As a black woman i can say this, Happiness is an INSIDE job. That's what so many black women don't understand. You CANNOT get happiness form hair, clothes, cars or men. It starts from WITHIN
@Major Key there are so many people out there who will go through what Jada has done and be pleased with themselves. That was the key issue I'm getting at.
I walked away from my kids mother and being apart from them kills me every day, but staying with her I was disappearing piece by piece every day. My health plummeted, I spoke to her about it and she said "I have no sympathy for you". There are truly men killed by a toxic woman's energy.
@@janelleg597 I had to go to court twice and won both times but in last 3 years she stopped me seeing them for year and a half. But she's behaving now so I'll enjoy it while it lasts he he. She can hate me all she wants, as long as she takes care of my kids I have no issue with her.
After hearing this... I am a low value woman and was taught how to be low value... but as I’ve gotten older I understand the mistakes of the past and I will not have my daughter be low value...
My wife had this need to be right even when she was wrong. (too proud to admit she was wrong) - I told her; look honey, there is the door, you can be either right, or you can be wife. -We never had any pointless arguments after that. -She later asked why I'm with her when I was so quick to point she can be replaced. I told her I chose her because of her value and my love for her, but if she insist acting in a way that lowers her value, she is no longer worth being provided for, despite my feelings for her. Love can blind a man, blind man from seeing how toxic she is, letting go hurts like kick in the nuts, but never let low value woman poison your spirit. As long she knows you as a man have plenty of options, she values her position as your woman and will act accordingly to keep that position, so dont let your love for her enslave you to her.
You ain't never lied. I told my wife this because she displays that same behavior sometimes. Your spirit as a man is the most important thing and nothing or no one is worth losing that..I would rather find someone else then let you break my spirit
I really need to know this men...If a wife does everything tailored to you. Why do curtain men get bored, and cheat? I feel its a thin line..women can be not as attentive and get cheated on or she could be to overbearing and get cheated on..IMO its a lose lose situation
@@VaChier-vb3pb Man can also be too emotional and caring, or too stoic. Its the same losing situation for men also. Just be a good woman, a good wife and a good person and you'll get the man of your dreams eventually. Its true, not all men know how to apreciate a good woman, just like not all women know how to apreciate a good man. Just try to be the best you and you will attract a partner who will respect you and make you feel loved.
I love this video. My only regret is not addressing issues that led to years of low value behavior and I knew better. We have to reintroduce femininity back to the culture 🥺.
@@Jdabaddestb don’t take any advice from any women unless they’re in a good marriage... that means tune out ALL your unmarried friends and family members
Oh this is a red pill channel? Most red pill channels speak out of emotion I love his because he says straight facts without belittling anyone . He’s so good I didn’t even know this was a red pill channel . I see it as a channel to help women .
@@laurenlocd3180 there is kind of a line between red pill and black pill. Black pill are the ones that say basically screw relationships, women and don't risk destroying your life for the chance at a happy family. Red pill helps people understand relationship dynamics, along with the female-favored court systems so that men especially can make better decisions when choosing a life partner, because they are the ones held accountable more-so financially when it comes to child support.
I had the honors if only brief to be able to converse and get some guidance from him after we had a mature debate. I opened up willing to absorb more .
I’m truly listening and learn. Literally taking notes. I don’t know why so many woman take issue with the views he shares. Hard truths are still truths. I want to be a safe space for my future husband. I want to and will break the cycle of divorce and unhealthy relationships..at least in my family.
Hard truths are the truths we NEED. I'm 50, happily married, watched my father go through 3 failed marriages, watched my mother destroy her own and others' lives, and went through nuff tribulations, and I'm STILL learning. It's not easy to humble yourself. Sometimes getting over ourselves and sitting in that feeling we get when we are WRONG (shame, embarrassment) is the best medicine we can ever take.
I was raised by a narcissistic woman who would battle to the death to be right... about something as trivial as shampoo. About who took the garbage out last Tuesday. About how to properly wrap the cord on the iron. She'd gaslight, take low blows, debate, belittle, and twist the past into knots if she thought that she could score imaginary points. As a result, I suffered a slew of stepfathers and 'uncles' until I grew up and escaped the stress. I have to give her credit. Because of her, I am NOT that. I want a peaceful home. I want to keep my one marriage to the same man who fathered my children. I may feel that I'm right in a situation, but 99% of the time it's not worth arguing or getting excited about. Unless I'm under direct attack or being angrily accused of doing something that I did NOT do, I'll let it go. And I mean TRULY let it go. It's not that I'm just keeping my mouth shut. My heart releases it and I forget the small stuff ten minutes after it happened. Not because I'm a doormat, but because I don't want to waste the energy. I don't want to battle the man who gave me babies and a house. I love him and I want to cuddle that night. I understand priorities and a peaceful marriage is my number one priority. A happy home is my priority. A sanctuary home is my priority. You can't have those things if you take a defensive stance. That is not for me. No. I'm not a pushover. I'm truly meeting my personal goals. And my goals don't involve being the alpha in the house. My goals don't involve preserving my pride. I don't care about that one bit. My goals are to live a life that doesn't keep me anxious and angry and those are healthy goals. Life can be simple and low on stress, ladies. All it takes is to pack up your ego and adjust what makes you feel pride. You can be right or you can be happy. I choose happy.
I love your comment. Ladies need to really hear this. When I was younger I worried about whether or not I was being treated right but never considered what I was giving to him. When my focus grew to include my husband's happiness, our relationship improved. A good father is a high value man. I'm a lucky lady.
I found him after my divorce, watching his videos helped me recover and has made my life better. the world is a less bright place without this man in it. rest in peace brother, thank you for your contributions to us all.
Exactly i cut my loses and moved on in the past and I matured to know that I will get to know who and what she is 1st and foremost and move accordingly ...not go into relationship mode only to discover she is vulgar and disrespectful ..we men learn from experience ..and sex becomes less important character become everything..
You have to pull teeth. They'll admit it to themselves but they'll believe the lie they create. I had an ex finally admit after 20 years she was out of order. Kevin highlights something I've noticed over the years. A woman will screw up and instead of owning the transgression will play victim and allow the matter to fester until it's too late then they let everything burn ONLY to still harbor the regret (like that one sister who called in still talking about her ex after two years) that stems from a lack of accountability from childhood to adulthood. Much as women think that men aren't held accountable it's becoming more and more evident that when it comes to women's accountability there's virtually none for black women. I expect KS show on cheating to be monumental.
And as far as the topic of "submission"..... I LOVE submitting to my husband. I love allowing him to be the man of the house/King of the castle. To me, there is nothing sexier or manlier than a strong, confident man who knows how to take charge and run the areas of the household and our family's life that he is designated to run. The partnership that I share with my husband is one that I would never let go of. EVER. I don't know why so many women see the word submission as a bad thing. Like the young lady said while talking to Kevin (around the 1:47:00 mark), to submit does not mean being a slave. You can be your own woman, and still have a personal life that you enjoy while submitting to your husband and being the wife you are meant to be. Ladies...get into it! Submission to your husband is the shit. :-)
You are here to try to hit on Kevin. And if not to him then someone else who gets you out of the nightmare you are living in right now where you allow your man to be the king. Who is submitting to whom?
I like seeing more women looking to understand men. Even if it’s not for a boyfriend/husband but if she has a son. She can gain more understanding of what he will be dealing with.
A mistake is always forgivable, if one has the courage to admit it. Low value people never admit a mistake. They attack whoever points out the mistake. Angry gets sh*t done,but it breeds solitude. Angry is sadness' bodyguard.
When we function just off heart, often times it evokes emotion which then comes across as irrational. Then could possibly cause anger. Hurt is not a great function even with a nice slim body, femininity and willing to submissive.
RIP to KS. I found out about his videos after his passing and I'm completely blown away by their quality and content. This distinction between high value and low value women is blowing my mind. I have never heard this put into words before but it's clear that all of my exes are classic low value women versus my wife who is a high value woman. I didn't know what it was called at the time but I knew the difference between her and my exes immediately. And Kevin is right when he talks about how it doesnt take time to know when a man wants to marry a woman. My wife and I have been together for almost 20 years, but have been married for 16 years. We both learned a lot and have grown a lot over these years, but she has always had the traits of a high value woman. Kevin has also given me some jewels so i can further improve myself. Again, RIP to the God Father.
