Men Find THESE 7 Traits Very Unattractive In WOMEN

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  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  หลายเดือนก่อน +7

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  • @vintagegallerina
    @vintagegallerina 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    The fact that your instructions and counsel are available to us for free is so special. Your coaching is landing with me and I always leave educated and thoughtful. Thank you.

    • @vashtikelly6837
      @vashtikelly6837 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ agree 💯💯

    • @marlenelindsey7638
      @marlenelindsey7638 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I love that! Me too! Always open to learning.

    • @darlenegolden1057
      @darlenegolden1057 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, I appreciate your help. Sometimes it doesn't apply. But I get a man doesn't want to talk about problems and bs.

  • @odeyvivian4059
    @odeyvivian4059 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I like how when Stephan wants to make some points and he is trying to be careful not to offend anyone or laugh but eventually can’t help it and laugh out loud😂😂😂

    • @PookiieB
      @PookiieB 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂

  • @karinesavard2016
    @karinesavard2016 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    When your man is rude to other people it is a good indicator in what mean character he will have with you. In french this is literally called Il a un mauvais caractère. And family members probably waved that red flag in front of your nose. Never ignore this.

    • @AJweathersby
      @AJweathersby หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Another thing men find undesirable is whenever there’s a constructive and good-faith criticism of women occurring, and some women try to flip the conversation back on criticizing men.
      To us, it means those woman feel like they’re above being criticized and that they don’t have any desire to better themselves for the kind of man they want. There’s no such thing as a lasting relationship with a man, that doesn’t involve male criticism.

    • @djkeith9315
      @djkeith9315 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would say it reflects on character but it could be a lack of emotional awareness

  • @thewhispercode
    @thewhispercode 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    When you allow your emotions to get in the way, you don’t get into awareness. It takes practice. When I pray I don’t ask for patience, I practice it. What men want, will not change. What women want will not change. We have to meet somewhere in the middle and still stay feminine.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Well said 🙏

    • @trenton12205
      @trenton12205 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes. The games must stop for love to flourish again

    • @fjean03
      @fjean03 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I agree with your statement 💯. We have to actually become what we want and how we want to be treated. And yes it doesn’t happen over night it will take practice.

  • @karinesavard2016
    @karinesavard2016 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    Men gossip and cause more trauma than you'd think. They expose themselves on the Internet. 😅

    • @noinhibitions7572
      @noinhibitions7572 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Preach!

    • @emlinc229
      @emlinc229 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      💯💯💯

    • @Adhara740
      @Adhara740 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So true

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    I have a strong appreciation for guys whom keep negative things at bay. It's really not healthy to have that kind of energy around.

    • @jennehsmith8170
      @jennehsmith8170 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Any man with pettiness….drop him like a bad habit and let him go on his way….good luck and good bye, don’t look back!!

  • @roxy7255
    @roxy7255 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Thank you Stephen I didn’t know the drama one until I saw it. A man I dated had an ex where there was always drama I could see it in his eyes how much he loved and enjoyed drama and was struggling without the drama - huge red flag and toxic trait.

  • @klezzaa8957
    @klezzaa8957 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Dont be drama queens, dont be always complaining, being rude, having to much much makeup, smelling bad, wanting and searching for attention. Sounds about right! ☺️❤️

  • @HalfSweetness
    @HalfSweetness 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    🤭 I love when you talk about sensitive topics like hygiene and makeup and such because you start smiling cause you really try to make sure you discuss it gently. I have to laugh cause it's so cute. Nicely done. Lovely shirt your wearing, too.😁💯👋🏼

    • @aleiseboone9365
      @aleiseboone9365 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Ditto, it is so cute and we appreciate your honesty.

  • @karinesavard2016
    @karinesavard2016 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    To my ex I used to say after his constant complaining about his job, I said, either you change jobs or you stop complaining. 🙄

    • @clasijasi
      @clasijasi หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That’s always a pet peeve for me, especially in relationships. If you don’t like something, work to change it 🙂

    • @tangiewimberly7445
      @tangiewimberly7445 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This was same with my ex. Every day for years. I couldn’t take it anymore. 😢

  • @katmcc76
    @katmcc76 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I really like this! What if the person is going through some challenging times? Everyone is not going to be 100% all the time! I believe men should learn to be more understanding with women, especially with hormone imbalances at different stages in her life!

