💀💀💀💀💀
Menah menah, doo doo dododo...
(Memory that will not go away)
A LOT of the things you like in this were PIXAR innovations that Disney appropriated when they ... bought ... Pixar. Things like out of pocket characters (Anger talking about swearing,) deep/thought provoking plot, the fun end credits, not to mention, the girl literally saves herself.
I've never cared when my toe got stepped on b/c I knew it was accidental.
Y’all should react to The Lovely Bones
Is that a Pixar film as well?
-Adison
@@edn oh goodness no. But there are tons of Pixar shorts that are great. Like “kitbull” and “piper” kitbull I think would be great to react to. The Lovely Bones is just one of those movies that is really intense and I would like to watch y’all react to. Its a super natural drama that is originally a novel. Your Harry Potter reactions are my favorite so far though!
Moana, Coco, or Encanto are great as well.
I'm VERY late but not you being a loud advocate for adult humans to refuse to VERBALLY communicate and only know violence. At least you don't hide your domestic violence use, I can not relate. Decolonizing your mind and learning to communicate will open a whole new world.
Do you exaggerate this much in real life too? Or just in people’s comment sections?
-Adison
@@edn literally your own words out your own mouth. Stand 10 toes on beating children.
Depending on the type of behavior that we are dealing with then yeah I'm standing 10 toes down on a child getting a whooping.
ESPECIALLY if a child tells a parent to "Shut Up" when they are a certain age.
-Adison
@@edn Please have a vasectomy. Your mindset is dangerous.
@@edn gang
The belt should be be for major offenses, not minor ones.
Mayne you just didn't know how to nehave?
it's interesting to think about, i feel like if a kid has been informed and nurtured then there is no room for bad behavior? and if something is out of line then there are consequences and that means people see you as an impolite or improper or mean person, people are who they are, beating them to stifle their agency just makes it worse, and it puts your ides of what is acceptable on them whereas maybe if the kid is on a sports team or classroom with many varying perspectives others would only find the "terrible" behavior only annoying or not so bad at all .. i would guess it is better to guide the child to seek out people that maintain health in their life, rather than imposing your flawed preferences