Ahn Jae Hyun reveals his side of the story concerning divorce from Goo Hye Sun

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  • #AhnJaeHyun posted on his Instagram pertaining to the issue of his divorce from #GooHyeSun.
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  • @rejishapradhan431
    @rejishapradhan431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +676

    I don't understand why actor/actress jump into marriage as soon as their drama ends without knowing each other better. They should at least date for a while till they know they will be able to spend their lifetime together overcoming their differences
    . Marriage is not a joke.

    • @sumaiyahatugonza6354
      @sumaiyahatugonza6354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      True why. I think that wasn't love but excitement they were just excited and rushed into marriage

    • @kiarabelle798
      @kiarabelle798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      They should atleast date for like 3 to 6 years before getting married

    • @ECOAhishasemy
      @ECOAhishasemy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      marriage is really not a joke

    • @almeerarasyid3004
      @almeerarasyid3004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Lot of SK Celebrities have long dating periods like 3 years, 5 years even i know there's couple who still together after 8 years. This one is an exception and not to mention there's a Queen who always fall in love on set - Song Hye Kyo.

    • @maryannbarogabaron6281
      @maryannbarogabaron6281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I and my husband eloped after a week knowing each other. Until this very day we're still together, and it's been 19 years. That means time is not a factor for separation.
      If you want your marriage to last, you have to love, honor and respect each other,regardless of the situation you are in. Problems will just come and go, face it with courage and positivity.
      And last but not the least, be faithful and never let your heart wander around. If temptation comes, avoid it and never entertain. Always think of your wonderful family that you might lose, in a moment of lust. Not every wife can tolerate, forgive, and forget infidelity.

  • @JM-qm2vs
    @JM-qm2vs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +859

    I just read their text messages. They're toxic. Don't put all the blame to the guy. They were both at fault.

    • @nicolenicolej17
      @nicolenicolej17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I'm with you on that, however when I saw the newlywed show I already saw problems, and most because of her. Shes like a big a** baby. So I can see why he had therapy. While even on that show she told lies.

    • @robin-xf7so
      @robin-xf7so 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      NiCole Ni'Cole J
      She isn’t a baby. She actually takes care of babies. Sick children and animals. Also, he’s the one who said he didn’t like her body parts. Such as her breasts. And, he hid secrets from her and would go out without telling her where. Both had problematic sides, but i still favor her.

    • @delightsun8060
      @delightsun8060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True

    • @nicolenicolej17
      @nicolenicolej17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@robin-xf7so I would suggest you watch the show to see why I called her a baby. Its wonderful that she spends time with sick babies and animals.... but as for her she's a big a** baby and like a cold woman when it came to him while they were filming the newlywed show. So says she about him keeping stuff away from her. We really can't verify that no matter what we've been reading.TMI from her on him stating to her about her nips. We as fans to both of them didn't need to know that. She's playing to much the victim as if she didn't have anything to do with the outcome of their relationship. Also she was a sore loser on the show. When it came time to do dishes and they played games for it. Like she would say he was cheating because she was loosing or loss. She wants everyone to sympathize with her as if she didn't do anything wrong. Not every thing is being told to us the fans and it shouldn't be. They are both at fault in one way or the other. I'm still a fan of both but I still believe and think she needs to really look at what she's done and said in the past on t.v.shows. I'm just sayin.
      MPB can you tell me where the info is about which pup passed away? I can't find it. Thanks for the friendly reply.
      Cheers

    • @robin-xf7so
      @robin-xf7so 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      NiCole Ni'Cole J
      I did watch the show. Awhile after I had watched blood. I loved both of the actors, so when I watched the newlywed show I was excited to see more. I think that she was the most mature, actually. She was thinking for the future. Such as starting a budget, and sitting down to understand the other even more. I really didn’t notice anything wrong, until I realized how the actor fell in love with her. He said he liked her ever since he saw her. Meaning, for her visuals. If you want credit for that, it’s on an interview, or perhaps if you search up their names together. They’re both in the wrong, but I’m defending her because you called her a baby. As one of my favorite people that have been in the kdrama field, I admired her for years for all that she’s done. She wanted a family, and comfortable home. From what he was doing, and saying, he isn’t ready for marriage nor a family yet.
      (edit:)
      The dishes? They were joking around. You can see them both laughing as she accuses him of cheating. It makes the atmosphere more loose. But either way, they weren’t made for each other. I’ll still support both of them.

  • @sjimmie6375
    @sjimmie6375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +897

    She’s saying this and he’s saying that. I don’t know who to believe so I’m just gonna mind my own businesses hehe🙃

    • @vannsayyin8702
      @vannsayyin8702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      same here, I have no idea who is right and who is wrong 😩

    • @Mrs.miriam
      @Mrs.miriam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Me too but I know the woman is an artist so she might be a neurotic. But if the man married her,he should have known what kind of woman she is, and accept her without any question. If he suddenly finds he doesn't love her anymore, it's his fault. He SHOULD NOT propose to her. So,I was thinking he married her ”to climb the fame ladder"

    • @sjimmie6375
      @sjimmie6375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      miriam tiuseco if we look at the scientific side of love than people are in love for two years or so. After that attachment love sets in. I think he loved her and she loved him. But their personalities might not have worked together. And obviously their needs in life and what they wanted from each other were different.

    • @shanenphoebe4766
      @shanenphoebe4766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      miriam tiuseco it’s not his fault, nor is it her fault. There’s been a ton of marriages where two people have loved each other but they just drifted apart or fell apart for this reason or that. I think you need to settle down and observe more before you speak your mind, otherwise you’ll end up regretting what you commented.

    • @Mrs.miriam
      @Mrs.miriam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@shanenphoebe4766it's a pity that they have fallen out of love. To me, once I get married,it will be forever unless he's an abusive husband. It takes tolerance and patience to make marriage work. So,I can't understand how they could have fallen out of love that easily.they just didn't try harder.they let go of the marriage vows so easily

  • @joyvert
    @joyvert 4 ปีที่แล้ว +683

    They used to love each other like innocent children and now they are fighting like children. Immature love that is expected to fail.

    • @KoreanDramaLuvHer
      @KoreanDramaLuvHer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @Mrs.miriam
      @Mrs.miriam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And I thought he loved her dearly. So,where's his undying love now?

    • @sumitdutta7043
      @sumitdutta7043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Note: The current world in a huge show buzz, the divorce rates are increasing day by day.
      When the couple stays together then people or the audience will
      "Ooh they are so sweet together"
      And than some lovey dovey emojis.
      The whole society is degrading at its core, values are declining, marriage is less marriage more show.
      Now some will no they were really in eternal love (good joke, well nothing is eternal)
      Hardly some couples of pop industry (of any country not just south korea) are on good terms or with no divorse record.
      The most foolish are the people who believe them (poor lads).
      There is difference between love and marriage,
      Sometimes both come simultaneously, dome times not.
      One of the best explanation about marriage, you can shate these with many, so that people will understand the importance of it.
      ABOUT MARRIAGE:-
      Scientists are accustomed to the well-known phenomenon known as the “Big Bang,” an occurrence which is regarded as the origin of creation of the universe. The meaning attributed to this phenomenon is that the universe was originally a single Cosmic Atom, as it were, known in Sanskrit terminology as Brahmanda, which split into two parts by a bang, an instantaneous separation of itself into two parts, representing what may be called the Cosmic Subject and the Cosmic Object. The Brihadaranyaka Upanishad has already proclaimed that there was one Universal Self which projected Itself as a subjective side and an objective side of Itself, the Cosmic Positive and the Cosmic Negative. The intriguing secret behind the relationship of the two Cosmic parts seems to be that there is on the one hand the duality of the positive and the negative and there is on the other hand the correlativity of the positive and the negative, since the two phases are actually the two types of the phenomenal occurrence in the otherwise unitary indivisible original existence. Sage Yajnavalkya says that each unit of life is actually like a split “pea,” in which one cannot easily say whether the pea is one or two things joined together. Also, the very idea of a bi-polar existence implies the interference of space and time, and even if it is accepted that the apparent two-fold life is an appearance of the original one life, the idea of “another” cannot arise unless there is some medium through which it looks as if it is there, just as one person can look like two persons when one beholds oneself through the medium of a mirror. Such a possibility involves the existence of space and time which are the most elusive things everywhere in creation. No one can understand what these actually mean since these are involved in the process of thinking itself, and no one can also deny that they do exist. The Brihadaranyaka Upanishad goes on to say that the two Cosmic parts are comparable to husband and wife, in which context, the one part rushes towards the other part to come in contact with it while the other part wishes to avoid the contact since such a contact is not possible as the so-called “other” really cannot stand apart from that which seeks the contact. Humorously, through an analogy, the Upanishad says that the wife aspect ran away to escape the husband aspect coming in contact with it since an attempt at such a contact looked meaningless and also abortive. The Upanishad goes further and says that the bi-polar wholeness reduces itself to lesser and lesser “wholes,” from gods in heaven down through humans, animals, plants and trees and even the lowest of creatures like insects, thus making out that this dual pull is present everywhere in creation from the highest to the lowest of created elements. At the human level this principle of bi-polar existence takes an interesting turn, since in the human being there is an element of the instincts of the lower species and at the same time a reason which reflects the characteristics of transcendental existence. While in the earlier stages of evolution mentioned, the process of bi-polar existence appears more or less as a spontaneous feature, at the human level it becomes slightly complicated due to the reason and the instinct clashing with each other almost everyday of one’s life, causing a lot of misery. As the human being is a unit in human society, the laws framed by society condition the activities of a person, while the instinctive impulses come from the other levels of life insist that they should have an upper hand over all things, and when the instincts are strong enough they can rebel against social norms, much to the chagrin of the individual, as is well-known in human history. In order to obviate this problem of conflict between individual and society, people in a common agreement among themselves have instituted a system called marriage. Now, what exactly is marriage? It is quite clear that it is a form of legalization of the inherent instinct of the bi-polar existence asserting itself and then a check upon any uncontrolled ravaging activity of the instinct. The point is that a person cannot live totally isolated from society since existence itself would be difficult without cooperation from others. Inasmuch as this instinct is present in every person and everyone would like to manifest it as much as possible, there would be difficulty in such a behaviour since everyone else also would like to do the same thing. This goes to say that the institution of marriage is a process of granting limited freedom to the operation of the instinct permitting it to operate within the circle of social norms, with due respect for the welfare of everyone equally. However, with all this that has been said above, a question will arise as to why is there such an attraction between the male and the female. Philosophically, to answer this question in the light of what has been detailed above, the explanation would be the struggle of the two parts of the one whole to unite themselves into a single unit of existence. But as two things cannot become one, the sexual demand fails to fulfil its purpose ending in exasperation, disillusionment and a distrust in the meaning of life itself. The other aspect is the much neglected side of the phenomenon, namely, Nature’s intention to multiply the species. Everyone knows the power of Nature and no one can resist it. The would-be entrant’s push towards this world, which we call the coming of a child into existence, is the process of an integral impulse since the child is a whole being, as whole as either the father or the mother. The pressure of the would-be individual, being very strong, compels the male and the female to seek each other with great vehemence, to such an extent that the male and the female elements would even wish to die if this impulse is not going to be gratified, forgetting thereby that they are only serving the injunctions of Nature, though Nature has cleverly put them under an illusion that what they do is for their own personal benefit. Since everything is destroyed by Time, there is a fear that one’s existence would be terminated one day, and to escape from the grief of this possibility, the biological impulse wishes to reproduce itself as a child, a son or a daughter, which become a replica of the parents, whom they hug as themselves, as if the child is inseparable from the parents. Considering the fact that no one can go against the injunctions of Nature, sexual life permitted by marriage should be regarded as reasonable and unavoidable, but considering the welfare of the individual himself or herself, it brings no such benefit, ending in depletion of energy, slowly tending towards old age and physical extinction. It looks that the whole drama of creation is a “hide and seek” affair of the truths of existence where everyone does something helplessly under the impression that it is done voluntarily for one’s own assumed immortal satisfaction, while the fact is that the entire exercise is a hypnotized person’s supposed voluntary enterprise, though commanded by the hypnotist’s will.

    • @vhynne62789
      @vhynne62789 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mrs.miriam he never loves her he just uses her.

    • @lijae9210
      @lijae9210 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vhynne62789 yes ur right he use khs to gain his career.

  • @icanthandlehobisboogieboot5077
    @icanthandlehobisboogieboot5077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    For everyone protecting her or taking any side: *there's always two sides to a story!*
    Only because she claimed this and that, doesn't mean it's true. Same with him.

