I'm so sad to hear your terrible experience, I'm a cast member at disneyland Paris, we met at the newport buffet last year, I'm Bénédicte you mentioned me in your video, anyway, I live at 10 min walk from the holiday inn and if I had seen your help message I would have come right away! I hope you're okay, take a rest and don't let this bad experience take away the confidence you have to travel alone. I send you lots of love and your mom reacted very well by calling the reception. ❤️
Quick note to highlight the fact that the banging only started once the woman realised I have a PHOTO of the card given to her by the staff member - This proof is also most likely the reason the staff member admitted about giving the card, both to my friends AND to the police. Also, little recap to say: 1. The staff member in question has been fired. 2. His friend "Kate" has been banned from the property. 3. The reason I didn't need to call the police that night, was because my friends responded fairly quickly and were able to come help me leave. Unfortunately, the nearest police station open at that time was half an hour away - calling them that night would have made my escape journey a LOT longer. I wanted to get out of there asap, and thankfully my friends were able to come within 10 minutes. Had I not gotten a response from my friends, my plan was to call the police as soon as I had another hotel to go to - and I would advise anyone travelling solo who has no one in the area to inform police immediately. They may take ages getting to you at that time of night, but they can at least stay with you on the phone and find ways to keep you safe before they arrive. My priority that night was GETTING OUT OF THERE. I have since talked to several French locals, including professionals in the area, who have confirmed that calling the police that night would've unnecessarily prolonged the ordeal. 4. A big lesson I learnt as a solo traveller, which might be worth sharing, is to write down details of ALL police stations local to wherever you're staying when travelling. Whilst I knew the general police number for France, I didn't know any of the more local numbers, and was actually shocked to find out only ONE police station nearby was open at that time of night - nearby being still 30 minutes away. I think it's also worth booking your stays in an area that has 24 hour police service nearby in case of emergencies. This particular hotel's location was quite remote - I'm sure hotels closer to Disneyland Paris have more police stations open all night. 5. Thank you for the overwhelming love and support. I'm doing much better now professionals have dealt with the situation. I'm also getting help to deal with the trauma for future travels. Much love x
This was for sure a human trafficking ring. Thank goodness you’re safe. For your viewers who travel alone, NEVER tell anyone you’re alone or open the door to an one without clear proof of who they are. They’re are a lot of TH-cam videos about how to respond to questions when travelling alone. So glad you’re safe!❤
I've had a few people mention the possibility of human trafficking to me, including some professionals. Terrifying! They could've easily gotten away with so much due to the circumstances :( Thank you Lisa, and thanks for sharing such great tips that I will also make sure to implement more than ever on future trips x
@@Sam4G0d Sam! Super glad you're safe! This whole incident seems like a scam. Actually, I'm pretty certain it is considering it consists of one of the oldest tricks in the books which is leaving a personal item and having an excuse to get into the room again to steal while "searching" and then accusing you of stealing said item. The other person involved will threaten to be the witness if you don't pay them up. Rest assured that this couldn't have been a human trafficking ring. Traffickers don't pose with their victims and never, ever operate in front lines. This was 100% a money grab. I hope you're okay now. This thing is terrible but what's important is that you've done the smart thing updating your mom and friends. Sending you lots of love xx
He admitted they were both outside of your room!! Terrifying. This unfortunately to me sounds like a potential human trafficking situation. Well done for being so smart Sam, you did everything right. Thank you also for reliving your experience, which must be so difficult. You are a survivor 💪❤️
@@Sam4G0d you are an absolute superstar, and did everything right. Thank you for making us aware and being proactive. The fact they are based around Disney is even scarier. You don’t know how many other women/little girls you may have saved just by sharing. Thank you 🙏
I must say I am shocked by reading here multiple times about people trafficking.... this is completely new to me..when you hear human trafficking you think of illegal immigrants or people living on the streets who are being exploited..I did NOT know that tourists in a hotel could become a victim..do you actually mean that they would kidnap guests from hotels?..I also see too much the good in people, this is really a wake up call for me!
I actually agree with this it sounds like a human trafficking scam or something along those lines. I think police need to investigate that whole hotel with the weird smells there could be like a dead body or something somewhere. Might sound far fetched but the whole situation is incredible creepy and terrifying! I think they are somehow involved together. I would have felt the same as you that’s so awful I’m sorry you had to go through something like this!
Sorry about you story. This ear ring trick is a known one to every detective. She would return , trying to find an ear ring and then convince that you tried to steal it. The guy would be then asked to be a witness and they would try to convince you that you would get into jail, but some amount of money or camera would solve it. And if you now sitting at home would think:” hey , let them try!” It will not be the way how would you feel when pushed by professionals like this overly energetic girl. These guys know people psychology know that you are aline, tired and vulnerable and the already passed your barrier by “helping you out”. It’s really great that you got friends that helped you out. I would not hope that French police would do anything, but kicking the guy out of would be already an achievement and help to other guests
Omg Sam, I am so sorry this happened to you and I am glad you made it out ok. The story literally gave me chills and reminded me of stories we hear on TV. I immediately thought of human trafficking when hearing your story, as other comments also mentioned apparently. It is NOT NORMAL for a hotel staff member to give a full-access card to ANYONE. As someone who worked in a hotel as a housekeeper, I was bound to keep my card for myself and only use it myself. I wasn’t allowed, in any case, to open the door to a guest or another colleague, let alone give the card to anyone. Tips for solo travellers (or any travellers really): - Always lock the door from the inside. You can also buy small doorstops on the internet for more safety - When going away, always put your expensive belongings in the safe if there is one - Note the emergency numbers somewhere (in France, 17 for the police, 112 for any emergency) - Always get someone to know your location as Sam did, share your travel plans with trusted people - Consider travel insurance if you have the means - NEVER tell someone you are travelling alone, always say that you know or that you are going to meet friends or family - Always check the ratings of the place you’re considering staying in (number of ratings is important, the more the better, check for the more recent comments, check numerous rating websites) - This might sound weird, but if you are a solo traveller, getting back to the hotel at a late time, please come back sober lol - Always pay attention to those around you, trust your intuition. If it doesn’t feel right, leave or get help - Be polite. Sam did it very well, and it served her cause, because there is nothing more scary than the person bothering you being offended and getting angry. You don’t know what that person is capable of That’s all I can think about for now but there are pleeeenty of other tips you can find out on the internet Sam, I really hope this doesn’t happen again and I hope this wasn’t too big of a trauma ❤ Thank you for sharing your story, as I think it will definitely get people to be more cautious
This sounds absolutely terrifying Sam (like I said on insta you think you can trust a brand name like Holiday Inn). That guy on reception is 100% running a scam with that woman, the staff card 100% points to something untoward! 😢 The fact that she was able to bang on your door so much and not wake another guest is VERY telling about how empty this place was. You’d probably have been safer at the f**king train station than in that hotel. So so SO glad you had people to help you, and thank you for raising awareness - as a solo traveller this is my worst nightmare.
Sam, I usually never comment on youtube. I believe as scary as this situation was you were used to bring awareness to all of the solo travelers out there. Human trafficking is very real and happening more than ever right now. I am so happy you are safe and pray this doesnt stop you from traveling and making videos. Your videos have helped me and my family plan our disneyland trips which I am grateful for ❤ I posted a review under the hotel to help bring awareness about the whole situation whether it was human trafficking or thieves looking to break into peoples room to steal things considering she had an access card. I pray they are caught and justice is served because sadly by the sound of it this may not have been the first time.
Their confidence of doing this means sadly this likely wasn’t their first time doing this. Truely awful and SO glad you’re following it up so they’re getting consequences of their actions!
Terrifying Sam, there is no telling what they were going to do to you. They weren’t very smart but thought they were when the hotel clerk asked if you were alone. Thank goodness for your Paris friends who helped you escape and your mom. Hotel employees should be held accountable no matter the price point of the establishment for the safety of all guests. My heart goes out to you for your pain.
Absolutely terrifying - I was completely gripped listening to this story but I feel for you so much. I’m so pleased you had other friends nearby that could help you- I’m sure so many people would not have that support and I’m guessing they were counting on that!! I hope you get some justice from this and that no one else goes through this. X
Thank you SO much. Trying to imagine myself in your shoes I don’t think I would have done as well as you did. Before watching this I would have hesitated to contact the police. Thanks to you sharing I will never again be afraid to call for help sooner rather than later. I am so sorry this happened to you. Thank goodness you’re okay!
I saw the stories on Instagram, and I just want to say, again, that I am so grateful that you are okay. This is absolutely unacceptable. I am also glad that the authorities are doing their job on your behalf.