    • @HapillyMe
      @HapillyMe หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you! Men are too harsh on women. No one is perfect.

    • @77jesse77
      @77jesse77 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Daily complaining is tough tho. Especially if your partner tries to insert positivity into your negative day, and you frequently reject it with doom and gloom.

    • @denisebrathwaite3300
      @denisebrathwaite3300 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When you are married, this warrants understanding as in "for better or worse", However, in a dating situation the man may not feel like they have to deal with women personal issues.

  • @fightforhealth1
    @fightforhealth1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Complaining leads to bitterness.

  • @ChrissyVonn
    @ChrissyVonn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Positive affirmations for women may be helpful for being more peaceful, positive, and kind. I feel like this is one of the things that helps me stay in my feminine, by starting the day with light and positivity & carrying that energy throughout the day.
    Thanks for the video! So excited for the event in DC! 🙌🏽

  • @IsaidwhatIsaid2
    @IsaidwhatIsaid2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Thank you adding the health and wellness tips that are equally as important to this video.

  • @shayemissions
    @shayemissions 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    We appreciate you sir! I have gained so much understanding from listening to your videos the last 17 months. THANK YOU sir! Literally life changing! ❤

  • @tamaralillard7820
    @tamaralillard7820 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I do all of these things ❤❤❤ Where’s my husband 😂😂

    • @cytinachavis9157
      @cytinachavis9157 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm saying.😂

    • @auroraxxfacekilla49
      @auroraxxfacekilla49 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Rightt, lol. Must be we got a real good man on the way, if God is taking his time with it!

    • @cece932
      @cece932 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It doesn't matter what you do. If you were White, Asian, or Hispanic, none of what you do would matter. Get it?

    • @MzTeriberry
      @MzTeriberry หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@cytinachavis9157maybe he isn't born yet😁

    • @itzjess88
      @itzjess88 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm starting to believe mine died before I could meet him lol

  • @donnatownsendp
    @donnatownsendp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I’ve let go of anything and anybody that brings drama or anything that disturbs my peace of mind. I don’t have the energy for it

  • @KELLITX
    @KELLITX 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    You addressed the makeup situation very diplomatically. Well done! 🤣

    • @mariad1151
      @mariad1151 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      On the other hand, too bad guys can't use it to pick up their looks...

    • @313Mulan
      @313Mulan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I literally think I screwed up my chance because I wore a new burgundy eyeliner that I was so excited to wear for my first date LOL. Let's just say, he never called me back afterwards! 😂😂😂

    • @mariad1151
      @mariad1151 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@313Mulan his loss! Joke's on him😁

    • @abenaavi
      @abenaavi หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mariad1151may be surpised that some men do!

    • @mariad1151
      @mariad1151 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @abenaavi maybe mick jagger was the 1st w geen eye shadow. Steven Tyler wore eyeliner. .& won Sexiest Man Alive several times. David Bowie & he was not a pretty... If it helps ...

  • @ShakiraG9339
    @ShakiraG9339 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I just feel men need similar advice. I feel like the burden is always on the woman to constantly cater to a man. I love being a woman. I have no issues being a woman. However, men need to allow us women to “be feminine “ and to pour love and respect in the relationship.

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The problem is that more and more women have zero standards and lack adequate self worth! Men AND women need to up their game!! 🙏

  • @livinglovinglatora3574
    @livinglovinglatora3574 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have been told by multiple people that I can be rude or a B@!ch😂 I used to think it was funny but now it’s very evident people perceive me this way. I guess I’m triggered even more because these “people” have no idea the things I’ve been through. I just keep my guard up from others so I’m not hurt again by anyone. I know that may be a harsh tactic but I didn’t know what else to do to protect my energy. I was really sweet once upon a time and it has changed. Stephan help!😩😩

  • @ce4139
    @ce4139 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great episode! I’m a woman and I agree with everything you said. I don’t like these things in women as well-friend, foe, whatever.