    • @totallynotafanficreader7850
      @totallynotafanficreader7850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I've always seen 3 sides:
      His, hers, and the truth.

    • @elisae.h.7725
      @elisae.h.7725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      BUT she is the one that went there. SHe said NASTY things about him, making public private life events, text messages and vomiting personal issues while he tried to keep it quiet and was forced to make a statement becasue of her. Yet he was a gentleman with his statement. Actions speak loud in my world. So true, he has his faults on the failed marriage, that is their biz tho. She behaved like a nasty witch in all this. She is then at fault in how it was all handled

    • @priyadey6570
      @priyadey6570 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Zoey Blagrove Correct👍

  • @bevearlybernal3866
    @bevearlybernal3866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1163

    And that my friend explains what happens if you fall in love to the physical attributes! 🤬🤬🤬
    Koreans (not all but many) focuses on physical looks rather than their inner beauty. Thats why Divorce is very common to their country. Come on people! Face and figure fades but not the beauty inside.
    It is normal to be attracted to someone base on their looks but you should not use it as a basis to love them, consider it as a bonus.

    • @alicewong45
      @alicewong45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      ok first of all, HE'S HUMAN! who doesn't now these days don't focus on physical looks? I'm not saying its not a trashy way of thinking but every one does it. I mean look at him, he's gorgeous! i'm pretty sure one of the many reasons she married him was his looks.

    • @thealchemist437
      @thealchemist437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@alicewong45 lol he's not that gorgeous lmao she's way better in terms of looks

    • @nonaaran4975
      @nonaaran4975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Bevearly Bernal yeah you are right, even their face is not original... Soo fake face fake love... Sorry to say but it's true

    • @ivonai851
      @ivonai851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Well said, but people nowadays are very shallow!

    • @NaNa-hk5pj
      @NaNa-hk5pj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👍🏻👌🏼

  • @IreneMy
    @IreneMy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +526

    A big no-no on airing intimate details of their marital life. Hopefully, both will be able to move on and find their individual happiness after the divorce ....🙏

    • @hindmiley
      @hindmiley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I feel sad for her 😢😢😢

    • @marktwains2835
      @marktwains2835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@hindmiley she is the one who strated first

    • @saymyname1519
      @saymyname1519 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I think there's something wrong with GHS..as a celebrity and a woman you dont need to disclose all your personal secret in social media ! She's trying to destroy AJH image but shes destroying herself too,!

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      @KoreanDramaLuvHer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @mariaobrien7263
      @mariaobrien7263 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's really very sad, but we don't really know what went wrong through their time together. It's very sad but we just hope for the best for both of them. Let's hope that they will resolve their differences and come to an agreement that is fair for both parties. And I hope that they will just settle amicably and not air their issues in public. Wishing you both well.

  • @teri5972
    @teri5972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    Goes to show that being lovey dovey in front of the camera doesn't mean that love will last.

    • @ariayang2980
      @ariayang2980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @teri5972
      @teri5972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Or in social media.

  • @hazminiq
    @hazminiq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    I always support Ahn Jae Hyun. from the start of his career, when his wife talk bad thing about him, when citizens and some of his fan telling he was wrong, I still support him no matter what. true fans doesn’t go around telling the person you support some bulls* without knowing true story but instead support him & pray for him for his happiness.

    • @vyceu
      @vyceu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      preach

    • @juniiichii2794
      @juniiichii2794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even if i’m her/his fan i’ll just pray for them but will never support them..

    • @hazminiq
      @hazminiq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      we never know, just look at johnny depp and amber, from 2016 until 2020, lastly we know the truth. after a year of marriage she claim 7m and year after that she claim another 50m. it look similar to this story. the differences is ahn pay until his account became negative. just my unpopular opinion.

    • @lindawalker1079
      @lindawalker1079 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish them both happiness in the future.. it's really bad if two people in love go separate way .. but there's always hope for the best ..

    • @jennieismygirl2339
      @jennieismygirl2339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am with Ahn Jae Hyun 💗💜

  • @BozBozo
    @BozBozo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    None of this belongs in a public forum, but since it's gone public, I'll have my say: every couple has problems. The one to cast the first stone in public wanted to cause the most pain and suffering but in essence, all you ever do is end up hurting yourself. Both of them need lessons in being adults.

    • @nheavictoriasulit1044
      @nheavictoriasulit1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Its easy for us to say that to keep everything private without assessing the whole situation..both parties are protecting their interests...it did get out of hand...as a viewer I accept it as it is ....I never criticize them for not keeping it privately ...it happens especially if both disagrees and do not see eye to eye. There are lot of factors to consider here...1) they are both public figures 2) they are both required to disclose those situation in their contracts (code of decency clause) 3) GHS lost confidence trust in her agency for siding with AJH 4) GHS have no active projects with her agency 5) GHS probably suffering depression and mental breakdown due to abandonment by AJH. 6) in their world image and branding matters so I'm not surprise that it is a he said she said battle...

    • @Jojo-nr9ov
      @Jojo-nr9ov 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Boz Bozo that's why I thought maybe it's all fake n scrolled the comments section they are not kids .

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      @KoreanDramaLuvHer 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @lissiversen7981
      @lissiversen7981 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      amen,and who are we to throw the first stone......its sad that it ended like this,but thats life,divorce is sometimes the best you can do,you have only one life,shoud you live with someone do dont love anymore just to keep the fans happy???and stay unhappy

  • @lorenzandrei689
    @lorenzandrei689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Goddamnit, i'm still not done watching Blood yet.

    • @lachimolasunshine2921
      @lachimolasunshine2921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      me too

    • @blnkdguccifce9450
      @blnkdguccifce9450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lorenz Andrei Sorry about that-... I saw it already right when it was updated but I can guarantee you that I went through the same shit with Descendants of the sun-... jdjsjdkdkdjdjd

    • @alexi6290
      @alexi6290 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me tooo omg

    • @jeanivyalvaricon.5422
      @jeanivyalvaricon.5422 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me toooo

    • @edabalbescatulong7379
      @edabalbescatulong7379 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same.

  • @amandavan55
    @amandavan55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I know there are two sides to a story but she seems toxic and he seems apologetic......

  • @TheAgnesrabino
    @TheAgnesrabino 4 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    I've seen the early episodes of their reality show. Ahn Jae Un was attentive to her and it looks like the girl is the more dominant figure. Although, that follows, since she's a lot older than him. But, from then, you can tell the marriage wouldn't last. It's just a matter of time. I appreciate both actors in their respective works. But, getting the sordid details of their divorce into the public is not a bright idea.

    • @kitkatt430
      @kitkatt430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Alpha Golf he is an actor and they were doing a television show...I mean how else is he supposed to act...I think he was never actually in love but in lust and infactuation....

    • @1029teddybear
      @1029teddybear 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@kitkatt430 that's all speculation. Your just going to believe everything she says? There is no proof he said anything to her. Your just taking the girls side.

    • @jizellevillanueva40
      @jizellevillanueva40 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True!

    • @dolsemiyano
      @dolsemiyano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Dango Bear well actually did you even read the text messages that she posted? She was still speaking to him informally while he was replying in such a distant and cold way. He didn’t even want to notify his mom-in-law first about his decision to get a divorce because he couldn’t be bothered and he wanted to spread the news FAST so that he could go back to work quickly. Seem so pathetic and money hungry jerk.

    • @dolsemiyano
      @dolsemiyano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Dango Bear “No proof”? The text messages and the pictures of him hanging out with the girls are the main proofs. Do your research first, girl.

  • @elviradelarosa6931
    @elviradelarosa6931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    They're throwing rocks at each other - there's no reason to be together.

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  • @norvmal2587
    @norvmal2587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    💀 I wouldn’t even want to be with someone so controlling.

    • @vyceu
      @vyceu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      did she control jae hyun? cause i’m so lost..

    • @someone_hehe4943
      @someone_hehe4943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Avoid Mxddie apperently she was being controlling and paranoid and it caused him to lose interest who wouldn’t tho as a female i have a better understanding of how other woman would feel and how they would react and so far i can tell that he was not ready for a marriage and neither was she she was paranoid and he was depressed

  • @ericacarter8205
    @ericacarter8205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Why I kept reading words "nipples thing" 'N "radish soup" for the love of God she wants recognitions of her soup 'N also a big no-no talking intimate stuff publicly 🙄🙄. He's depressed, while she's losing her mind. She's emptying his bank. From the story both of them, I guessed he's the sane adult.

  • @maureenpirone3658
    @maureenpirone3658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    As anyone who's been married for over 25 yrs can tell you, it takes two to make the marriage work and it is work/ it doesn't just happen. It's a decision to accept the good and bad. It's forgiving and fighting fair and really communicating .

  • @chantaljacee2394
    @chantaljacee2394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    "If you can't handle me at my worst then most probably you don't deserve me at my best".
    I remember this similar quote from a movie before. Funnily, the leads in that movie are both suffering from a recent separation too (with their respective partners).

  • @saymyname1519
    @saymyname1519 4 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Their divorce issue is opposite of Song-Song couple because they remained silent about the real reason of their separation. While these couple Goo Hye Sun and Ahn Jaehyun are like mortal enemies and not married couple.!

    • @deenelson7722
      @deenelson7722 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      STOP This MESS And GET A REAL Life! IF YOU DIE Today What Can Be Said Of YOU?

    • @imbored9789
      @imbored9789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@deenelson7722 lmao ?

    • @ninalashiak4638
      @ninalashiak4638 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love this girl God bless u always

    • @chefminnie7853
      @chefminnie7853 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      its the actress fault to post everything

  • @scarletred2148
    @scarletred2148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    You need to be matured enough to take responsibility as a husband... honesty, faith and understanding should be on top in every relationship...

    • @Julia-xm4tj
      @Julia-xm4tj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Scarlet Red You really need to read the new texts that have been reveled 🤡

    • @wonshangmiawungshi7106
      @wonshangmiawungshi7106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah i dont like him anymore.... He's so irresponsible ...

    • @laurahigdon9904
      @laurahigdon9904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Omg she needs to mature. Who charges there husband for chores in a divorce settlement. She's a control freak and has none now so she's airing her dirty laundry which i belice about 10% of. Her reality is her perception not necessarily fact. She wants to ruin the guy she "loves" so much so she can have ppl like you believe her crap. I know men can be dogs but women are scary when they don't want to let go and she's slandering others at the same time. She needs help

    • @laurahigdon9904
      @laurahigdon9904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She seems to have a lot of rules for him and none for herself. Hiws is that being anything but controling.

    • @shanenphoebe4766
      @shanenphoebe4766 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It isn’t just the husbands job to be responsible, it’s both the husbands and the wife’s. Besides, there’s a concerning amount of times where her “truths” were revealed as lies. Now this is the moment where they should just silence everything, it’s getting way too messy and all because one of them couldn’t keep their personal matters to themselves, if you really cared and loved a person, even though they hurt you, you’d still try to protect them in any way you can. And this is just harming not one of them but both of them. I wish them luck in dealing with this debacle but it’s honestly just concerning how messy it’s gotten.

  • @priscillaferguson267
    @priscillaferguson267 4 ปีที่แล้ว +453

    Based on his timeline it shows that his happy married life only lasted no longer than 1-1/2 years and the other half was him struggling and enduring the marriage. Well guess what being married means you both try to work out your differences and see a marriage counselor or marriage therapist together! You work through the hard times. Being silent and depressed only causes the other person to feel isolated and alone. Is it no wonder Hye Sun’s behavior became irrational and suspicious? For every action there is a reaction. Due to Korean society being so judgmental towards divorced women I can see why she was trying to hold on to him. Her acting out in a public forum is the emotional pain she too has had to endure for the last 1-1/2 years due to his aloofness and indifference. This was quite evident if you look back at photos taken of Hye Sun during this time period. Depression caused her to gain weight and apparently he found this to be unattractive and not sexy. Wow, do you think she would have treated him that way if he all of a sudden went bald? Clearly he wasn’t prepared mentally or emotionally to be married. The love and care given at the onset disappeared when cracks in the relationship created a challenge for him.