As a solo DLP traveller as well, thank you for your honesty with this very important video. Incredibly sorry such a scary experience happened to you, but your selflessness in wanting to help others with this video is so admirable. Lots of love from London to you, Sam. x
This gave me chills... Like im shaking just listening to what happened to you.... So glad you made it out okay... They need to go to PRISON for what they did to you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WILL NOT REST UNTIL JUSTICE IS SERVED. We must all unite. Also, they should compensate you GENEROUSLY AND PAY FOR THERAPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh goodness Sam. My wife and I had chills just listening to that. We are so glad you are safely home and that you had friends who could help you in that situation. As someone who has travelled solo alot for work to unfamiliar destinations and hotels it can become so easy to not consider the risks posed by travel, but this is very much a timely reminder for everyone to take extra precautions to keep themselves safe. Please do take the time to rest up and seek out any support you need to help with this - and hopefully nothing like this happens again. Thoughts are with you x
Saw your Instagram story's and was terrified for you. (I live in the Netherlands couldn't do everything). And now you explaining this I have chills everywhere. It just feels not real. I am so sorry this happened to you. Please know it's not your fault and you didn't do anything wrong. I also see the good in people and this is not our flaw. But sadly there are some very bad people in this world. Please let this experience not dull your spark! Please just keep talking about it. Do anything you need to do, therapy, anything so you feel better. You are a beautiful strong person!❤
Hearing this is so upsetting. I cannot imagine how scary that was. Glad you had your mom on the phone and your friends were able to meet in such a dangerous situation. I hope you are taking action against the hotel and France takes this VERY seriously.
This is such a terrifying story! The first thing that went through my mind was human trafficking. I'm so glad you're physically okay, and I hope you'll get through this trauma very soon! I'm so sorry you had to experience this very scary situation.
Pair of scammers obviously some kind of planed act they do it’s actually awful, so sorry Sam I feel so sorry for you , I can’t imagine how scary ! I hope the police are called and looked into
That's so scary, i'm just so glad you had some friends to help you out, and the people at the other hotel sound supportive. When you first mentioned the woman i thought she just sounded like she needed psychiatric help, which would be scary but could be viewed as innocent (but scary) but then she left three different things in your room which is not at all innocent. And the actions of the guy are terrifying, giving out an access card to all the hotel rooms and asking if you were alone, it's frightening to consider what might have happened. I travel alone a lot and would have not been at all worried about staying in a brand hotel like Holiday Inn, i'd pick that over a local hotel that I might not know about. I'm so pleased that you're safe.
I’m so pleased your ok! Honestly listening to you I could really feel how terrifying the situation was. I kept thinking - why would he even need to give her a keycard, you were waiting for someone to help so of course would open the door… a very dodgy scary situation. What amazing friends you have, so grateful for them. Hope your able to get through this quickly ❤ Xx
Exactly the point I don't understand. There was literally no reason he should have given her the card - let alone the fact it's a big safety issue for ALL guests in a hotel and the number one rule hotel staff should know about not doing! Thank you
Oh wow Sam. I cannot imagine!! When you got emotional I got a bit teary too! So thankful you had some backup! A tip for safety in the future- you can get little stick on alarms that you can put on your door and the frame, if the door is opened the alarm sounds LOUDLY! They are super cheap and just stick on with a sticky strip which wouldnt damage doors - we’ve used them on balcony doors for our toddler xxx
Oh my god that is absolutely terrifying! I am so happy you were able to get out of that situation. I hope you take the time to feel better after such a horrible experience. Also massive props to your friend and your mom for all that they did. I have to say I’ll be telling anyone I know who is going to Disney to avoid that place at all costs!
I am in shock reading this. I have no words of how bizarre this was and I am impressed with how you handled the whole situation. Such a frightening situation! I am very glad that you’ve got such nice people in your life that they helped you escape. I hope you do get your confidence back travelling along.
I'm so glad you got out safely, I can't even begin to imagine how terrified you must of been. As a mum I know your mum must have also been so terrified being unable to physically come to you thank god for your friends. You did nothing wrong there is no way to predict and prepare for something like this. Hopefully the guilty parties are satisfactorily dealt with by the police and the hotel has a major staff over hall. I know it won't help you feel better but at least you have prevented the same thing or something worse from happening to anyone else. I hope you can quickly regain your confidence.
I’m so sorry you went through that awful situation Sam, you were so strong and have great friends and family. Thank you for the informative video, I’ve solo booked hotels in that area and will be much more vigilant in the future ❤
What a horrible experience. I say your instinct to get out of there was the right one. Thank god your friends came to help you or who knows what would have happened. They probably targeted you, placed you on a floor with no one else there. Sent the friendly girl to gain your trust. A girl who loved killing spiders 😮 and maybe tourists on the side. I’m guessing that smell in the walls could have been the last guest. Silly of her to take photos with you, so you have it to show the police. I would have stepped on that earring in case it was a microphone or camera. Stay safe. You are a very clever girl to know how to reach out for help. You should be so proud of yourself. Thank you for posting, as you may have saved someone else’s life.
What an awful experience, Sam. I felt so nervous for you watching this as you're one of the family now. Thank god you had friends near! Your mum is marvellous! Hope she is fully over her accident ❤❤
It would not surprise me if there were more employees involved besides the night clerk and the woman. Crimes against strangers may have a group target their victims. So glad you are loved by so many viewers and friends. So glad your mom was so supportive of you and gave you strength to help you and your two Paris friends rescued you is anything less than amazing. We never know how we are going to react thank goodness thru your fear, frozen reaction, terrified experience you never gave up and probably saved your life. My hope is that you soon feel safe again. Another question I have to your viewers is there a way to check for hidden cameras in rooms? Did they ever figure out what that horrible smell was? Hopefully the police can figure out what the smell is.
Let me say this! I am so proud! SO PROUD! You handled this so good! You kept yourself safe by doing the right things and thinking right even in a panic attack.
This is genuinely terrifying 😱 Glad you got out safely. I'm going on my first trip as a solo traveller next month and I'm tempted to cancel it after watching this!
Thank you for also sharing this story. I think this is really important. I hope you get over this quickly so you can fully enjoy travelling again. And hopefully they can find the complete truth about their plans, so they don’t do it to someone else. I must say, I am also still wondering about the smell.
Oh Sam! This video popped up as a ‘suggested’ so we’ve just watched it 😢 You are very brave and I’m glad it didn’t stop your love of travel or your solo trips. Always remember for every dodgy unkind person in the world there are hundreds of pure and kind people. Take care and keep being amazing x
Oh wow Sam, this is horrendous. I would of been terrified. Thank god for your 2 friends that came to your rescue, such angels. As for the receptionist and "Kate", they need to be punished for what they did to you. Sending you lots of hugs xxx
Thank you for sharing this!! I have travelled alone for work and I can only imagine the panic I would feel in such a scenario!! I mean you trust the people who work at the hotel to take care of you and keep you safe, not do the opposite!! Glad you had help and are ok ❤
Sam, I've never commented on one of your videos before. My daughter and I have watched tonnes of your videos and we visited Disneyland for the first time last summer (her first time out the country!), we're going again this October and your videos are so sublimely helpful. My 8-year-old totally loves you. It broke my heart hearing this story. My goodness, you must have been absolutely terrified. Thank goodness for your friends and your mum. I hope the police get to the bottom of this and I hope you're doing okay. You've brought a lot of joy to people through your videos and I'm so sorry this happened to you. Stay strong - you're surrounded by people who admire you.
Wow such a disturbing experience. So glad you are safely away! Like you I’m a solo female traveler and you are right reviews are so important. I appreciate you sharing your story. Take care of yourself
Oh my goodness, I’m so glad that you got out of that hotel, you did great, you rang your mum and tried to contact anyone that could help, you did everything right. Thank you for sharing your story, this could help future solo traveler’s Keep traveling and stay safe 🥰
In tears for you Sam. Sending so much love. We all love and support you no matter what and however you need to deal with this for yourself, we’ll always be here. Take time if you need. Lots of love. 🫶🏻
This is actually terrifying. The first reaction I had when you were explaining was that it could be similar to the film Taken. I’m so glad you’re okay. Please make sure you get some support as you seem to have a form of ptsd with the recurring flashbacks/panic attacks. Much love to you Sam x
💜Oh my gosh Sam. So sorry you had to go through all of that. Absolutely terrifying. My husband and I spoke to you in Disneyland Paris on 3rd, just before the cancelled parade and took a picture of you with our daughter, Lucy. He would have come to help you in a shot, if we were still there. Thank goodness you had 2 friends that came to help in the end and Mum was able to speak to the weirdo receptionist. I am praying for you, that you recover from this and are able to enjoy the magic of Disneyland Paris again in a different hotel. Love and hugs 💜🙏xx
Wow, some people will try anything. So glad that you're OK!! Also good on you for actually reporting this to the police, hopefully these scammers won't be able to try this on someone else in the future. Any time I've travelled alone I've always lied and said I have someone with me if I've been asked. Will definitely NEVER be staying at that hotel....
I am so sorry to hear of you're awful terrible frightening experience. Thank you for sharing this with us. You're amazing and so strong. So glad to hear you had your mum and your friends supporting you. Sending all my love to you and thinking of you, stay strong ♥️ xx
Oh Sam, honestly don’t know what to say but the fear and emotion during your recounting if this shows how awful it was. I know you’ve probably been linked to them a hundred times now but you can buy travel locks that make hotel doors a little more secure. They’re inexpensive and they look effective. I’m so sorry this happened to you but so grateful it wasn’t worse. Something very sinister is going on in that hotel, and it’s utterly terrifying. Take care of yourself, and PLEASE seek help if this is affecting you mentally. Sending love!
