I've been going through the same. Blocking and protecting myself through setting unreasonable standards. Very hard to change and mend this avoidance system.
Girl as a fellow Aussie and avoidant person this resonated deeply. I have never been in a relationship so I don’t really have trauma in that way, yet I don’t date. It’s a mix of geniuly feeling confident in my self being alone, but I also yearn for a romantic love but whenever someone doesn’t meet my expectations I shut them out. It’s also hard to tell if I’m being too picky or am I not settling so it’s a good thin? Either way your poem was beautiful, I would love to hear more of your work, writing or favourite books as your write beautifully in a way I’d love to, even just for myself. Thank you x
the way you nurture thoughts and feelings into words is so special to you. your poem was beautifully crafted, and got me thinking about a very similar relationship I have with my dad. girls are taught how to love other men from one of their first loves, their fathers. but no one ever talks about how that remains embedded in your soul until you begin to heal from it. your words resonated with me in that aspect, so thank you for sharing this piece of yourself.
hi love, i just wanna say that i admire your vulnerability and strength so so much. it's not easy to share deep parts of yourself with the world, but you have done so in such a beautiful and healing way~~ your poem and story spoke directly to my heart and i am so grateful for you and your channel. sending you all my love xx
İ loved this video su much. İt is so much better then a lot of educational videos about this topic bc there is real feelings and an experience. And the “i would rather get hurt than never love again” big REALISATION! Like SAMEE ❤ thank you so much for this video
i think the way you put feelings in words makes you very pretty. i’m 19, and just realized i am not alone in my worries, thanks to you. i’m sure you will find that person, and i wish you the best of the romantic stories💞(really sorry for my bad English sdbsjsh). love is not perfect, but the effort you are willing to put in a relationship is what makes that conection especially beautiful🍎
You are such a beautiful person. Loved listening to your poetry and love also hearing about your thoughts. I have wished for so long to be avoidant because I have always attracted avoidant men. And today, I can feel myself becoming more secure, thanks to my personal work. And I am so glad I didn't turn to avoidance. Even though this path is difficult, I'd rather impact positively people around me by letting them realize they are safe to express their emotions with me and there are safe ways to express them (even when they are negative).
hii Jas, i hope you're doing great, i just wanted to say that Im going through a very hard moment and your videos inspire me a lot to do my routines and to take care of myself and it's really helping me to go through these moments❤i really appreciate your vulnerability and how open you are with us, believe or not it really helps and motivates people. I'd like to see a video about your habits or maybe your routines ❤ send you love from ecuador!!
Omg! 🥹🥰✨ Firstly, what a BEAUTIFUL poem, you have a real talent!!!!!!! ♥️Secondly, thank you for posting this video, I hugely relate to your story and avoidance patterns due to past trauma. We can get through this together girl, you’ve motivated me 🥰♥️✨🌸 Xx
happened to me too i was soo avoidant after my heartbreak i met one guy he's amazing but i ghosted because i was afraid of getting hurt i still reflect about this everytime than for sharing your story❤❤
Muchas gracias por tanta generosidad, gracias por mostrarte auténtica online, y por compartir tu corazón y la vulnerabilidad de tu poema. Estoy en un proceso parecido al tuyo... Olé tu! Un abrazo fuerte
I agree w you on so many levels and you inspire me so mush and I’m waiting for the friendship-talk kinda podcast u mentioned last vlog ive been going through friendship breakup. xoxo hope u have a great day
thank you for being so opened and honest, I’m going through the same and this video is very supportive as I can feel that I'm not alone with this feelings❤🩹
I've been going through the same. Blocking and protecting myself through setting unreasonable standards. Very hard to change and mend this avoidance system.
I love how I feel like I’m on the phone with a friend when you start chatting
Girl as a fellow Aussie and avoidant person this resonated deeply. I have never been in a relationship so I don’t really have trauma in that way, yet I don’t date. It’s a mix of geniuly feeling confident in my self being alone, but I also yearn for a romantic love but whenever someone doesn’t meet my expectations I shut them out. It’s also hard to tell if I’m being too picky or am I not settling so it’s a good thin? Either way your poem was beautiful, I would love to hear more of your work, writing or favourite books as your write beautifully in a way I’d love to, even just for myself. Thank you x
the way you nurture thoughts and feelings into words is so special to you. your poem was beautifully crafted, and got me thinking about a very similar relationship I have with my dad. girls are taught how to love other men from one of their first loves, their fathers. but no one ever talks about how that remains embedded in your soul until you begin to heal from it. your words resonated with me in that aspect, so thank you for sharing this piece of yourself.
