We all need Jesus Christ. Only Jesus can save us from our sin. Dying without Jesus will be the biggest mistake you will ever make when you’re passed from this world.
Depression is a mental disorder that it is so hard to overcome. You are doing a great thing by staying by his side and continue to support and love him. I believe he will come through. You are his rock.
If you go to church pray for him. If you are still practicing shaman then find another shaman to help. My daughter was going through depression for many years I had asked many shaman to help but only 1 shaman actually helped her! This year I finally can see that my daughter can truly smile agin.
My father was depressed before he was detained for being falsely accused. We were afraid that he would unalive himself but he moved past it. Sadly, he passed away from kidney failure few years after. Praying that your husband will find healing. Instead of being ashamed, he should learn a lesson and advise other Hmong men to not drink and drive. Try going to church?
Txhob ua neeb kho xwb, yuav tau ua neeb saib seb puas pom dab tsi tso. Nws yog ib leeg tub xwb, tsam nws txiv hos tsis tau zoo vaj zoo tsev los hos muaj kev txom nyem lwm yam es hos pheej los yuj nws siab nws ntsws. Yog thaum Doctor lawv twb pab tag lawv lub tswv yim lawm es twb tsis zoo ces nrhiav kev pab los ntawm hmoob li txuj ci seb puas yuav pab tau lawm xwb...
Have you tried EVERYTHING? Reach out to God and open your heart to him. Give him your worries and stuggles. With God, you are never alone. Praying for your husband, you, and your family.
Sister, there are a couple methods you should try. One, look deep into his family lineage and see if there is any suicidal deaths or deaths without a proper burial. Often times, it’s these spirits that will come back to tshoj siab. I have seen it happened to my brother before and a traditional shaman resolved the issue, the result was immediately. Also, it sounds like he ceeb lawm so it might be a good idea to find someone to xai ceeb. Secondly, it didn’t sound like he ever sought out professional mental health. He should see a psychologist or admit himself to a behavior health program- most big hospitals would have one onsite. Lastly, if he is willing to convert, he should seek help and put his trust in God. Good luck to you, sister! I also learned from a great grandpa that when it is time for a person to go their spirit will find a way to leave no matter what.
I know that he was only in jail for a short time but did something happen to him in there? It sounds like he may have experienced something traumatizing to make him react the way he did. I hope he is able to find some peace with his past and a way to move forward.
Mu ntsees vajtswv os vajtswv yog lub tshaw vam tshiab thiab yog txoj kev kaj siab raw neb lub neej thiab nyeem vajlukub yuav ua raw yug nkag sia txos lub neej ntiaj teb txaus siab raw yam ua yus muaj lo yog ntsib vajtswv yua khu tau neb txoj kev nyuaj siab os vim vaj tswv tub khu tua kuv txoj kev nyuaj siab lawm os
Yeah, I have similar situation like your husband too. Tell him death is not the solution. Keep talking to him about positive. Wish I can talk to him too, but I will pray for him too.
For some people it doesn’t matter how much you helped or find him help it doesn’t work if he doesn’t come to term and realize it himself it will not work. I know we do have a lot of mental and depression among our Hmoob but it’s just too embarrassing to bring it out. Tus siab hos.
Qhov nyuag yuam lev me, me li no xwb yeej tsis tsim nyog koj tus ua cuag li no. Teb zaum koj yuav tau neeb ntxiv yog koj tseem coj kev cai qub. Tsis tag li ntawv ces koj cia li coj nws mus church kiag xwb tej zaum kuj yuav pab tau thiab. You are an awesome person who has been doing great work for supporting him through this.
Before I met my husband he was in the same boat as your husband. He used to smoke 1 or 2 pack of cigarettes a day and drink Friday to Sunday. Until he got the same issue as your husband so he stop smoking and drinking completely. He start shaking and have fever for almost 1 or 2 week after that he don't drink alcohol or smoke anymore. Even we go to hangout with his friends he don't drink, he only drink water or the zero alcohol beer only. If he really want to stop drinking and change his drinking life he can. If my husband can do it your husband can do it. But it's based on the people he hangout with too. Us hmong people like to force people to drink or talk down on them. He just need to say no mean no.
He needs professional help. My husband was depressed after back surgery, he went to group therapy & realized that there are other people out there with bigger problems than his so he's ok now. He's very thankful for therapy that helped him.
Tsam zoo li kuv tus txiv os ua rau kuv nim txhawj2 mas ua yim cuaj thaj neeb kho txog qhov kawg tseem yog tham tau hluas nkauj xwb es tham tau hluas nkauj es ntshai yus paub es nyuab siab txog qhov xav tuag xwb hawb yaw xiam kuv cov nyiaj tshaj plaws li hos
I work in the mental health field, and he needs support. Sometimes these struggles stem from deeper issues related to brain chemistry. He’s facing serious challenges, and it’s essential for him to see someone who can prescribe the right medications to help with his thoughts of death. Your love and family support have been vital in keeping him going, and you’ve done everything right. But he may also need medication to improve his outlook. I treat patients like this regularly, and with the right treatment, they often find happiness. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any questions.