    • @carmenbanks5690
      @carmenbanks5690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      humm, i think it is you becoming irrational and bias! did you not read the first statement of ahn jae hyun, if indeed true that he said their marriage has become burdensome in few years? he says he loved and respect Ku Hye Sun when he married her. how can that be true? I find it unbelievable and insincere! It seems he still thinks that he has all the right and privilege to behave like he is a single man, his wife became burdensome and a nuisance when she texts or calls him to know where he is and what time he would be home! Normal matter that can be discussed nicely, find mutual understanding and trust! Men who cannot regard marriage vows as sacred and a lifetime commitment, should not get married! I now admire so many popular, handsome, mature korean actors who has not married in their late 30's and past 40''s! these are the men that cannot be responsible to another person and family, enjoying and loving too much their single blessedness and freedom! In marriage ,you do not lose all your rights as an individual, but individual differences can be compromised, a give and take partnership and relationship based on true love, respect, trust and understanding!Caution@ Do not rush into marriage if you do not know each other well enough, but inspite of this, there are many couples who still got separated or divorce even after many years living under one roof and knowing each other well, but the thing is, if there is no honesty and good communication, one partner keeping secrets, or keeps whining about the other, then troubles and misery arises!

    • @priscillaferguson267
      @priscillaferguson267 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      No one is arguing with you on this matter. This is an open forum where anyone can post their comments. I’m only made a response to Jae Hyun’s posting. His comments along with a number of other video shots tends to contradict his own words. Hye Sun on the other hand for the past year have conducted interviews and she herself indicated that she had not communicated with her husband in awhile nor was he aware of what she was doing. For him to be celebrating his birthday with friends men and women with his wife no where in sight is definitely troublesome. His love and commitment to this marriage was certainly an illusion and public facade. Her “acting out” on social media is probably her way of venting her anger, betrayal, and frustration with having suffered through his indifference and neglect for the past year 1-1/2.

    • @ditshollero7183
      @ditshollero7183 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      priscilla ferguson 0

    • @nheavictoriasulit1044
      @nheavictoriasulit1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I like your comment its more realistic than those saying that they should have kept things in private...they should but it didnt happen...so to those who said to keep things in private I wonder why you keep commenting on their lives...as if it irritates all of you...when you keep reading news updates on their divorce? At least let's be honest to ourselves ... From my perspective the wife reaction is normal, that is a hurt woman about to loose her life partner and suffered a great deal of pain from the separation. Honestly when I read this news ...I said to myself ...So these things happen to them ...they are humans after all and of course I feel a great deal of sorrow for their marriage break up. No one who has ever been separated/ divorced would ever want that pain for others...As people with emotions who are not perfect, you should be more understanding.... We are in the age of social media, I'm not surprise these things happen even for them who are celebrities...personally I am not a fan of keeping things appropriate and proper on the outside when everything is not ok on the inside (thats why many people are depressed, the pressure of keeping things in order)...I want to see humanity in all its glory...real emotions ...real life....real reactions...real issues...you'll never know that by just sharing your pain you can inspire and comfort others who is suffering the same ..... I will pray for this couple, I hope God will touch their hearts and comfort them at this time, their problems and issues will not be solved by divorce alone...most people think separation is the answer to their marital problems when eventually it will cause more pain in their lives later on.... Im not saying to force couple to be together when one party wants out....i guess im just sayin to be more cautious before deciding to file for divorce....deciding things on the verge of emotions is not wise.... the process of moving on will always carry on an extra baggage on your next relationship unless one would be lucky enough to meet someone who would be able to embrace their wounds... Healing is a process...Lets not criticize them for not reacting properly, let's pray for them and I mean both of them ....apparently even if I can totally relate to the wife I will not take sides...the husband is also hurting....and obviously deciding based on what he can see now....I hope the people surrounding AJH and GHS would give them wise advice....the way I see it ...this separation are both damaging to their personal life and their career!

    • @kuepandan
      @kuepandan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      All marriages become burdensome at one or two stages in life. To stay together and I. Love are a difficult thing and requires commitment and LOVE. This boy is nasty. He doesn't know love. So yeah, get a divorce. There's nothing more to hope for in a husband like that.

  • @jaredtechur7784
    @jaredtechur7784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I feel so bad for the both of them. This could’ve been taken care of without public notice. Jae Hyun must be having the hardest time right now and it’s only getting worse. This divorce really didn’t have to go public but then I realize what world we actually live in. Hopefully they can both solve this issue fast and end off on good agreement terms.

  • @lyneneelamsquotes
    @lyneneelamsquotes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    I'm not exactly a fan, but I have watched Ahn Jae yun through NJTTW and anyone could tell he's a gentle soul, so I can't help but make a comment. This was a simple case of insecurity, jealousy, and miscommunication, to the point that because the girl probably keeps on nagging, Ahn Jae Yun got fed up, was pushed to his limits, and lost whatever feelings he had from the get go. This, therefore, turned him cold towards the girl causing him to treat her text messages coldly, which by the way, are basically just part of the story, not the whole. Trust me, I see this happen every time in real life. She should have just been more mature as she is older and not ruin her husband's career, especially considering she's not that popular anymore,, or so I thought, since I don't see her in dramas anymore, so that tells a lot I guess.

    • @ranielazyravalledor6635
      @ranielazyravalledor6635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agreeee

    • @bibzy6277
      @bibzy6277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      so many people are blind to this fact and just want to take the girls side when shes mainly in the wrong

    • @doreenugo7486
      @doreenugo7486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tf are u on about, she’s not popular anymore so she deserves less huh . Scram bra

    • @carmelitamckenzie6003
      @carmelitamckenzie6003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      What you've been said is so judgemental but are you really sure yourself that he is an angel. Shit! Look at his face!!!!!!!! actor is an actor who can act and play as a victim. Well, i don't really worried about them co'z we got our own problem in our life to solve. Let them to solve it rather than involve yourself.

    • @xakimah_01
      @xakimah_01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But is she older than him?

  • @pardonsunshine4732
    @pardonsunshine4732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    In sharing his side of the story, I can tell he’s pretty reasonable with what he says other than goo hye sun who threw many words making me confused. But yeah.

    • @LaughingInTiny
      @LaughingInTiny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The difference is that his was written by a PR company and hers by her... while she was emotionally involved in an unexpected end to a marriage that lasted 5 minutes. He's a child.

    • @gayhutton2462
      @gayhutton2462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry for typos am posting this on a screen one and a half by 2 inch screen.the here. Phone is old too. Just know I love all of you way over there.

  • @sumeetamang6257
    @sumeetamang6257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I never knew this person called Jae hyun before he married hye Sun. Hye sun is always my inspiration no matter what. She's the one who made me watch Korean dramas. She deserves so much better.

    • @rachealjoe6351
      @rachealjoe6351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too

    • @lovekyu4628
      @lovekyu4628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too..even i watched your all surrounded and blood.i didnt recognize him..unless he married hye sun...

    • @AlexReyes-gl7ty
      @AlexReyes-gl7ty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too She deserve so much better Simula kasi nung nag asawa sya parang nag give up na sya sa Career nya Miss ko na sya sa K Drama😭

    • @sophiavastra74389
      @sophiavastra74389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I like both. AJH for me was amazing in Blood, he was the first Korean actor that I was like “Woahhhh”, I knew him before AJS.

    • @Julia-xm4tj
      @Julia-xm4tj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You really need to read the new texts that have been reveled. She lied about multiple things

  • @ritamanglona6672
    @ritamanglona6672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Both of them are great in Kdramas and I love them. Their personal life is something they need to deal with and am not on anyone’s side. Divorce is hard to deal with. Many couples let their emotions run high. The whole world don’t need to know their intimacy issues. Just sad it didn’t last forever.

  • @nksmashup
    @nksmashup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    WTF!!! It didnt even passed 1 year yet that the Song-Song couple got divorce and now them!!! I cant even believe LOL!!!
    This is what real life is...when drama is just an imagination to our fantasy world which can never be real

    • @stayblessed4real
      @stayblessed4real 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      of course it is!! They think that marriage and thn divorce is just a fun... that's y i never ship any couple in real

    • @nksmashup
      @nksmashup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@stayblessed4real Your name- uhm...am I talking to Mr. Jeon Jungkook right now? (just kidding lol)

    • @stayblessed4real
      @stayblessed4real 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nksmashup Hewwo~ me is kookie🐇

    • @nksmashup
      @nksmashup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stayblessed4real know what when in my phone the notification came it was written like "Jeon Jungkook replied to you" and my sister sitting beside screamed, "OH MY GOD SHE IS TALKING WITH JUNGKOOK" I dunno what kind of nonsense she thought... 😆😆
      Edit: Btw hi Kookie

  • @zandria5683
    @zandria5683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    It sounds like mental health issues could be the problem in this marriage and South Korea doesn't deal with that well at all.

    • @purpleworld1558
      @purpleworld1558 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes you are right....

    • @honeststraightforward1485
      @honeststraightforward1485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They actually don't indeed. They should stay married until death because this is their tradition and culture. Fuck that !!!!

  • @lynettepedraja1978
    @lynettepedraja1978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Settledown if you are physicaly emorionaly, spiritually and financialy stable and PUT GOD as a center of your reationship as a couple, married life is not easy but every couple should pass all the trials in their relationship be considerate from each other.....respect and trust is the key to live happily in one couple....very disappointed for this couple😭😭😭😭

  • @maraeloisa4597
    @maraeloisa4597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Everyone on the comment section is blaming the guy for the divorce when they have not really know the story behind close door. Siding the girl because she is a "girl" and she is pretty and she is famous and have made an innocent image to the public. But little did we know.

    • @austinjt4264
      @austinjt4264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But AJH does have a history of being bad. And hanging with a sex psychopath. You often are what your bestfriends are that's how you make a perfect peers with your guys.
      GHS on the hands... never have any juicy scandal prior to this. Not a single paparazzi can dig up any dirt on her.

    • @maraeloisa4597
      @maraeloisa4597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Austin Thov still, we don’t know the other side of the story. Not becausw she doesnt have any scandal doesnt mean she isn’t doing anything bad in their marriage, and not because he made a mistake in the past doesnt mean he is guilty.

    • @austinjt4264
      @austinjt4264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@maraeloisa4597 I guess you do not see realities of life then. They maybe a celebrity but they do not come from Alien World. They living here just like us, facing the same problem that most of us do. If you asked a friendly question to a psychiatrist, they would smile & say "every couple is unique, every couple is different". But if you pressed them hard enough for real answer, they'll tell you there are Patterns and every couple is more or less the same... having a few patterns to categorize them.
      Bad habits are hard to break. You did bad once, you bounce to do it again. It's like a gravity that keeps on pulling you.
      And you don't wake up one day & suddenly become bad. Just as if you were bad, you don't wake up one day & become good.
      AJH is very young, he's like what, 22 - 23?
      But prior to this, he already had a couple ex-girlfriend, hanging out in hotel with them. I'm not saying having sex with your girlfriend is bad but he must have started since he 15 or 16 and for someone that young, he probably isn't a person who take relationships seriously and just wanted fun. I assure you, these type of people won't let themselves stop having fun if they married just a few years older.
      Prior to this, GHS never did anything like this, no narcissistic comments, no bad mouthing anyone... She probably the most peaceful actress I've seen. Take a good look at other actress, they having beef with people around the clock... fights with this, fights with that... nonestop bullshit on IG & FB. But GHS, never showed that... because probably never have that side to her. She in spotlight for so long... If she have a dark side, it would be hard to hide.
      I can see where she coming from, no past boyfriends, no cheesy scandals... so it's safe to say she was a very pure girl who put everything out there for her husband and ended up get blindside. That's why she lashes out after it failed.
      I can see where the angers coming from.
      And I do not know AJH but I knows lot of guy that similar in this situations. They fell in love, they want to get married but after marriage, they won't change themselves & recompose as Married Man. They still want to all the things they get to do when they were single... and when their wives try to put some senses into them, she become "The Control Freak".
      Take my sister for example. Very similar to this case. The guy chase her for a year before she gives in and decide to marry him. After marriage, he has not change any of his Single-life activities. He never help out with any chores, cooking, cleaning, groceries shopping... not a single thing because he was living with his parents with a Maid to do everything for him, so he never had to do any of these things. Despite living alone with my sister, he didn't change his way of live.
      After my sister gave birth... he would still go out every Sunday with friends rather than stay home & help my sister out. He has a tradition of having a soccer match with his college every Sunday and that hasn't changed... instead of being home with his wife & children, he always make his Sunday Soccer Game a priority.
      When he wants to get out drink with his friend, he would just shower, put on a clean shirt & left my sister a message not to wait up. Sometime he doesn't even get from until 3am to 4am. Some night, didn't even come home. And he never even call to check if his children fallen asleep yet or if my sister had dinner, and what she eat, what food... bad or good. Nope, never check & never bother.
      He sees nothing bad of his behaviors because it was the way he lives for past 30 years. My sister on the hands, cries nearly every nights.

