MERCY!😱 TODDLERS ARE WEARING LACE WIGS, FAKE LASHES AND RELAXERS?! MODERN PARENTS ARE OUT OF CONTROL
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- TODDLERS ARE WEARING LACE WIGS, FAKE LASHES AND RELAXERS?! PARENTS ARE OUT OF CONTROL
Fake Lashes, Wigs & Relaxers at 2 Years Old! Parents More Worried About Aesthetics Than Their Child’s Well-Being?
Parents are out here making their baby girls grow up way too fast, and social media is playing a HUGE role in it. From lace front wigs and relaxers at 2 years old to fake lashes and treating kids like real-life dolls, it’s getting out of hand!
I’m not telling anyone how to raise their kids, but we need to have this conversation-because at what point does it stop being “cute” and start being too much?
Are we letting kids be kids, or are we pushing them into grown-woman beauty standards before they even know how to spell “beauty”?!
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This is child abuse. The mother's and stylists that agree to do this are insane and need to go to jail 😢😢
This is nothing a little wash, moisturize and a little headband couldn’t fix
Literal insanity and child abuse, I completely agree they should be in jail
I'm 54, and I am just now recovering to the life-long damage my mother did to my hair follicles from putting lye in my hair at the age of 7 years old. I remember it like it was yesterday. Yes, it is a form of abuse. I strongly agree.
@@eyesopenedify That is so absolutely horrifying, I can’t find words …
Imagine if they put that kind of energy towards the children's education and uplifting them with pride. What this tells them is "I am not good enough". Nothing wrong when you're an adult. That's different, you've had time to learn, mature and grow into yourself This is child abuse.
Absolutely 🎉
They didn’t even have a chance with a parent like that. Where are the dads? Why aren’t they standing up for their kids
Thank you so much
Even if they just put that energy into their HAIR.. They're stunting the growth before it even gets a chance to grow in!
And if youre not mature when youre an adult, thats your bad. But this teaches non self-acceptance, and your hair is not 'good' enuf as it was naturally. This is very sad
This is sad. Teaching young girls from a young age that their natural hair isn’t good enough. Snatching their edges before they even have a chance to actually grow. Sick.
Let kids be kids. They're only children once.
Those babies will have alopecia before they are teenagers
Can you imagine?! 😔
I just saw an ad about relaxers causing cancer & a class action lawsuit😢
If you ever wondered 'why are kids so disrespectful, entitled and rude', THIS is how it starts. Some people just don't need to have kids!
I saw this coming 12 years ago, that's why when I found out I was having a girl, that was the last time I ever wore weave I never wanted to be an example of self hatred
Good for you darlin! Too bad these little innocent girls don't have a mother like you! Keep rockin!
Putting Lace fronts on kids and perming b4 they are 10 to 12 years old is child abuse. The perm destroys the texture and thins the hair over time. The glue from the lace fronts has to be removing the hair when it's coming up, not to mention the weight of the hair on the childs neck. The psychological impact can take a turn for the worst bcuz Natural beauty was thrown out the window from the get-go, so some not all will seek a beauty outside of themselves that can never be ascertained.
Well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Before prom just saying
This is low-key disturbing, I'm not going to lie.
I love it
Low key🤦🏿♀️🤔 , sure u don't wanna turn the key to the proper wattage of FUCKED UP🎉?
My daughter is fully black with natural hair down to her waist. And she’s only 7. This is saddening and it’s altering their hair in the worst way possible. Can also cause permanent damage.
I’m thinking about the headaches and scalp itch attacks I get sometimes from wigs so I can imagine what these kids feel😢
That’s what I’m saying 😔
How can you intentionally put tears in your child's eyes and not feel some kind of way?! This teeters toward child ab■se
If a mom doesn’t love her hair how will she love her daughter’s hair?🤦🏽♀️
Yikes ... I thought we decided the Toddlers and Tiaras thing was creepy
I don’t have ethnic hair, but I remember my mom being so rough with my hair that I would be screaming bloody murder. Every morning, it would be a fight to the death to do my hair. These babes are literally crying as this is being done to them. If you want to dress up your child, fine. But, this is just cruel.
Poor babies.
Ooh wow…. I’m so sorry dear.
Firstly, there's no such thing as ethnic. Secondly, you to are part of an ethnic group. Please educate yourself.
“ethnic hair” is the wrong/ ignorant word to use. A suitable term would be textured or curly/coily hair.
What you say is true...but I don't think she meant any harm...and I have curly/kinky hair😁but I do appreciate the fact that you know and are trying to educate.great!@@chaeryeong991
That just goes to show that other ethnicities with straighter hair can be tender headed...sorry your mom yanked your brains out😁
My mom didn't even allow heat on my hair until I was in the 6th grade, and when I turned 16, she told me it was my choice if I wanted a relaxer. This is so sad to watch.