Me niam hluas koj tsis yuam kev nawb mog yus tus txiv yus yuav los ua yus tus txij nkawm lawm txawm zoo li cas los yov tau zov nws hlub nws mus kom txog qhov Kawg os mog.. vim nws yog tus yus hlub es hlub kom txog hnub kawg yus ua zoo rau yus xwb mog kuv yiv thov tswv ntuj pub lub zog kom loj rau koj tiv kom dhau txoj ke nyuaj siab nawb mog vim thaum nws nrog nws niam nws txiv nyob nws zoo zoo nawb mog. Nws mam li los puas hauv yus lub me.xub ntiag es txhob qaug zog nawb mog kuv mam thov Huab Tais Tswv Ntuj Rau Koj Mog... kuv tus tswv ntuj nrog rau nws leej tub yesxus pleev thov nej muab lub zog loj rau tus niam tsev no kom nws muaj lub zog tiv lom dhau lub sij hawm no thiab thov txog kuv tus tswv ntuj ntiab tus dab phem ntawm nws tus txiv mus kom deb li deb tau nyuag yaus yov ua koj tsaug kom txog hnub nyuag yaus los kom txog kuv txiv tswv ntuj mog. Amen 🙏
Peb ua neeg nyob sawv daws yeej txawj ua yuam ke o yus yuav tau zam txim rau yus tu kheej txhob muab tu kheej coj mus tsau rau txoj kev nyuam siab ma yeej g muaj leej twg rau txim rau yus yog yus g xav ntaus g xav phem. yus xav mus rau qhov zoo xb .yam yus ua dhau lawm yeej tig g tau mus keb qhaib ua hnub no mus rau tom ntej kom zoo tshaj xb nawb
Tus me viv ncaus yog koj tsi xav li cas no cia peb tus xh tuaj thov vajtswv pab koj tus txiv kom nws ras txog txoj kev tuag txaus ntshai heev li no os me viv ncaus,vajtswv pab tau nws tiag22 li os nb tej nyuag qhov me2 xb txhb tuag nb mog txhb ua tus ruam22 li nyiaj tswb tsi zoo nb mog yg yus tua yus tus kheej mas mus txg dab teb txim tseem loj tshaj lawm nb mog
Without going into detail, I had the same thing happened to me back in 2014. Nobody’s fault but mine. Charged with a dui. Spent a night in county jail. Attended class, license revoked, pay fines, etc. All that associated with a dui. I know it’s different from person to person on how they react to it but let me tell you. It’s not the end of the world. With that said, no one knows what goes on inside other people’s brain. I hope it’s not for a darker reasoning. GL.
me niam laus kj tug me txiv muaj qhov teeb meem me me li ko xwb es nws ces li xav rawv qhov kev tuag tag li xwb es kj yuav tsum coj koj tus me txij nkawm mus cuag cov xfb ntseeg vaj tswv es coj nws mu ntseeg vaj tswv txhua yam kev xav nkawm nws thiab kj neb tej kev nyuab siab koj thiaj li yuav pab tau neb lub neej kaj siab zoo siab xwb mog thov vaj tswv txhawb neb lub dag zog mog me niam laus aw
Cas luag tej twb raug ib yam li ko es lawv ho tsis xav txog qhov tuag mam ntshe xav tuag rau dab ob ceg xwb pob cov txiv neej zoo li no mam ntseeg tsis tau li nawb yus rov qab ua rau yus xwb ces kav tsij tseg txoj kev hauv ncaw hauv beer ces yeej yuav zoo xwb
Tus me ntxhai coj nws mus NTSEEG VAJTSWV xwb nws raug Dab nyuaj siab yuj nws lawm yog koj coj mus coag VAJTSWV muaj hwjchim nws thiaj tsem tau dab tuag tsi yuj nws lub siab xwb tiamsis nyob ntawm koj xwb yog kojxav tia yuav pab tau nws los coj nws yog koj xav tia tsi nyiam ce tsi txhob coj xwb vim hai tia VAJTSWV tsi zoo lis Dab es koj yuav sim nws saib nws puas pab cawm tau nawb yuavtsum yog yus ntseeg nws tiag tiag thiab saib VAJTSWVpuas yuav yus thiab os.
You two seem to be good people. He sounds depressed. Keep taking him to see a therapist. There are people out there with physical diseases that are dying to live. Your husband is living to die. And please take better care of yourself. If both of you are sick, who will be your or his caretaker? Praying you all get through this.
Tsis txhob tuag nawb nej coj nws thov vajtswv raw nws thiab nej yuav tau nrhiav ķev pab nws nawb txoj sia muaj nuj nqi heev li os tij laug txhob taug nawb
Ib tug txiv neej yawg nyob ruam txog txij no lawm ces cia nws mus nws thiab los mas….ntuj es. Ua ntau tsam koj hos ua nws ntej lawm thiab os Ua neeb ua yaig txhij txhua lawm ces txhob ua dabtsi rau lawm os There’s no fixing it. He lost hope. Let him go as he wishes.
Tsis muaj leej twg pab tau tej yam zoo li no yus yuav tsum pab yus tus kheej lawm xwb yuav tsum xav rau cov lawv ua txoj kev txhaum loj tshaj yus es thiaj tswj tau tus kheej
Wow! Love to have a good wife like you. Tell your husband, we all make mistakes. What he did was just a lesson to learn from. Life is too precious. Wished we all could live more than one hundred years so we can enjoy life more with the one that we love. Wish you and your husband the best of luck
Sister, coj nws mus church es txhob coj kev cai qub teev dab lawm os. Mus church mus ntseeg Vajtswv es thov Vajtswv pab koj tus txiv. Yog sab ntsuj plig ces kawg Vajtswv pab xwb nawb. Sab cev nqaij daim tawv ces yog hormone. Koj yuav tsum hloov neb cov zaub mov. Txhob noj tej khoom uas muaj qab zib, carbohydrate (mov, fawm, qhaub poob, bread, cake, fawm kauv, peev choj), thiab cawv beer. Noj zaub thiab noj nqaij Kom ntau, noj nqaij rog thiab. Noj Vitamin D. Haus Iodine li 2-3 tee. Ua exercise ib hnub 1 xuab moo. Kev noj zaub mov li no yuav pab koj tus txiv lub kev xav mus rau qhov zoo thiab thoob tsib to nrog. Yog koj ua txhij txhua lawm ces Sim li kuv hais seb puas pab koj tus txiv. Vim pab kuv lawm.