    • @austinjt4264
      @austinjt4264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Aym a J2 Fan LOLzzz Dispatch?
      You cannot see who dispatch was helping? They stay in touch with AJH all the time but never reach out to GHS to see if all info provide by AJH is correct or not. They picked a side or can't you not see that?
      They said they have access to 3 yrs worth of Text. Why not release a full version of it? Nope. They only released bits & parts that make AJH look good.
      They never confront him if any Gu said was true or not... why he moved out, why never pick his pick his phone... Why he choose to call Gu's mom for their divorce instead of own up to it and speak to her in person because he was literally kneeling & beg Gu's mother permission to marry Gu.
      We can see clearly, never check to on Gu's mother despite knowing she is unhealthy. He can be so ignorance & disrespectful.
      Dogs are very passionate, why did Gu dogs are very afraid of him. He's never home or was Gu gotten a new dogs? But none of her old dogs or cats ran toward to AJH? I live in City. I only get to see my dogs very few days per a year but they jumped on me everytime I got home. They wont' leave me alone for at least a few hours. But we can see during live cam of Gu that all her pet kept a distance from AJH. He probably chase (or beating) them when Gu isn't home.
      She was right... They still married, she still has a right to check on him. But he sees it as intrusion? Clearly, he doesn't think of himself as Married Man. His wife doesn't know his new phone number, but his MG does? His wife doesn't know his apartment password but his friend does? What kind of married man is that?
      When you're married, there's no more Yours or Mine. There supposed to be only OURS. So if anyone has His or Hers. Yours or Mine... You can take as a signs cuz that marriage won't last.
      P.s... Yes... hanging out with a bad person, often make you bad. Especially when you get see all the shitty things they done and never stop them... That make you just as bad. Cuz if you're good, you'd walk away from all of this. But if you stay, that's make you guilty by associations. They may be different colors... but they just 2 peas in a pot.

    • @maraeloisa4597
      @maraeloisa4597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Austin Thov still, you dont know whats happening behind close doors, NOT BECAUSE she doesnt have “past” doesnt make her innocent, both of them have done something wrong in this marriage. My point is, stop finger pointing the guy as if he is the only one who have done wrong because MAYBE something else is up behind close door. Youre the one who doesn’t understand the reality in life, youre simply judging the guy because of what he did in the past and siding the girl because again she established an “innocent” image nobody knows if its true till you live in one house with her. Youre one sided and doesnt seem to understand that theres always the other side of the story.

  • @irenep722
    @irenep722 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is so freaking embarrassing on both parties.

  • @PS-mv3dq
    @PS-mv3dq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Through their statements ,what I think is ,they still love each other .

    • @bisheshtaacharya9472
      @bisheshtaacharya9472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww i love this couple😞❤..and wish for their togetherness in future❤️

  • @jenylmaerecta3761
    @jenylmaerecta3761 4 ปีที่แล้ว +271

    He's not ready in marriage life.

    • @joyaxcatley7414
      @joyaxcatley7414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      that`s I guessed the first reason of their failed marriage, the guy is not ready at all...get divorce as you like but be quiet because somehow in due time it will affect to your child. Also..just curious, why Goo Hye Sun demand for payment for work when it is normal for a couple to do that. Being a wife is like a helper to your husband, you need to do those household chores as other wives normally do..tsk,tsk, tsk, I can`t understand her too. No one ask them to get married, it`s their choice so the burden is theirs too.

    • @ngsue739
      @ngsue739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      jerk ahn if is not ready then said so why the frist place want to married her for beauty face you your are jerk to do this her if you said don't married then noting we happen both of them are so Childress

    • @pcy6141
      @pcy6141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@joyaxcatley7414 if he treated her better...she wouldn't have asked for alimony or pay for her chores..she is having hard time regarding finance issue...she donated money for unicef ..now she don't have and the company is playing double game..hope this clear your doubt...

    • @donnajohnson3792
      @donnajohnson3792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @Lilshortie As far as your opinion of "She still should not have did this publicly." Neither should he. It works both ways, and in my opinion he needs to grow up, after all, he was the one the paparazzi caught with other women, so he put it out there first didn't he. Also, what about her career... .

    • @pcy6141
      @pcy6141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @Lilshortie but imagine dude ..what if u got blamed for something you are not responsible..she is already depressed she don't want to be insulted more ...Korea is more like patriarchal country and she know she will get blamed because she looks cold on outside and Ahn Jae Hyu look like innocent...he used her like a ladder thats it..before marriage he was not famous now he got name, fame and money that he wants..she is not sexy anymore and got bored of her..does it make sense
      And am just discussing don't mind if i hurted you am sorry dude

  • @notsoprivateee
    @notsoprivateee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is what happen when u marry someone bcs of their looks.
    “After all, we stay not bcs of their looks, but bcs of their attitude. When you’re finally living together, that’s when you realize that looks is just a bonus”
    -That’s what my mom keeps on telling us.

    • @littlemschat1052
      @littlemschat1052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea but the problem is the guy married her because of her looks (and is unhappy with how she looks naked). What to do when a car hits you when ure driving ok?

    • @notsoprivateee
      @notsoprivateee 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      littleMschat hi! That’s exactly what I meant. He marry her bcs of her looks and fucked up bcs he’s not satisfied that’s why he ended up asking for divorce. The quote i just wrote is for general.

    • @Julia-xm4tj
      @Julia-xm4tj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You really need to read the new texts that have been reveled 🤡

  • @hdhdusaududu
    @hdhdusaududu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    The girl is so weird. How could she ruin someones whole career just because he wants a divorce

    • @catherineann143
      @catherineann143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Possibly because women are more emotional and effects are easily made and kept. She held on to traditional, so had no desire divorce at first. Be understanding and not harsh. Though it was not suitable for them to treat each other in such a way.

    • @almeerarasyid3004
      @almeerarasyid3004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@catherineann143 If she held on traditional, how possible she doesn't know all Koreans always have dinner or drink after works. That's their own Country traditions and not only on Celebrity's environtment but for all workers. And she bragging and upset about it. All i could see that this woman even doesn't know that all relationships should be based on Trust.

    • @catherineann143
      @catherineann143 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Almeera Rasyid ah sorry for not being conscious of my clarity. I am talking about traditional/authentic femininity and womanhood as a wife who longs to encourage and inspire her husband and become the joy of the family as the glue; for he is the roof. I am not talking about Korea’s culture. I talk of the tradition of no divorce, but endurance as it was in the past. Sincere apology🤗

    • @catherineann143
      @catherineann143 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Almeera Rasyid Yes, trust and true friendship should be the basis for a relationship to grow, because to trust is starting to love more profoundly. She did not upheld to that, because her emotions and inattentiveness to her action caused her to lose sight of who she is and has to become in a family.

    • @elisae.h.7725
      @elisae.h.7725 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@catherineann143 please. I left my ex after 8 years and all i took was few suitcases and a coffee espresso machine. I left it all to him. I just wanted it all to be gone. So i can recognize why he gave her all she wanted. Once she saw she wouldnt get the fight she hoped for she went into personal stuff. She is surely suffering of obsessive behaviour. He is an object she possessed not a human being with feelings. She is a narcissist and it is VERY visible from her WHOLE instagram posts. From the beginning. ANYONE that grew up with a narcissist in their life will be able to recognize the signs and she shows MANY of them

  • @denisebrown2994
    @denisebrown2994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    She was way too controlling treating him like he was a kid, her kid and not as her husband. She needs serious medical help

    • @chubbymirikah6679
      @chubbymirikah6679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Teresita Azada and also yours too.. 😊

    • @aminamujos1402
      @aminamujos1402 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i thought so she had alot do and dont that to ther husband

    • @johnjohny317
      @johnjohny317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How would you know that she is controlling??? Hahahaha you f@%$^ N...

    • @jessicamiller757
      @jessicamiller757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      After reading the text message I agree. She does seem to need help. She is very up and down with her emotions. He seems to suffering from depression too. Hope they both get help.

  • @flamingheart2464
    @flamingheart2464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Im hurting for the both of them... Everybody knows that they should have kept details in private. I hope the people around them can guide them both so they can get through this smoothly and not hurt each other anymore. I still feel for KHS more. She should be silent but im thinking, maybe she is really in a great pain and letting it all out is her only coping mechanism. I hope what they have revealed so far should be the last and go through this process quickly. Im not wishing for them to be together, for now. They need to heal themselves first, separately. Wishing for the best.

  • @mariaagnesgenson5926
    @mariaagnesgenson5926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Everybody is not perfect and we are only humans....you cannot blame him if he falls out of love....let them settle their problem we don't know who is telling the truth and only them knows the real score...don't be judgemental....

  • @thebiebs8221
    @thebiebs8221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    To All the girls out here don’t get married a man younger then you

    • @eunieberry
      @eunieberry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I think there was this 40+ Korean celebrity who got married and is doing well with her Chinese husband and that they’re doing well together despite the age difference.

    • @Mrs.miriam
      @Mrs.miriam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@eunieberry yes,2 examples are chae rim and choo ja hyun.their younger handsome Chinese husbands adore them.

    • @kuepandan
      @kuepandan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      My Dad adores my Mom, 5 yrs older and way handsome. It really depends. Just don't marry a jerk.

    • @iamgoingsolo6764
      @iamgoingsolo6764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Don't marry a jerk

    • @t.xvia.x
      @t.xvia.x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Tbh it rlly depends on how the lover acts upon his/her lover, along with very little age difference or the same age.

  • @syreeda1
    @syreeda1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Marriage reveals flaws and it takes forgiveness, honesty, and love to make it work.

    • @zahidanoor1943
      @zahidanoor1943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes and there comes a phase when they both would not be wanting to see each other... But if both party endure it for the sake of saving their marriage it will probably work out..

    • @roselynlumosad9351
      @roselynlumosad9351 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They easily got married because if they don't want to live each other they can divorce and that's not love at all it's just they wanted to be happy they did not think about how there relationship becomes stronger. They just always asking a divorce after they are having both a hard time....

  • @riyashah7486
    @riyashah7486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love at first time doesnt work sometimes, Their story is classic example of that, Maturity,Trust and understanding also plays a gr8 role in a relationship

  • @lisaperi8995
    @lisaperi8995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was watching and reading this, so sad for one and second, you shouldn't have to justify yourself to the world, you deserve privacy, Ahn Jae Hyun so sorry you have to go through such stress and the end result is finding a way through the divorce, enough said. i hope you keep and get well much love ....

  • @MarieGrauxie
    @MarieGrauxie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    Im not taking any sides but ahn jae hyun seen by paparazi partying and drinking with other woman. And he is featured as one of the blinditems in kshowbiz news

    • @yarahmalacao5536
      @yarahmalacao5536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Marie Grauxie Vlogs totoo??

    • @carmenbanks5690
      @carmenbanks5690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      AJH seems to think or believe that he still has every right to behave like a single man that is why he said, the marriage became burdensome and so Ku Hye Sun has become burdensome to him. How can he claim that he loved and respect KHS when he married her, that is absolutely untrue! She could not resist the beauty of kHS and her advances, she kissed him first, didn't she? They rushed into marriage after doing the drama, "Blood", Deep and true love overcomes individual differences, but Infatuation quickly and easily wears off! AJH & SJK are the type of men who should not get married until they are mature enough and truly, deeply love the woman they are marrying! Marriage to them is like a game,that when they make a mistake they can quickly opt out of the marriage and wants divorce! It is not a matter of age gap among these two couples, but maturity and true love which these guys do not yet possess! They do not think or consider that their marraige vows was sacred and meant to be a lifetime commitment, but selfish and immature thinking makes them easily give up and run away! Will they do the same with a new partner or wife to be? I do not agree what KHS has been doing or complaining, dishing out flaws and immaturity of AJH in public, but I cannot blame her for doing so, as she is the woman scorned and betrayed by a younger man she loves! Adding to their troubles, I have a strong gut feeeling the CEO of HB management is not a good influence to AJH attitude and behaviour, and marriage to KHS! I wonder too, why KHS's name was quickly deleted from the talents of HB management?

    • @ngsue739
      @ngsue739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      hb management that not agree to their marriage than jerk ahn said he don't like entrainment industry age gap is not a matter both are immature the company is unfair to khs they should ask both of them to go the company is only chasing her out what type hb management is very unfair

    • @pcy6141
      @pcy6141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      You can take sides...i think he is definitely a jerk

    • @carmenbanks5690
      @carmenbanks5690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Now AJH was depressed after his marriage with KHS he claims? Whaaaat? Seeking sympathy for his immaturity, dishonesty and faking it all? I am not taking sides between them who fans look up to as role models in kdrama, but based on what he complains about KHS he should not have rushed into marriage with KHS who was the bold one advancing on him first romantically. Clearly he was smitten and infatuated with KHS beauty and thought it was love and respect! So sad though both now are dishing their dirty laundry in public & indeed confirming they are two of "People with Flaws! What a coincidence the recent drama in the making for AJH! I wish them two Stop blaming each other for the lack of true love, respect, understanding and trust for each other. Life is too short to be miserable, get on with the divorce quietly if no longer happy in marriage & no chance to patch up things & forgive & move on in life! If couples let Anger rule their hearts and minds they are bound to make more mistakes and be miserable, no peace. Forgiveness bring peace especially to one self!