I was once nearly robbed at a hotel in the Val d’Europe area back in Summer 2019. My parents and I were staying at this hotel and everything was going fine for most of the trip, and then one day we came back to our room from spending the day, and the room door was unlocked! (I always check to make sure the door is locked before I leave) Thankfully nothing was taken, but the room was ransacked with the trash bag that was set up on the ground being tossed on the bed! And this one closet door was opened and a small shopping bag that was there was tossed out, but the bag was locked, so it wasn’t taken. The whole experience was insane and I was so upset. I remember one staff-member went to check the electronic locks for the history, but that was done the day after and I can’t remember what he told us. The weird thing was was that our room was the only one unlocked, no other rooms on the floor were unlocked and ransacked like ours was. When we changed rooms, the really weird, and kinda insensitive thing the hotel did was leave an ice bucket full of bottled juices in our room, which I didn’t drink, because I didn’t trust it. I understand the gesture why they did that, but personally, they could’ve given us some coupons or tickets to Disneyland or something like that, and certainly not leave it in the room like that after having experienced a disturbance in our hotel room prior. Suffice to say, I never stayed at that hotel or any hotel in the overall Marne La Vallee area.
Sam - such a horrendous experience. A few observations... I) Your mum sounds amazing; ii) That whole situation sounds pre-planned, and has very possibly happened before; iii) Your mum sounds incredible; iv) IHG owe you a full and formal apology, a VERY full explanation as to what they've done to resolve this horrendous and unsafe employee; iv) This deserves a criminal investigation; v) Thank goodness for your amazing local friends. I can imagine the sense of relief you must have felt when they arrived at your door was palpable. vi) Your mum sounds like an absolute superstar. So much support to you
Oh my goodness ! I don’t even know what I would’ve done in your situation, I’m so sorry. Glad your okay now though ! It’s scary to think about what could’ve happened if you never messaged your mum or friends. If you ever find out the reason for all of it please let us know, it’d be helpful as a solo traveler myself I’m always trying to be aware of different scams.
I study psychology and it definitely sounds like the woman was having (or pretending to have) a manic episode. I’m so glad you’re safe & hope that you take some time to process this trauma. You are safe & supported now, and I’m so glad you are able to share your story to warn others. Your friends are amazing!! ❤
It’s interesting that he was trying to resolve the situation there at the end in hopes of not having a complaint filed. With everything happening of course you would’ve filed a complaint after your stay but prior to that moment where your friends arrived, he didn’t care, almost as if they could act however they wanted as you wouldn’t be around to file a complaint - if that makes sense? It’s screaming human trafficking. Edit: if you were ever to find yourself in this position again but had no one around who could come get you, the one option you have is to Instagram live everything as you are leaving the hotel. It isn’t guaranteed to have the same effect as a real life friend, however since they knew you had a following, they would know that an Instagram live would garner several watchers, and make sure to record the culprits too, even under the guise of “and this is the hotel lobby at the *insert hotel name*”. Obviously a real person is ten times better, but if you’re out of options and need to just get out of there, this would add an element of safety.
@@crisset Yes, unfortunately, the nearest police station open at that time of night, was half an hour away. The area was quite remote, so sadly not many police stations open nearby at 1 am :( Of course, if my friends weren't able to come as quickly as they did, I would've had no choice but to rely on the police that night.
Reading your texts to your mum made me tear up, i have ASD and severe anxiety and "mum help" is exactly what i text when I'm having a panic attack and dont know what else to do, especially when im away from home. im so sorry you had this experience but so glad you managed to get out without getting hurt, and didn't let it put you off travelling 😢
How completely terrifying. I would be so scared. I hope Holiday Inn step up and do the right thing and that you get some feedback to reassure you it cannot happen to anyone else. Well done for reporting it all.
I am so sorry this happened to you Sam! This is awful! Thank you so much for raising awareness for other travellers. It is great you really had your wits about you and just terrible you were put into this position! Such a sketchy set up and glad you followed up with the authorities.
Solo female traveller here. I’ve learned to just trust my gut and stand my ground. I was at a hotel near Disneyland Paris and as soon as I got to my room, I just didn’t feel comfortable. I went to reception and my worries were sort of laughed off as if I was just being stupid. The reaction of the receptionists made me go back to my room, pack my bags and leave without even knowing what hotel I was going to next. To make it worse, I had a scary experience at the bus stop next to the hotel. One of the worst panic attacks I’ve ever experienced but I’m so glad I listened to my gut in the end, stood my ground to avoid the scam at the bus stop and just left to somewhere safer.
Thanks for sharing your experience Sam - V brave to speak about it. Keep talking about it and hopefully it becomes a distant memory over time. Suggest that EVERYONE finds your review on Trip Advisor and likes it - bring it to the forefront and hopefully prompt some action to stop this for happening ever again.
This is absolutely shocking. I’m so sorry you have had such a terrifying experience. I hope this situation gets dealt with properly and the people responsible are punished accordingly. I’m so glad you are safe now xx
So sorry for what happened but so glad you are okay. I would have freaked out as well. You did great in seeking outside help. Do not let this thing to throw you back in doing solo trips. As you yourself said, try to stay in hotels where you had good experiences in. Good luck and hope to meet you one day in person in our magical place. ❤
Im so glad you manged to get out and feel safe. It must have been terrifing. Im happy you have friends close by. Just want to share: something similar happend to my 2 friends and I 10 years ago. We were staying at Torcy at our disneyland trip. One night a woman began banging at our door and yelling at french (which we did not understand). we called the reception and they did come after 10 min and ask her to leave us alone. We did not get an answer as what this woman wanted. only an explanation that for charity some nights they let homeless people stay in the hotel and she is one of them. Since then I only stay at the known disney partner hotel. Thank you so much for your vlogs, your information and your honesty.
I'm so glad you are safe, and even in the moment when you were so scared, you thought on your feet and reached out like you did. Thank goodness your mum and your friends were able to help in that terrifying situation. Thank you for sharing about your ordeal, Sam, traveling alone can be wonderful, but being safe is your top priority.
This makes me sick to my stomach to hear. I’m so glad you’re safe. I have plans to travel soon and this will have me on extra high alert so thank you for sharing as I’m sure it was not easy to keep re-living as you share it.
You are so strong, Sam. You also handled that situation incredibly well. Thank you for sharing your experiences so openly, I'm sure this is an eyeopener for lot's of us. We're all here to support you in whatever way you need. Take time to heal ❤
This is so scary and I am so glad that you got out of that terrible situation and had the support of your Mum and friends. I am planning to travel solo soon and will be getting extra portable security locks for doors. I hope you manage to get answers. No one should have to put up with things like this happening to them.
So glad safe now! I remember hearing that you should always book a hotel room for 2 even if going solo and it’s crazy the realisation hearing this of this of how important that is especially with them asking if alone. So lucky your friends answered.
Absolutely! Unfortunately there are awful people who take advantage of your situation :( Even in a reputable branded hotel chain. Definitely learnt my lesson there xx
This is horrible! I was terrified just listening to your story. I’m so glad you’re ok and bless your friends! Thank you for sharing this story, it’s a reminder to be extra careful and aware. Hope you’ll get over it soon Xx
Omg sam. This is awful. I'm not surprised you were scared. They've obviously been doing this before. I hope the police and hotel chain take this seriously. The Relais Spa is lovely. Also the l'elyssee. We felt very safe at both of those and their staff are very professional. You're friends were amazing. Absolute heroes. Completely understand it will knock your confidence. Stick to hotels you know and trust if you are alone and try not to let this spoil your enjoyment of future trips. It will take time but you will get past this and will know how to stay safe travelling in future. Take care ❤❤
Honestly we are shocked to hear about this and we are so thankful that you are okay and that you had amazing people nearby. Sending you much love and support ❤ x
Oh my god Sam, this is terrifying..it's so creepy only hearing it..I feel so bad for you 😪..this is exactly what worries me as I plan to travel a lot solo in the future..luckily you had friends in the area..it's terrifying to think what would have happened if you hadn't..also a big thank you for sharing this with us, as a warning..in your video you mention that you have a couple hotels you DO feel safe..maybe you can share this with us so we have a few adresses to go to..a very very big hug!! So glad you are safe!! ❤
Wow this is crazy. Good the guy has been fired and you are taking this further. I'm so sorry this happened to you. It sounds so terrifying. :( I'm so glad you had your Mum and friends there supporting you and getting you out of that horrible situation. Hope you're able to get some rest Sam.
glad your okay and the authorities are dealing with this. i hope this awareness helps solo travelers be aware of anything. you are so blessed to have your mum and two friends to help it could of gone a number of terrible ways. sending love and hugs xoxo
So sorry this happend to you, please don't blame yourself, you are a wonderful person and people do bad things beyond we can imagine. I stayed in this same hotel last January with a friend, and was in a bit of a shock to hear this. Thank you for sharing your story and warning us. Rest and take care ❤
Thank you for your kind message. Glad your experience there was much better. I do hope and assume that since my incident, the hotel will be a lot more secure x
Thank you Sam. We stayed there one night, it was okay. I was actually planning on staying there again this november with our next DLP trip, but we decided to go elsewhere. So thank you again for the warning. I think you are right, the hotel wil probably change for the better, but this may be a warning for all hotels and their guest. Main thing now is you get back on your feet. Sending lots of hugs your way!
