(my opinion) 1st story: Nope, ur brother deserves better. 2nd story: Definitely yes. What kind of father treats his daughter like that? She is having night terrors every night and obviously going thru something. Instead of being there for her, u are completely unsympathetic and blaming her for something she can't control. 3rd story: Absolutely not. I am sorry u had to go through that. You gave your fiance a second chance and she intentionally blew it. It was 100% her mistake, u did the right thing cutting her off (tho u shouldn't have hit her), and u shouldn't have to suffer the consequences of her mistakes. You couldn't have known she would unalive herself. You did the best u could. 5th story: Not the a hole, but to compromise, u can close the curtains of the kitchen window. That way your neighbour won't be bothered, and u can do whatever u want.
6:24 just because someone unalived herself does not mean it's your fault. It's stupid if you think about it SHE was the one who messed it up not once but TWICE it's her own fault. Don't blame yourself. You don't have to ruin your life just to make someone who doesn't care about your feelings be happy. People are so sick with nonsense these days 🤦🏻♀️
Ok first story your not the a hole and i got some tips 1. Whenever she asks you to order something like the cake get the flavor she HATES and do that with other stuff to
Story two, no, no! The girl broke your heart and your trust, lied and cheated, you took her back once and she did the same thing, you knew it wasn't gonna get better and you weren't married, so no NTA
For the kid story yes I think your the aita bc a kid can’t control a dream or a nightmare and it’s messed up to make a child do that.Your a adult not a child you can do that or say the next night if the kid has a nightmare tell the twins that she’s ok and if you here it again shes ok
2 nd story- yes you are I have night terrors for no reason she may have anxiety or just have natural nightmares and it's either I cry and never wake and when I do Im sweating scratched myself i scream to wake up
1st story: good job! You definitely did the right thing, I would love too have a sibling like you! 2nd: Yes. Ur an asshole, since I was a kid I used to love horror, but that resulted in a couple of nightmares and lots of screaming. My mom used to acctually make me stay awake, but instead I would have to clean and couldn’t sleep until the next day. 3rd story: No, your Fiancé is a terrible person. She cheated, and even after you forgave her she betrayed your trust AGAIN! Then when you break up with her, she kills herself? Like wtf was wrong with her. It’s not your fault, so please try to cheer up! Last story: No, ur not the asshole. Why the hell is your neighbor and their family staring at u? Like wtf? Learn to mind ur own business. It is your house so you should be able to do what you please.
I mean, no one person can ever really cause someone to unalive themselves, but the person in story 3 seems pretty dedicated to not accepting responsibility for their abusive behavior. Saying you're not proud of hitting someone isn't the end of the story. It seems like it was an unhealthy relationship, but I just hear deflection all across that letter. If that's your answer when you're frustrated you need to work on other coping mechanisms that are not physical abuse. Lots of people get cheated on multiple times and don't hit their partners.
For the story at the end : why the heck is the neighbor even looking in her window? If anything he's a pervert for trying to see what she's doing(and the fact he did it twice)
The one with the husband and wife who cheated 2 times yeah the husband did nothing wrong hire no one can blame him for not forgiving her after she cheated it’s not his fault that she cheated it’s hers she if she wash that sad then she wouldn’t of have cheated like that your family is blaming you and her family cut contact with them they don’t treat you well
on the bridezilla one i have tons of wedding destroyer plans you could do thing behind your brothers back that make her really mad and then do it until she cracks but make sure she does it Infront f everyone ok then fake cry and say you don't want to be in the wedding anymore and being the bridezilla she will make him choose then to do everything in your power to make him choose you and on the one about the ex-offing herself i am speechless bro you must be the man if she did that like you must be a catch like OMG you are really special like really special
For the first story this is an idea: when idk she walking (the bride) you can just walk behind her and then “accidentally” rip her dress. Idk hope it works.