People don’t understand that when they’re depressed, their spouse and children will most likely become depressed too. I feel sorry for you because you have to deal with a weak selfish husband. He’s traumatized and needs to seek mental health asap. He’s only thinking about himself and not you or your family. Praying and Neeg doesn’t always help. He needs to be put on psychotic meds to see if that’ll help. People that threaten to commit suicide will eventually do it. Please take care of not just your husband but yourself. You are a very strong woman. Best of luck to you and your family. ❤
I've been there..where your husband's been to. I have to do a lot of self search and I pray alot. Finally after 2 to 3 years of special type of ceeb siab and ceeb hlwb I got better the last 10 years.
Neb qhov teeb meem no me2 xwb yeej muaj yam ua kj tus txiv siab lawm yog tseem coj qub kev cai no yuav tau ua neeb kho tiag nawb ua neeb no ma zoo li Dr. Muab tshuaj thiab os tej co tshuaj ma Dr. Muab tsis haum yus thiab ces yuav tau ua ntau thaj neeb me ntsis nawb.ho yog nws ua2 li ma tej zaum nws twb tham tau hluas nkaun muaj lwm yam nws qhia tsis tau nej xwb nws thiaj pheej hais li thiab os vim txiv neej no peb ntseeg tsis tau nws lub siab li nawb muaj coob tus ua lub maib no thaum kawg ces yog muaj tus thiab lawm thiab xwb os
Twg kom muaj muaj mus haus ber haus cawv, ua thaj muaj muaj plus thiaj mag ne. Ib txhia txiv tsev thiab ib txhia niam tsev mas muaj plus tshaj thiab haus beer haus cawv muaj plus tshaj. Tseem khav hais tias peb cov no mas yog cov haib haib xwb os no na. Hmong ib cov me pab thas pob tw, cov ua nim khav khav hais tias yog cov coj noj coj ua. 12:33. Tabsis haus cawv haus beer loj li loj. Yuav tau muab lawv hu ua cov niag txiv dev maum dev es yog cov coj noj coj haus mas. Kuv Nad nim qhuav mus ua ntaub ntawv kawm kev haus cawv haus beev tag rau niag leej txiv es yog tus me hu ua coj noj coj ua es yog cov coj noj coj haus na. Tsi ntev cas txawm siv mus txhais lus nram tsev hais plaub rau niag tub na. Qias neeg tiag tiag li hos yog nej paub lawv lub qe mas qias neeg heev os.
Lady, you must find specialty help in the "real mental change" of your husband in his "psychological state of damage" due to molecules in his brain because neurotransmitters (the experiences and interactions in jail) may have triggered and altered your husband's brain activity and receiving structure. Please get the professional help he needs so that he can talk openly and deal with his embarrassment, failure, and anything that he encounters while in jail. I believe that your husband won't heal until the level of his cortisol level decreases in his brain and creates a path for him to accept the fact of the matter that led him to jail and the consequences that he suffered. Also, as the brain is the central organ of perceiving and adapting, your husband must forgive himself and free his thoughts! Good luck - I am sending you and your husband lots of prayers!
Maybe there might be something more than just he got in jail. Maybe something happened in jail that he refused to tell everyone. Do more investigating.
Ua Zoo Tsam nyob2 niam yau tawm plaws o😂😂😂😂😂rau qhov cov neej neeg tu txiv nyuaj2 siab ko ce twb yg nw mu nrwb tau tu sab nrauv lm e nw thiaj nyuaj2 saib😂😂😂
I applaud you to be patient and supported him. However, he has to man up or let him be…! You can only so much to help him. The rest is up to him to help himself…😩!
Qhov teebmeem me2 xwb os mus xaisceeb xwb thiab yog nws hlub nws ces nws yeej tsis ua li no nws yuav tau tswj nws tus kheej xwb koj tsis hlub koj ces koj tseem yuav tuag ua ntej koj tus txiv os me vivncaus
tus viv ncau koj tus mus rau kaw e ntse nws raug lawm eluag pheej los yob nws lub siab lub ntsw e nws thiaj pheej xav rawv kev xwb mog koj coj nws mus vaj tswv ce dab nriav tsis. tau lawm ce zoo xwb o mog thov vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau nws o mog
Kov koj tu Txiv’s siab loj os kuv tu twg maj 2 zaum lawm tab si no tseem nim hnub mu hais li nw cov 4 os kuv tseem nyuaj siab tshaj lamw thaib vim kuv tsis puab tshab ntseb thiab kuv tseem muaj me nyuam thiab ma kuv ah yam nyuaj siab os oh kuv tu Txiv’s maj kiag nw twg tsis nyuaj yus tseem yog tu nyuaj xwb os vim wb nyua qhu si yuav xwb na
Niam hluas tej zaum qhov nws ntsai2 thaum tas luaj ntes nws es kj yuav tsum coj nws mus thov vaj vajtswv rau neb ob leeg thiab mus kom cov txawj2 xais ceeb os tus me viv ncaus
Uh tus me niam tsev koj tus txiv zoo li ko ces tej zaum qaug qhov txhoj lawm thiab koj mus thov txiv neeb tuaj ib tha j neeb mus txheeb nws lub cev laus puag tom ub Nawb txhob txhawj os
Tus viv ncaws koj cev cev faj nawj. Kuv twb muaj ib tuag viv ncaus nws tus txiv coj li ko txog t kawm nws cia li Kiab mus nplog teb es teb es mus yuav poj niam . Nws ua li nws miss lawm xwb txog thaum kawg nriav tau Nyob tim nplog
Kuv haj yam raug loj tshaj koj vim thaub hmoob teb xa ntiav kuv tu txiv ua tsev ho tseem ntiav tab luaj plog tuaj ntev kuv tu txiv thiab tab si nws twb tsi txhaum peb ho tso Tau nws lo ta luaj haj tseem mag teeb meem thiab kuv qhov loj tshaj koj qhov os viv ncaus aws plaub twb hai tsi tag
Kuv qhia nej yog kuv tus txiv mob li nej pheej hais es pw ib hmo sawvlos qhov ncauj zij zujzus noj tsis tau mov haus dej los dej tawm dej los ces muaj ib tug neeg qhia kuv mus yuav ib pob tshuaj hmong hu ua tshuaj Obama no noj ib daim xwb zoo lawm vim nimqhuav mob tau ib hnub ib hmo xwb mus Dr es Dr Kom noj talisnoos xwb os tsis muaj tshuaj kho li no tiag vim yog yus txojleeg rub xwb no yog leejtwg ntseeg los kuj mus yuav los sim nawb
Nws mus hauv tsev Txim nws mus raug Tus dab lawv Tus kheej hauv tsev Txim lawm na Tus Niam tsev koj kho tsis tau Txog chaw na koj tau Tsawv ib tug Txiv Neeb kom looj loog duav es ma ua thiaj tau os
Hau yau hom no ce Yog hom Ua yuav ntse Tsi ntse yuav ruam tsi ruam os pe tog pe nta no ce me lo muab Ua loj loj ce yuav tuag os tu neeg siab loj ce yeej to taub hai tia Tsi Yog yu txhob txwm Ua ib kev kawm kom Lwm zau yu ceev faj Xwb os Tsi Yog ntsuj plig tsi tim dab tim ab tsi os Koj tu kheej lo yu Tsi hlub yu li pheej nyuab siab tau ruam Ua luaj li na mu said zoo2 tsam Yog neb muaj qhua neeb es thiaj Ua npaum no ma lov
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We all need Jesus Christ. Only Jesus can save us from our sin. Dying without Jesus will be the biggest mistake you will ever make when you’re passed from this world.