Hey brother! I never comment on your videos and hardly ever listen to your interviews. The dissertation of facts that you presented today was spot on. I had to go back and listen to it again and have shared it with my boys. Keep presenting facts and data!
I'm a 39 year old single baby mama of 2 and I'm taking Kevin's advice and going back to my baby daddy he's still interested and I don't want to die alone lol!!! Wish me luck guys hopefully I'll be married within the next six months or less
Don't go back just because you don't want to be alone. Work out why it didn't work out in the first place and do some work on it. You don't want the kids to go through another trauma. And put your kids first you had them your life journey is on a different path. As long as you keep the father as a major part of their lives it's all good. But good luck and I hope it works out for you.
Social Media, manipulations (aka lies and games), and materialism have killed many relationships. We have lost the reality of each other and just held on to empty dreams.
I feel it, I feel that a lot of women I tried talking to didn’t wanna be in a relationship with me because of materialistic things they’re focused on. So I gave up on wanting to find love and I’m 23
Don't know you sister but I applaud your accountability. I have to be accountable as well. If I was more prepared AS A Man should be instead of allowing myself to be distracted i would of done better. So I respect your honesty and I RELATE TO IT MYSELF... BE BLISSED...
@@kadiethereal1tv336 I dig it...Her honesty is what will Empower her life. Women want to go to the doctor with a broke leg..Hide that, and say their throat is sore..other words lies can never help heal one's situation...truth must be faced... For myself too. As a man I'm not cutting it and need to step it up... I'll be on timeout until I'm up to snuff...so total respect...
I'm just like you I endured my marriage for seven years for my kids. The only reason I ended it is because I got proof she was cheating since I legally couldn't kick her out I did the next best thing and cut her off. But when I did that she called the cops lied and told them I choked her then they took me to jail she got a restraining order and the judge said I couldn't come back to my house or see my kids without her permission but I couldn't have any contact with her.🤨 But God took care of me and my kids so now thanks to my faith in Him I have my kids and she's not in their life sure I wanted them to have her there but she's just not good for them. So keep your head up bro remember God is with you and most likely he got you out of a bad situation to make room for something great.
I’m so intrigued by Kevin’s perspective and feedback. I listen to hear what I may have been doing in life (not just with men) to put people off subconsciously. The truth is always hard to hear but facing unpleasant truths is the best way to do better.
All the above is the reason why I'm currently going through a divorce! The second year of marriage is when I realized I made a wrong choice and wanted out, it was really a hard pill to swallow but I had no one else to blame but myself. We really have to dig deeper when selecting our spouse and withing also dig deep within ourselves.
Kevin, you're speaking pure truth!!! RIP brother. You're describing my recent ex to a T. Low value women insult others, guilts them, and takes pride in it. They are a liability. They always need to be right. So right on!!
Summary - 4 Signs of low value woman: 1. Shame: Operates in shaming others. 2. Insults: Often insults others 3. Guilt: Will guilt others into doing what they want. 4. Need to be right.
I cried watching this because it's so true. When you are raised with these bad habits its so hard to get rid of them but it's a MUST .... Thank you Kelvin
Once you study how feminine and your place as a woman, life will change for you. Yes I am 40 and I am mocked because some view me as old but I wish I knew this at 20. Ladies it’s not becoming a doormat, Do everything with Grace and speak with softness
Now this I agree with ! That’s why I believe women shouldn’t be Out here marching in being race soldiers let the men lead the fight and we should rest in our Femininity at home in the safety of it
I love that other women are speaking on this and giving advice I am currently 18 trying to teach everything to myself because I was raised by a woman who only knows low value, masculinity & anger it’s very difficult but I see a change and I am the opposite of how I was raised
My doc said I was mildly obese in my last physical and we have to stay in shape for work , 3 weeks and 18 pounds gone.. bam and now I'm getting strong, got to come to terms with the numbers and act upon it. Eat less, eat better, and go for a damn walk..
Which proves a point that you are more dedicated to pleasing your employer's desires more than the mens' desires in your community. Do you want to marry your job or a black man?
@@andrebaldwin2686 This has nothing to do with that. You don’t know whether they’re single or not. Wouldn’t you take advice from your doctor? Or are you saying they should’ve stayed mildly obese? 🥴
@@user-kb1ur9ky8b the only reason she went to the doctor is because of work, not because of her desire to be with men. It's pretty clear what her motivation was.
@@user-kb1ur9ky8b Andre may not have been polite...but when you wanna be blunt, screw being polite. Sometimes you should appreciate when someone points out the truth even when it stings a bit because the world can be cruel.
@@ofon2000 It’s not about brutal honesty. I appreciate honesty. I just felt like her taking charge and exercising rather than sulking about being obese was a good thing. I didn’t expect to see a comment still reprimanding her. Andre doesn’t know who she is, what her life is like, or what she plans to do. Was that comment really necessary? A lot of people try to stay in shape for their jobs and health. Her motivation to do it wasn’t awful. Would Andre admonish a married/ “taken” man for only being motivated to exercise because of his job? I don’t think so.
This one is a classic. I’ve watched it several times. I have also recommended it to people. Most try to debate with me afterwards but, after KS school of value I debate with no one. I just use my influence to show the proof. I won’t debate what I know for a fact. Plus, feminine women don’t argue.
My ex/wife did all this shit. My new wife tried to shame me until I told her it’s time to move on. After she saw me serious and told her to leave my house and find a better man, she got quiet and started to cry. I told her to leave and she left. After a few therapy sessions she saw what she was doing and since then (4 years ago) she’s been an asset
Yep, did the same to mine as well, it was fixed so fast she became high value over night, sadly she passed in July but her value was incredible in the 5 months I was witnessing her change. In the end I truly loved her, and we were together for 16 years.
If a woman understands you don't need her and can replace her she will behave better. Men are taught at a young age we're not just replaceable but disposable and expendable.
Well: What you want in life, what you need, and what you get, may all be different. Just think, men want words given very feminine, softly or not at all. We all do.
For me, he was the best comedian ever, better than Chappelle or Bill Burr. Other famous O'Neal quotes about women : "I generally don't like living in a world where being what a man is, is a horrible thing; and no matter what a woman is, is a wonderful thing." ... "Women expect us to like them, but they don't even like each other." ... "Women don't want to win, they just want to have a winner." ... "Having women work with men is like having a grizzly bear work with salmon . . . dipped in honey." RIP Patrice O'Neal
I am a married mother and now considered obese woman and I am losing weight and not offended at all by what you say. I love you @KevinSamuels for being you and living your life on purpose for a purpose. Believe it or not you inspire me. If people just listen, be honest and take what they need and leave what they don't they will be fine. The other words may be for someone else. If your super offended don't watch don't listen. Honesty helps bring correction. Everyday striving to be my best as we all should.
I appreciate you Kevin because I've conducted myself as low value, after doing some self work on my inner self. I'm now healed from all the baggage whether self inflicting or from past hurt. I can except truth today and I'm open to learn from others. Thank You
The best news is….. you still have it easy as women. Let say there are two low value person. A man and a women. A men is not a high value because he is not a “provider” Kevin will tell him work his ass off and get your value up. 60-80 hours, night school, certifications, “get your money up.” He will say. Get in shape, look a part be a man of value or you are screwed. Getting money up is not an easy task.. it’s a jungle out there. Even if you have college degree and work in big corp. he need to battle every day and win until he can afford his castle he can be happy with. No one is coming for him. For Low value women, she is not a high value women because she is not a “companion”. She can be more fit, friendly, Feminine. Starting today. It might be hard to rewire all the old programing and learn to be the partner… but it’s a lot of inner work and you actually have full control of your one self vs the low value man who need to work harder in highly competitive world and fight until take more home. If there is a low value man who is on the journey to become a high value man… and a low value women who is on the journey to become a high value women… I think the path way is easier for women. We just want happy, friendly, women who loves to laugh and smiles a lot. I don’t have energy to fight at home. Work is a battlefield and I need a place to rest.
You are dropping jewels!!!! I had the privilege of growing up in a two family home whereas we learned the Dynamics of the relationship between a man and a woman. Many women do not know the man is the head and respect should be given to him on many levels.
I wish I would have known about you before and I wish I would have stood up for my own value as a man without being shamed by women for being confident and successful and wanting a woman that was my worth as a man and provider. It's amazing how I am able to see the work you're trying to do to help families and both sexes see the bigger picture in relationships instead of the flash and fake that the world is trying to make us want that ends up breaking up the family and destroying the children. I appreciate you and I hope you found your eternal peace in heaven.