I think for the last story the neighbor is definitely in the wrong because it’s her house not his and she can wear what she wants in her house it’s not like she’s walking around naked in the street and also why is the neighbor looking in her window and pointing out what she’s wearing because that’s just perverted behavior and if he has a problem with it he can either not look into her house or just stop pointing out what she’s wearing. He is acting so entitled like he gets to dictate what she wears in her own house
OK for the last story, I wouldn’t feel comfortable knowing an old man is perving on me, so I would close the curtains or I would tell him to you know, stop looking, if I want to walk around without a fucking stitch of clothing on in my house I’m gonna do it but I would just shut the curtain if I was to do that and I had a close neighbor...
5th story: it's your house and as long as you have something on he shouldn't be bothered. If he doesn't want his family exposed to "that kind of stuff" then they cannot spy thru your kitchen window. Also what does he mean by "that kind of stuff" your belly? Some bras are more revealing than others I guess. Also he had no right to call you that.
It's not your fault if someone commits suicide because you broke up with them for cheating on you. That's sad she did that but I think it was also her fault and she didn't have to do that. The puts life long trauma and blame on you
For the last story I think it is not inappropriate because your wearing something and if the family doesn’t want to see you in a sports bra they shouldn’t look in your window it’s you house to do what you want in it it would be pretty inappropriate if you weren’t wearing a bra but you are so whatever that guy needs to piss off
For the first story if there's going to be a bar and make sure it's all the drinks she hates and if she allows you to do the flowers like on the tables if you have that make sure it A does not match the color scheme and B is a flower she hates or just get her angry about something so your brother can see how horrible she is or record her when she's talking bad about him to see what type of stuff she says trust me I hate people like this 🙂💢
For the one where your neighbor is like telling you that you’re weird my only question is why is he looking through your window I get anything his backyard but why is he looking through the window😰
For the 3rd story, wtf absolutely not. You gave her a second chance after she cheated on you, and she did it again then lied about it. If she kept expecting you to take her back, she obviously does not care about you. You never would have known that she would un alive herself and it is not your fault AT ALL. Her family, your family, and your friends are crazy af. “Your obviously someone worth dying over” no that girl cheated on you TWICE if your worth cheating over, then she Un alived her self for a completely different reason.
1. You should try to make it so that she looks like a bad like make a presentation on all the bad things that she does and show to your family and hers
1 your good he is better than that 2 YES what is the matter with you shes wakeing up screming for goodness sake 3 no that is a horablie thing to do you reacted in the right way other than hitting her 5 your wereing a sports bra witch have more corvege and you just worked out it is ovis that man has never been to a gym before
Uhm? If he’s a family man then why the hell is he looking in young lady’s windows weirdo. It’s your home, you should be able to be comfortable in YOUR home that you pay for. No one is holding him or his weirdo window peeping family at gun point to look at u in a sports bra..
(my opinion)
1st story: Nope, ur brother deserves better.
2nd story: Definitely yes. What kind of father treats his daughter like that? She is having night terrors every night and obviously going thru something. Instead of being there for her, u are completely unsympathetic and blaming her for something she can't control.
3rd story: Absolutely not. I am sorry u had to go through that. You gave your fiance a second chance and she intentionally blew it. It was 100% her mistake, u did the right thing cutting her off (tho u shouldn't have hit her), and u shouldn't have to suffer the consequences of her mistakes. You couldn't have known she would unalive herself. You did the best u could.
5th story: Not the a hole, but to compromise, u can close the curtains of the kitchen window. That way your neighbour won't be bothered, and u can do whatever u want.
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I agree with the opinions. For the last one especially. Like she didn’t even know there was kids WATCHING.