Oh my god Sam that's awful I'm sorry you had that experience , no one should be made to feel unsafe and scared in that way . That's a hotel I will now never visit . I'm glad your OK x
Oh gosh Sam, this sounds like it was terrifying. Well done for being so brave and keeping as level headed as possible - your quick thinking and integrity definitely made a huge difference in the outcome. I agree with others, it sounds like a potential human trafficking attempt particularly with the, "checking for spiders at the window". She could easily have been ensuring the windows were locked and difficult to open in a panic to prevent easy escape. I hope these vile people are caught and jailed. Also, I really think it would be a good idea to speak to a therapist on this as I wouldn't be surprised if you have a bit of PTSD from this.
As a FYI, this is a review by Tamaru H (Tami) on Google from a month ago: Very disappointing. Believed previous reviews and was terribly disappointed. Hotel looked fairly new but carpets weren't hoovered, *cleaning staff entered our room and moved our things even though the sign was on the door not to disturb*- this was unacceptable and complaint made to management.
EXTREMELY sinister. All illegal. “Kate” was so comfortable eradicating the spider. I wonder what else she’d be comfortable doing? The smell sounds like a deceased animal (I know because we had mice in my home as a child). They deliberately put you in that room - why not choose another room if they knew that one smelled and the hotel was empty? So glad you are ok 🙏🏼
So glad you're safe Sam and that you had friends nearby! Definitely a very strange and scary situation, tis the stuff of nightmares. Completely understandable that it's knocked your confidence. I've travelled solo a few times and your story definitely makes me rethink regarding extra safety measures for future solo trips. Hope you're able to take time to rest and recover. Sending hugs to you Sam!
wow this is such an horrible story, i'm so grateful you are okay. As a female solo traveler it is sadly always in the back of my mind that i am more vulnerable than most. i do so many check out when booking an hotel. I check reviews from solo travelers on Booking, regular reviews on google and i also use google street view to walk around the area a bit and if i see a bar or suspiscious stuff i choose another place. really hope the police will make a thorough investigation and the staff will be fired
I was terrified just listening to this. I am very happy you made it out of there with "only" emotional scarring. Sending you lots of strenght and love to process all of this - take your time to rest and stay safe 💙
I am so glad you’re safe. I hope you never stay at that hotel ever again. That the receptionist sent that crazy woman to you and gave her your room number is beyond unprofessional. Is there an organization in France that regulates businesses that you can report this hotel to? That step seems very necessary at this point.
Glad that you’re ok and safe. Thank you for sharing this. There’s a lot of people who are now aware that this is not a safe hotel and that’s thanks to you!
What a harrowing experience you went through, Sam. I felt so protective of you because you're such a light and you genuinely give everyone the benefit of the doubt. It infuriated me to hear that your kindness and genuine affable personality were taken advantage of. I'm glad you're okay and safe and that your friends were able to come to the rescue. Allow yourself all the time you need to assess the situation and settle your nerves. Your reaction was totally warranted, and if you need to seek counseling from the trauma, I encourage it. I'm all for mental health awareness and healing. We'll be here looking forward to your next video when you're ready. Until then, be well and stay safe. xoxo
Wow Samar what a story 😢 i am also sometimes a solo traveller and this was not what you could forsee. Take care and take time to process it all. So glad friends were there to help you and your mum who was there to guide you through it all.. can not wrap my brain around it, how this became a very bad nightmare with thank god a good ending! Big hugs for you 💕
This was horrifying to listen to, I'm so glad you're okay. I'm trying to share this video with any potential guests of the hotel via the Google Maps reviews; would encourage others to do the same.
Oh Sam ! 😢 This was so shocking to hear and bought a tear to my eye, you are such a sweet girl. Sounds absolutely terrifying you are definitely in shock . Hope it doesn't knock your confidence & what you do so well. Hope the police really investigate and dont leave it at a sacking . Sending you a massive hug x❤x
Thanking god you are ok and safe, Sam! I’ve been in tears at points during this video, you didn’t deserve any of this. What an absolutely terrifying and awful experience that you went through. So thankful your friends came to save you and that your Mum was glued to her phone the other end. If I was still at DLP that night, I would have come along without any hesitation, but sadly, I had arrived back at home when this was happening to you. Understandably so that you are still feeling uneasy, but I hope this is investigated in depth and those involved are punished as they deserve and this will bring you some peace. Take care of yourself and be safe on your next trip, I hope this experience doesn’t stop you from doing what you love. Sending you all my love and huge hugs as always 💙 xxxx
I got really scared just listening. I am also a solo female traveler and this is really shocking. What I also find shocking is that your Google rating has been deleted and the hotel is commenting under comments with reference to your YT video with: You must be wrong, no special event took place here. What is going wrong in this hotel? 😳 I'm just glad you're doing well and I hope you can recover well and don't let the joy of traveling alone take away from you. I've also had strange situations. One was at my home and from then on I started with Krav Maga and boxing 😅 sending you lots of love and a big virtual hug 🤗
Hey Sam, I can see the trauma in your eyes and how you're struggling to speak about the situation.. I'm so sorry you had to go through this situation. It just sounds so strange and completely understandable that you felt the way you felt, terrified.. Absolutely hope that there is a serious investigation from holiday inn/IHG and police into what on earth has gone on to allow this to happen. Holiday Inn is a very reputable company so this surely will be important to them. At least they have fired the receptionist.. Make sure to chat to your friends and family, talk things out as it'll help with your shock and anxiety around it all. I am happy to chat too but obviously I'm just a stranger to you too so completely understand why you wouldn't. Take care Sam, and I'm sorry again ❤️
This is really scary, especially as a solo traveller. I'm so glad that you are safe and was able to get out of there safe and sound, even though I'm sure you're still shaken from the experience. Definitely sketchy! Thanks for sharing, so that others don't experience the same or worse.
this gave me literal full goosebumps and chills hearing your terrifying story Sam, i am so sorry that this happened to you. I am so glad you had your friends and your mum to help you out of the situation, and that you are safe. i really hope with lawyer and police involvement these people are held accountable for their actions. most of all i hope that you can recover Sam, sending love your way.
What a terrifying situation.. I have no words how bad this must have been for you as a solo traveler. And until the very last moment you try to see the good in people what makes it all more sad 😔 They just took advantage of it. I’m happy to hear that you’re safe but I also hope that you will be feeling better very soon. Maybe after some new positive experiences in the future. Or with the trauma support. Or both. ❤ Big virtual hug! x
I was anxiety ridden just watching this! What a terrible experience for you, you must have been terrified. What on earth were these people thinking! Talking helps heel, and I’m so glad that you shared, it will help make others more aware. I’m certain, in time, this experience will make you even stronger ❤ And please remember that, most people out there are good and kind, and that helping others is what gives us the most pleasure. Take good care Sam, lots of love ❤
Dear Sam, what a horrible story. I'm so sorry you had to go through this and I'm so glad that everything turned out well. Not only thanks to your wonderful friends and mother, but also thanks to your own quick action. This man and woman should go to prison and I hope they investigate this very carefully because I don't trust the case. Lots of strength to you and I hope you soon feel the confidence to discover the world solo again! Lots of love from the Netherlands.
That situation even hearing it was terrifying. I can’t think that in the year 2023 there is still a hotel doing such things. I am so glad that public authorities are investigating about this, and I hope you get over with the situation as quickly as possible.
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I'm so sad to hear your terrible experience, I'm a cast member at disneyland Paris, we met at the newport buffet last year, I'm Bénédicte you mentioned me in your video, anyway, I live at 10 min walk from the holiday inn and if I had seen your help message I would have come right away! I hope you're okay, take a rest and don't let this bad experience take away the confidence you have to travel alone. I send you lots of love and your mom reacted very well by calling the reception. ❤️
Thank you
Quick note to highlight the fact that the banging only started once the woman realised I have a PHOTO of the card given to her by the staff member -
This proof is also most likely the reason the staff member admitted about giving the card, both to my friends AND to the police.
Also, little recap to say:
1. The staff member in question has been fired.
2. His friend "Kate" has been banned from the property.
3. The reason I didn't need to call the police that night, was because my friends responded fairly quickly and were able to come help me leave. Unfortunately, the nearest police station open at that time was half an hour away - calling them that night would have made my escape journey a LOT longer. I wanted to get out of there asap, and thankfully my friends were able to come within 10 minutes. Had I not gotten a response from my friends, my plan was to call the police as soon as I had another hotel to go to - and I would advise anyone travelling solo who has no one in the area to inform police immediately. They may take ages getting to you at that time of night, but they can at least stay with you on the phone and find ways to keep you safe before they arrive. My priority that night was GETTING OUT OF THERE.