  • @chantaljacee2394
    @chantaljacee2394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I feel like Goo Hyesun is too direct with how he labelled her (too private details) on IG. I mean, c'mon those details must remain in private no matter how much you are struggling with the marriage regardless if you are a celebrity or not. Omg! I'm so sad :(( but if these are accurate posts and translations of Jaehyun's IG post, now I'm just shocked that they really posted it on SNS. I feel like Jaehyun was really pushed to his limits when Hyesun posted about how she just told the truth that's only beneficial to her. I feel for Jaehyun really. IDK how true about the "lots women" part but whether or not it's true I still stand that both of them shouldn't have posted all those details about their marital lives. This is just my two cents but for me I quite believed both are telling the truth coz I've watched their Newly Weds Diary show and with how both carried the posts on their IGs were similar to how they talked as a couple. For me Hyesun is the calm yet very direct type of woman, she says what's on her mind. As what I've observed, she's the traditional type whereas Jaehyun is like a City man that just follows where he is happy at the moment (enjoys life every moment type). Based in this report, there's this part of his post that he said that he just decided this because his wife said so (he doesn't want to prolong as to avoid arguments) - if you look at it, he maybe the type that follows where the flow goes. Not that he doesn't have a stand on anything but just that some men are like that, to avoid confrontational situations they just go where there'll be less conflicts. I understand Hyesun though as a woman too. But I guess they are just not meant to be. Not everyone that marries will have a happily ever after after all.

    • @johnariesestologa5248
      @johnariesestologa5248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Chantal Jacee it’s because Goo hye sun and Lee min ho are meant to be.. 😂✌️

  • @latinaintexas2872
    @latinaintexas2872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She's the older one with experience, she knew what she was doing! And younger didn't know what to expect! So he wanted out, sounds like he was desperate, he let go of everything to get his Freedom!!! Sounds like she was a crazy women who was hiding in the Dark!!! Best of to Ahn Jae Hyun!!!

  • @ibapaswet6330
    @ibapaswet6330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    So sad😔😔😔again another couple breakup,,, after song song couple,,,,,,,
    Married is just a game,,,

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      @KoreanDramaLuvHer 4 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @kiera5667
    @kiera5667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    LESSON 101: Never rush to marriage. It takes time to really get to know someone to taking off their masks through time and see their true color.
    Don't get with a person who acts nice and perfect and too good to be true front of other people.
    believe me, I've been there, thank God I'm safe now

  • @cabasaglesly.5148
    @cabasaglesly.5148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    He's obviously not ready to marry yet. He should grow, he's still a boy.

    • @nandasaputra6125
      @nandasaputra6125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      32 years old is still a boy for you? lmao

    • @cabasaglesly.5148
      @cabasaglesly.5148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@nandasaputra6125 Boy is under no age limit. Age is just a number anyway. It's even an understatement. Who would on their right mind gonna marry someone they just met? or like right off the bat? Man is a big word for something so shallow like this. He didn't even find a reason to stay. He just literally dumped his wife after he used her. That's the thing about BOY. Men are not trash, actually. If he's a cheater, a player or a casanova even if he's at his 30; he's still a BOY. Man is someone who could keep his promise, treat his girl right and love her 'til they grow old together. He's gonna love all of her flaws and treat her as his queen. Man is something so deep-we shouldn't confound it.

    • @mkanchana1837
      @mkanchana1837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ohhhh...he is just a boy right?but randomly call girls when is drunk...not bothered or respects his wife feeling....is wife is not sexy?u can divorce her if she not?...why did he even marry?for fun?..marriage is not experiment

    • @notsoprivateee
      @notsoprivateee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @desertmoonlee6631
      @desertmoonlee6631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      toptabi how do you believe everything
      We don’t know their private life stop believing what she or he said, no one will never know what happened in their private life so blaming anyone is wrong

  • @betweenthepoles
    @betweenthepoles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My niece was married for 2-1/2 years when out of the blue her husband asked for a divorce. He half-heartedly went through counseling but ultimately did not want to work on it. They are both in their early 30’s. I just can’t believe how a lot of people now seem to think marriage is a temporary thing and not important enough to work on. It isn’t just these two young celebrities - it is happening all over. My only comment about Goo Hye Sun’s behavior is this: Why would she be so upset and suspicious unless he gave her a good reason? Feeling betrayed by a person who supposedly loves you causes these kind of strong feelings and uncharacteristic actions. I had the same thing happen to me with a boyfriend of many years and I was so furious I couldn’t see straight. This is just so sad.

  • @rouli_in_oz889
    @rouli_in_oz889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I know that it's none of my business but I feel so sad every time my fave actors get divorced. I know that married life isn't easy but what is the point of rushing in the first place? I'm married my self and it's been 19 years ( and counting), got married when I was 19, there are tears, sweat but also laughter and love. You learn along the way what to do and what not. You don't force to have your way as you are not alone but "together" in a marriage. That lust that you had during dating changed into other kind of love but romance can be maintained, you just have to spice up a bit. In a marriage you have to have more tolerance and compromise, change your expectation. You can't change someone else except your self.

    • @sophiavastra74389
      @sophiavastra74389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Bawang_Jamur
      This comment should have way more likes. Beautifully said my friend!💜

    • @rouli_in_oz889
      @rouli_in_oz889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Sophia_Vastra
      Thank you, Sophie. Only talk from my own experience. If I'm or hubby is selfish, our marriage won't even last one year. LOL
      xoxo

  • @sharifapearlsiadans1529
    @sharifapearlsiadans1529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I hope both of them keep their personal issues to themselves.If they end it in a divorce let it be amicable.It is not for us to judge who is wrong or right.For a marriage to work, it takes both to give and take and sacrifice.It is a work in progress and only when they begin to think we instead of I will they realize it takes two to make it work. I wish both of them all the best in their future lives.

  • @myserendipity770
    @myserendipity770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just hope that they stay silent on their divorce instead of turning into each other they have save their career.

  • @bethregullano5293
    @bethregullano5293 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Sorry to say this but there are things that can be sort out in private as it will damage both of the parties involve,,they shouldn't be using the social media for this just saying

    • @weewer8539
      @weewer8539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      sorry to say too may be she can't endure it anymore what is the husband did to her...so no choice she must told it in social media.she felt unfair for her that's why she did it kind of this story.

    • @bethregullano5293
      @bethregullano5293 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Will i hope it will make good for her the she made it public and hope they be happy in the future

    • @weewer8539
      @weewer8539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bethregullano5293 I read someone's comment that ahn jae hyun really hard to deal with that's why she taken this way to reaching to him.yes agree with you,our wish may they find their happiness in the future.

    • @ngsue739
      @ngsue739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      you are right the social media the company side jerk ajh only that why she has nobody to protect her under same company only side the husband

    • @kathyhamilton8775
      @kathyhamilton8775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She shouldn't have take this to the public in the first place I believed his sid than hers she want to distory him in the public and that why I don't fell sorry for her and you could tell that she is not easy to deal with I could see why he want to end the marriage I would of if I was a man and

  • @riandrarasyaaliebsaputra204
    @riandrarasyaaliebsaputra204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    Then...why you married her....no one forced you to be in love with her

    • @ngsue739
      @ngsue739 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      why married the frist place nobody force you jerkajh

    • @dolsemiyano
      @dolsemiyano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Exactly. Someone should teach him that “people don’t get married to get divorce”. I’m so angry with his reasoning and clearly he has no dedication and commitment to the marriage as much as his wife. All he knew was by showing off that he’s the most romantic husband in the world and then got famous because of it. Sick of guys like that 🙄

    • @annasimson4481
      @annasimson4481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      dolsemiyano He was already famous before marriage. He was a rising star.

    • @riandrarasyaaliebsaputra204
      @riandrarasyaaliebsaputra204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@annasimson4481 yess he is super cute and look soo nice,and funny in reality show....how could he talk ill about his wife eventhough nobody perfect...but i hope they can move on from this heart break

    • @Gahboot
      @Gahboot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@annasimson4481 No, he was not. He was just an unpopular small actor before he married Hye-sun.

  • @aisha-gq6cz
    @aisha-gq6cz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    funny how she’s the one who still doesn’t want a divorce despite of all the negative things she said about him

  • @yanixxeco
    @yanixxeco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Knowing and following Hye Sun for 10yrs.. SHE IS SUCH A VERY SHY AND A PRIVATE PERSON. And her, revealing everything fully naked in public really means something to us, her supporters. Some people said that such things should be a private matter. First of all they are both public figure. Yes. Not all should be flaunt in public. Privacy is still a must. Well, let me tell you something. Hye Sun is a smart woman, am not saying this in behalf of being a fan. I am saying something factual. One of the reason she purposely posted first their SNS conversation was because HER CAREER MATTERS. (And I found that first move as a smart move.) Second. She lost everything, so posting everything in public means she has nothing to lose anymore. It’s a now or never situation for her. THIRD she doesn’t want any false accusation be thrown towards her if AJH agency will be the one to release an statement first. You can sense that in one of her lines in her first posted caption. (“AJH agency will be releasing statement about our divorce next week and please understand that what ever they say is not true. I hope we will be enlighten by the truth.”) As a woman I fully understand where her betrayal coming from. Being cheated by someone that really matters in your heart could drive you crazy. Easily saying MOVE ON is not EASY AT ALL. In a span of 3yrs she lost herself in the man who doesn’t deserve her. Others also says “You know he doesn’t love you anymore why still hold on?” She wasn’t even loved. She was used but she loved him anyways. He was her husband. He could be her everything. No wife easily give up without putting a God damn fight. Family is built and mean to be protected. That’s what she did. There is nothing wrong with that. And easily give up in a “no joke” called marriage because you lose the feeling of spark isn’t done by a mature person at all. Senseless statement from a child sadly living as Ahn Jae Hyun. If I were also Hye Sun, damn I’m not going down alone. 🤞I hope AJH gets something really bad along his way. Call me evil but he deserves it.

    • @neathsuon3895
      @neathsuon3895 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, I'm a woman as well and let me just say depression or mental break down is a thing. You see people doing things they didn't mean to do or thing that they do out of compulsive. If hyesun were to discuss this matter with her families, friends or even the agency, they would probably solve this in a more civilized matter. Getting an upper hand in the argument doesn't mean they have to reveal every ugly detail abt their personal lives, it is childless and unnecessary. Honestly, I just think her Instagram posts are a cry for help. She needs to seek professional help or spend more time with her family basically just take time off the internet. If she actually wants to save her marriage, she would have done that in the first place. By watching them on a show together, I can tell that she can be a bit controlling. After their marriage, Jae Hyun basically adopts her lifestyle. She also has 5 pets. Now for someone like her who really value her pets. It like taking care of 5 kids not easy. But anyway who am I to say, this is just my perspective ig

    • @yanixxeco
      @yanixxeco 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      u h h i t D o m i Aside from being a cry for help. I really think she also really care for her career and what would people think about her. And as public figure that is always the number one worry of an actor/actress. Their image. And being a public figure is their bread and butter for life. And also she tried multiple times to save their marriage. There was a lot of rumor in the past few months since the end of year 2018 about AJH cheating allegations. It didn’ go viral. Why? She clear it all out by denying everything. Before all these happened she was a shield of Jae Hyun. She protected his image as well as their marriage. She didn’t come off as a controlling wife not until Jae Hyun gets over his depression. No wife would want their husband to go out with other women. Who’s wife? No wife. She even left her own good agency to go to Jae Hyuns agency. Nope that is not controlling. She did not want to get cheated on. She knew and so she made a move of someone like a wife. Before getting married. Before he knew Hye Sun. The dogs are already there. He can not change that. He offered marriage knowing she has dogs and there’s a lot of them. If he was not able to get a proper adjustment he should not have had married her. Hye Sun’s betrayal won’t stop without giving a God damn fight. You know, she loses everything maybe her entire self at this moment. Thanks to Jae Hyun.