@@briantiburzi7690 same
6:24 just because someone unalived herself does not mean it's your fault. It's stupid if you think about it SHE was the one who messed it up not once but TWICE it's her own fault. Don't blame yourself. You don't have to ruin your life just to make someone who doesn't care about your feelings be happy. People are so sick with nonsense these days 🤦🏻♀️
Ok first story your not the a hole and i got some tips 1. Whenever she asks you to order something like the cake get the flavor she HATES and do that with other stuff to
Yeah and if she asks for something specific say that there are none or get something else
@@lilyd3077 oh yeah
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Story two, no, no! The girl broke your heart and your trust, lied and cheated, you took her back once and she did the same thing, you knew it wasn't gonna get better and you weren't married, so no NTA
For the kid story yes I think your the aita bc a kid can’t control a dream or a nightmare and it’s messed up to make a child do that.Your a adult not a child you can do that or say the next night if the kid has a nightmare tell the twins that she’s ok and if you here it again shes ok
AITA is one of my favorite subreddits. Makes me feel better about myself
2 nd story- yes you are I have night terrors for no reason she may have anxiety or just have natural nightmares and it's either I cry and never wake and when I do Im sweating scratched myself i scream to wake up
1st story: good job! You definitely did the right thing, I would love too have a sibling like you!
2nd: Yes. Ur an asshole, since I was a kid I used to love horror, but that resulted in a couple of nightmares and lots of screaming. My mom used to acctually make me stay awake, but instead I would have to clean and couldn’t sleep until the next day.
3rd story: No, your Fiancé is a terrible person. She cheated, and even after you forgave her she betrayed your trust AGAIN! Then when you break up with her, she kills herself? Like wtf was wrong with her. It’s not your fault, so please try to cheer up!
Last story: No, ur not the asshole. Why the hell is your neighbor and their family staring at u? Like wtf? Learn to mind ur own business. It is your house so you should be able to do what you please.
your mom is bad for doing that to you
Story 5: nta your in a sports bra and him being rude is even worse.
I mean, no one person can ever really cause someone to unalive themselves, but the person in story 3 seems pretty dedicated to not accepting responsibility for their abusive behavior. Saying you're not proud of hitting someone isn't the end of the story. It seems like it was an unhealthy relationship, but I just hear deflection all across that letter. If that's your answer when you're frustrated you need to work on other coping mechanisms that are not physical abuse. Lots of people get cheated on multiple times and don't hit their partners.
For the story at the end : why the heck is the neighbor even looking in her window? If anything he's a pervert for trying to see what she's doing(and the fact he did it twice)
exactly bruh that dude was mad weird for that
The one with the husband and wife who cheated 2 times yeah the husband did nothing wrong hire no one can blame him for not forgiving her after she cheated it’s not his fault that she cheated it’s hers she if she wash that sad then she wouldn’t of have cheated like that your family is blaming you and her family cut contact with them they don’t treat you well
on the bridezilla one i have tons of wedding destroyer plans you could do thing behind your brothers back that make her really mad and then do it until she cracks but make sure she does it Infront f everyone ok then fake cry and say you don't want to be in the wedding anymore and being the bridezilla she will make him choose then to do everything in your power to make him choose you
and on the one about the ex-offing herself i am speechless bro you must be the man if she did that like you must be a catch like OMG you are really special like really special
3:24 you do realize that you can get nightmares regardless of not having trama right why are you acting like it’s her fault she gets nightmares
First of all, why was the neighbor looking in her window?🤔
For the first story this is an idea: when idk she walking (the bride) you can just walk behind her and then “accidentally” rip her dress.
Idk hope it works.
I think for the last story the neighbor is definitely in the wrong because it’s her house not his and she can wear what she wants in her house it’s not like she’s walking around naked in the street and also why is the neighbor looking in her window and pointing out what she’s wearing because that’s just perverted behavior and if he has a problem with it he can either not look into her house or just stop pointing out what she’s wearing. He is acting so entitled like he gets to dictate what she wears in her own house
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OK for the last story, I wouldn’t feel comfortable knowing an old man is perving on me, so I would close the curtains or I would tell him to you know, stop looking, if I want to walk around without a fucking stitch of clothing on in my house I’m gonna do it but I would just shut the curtain if I was to do that and I had a close neighbor...
Love your vids
10:26 her neighbor should mind his own business like why is he looking into her widow in the first place?
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Why does the body butter in the jar looks so ✨edible✨
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@@daisy.14 it looks like it would taste like buttercream frosting
@@qthepolarbearsanimations135 YES!! EXACTLY WHAT I THINK EVERYTIME I SEE BODY BUTTER!!