Yikes... I think I was operating out all the 4 signs. I didn't realize it though. I was WRONG about this guy. I like him a lot and agree with way more of his opinions than I knew. Great job
His opinion?? Do you know the differences of opinion and facts? KS NEVER GAVE OPINION JUST FACTS. And you're not gonna change over night with your toxicity of your low value existence. Take it to your mother as I am sure she is of your carbon copy. Daughters of Babylon are doomed for destruction. Cha!!
My wife is all of these things and has been almost the entire relationship. My life's mission is now to not let my daughter become this. I will raise a high value woman!!
Just curious. What are you going to do about your wife? My mom is low value and I see why she’s still bitter and miserable. I wanted her to get married but its probably not gonna happen.
What sense does it make to win a argument just to lose the value of what the argument is for... That line right there, is a mic drop... play the anthem 🎺🎶 Salute 💯✊🏿
The 1st time I started watching this channel I was upset and offended until I realized that this channel is what every single woman need. We want to understand men, the way they think and how they see us well here it is. I realize that it is the kind of conversation Every single woman on this earth should have had with their father, big brother or any father figure they may have. This is a huge reality check forcing women to be true to themselves and truly look at yourself. If women knew this at a young age the approach and decisions made since high school would have been totally different. You can either improve yourself OR go on being messy and all over the place.
You have to choose between being right and being happy…and that means being brutally honest with your own need to be right…as my grandma used to say “it’s nice to be important but more important to be nice”
Kevin the power of self reflecting has helped me to work on breaking the dysfunctional cycles in my life. I have 4 daughters that are young adults & its imperative that I set an example to breaking the cycle.
Hmmmm...calling a woman obese is not shaming? I'm confused...if I called a guy fat, I'm attacking him?? Huh? Wait...can I say you have a lil pee pee because it's a fact.🧐🤔😉🤣
I watched a video about divorce lawyers giving love advice. One lawyer said "When you argue with your spouse, do you care about being right or do you care about your marriage?" After I heard that, I applied that advice to my relationship, I've learned to agree to disagree and mention he has some good points.
"Tired of being beat down by a woman who was domineering and needed to be right to where he just had to leave; Broke his heart to leave his family but it was that or die". Singing my life with those words Kevin.
This is so real. I never knew my father and finally met my father's other kids. I got to hear his side of things and as a man myself now I can really understand why he left my mother alone. Even growing up I saw evidence. I don't forgive him...but I don't resent him anymore. Stay strong brother...
@@senecaureliuslocke9432 you need to forgive him. Try to be human. He isn't going to suffer from you refusing to forgive him, YOU are, and anyone unfortunate to be tied up with you. I'm not trying to be petty, or talk down to you. I'm trying to shake you out of your slumber. The child you were when daddy left/wasn't around will always be hurt. Leave the child behind. Get therapy. You can do this. I've watched people live and die with that spite and it poisoned everything around them. When we forgive WE heal. It doesn't sound right but it's true. I'm still working through my issues and pain, but this one is huge. Please work on it. You can get there. Peace be with you.
I’m in it now but I can’t leave my son … I’m sacrificing my life to raise him; he’s ten, when graduates high school I’m out this business of being a beta
I agree I know three guys in a situation where there were in a relationship and built their significant other to the point where their girlfriends or wives broke up with them because they didn't need them no more
@@harmonnathan4627 thanks King, I appreciate the positive encouragement! The great thing about this, is I eventually ran into a lovely, supportive, caring, loyal, submissive, great spirit woman, who now is my wife! We’ve accomplished so much within 2 years together than my previous. We budget, plan, support, communicate, pray, laugh , etc , together. Man its a total breath of fresh air! Im a true believer now of dont rush into looking for a relationship, work on self and God will place the right person in your life. Alot of times we as humans try to hold onto someone, that was never meant for us and we lose ourselves in the process. Its not all on the woman or other person, we are at fault for seeing signs and not acknowledging it and loving self to move on. Peace and thanks 🙏🏽
It took me a while - 7 years and 2 amazing daughters later to realise I was with a low value woman. What Samuel said explains all her actions leading up to the breakup. WOW!!!! We miss you OG.
Thank you Kevin because when some of us women try to talk about the behaviors of women, I would be considered crazy. Glad you stood up for us because I am so tired of our behaviors.
Preach! I have had to let several “friendships” with some female friends over toxic behaviors. Accountability is something that is often overlooked and when one brings it up it’s an issue.
@@MissLovelyOne imagine never being accountable for your actions. And the subject never being brought up by anyone that cares about you. Leaving you to float through life unguided. It comes down to daddy never punishing daughters and treating them all like they royalty.
This explains a lot of my relationships and why they fail I've been selecting low value women. It had no chance to succeed in the first place all this happened. Because my natural response when these things start to happen my protector and provider dissipates. I stop taking them seriously, I start to perceive less value. Then I see why they go through the same cycle of men, and then they're usually around women who are also the same. My most previous past relationship was the worst. Never listened for one, two had the necessity to be right and over talk when we had disagreements. Then the shame and insult came from her and the friends that some how its my fault because I wouldn't go back into a relationship with this woman. Because she's bat shit crazy that's why, but being the man I am I just stayed away from any idea of a relationship. We just had casual sex but that was it nothing more nothing else until she got sick of that, and basically she's repeated the cycle with a different guy that I know. Just the same as with me she laid the charm on thick cooking for him yada yada the whole deal once that relationship is tested he'll see the same traits as I did. One thing for sure two for certain I refuse to accept low value behavior instinctively. I won't sit here and act like I had this knowledge Kevin is talking about packaged to this level of polished understanding. I just knew there was a reason I was beginning to stop responding when this stuff showed up, and because of the manipulative nature of it I questioned myself. This helps me understand when it ACTUALLY IS THEM and not me. I went through the same thing she said she didn't say things she said I pulled up text messages would still not admit she was wrong. I just moved on I wasn't dealing with that total irrational behavior.
@@malikr2271 facts appreciate my fellow brothas that understand. Most of these women just come broken situations and passed low value patterns from their mothers who couldn’t also keep a man🤷🏾♂️
It’s great when anyone can be honest and open about their flaws. We all have improvements to make, and you have already completed the most difficult part, which is being honest with ourselves.
Why does a man have to do that when women aren't held to the same standard? Women don't get to have a list of qualifications and when they fail at having quality relationships.
Mostly agree with you. However we all change over time. So it's important to have qualities that drive or motivate ourselves to live in a healthy productivity manner
@@Thegoddessgenesis I’m not studying anyone who doesn’t know me personally and has something negative to say. The saying goes when you know better you do better. Unfortunately a lot of households don’t have the example or the conversation about being a healthy person and creating healthy relationships. They don’t know my back story, so the comments mean nothing to me. I speak in honesty and hold myself accountable to do better than accepting being less than my best. Those that can only share negatively are the main ones who need to take the log out of their own eye before focusing on the needle in another. So thank you for your encouragement.
This is the smoothest realist youtube channel ice ever encountered. Music is smooth and diverse. That "Mami work" is crazy fire. Be honor to meet one day brother man. No paul pierce but the truth
Thank you Kevin Samuals for the example you gave in instructing women on the need to apologize with the same energy that they berated that man. That point was right on.
I’ve been listening in on your content about 2 months now. At first I was shocked at your delivery but the message has been super on point. I have been able to evaluate past relationships and even put into perspective my current one (I’ve seen myself overall exhibiting low value behavior). Thanks for sharing all this invaluable info and your platform, much appreciated
I am incredibly grateful for the abundance of your wisdom and acronyms, Mr. Samuels! Thank you from a woman in the “danger zone” who is making the necessary changes (after many “AHA” moments and conscientiously avoiding “SIGN Language”) to avoid “no man’s land.”
I’m Sooo happy Kevin that you’re here for us..I’ve learned so much and very open to EVERYTHING you’re sharing..you’re a genius in my opinion don’t care who disagree with me I will stand alone..wish I knew of you early on..keep up the great work King and I support you 💯 Much love and respect!😊💕
Sir your character, channel, delivery, wisdoms, knowledge, is what we all need in 2020 & beyond! Thank you for you’re experience and choice to share your time and music 🎵 choices with us! Good looking out Senior Chief
![เป็นไปได้ไหม - WanMai [Official MV]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/_6lZ6b3_7Vo/mqdefault.jpg)
4 signs of a low value woman
1. Shame 25:00
2. Insults 27:00
3. Guilt 30:00
4. Need to be right 33:00
Thank you!