I love this approach
OMG, me too, this is exactly what happened with me and my mom and she was a beautician, she did not play about my hair.
Is this the real reason why people have kids to treat them like dolls like wtf 😅
😂🤣
Oh dear😣
Pretty much
Disgraceful. They are being conditioned with an inferiority complex and they will forever struggle to see their own beauty. These poor babies will pedestalize others over their own natural beauty. Horrible.
my mom wouldn't even let me relax my hair when i was 8 years old no matter how much i begged...i used to get so upset because i wanted straight hair to fit in at school, now at 21 i'm so thankful she never let me relax it!
Seeing those babies cry while they do this infuriates me
Those poor babies, my heart goes out them. This is too much! Let kids be kids!!
Can you imagine how their little scalp feels
@JodiTheIslandGirl yea from the looks of some it hurts like h*ll
Stuffed animals and coloring books. That's what kids need.
Your daughters hair is beautiful! I cannot say anything on experience with relaxers and wigs because I am Caucasian and was born with easy to care for hair. However I think these kids just need to be kids, I fear they will think their natural hair is not good enough. And lashes on a baby looks crazy! Love you Jodi!
Thank you so much!! Love you too Sara ❤️
When I was a little girl, wearing our hair down was only allowed on special occasions, wearing weave at that age was wild, no red nail polish - it was too grown, we always had on tights under our dresses & skirts or we weren't wearing them and we weren't allowed perms until high school...And no, I'm not old 😅 Not even 40 yet. This right here is flat out insanity! Smh...
I remember the dark stockings with the uniform dresses and skorts
I’m 4 minutes in and I haven’t stopped shaking my head 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
This is all to do with the parents ego, parents are concerned about how others perceive their children...! Children don't care to have lace front wigs, relaxers etc
You are correct 👏🏾👏🏾
Gotta make sure they send a strong message to their kids that natural hair isn’t good enough.
This is outrages and should be stopped my mom could never!!💯
people are actively transferring their insecurities to their kids, and social media is applauding them by watching. what a crazy time to be alive.
this generation is dying.
💀🌚
It’s terrifying
They already dead, they just don’t know it
Died a decade ago 😢
Why are they trying to make these little babies look grown! Don’t they remember that sick adults are in this world and won’t care about their age! Smh
I’m a 56yr old white woman. I don’t care if it’s hair, clothes, makeup, or piercings…kids should be allowed to be kids
As 43yo where are the frilly lace dresses, hoop skirts and ring curls. Little gloves and purses.
What about teaching your child to be comfortable in there own skin , this sends the message they are not good enough they way they are .😢😢😢😢
It’s sad
I feel that health officials should get involved and class this as abuse!
Leave those babies alone! That's child abuse! I'm still traumatized from seeing my best friend being tortured by her grandmother everyday. That was fifty years ago! This is messed up.
Some parents are crazy
Sigh 😮💨
At this point, it's a 50/50 toss up.
Let babies be babies... You blink and they're all grown up.
Let them be babies and toddlers ffs. Before you know it, boom... the baby and toddler stage is over. Time is such a thief.
Enjoy them being babies... You have the rest of their lives to give them self image issues.🌴🌴
This is disgusting and very disturbing. This is child abuse!!
All pregnant at 10 years old!! What wrong with these people?
Shocked. Beyond words, the girl at min 3 is completey shaved these kids heads are still growing with all hair follices and glue has nothing to do on kids heads they want to play, the skin needs to breath, babies will scratch and rip them off and hurt themselves permantly, kids hair and scalp is way more sensitive their hair growth will be partially permantly damaged and they may develop allergies. Besides all the trauma. I'm speechless and ashamed for humanity this is child abuse.
I have 4c hair and my husband and I plan to have kids in 2 years I can’t wait to do their natural hair and show them how beautiful it is they will not have any perms or relaxer of any kind if they want that we will wait until they are old enough to do their own hair and make their own decisions
Yes 🙌
That is so sick, why would you do that to the baby?
The poor babies
It's a baby. It needs diapers, pacifiers, bottles, those teething toys, and blankets a lot more than a wig or lashes.
Childfree by choice Stand Up! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
🥳🥳🥳👏🏾🎀
Lol
And I understand doing this like you said for those who have hair loss or alopecia but why do they have to make these little girls wear wigs that look like an adult's hairstyle? It's way too much and sexualizes them.
They need jail time
I hope people see these videos, recognize them and REPORT THEM for child abuse.
Sadly this isn't new, I remember my first relaxer when I was 5 yrs old. My aunt did it w/o asking my mom who was upset when I went home. I remember how much it burned and I hated it at the time 😞
Omg 😳 what would possess your aunt to do this?! Like your mom, I too would be furious
One of the little girls was crying so hard, she feel asleep. What a shame. I mean all that for what????