  • @sandic8172
    @sandic8172 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Another kind, diplomatic and informative video that is definitely needed to help us attract and have better relationships with men-- platonic and romantic. TFS! I agree we must be mindful of how we talk to each other. A gentle tone can make a difference when asking for what we need and/or want from others.❤

  • @marlenelindsey7638
    @marlenelindsey7638 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Ladies let me tell you about the most beautiful perfume I just treated myself too, as a gift to myself for cutting cigarettes out of my life. This perfume by Gucci called Guilty just replaced my 20 year old favorite (by Givency). I have never smelled such a nice, balanced, subtle and classy scent! GUILTY BY GUICCI!!!

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Congratulations on quitting smoking... Bravo!! 🎉🥂

    • @itzjess88
      @itzjess88 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm still tryna quit smoking but love a good scent. I like saving coin too tho so what's the price range?

  • @mcleodintl
    @mcleodintl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I TRULY APPRECIATE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR AS IT RELATES TO WOMEN REJECTING YOUR OPINION ON MEN😅😂😂 AS FOR THE REST OF US WHO APPRECIATE YOUR COMMENTS AND KNOW WE CAN EASILY CLICK UNTO SOMEONE ELSE, BUT DON'T...HERE'S A HEARTY GOD BLESS AND THANK YOU STEPHAN SPEAKS!❤❤❤

  • @dionesk4077
    @dionesk4077 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 love love love this message & how u delivered it. This messages opened my eyes to a different perspective on how I address people at work. Ive been told multiple times that my delivery of information to ppl is coming off a bit mean and or harsh... and like u mentioned...I didn't see it...but after watching this, and reflecting on how I respond to some ppl...I can admit that I came off too harsh and could have taken a more subtle approach to how I respond. Thank God for tomorrow being a new day..and I get the opportunity to improve and evolve. Thank u again for allowing God to use u to deliver these kind of messages to assist ppl who are on a path of self discovery & evolution 🙏🏽

  • @donnatownsendp
    @donnatownsendp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I agree…..anybody that’s full of drama is very taxing and draining. #Run

  • @gmilner84
    @gmilner84 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for this AWESOME video. So excited to see you again in ATL! In my opinion, women who are fully healed and ready for relationship don't like these same traits in men either.

  • @aishabyrd974
    @aishabyrd974 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Thanks for these videos Stephan

  • @diannearevalo6247
    @diannearevalo6247 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Hello stephan watching your videos help me understand and communicate better with my husband more I enjoy listening to your videos

  • @bertbrowm4488
    @bertbrowm4488 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I do love makeup and sometimes I like wearing lots but usually I wear less. However I try my best to stay close to my natural look, as I wear less. That's true I get more compliments when I wear less makeup. With my ex I wore both less and more and he said I looked prettier with less.

  • @jadhirarivera5745
    @jadhirarivera5745 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I really appreciate your content and your delivery. Thank you so much for all your help ❤

  • @leasparkles2861
    @leasparkles2861 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your approach is so respectful and sweet..and your content is on point..nice job sir 👍🏻❤

  • @saynotohookups
    @saynotohookups 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I hardly wear makeup. With guys I'm generally not into beards and mustaches unless they are done a certain way. Just like men want to know what is underneath a woman's makeup i want to know what is underneath the beard.

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I agree! I'm ready to see some "clean-shaven faces" guys... enough of the beards already!! 😁😜

    • @ladlesandoven
      @ladlesandoven 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      How can you compare natural beard hair to fake makeup looks.....had any man told you to shave your heard or discard your wigs to see whats underneath???....y'all be delulu

    • @saynotohookups
      @saynotohookups 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@ladlesandoven Um, buddy you can't compare a head of hair to a big bushy beard and mustache that covers the bottom half of your face. Tell me it doesn't make a difference when the mustache and beard gets shaved off completely.