  • @tericamacho554
    @tericamacho554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I've been following Goo Hye Sun since non stop 5 and she's been so nothing but a very kind person to sick kids and dogs. I loved her in pure 19 and she was awesome, She's always had issues with netizens, She finally had to fight back, I don't care who's right or wrong, I believe her 100% simply because she believe him that he really loved her. What he loved was with his eyes not with his heart. I believe that now that his has more dramas, all of a sudden his wife was a burden to him. Truth be told his enjoying kissing other ladies. He has more fun hanging out with his co-ladies, He didn't have to have an co-ladies cause kissing is required in the drama, Goo Hye Sun had every right to find out what the hell is he doing, where & what. Right or wrong Goo Hye Sun was con, the hearts we're really daggers. He lost a very good lady,

    • @marycris4869
      @marycris4869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's overreacting...her husband is an actor try to marry Hollywood actor let's if kissing is a big deal...don't put blame to anyone they're both responsible for their actions...even married people also need some space and a little bit of freedom marrying other people doesn't mean you have to tie him up...dig deeper so you can understand what I'm saying

  • @joycesarmiento1058
    @joycesarmiento1058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I believe both of them because I think they are really good people with kind and sincere hearts. I also believe that both of them are also hurting immensely because they did love each other immensely as well. Sadly, they cannot handle this thing called trial that happens in all marriages. There's no marriage that does not escape this phase unless it is a marriage of convenience with no emotions involved. AJH does not deserve this backlash from the netizens, so does GHS. They are NOT bad and crazy people. They are at the lowest point in their lives and I hope people will cheer them up instead of judging who is at fault. I wish they will be able to resolve this and get back together again. Stronger and more mature. Divorce should be the last resort, and I think GHS has not exhausted all possible solutions yet that is why she has not given up on AJH yet. I felt bad when AJH kept on insisting on divorce, it's like there is really no hope 😢😢😢

  • @faithangel9756
    @faithangel9756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I feel bad for hye sun..
    First, her first love cheated on her and she just let go.So she decided not to enter on a relationship but when ahn jae yun appeared she decided to love and devote her heart for him but the outcome is just like this ..A divorce?
    Hye sun heart is in pain bcoz she thought that jae hyun is the one..

    • @lawanda.southerland965
      @lawanda.southerland965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hye Sun is beautiful inside and out I'm just at a lost for words. How he could just play with her heart. Hye Sun please be okay give yourself sometime gether your thoughts and know that you are a person that deserves real love you are worth it.

    • @marydobney6040
      @marydobney6040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you.!!! Plus when she got sick (illness) she gain a little weight but not alot but she looks healthy ... For what he says about her was totally uncalled for..

    • @nobody-uh5mx
      @nobody-uh5mx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her first love is lee min ho??

    • @marydobney6040
      @marydobney6040 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you 100 percent ..

    • @marydobney6040
      @marydobney6040 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nobody-uh5mx yes , she dated him awhile...

  • @faustinaafriyiebonsu1516
    @faustinaafriyiebonsu1516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Oh another sad story
    Really saw how the man Luv the lady
    Never thought they will also experienced this
    Soo sad coz I Luv both couples

    • @Zerin666
      @Zerin666 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol dont believe stuff you see on social media

  • @DGLeo482
    @DGLeo482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Okay but I'm kind of dissappointed with Goo Hye Sun's reaction to this whole situation. What does she want to prove revealing their personal chats and intimate conversations on social media? If she felt like the victim, the place where she should post such justifications is in the court or with him. Have some dignity lady, you're loosing your self respect just to clear some public rumours?

    • @chefminnie7853
      @chefminnie7853 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      agree

    • @mika_chan7838
      @mika_chan7838 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True... This is unrelated to the issue but my mom is like that. Whenever something wrong happens to our family, may it be a small fight or just something that should stay between our family, she would use social media to share about our family's fights

    • @DGLeo482
      @DGLeo482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mika_chan7838 wow I can understand how you feel. But you know what's so wrong about it? Everyone on social media would not be a well wisher. They would take the opportunity to mock your mother or your family matters and talk behind her back. If every family matter is said out loud like this, then they'll never take your mom seriously and make fun of her. I hope you can talk to her and convince her to keep private life away from social media. I know a relative like this who puts everything about her private life as a status on her facebook. Eventually people just lost respect for her, mock her and on family gatherings other relatives just pass very rude comments about her. And she brought it to herself by posting evrything online.

    • @mika_chan7838
      @mika_chan7838 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DGLeo482 exactly. I already told her that but she's really really really stubborn.... She insisted that there is nothing wrong with what she's doing and that she's just expressing her feelings. When I still tried to make a point, she told me that she's the mother and I'm just the daughter and that I don't have the right to tell her what to do and to just shut up....
      Basically, I have a pretty toxic mom

    • @mika_chan7838
      @mika_chan7838 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DGLeo482 thank you for putting to effort to reply anyway. Tbh I didn't expect to receive any sort of reply

  • @paulinepauline4778
    @paulinepauline4778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Both of u are beautiful couple Don't let material thing s ruin your life

    • @stingray_vinxen4610
      @stingray_vinxen4610 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pauline Pauline have you guys even seen the revealed chat logs between hye sun and jae hyun from dispatch. The divorce was just as much her fault as his and in all honesty should have been handled privately. She indirectly mentioned his ‘ co-star ‘ as who he was having an affair with ( which means that he was having an affair with the lead actress ) with no proof. This is definitely enough for the lead actress to sue her for defamation and she definitely should. No matter how hurt you are you should never destroy people’s lives like that. Not only did she demand all of his money leaving him in debt ( which he gave her without much argument ), the apartment that they paid for TOGETHER, destroyed his whole career and even has the audacity to ask for his cat, she still has more to say. I am not a fan of either and tbh was more on her side to begin with,but how much does she expect from him? She literally said to him through message that since he wants to divorce her she is going to take away everything from him to pay for her honour. What the hell? On top of her accusations based on her own insecurities and paranoia she also made him pay her for her housework which she already demanded him to pay her for during their marriage. When he mentioned that, she simply said to him that it didn’t matter bc she is the victim. After he gives her all of his money leaving him 130 million won in debt,she suddenly decides that she does not and will not get divorced and that she will just live separately from him. After he literally gave her everything just to get divorced. In my opinion, she doesn’t need/deserve anything more and if anything she got more than she deserved. She demanded him to call her whenever he does anything/goes anywhere from the second he wakes to the second he sleeps and those were her exact words in the messages. You didn’t see the songsong couple do all this.

  • @angelnalubega6012
    @angelnalubega6012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    After see this now I know they still love each other but they are both still young I hope that one day they can bring this love again I hope one day they can go back together as one

    • @zaireylrepato5039
      @zaireylrepato5039 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hoping🙁😢 they back together again and work again together in many dramas/projects😊❣

  • @chefmin1884
    @chefmin1884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Jae fighting ....In God’s time everything will be better.

  • @pardonsunshine4732
    @pardonsunshine4732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Goo hey sun asked for a lot of money and then in a text he said he was in the NEGATIVES.

    • @chefminnie7853
      @chefminnie7853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The actress just wants to ruin him.

  • @liliachan3753
    @liliachan3753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I don’t agree with everyone’s opinion regarding to privacy. Nowadays there is no privacy for celebrities. Things would be out in the public via spies, hackers, etc. The fact that she wants to bring it out there is good for her! For a woman, talking is therapeutic and I am sure that a lot of fans out there will be supporting her during this ordeal. I blame him, he wasn’t ready for marriage.

    • @sriandrianiluntungan2604
      @sriandrianiluntungan2604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Finallyyyy someone said it, i do agree this revelation of her is good for her..it does immature but its better this way than regreting later, hurting inside herself and got sick deppressed or even suicide

    • @nheavictoriasulit1044
      @nheavictoriasulit1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree! Super true! I bet those people who say to keep things under the rug are the first ones who monitors news updates of this divorce so that they could compose their righteous comments! The irony of being all appropriate and proper...

    • @stingray_vinxen4610
      @stingray_vinxen4610 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lilia Chan have you guys even seen the revealed chat logs between hye sun and jae hyun from dispatch. The divorce was just as much her fault as his and in all honesty should have been handled privately. She indirectly mentioned his ‘ co-star ‘ as who he was having an affair with ( which means that he was having an affair with the lead actress ) with no proof. This is definitely enough for the lead actress to sue her for defamation and she definitely should. No matter how hurt you are you should never destroy people’s lives like that. Not only did she demand all of his money leaving him in debt ( which he gave her without much argument ), the apartment that they paid for TOGETHER, destroyed his whole career and even has the audacity to ask for his cat, she still has more to say. I am not a fan of either and tbh was more on her side to begin with,but how much does she expect from him? She literally said to him through message that since he wants to divorce her she is going to take away everything from him to pay for her honour. What the hell? On top of her accusations based on her own insecurities and paranoia she also made him pay her for her housework which she already demanded him to pay her for during their marriage. When he mentioned that, she simply said to him that it didn’t matter bc she is the victim. After he gives her all of his money leaving him 130 million won in debt,she suddenly decides that she does not and will not get divorced and that she will just live separately from him. After he literally gave her everything just to get divorced. In my opinion, she doesn’t need/deserve anything more and if anything she got more than she deserved. She demanded him to call her whenever he does anything/goes anywhere from the second he wakes to the second he sleeps and those were her exact words in the messages. You didn’t see the songsong couple do all this.

    • @nheavictoriasulit1044
      @nheavictoriasulit1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stingray_vinxen4610 need a popcorn? Enjoy the show....honestly their social media fights is exhausting...but no definite actions can be seen from them ...AJH has not filed his divorce, even lawsuits for defamation...its all announcements...notice that along with these social media battle comes promotion of their projects? People with Flaws...KHS essay writing...makes me think everything is noise advertising...legally speaking AJH may just settle it in courts...without resorting to social media...for KHS I think she is not in the state yet to accept that AJH wanted out of their marriage that is why she is creating all these ruckus!!!

    • @stingray_vinxen4610
      @stingray_vinxen4610 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @NHEA VICTORIA Sulit you are completely right. However as they are public figures, her making all of this ruckus has destroyed his public image which as you should know is basically their whole career. I am sure that you have seen many people condemning him from what she has said and his career will possibly never recover from this. So it is only right that he tries to defend himself.

  • @kianadelposo5520
    @kianadelposo5520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Yeah hopefully depression will not affect her and hoping for her to move on and face another chapter of her life but surely she will have another trust issue again with men

    • @nheavictoriasulit1044
      @nheavictoriasulit1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think its unavoidable in her current situation especially as a Korean celebrity even ordinary people suffers from it ...to expect that from her is not realistic...moving on doesn't mean they don't suffer depression...

  • @sumaiyahatugonza6354
    @sumaiyahatugonza6354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Ahn Jae Hyun because I first saw him before her so I just pray for them to find their feelings.

  • @nemesia17
    @nemesia17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is sad. Personally, I wish you both happiness even without each other. Like you both in blood together. But as a fan, I have no clue what goes on in both your personal life so I'm not gonna side with just one. Hopefully, you guys will not be lonely too much and find some peace without hurting another as you part ways. Live on and happily!

  • @donnajohnson3792
    @donnajohnson3792 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ​ If read through most of the comments on here and I just wanted to point something out. Actually, there's a good example here in the U. S. with Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth. They've been together for a decade, had their differences, separated for a while and went back together and got married in Dec. 2018. Now, he filed for a divorce after just 7 months. The difference is neither is blaming the other and wish the best for each other, but in this Korean relationship between AJH and GHS, there's a definite maturity issue here, or something else. If these actors and actresses can keep their dating a secret for years then why can't they keep their divorce, and any issues involved with it, to themselves instead of putting it out there for all to see, unless of course, they are being paid to do this. Think about it.

    • @nheavictoriasulit1044
      @nheavictoriasulit1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmmm you think Korean Entertainment industry would go so far as destroying family to promote a movie or K drama? It is possible but also contradicting..first point...there are netizens out there who wants to boycott AJH projects...second point...GHS novel right now is about love and relationships.... and have no current drama with her present agency...so you see this separation only damages both careers of AJH and GHS. Let's see what unfolds next, public viewers are more keen nowadays...