It's a acronym. S.I.G.N.
MVP
If he ain't preaching and teaching!!!
Thank you brother❤️
This man is a genius, we’ve lost a national treasure, RIP.
Yes he was. Unfortunately most realized it after the fact - rip KS
Absolute treasure
A prophet too
@Dr Strangelove, What is your doctorate in, or is this just a movie title that you're using?
💯💯💯💯Sad but True 👌🏾
I’m mad at how many women missed this man’s work because they listened to the masses say that he hated women. It’s sickening
A Narcissistic Individual !!!!
Thankyou!
Its scary how many people can be turned away from an intelligent person who has something to say about society by such a low IQ attack.
I just had a girl I talk to get mad at me for listening to him 😒
@@creoleman24 that was the goal. Just the mention of his name will make a woman discredit you as a man off top.
His passing brought me back here! Thank you Mr Samuels for your undeniable knack for the truth. Rest well Sir!
"Low value women win the argument but lose the man"....I felt that one🔥🔥🔥
Big facts💯💯💯
Food for thought
What was the argument about
🤔
Can you be a high value man without wealth?
If this was the 90’s... Kevin would have the biggest talk show.
These times are too soft for his truth.
FACTS,what I was thinking. Best, highest rated talk show in history. Multiple Emmys.
Tom lykis was filling the void back then, now we got Kevin
It would be a comedy show
These times are too progressive for his garbage.
@@emperorofeffectiveeducatio2105 BETA!!!!
As a black woman i can say this, Happiness is an INSIDE job. That's what so many black women don't understand. You CANNOT get happiness form hair, clothes, cars or men. It starts from WITHIN
I mean, Jada looked some kinda pleased when Will was crying at the red table. Sometimes what makes someone happy isn't good.
@Major Key there are so many people out there who will go through what Jada has done and be pleased with themselves. That was the key issue I'm getting at.
Tried explaining this to my mom and she looked at me like I was speaking mandarin.
Ma'am that's an excellent way of putting that. In have to use that "inside job" quote
I totally agree.💯
I walked away from my kids mother and being apart from them kills me every day, but staying with her I was disappearing piece by piece every day. My health plummeted, I spoke to her about it and she said "I have no sympathy for you". There are truly men killed by a toxic woman's energy.
I hope you can still spend time with your kids ❤
Facts!
@@janelleg597 I had to go to court twice and won both times but in last 3 years she stopped me seeing them for year and a half. But she's behaving now so I'll enjoy it while it lasts he he. She can hate me all she wants, as long as she takes care of my kids I have no issue with her.
Damn man, your health was going down and she said “I have no sympathy for you” Thats a cold woman smh.
I went thru the exact same treatment from my ex.
Thank you KS.. gold as usual.
1. Shaming others.
2. Insulting others.
3. Placing guilt on others.
4. The need to be right.
S.I.G.N.S. acronym:
S=Shaming others
I=Insulting Others
G=Guilting Others
N=Needs to be right
thanks!
@@godsbelove9 Right absolutely 💯 however men and women do this .
To ghosted 760
That sounds like KS himself.😂😂😂 Just sayin'
Damn
After hearing this... I am a low value woman and was taught how to be low value... but as I’ve gotten older I understand the mistakes of the past and I will not have my daughter be low value...
Beautiful 💚💚💚
🙏🏾🙏🏾
You get it!!!
🙌🏽 Raising a high value daughter myself! It's a MUST. God Bless you! ✊🏽❤️
You are not a low value woman you going to listen to this man
My wife had this need to be right even when she was wrong. (too proud to admit she was wrong)
- I told her; look honey, there is the door, you can be either right, or you can be wife. -We never had any pointless arguments after that. -She later asked why I'm with her when I was so quick to point she can be replaced. I told her I chose her because of her value and my love for her, but if she insist acting in a way that lowers her value, she is no longer worth being provided for, despite my feelings for her.
Love can blind a man, blind man from seeing how toxic she is, letting go hurts like kick in the nuts, but never let low value woman poison your spirit. As long she knows you as a man have plenty of options, she values her position as your woman and will act accordingly to keep that position, so dont let your love for her enslave you to her.
You ain't never lied. I told my wife this because she displays that same behavior sometimes. Your spirit as a man is the most important thing and nothing or no one is worth losing that..I would rather find someone else then let you break my spirit
@@bivens0723 Be strong my brotha we will strive👍
Exactly why I let my ex-wife go
I really need to know this men...If a wife does everything tailored to you. Why do curtain men get bored, and cheat? I feel its a thin line..women can be not as attentive and get cheated on or she could be to overbearing and get cheated on..IMO its a lose lose situation
@@VaChier-vb3pb Man can also be too emotional and caring, or too stoic. Its the same losing situation for men also.
Just be a good woman, a good wife and a good person and you'll get the man of your dreams eventually.
Its true, not all men know how to apreciate a good woman, just like not all women know how to apreciate a good man.
Just try to be the best you and you will attract a partner who will respect you and make you feel loved.
This man understood women better than most women understand themselves. No doubt about it.
No, he didn't - especially given the number of women he overtly insulted.
Women don't even understand women, they usually can't stand each other beyond the superficial
You have stones in your ears.Pull them out
He understood because he lived it .......
TOOTH
I love this video. My only regret is not addressing issues that led to years of low value behavior and I knew better. We have to reintroduce femininity back to the culture 🥺.
Big facts
Married?
thank you
What’s your dress size? 😝😜🤪
👏🏾 it take a strong woman to say this
I’m 19 years old studying and taking notes from kevin. my future husband is going to thank kevin one day.💪🏼
@Hannah Mack if he forgets to pay the bills, he's not high value, he's dumb, he's dependant.
@@Jdabaddestb don’t take any advice from any women unless they’re in a good marriage... that means tune out ALL your unmarried friends and family members
@@Lestergreen77 noted!💯
@Hannah Mack how old are you?
@Hannah Mack O.K. shine queen, may you and yours be blessed in these lost times.
I like listening to men’s red pill channels because it gives me an alternative point of view from my own. Thank you.
Smart woman! I Meet You - I Love you- I Move My Way ! VICTORY
Oh this is a red pill channel? Most red pill channels speak out of emotion I love his because he says straight facts without belittling anyone . He’s so good I didn’t even know this was a red pill channel . I see it as a channel to help women .
What ya learn tho?
@@laurenlocd3180 there is kind of a line between red pill and black pill. Black pill are the ones that say basically screw relationships, women and don't risk destroying your life for the chance at a happy family.
Red pill helps people understand relationship dynamics, along with the female-favored court systems so that men especially can make better decisions when choosing a life partner, because they are the ones held accountable more-so financially when it comes to child support.
@@ofon2000 I'm slightly confused because I didn't know the black pill existed. I thought it was just blue and red pill. No?
I wish I would have heard of this man a few years ago. He could have saved me a lot of heartache, but I intend to learn from him now.
Facts
I had the honors if only brief to be able to converse and get some guidance from him after we had a mature debate. I opened up willing to absorb more .
You and me both man. But as they say, better late than never!
I’m truly listening and learn. Literally taking notes. I don’t know why so many woman take issue with the views he shares. Hard truths are still truths. I want to be a safe space for my future husband. I want to and will break the cycle of divorce and unhealthy relationships..at least in my family.
I LOVE witnessing our people heal and grow. Got you fam.
Hard truths are the truths we NEED. I'm 50, happily married, watched my father go through 3 failed marriages, watched my mother destroy her own and others' lives, and went through nuff tribulations, and I'm STILL learning. It's not easy to humble yourself. Sometimes getting over ourselves and sitting in that feeling we get when we are WRONG (shame, embarrassment) is the best medicine we can ever take.
You Grow Girl !!! 💥💥💥👏👏👏
Did it take hitting the wall for you to realize?
Support
As a wise man once said.....anger is a punishment we give ourselves for someone else's mistakes
Interesting-
Facts brother
Oof. Hard truth.
Interesting point of view. 🤔
I like it
I was raised by a narcissistic woman who would battle to the death to be right... about something as trivial as shampoo. About who took the garbage out last Tuesday. About how to properly wrap the cord on the iron. She'd gaslight, take low blows, debate, belittle, and twist the past into knots if she thought that she could score imaginary points. As a result, I suffered a slew of stepfathers and 'uncles' until I grew up and escaped the stress.