    • @ladlesandoven
      @ladlesandoven หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@saynotohookups shave off all your hair completely before your husband marries you okay...
      Thanks

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@ladlesandoven Wow, someone got triggered BIG TIME!! We women are entitled to OUR opinions, got it?? 🙄

  • @4EverGr8ful1
    @4EverGr8ful1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I appreciate you *"Keepin' It Real!"* 🙏👍

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you 🙏❤️

    • @Kirk-d7v
      @Kirk-d7v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks
      youtube.com/@rcblakesjr.?feature=shared

  • @kathymanley8711
    @kathymanley8711 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    🙋‍♀️, I care, we all need to get along and you help me understand men. Thank you!! My question how does 1 meet men when I'm in my 60's. I'm not doing a dating app. Too many narcissist out there!!!!!

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Just go about doing things YOU enjoy! *"High-value Men"* are typically NOT on dating apps. They're out living their lives... taking classes, hiking, biking, playing/watching sports, etc, etc... Don't think most men are Narcissists... the emotionally healthy ones aren't!! Be blessed! 🙏❤✝️

  • @user-zg6rw2qd8p
    @user-zg6rw2qd8p หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Can you please add timestamps or a way to see points quicker?

    • @sierrapartee3068
      @sierrapartee3068 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know I love his content but it’s too long winded for me.

  • @susanpidgeon9683
    @susanpidgeon9683 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I enjoy your videos that come from a male perspective. The way you tell females info is unique and helpful not harsh or judgmental. Thank you! Great job!

  • @bertbrowm4488
    @bertbrowm4488 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My family is definitely drama, when I find my man, adios to my family, I cba. I'll see them once in a while

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Some guys I notice define a "drama queen" differently. For some it's a wider scale than it is for others. ...

  • @youareforgiven2634
    @youareforgiven2634 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I too feel BLESSED BY BROTHER STEPHAN

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m very happy to hear that 🙂

  • @Zodiacconnections
    @Zodiacconnections หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Stephan for this insightful video! As a relationship coach and astrology enthusiast,
    I appreciate your balanced approach to helping women understand what works in relationships.
    It’s true that even if we’re feeling fed up with dating now, those feelings can change, and it’s great to be prepared.
    Your point about avoiding drama and striving for peace is so important. For those of us who follow astrology,
    it’s interesting to note that certain signs, like Libra and Taurus, naturally seek harmony and balance in relationships.
    Let’s all aim to bring more peace and positivity into our love lives. Thanks for always pouring into us with love and helping us get what we deserve!

  • @hollyerwin-qw6hv
    @hollyerwin-qw6hv 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love this video and the diplomatic delivery 😂 i like the section on makeup. I over plucked my eyebrows and they never grew back so I draw them on, but sometimes the look weird. I even drew them extra heavy once to try and repel a married man I fancied haha. I'll get them properly tattooed eventually.

  • @fantasiaroberts5157
    @fantasiaroberts5157 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Some very great advice!👏🏾👏🏾 The one with the kids is me, and believe me! it does work😀 thank you Stephan 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🧡🤎🧡👌🏾🙏🏽🙌🏾

  • @islandgurlgj
    @islandgurlgj 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This is why I do not watch shows like RHO whatever and Love and Hip Hop. Reality shows in general. I quickly stopped when I caught myself mindlessly mimmicking their mannerisms and ways of speaking. It is very easy for exessive consumption of this type of media to bleed into real life.

  • @donnatownsendp
    @donnatownsendp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Rudeness is very ugly on anyone

  • @katrinanelson6175
    @katrinanelson6175 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is really good... greatly appreciated.✨

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you ❤️ I’m glad you found it helpful

    • @katrinanelson6175
      @katrinanelson6175 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MeetStephanSpeakswith some, lol. 😆 It's all great though. ❤️

  • @maryknox1085
    @maryknox1085 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I only wear mascara and eyeliner , I’m good with just that 😊, Thank You Stephan

  • @genaross1976
    @genaross1976 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Thank you for what you do!!

  • @RenataSmith-u3t
    @RenataSmith-u3t 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you for this video.