    • @nheavictoriasulit1044
      @nheavictoriasulit1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well here is another idea...its just an idea as I was browsing the internet...you know the jang jang yeon scandal? I think this issue is a cover up for it considering the timing along with the seungri scandal recently it was decided by Korean courts which in my opinion covers up a bigger issue which could potentially hurt the whole Korean entertainment industry ...that scandal if scrutinize by the public have the tendency to hurt the whole Korean entertainment industry...prostitution abuse and corruption...makes me wanna think twice in supporting Korean dramas, k pop idols...imagine what they have to endure to land a project or have their debut... I love k dramas but if it was built by shedding one's dignity as a person I would rather not support it...jang jang yeon's revelation are very eye opening heartbreaking ...that this type of treatment exists in this day and age...😞 I hope the Korean entertainment industry will do something to fight this kind of abuse...because it only relays one message if it were true...you have to sell your soul to evil in order to achieve your dreams ...as I was watching it and other reactions on the same topic I think it does exists ...but the Korean entertainment industry doesn't want to shed light to it....

    • @donnajohnson3792
      @donnajohnson3792 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nheavictoriasulit1044 In this particular case, this couple wants a divorce, they've put it out there for all to see, like a drama. It's been mentioned that there are money issues so I think the K industry offered to pay them to put their personal business in the lime light. The K industry didn't destroy this family, these two did. This, of course, is just my personal opinion. I do like your comment too.

    • @nheavictoriasulit1044
      @nheavictoriasulit1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey KHS novel sells pretty well nowadays and her art exhibits did well too...I do hope this is not a noise advertising for this couple... you may be right...let's see how these story unfolds... And they keep the public hyped up by delaying NJTTW show and People with Flaws drama of AJH. 😒

  • @denizozdemir563
    @denizozdemir563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I have always loved Ahn jae yhun and I really don’t think he has a bad heart

  • @xakimah_01
    @xakimah_01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Now I know that love ends after 3 years😥

  • @rianeon
    @rianeon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What I am surprised about is that she doesn’t want a divorce. I mean why would you want to stay with him if he doesn’t even love you tf

    • @calvinharris2059
      @calvinharris2059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Too much love will killl you I pitty her

    • @daiishi_kinyoubi
      @daiishi_kinyoubi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hmmm maybe like a revenge ?

    • @cabasaglesly.5148
      @cabasaglesly.5148 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe she's hoping that they could fix it. Or she could fix him at least.

  • @mabellemon8333
    @mabellemon8333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Its no ones fault relationships just fall apart whether we want it to or not i hope they find happiness and peace because they are both talented

  • @JennLove89
    @JennLove89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Airing all the dirty laundry, the tea is hot n ready, I’ve been dying to take a sip...I knew there was more to the story. Let’s wish dem both love n happiness in their future endeavors 🙏🏾

  • @kianadelposo5520
    @kianadelposo5520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    People call khu hye sun crazy bcoz of her reply on ahn jae hyuns statments but if people will base or will remember interviews of the past they will know that the guy really is hard to deal with. I have read the interview of the writer and also past interview of khu hye sun

    • @maxrosc8364
      @maxrosc8364 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ahj, your done no matter what lies you want to explain!!!

    • @weewer8539
      @weewer8539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      wife will go crazy if the husband did unfair to her.people said like that because they are not on her place,.if ahn jae hyun really hard to deal with no choice she take this way to explain it and reach to him.people said it crazy it's ok,as long she is on the right place..I hope Khu hye sun stay strong and find it her happiness in the future.

    • @vi-up4tq
      @vi-up4tq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Kiana Del poso how can someone not crazy when the love of your life asking for a break? i'll go crazy too

    • @thealchemist437
      @thealchemist437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      True, Men are cowards, they never say let's break up or let's divorce. It's all about their weird actions. But u can't know if it's because he's just angry or upset or really wanna end everything. That confuse women. I think that's why she went to his new alone appart in that way since she didn't know they're divorcing obviously he didn't tell her anything clearly. That's why their agreement on divorce happened after that happened. So He has no right to be angry about she entered his appart without his consent. Coward dumbass

    • @racistasian8073
      @racistasian8073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thealchemist437 tell me how 😘men cowrds)?? If all men's r cwrds den all women's r liar and who played with men's feeling.. We men's won't say let's break up or( if u r married ) divorce even in jokes. But women tend to say let's break up or let divorce in the heat of the argument(if they mean it or not) . We men think about den if women's can say dat den it means they Rlly want to break up or get divorce.

  • @reemcont
    @reemcont 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All the comment-er here who talk shit about AJY, go find out the truth of how she manipulated the story, and now his career is ruined because of her.

  • @simplepleasures979
    @simplepleasures979 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don’t think he was physically attracted to her fully.Its like liking someone because she/he were funny or had a bright personality...then..that’s it.You realized you both don’t have that deep chemistry😩.

  • @mariastansb1949
    @mariastansb1949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “In another life, I will make you stay” Gu Hye Sun to Ahn Jae Yhun

    • @xakimah_01
      @xakimah_01 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately there is no another life😧

  • @rosalindhoover5989
    @rosalindhoover5989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    She was demanding for more b cause she did not want to let go - get over it. Both u guys should not get married again till u are 80 yrs old. 3 yrs is not enough to build a good marriage. Regular people are married 40/50/60 yrs are still struggling to keep their vows intact because of their love n trust for each other. If one want to play house than buy a TOY HOUSE - marriage is not a game so please celebrities don't set a BAD EXAMPLE for the public.

    • @AMONGJR950
      @AMONGJR950 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

    • @marmar9957
      @marmar9957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Uh no. Some people date for 3 months, marry and live together forever. Some people are in arranged marriages and are happy. Don’t just categorize everyone the same. Every marriage and couple is different. These two couldn’t work it out. It doesn’t mean that others can’t.

    • @rosalindhoover5989
      @rosalindhoover5989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mar Mar - no one is saying what u indicated in ur message. Yes people are different but for this couple (1) they're celebrities- fortunately they don't have kids. They're sending the wrong message to young people that marriage is a joke n than airing their dirty laundry. They could've just lived together instead of marriage. I still say don't get married if u want to play house - funny thing is he is already fooling around. This is not categorization of people - these are celebrities who spend so much money on weddings as a joke.

    • @lalremsiamisiami6901
      @lalremsiamisiami6901 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i agree 🙋 they don't take marriage seriously ao sad 😤

  • @saudade821
    @saudade821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    If you're a celebrity you're already a public property.... Everyone wants to hear everything about you. so in this case, it is impossible to keep things in private specially if you were so hurt and you feel like everyone around you is siding with the one who hurts you...
    You'll always know when you should talk after a long time of silence.
    But of course, not everyone can understand her because there are still those hypocrites who talks so righteously :-(
    I love you KuhHyeSun
    And you're so beautiful

    • @ellimac4973
      @ellimac4973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree! I support Ku Hye Sun too😭 Be strong girl

    • @stingray_vinxen4610
      @stingray_vinxen4610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Evening Star* have you guys even seen the revealed chat logs between hye sun and jae hyun from dispatch. The divorce was just as much her fault as his and in all honesty should have been handled privately. She indirectly mentioned his ‘ co-star ‘ as who he was having an affair with ( which means that he was having an affair with the lead actress ) with no proof. This is definitely enough for the lead actress to sue her for defamation and she definitely should. No matter how hurt you are you should never destroy people’s lives like that. Not only did she demand all of his money leaving him in debt ( which he gave her without much argument ), the apartment that they paid for TOGETHER, destroyed his whole career and even has the audacity to ask for his cat, she still has more to say. I am not a fan of either and tbh was more on her side to begin with,but how much does she expect from him? She literally said to him through message that since he wants to divorce her she is going to take away everything from him to pay for her honour. What the hell? On top of her accusations based on her own insecurities and paranoia she also made him pay her for her housework which she already demanded him to pay her for during their marriage. When he mentioned that, she simply said to him that it didn’t matter bc she is the victim. After he gives her all of his money leaving him 130 million won in debt,she suddenly decides that she does not and will not get divorced and that she will just live separately from him. After he literally gave her everything just to get divorced. In my opinion, she doesn’t need/deserve anything more and if anything she got more than she deserved. She demanded him to call her whenever he does anything/goes anywhere from the second he wakes to the second he sleeps and those were her exact words in the messages. You didn’t see the songsong couple do all this.

  • @goodmusic4731
    @goodmusic4731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please don't label men as the same. I genuinely think that there is still good men around us

    • @chantaljacee2394
      @chantaljacee2394 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you. There are still a few of men who can be considered, "good".
      Well, the definition for it is up to the person involved. ^_^

  • @yaneluizchelsea
    @yaneluizchelsea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is very sad,... i pray nothing but happiness to both of you :(

  • @jojoko3484
    @jojoko3484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i kind of side with jaehyun more... hyesun has all the rights to ask for settlement money after divirce but she should not have gone overboard and made jaehyun broke and needing to get a loan. she probably was mad at that time but she should think of others... she only thought of how she could cope after divorce and not jaehyuns. also jaehyun alr agreed to everything she said so hyesun should just end it there instead of causing more fuss and trying to ruin his life and career by badmouthing him about being with multiple women... i just hope they both will cope well after divorce...

  • @jokhaalhabsi3258
    @jokhaalhabsi3258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Better maybe you guys weren't meant for each other and soon it's better coz each of you has their own life and love will just come when you least expect it

  • @tupinomaclyn71
    @tupinomaclyn71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    For me I understand why koo posted her private conversation to her husband she wanted to protect her merriage but ajh he had an affair I wish to koo be brave and strong girl your always my idol remember karma is always along the way you do your best to prove that you love him? Your future is bright dear you are talented woman move on dear he's not deserve for your love go go girl

    • @weewer8539
      @weewer8539 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      just read your comment my tears rolling out,i cried so hard.I feel bad to her,she loves her husband so much but he did unfair to her.people said she is crazy to tell to the public,because they are not in her place if ahn jae hyun really hard to deal with this the way she must taken it.not just her every woman will going crazy when their husband did unfair to them.I pray may she find her happiness in the future.

    • @tupinomaclyn71
      @tupinomaclyn71 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@weewer8539 your right dear that is why some other they don't understand her

    • @weewer8539
      @weewer8539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tupinomaclyn71 yes agree.she can't endure it herself anymore.this is sad story when the wife loves him more and can't used anymore throw her like trash.such jerk husband.

  • @purplekat215
    @purplekat215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never make the one you’re with feel alone, especially when you’re right there.

  • @mercyfernando2688
    @mercyfernando2688 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The sad thing sometimes with the divorce is that the women sometimes are acting like the victims. I did not act like one when I separated from my husband, I celebrated it secretly and just rejoicing to myself! If the relationship will ruin you mentally and emotionally, get out! It is helpful down the road, because it will be then that they will be both mature enough to start talking again.

  • @yrnuna2438
    @yrnuna2438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Praying for Hye sun to find the right man for her, i feel so sad for her . No wonder on her vlog, mostly she's with her pets... I wish her all the best and happiness.

    • @Julia-xm4tj
      @Julia-xm4tj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You really need to read the new texts that have been reveled. She lied about multiple things

    • @stingray_vinxen4610
      @stingray_vinxen4610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yrNuna 24 have you guys even seen the revealed chat logs between hye sun and jae hyun from dispatch. The divorce was just as much her fault as his and in all honesty should have been handled privately. She indirectly mentioned his ‘ co-star ‘ as who he was having an affair with ( which means that he was having an affair with the lead actress ) with no proof. This is definitely enough for the lead actress to sue her for defamation and she definitely should. No matter how hurt you are you should never destroy people’s lives like that. Not only did she demand all of his money leaving him in debt ( which he gave her without much argument ), the apartment that they paid for TOGETHER, destroyed his whole career and even has the audacity to ask for his cat, she still has more to say. I am not a fan of either and tbh was more on her side to begin with,but how much does she expect from him? She literally said to him through message that since he wants to divorce her she is going to take away everything from him to pay for her honour. What the hell? On top of her accusations based on her own insecurities and paranoia she also made him pay her for her housework which she already demanded him to pay her for during their marriage. When he mentioned that, she simply said to him that it didn’t matter bc she is the victim. After he gives her all of his money leaving him 130 million won in debt,she suddenly decides that she does not and will not get divorced and that she will just live separately from him. After he literally gave her everything just to get divorced. In my opinion, she doesn’t need/deserve anything more and if anything she got more than she deserved. She demanded him to call her whenever he does anything/goes anywhere from the second he wakes to the second he sleeps and those were her exact words in the messages. You didn’t see the songsong couple do all this.

    • @yrnuna2438
      @yrnuna2438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah no matter what they say i still support hye sun, it's not that i don't like jae hyun. No body's perfect. Both side have mistake. And no one can act rightly when you are in the state of anger doubt jealousy and depressed. tell me, can you?. Try just to imagine if you where in her shoe. No matter what media says i will always love and support hye sun and wish her all the best.

    • @s423luck6
      @s423luck6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yrnuna2438 same here, i still support her and understand her...