I have to give her credit. Because of her, I am NOT that. I want a peaceful home. I want to keep my one marriage to the same man who fathered my children. I may feel that I'm right in a situation, but 99% of the time it's not worth arguing or getting excited about. Unless I'm under direct attack or being angrily accused of doing something that I did NOT do, I'll let it go. And I mean TRULY let it go. It's not that I'm just keeping my mouth shut. My heart releases it and I forget the small stuff ten minutes after it happened. Not because I'm a doormat, but because I don't want to waste the energy. I don't want to battle the man who gave me babies and a house. I love him and I want to cuddle that night.
I understand priorities and a peaceful marriage is my number one priority. A happy home is my priority. A sanctuary home is my priority. You can't have those things if you take a defensive stance. That is not for me.
No. I'm not a pushover. I'm truly meeting my personal goals. And my goals don't involve being the alpha in the house. My goals don't involve preserving my pride. I don't care about that one bit. My goals are to live a life that doesn't keep me anxious and angry and those are healthy goals.
Life can be simple and low on stress, ladies. All it takes is to pack up your ego and adjust what makes you feel pride. You can be right or you can be happy.
I choose happy.
Wow,so nice
I'm curious if you still talk to/ meet with your mother after all that shit
🙏💯
I love your comment. Ladies need to really hear this. When I was younger I worried about whether or not I was being treated right but never considered what I was giving to him. When my focus grew to include my husband's happiness, our relationship improved. A good father is a high value man. I'm a lucky lady.
Aries
I found him after my divorce, watching his videos helped me recover and has made my life better. the world is a less bright place without this man in it. rest in peace brother, thank you for your contributions to us all.
When it is never your fault you rob yourself of growth.
Ur right.
Say it louder for the folks in the back 🙂
You just figured that out didn’t you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾
Deep!! Thank you for that one
Well said
Win the argument LOSE the man. So true. Good insight.
Exactly i cut my loses and moved on in the past and I matured to know that I will get to know who and what she is 1st and foremost and move accordingly ...not go into relationship mode only to discover she is vulgar and disrespectful ..we men learn from experience ..and sex becomes less important character become everything..
They will always lose the real dude
Win the man lose the argument. It's better to be on a house top than in a house with a brawling woman.
Not all arguments wind up in broken pieces
You boys are dumb and foolish . A real man will notice when he’s wrong and appreciate having a woman who’s on his level mentally.
I really don’t understand why women hated this man .. he did too much in so much short time..
RIP
His wisdom was impeccable
Because women don't want men to change the "women are perfect" narrative.
Absolutely.
Have a guess why
Honestly the clips that went viral were horrible. The majority of his content I’m viewing posthumously is amazing.
Cuz they were being called on their bs
It makes me cry to know that my momma didn't learn the things we both needed to know to deal with our men.
Have you ever heard a woman say "It was my fault that my last relationship ended"? 🤨
You have to pull teeth. They'll admit it to themselves but they'll believe the lie they create. I had an ex finally admit after 20 years she was out of order. Kevin highlights something I've noticed over the years. A woman will screw up and instead of owning the transgression will play victim and allow the matter to fester until it's too late then they let everything burn ONLY to still harbor the regret (like that one sister who called in still talking about her ex after two years) that stems from a lack of accountability from childhood to adulthood. Much as women think that men aren't held accountable it's becoming more and more evident that when it comes to women's accountability there's virtually none for black women.
I expect KS show on cheating to be monumental.
A real woman will say that. Maybe it’s the women you have chosen.
@@LashayneHampton lmao. We watch a whole episode on Sign and your first instinct is still to shame the man🤣😂
Nope
@@LashayneHampton maybe it is just the women...idk
And as far as the topic of "submission".....
I LOVE submitting to my husband.
I love allowing him to be the man of the house/King of the castle.
To me, there is nothing sexier or manlier than a strong, confident man who knows how to take charge and run the areas of the household and our family's life that he is designated to run.
The partnership that I share with my husband is one that I would never let go of. EVER.
I don't know why so many women see the word submission as a bad thing. Like the young lady said while talking to Kevin (around the 1:47:00 mark), to submit does not mean being a slave. You can be your own woman, and still have a personal life that you enjoy while submitting to your husband and being the wife you are meant to be.
Ladies...get into it!
Submission to your husband is the shit. :-)
You dont ALLOW him to do shit. And if somebody was to say they ALLOWED you to do anything, you would lose your shit and all hell would break loose....
You are here to try to hit on Kevin. And if not to him then someone else who gets you out of the nightmare you are living in right now where you allow your man to be the king. Who is submitting to whom?
It's more than likely distrust in the man that makes it hard to submit. What makes it easy for you to submit you your love? 😍😀 @Thee Divine Mrs. M
Submission is not a bad thing but many women confused submission with oppression.
Yeah but they have to be the bread winner.
I like seeing more women looking to understand men. Even if it’s not for a boyfriend/husband but if she has a son. She can gain more understanding of what he will be dealing with.
I m a Black female,Kevin has 2 ex wives. That's (no )for Me, too broke . He's no value.
Yes, I agree that I need to hear the male side.
@@jacquelynhorton7563 ?
@@maxinefowler1186 but I can guarantee you listen to Steve Harvey
Facts
**for those keeping score (like I am)
KS passed 5/5/22 @1.44M subs
Today 6/10/22 @ 1.49M subs
+50k subs AFTER death. The legend's msg never dies!!**
I am definitely one who discovered this profound life force after his death.
Still going strong
@dazscg 1.81M as of today 3/11/24. Quick math gives me about 370k new subs post death
I’ve really learned a lot from watching this channel. I never knew how much I had to unlearn.
At least ur willing to listen. There are some that don't even wanna hear it
He’s really helped my relationship grow.
Submission helps both parties
Have you ever met a man who tried to correct you?
Many women have no clue how a man thinks....many of you think you just can show up cute and be willing to have sex.
What did you learn
A mistake is always forgivable, if one has the courage to admit it. Low value people never admit a mistake. They attack whoever points out the mistake. Angry gets sh*t done,but it breeds solitude. Angry is sadness' bodyguard.
Right! This is a human issue, not exclusive to gender.
When we function just off heart, often times it evokes emotion which then comes across as irrational. Then could possibly cause anger. Hurt is not a great function even with a nice slim body, femininity and willing to submissive.
Word!!
💯✔
Such a sad but true observation.. 💔
RIP to KS. I found out about his videos after his passing and I'm completely blown away by their quality and content.
This distinction between high value and low value women is blowing my mind. I have never heard this put into words before but it's clear that all of my exes are classic low value women versus my wife who is a high value woman. I didn't know what it was called at the time but I knew the difference between her and my exes immediately. And Kevin is right when he talks about how it doesnt take time to know when a man wants to marry a woman. My wife and I have been together for almost 20 years, but have been married for 16 years. We both learned a lot and have grown a lot over these years, but she has always had the traits of a high value woman.
Kevin has also given me some jewels so i can further improve myself. Again, RIP to the God Father.
Hey brother! I never comment on your videos and hardly ever listen to your interviews. The dissertation of facts that you presented today was spot on. I had to go back and listen to it again and have shared it with my boys. Keep presenting facts and data!
I'm a 39 year old single baby mama of 2 and I'm taking Kevin's advice and going back to my baby daddy he's still interested and I don't want to die alone lol!!! Wish me luck guys hopefully I'll be married within the next six months or less
Goodluck!!!
Yes run to your man
You allow someone else opinion go back because of kid’s. If you don’t thrive then it’s not for you.
Beautiful. Please get some therapy and work it out. No other option.
Don't go back just because you don't want to be alone. Work out why it didn't work out in the first place and do some work on it. You don't want the kids to go through another trauma. And put your kids first you had them your life journey is on a different path. As long as you keep the father as a major part of their lives it's all good. But good luck and I hope it works out for you.
Social Media, manipulations (aka lies and games), and materialism have killed many relationships. We have lost the reality of each other and just held on to empty dreams.
💯% Facts my brother
Facts 💯
TRUE as shit brutha Larry!!! Man I m done being serious with these brods!