  • @leontynehudson1748
    @leontynehudson1748 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I appreciate your consul, I’m not in a relationship. Very informative, and applicable I’ll be ready when it happens. I love PEACE ☮️💫❤️

  • @aishahadjoua5485
    @aishahadjoua5485 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank you Stephan. I understand and appreciate the information. God bless you!
    Aishah

  • @Cindy_Love_2025
    @Cindy_Love_2025 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Excellent video 👏🏼💯❤️
    I love it❤️

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it

    • @Cindy_Love_2025
      @Cindy_Love_2025 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks I love all your videos & posts… it’s encouraging! You always give wonderful godly advice too. God has His hands upon your life & what you’re doing! God bless you! ❤️💯

  • @empressnaja
    @empressnaja 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Broken people are just that broken. You just got to recognize the signs. Broken people love other broken people. So they could ruin their lives, they feed on it like a fungus

    • @Kirk-d7v
      @Kirk-d7v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      youtube.com/@rcblakesjr.?feature=shared

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's exactly why it is imperative to find healing (seek therapy) before entering into a relationship, right?? 🙏

    • @empressnaja
      @empressnaja 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@4EverGr8ful1 Exactly this why I advocate for it.💯😏 Therapy it could help you just have to be open to it. And you have to choose the right therapist for you. It takes time and work, and you have to do the work for it to be successful. It doesn't happen over night. It takes time to heal, and with prayer the most high God will get you where he wants you to be. If you get out of the way. 🤔💯🙌👍🏿

  • @jessycars6305
    @jessycars6305 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I came across your videos last week. You are a beautiful spirit and you bring your message very compassionate. Thank you for that. Great content. I have been single by choice and have work on myself for many years. I dont like too much makeup. I like natural.

  • @mitchellepraxcedes6459
    @mitchellepraxcedes6459 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Very useful info❤...thank you Stephan

  • @sandyhugheskawaii8730
    @sandyhugheskawaii8730 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    All great advice!🙌🏻 I want to give some tips for other ladies even though I'm mortified to comment publicly about this topic.😂🤭 It has to do with the hygiene topic that Stephan mentioned. He may not realize that some women are easily irritated by soap down there. I know people have different opinions about whether or not to use soap in that very sensitive area. I am in the soap camp but I know that some people are easily irritated by it. If that is the case, whatever you use should be fragrance free. You can try a castile soap with oils in it, like Dr. Bronner's unscented liquid formula. Or you can try a soap with a super gentle surfactant, like Cetaphil moisturizing relief body wash. Never wash up inside, if you know what I mean. Then afterwards, you can moisturize with coconut oil. It's solid at room temperature, so it's easy to work with, and it's safe for that area unless you are allergic, of course. I use the one by Spectrum because it's marketed for skin/hair care, so it's in a tub with a wide opening for easy access. I hope this helps someone.😄💖

    • @RMMomma4Eva
      @RMMomma4Eva 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Vinegar works wonders. Dilute if sensitive. And it's okay to wipe it outside and spray it inside, just don't put it inside more than say once a week. Less if sensitive. But it is needed sometimes.

    • @natnel617
      @natnel617 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Epsom salt and tea tree baths also help. Helps keep bacteria and thrush at bay as well as keeping one smelling fresh.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for your feedback

  • @SelinaMucera
    @SelinaMucera หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are amazing at what you do Stephan thank you for your invaluable nuggets❤

  • @wendykaranja4801
    @wendykaranja4801 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are doing an amazing job and are good at it thankyou for your invaluable nuggets
    Thank you for being a barak to us ❤

  • @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit
    @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It's a sensitive subject, but you delivered it well, Stephan. It hard to say it's wasn't Kosher.🤭

  • @cleovernebaptiste2747
    @cleovernebaptiste2747 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    God don't like complainers Stephen look at what happen to the children of Israel they complain give the glory in every situation, love you Stephen continue to shine

  • @Deecurlylife
    @Deecurlylife 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I don’t think women understand the difference between being assertive and straight up rude

  • @donnatownsendp
    @donnatownsendp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Proverbs talks about how a wise woman buildeth her house & a foolish one plucketh it down

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The opening! ❤😂 toxic men love drama!

  • @Ivy_Citrine23
    @Ivy_Citrine23 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank you stephan ❤your videos it helps a lot for me. I'm dealing a toxic man currently..😪Extremely rude, and manipulator😢

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You're welcome 🙏

    • @debbiebramwell
      @debbiebramwell 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Why are you dealing with this man and his toxicity?