I have since talked to several French locals, including professionals in the area, who have confirmed that calling the police that night would've unnecessarily prolonged the ordeal.
4. A big lesson I learnt as a solo traveller, which might be worth sharing, is to write down details of ALL police stations local to wherever you're staying when travelling. Whilst I knew the general police number for France, I didn't know any of the more local numbers, and was actually shocked to find out only ONE police station nearby was open at that time of night - nearby being still 30 minutes away. I think it's also worth booking your stays in an area that has 24 hour police service nearby in case of emergencies. This particular hotel's location was quite remote - I'm sure hotels closer to Disneyland Paris have more police stations open all night.
5. Thank you for the overwhelming love and support. I'm doing much better now professionals have dealt with the situation. I'm also getting help to deal with the trauma for future travels. Much love x
This was for sure a human trafficking ring. Thank goodness you’re safe.
For your viewers who travel alone, NEVER tell anyone you’re alone or open the door to an one without clear proof of who they are. They’re are a lot of TH-cam videos about how to respond to questions when travelling alone. So glad you’re safe!❤
I've had a few people mention the possibility of human trafficking to me, including some professionals. Terrifying! They could've easily gotten away with so much due to the circumstances :(
Thank you Lisa, and thanks for sharing such great tips that I will also make sure to implement more than ever on future trips x
@@Sam4G0d Sam! Super glad you're safe! This whole incident seems like a scam. Actually, I'm pretty certain it is considering it consists of one of the oldest tricks in the books which is leaving a personal item and having an excuse to get into the room again to steal while "searching" and then accusing you of stealing said item. The other person involved will threaten to be the witness if you don't pay them up. Rest assured that this couldn't have been a human trafficking ring. Traffickers don't pose with their victims and never, ever operate in front lines. This was 100% a money grab. I hope you're okay now. This thing is terrible but what's important is that you've done the smart thing updating your mom and friends. Sending you lots of love xx
I don’t believe she(Kate) had a boyfriend who beat her because no way you change room you would report someone
I agree. Defenetly human trafficking ring. Hope you report this to the police.
@@carinadias already reported to the police on the morning after the incident x
He admitted they were both outside of your room!! Terrifying. This unfortunately to me sounds like a potential human trafficking situation. Well done for being so smart Sam, you did everything right. Thank you also for reliving your experience, which must be so difficult. You are a survivor 💪❤️
Thank you
@@Sam4G0d you are an absolute superstar, and did everything right. Thank you for making us aware and being proactive. The fact they are based around Disney is even scarier. You don’t know how many other women/little girls you may have saved just by sharing. Thank you 🙏
I must say I am shocked by reading here multiple times about people trafficking.... this is completely new to me..when you hear human trafficking you think of illegal immigrants or people living on the streets who are being exploited..I did NOT know that tourists in a hotel could become a victim..do you actually mean that they would kidnap guests from hotels?..I also see too much the good in people, this is really a wake up call for me!
I actually agree with this it sounds like a human trafficking scam or something along those lines. I think police need to investigate that whole hotel with the weird smells there could be like a dead body or something somewhere. Might sound far fetched but the whole situation is incredible creepy and terrifying! I think they are somehow involved together. I would have felt the same as you that’s so awful I’m sorry you had to go through something like this!
@@myriamcreyf7489sadly yea it’s becoming common
Sorry about you story. This ear ring trick is a known one to every detective. She would return , trying to find an ear ring and then convince that you tried to steal it. The guy would be then asked to be a witness and they would try to convince you that you would get into jail, but some amount of money or camera would solve it. And if you now sitting at home would think:” hey , let them try!” It will not be the way how would you feel when pushed by professionals like this overly energetic girl. These guys know people psychology know that you are aline, tired and vulnerable and the already passed your barrier by “helping you out”.
It’s really great that you got friends that helped you out. I would not hope that French police would do anything, but kicking the guy out of would be already an achievement and help to other guests
I’m glad to know the earring story. I thought it was a video camera.
Omg Sam, I am so sorry this happened to you and I am glad you made it out ok. The story literally gave me chills and reminded me of stories we hear on TV. I immediately thought of human trafficking when hearing your story, as other comments also mentioned apparently. It is NOT NORMAL for a hotel staff member to give a full-access card to ANYONE. As someone who worked in a hotel as a housekeeper, I was bound to keep my card for myself and only use it myself. I wasn’t allowed, in any case, to open the door to a guest or another colleague, let alone give the card to anyone.
Tips for solo travellers (or any travellers really):
- Always lock the door from the inside. You can also buy small doorstops on the internet for more safety
- When going away, always put your expensive belongings in the safe if there is one
- Note the emergency numbers somewhere (in France, 17 for the police, 112 for any emergency)
- Always get someone to know your location as Sam did, share your travel plans with trusted people
- Consider travel insurance if you have the means
- NEVER tell someone you are travelling alone, always say that you know or that you are going to meet friends or family
- Always check the ratings of the place you’re considering staying in (number of ratings is important, the more the better, check for the more recent comments, check numerous rating websites)
- This might sound weird, but if you are a solo traveller, getting back to the hotel at a late time, please come back sober lol
- Always pay attention to those around you, trust your intuition. If it doesn’t feel right, leave or get help
- Be polite. Sam did it very well, and it served her cause, because there is nothing more scary than the person bothering you being offended and getting angry. You don’t know what that person is capable of
That’s all I can think about for now but there are pleeeenty of other tips you can find out on the internet
Sam, I really hope this doesn’t happen again and I hope this wasn’t too big of a trauma ❤ Thank you for sharing your story, as I think it will definitely get people to be more cautious
This should be sent to anyone who is going to travel solo!!! Perfect summary
This sounds absolutely terrifying Sam (like I said on insta you think you can trust a brand name like Holiday Inn). That guy on reception is 100% running a scam with that woman, the staff card 100% points to something untoward! 😢
The fact that she was able to bang on your door so much and not wake another guest is VERY telling about how empty this place was. You’d probably have been safer at the f**king train station than in that hotel. So so SO glad you had people to help you, and thank you for raising awareness - as a solo traveller this is my worst nightmare.
Exactly :( I was very lucky I had help come quickly! x
I am so sorry you experienced this. My first thought was human trafficking and I am so so glad you had friends to help you make it out safe!
Same, so glad to hear you're ok x
Sam,
I usually never comment on youtube. I believe as scary as this situation was you were used to bring awareness to all of the solo travelers out there. Human trafficking is very real and happening more than ever right now. I am so happy you are safe and pray this doesnt stop you from traveling and making videos. Your videos have helped me and my family plan our disneyland trips which I am grateful for ❤
I posted a review under the hotel to help bring awareness about the whole situation whether it was human trafficking or thieves looking to break into peoples room to steal things considering she had an access card. I pray they are caught and justice is served because sadly by the sound of it this may not have been the first time.
Their confidence of doing this means sadly this likely wasn’t their first time doing this. Truely awful and SO glad you’re following it up so they’re getting consequences of their actions!
Terrifying Sam, there is no telling what they were going to do to you. They weren’t very smart but thought they were when the hotel clerk asked if you were alone. Thank goodness for your Paris friends who helped you escape and your mom. Hotel employees should be held accountable no matter the price point of the establishment for the safety of all guests. My heart goes out to you for your pain.
Absolutely terrifying - I was completely gripped listening to this story but I feel for you so much. I’m so pleased you had other friends nearby that could help you- I’m sure so many people would not have that support and I’m guessing they were counting on that!! I hope you get some justice from this and that no one else goes through this. X
I'm absolutely gobsmacked by this story. I thank God that you're safe and I'll pray for your recovery, Sam. What a terrifying thing 😢
Thank you SO much. Trying to imagine myself in your shoes I don’t think I would have done as well as you did. Before watching this I would have hesitated to contact the police. Thanks to you sharing I will never again be afraid to call for help sooner rather than later. I am so sorry this happened to you. Thank goodness you’re okay!
I saw the stories on Instagram, and I just want to say, again, that I am so grateful that you are okay. This is absolutely unacceptable. I am also glad that the authorities are doing their job on your behalf.
As a solo DLP traveller as well, thank you for your honesty with this very important video. Incredibly sorry such a scary experience happened to you, but your selflessness in wanting to help others with this video is so admirable. Lots of love from London to you, Sam. x
This gave me chills... Like im shaking just listening to what happened to you.... So glad you made it out okay... They need to go to PRISON for what they did to you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WILL NOT REST UNTIL JUSTICE IS SERVED. We must all unite. Also, they should compensate you GENEROUSLY AND PAY FOR THERAPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh goodness Sam. My wife and I had chills just listening to that. We are so glad you are safely home and that you had friends who could help you in that situation.
As someone who has travelled solo alot for work to unfamiliar destinations and hotels it can become so easy to not consider the risks posed by travel, but this is very much a timely reminder for everyone to take extra precautions to keep themselves safe.