I feel it, I feel that a lot of women I tried talking to didn’t wanna be in a relationship with me because of materialistic things they’re focused on. So I gave up on wanting to find love and I’m 23
So true!! The west is a mess. Its so much simpler in other countries who don't have access to any of this mess
Legend has it Monique is still trying to connect her audio
😂😂😂
😅
If only your show was around before I messed things up with my children father, but I’m happy to have you now. Thank you I appreciate the real advice.
Don't know you sister but I applaud your accountability. I have to be accountable as well. If I was more prepared AS A Man should be instead of allowing myself to be distracted i would of done better. So I respect your honesty and I RELATE TO IT MYSELF...
BE BLISSED...
Me too.Didnot Kno shit. Sunami of pain 🤕for family.
STEFLONDON Lets Have Common Sense Convo m
m
@@ManoftheMostHigh I applaud her too bcuz us women don't usually take accountability for out actions I'm a little shocked and surprised by her honesty
@@kadiethereal1tv336 I dig it...Her honesty is what will Empower her life. Women want to go to the doctor with a broke leg..Hide that, and say their throat is sore..other words lies can never help heal one's situation...truth must be faced... For myself too. As a man I'm not cutting it and need to step it up...
I'll be on timeout until I'm up to snuff...so total respect...
Working on a better version of yourself is a journey and it's called growth.
I’m getting emotional because this was my 1st marriage and I endured it for 7 years because I didn’t have a high enough esteem for myself.
I hope you gained self esteem Brandon. It takes courage but you can do it!
You WILL make it. You're stronger than you think!
I'm just like you I endured my marriage for seven years for my kids. The only reason I ended it is because I got proof she was cheating since I legally couldn't kick her out I did the next best thing and cut her off. But when I did that she called the cops lied and told them I choked her then they took me to jail she got a restraining order and the judge said I couldn't come back to my house or see my kids without her permission but I couldn't have any contact with her.🤨 But God took care of me and my kids so now thanks to my faith in Him I have my kids and she's not in their life sure I wanted them to have her there but she's just not good for them. So keep your head up bro remember God is with you and most likely he got you out of a bad situation to make room for something great.
Thanks for sharing brother
8 years for me
I miss this man. I discovered him when he passed and it makes me sad. He was so wise and observant and had such a beautiful voice.
I’m so intrigued by Kevin’s perspective and feedback. I listen to hear what I may have been doing in life (not just with men) to put people off subconsciously. The truth is always hard to hear but facing unpleasant truths is the best way to do better.
Well put
I’m a man and listening to this brother has helped me adjust my own attitude
U cant fix ur flaws until u acknowledge them. That's the 1st step. And it's exceedingly difficult for everyone. Men and women, but especially women.
@@a.wilkerson2nd334 very true
👏🏿👏🏿
OMG you just identified the majority of women in my work circle and personal circle. Changes will be made; thank you brother!!!
Hoping H/C went out again
Now I have . Thank goodness my soon to be ex was nice enough to leave the Space Heater.
Changes won't be made 99% don't want to change man that's the point
@@ontariohawkins141 bro he's saying changes as in getting rid of them
All the above is the reason why I'm currently going through a divorce!
The second year of marriage is when I realized I made a wrong choice and wanted out, it was really a hard pill to swallow but I had no one else to blame but myself. We really have to dig deeper when selecting our spouse and withing also dig deep within ourselves.
Kevin, you're speaking pure truth!!! RIP brother. You're describing my recent ex to a T. Low value women insult others, guilts them, and takes pride in it. They are a liability. They always need to be right. So right on!!
Summary - 4 Signs of low value woman:
1. Shame: Operates in shaming others.
2. Insults: Often insults others
3. Guilt: Will guilt others into doing what they want.
4. Need to be right.
Doesn't everybody hate that?
@@tracys3096 yes but we’re talking about Low Value Women
@@tracys3096 Especially when women do it because they do it so well.
@@emmanuelbalmeo5241 oh I've met a fair few men who are just as excellent at this stuff. It's certainly not limited to one sex.
@@tracys3096 Of course it isn't. But like Brian said up there, this was about women.
I can’t stop staring at that spinning fkn rod bruh ADD kickin in 😂😂😂
Took me a sec too get used to it. Now i want one😂
No cap bro
😂😂😂😂
What is it tho? ....and where can I get one? 😂
Right ???? Like how does it work ? 😭 why is it moving like that without electricity 🥴 Pendulums are so cool
"Low value women suck at apologies, suck at accountability, suck at honesty." That says it all...
Big fuckin facts. My wife to be exact lmao she getting better but we too learned to be goin through that petty shit.
58:50
In all my post-divorce misery you still make me laugh ! Thank you Kevin. Rest in Peace !
I cried watching this because it's so true. When you are raised with these bad habits its so hard to get rid of them but it's a MUST .... Thank you Kelvin
Kelvin?
@@raymondaranda8716 💀😒😂😂😂😂😂
Once you study how feminine and your place as a woman, life will change for you. Yes I am 40 and I am mocked because some view me as old but I wish I knew this at 20. Ladies it’s not becoming a doormat, Do everything with Grace and speak with softness
Yes ladys stop acting like a man and let that man be a man
40 is not old.
Now this I agree with ! That’s why I believe women shouldn’t be Out here marching in being race soldiers let the men lead the fight and we should rest in our Femininity at home in the safety of it
I love that other women are speaking on this and giving advice I am currently 18 trying to teach everything to myself because I was raised by a woman who only knows low value, masculinity & anger it’s very difficult but I see a change and I am the opposite of how I was raised
Great advice
My doc said I was mildly obese in my last physical and we have to stay in shape for work , 3 weeks and 18 pounds gone.. bam and now I'm getting strong, got to come to terms with the numbers and act upon it. Eat less, eat better, and go for a damn walk..
Which proves a point that you are more dedicated to pleasing your employer's desires more than the mens' desires in your community. Do you want to marry your job or a black man?
@@andrebaldwin2686 This has nothing to do with that. You don’t know whether they’re single or not. Wouldn’t you take advice from your doctor? Or are you saying they should’ve stayed mildly obese? 🥴
@@user-kb1ur9ky8b the only reason she went to the doctor is because of work, not because of her desire to be with men. It's pretty clear what her motivation was.
@@user-kb1ur9ky8b Andre may not have been polite...but when you wanna be blunt, screw being polite. Sometimes you should appreciate when someone points out the truth even when it stings a bit because the world can be cruel.
@@ofon2000 It’s not about brutal honesty. I appreciate honesty. I just felt like her taking charge and exercising rather than sulking about being obese was a good thing. I didn’t expect to see a comment still reprimanding her. Andre doesn’t know who she is, what her life is like, or what she plans to do. Was that comment really necessary? A lot of people try to stay in shape for their jobs and health. Her motivation to do it wasn’t awful. Would Andre admonish a married/ “taken” man for only being motivated to exercise because of his job? I don’t think so.
He's word will never die!
This one is a classic. I’ve watched it several times. I have also recommended it to people. Most try to debate with me afterwards but, after KS school of value I debate with no one. I just use my influence to show the proof. I won’t debate what I know for a fact. Plus, feminine women don’t argue.
Stay strong sis ❤️
Period
Right on Queen👑...."FEMININE WOMEN DON'T ARGUE"
not cause they submit or weak....but because they're selective and classy....☝️😎
Feminine woman > Feminist women
That was too real... Feminine women don't argue.
My ex/wife did all this shit. My new wife tried to shame me until I told her it’s time to move on. After she saw me serious and told her to leave my house and find a better man, she got quiet and started to cry. I told her to leave and she left. After a few therapy sessions she saw what she was doing and since then (4 years ago) she’s been an asset
Yep, did the same to mine as well, it was fixed so fast she became high value over night, sadly she passed in July but her value was incredible in the 5 months I was witnessing her change. In the end I truly loved her, and we were together for 16 years.
Way to man up More men need to be like u
Wow awesome King peace grace and blessings be upon you and family
If a woman understands you don't need her and can replace her she will behave better.
Men are taught at a young age we're not just replaceable but disposable and expendable.
Lmmfaoooooo
Some women want candy instead of getting nutrients when it comes to relationship advice!!!!
Damn...
FACTS!!!
That’s why they go to other women’s channels to get fed boss b*tch LIES
Yes, nutrition is essential and if you will, "the brutal truth!"
Well: What you want in life, what you need, and what you get, may all be different. Just think, men want words given very feminine, softly or not at all. We all do.