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      *"You Teach People How To Treat You!"*
      ~ Dr. Phil 💡💡💡

    • @JacquelineBeavers
      @JacquelineBeavers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why are you dealing with him if he is toxic and rude. You don't know how to take out the trash?

    • @JacquelineBeavers
      @JacquelineBeavers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@4EverGr8ful1 Preach!

  • @kearalove751
    @kearalove751 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    this was a great video!

  • @jennalehman9681
    @jennalehman9681 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for teaching me a new technique to try on my teenage son .😁 I can’t wait to try it out, I can’t stand having to get loud for him to listen..

  • @msdemeanour
    @msdemeanour 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Ladies, no man finds giant tarantula lashes sexy. Just sayin!

    • @marlenelindsey7638
      @marlenelindsey7638 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank God!

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      LOL... or *"Dagger Nails!"* 😳👎

  • @Redford444
    @Redford444 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great content

  • @tobeywan8331
    @tobeywan8331 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hello Stephan, upload videos on the men's channel more plis!!

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I’m going to get back on track with that

  • @mariacolucci6958
    @mariacolucci6958 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you!

  • @adwoaboakye265
    @adwoaboakye265 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I’m the first to watch, yaaaaaaay.🎉

  • @TanyaOden
    @TanyaOden หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video! I loved the introduction! I know that you care and is genuinely trying to help us. Thank YOU!! I think the points are applicable for both genders. Women dislike those things too. However the point about the make-up...I can really see why that's SO concerning for men. It's so many false images out here. Not only with excessive make-up but with the fake everything else (hair, eye bows, eye lashes, teeth, lip injections/botox, veneers, breast implants, tummy tucks, BBL, fake nails, etc). Come on ladies.. rock your NATURAL BEAUTY!! You're BEAUTIFUL!! Be proud of the way God made you! Also only God knows what those chemicals, dyes, etc. are doing to our bodies.

  • @HapillyMe
    @HapillyMe หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm exhausted with all these videos on how women should act, or what we should wear. I find it very unattractive when a man does not listen to women. Thst creates resentment. Men, work on being better listeners.

    • @JStig12
      @JStig12 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @HapillyMe What specifically do you think/feel that men are not listening to women about?

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      *"You Teach People How To Treat You!"*
      ~ Dr. Phil 💡💡💡

    • @Time4change111
      @Time4change111 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some relationships that I have noticed that failed on the mans part were due to the male being toxic instead of peace, being petty instead of calm and mature, being unfaithful instead of faithful, lacking taking accountability instead of admitting wrong, taking responsibility and correcting his behavior with Grace and calmness, disrespecting the woman, demanding she submit to her instead of both the man and the woman submitting​ to God then to one another, lying, looking at other women instead of having integrity, listening to other toxic males and females that trick people into trying to dominate, control, be petty, negative, unfaithful and immature that usually secretly causes the other person to loose interest, love and the feeling of safety this causing unhappiness and usually ending the relationship. The best advice is to listen to God and you both learn to love one another like Jesus loved us all as Jesus says. Kindness, calm, productive conversations, peace, patience, maturity and love wins when you are willing to put in the same and grow with the person God has guided you to😎 God bless chief@@JStig12

    • @77jesse77
      @77jesse77 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What about the men that have been listening and validating? What about those of us who been there hearing the same issues and complaints from women who don't want solutions?

  • @rl798
    @rl798 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm an authentic person. Better than a fake person. If people don't like it then just keep on walking, I don't want fake people in my life🤨

  • @trx1579
    @trx1579 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Makeup and created glamour at their best are art forms and enhance a level of fantasy/spice in life, and there are men who appreciate that as long as we don't become addicted to it in order to feel remotely presentable. I would be bored without occasionally trying out a new cat eye/pinup girl red lip or something fun like that.