@@ArsonCreature it looks like an American delicacies
5th story: it's your house and as long as you have something on he shouldn't be bothered. If he doesn't want his family exposed to "that kind of stuff" then they cannot spy thru your kitchen window. Also what does he mean by "that kind of stuff" your belly? Some bras are more revealing than others I guess. Also he had no right to call you that.
It's not your fault if someone commits suicide because you broke up with them for cheating on you. That's sad she did that but I think it was also her fault and she didn't have to do that. The puts life long trauma and blame on you
For the last story I think it is not inappropriate because your wearing something and if the family doesn’t want to see you in a sports bra they shouldn’t look in your window it’s you house to do what you want in it it would be pretty inappropriate if you weren’t wearing a bra but you are so whatever that guy needs to piss off
Good video 👍
Story 2 sounds like sleep paralysis. She might need a cpap.
9:25 story
No, why is he looking in your yard
What is body butter?
2nd story: def tah i had night terrors when i was 5 i didn't have trauma but it still happened
For the first story if there's going to be a bar and make sure it's all the drinks she hates and if she allows you to do the flowers like on the tables if you have that make sure it A does not match the color scheme and B is a flower she hates or just get her angry about something so your brother can see how horrible she is or record her when she's talking bad about him to see what type of stuff she says trust me I hate people like this 🙂💢
For the one where your neighbor is like telling you that you’re weird my only question is why is he looking through your window I get anything his backyard but why is he looking through the window😰
I DID NOT EVEN REALIZE THAT!! OMG THAT GIRL GOTTA RUN!!!!!
I'm sorry but why was the neighbor even looking into her window
5th story: jesus. your neighbor is peeping which is illegal in most places,
Last story: It's his fault for peeking ngl
Story 3: You fool me once that's on u you fool me twice thats on me. Im sorry that happened to u bro
ok last story instead of saying all that the neighbor could’ve just asked her to close the curtains or something
3 story: no ur not she cheated on u twice and she should understand that it was her fault
You know the last story, what in the world was his and his family’s purpose in looking through her kitchen windo!?!
Wow
i’m sorry but the dress thing in the first story made me laugh *SO* hard-
Story one: Invite your friends and act like her but worse
the last one, tell him that he shouldent be looking into ur house then.
Is anyone else getting really really bad quality on the video?
For the 3rd story, wtf absolutely not. You gave her a second chance after she cheated on you, and she did it again then lied about it. If she kept expecting you to take her back, she obviously does not care about you. You never would have known that she would un alive herself and it is not your fault AT ALL. Her family, your family, and your friends are crazy af. “Your obviously someone worth dying over” no that girl cheated on you TWICE if your worth cheating over, then she Un alived her self for a completely different reason.
1. You should try to make it so that she looks like a bad like make a presentation on all the bad things that she does and show to your family and hers
With the last story why is the 50 year old man watching with women with her top off in the first place bruh
For the first story what immediately came to mind is invite her ex to the wedding then when your brother asks about it say that she wanted him there
and then when they inevitably talk about it and figure out the op was lying... then what? Y'all aren't thinking this through.
The last story
Dude
Why you lookin tho???
Story 1 you are not the a hole also invite your friends 😂
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Storry 1 no you are not in the wrong
Storry 2 yes you are in the wrong
Storry 3 I feal so bad for you and no you are not in the wrong
What with a drink at the wedding and act and accidentally proprius purposely bump into her and spill it all over into her dress
1st: NTA, get ur brother a better woman
Were the second Storey the parents are to blame not you actually the girls 1 fault you Can't Always Get What You Want
Can i eat this?!?!?!
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1 your good he is better than that 2 YES what is the matter with you shes wakeing up screming for goodness sake 3 no that is a horablie thing to do you reacted in the right way other than hitting her 5 your wereing a sports bra witch have more corvege and you just worked out it is ovis that man has never been to a gym before
Uhm? If he’s a family man then why the hell is he looking in young lady’s windows weirdo. It’s your home, you should be able to be comfortable in YOUR home that you pay for. No one is holding him or his weirdo window peeping family at gun point to look at u in a sports bra..