Wow, the wisdom Kevin had was amazing. Rest in peace bro. You sure made an impact in my life and many others!
"Lady, you're too comfortable being this annoying." -Patrice O'neal
He was one of the first legends to have this conversation.
Love him with a passion! Only man to speak this truth🤜🏽🤛🏽
Another perfectly formed, perfectly accurate statement by the Redpill Prophet himself.
For me, he was the best comedian ever, better than Chappelle or Bill Burr. Other famous O'Neal quotes about women : "I generally don't like living in a world where being what a man is, is a horrible thing; and no matter what a woman is, is a wonderful thing." ... "Women expect us to like them, but they don't even like each other." ... "Women don't want to win, they just want to have a winner." ... "Having women work with men is like having a grizzly bear work with salmon . . . dipped in honey." RIP Patrice O'Neal
@@mikeradu2010 I agree.
I text my wife this episode while I was in the gym. I’m about to step into the house to face the music.
Hahaa bro!
Hilarious 😂
Wow...how disrespectful
Sheesh , that's rough. You married her though , sooooo 🤔
What was the outcome?
This really helped me by putting in perspective my need to be right. My husband and I are grateful to you.
God bless you.
I am a married mother and now considered obese woman and I am losing weight and not offended at all by what you say. I love you @KevinSamuels for being you and living your life on purpose for a purpose. Believe it or not you inspire me. If people just listen, be honest and take what they need and leave what they don't they will be fine. The other words may be for someone else. If your super offended don't watch don't listen. Honesty helps bring correction. Everyday striving to be my best as we all should.
Congratulations queen ❤
You had to listen to this just to be inspired to lose some weight?
Ok then.
I guess they got mudd in their face
This is all ture Kevin
I appreciate you Kevin because I've conducted myself as low value, after doing some self work on my inner self. I'm now healed from all the baggage whether self inflicting or from past hurt. I can except truth today and I'm open to learn from others. Thank You
👍
Thank goodness you finally figured it out
The best news is….. you still have it easy as women.
Let say there are two low value person. A man and a women.
A men is not a high value because he is not a “provider” Kevin will tell him work his ass off and get your value up. 60-80 hours, night school, certifications, “get your money up.” He will say. Get in shape, look a part be a man of value or you are screwed. Getting money up is not an easy task.. it’s a jungle out there. Even if you have college degree and work in big corp. he need to battle every day and win until he can afford his castle he can be happy with. No one is coming for him.
For Low value women, she is not a high value women because she is not a “companion”. She can be more fit, friendly,
Feminine. Starting today. It might be hard to rewire all the old programing and learn to be the partner… but it’s a lot of inner work and you actually have full control of your one self vs the low value man who need to work harder in highly competitive world and fight until take more home.
If there is a low value man who is on the journey to become a high value man… and a low value women who is on the journey to become a high value women… I think the path way is easier for women.
We just want happy, friendly, women who loves to laugh and smiles a lot. I don’t have energy to fight at home. Work is a battlefield and I need a place to rest.
@@MSH3423 ppl o
Counseling counseling counseling, no one can change on their own. Read the sign “Help Needed” in the mirror and apply it.
You are dropping jewels!!!! I had the privilege of growing up in a two family home whereas we learned the Dynamics of the relationship between a man and a woman. Many women do not know the man is the head and respect should be given to him on many levels.
I totally agree with this.
He has to earn it though
@@stasia3029 You are very correct! I was making a statement based upon once that has been established.
@@stasia3029 If he hasn't earned it, why would a woman choose him for marriage? 🤔
@@neffort i was speaking in general baby u thinking to deep
You should call it an "AHA" moment. Accountability Honesty Apology. You're welcome. Lol. I appreciate your work Mr Samuels. thank you.
this is good
Is the thumbnail, April Mason?
I like this one
@@beyoutifulthatfasttravel7804 long
@@jelanibutler1332 ?
I wish I would have known about you before and I wish I would have stood up for my own value as a man without being shamed by women for being confident and successful and wanting a woman that was my worth as a man and provider. It's amazing how I am able to see the work you're trying to do to help families and both sexes see the bigger picture in relationships instead of the flash and fake that the world is trying to make us want that ends up breaking up the family and destroying the children. I appreciate you and I hope you found your eternal peace in heaven.
That was lovely ❤️
Yikes...
I think I was operating out all the 4 signs.
I didn't realize it though. I was WRONG about this guy. I like him a lot and agree with way more of his opinions than I knew.
Great job
Same here! I’m so glad I finally decided to give his content a chance.
His opinion?? Do you know the differences of opinion and facts?
KS NEVER GAVE OPINION JUST FACTS.
And you're not gonna change over night with your toxicity of your low value existence. Take it to your mother as I am sure she is of your carbon copy.
Daughters of Babylon are doomed for destruction. Cha!!
Since finding this content, KS has my eyes even more. Love his brutal honesty. This is a Real Man.
These the shows i post of my boy!! To keep his messages alive thank you brother ❤️ RIP
Truly amazing I recently started watching KS. True genius and truly genuine. My heart goes out to his family and fans who loved him dearly.
Yeah.....some of us couldn't appreciate this brother while he was breathing. He is sorely missed. Salute...
My wife is all of these things and has been almost the entire relationship. My life's mission is now to not let my daughter become this. I will raise a high value woman!!
Just curious. What are you going to do about your wife? My mom is low value and I see why she’s still bitter and miserable. I wanted her to get married but its probably not gonna happen.
Help your wife too
Man... Moms have a lot of influence on daughters.. I pray that you have more..
lol daaaaaaamn Craig!!
You choose her though ..
What sense does it make to win a argument just to lose the value of what the argument is for...
That line right there, is a mic drop... play the anthem 🎺🎶
Salute 💯✊🏿
The 1st time I started watching this channel I was upset and offended until I realized that this channel is what every single woman need.
We want to understand men, the way they think and how they see us well here it is.
I realize that it is the kind of conversation Every single woman on this earth should have had with their father, big brother or any father figure they may have.
This is a huge reality check forcing women to be true to themselves and truly look at yourself.
If women knew this at a young age the approach and decisions made since high school would have been totally different.
You can either improve yourself OR go on being messy and all over the place.
I agree with you!!!
You've taught me so much Kevin. May the Lord grant you eternal life
You have to choose between being right and being happy…and that means being brutally honest with your own need to be right…as my grandma used to say “it’s nice to be important but more important to be nice”
Grandma is wise!!
Kevin the power of self reflecting has helped me to work on breaking the dysfunctional cycles in my life. I have 4 daughters that are young adults & its imperative that I set an example to breaking the cycle.
"The world does not owe either of us understanding."
So true. This S.I.G.N. language video hits so many points.
👍
The Game is understandable
Hmmmm...calling a woman obese is not shaming? I'm confused...if I called a guy fat, I'm attacking him?? Huh? Wait...can I say you have a lil pee pee because it's a fact.🧐🤔😉🤣
I watched a video about divorce lawyers giving love advice. One lawyer said "When you argue with your spouse, do you care about being right or do you care about your marriage?" After I heard that, I applied that advice to my relationship, I've learned to agree to disagree and mention he has some good points.
"Tired of being beat down by a woman who was domineering and needed to be right to where he just had to leave; Broke his heart to leave his family but it was that or die".
Singing my life with those words Kevin.
This is so real. I never knew my father and finally met my father's other kids. I got to hear his side of things and as a man myself now I can really understand why he left my mother alone. Even growing up I saw evidence. I don't forgive him...but I don't resent him anymore. Stay strong brother...
That’s how women feel
@@senecaureliuslocke9432 you need to forgive him. Try to be human. He isn't going to suffer from you refusing to forgive him, YOU are, and anyone unfortunate to be tied up with you. I'm not trying to be petty, or talk down to you. I'm trying to shake you out of your slumber. The child you were when daddy left/wasn't around will always be hurt. Leave the child behind. Get therapy. You can do this. I've watched people live and die with that spite and it poisoned everything around them. When we forgive WE heal. It doesn't sound right but it's true. I'm still working through my issues and pain, but this one is huge. Please work on it. You can get there. Peace be with you.
I lived that life and I left. No kids tho.