Does the cop who stopped him have Jesus?
Depression is a mental disorder that it is so hard to overcome. You are doing a great thing by staying by his side and continue to support and love him. I believe he will come through. You are his rock.
Mus ntseeg vaj tswv , thov xib fwb tuaj thov vajtswv rau neb 2 niam txiv nyeem phau vaj lug kub thiab muab rau ncoo thov vaj tswv txhua hnub txhua hmo ua ntej yuav pw yuav yuav mus work yuav pab tau mog
Sister he loss hope and faith. It is time for him to seek Jesus for strength and salvation. 😊 god bless him!
If you go to church pray for him. If you are still practicing shaman then find another shaman to help.
My daughter was going through depression for many years I had asked many shaman to help but only 1 shaman actually helped her! This year I finally can see that my daughter can truly smile agin.
My father was depressed before he was detained for being falsely accused. We were afraid that he would unalive himself but he moved past it. Sadly, he passed away from kidney failure few years after. Praying that your husband will find healing. Instead of being ashamed, he should learn a lesson and advise other Hmong men to not drink and drive. Try going to church?
Txhob ua neeb kho xwb, yuav tau ua neeb saib seb puas pom dab tsi tso. Nws yog ib leeg tub xwb, tsam nws txiv hos tsis tau zoo vaj zoo tsev los hos muaj kev txom nyem lwm yam es hos pheej los yuj nws siab nws ntsws.
Yog thaum Doctor lawv twb pab tag lawv lub tswv yim lawm es twb tsis zoo ces nrhiav kev pab los ntawm hmoob li txuj ci seb puas yuav pab tau lawm xwb...
Have you tried EVERYTHING? Reach out to God and open your heart to him. Give him your worries and stuggles. With God, you are never alone. Praying for your husband, you, and your family.
Sister, there are a couple methods you should try. One, look deep into his family lineage and see if there is any suicidal deaths or deaths without a proper burial. Often times, it’s these spirits that will come back to tshoj siab. I have seen it happened to my brother before and a traditional shaman resolved the issue, the result was immediately. Also, it sounds like he ceeb lawm so it might be a good idea to find someone to xai ceeb. Secondly, it didn’t sound like he ever sought out professional mental health. He should see a psychologist or admit himself to a behavior health program- most big hospitals would have one onsite. Lastly, if he is willing to convert, he should seek help and put his trust in God. Good luck to you, sister! I also learned from a great grandpa that when it is time for a person to go their spirit will find a way to leave no matter what.
I know that he was only in jail for a short time but did something happen to him in there? It sounds like he may have experienced something traumatizing to make him react the way he did. I hope he is able to find some peace with his past and a way to move forward.
Mu ntsees vajtswv os vajtswv yog lub tshaw vam tshiab thiab yog txoj kev kaj siab raw neb lub neej thiab nyeem vajlukub yuav ua raw yug nkag sia txos lub neej ntiaj teb txaus siab raw yam ua yus muaj lo yog ntsib vajtswv yua khu tau neb txoj kev nyuaj siab os vim vaj tswv tub khu tua kuv txoj kev nyuaj siab lawm os
Yeah, I have similar situation like your husband too. Tell him death is not the solution. Keep talking to him about positive. Wish I can talk to him too, but I will pray for him too.
For some people it doesn’t matter how much you helped or find him help it doesn’t work if he doesn’t come to term and realize it himself it will not work. I know we do have a lot of mental and depression among our Hmoob but it’s just too embarrassing to bring it out. Tus siab hos.
Qhov nyuag yuam lev me, me li no xwb yeej tsis tsim nyog koj tus ua cuag li no. Teb zaum koj yuav tau neeb ntxiv yog koj tseem coj kev cai qub. Tsis tag li ntawv ces koj cia li coj nws mus church kiag xwb tej zaum kuj yuav pab tau thiab. You are an awesome person who has been doing great work for supporting him through this.