Please do take the time to rest up and seek out any support you need to help with this - and hopefully nothing like this happens again. Thoughts are with you x
Saw your Instagram story's and was terrified for you. (I live in the Netherlands couldn't do everything).
And now you explaining this I have chills everywhere. It just feels not real. I am so sorry this happened to you. Please know it's not your fault and you didn't do anything wrong. I also see the good in people and this is not our flaw. But sadly there are some very bad people in this world. Please let this experience not dull your spark!
Please just keep talking about it. Do anything you need to do, therapy, anything so you feel better.
You are a beautiful strong person!❤
Thanks so much, Kaylinn xx
Hearing this is so upsetting. I cannot imagine how scary that was. Glad you had your mom on the phone and your friends were able to meet in such a dangerous situation. I hope you are taking action against the hotel and France takes this VERY seriously.
This is such a terrifying story! The first thing that went through my mind was human trafficking. I'm so glad you're physically okay, and I hope you'll get through this trauma very soon! I'm so sorry you had to experience this very scary situation.
Pair of scammers obviously some kind of planed act they do it’s actually awful, so sorry Sam I feel so sorry for you , I can’t imagine how scary !
I hope the police are called and looked into
Police are on the case. Thank you, it was a terrifying experience x
That's so scary, i'm just so glad you had some friends to help you out, and the people at the other hotel sound supportive. When you first mentioned the woman i thought she just sounded like she needed psychiatric help, which would be scary but could be viewed as innocent (but scary) but then she left three different things in your room which is not at all innocent. And the actions of the guy are terrifying, giving out an access card to all the hotel rooms and asking if you were alone, it's frightening to consider what might have happened. I travel alone a lot and would have not been at all worried about staying in a brand hotel like Holiday Inn, i'd pick that over a local hotel that I might not know about. I'm so pleased that you're safe.
I’m so pleased your ok! Honestly listening to you I could really feel how terrifying the situation was. I kept thinking - why would he even need to give her a keycard, you were waiting for someone to help so of course would open the door… a very dodgy scary situation. What amazing friends you have, so grateful for them. Hope your able to get through this quickly ❤ Xx
Exactly the point I don't understand. There was literally no reason he should have given her the card - let alone the fact it's a big safety issue for ALL guests in a hotel and the number one rule hotel staff should know about not doing! Thank you
Oh wow Sam. I cannot imagine!! When you got emotional I got a bit teary too! So thankful you had some backup! A tip for safety in the future- you can get little stick on alarms that you can put on your door and the frame, if the door is opened the alarm sounds LOUDLY! They are super cheap and just stick on with a sticky strip which wouldnt damage doors - we’ve used them on balcony doors for our toddler xxx
Oh my god that is absolutely terrifying! I am so happy you were able to get out of that situation. I hope you take the time to feel better after such a horrible experience. Also massive props to your friend and your mom for all that they did. I have to say I’ll be telling anyone I know who is going to Disney to avoid that place at all costs!
I am in shock reading this. I have no words of how bizarre this was and I am impressed with how you handled the whole situation. Such a frightening situation! I am very glad that you’ve got such nice people in your life that they helped you escape. I hope you do get your confidence back travelling along.
I'm so glad you got out safely, I can't even begin to imagine how terrified you must of been. As a mum I know your mum must have also been so terrified being unable to physically come to you thank god for your friends. You did nothing wrong there is no way to predict and prepare for something like this. Hopefully the guilty parties are satisfactorily dealt with by the police and the hotel has a major staff over hall. I know it won't help you feel better but at least you have prevented the same thing or something worse from happening to anyone else. I hope you can quickly regain your confidence.
I’m so sorry you went through that awful situation Sam, you were so strong and have great friends and family. Thank you for the informative video, I’ve solo booked hotels in that area and will be much more vigilant in the future ❤
What a horrible experience. I say your instinct to get out of there was the right one. Thank god your friends came to help you or who knows what would have happened. They probably targeted you, placed you on a floor with no one else there. Sent the friendly girl to gain your trust. A girl who loved killing spiders 😮 and maybe tourists on the side. I’m guessing that smell in the walls could have been the last guest. Silly of her to take photos with you, so you have it to show the police. I would have stepped on that earring in case it was a microphone or camera. Stay safe. You are a very clever girl to know how to reach out for help. You should be so proud of yourself. Thank you for posting, as you may have saved someone else’s life.
What an awful experience, Sam. I felt so nervous for you watching this as you're one of the family now. Thank god you had friends near! Your mum is marvellous! Hope she is fully over her accident ❤❤
It would not surprise me if there were more employees involved besides the night clerk and the woman. Crimes against strangers may have a group target their victims. So glad you are loved by so many viewers and friends. So glad your mom was so supportive of you and gave you strength to help you and your two Paris friends rescued you is anything less than amazing. We never know how we are going to react thank goodness thru your fear, frozen reaction, terrified experience you never gave up and probably saved your life. My hope is that you soon feel safe again. Another question I have to your viewers is there a way to check for hidden cameras in rooms? Did they ever figure out what that horrible smell was? Hopefully the police can figure out what the smell is.
Let me say this! I am so proud! SO PROUD! You handled this so good! You kept yourself safe by doing the right things and thinking right even in a panic attack.
Thank you 🥺
This is genuinely terrifying 😱 Glad you got out safely.
I'm going on my first trip as a solo traveller next month and I'm tempted to cancel it after watching this!
Thank you for also sharing this story. I think this is really important. I hope you get over this quickly so you can fully enjoy travelling again. And hopefully they can find the complete truth about their plans, so they don’t do it to someone else. I must say, I am also still wondering about the smell.
Oh Sam! This video popped up as a ‘suggested’ so we’ve just watched it 😢 You are very brave and I’m glad it didn’t stop your love of travel or your solo trips. Always remember for every dodgy unkind person in the world there are hundreds of pure and kind people. Take care and keep being amazing x
Oh wow Sam, this is horrendous. I would of been terrified. Thank god for your 2 friends that came to your rescue, such angels. As for the receptionist and "Kate", they need to be punished for what they did to you. Sending you lots of hugs xxx
Thank you for sharing this!! I have travelled alone for work and I can only imagine the panic I would feel in such a scenario!! I mean you trust the people who work at the hotel to take care of you and keep you safe, not do the opposite!! Glad you had help and are ok ❤
Sam, I've never commented on one of your videos before. My daughter and I have watched tonnes of your videos and we visited Disneyland for the first time last summer (her first time out the country!), we're going again this October and your videos are so sublimely helpful. My 8-year-old totally loves you.
It broke my heart hearing this story. My goodness, you must have been absolutely terrified. Thank goodness for your friends and your mum. I hope the police get to the bottom of this and I hope you're doing okay. You've brought a lot of joy to people through your videos and I'm so sorry this happened to you. Stay strong - you're surrounded by people who admire you.
Thanks so much Chris, and to your daughter too! Hope you have a lovely trip in October x
Wow such a disturbing experience. So glad you are safely away! Like you I’m a solo female traveler and you are right reviews are so important. I appreciate you sharing your story. Take care of yourself
Oh my goodness, I’m so glad that you got out of that hotel, you did great, you rang your mum and tried to contact anyone that could help, you did everything right.
Thank you for sharing your story, this could help future solo traveler’s
Keep traveling and stay safe 🥰
In tears for you Sam. Sending so much love. We all love and support you no matter what and however you need to deal with this for yourself, we’ll always be here. Take time if you need. Lots of love. 🫶🏻
This is actually terrifying. The first reaction I had when you were explaining was that it could be similar to the film Taken. I’m so glad you’re okay. Please make sure you get some support as you seem to have a form of ptsd with the recurring flashbacks/panic attacks. Much love to you Sam x
💜Oh my gosh Sam. So sorry you had to go through all of that. Absolutely terrifying. My husband and I spoke to you in Disneyland Paris on 3rd, just before the cancelled parade and took a picture of you with our daughter, Lucy. He would have come to help you in a shot, if we were still there. Thank goodness you had 2 friends that came to help in the end and Mum was able to speak to the weirdo receptionist. I am praying for you, that you recover from this and are able to enjoy the magic of Disneyland Paris again in a different hotel. Love and hugs 💜🙏xx
Thanks so much, Rachel - that means a lot, and it was lovely meeting you x
Wow, some people will try anything. So glad that you're OK!! Also good on you for actually reporting this to the police, hopefully these scammers won't be able to try this on someone else in the future. Any time I've travelled alone I've always lied and said I have someone with me if I've been asked. Will definitely NEVER be staying at that hotel....
I am so sorry to hear of you're awful terrible frightening experience. Thank you for sharing this with us. You're amazing and so strong. So glad to hear you had your mum and your friends supporting you. Sending all my love to you and thinking of you, stay strong ♥️ xx
Oh Sam, honestly don’t know what to say but the fear and emotion during your recounting if this shows how awful it was.
I know you’ve probably been linked to them a hundred times now but you can buy travel locks that make hotel doors a little more secure. They’re inexpensive and they look effective.
I’m so sorry this happened to you but so grateful it wasn’t worse. Something very sinister is going on in that hotel, and it’s utterly terrifying.