I’m in it now but I can’t leave my son … I’m sacrificing my life to raise him; he’s ten, when graduates high school I’m out this business of being a beta
Wow! I needed this information about 20 years ago with my ex-wife. People will try to strip your value to increase theirs. Value Vampires 🧛♀️
I agree I know three guys in a situation where there were in a relationship and built their significant other to the point where their girlfriends or wives broke up with them because they didn't need them no more
looooool no doubt bra mine got me too luckily only 5 years. super vampires. gotta vet that out :D
Value vampires. I like it!
I’m sorry to hear that brother I pray you stay strong and hopefully you find a submissive wife .
@@harmonnathan4627 thanks King, I appreciate the positive encouragement! The great thing about this, is I eventually ran into a lovely, supportive, caring, loyal, submissive, great spirit woman, who now is my wife! We’ve accomplished so much within 2 years together than my previous. We budget, plan, support, communicate, pray, laugh , etc , together. Man its a total breath of fresh air! Im a true believer now of dont rush into looking for a relationship, work on self and God will place the right person in your life. Alot of times we as humans try to hold onto someone, that was never meant for us and we lose ourselves in the process. Its not all on the woman or other person, we are at fault for seeing signs and not acknowledging it and loving self to move on. Peace and thanks 🙏🏽
Bruh... I’m ordering one of those spinning perpetual desk toys ASAP
I said the same thing. Them shits is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I am mesmerized
@ Mark Curry If you find out where to get one Please update us ✌🏼
Fortune products, the spinning sticks, Amazon
Sooo distracting in a good way
It took me a while - 7 years and 2 amazing daughters later to realise I was with a low value woman. What Samuel said explains all her actions leading up to the breakup. WOW!!!! We miss you OG.
Salute to you ma....
Thank you Kevin because when some of us women try to talk about the behaviors of women, I would be considered crazy. Glad you stood up for us because I am so tired of our behaviors.
I truly believe in this platform to better empowering us as men of purpose and educate our mind set with adding spiritual awareness...
Preach! I have had to let several “friendships” with some female friends over toxic behaviors. Accountability is something that is often overlooked and when one brings it up it’s an issue.
@@MissLovelyOne imagine never being accountable for your actions. And the subject never being brought up by anyone that cares about you. Leaving you to float through life unguided. It comes down to daddy never punishing daughters and treating them all like they royalty.
@@genesamarian4278 I see it all the time. Everyone is so focused on feelings instead of integrity
I so agree
This explains a lot of my relationships and why they fail I've been selecting low value women. It had no chance to succeed in the first place all this happened. Because my natural response when these things start to happen my protector and provider dissipates. I stop taking them seriously, I start to perceive less value. Then I see why they go through the same cycle of men, and then they're usually around women who are also the same. My most previous past relationship was the worst. Never listened for one, two had the necessity to be right and over talk when we had disagreements. Then the shame and insult came from her and the friends that some how its my fault because I wouldn't go back into a relationship with this woman. Because she's bat shit crazy that's why, but being the man I am I just stayed away from any idea of a relationship. We just had casual sex but that was it nothing more nothing else until she got sick of that, and basically she's repeated the cycle with a different guy that I know. Just the same as with me she laid the charm on thick cooking for him yada yada the whole deal once that relationship is tested he'll see the same traits as I did. One thing for sure two for certain I refuse to accept low value behavior instinctively. I won't sit here and act like I had this knowledge Kevin is talking about packaged to this level of polished understanding. I just knew there was a reason I was beginning to stop responding when this stuff showed up, and because of the manipulative nature of it I questioned myself. This helps me understand when it ACTUALLY IS THEM and not me. I went through the same thing she said she didn't say things she said I pulled up text messages would still not admit she was wrong. I just moved on I wasn't dealing with that total irrational behavior.
Not like u had much to choose from anyway. Don’t blame urself. They just not quite on ur level.
@@malikr2271 facts appreciate my fellow brothas that understand. Most of these women just come broken situations and passed low value patterns from their mothers who couldn’t also keep a man🤷🏾♂️
@Ima z It really is
I came to the same conclusion besides my ex wife my selection of women has been very spotty. I have to own it I selected low value women.
Sounds like you was dealing with a narcissist.
I’m a little bit more low value than I thought! Wow! These are characteristics that I’ve been working on already. Let me get this together!!
It’s great when anyone can be honest and open about their flaws. We all have improvements to make, and you have already completed the most difficult part, which is being honest with ourselves.
Me too! I had to apologize to my husband after this
Tell a friend to tell a friend
I appreciate your honesty.
Self accountability. Sign of a high value woman.
my dad used to say that people get so educated that they become stupid….that’s exactly the description of most modern women
💯💯
When a man wants a woman to look a certain way, he should go for a woman who looks that certain way.
Simple as that.
Straight up
We do, it's women that are always trying to change a man they claimed they were attracted to when she met him....
Why does a man have to do that when women aren't held to the same standard? Women don't get to have a list of qualifications and when they fail at having quality relationships.
Mostly agree with you. However we all change over time. So it's important to have qualities that drive or motivate ourselves to live in a healthy productivity manner
I see 2 of the 4... damn... Now I know so I will consciously do better within my relationship.
I doubt it
God bless the woman who see’s the error in her own ways, and wants to change. Screw naysayers 👑
@Greg Peterson It's usually only hard when people don't try to rewire their behavior. Most people hate change, unfortunately.
Same here
@@Thegoddessgenesis I’m not studying anyone who doesn’t know me personally and has something negative to say. The saying goes when you know better you do better. Unfortunately a lot of households don’t have the example or the conversation about being a healthy person and creating healthy relationships. They don’t know my back story, so the comments mean nothing to me. I speak in honesty and hold myself accountable to do better than accepting being less than my best. Those that can only share negatively are the main ones who need to take the log out of their own eye before focusing on the needle in another. So thank you for your encouragement.
This is the smoothest realist youtube channel ice ever encountered. Music is smooth and diverse. That "Mami work" is crazy fire. Be honor to meet one day brother man. No paul pierce but the truth
The song is "Moneyworld" by Lu-Ni
@@cruzej804 And it's terrible. It's even worse than the intermission funk rock.
@@FudgeYeahLinusLAN so what's good music to u? It's perfect for the purpose
@@FudgeYeahLinusLAN ya moms a funk rock
Another good episode. Your content lives on Kevin.
Truth is beautiful and the knowledge shared here is absolutely right. Thank you 🙏
Awesome sista. Rebecca ..... keep growing and transforming. 🙏🙏N ❤️❤️
My mother meets all of the low value traits. This helps explain a lot.
Thank you Kevin
Alot of our mama's fam the sad part is they sound like they still in they 20s and shit smh I guess life don't teach them nothing
Mine too!
Mine was too, She always attracted losers or married men 😢
Mines too
Man, I figured that from the first video if his I watched, sad
Still here! Nov 2024. We miss you Mr Samuels!
Thank you Kevin Samuals for the example you gave in instructing women on the need to apologize with the same energy that they berated that man. That point was right on.
I’ve been listening in on your content about 2 months now. At first I was shocked at your delivery but the message has been super on point. I have been able to evaluate past relationships and even put into perspective my current one (I’ve seen myself overall exhibiting low value behavior). Thanks for sharing all this invaluable info and your platform, much appreciated
Awesome!!💪 more power to you
Fantastic, happy for you
S: Shame (Tactics)
I: Insults
G: Guilt (Tactics)
N: Need To Be Right
Brilliant! SIGN that he needs to move on.
even after he has left us his subs are still going up. GODSPEED GENERAL.
I am incredibly grateful for the abundance of your wisdom and acronyms, Mr. Samuels! Thank you from a woman in the “danger zone” who is making the necessary changes (after many “AHA” moments and conscientiously avoiding “SIGN Language”) to avoid “no man’s land.”
We must protect this brother at all cost!
I was waiting for Kevin to say “LVW never have AHA (apology, honesty, accountability) moments.” Feel free to use that, sir! Great content, btw
He said it better!
You go Madame 💥💥
👏👏🙏
Kevin your legacy will never die, cause it brings new life to us that are listening to your proverbs. Rest in power Godfather!
I’m Sooo happy Kevin that you’re here for us..I’ve learned so much and very open to EVERYTHING you’re sharing..you’re a genius in my opinion don’t care who disagree with me I will stand alone..wish I knew of you early on..keep up the great work King and I support you 💯
Much love and respect!😊💕
Sir your character, channel, delivery, wisdoms, knowledge, is what we all need in 2020 & beyond! Thank you for you’re experience and choice to share your time and music 🎵 choices with us! Good looking out Senior Chief