Vaj ib leeg thiaj yuav pab tau txoj kev dab yoj siab os sister ntawm koj ces yog ceeb loj dhau lawm xwb mus xais ceeb nawb tsam koj ho ua koj tus txiv ntej nawb mog
Before I met my husband he was in the same boat as your husband. He used to smoke 1 or 2 pack of cigarettes a day and drink Friday to Sunday. Until he got the same issue as your husband so he stop smoking and drinking completely. He start shaking and have fever for almost 1 or 2 week after that he don't drink alcohol or smoke anymore. Even we go to hangout with his friends he don't drink, he only drink water or the zero alcohol beer only. If he really want to stop drinking and change his drinking life he can. If my husband can do it your husband can do it. But it's based on the people he hangout with too. Us hmong people like to force people to drink or talk down on them. He just need to say no mean no.
I think something happened to him inside the jailhouse.
I agree 😳
Diddy?
i think so too because there’s no other reason why he would want to do harm to himself
He needs professional help. My husband was depressed after back surgery, he went to group therapy & realized that there are other people out there with bigger problems than his so he's ok now. He's very thankful for therapy that helped him.
He went and didn’t help!!!
Tsam zoo li kuv tus txiv os ua rau kuv nim txhawj2 mas ua yim cuaj thaj neeb kho txog qhov kawg tseem yog tham tau hluas nkauj xwb es tham tau hluas nkauj es ntshai yus paub es nyuab siab txog qhov xav tuag xwb hawb yaw xiam kuv cov nyiaj tshaj plaws li hos
"THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE" advice from my 14 year old son.
Life in America, no one is more important than other, all are equal, remember this and your depression would not taken over you.
I work in the mental health field, and he needs support. Sometimes these struggles stem from deeper issues related to brain chemistry. He’s facing serious challenges, and it’s essential for him to see someone who can prescribe the right medications to help with his thoughts of death. Your love and family support have been vital in keeping him going, and you’ve done everything right. But he may also need medication to improve his outlook. I treat patients like this regularly, and with the right treatment, they often find happiness. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you have any questions.
Me niam hluas koj tsis yuam kev nawb mog yus tus txiv yus yuav los ua yus tus txij nkawm lawm txawm zoo li cas los yov tau zov nws hlub nws mus kom txog qhov Kawg os mog.. vim nws yog tus yus hlub es hlub kom txog hnub kawg yus ua zoo rau yus xwb mog kuv yiv thov tswv ntuj pub lub zog kom loj rau koj tiv kom dhau txoj ke nyuaj siab nawb mog vim thaum nws nrog nws niam nws txiv nyob nws zoo zoo nawb mog. Nws mam li los puas hauv yus lub me.xub ntiag es txhob qaug zog nawb mog kuv mam thov Huab Tais Tswv Ntuj Rau Koj Mog... kuv tus tswv ntuj nrog rau nws leej tub yesxus pleev thov nej muab lub zog loj rau tus niam tsev no kom nws muaj lub zog tiv lom dhau lub sij hawm no thiab thov txog kuv tus tswv ntuj ntiab tus dab phem ntawm nws tus txiv mus kom deb li deb tau nyuag yaus yov ua koj tsaug kom txog hnub nyuag yaus los kom txog kuv txiv tswv ntuj mog. Amen 🙏
Anxiety xwb you did your best
Peb ua neeg nyob sawv daws yeej txawj ua yuam ke o yus yuav tau zam txim rau yus tu kheej txhob muab tu kheej coj mus tsau rau txoj kev nyuam siab ma yeej g muaj leej twg rau txim rau yus yog yus g xav ntaus g xav phem. yus xav mus rau qhov zoo xb .yam yus ua dhau lawm yeej tig g tau mus keb qhaib ua hnub no mus rau tom ntej kom zoo tshaj xb nawb
Cov teeb meem zoo li no ces kawg coj mus ntseeg Vajtswv lawm xwb thaj yuav dim xwb mog thov txhob tos lub sij hawm lig dhau mog
Mu vaj tswv thiaj pab tau koj neb on keep mog
Tus me viv ncaus yog koj tsi xav li cas no cia peb tus xh tuaj thov vajtswv pab koj tus txiv kom nws ras txog txoj kev tuag txaus ntshai heev li no os me viv ncaus,vajtswv pab tau nws tiag22 li os nb tej nyuag qhov me2 xb txhb tuag nb mog txhb ua tus ruam22 li nyiaj tswb tsi zoo nb mog yg yus tua yus tus kheej mas mus txg dab teb txim tseem loj tshaj lawm nb mog
Without going into detail, I had the same thing happened to me back in 2014. Nobody’s fault but mine. Charged with a dui. Spent a night in county jail. Attended class, license revoked, pay fines, etc. All that associated with a dui. I know it’s different from person to person on how they react to it but let me tell you. It’s not the end of the world. With that said, no one knows what goes on inside other people’s brain. I hope it’s not for a darker reasoning. GL.
God is your answer. Only God can save us from the evil spirit.
me niam laus kj tug me txiv muaj qhov teeb meem me me li ko xwb es nws ces li xav rawv qhov kev tuag tag li xwb es kj yuav tsum coj koj tus me txij nkawm mus cuag cov xfb ntseeg vaj tswv es coj nws mu ntseeg vaj tswv txhua yam kev xav nkawm nws thiab kj neb tej kev nyuab siab koj thiaj li yuav pab tau neb lub neej kaj siab zoo siab xwb mog thov vaj tswv txhawb neb lub dag zog mog me niam laus aw
Tsis txog xav ntau os. Koj yeej ua tau zoo kawg lawm. Ntse koj tseem yuav mob tuag ua ntev nws thiab os.
Please get your husband help for mental health. Get him check out. Best of luck to you.
She tried that but it didn’t help 😢
Tus niam tsev aws ,kuv Tus txiv twb raug ib li kom thiab yeej nyuab siab kawg lithiab ,tab sis kom koj tus txiv ua siab loj thiab mog .