    • @stingray_vinxen4610
      @stingray_vinxen4610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @yrNuna 24 just as you said, AJH is has also been suffering with clinical depression, so just as how you feel that we shouldn’t judge someones actions when they are angry and depressed, you also can’t really judge his. The most important thing is that they are both around people who love and support them and that they take care of their mental health. I hope that GHS takes time to heal because i can tell that she is really hurting

  • @hollowblock5718
    @hollowblock5718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    All i can say is there's no FOREVER in this lifetime!!!!

    • @AMONGJR950
      @AMONGJR950 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true

    • @priyajoseph
      @priyajoseph 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hollow Block forever is not for immature people

    • @KS-of3el
      @KS-of3el 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @Banchan_22
    @Banchan_22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im currently watching NJTTW it saddens me to see how jaehyun is deeply in love with her and long hours of talking on the phone.. knowing that they will be fed up to each other and going to divorce. 🥺 so scary how you deeply love a person in one second and this happened

  • @marie61413
    @marie61413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This revelation is kinda disturbing for Korea actors and actresses. You see they seem to be good with their looks but deep inside is the dark side. Ah jae hyun has psychological problem wherein he needs to seek help and so he can handle it. He is still immature to handle their marriage. Well it was not a true love after all the way he said it was. It was lust because his wife is so pretty. What is so disturbing about Ku hye sun about her body part is quite a devastating insult. Also, about the money? Why? I think if this kind of revelation it would be better to end the marriage because there is no respect anymore in both parties, but Ah jae need to focus on his psychological problem how to handle challenging and difficult situation; also needs to deal with alcohol problem that is the root of all behavioral misdeed, being tackless towards the wife, causes infidelity, because alcohol hinders the person rational thoughts and just being violent verbally; and the alcohol affect individual’s behavior which can be abusive. Hye sun must have been going through a lot too, trying to protect her marriage from crumbling, her revelation is so disturbing, it seems like there is already deep scar that even sensitive things was revealed to the public. It would be better to go on with the divorce. Just move on maybe its not time for both of them. They just need to experience this kind of blow in their life and become more mature. That is why whirlwind marriage never last because lust is being mistaken for true love, but it isn’t love at all.

    • @allengina1091
      @allengina1091 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She got sick last yr. i think she fainted many times that’s why she rested and gained weight. But she is so beautiful. I love her eyes.

    • @marie61413
      @marie61413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      strawberry_shortcake4life yes and it not appropriate to insult the woman he love just because he is was drunk. He has a dark side of character when he is drunk. This can tell the character of a person when alcohol rules over his head. What a shame that it was revealed publicly.

    • @marie61413
      @marie61413 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True. Alcohol can influence the mind of a person because his inhibition was affected by alcohol. A lot of crazy, rude word could come out of a person’s mind and mouth.

    • @stingray_vinxen4610
      @stingray_vinxen4610 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marie Aspflo have you guys even seen the revealed chat logs between hye sun and jae hyun from dispatch. The divorce was just as much her fault as his and in all honesty should have been handled privately. She indirectly mentioned his ‘ co-star ‘ as who he was having an affair with ( which means that he was having an affair with the lead actress ) with no proof. This is definitely enough for the lead actress to sue her for defamation and she definitely should. No matter how hurt you are you should never destroy people’s lives like that. Not only did she demand all of his money leaving him in debt ( which he gave her without much argument ), the apartment that they paid for TOGETHER, destroyed his whole career and even has the audacity to ask for his cat, she still has more to say. I am not a fan of either and tbh was more on her side to begin with,but how much does she expect from him? She literally said to him through message that since he wants to divorce her she is going to take away everything from him to pay for her honour. What the hell? On top of her accusations based on her own insecurities and paranoia she also made him pay her for her housework which she already demanded him to pay her for during their marriage. When he mentioned that, she simply said to him that it didn’t matter bc she is the victim. After he gives her all of his money leaving him 130 million won in debt,she suddenly decides that she does not and will not get divorced and that she will just live separately from him. After he literally gave her everything just to get divorced. In my opinion, she doesn’t need/deserve anything more and if anything she got more than she deserved. She demanded him to call her whenever he does anything/goes anywhere from the second he wakes to the second he sleeps and those were her exact words in the messages. You didn’t see the songsong couple do all this.

    • @marie61413
      @marie61413 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chelsea Findley I agree with you because this divorce issue here should be done privately. Lawyers in Korea had reviewed what is going on with these couple and they said it is a strategy just like what happened to one of the Korean actors a that the woman had it through media so the court even sided with the woman. Infidelity is not acceptable in Korea culture that family members also meddle with couples marriage. This is her method of revenge to destroy ones credibility because she gave her love all the way through but did not thought of their incompatibility are not mendable. My comments are just based on what I have read and watch. I am not their fan but this is kinda weird for being scandalous revelation to the whole world. People become a fan because of the actors looks but I chose their behavior rather than the looks. Their are a lot of Korean actors whose facade are nice but different inside.

  • @jhamesonbaconguis5004
    @jhamesonbaconguis5004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    If u truely love each other why divorce..Go for marraige counciling.....Put God first Before anything

    • @honeststraightforward1485
      @honeststraightforward1485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God has nothing to do with it. If I don't love someone anymore, I don't think that God would be of any help. Get real

    • @stingray_vinxen4610
      @stingray_vinxen4610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jhameson Baconguis have you guys even seen the revealed chat logs between hye sun and jae hyun from dispatch. The divorce was just as much her fault as his and in all honesty should have been handled privately. She indirectly mentioned his ‘ co-star ‘ as who he was having an affair with ( which means that he was having an affair with the lead actress ) with no proof. This is definitely enough for the lead actress to sue her for defamation and she definitely should. No matter how hurt you are you should never destroy people’s lives like that. Not only did she demand all of his money leaving him in debt ( which he gave her without much argument ), the apartment that they paid for TOGETHER, destroyed his whole career and even has the audacity to ask for his cat, she still has more to say. I am not a fan of either and tbh was more on her side to begin with,but how much does she expect from him? She literally said to him through message that since he wants to divorce her she is going to take away everything from him to pay for her honour. What the hell? On top of her accusations based on her own insecurities and paranoia she also made him pay her for her housework which she already demanded him to pay her for during their marriage. When he mentioned that, she simply said to him that it didn’t matter bc she is the victim. After he gives her all of his money leaving him 130 million won in debt,she suddenly decides that she does not and will not get divorced and that she will just live separately from him. After he literally gave her everything just to get divorced. In my opinion, she doesn’t need/deserve anything more and if anything she got more than she deserved. She demanded him to call her whenever he does anything/goes anywhere from the second he wakes to the second he sleeps and those were her exact words in the messages. You didn’t see the songsong couple do all this.

    • @honeststraightforward1485
      @honeststraightforward1485 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stingray_vinxen4610 I actually see it all and I have always said that she is mentally unstable, vile and out to destroy him. The Luxury flat that in has in Seoul is actually his own and he bought it before he got married to her, therefore by Law she cannot demand that he gives it to her as payment for humiliating her by asking her for divorce. She just wants to leave him penniless and she knows if the divorce go through she will be the one that needs money in the future, not him, so she is counting on stay married to him so he can pay for her. Fuck That. That woman she's the worst and I actually think that she never really loved him. On the other hand he always said that he loved her very much, but he probably realised after they got married what kind of woman and person she really is. I do feel really sorry for the guy. Now the public is starting to see her for what she really is and start to doubt about every thing she has said on her IG. She is just a compulsive liar and seriously mentally sick.

  • @katarinarapaport1307
    @katarinarapaport1307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Divorces are usually messy and full of less than your best behavior... Let's not get dragged into it and just wish them to be happier soon.

  • @nylmapagan9088
    @nylmapagan9088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A divorce is a hurtfull situation and the blame is on both sides that time will heal. I hope that both will accept soon the seperation and begin a new lifestyle. To be in an unhappy relation is much more painfull than a divorce.

  • @user-zn7bv3le9e
    @user-zn7bv3le9e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    enduring hard times together is the real definition of LOVE it isn't all about the good times

  • @nainariang1223
    @nainariang1223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Even though both GHS n AJH might b telling the truth of both side but seeing them in a media accusing one another seems quite immature. They made their household problem as a national problem I know I shouldn’t say anything about them coz I’m not in their shoes but this is too much. Even though you’re divorcing you shouldn’t badmouth about each other’s.
    That’s why I have so much respect for SHK n SJK.
    Even though they were going through so much they well wishes each other. It’s better for both parties to settle their divorce terms ASAP without causing any more damage to each other.

    • @achanqog
      @achanqog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, I agree. But I also agree that GHS, right now not in a good side. From some Korean news, her agency, which is AJH agency blame everything on GHS. And she can't get protected by Agency to explain divorce matters like SHK and SJK. Because she know she will put in more bad position with bad statement of agency (she could lost an image in Korea, and can't get a job, Korean people have a big concern that all actors, actress or Idol should remain pure image), she choose that way by reveal it to public. It wasn't a good decision though.
      I really hope both of them can settle this things calmly, and I hope everyone who get hurt by this matters can go through everything to get their long lasting happiness

    • @marivicbuayan6607
      @marivicbuayan6607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@achanqog well from all the issues that has been brought and shared to the public , they're both ruined..going public with personal married issues and i mean detailed issues..is so childish..they could have handled it in a mature way like the song-song couple..

    • @achanqog
      @achanqog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@marivicbuayan6607 I know, that's why I said I hope they can settled everything calmly.

    • @nheavictoriasulit1044
      @nheavictoriasulit1044 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      They are both hurting...what they need is love and understanding from the public not another criticism...if you are so irritated on how things on their divorce unfolds then don't read or watch it much more comment on it...

    • @nainariang1223
      @nainariang1223 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      NHEA VICTORIA Sulit well I’m not hating them n fyki they both are my favourites but what they doing are wrong and wrong is wrong whether it’s the person I love or my favourites. I still love them both but just because i point out what they doing in social media accusing each other is wrong doesn’t mean that I’m throwing hate on them.

  • @maumaupm6228
    @maumaupm6228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I feel bad for Hye Sun more, I think I'm going to take her side on this though I like Jae Hyun cause I'm a fan of NJTTW. Hope they will able to find peace of mind and happiness on separate path.

    • @CTTchows
      @CTTchows 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There's no side to take on in their relationship. IMO both are at fault and what's lacking in their relationship is respect and selflessness. But it's in human nature to be selfish, so whatever they are revealing now is just them trying to save their asses in the industry but it's not helping 🤷

    • @maumaupm6228
      @maumaupm6228 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CTTchows well as a fan of both of them I can take sides and believe who I wanted to.

    • @CTTchows
      @CTTchows 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maumaupm6228 so you still taking sides now?

    • @maumaupm6228
      @maumaupm6228 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CTTchows you really took time to get back at me huh :D

  • @midori4760
    @midori4760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I think he feel in love, got married and quickly realized it wasn’t what he wanted. Honestly she seems really difficult to deal with and bent on destroying him. I think if she’s stayed quiet, he may have tried to work things out... she was not trying to divorce him (even though the marriage was over for him). She went out of her way to damage him since he no longer wanted to be with her. I remember watching their marriage show and I couldn’t see why he was with her. she seems very spiteful to me.

    • @jypmina_penguinprincess6273
      @jypmina_penguinprincess6273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same. And this is really weird for me because I usually always side with the woman. I just feel like he loved her more than she loved him.

    • @cosmicuniverse4351
      @cosmicuniverse4351 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think so too
      I mean how come she ended up disclosuring their exchange of messages about their annulment
      They could've solve it
      But i think she wanted other people to take her side of the story
      I watched ahnjaejung and i really think that he's inlove with her

    • @aadityasubba4199
      @aadityasubba4199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      even if she had stayed quiet yall would definitely take side of Ajh because yall naturally think that she isnt neither denying nor defending so Ajh must be saying truth . if she is destroyed then she must want that person to be destroyed that completely destroyed her. its just Fairplay duh.

    • @entahLahneekk
      @entahLahneekk 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aadityasubba4199 that assuming is bad. for your information, she is the one write on the instagram firstly. Then, she accuse about he said 1. not sexy nipples 2. contacts other wowen. Damn girl, u know even in two sides of stories of man and woman, naturally we believe woman sides. if you read the AJH post, he clearly not talk back about his wife at all.

  • @isabelitafejalandoni705
    @isabelitafejalandoni705 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am sorry for both of them no one wins in that situation what they need is trust,honesty,loyal,understanding,respect and love for each other,I'm so sad for that happens no one was to be blamed for it but the circumstances that unexpected happens in their lives.