  • @mariastavrakis7046
    @mariastavrakis7046 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You just described my ex husband he was all of these things! Works both ways ! 😅😂🤦🏻‍♀️😉❣️❣️

  • @sss_tan
    @sss_tan หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Stephan, I love your videos. Could you give advice on timeline of dating - when should you have sex, when should you ask him what questions when getting to know each other first, because I feel like a lot of women struggle with this and to not scare men away. I would be really thankful...

  • @donnatownsendp
    @donnatownsendp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    AGM: Attention Getting Mechanisms doesn’t always work

  • @brittneythompson2041
    @brittneythompson2041 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hey Stephen, there are videos people are making of “why men are not approaching women anymore” I understand there is bad women out here, but not all of us are bad. Not all of us are the Sexyy reds or 304s. I feel like social media has ruined some people’s view of dating. This is coming from a 20 yr old. Wondering will I find my person? What does this mean for us young adults coming up?I’m not like some of the women that have all of the unrealistic expectations.

    • @RMMomma4Eva
      @RMMomma4Eva 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes you're going to meet him, he's going to find you. So you want to work on yourself so you'll be ready when he arrives! Create a good career for yourself, a home that's comfortable and organized, a reliable car, maintain your health and grooming, don't sit in the house, and incorporate Stephan's tips including from this video. And it will happen, a good guy will see you shining. Just be patient and work on yourself. Quality far surpasses quantity. ❤✨🙏🏽✅

    • @brittneythompson2041
      @brittneythompson2041 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RMMomma4Evathank you so much! I needed this 🥰❤

  • @ClassyWithChrist
    @ClassyWithChrist 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Can you make a video on where to find these types of men you always talking about in your videos.😭🤣🤣

    • @JacquelineBeavers
      @JacquelineBeavers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen, and again I say AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @theemajesticbeauty7236
      @theemajesticbeauty7236 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾

  • @teresapr2106
    @teresapr2106 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So what you saying is you cannot discuss or ask advice from your partner? So, what's the whole point in communicating to him. I am asking for is a listening ear and get his advice that I am struggling with the decision.

  • @SyxTreasure
    @SyxTreasure 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Can we do a live here just one

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I’m gonna make that happen soon

  • @jaclynh.y767
    @jaclynh.y767 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i think the proper mindset is to focus on your growth as a person and knowing yourself. the right man will be attracted to your inner beauty and your genuine self

  • @vaksehund2
    @vaksehund2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bc I came from a 90% dysfunctional family & most of what came out of our mouthes was negative I took that with me most my young adult life. Until a class mate told me I was negative I never analyzed the words I spoke. Then & there I changed the words, not my thoughts though. I've only recently given that to Jesus completely, not expecting change to happen by itself. What a relief. Now I don't want to control situations, but push the negative gently aside (almost like grey rocking a narcissist). Why waste time engaging, right?

  • @opalbeach9626
    @opalbeach9626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My teenage son Always do things when I ask him sweetly and say thanks . You catch more bees with honey than vinegar.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🙏

    • @JacquelineBeavers
      @JacquelineBeavers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's one thing I disagree with. I shouldn't have to tell you more than once to do something and I'm paying all the bills and taking care of your dusty ass. I'm going to ask you nice. Once, then you are going to face some repercussions. That's how my parents did it and it's good enough for these youngins today too. I'm not begging you! As for a man, if I even have to tell you once, BRO you got to go. You are not going to lay up on your ass and not contribute to every aspect of the household, just like me. Go find you a mama to wipe your butt. Periodt!

  • @eilly8137
    @eilly8137 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Peace, Luv! It was interesting watching you tread "carefully" through these suggestions. The community must be giving you the blues!! 😂

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It’s all good. I’m still going to help 🙏

    • @eilly8137
      @eilly8137 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks I appreciate you completely! The community may be so focused on defending themselves that they are missing the fact that you're offering insider tips for getting faster results. I hear you though! 😉

  • @user-bm3lv8xk8s
    @user-bm3lv8xk8s หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i have an open mind i want to learn

  • @GoddessYvonne3
    @GoddessYvonne3 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Totally agree🔥🔥🔥

  • @ladeedaa1419
    @ladeedaa1419 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Chlorophyll, borax suppositories and probiotics 👌🏼

  • @thecly9245
    @thecly9245 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He sounds like my mother. 😂 the things he speak of are the things my mother said but I didn't want to listen. Felt like she was old and out of touch. Such a shame it took me getting older to see how much it all made sense.