Cas luag tej twb raug ib yam li ko es lawv ho tsis xav txog qhov tuag mam ntshe xav tuag rau dab ob ceg xwb pob cov txiv neej zoo li no mam ntseeg tsis tau li nawb yus rov qab ua rau yus xwb ces kav tsij tseg txoj kev hauv ncaw hauv beer ces yeej yuav zoo xwb
Tus me ntxhai coj nws mus NTSEEG VAJTSWV xwb nws raug Dab nyuaj siab yuj nws lawm yog koj coj mus coag VAJTSWV muaj hwjchim nws thiaj tsem tau dab tuag tsi yuj nws lub siab xwb tiamsis nyob ntawm koj xwb yog kojxav tia yuav pab tau nws los coj nws yog koj xav tia tsi nyiam ce tsi txhob coj xwb vim hai tia VAJTSWV tsi zoo lis Dab es koj yuav sim nws saib nws puas pab cawm tau nawb yuavtsum yog yus ntseeg nws tiag tiag thiab saib VAJTSWVpuas yuav yus thiab os.
Niam hluas kuv xav tias koj tus txiv muaj hluas nkauj lawm xwb os koj yuav tau hlub koj nawb
You two seem to be good people. He sounds depressed. Keep taking him to see a therapist. There are people out there with physical diseases that are dying to live. Your husband is living to die. And please take better care of yourself. If both of you are sick, who will be your or his caretaker? Praying you all get through this.
If you don’t appreciate lure than trade life with someone who wants to live
Tsis txhob tuag nawb nej coj nws thov vajtswv raw nws thiab nej yuav tau nrhiav ķev pab nws nawb txoj sia muaj nuj nqi heev li os tij laug txhob taug nawb
If he wanna tuag let him tuag. Nyob hnyav av lawm xwb!!
Ib tug txiv neej yawg nyob ruam txog txij no lawm ces cia nws mus nws thiab los mas….ntuj es.
Ua ntau tsam koj hos ua nws ntej lawm thiab os
Ua neeb ua yaig txhij txhua lawm ces txhob ua dabtsi rau lawm os
There’s no fixing it.
He lost hope. Let him go as he wishes.
Tsis muaj leej twg pab tau tej yam zoo li no yus yuav tsum pab yus tus kheej lawm xwb yuav tsum xav rau cov lawv ua txoj kev txhaum loj tshaj yus es thiaj tswj tau tus kheej
viv ncaus ua zoo tsam kj tau niam yau os thiab ua ib thaj neeb saib kj tsam nws seev seev2 txoj kev tuag nwg tsis tuag tsav ho yog kj os
Kuv xav li ko thb ua txoj mob kom tau niam yau xwb os nw yuav tua nw tu niam tuag sawv tsuj
Kuv yog ib tus niamtsev hmoob thaib os.Kuv keev nyuajsiab loj npaum koj tus txiv.kuv qhov kev nyuabsiab yog kuv tus me tub mob nraum.Kuv tus noobnyoog yamqhuav 8 nyoo xwb.kuv hlub thiab ntxhawj nws kawg nkaus.kuv nyuab siab txoj txheem kuv lub plawv khiav ceev tshaj.kuv yuav luag tuag tiam.Kuv mus ntsib kwstshuaj .Lawv hais tias kuv mob ซึมเศร้าแพนิค . kuv yuav tsum noj tshuaj ko hlwb.Cev kuv raug nojtshuaj li l
Coj mu ntseeg vaj tswv e kom xf lawm thov vaj tswv pab koj o mog
txhob tib kev neeb yaig mus nrhiav cov neeb cag los kho tej zaum yuav pab tau os. mus nrhiav tus txawj khi hlua khawv koob rau coj thiab yuav tsum zoo xwb mas
Koj coj nws tuaj saib peb lub teb chaw nram teb chaw Guyane no seb nws pos xis nyob os peb ua liaj teb li sqb tim nplog peb nyob koom zej koom zos ZOS HMOOB nawb . Peb cog txiv tsawb txiv lwm tsib txiv taub ntoo txiv maj mib txiv mov mes.. yov hav zoo tuaj nploos tua kauv tuaj npua teb.tua nploos coj tuaj saib peb nawb mog
Wow! Love to have a good wife like you. Tell your husband, we all make mistakes. What he did was just a lesson to learn from. Life is too precious. Wished we all could live more than one hundred years so we can enjoy life more with the one that we love. Wish you and your husband the best of luck
Sister, coj nws mus church es txhob coj kev cai qub teev dab lawm os. Mus church mus ntseeg Vajtswv es thov Vajtswv pab koj tus txiv. Yog sab ntsuj plig ces kawg Vajtswv pab xwb nawb. Sab cev nqaij daim tawv ces yog hormone. Koj yuav tsum hloov neb cov zaub mov. Txhob noj tej khoom uas muaj qab zib, carbohydrate (mov, fawm, qhaub poob, bread, cake, fawm kauv, peev choj), thiab cawv beer. Noj zaub thiab noj nqaij Kom ntau, noj nqaij rog thiab. Noj Vitamin D. Haus Iodine li 2-3 tee. Ua exercise ib hnub 1 xuab moo. Kev noj zaub mov li no yuav pab koj tus txiv lub kev xav mus rau qhov zoo thiab thoob tsib to nrog. Yog koj ua txhij txhua lawm ces Sim li kuv hais seb puas pab koj tus txiv. Vim pab kuv lawm.
Koj kav tsij thov ib tus neeg mus ua ib zaj khawv koob mus txhiv nws tus plig ntawm qhov chaw kws police ntes nws ntawv sen puas pàb os nawb
People don’t understand that when they’re depressed, their spouse and children will most likely become depressed too. I feel sorry for you because you have to deal with a weak selfish husband. He’s traumatized and needs to seek mental health asap. He’s only thinking about himself and not you or your family. Praying and Neeg doesn’t always help. He needs to be put on psychotic meds to see if that’ll help. People that threaten to commit suicide will eventually do it. Please take care of not just your husband but yourself. You are a very strong woman. Best of luck to you and your family. ❤
nej tsi ua neeb saib tsam yog Kiab thiab vab nkawd lo yuj tau koj tu txiv lawm pob 🤣😂🤣🤣
I've been there..where your husband's been to. I have to do a lot of self search and I pray alot. Finally after 2 to 3 years of special type of ceeb siab and ceeb hlwb I got better the last 10 years.