Take care of yourself, and PLEASE seek help if this is affecting you mentally. Sending love!
I was once nearly robbed at a hotel in the Val d’Europe area back in Summer 2019. My parents and I were staying at this hotel and everything was going fine for most of the trip, and then one day we came back to our room from spending the day, and the room door was unlocked! (I always check to make sure the door is locked before I leave) Thankfully nothing was taken, but the room was ransacked with the trash bag that was set up on the ground being tossed on the bed! And this one closet door was opened and a small shopping bag that was there was tossed out, but the bag was locked, so it wasn’t taken. The whole experience was insane and I was so upset. I remember one staff-member went to check the electronic locks for the history, but that was done the day after and I can’t remember what he told us. The weird thing was was that our room was the only one unlocked, no other rooms on the floor were unlocked and ransacked like ours was.
When we changed rooms, the really weird, and kinda insensitive thing the hotel did was leave an ice bucket full of bottled juices in our room, which I didn’t drink, because I didn’t trust it. I understand the gesture why they did that, but personally, they could’ve given us some coupons or tickets to Disneyland or something like that, and certainly not leave it in the room like that after having experienced a disturbance in our hotel room prior. Suffice to say, I never stayed at that hotel or any hotel in the overall Marne La Vallee area.
Sam - such a horrendous experience. A few observations...
I) Your mum sounds amazing;
ii) That whole situation sounds pre-planned, and has very possibly happened before;
iii) Your mum sounds incredible;
iv) IHG owe you a full and formal apology, a VERY full explanation as to what they've done to resolve this horrendous and unsafe employee;
iv) This deserves a criminal investigation;
v) Thank goodness for your amazing local friends. I can imagine the sense of relief you must have felt when they arrived at your door was palpable.
vi) Your mum sounds like an absolute superstar.
So much support to you
Oh my goodness ! I don’t even know what I would’ve done in your situation, I’m so sorry. Glad your okay now though ! It’s scary to think about what could’ve happened if you never messaged your mum or friends. If you ever find out the reason for all of it please let us know, it’d be helpful as a solo traveler myself I’m always trying to be aware of different scams.
I study psychology and it definitely sounds like the woman was having (or pretending to have) a manic episode. I’m so glad you’re safe & hope that you take some time to process this trauma. You are safe & supported now, and I’m so glad you are able to share your story to warn others. Your friends are amazing!! ❤
Thank you Eric
It’s interesting that he was trying to resolve the situation there at the end in hopes of not having a complaint filed. With everything happening of course you would’ve filed a complaint after your stay but prior to that moment where your friends arrived, he didn’t care, almost as if they could act however they wanted as you wouldn’t be around to file a complaint - if that makes sense? It’s screaming human trafficking.
Edit: if you were ever to find yourself in this position again but had no one around who could come get you, the one option you have is to Instagram live everything as you are leaving the hotel. It isn’t guaranteed to have the same effect as a real life friend, however since they knew you had a following, they would know that an Instagram live would garner several watchers, and make sure to record the culprits too, even under the guise of “and this is the hotel lobby at the *insert hotel name*”. Obviously a real person is ten times better, but if you’re out of options and need to just get out of there, this would add an element of safety.
Or call the police
@@crisset sometimes it’s not that simple, I believe she said there were no police stations open close to her at this time.
@@crisset Yes, unfortunately, the nearest police station open at that time of night, was half an hour away. The area was quite remote, so sadly not many police stations open nearby at 1 am :(
Of course, if my friends weren't able to come as quickly as they did, I would've had no choice but to rely on the police that night.
But they even sent the 🚕 away from the other hotel 😰
Reading your texts to your mum made me tear up, i have ASD and severe anxiety and "mum help" is exactly what i text when I'm having a panic attack and dont know what else to do, especially when im away from home. im so sorry you had this experience but so glad you managed to get out without getting hurt, and didn't let it put you off travelling 😢
How completely terrifying. I would be so scared. I hope Holiday Inn step up and do the right thing and that you get some feedback to reassure you it cannot happen to anyone else. Well done for reporting it all.
I am so sorry this happened to you Sam! This is awful! Thank you so much for raising awareness for other travellers. It is great you really had your wits about you and just terrible you were put into this position! Such a sketchy set up and glad you followed up with the authorities.
Solo female traveller here. I’ve learned to just trust my gut and stand my ground. I was at a hotel near Disneyland Paris and as soon as I got to my room, I just didn’t feel comfortable. I went to reception and my worries were sort of laughed off as if I was just being stupid. The reaction of the receptionists made me go back to my room, pack my bags and leave without even knowing what hotel I was going to next. To make it worse, I had a scary experience at the bus stop next to the hotel. One of the worst panic attacks I’ve ever experienced but I’m so glad I listened to my gut in the end, stood my ground to avoid the scam at the bus stop and just left to somewhere safer.
Thanks for sharing your experience Sam - V brave to speak about it. Keep talking about it and hopefully it becomes a distant memory over time. Suggest that EVERYONE finds your review on Trip Advisor and likes it - bring it to the forefront and hopefully prompt some action to stop this for happening ever again.
This is absolutely shocking. I’m so sorry you have had such a terrifying experience. I hope this situation gets dealt with properly and the people responsible are punished accordingly. I’m so glad you are safe now xx
So sorry for what happened but so glad you are okay. I would have freaked out as well. You did great in seeking outside help. Do not let this thing to throw you back in doing solo trips. As you yourself said, try to stay in hotels where you had good experiences in. Good luck and hope to meet you one day in person in our magical place. ❤
Im so glad you manged to get out and feel safe.
It must have been terrifing.
Im happy you have friends close by.
Just want to share: something similar happend to my 2 friends and I 10 years ago.
We were staying at Torcy at our disneyland trip. One night a woman began banging at our door and yelling at french (which we did not understand).
we called the reception and they did come after 10 min and ask her to leave us alone.
We did not get an answer as what this woman wanted. only an explanation that for charity some nights they let homeless people stay in the hotel and she is one of them.
Since then I only stay at the known disney partner hotel.
Thank you so much for your vlogs, your information and your honesty.
I'm so glad you are safe, and even in the moment when you were so scared, you thought on your feet and reached out like you did. Thank goodness your mum and your friends were able to help in that terrifying situation. Thank you for sharing about your ordeal, Sam, traveling alone can be wonderful, but being safe is your top priority.
This makes me sick to my stomach to hear. I’m so glad you’re safe. I have plans to travel soon and this will have me on extra high alert so thank you for sharing as I’m sure it was not easy to keep re-living as you share it.
Thanks Jessica xx
You are so strong, Sam. You also handled that situation incredibly well. Thank you for sharing your experiences so openly, I'm sure this is an eyeopener for lot's of us. We're all here to support you in whatever way you need. Take time to heal ❤
This is so scary and I am so glad that you got out of that terrible situation and had the support of your Mum and friends. I am planning to travel solo soon and will be getting extra portable security locks for doors. I hope you manage to get answers. No one should have to put up with things like this happening to them.
So glad safe now! I remember hearing that you should always book a hotel room for 2 even if going solo and it’s crazy the realisation hearing this of this of how important that is especially with them asking if alone. So lucky your friends answered.
Absolutely! Unfortunately there are awful people who take advantage of your situation :( Even in a reputable branded hotel chain. Definitely learnt my lesson there xx
This is horrible! I was terrified just listening to your story. I’m so glad you’re ok and bless your friends! Thank you for sharing this story, it’s a reminder to be extra careful and aware. Hope you’ll get over it soon Xx
Omg sam. This is awful. I'm not surprised you were scared. They've obviously been doing this before. I hope the police and hotel chain take this seriously. The Relais Spa is lovely. Also the l'elyssee. We felt very safe at both of those and their staff are very professional. You're friends were amazing. Absolute heroes. Completely understand it will knock your confidence. Stick to hotels you know and trust if you are alone and try not to let this spoil your enjoyment of future trips. It will take time but you will get past this and will know how to stay safe travelling in future. Take care ❤❤
Thank you Helen. Yes, the way the woman ("Kate") acted especially makes me certain she's experienced in whatever they were trying to do x
Honestly we are shocked to hear about this and we are so thankful that you are okay and that you had amazing people nearby. Sending you much love and support ❤ x
Thank you
Oh my god Sam, this is terrifying..it's so creepy only hearing it..I feel so bad for you 😪..this is exactly what worries me as I plan to travel a lot solo in the future..luckily you had friends in the area..it's terrifying to think what would have happened if you hadn't..also a big thank you for sharing this with us, as a warning..in your video you mention that you have a couple hotels you DO feel safe..maybe you can share this with us so we have a few adresses to go to..a very very big hug!! So glad you are safe!! ❤
Wow this is crazy. Good the guy has been fired and you are taking this further. I'm so sorry this happened to you. It sounds so terrifying. :( I'm so glad you had your Mum and friends there supporting you and getting you out of that horrible situation. Hope you're able to get some rest Sam.
glad your okay and the authorities are dealing with this. i hope this awareness helps solo travelers be aware of anything. you are so blessed to have your mum and two friends to help it could of gone a number of terrible ways. sending love and hugs xoxo
So sorry this happend to you, please don't blame yourself, you are a wonderful person and people do bad things beyond we can imagine.