That is genuingly the most beautiful written poem, so inspiring 💗💗
the anxious to avoidant pipeline is SOO real. currently going through it, and im having such mixed feelings about the person ive become because of it
hi love, i just wanna say that i admire your vulnerability and strength so so much. it's not easy to share deep parts of yourself with the world, but you have done so in such a beautiful and healing way~~ your poem and story spoke directly to my heart and i am so grateful for you and your channel. sending you all my love xx
Your vulnerability is beautiful 🫶🏻 Thank you for sharing
Listening to you made me realize that I do the same thing-maybe not always „ghosting“ but pushing men away from me just to avoid being hurt! ❤
İ loved this video su much. İt is so much better then a lot of educational videos about this topic bc there is real feelings and an experience. And the “i would rather get hurt than never love again” big REALISATION! Like SAMEE ❤ thank you so much for this video
I really appreciate you, you're like the older sister I never got
The poem also.. just perfection...
Thanks for being here jasmine ❤️
I absolutely love this, and your poem is 10/10
Your my dream big sister keep doing what your doing cause it’s so healing and amazing
Ok, this was way too relatable, I`m literally crying
My safe space ❤
Oh…. the timing of this is crazy cos I’ve had an uncannily similar journey of growth
i think the way you put feelings in words makes you very pretty. i’m 19, and just realized i am not alone in my worries, thanks to you. i’m sure you will find that person, and i wish you the best of the romantic stories💞(really sorry for my bad English sdbsjsh). love is not perfect, but the effort you are willing to put in a relationship is what makes that conection especially beautiful🍎
@@sofimiau same I felt I’m not the only one 🤍
thank you for sharing and being so real it’s not easy❤
I am so in love with you
Thankyou for opening up with us all 🩵 we luv uuuu
i‘m obsessed w ur acc, such a safe space for me on yt!
The poem has me crying
im in this stage too. i dont want to be avoidant anymore. loved hearing you talk about this though.
poem is beautiful
love your videos sm🤞🤞they honestly give me new outlooks on life everytime ty🧘♀️🧘♀️
You are such a beautiful person. Loved listening to your poetry and love also hearing about your thoughts. I have wished for so long to be avoidant because I have always attracted avoidant men. And today, I can feel myself becoming more secure, thanks to my personal work. And I am so glad I didn't turn to avoidance. Even though this path is difficult, I'd rather impact positively people around me by letting them realize they are safe to express their emotions with me and there are safe ways to express them (even when they are negative).
love the poem xx 🌷
jasmine love love your videos my fav youtuber lately
hii Jas, i hope you're doing great, i just wanted to say that Im going through a very hard moment and your videos inspire me a lot to do my routines and to take care of myself and it's really helping me to go through these moments❤i really appreciate your vulnerability and how open you are with us, believe or not it really helps and motivates people. I'd like to see a video about your habits or maybe your routines ❤ send you love from ecuador!!
I think you just became the spokesperson of my Heart ❤
I loved this episode because I feel the exact same way!!
Omg! 🥹🥰✨ Firstly, what a BEAUTIFUL poem, you have a real talent!!!!!!! ♥️Secondly, thank you for posting this video, I hugely relate to your story and avoidance patterns due to past trauma. We can get through this together girl, you’ve motivated me 🥰♥️✨🌸 Xx
i really needed to hear this, especially at this point in my life. so, thank you
happened to me too i was soo avoidant after my heartbreak i met one guy he's amazing but i ghosted because i was afraid of getting hurt i still reflect about this everytime than for sharing your story❤❤
i relate so much with you… thank u for this ❤
I love you Jazmine!, please post more
I really love ur vids! Im looking forward gor ur next vids girl!!🥰🤍🤍
time indeed heals all wounds
Thank you for sharing ❤
loved this episode!!
i love this
Muchas gracias por tanta generosidad, gracias por mostrarte auténtica online, y por compartir tu corazón y la vulnerabilidad de tu poema. Estoy en un proceso parecido al tuyo... Olé tu!
Un abrazo fuerte
I agree w you on so many levels and you inspire me so mush and I’m waiting for the friendship-talk kinda podcast u mentioned last vlog ive been going through friendship breakup. xoxo hope u have a great day
@@tayf5121 omg i’m sorry to hear it’s the worst :(( ill get to it for next week! 🥹💋💋
@ 🫂thank u sm I appreciate it
looooved this video
You are so gorgeous you look like both Gigi and Bella Hadid 😍
Wow I really needed to hear this 🥹 You are such an inspiring person, thank you for sharing Jas 💌
What do you use to record? 🫶🏽
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What colour did you get the power lip in
@@yasnadelo1478 bitter chocolate! 🤎
i love you
sometimes it feels like in me there’s all the knowledge i need yet i can’t access it. that poem is a blessing from urself to u. it’s wisdom 🤍🤍
Yayyy! I’m so early
TBH avoidance is much better from being anxiety person is so damaging to your soul
don't you feel boredom after years of being like that? like life is less rich
thank you for being so opened and honest, I’m going through the same and this video is very supportive as I can feel that I'm not alone with this feelings❤🩹