Neb ua neeb kho tag tsis zoo ces thov Vajtswv rau nws. Yog tsis zoo ces tejzaum koj tus txiv muaj qhua neeb xwb thiaj xav tuag ua tej yam txawv2.
Mus nrhiav Neeb yaig pab thiab ma lov, coj mus xais ceeb, ua neeb mus saib tus yawg ua koj hais tias nim qhuav tuag ntawm tib si os
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You know the law, why drink and drive? Ruam ces pab tsis tau😂😂
Mental health is so Important, in this culture it’ gets put under the rug . Love yourself and please reach out for professional help .
Sister coj nws mus rau lawv cov txawj2 xais ceeb rau nws,nws ceeb rau cov hlab ntsa lawm os!!
Nws ua kom koj khiav nws mus xwb vim koj muab nws hlub dhau lawm es koj thiaj lis tau taug txoj kev kos. Yog nws hlub koj ces nws twb tsis coj lis kos rau koj yog mus ntawm nws ces nws tig lo saib tias nws plam koj lawm es nws thiaj lis tsis ras tau tias nws ua dab tsis dhau mus lawm
Neb qhov teeb meem no me2 xwb yeej muaj yam ua kj tus txiv siab lawm yog tseem coj qub kev cai no yuav tau ua neeb kho tiag nawb ua neeb no ma zoo li Dr. Muab tshuaj thiab os tej co tshuaj ma Dr. Muab tsis haum yus thiab ces yuav tau ua ntau thaj neeb me ntsis nawb.ho yog nws ua2 li ma tej zaum nws twb tham tau hluas nkaun muaj lwm yam nws qhia tsis tau nej xwb nws thiaj pheej hais li thiab os vim txiv neej no peb ntseeg tsis tau nws lub siab li nawb muaj coob tus ua lub maib no thaum kawg ces yog muaj tus thiab lawm thiab xwb os
Twg kom muaj muaj mus haus ber haus cawv, ua thaj muaj muaj plus thiaj mag ne. Ib txhia txiv tsev thiab ib txhia niam tsev mas muaj plus tshaj thiab haus beer haus cawv muaj plus tshaj. Tseem khav hais tias peb cov no mas yog cov haib haib xwb os no na. Hmong ib cov me pab thas pob tw, cov ua nim khav khav hais tias yog cov coj noj coj ua. 12:33. Tabsis haus cawv haus beer loj li loj. Yuav tau muab lawv hu ua cov niag txiv dev maum dev es yog cov coj noj coj haus mas. Kuv Nad nim qhuav mus ua ntaub ntawv kawm kev haus cawv haus beev tag rau niag leej txiv es yog tus me hu ua coj noj coj ua es yog cov coj noj coj haus na. Tsi ntev cas txawm siv mus txhais lus nram tsev hais plaub rau niag tub na. Qias neeg tiag tiag li hos yog nej paub lawv lub qe mas qias neeg heev os.
Your husband and family need Jesus. Please call the pastor over to convert you guys.
Lady, you must find specialty help in the "real mental change" of your husband in his "psychological state of damage" due to molecules in his brain because neurotransmitters (the experiences and interactions in jail) may have triggered and altered your husband's brain activity and receiving structure. Please get the professional help he needs so that he can talk openly and deal with his embarrassment, failure, and anything that he encounters while in jail. I believe that your husband won't heal until the level of his cortisol level decreases in his brain and creates a path for him to accept the fact of the matter that led him to jail and the consequences that he suffered. Also, as the brain is the central organ of perceiving and adapting, your husband must forgive himself and free his thoughts! Good luck - I am sending you and your husband lots of prayers!
Peb ua neej nyob muaj ib tug neeg muaj 12 tug ntsuj plig tab sis nws muaj ntsuj nyug tus ntsuj yog tus tawv ncauj tsaj plaws ua neeb saib tsam yog neb muaj qhua neeb yog muaj qhua neeb los lawv yeej ua teeb meem li no tib yam thiab
Maybe there might be something more than just he got in jail. Maybe something happened in jail that he refused to tell everyone. Do more investigating.
1 nigh in jail, nothing happens to u.
Kj tus txiv raug cov dab ua tuag hauv nkuaj lawm nriav ib tug txiv neeb txwj neeb laug tuaj ua ib thaj neeb tu sab quas tus dab ntawv mus nawb
Tus niam tsev aw khiav mus ntseeg Vajtswv xwb thiaj dim xwb os
Koj yuav tau coj nws mus ntseeg Vajtswv xwb thiaj yuav pab tau neb.
You need to take good care of yourself don't worry too much about him or else you might get sick before him
Coj Nwg moog ntseeg Vaajtswv, Vaajtswv txhaj yog tug paab tau Nwg.
Kav tsij cia nws yuav niam Mos ab tsam nws ua Nyiaj Tswb xwb.
Mus ntsib doctor. Lawv muaj ib cov tshuaj noj pab kom txhob xav txog kev tuag. Yuav tau mus ntsib sai thiab qhia doctor txog qhov teeb meem nawb. Mus nrhiav keb pab tsam lig dhau
Coj mus church os. Muaj dab ntxwg nyoog nyob rau hauv nws lawm. Mus ntiab dab pem church seb puas pab os. ⛪
Ua Zoo Tsam nyob2 niam yau tawm plaws o😂😂😂😂😂rau qhov cov neej neeg tu txiv nyuaj2 siab ko ce twb yg nw mu nrwb tau tu sab nrauv lm e nw thiaj nyuaj2 saib😂😂😂
I applaud you to be patient and supported him. However, he has to man up or let him be…! You can only so much to help him. The rest is up to him to help himself…😩!