I stayed in this same hotel last January with a friend, and was in a bit of a shock to hear this. Thank you for sharing your story and warning us. Rest and take care ❤
Thank you for your kind message. Glad your experience there was much better. I do hope and assume that since my incident, the hotel will be a lot more secure x
Thank you Sam.
We stayed there one night, it was okay. I was actually planning on staying there again this november with our next DLP trip, but we decided to go elsewhere. So thank you again for the warning.
I think you are right, the hotel wil probably change for the better, but this may be a warning for all hotels and their guest.
Main thing now is you get back on your feet. Sending lots of hugs your way!
Oh my god Sam that's awful I'm sorry you had that experience , no one should be made to feel unsafe and scared in that way . That's a hotel I will now never visit . I'm glad your OK x
Oh gosh Sam, this sounds like it was terrifying.
Well done for being so brave and keeping as level headed as possible - your quick thinking and integrity definitely made a huge difference in the outcome.
I agree with others, it sounds like a potential human trafficking attempt particularly with the, "checking for spiders at the window". She could easily have been ensuring the windows were locked and difficult to open in a panic to prevent easy escape.
I hope these vile people are caught and jailed.
Also, I really think it would be a good idea to speak to a therapist on this as I wouldn't be surprised if you have a bit of PTSD from this.
Thank you Alison xx
Could also have been a 'tell' to someone stood outside looking up
As a FYI, this is a review by Tamaru H (Tami) on Google from a month ago:
Very disappointing. Believed previous reviews and was terribly disappointed. Hotel looked fairly new but carpets weren't hoovered, *cleaning staff entered our room and moved our things even though the sign was on the door not to disturb*- this was unacceptable and complaint made to management.
EXTREMELY sinister. All illegal. “Kate” was so comfortable eradicating the spider. I wonder what else she’d be comfortable doing? The smell sounds like a deceased animal (I know because we had mice in my home as a child). They deliberately put you in that room - why not choose another room if they knew that one smelled and the hotel was empty? So glad you are ok 🙏🏼
So glad you're safe Sam and that you had friends nearby! Definitely a very strange and scary situation, tis the stuff of nightmares. Completely understandable that it's knocked your confidence. I've travelled solo a few times and your story definitely makes me rethink regarding extra safety measures for future solo trips. Hope you're able to take time to rest and recover. Sending hugs to you Sam!
Thank You ! For getting the Police involved , So many others have been trapped. I’m positive and didn’t report . Your helping others .❤
wow this is such an horrible story, i'm so grateful you are okay. As a female solo traveler it is sadly always in the back of my mind that i am more vulnerable than most. i do so many check out when booking an hotel. I check reviews from solo travelers on Booking, regular reviews on google and i also use google street view to walk around the area a bit and if i see a bar or suspiscious stuff i choose another place. really hope the police will make a thorough investigation and the staff will be fired
I was terrified just listening to this. I am very happy you made it out of there with "only" emotional scarring. Sending you lots of strenght and love to process all of this - take your time to rest and stay safe 💙
Thank you x
I am so glad you’re safe. I hope you never stay at that hotel ever again. That the receptionist sent that crazy woman to you and gave her your room number is beyond unprofessional. Is there an organization in France that regulates businesses that you can report this hotel to? That step seems very necessary at this point.
Not only unprofessional. I'ts CRIMINAL.
This sounded so terrifying and don't be hesitant to seek help after something so traumatic. Sending love ❤
This is one of the reasons why I won't travel alone - I struggle with anxiety and this kind of thing is my worst nightmare.
Glad that you’re ok and safe. Thank you for sharing this. There’s a lot of people who are now aware that this is not a safe hotel and that’s thanks to you!
What a harrowing experience you went through, Sam. I felt so protective of you because you're such a light and you genuinely give everyone the benefit of the doubt. It infuriated me to hear that your kindness and genuine affable personality were taken advantage of. I'm glad you're okay and safe and that your friends were able to come to the rescue. Allow yourself all the time you need to assess the situation and settle your nerves. Your reaction was totally warranted, and if you need to seek counseling from the trauma, I encourage it. I'm all for mental health awareness and healing. We'll be here looking forward to your next video when you're ready. Until then, be well and stay safe. xoxo
Awful awful experience for you. Glad you are OK. The support and love being shown here truly shows how valued you and the work you do are ❤
Wow Samar what a story 😢 i am also sometimes a solo traveller and this was not what you could forsee. Take care and take time to process it all. So glad friends were there to help you and your mum who was there to guide you through it all.. can not wrap my brain around it, how this became a very bad nightmare with thank god a good ending! Big hugs for you 💕
This was horrifying to listen to, I'm so glad you're okay.
I'm trying to share this video with any potential guests of the hotel via the Google Maps reviews; would encourage others to do the same.
Omg so sorry you experienced this. I’m a solo traveller too and this would have terrified me. I’m glad you’re home safely now. Take care. Tina.
Oh Sam ! 😢 This was so shocking to hear and bought a tear to my eye, you are such a sweet girl. Sounds absolutely terrifying you are definitely in shock . Hope it doesn't knock your confidence & what you do so well. Hope the police really investigate and dont leave it at a sacking . Sending you a massive hug x❤x
Thanking god you are ok and safe, Sam! I’ve been in tears at points during this video, you didn’t deserve any of this. What an absolutely terrifying and awful experience that you went through. So thankful your friends came to save you and that your Mum was glued to her phone the other end. If I was still at DLP that night, I would have come along without any hesitation, but sadly, I had arrived back at home when this was happening to you. Understandably so that you are still feeling uneasy, but I hope this is investigated in depth and those involved are punished as they deserve and this will bring you some peace. Take care of yourself and be safe on your next trip, I hope this experience doesn’t stop you from doing what you love. Sending you all my love and huge hugs as always 💙 xxxx
Thanks so much Lauren
I got really scared just listening. I am also a solo female traveler and this is really shocking. What I also find shocking is that your Google rating has been deleted and the hotel is commenting under comments with reference to your YT video with: You must be wrong, no special event took place here. What is going wrong in this hotel? 😳 I'm just glad you're doing well and I hope you can recover well and don't let the joy of traveling alone take away from you. I've also had strange situations. One was at my home and from then on I started with Krav Maga and boxing 😅 sending you lots of love and a big virtual hug 🤗
Hey Sam, I can see the trauma in your eyes and how you're struggling to speak about the situation.. I'm so sorry you had to go through this situation. It just sounds so strange and completely understandable that you felt the way you felt, terrified.. Absolutely hope that there is a serious investigation from holiday inn/IHG and police into what on earth has gone on to allow this to happen. Holiday Inn is a very reputable company so this surely will be important to them. At least they have fired the receptionist..
Make sure to chat to your friends and family, talk things out as it'll help with your shock and anxiety around it all. I am happy to chat too but obviously I'm just a stranger to you too so completely understand why you wouldn't.
Take care Sam, and I'm sorry again ❤️
Thanks so much xx
This is really scary, especially as a solo traveller. I'm so glad that you are safe and was able to get out of there safe and sound, even though I'm sure you're still shaken from the experience. Definitely sketchy! Thanks for sharing, so that others don't experience the same or worse.
This made me anxious to even listen to. So glad you're safe Sam, such a traumatic experience for you.
this gave me literal full goosebumps and chills hearing your terrifying story Sam, i am so sorry that this happened to you. I am so glad you had your friends and your mum to help you out of the situation, and that you are safe. i really hope with lawyer and police involvement these people are held accountable for their actions. most of all i hope that you can recover Sam, sending love your way.
Thank you xx
What a terrifying situation.. I have no words how bad this must have been for you as a solo traveler. And until the very last moment you try to see the good in people what makes it all more sad 😔 They just took advantage of it. I’m happy to hear that you’re safe but I also hope that you will be feeling better very soon. Maybe after some new positive experiences in the future. Or with the trauma support. Or both. ❤ Big virtual hug! x
Thanks so much, Marieke xx
I was anxiety ridden just watching this! What a terrible experience for you, you must have been terrified. What on earth were these people thinking!
Talking helps heel, and I’m so glad that you shared, it will help make others more aware.
I’m certain, in time, this experience will make you even stronger ❤
And please remember that, most people out there are good and kind, and that helping others is what gives us the most pleasure. Take good care Sam, lots of love ❤
Thanks so much, Tracey x
Dear Sam, what a horrible story. I'm so sorry you had to go through this and I'm so glad that everything turned out well. Not only thanks to your wonderful friends and mother, but also thanks to your own quick action. This man and woman should go to prison and I hope they investigate this very carefully because I don't trust the case.
Lots of strength to you and I hope you soon feel the confidence to discover the world solo again!
Lots of love from the Netherlands.
That situation even hearing it was terrifying. I can’t think that in the year 2023 there is still a hotel doing such things. I am so glad that public authorities are investigating about this, and I hope you get over with the situation as quickly as possible.