  • @donnatownsendp
    @donnatownsendp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    In order to change what’s around you, you have to change what’s within

    • @JacquelineBeavers
      @JacquelineBeavers 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Preach! Most of these people are attracting what they are putting out! Either that, or they have such low self-esteem they put up with it rather than finding the right person. They don't want to be alone.

  • @annajoy2306
    @annajoy2306 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i always tried to understand men. i been a men reader all my life. women would come to me to ask me how men think =P and men easily are them selves with me =P good or bad. all my life i can feel peoples emotions. i also had vesions before it happens or dead people. i cant decide when i get medssges it just happens. if i am in a room of people i feel so much. its been hard for me to find my person. i do belive much to do with law of attraction. to feel enough. to attract a partner we need to be our true selves and feel we are enough and not let fears, hate, blame, quilt or ego take over. also trying to work with our attachment so we can attract a healthy relationship.

  • @traceykillen6957
    @traceykillen6957 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Food for thought Stephan.. blunt people are more likely to be on the Autism scale and finding the person who is right for you when you don't have any idea how normal people behave is fraught with mistakes.. taking time and not rushing into anything is always good advice for anyone ..
    Do things in haste and repent at leisure..do a background check..and work out why you seem to be attracting the wrong type of man.. I have learnt these things from you and others and from things I have observed myself..you make sense Stephan..I truly enjoy listening to you...

  • @dtpbach
    @dtpbach 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    @22:52 this is a very tough situation. I had a friend who was married. She was beautiful but her breath was horrendous! I just figured everyone knew, especially her husband. NO ONE TOLD HER. She divorced her husband since then but still..even he didn't tell her! She finally was told and got help and she said to me "the most loving thing you can do is tell someone when their breath is bad" I also went on a date last year with a very handsome, successful man. MY LORD GOD JESUS - HIS DRAGON BREATH hit me while he was talking to me. This was a man who claimed to be a clean freak too - OMG CLEAN YOUR DANG BREATH! There were no other dates. LOL I'm laughing so hard as I type this. Bad breath is a big deal breaker for me because I love to kiss more than anything however; I DO NOT have the guts to tell someone that their brefff stank! How do I do this?????!!!!!

    • @anonymousbee
      @anonymousbee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Just say it. Say that I can notice your breath and scowl a bit. A intelligent guy will take the hint.

    • @paulajohnson3811
      @paulajohnson3811 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Offer a breath mint or a piece of gum😬

    • @flora91161
      @flora91161 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Sometimes it’s internal. Stomach ulcers, tonsil stones, infections. You may be helping someone by telling them😭

    • @dtpbach
      @dtpbach 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@anonymousbee Easier said than done. On a first date, I'm not sure if one can say this without really knowing how the other will respond,

    • @dtpbach
      @dtpbach 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@paulajohnson3811 NOPE.. that never works.

  • @barbara-annperry5941
    @barbara-annperry5941 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Me and my friends all know that us women have a psycho gene. We say release it to your friends and once you have calmed down, then talk to your man. I say phone your friends and ask for an exorcism lol

  • @sabinasmith6326
    @sabinasmith6326 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if a person is nitpicking and he is a perfectionist who is looking at very small things and it’s not even that serious and it doesn’t communicate properly!!

  • @IsabellaMorris-
    @IsabellaMorris- 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think you are adorable, intelligent and soo handsome. I can listen to you for a fair amount of time ❤

  • @JudyChilds-fu4em
    @JudyChilds-fu4em 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're building bridges between us❣️👍💞

  • @gailosbourne1440
    @gailosbourne1440 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gd evening, stephan, This topic is so interesting. I really appreciate you explain with love . That empathy. Really to be honest. , The same traits that goes for the man also goes for the woman. To be honest some man need an housewife , the things they do sometimes, and how they do things , some cannot do nothing at all around the home . most of them are so lie , sometimes they are the ones that cause the problems in the relationship. 😂😊