Qhov teebmeem me2 xwb os mus xaisceeb xwb thiab yog nws hlub nws ces nws yeej tsis ua li no nws yuav tau tswj nws tus kheej xwb koj tsis hlub koj ces koj tseem yuav tuag ua ntej koj tus txiv os me vivncaus
tus viv ncau koj tus mus rau kaw e ntse nws raug lawm eluag pheej los yob nws lub siab lub ntsw e nws thiaj pheej xav rawv kev xwb mog koj coj nws mus vaj tswv ce dab nriav tsis. tau lawm ce zoo xwb o mog thov vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau nws o mog
Kov koj tu Txiv’s siab loj os kuv tu twg maj 2 zaum lawm tab si no tseem nim hnub mu hais li nw cov 4 os kuv tseem nyuaj siab tshaj lamw thaib vim kuv tsis puab tshab ntseb thiab kuv tseem muaj me nyuam thiab ma kuv ah yam nyuaj siab os oh kuv tu Txiv’s maj kiag nw twg tsis nyuaj yus tseem yog tu nyuaj xwb os vim wb nyua qhu si yuav xwb na
❤❤❤❤koj tus txiv ceeb lawm muab xais ceeb os
It takes time to heal...nej yuav Tau saib kom nruj mus ntev zog ces mam maj mam zoo os...tsis yog nws ib leeg xwb...seb nyiaj Tswb ne.
I've just been in a same situation 2 weeks ago, I know exactly how he feels,
Muab hu plig thiab ua neeb thiab thov vaj tswv rau o
Nej yuav tau neeb saib nws cov ntsuj plig thiab mus saib tej zaum tim nej cov txwv feel los yog nws raug dag lawm
mu ntseeg vaaj tswv pab tau kawg
Niam hluas tej zaum qhov nws ntsai2 thaum tas luaj ntes nws es kj yuav tsum coj nws mus thov vaj vajtswv rau neb ob leeg thiab mus kom cov txawj2 xais ceeb os tus me viv ncaus
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Coj koj tus txiv mus xais ceeb os tus niam tsev. Nws tu siab heev dhau rsu nws tus kheej. Ntsuj plig tsis puab cev lawm. Koj muaj kev nyuab siab heev lawm. Yuav ua rau koj mob stroke thiab. Kuv paub ib tus tib neeg txawj xais ceeb. Kuv twb tau coj kuv txiv mus xais ceeb ntawm tus txiv tsev ntawd lawm.
Uh tus me niam tsev koj tus txiv zoo li ko ces tej zaum qaug qhov txhoj lawm thiab koj mus thov txiv neeb tuaj ib tha j neeb mus txheeb nws lub cev laus puag tom ub Nawb txhob txhawj os
Coj nws mus cuag lo yog mus ntseeg vajtswv os vivncau
If you know you are going to be driving then don’t drink or sober up before driving. Not, “oh, drink this last one before we go”.
Tus viv ncaws koj cev cev faj nawj. Kuv twb muaj ib tuag viv ncaus nws tus txiv coj li ko txog t kawm nws cia li Kiab mus nplog teb es teb es mus yuav poj niam . Nws ua li nws miss lawm xwb txog thaum kawg nriav tau Nyob tim nplog
Kuv haj yam raug loj tshaj koj vim thaub hmoob teb xa ntiav kuv tu txiv ua tsev ho tseem ntiav tab luaj plog tuaj ntev kuv tu txiv thiab tab si nws twb tsi txhaum peb ho tso Tau nws lo ta luaj haj tseem mag teeb meem thiab kuv qhov loj tshaj koj qhov os viv ncaus aws plaub twb hai tsi tag
Kuv qhia nej yog kuv tus txiv mob li nej pheej hais es pw ib hmo sawvlos qhov ncauj zij zujzus noj tsis tau mov haus dej los dej tawm dej los ces muaj ib tug neeg qhia kuv mus yuav ib pob tshuaj hmong hu ua tshuaj Obama no noj ib daim xwb zoo lawm vim nimqhuav mob tau ib hnub ib hmo xwb mus Dr es Dr Kom noj talisnoos xwb os tsis muaj tshuaj kho li no tiag vim yog yus txojleeg rub xwb no yog leejtwg ntseeg los kuj mus yuav los sim nawb
Ab kuv niag ces zoo li koj niag lawm thiab os
Yog nyuaj siab niam yau xwb po
Nws mus hauv tsev Txim nws mus raug Tus dab lawv Tus kheej hauv tsev Txim lawm na Tus Niam tsev koj kho tsis tau Txog chaw na koj tau Tsawv ib tug Txiv Neeb kom looj loog duav es ma ua thiaj tau os
Koj ua tau zoo lawm os
Koj ti los hlub koj tus kheej os
You should ask him if something happened while he was in jail that has traumatized him
Hau yau hom no ce Yog hom Ua yuav ntse Tsi ntse yuav ruam tsi ruam os pe tog pe nta no ce me lo muab Ua loj loj ce yuav tuag os tu neeg siab loj ce yeej to taub hai tia Tsi Yog yu txhob txwm Ua ib kev kawm kom Lwm zau yu ceev faj Xwb os Tsi Yog ntsuj plig tsi tim dab tim ab tsi os Koj tu kheej lo yu Tsi hlub yu li pheej nyuab siab tau ruam Ua luaj li na mu said zoo2 tsam Yog neb muaj qhua neeb es thiaj Ua npaum no ma lov
If you’re looking for an easy way out than find your way out but I you tigons it’s the only way out th you go find someone who is on awaiting list go trade places withperson let that person’s people if you feel like life isn’t fair go trade places with someone who wants to live