Now I’m a full glam girl, I love hair, nails, makeup, etc BUT on these little kids it’s just too much smh they don’t need all that. Maybe painting the nails once they become a certain age but the lace fronts and all that is a NO smh what’s wrong with people
Right….most aren’t even old enough to spell the word ‘Beauty’
Also, your daughter is so beautiful 😍... and her hair looks so nourished and healthy! ❤
Thank you so much 😊
Aw your daughter is so pretty ❤🤗. Great to see you’re taking care of her hair.
This hurt me, Society is in shambles. The mother’s or care giver needs Jesus, What happened to black woman 😔.
My daughter is 8 with super thick, curly hair. My daughter doesn’t like her hair done. I can only wash it, brush it out, and put in hair oil. The most she wants is a pony tail. Last year, I brought her to an African hair salon. They gave me natural hair products without chemicals. They told me to never put chemicals on her hair because her hair was perfect.
Already messing up them babies hair line smh. Just cause they bald headed leave them kids alone smh
Blk Sisters, please let's start with the European standards of hair.
🎯🎯🎯
🛑 RIGHT !!!
I am 54 years old, and when I saw the child with the relaxer in her hair, it gave me serious flash backs of trauma when I got my first relaxer at 7 years old. It was the worst thing my mother ever could have done to me.
She said “ she claps back in the comments “. Well, let’s see if she can Clap back outta some Child Protection Services handcuffs! Reckless! When Black men see Black women do awful things like this, it sticks in their minds & they turn against us. But look at this Wild BS.., can you blame them ?!?!? . My Gods !!
putting even more pressure on Black women to be even more perfect?
What happened to braids and beads, which make your hair grow.
Heck No!!!! I can't , with the color 😮
Bot only did the 9 year old girl get a wig, but it was too long curled and honey blonde, too . And those poor babies will have no edges .
I legitimately choked when I saw that blonde wig of straight hair. I’m praying it was rage-bait cos I can’t comprehend a mother doing something so blatantly emotionally abusive.
This is so sad and ridiculous. Straight up child abuse! These children need to be children. That's what's wrong with the world today. These babies are already beautiful wearing their own hair.
Amen!
Stop teaching self hate to our babies
This is a sickness. How to tell your child they are ugly without saying it?...
Cancer causing relaxers? Hmh....cps. if this is OK w these mothers what else are they doing to the babies and ask yourself why make them look 20 ....nah cps.
You and your daughter are truly beautiful. Thank heavens you’re here to be a guiding light and inspire everyone to do and be better ❤
Sometimes the mom is the kids WORSE ENEMY. SMH
This is awful! Let these babies’ heads breathe!
I mean y’all didn’t learn when y’all mommas permed y’all hair when y’all was little? Yeah I know it’s a big difference between the two but nonetheless the chemicals that’s in the glue may be toxic for younger children and y’all would know that if y’all read the labels…. Let these babies be natural PERIOD
This can’t be real, so early and we are already telling them they aren’t enough
In Africa, the keep young childrens hair shaved. I much prefer that vs these 'fake' cute babies. OMG. Leave their hair alone!!!
No ma'am.
We're not excusing any and everything no more 🙅🏾♀️
Some of these women don't care - mostly the stylists - because they're getting promotion and/or payment out of it.
Some of the mothers' insecurities stronger than steel and it's such a shame.
Some of these people just want clout.
I hate that it's come to this for our youngest little girls 🤦🏾♀️
They are dam crazy. Poor babies this horrible ridiculous 😢
PDFs are real... smh protect the kids....
4:22 why that baby look more grown than me?! Why does she have a full face of makeup and look like 21-28 at only 8?!!
I guess minoxidil will be on high demand in the next few years even for kids
@3:13 almost made me cry, my God that baby is soo adorable with her bald head wtf is wrong with people. Do they not realize this will condition these girls of how to not love themselves when they enter adulthood??
Maybe they don't sell head bands and berrets where they live 😜
Toddlers in tiaras been doing this, fake teeth, fake lashes, lace wigs, clip ins, hair dye , perms, full blown make up, on the stage and in real life.😢
It's like when you see those children in beauty pageants.
Don't complain that times are tough and can't afford things when you spend your money on stuff like this. They don't need lashes and wigs. They need food, stuffed animals to cuddle for comfort, coloring books, art supplies, math flashcards, and blankets.
This is insanity 🤦🏼♀️
These kids will have hair growth issues and hate their natural hair growing up. They won't know how to take care of it
I had issues once i stopped listening, and at 47, im still told to wear wigs or relax my hair. Im type 4 and learning to love my natural hair.
Is your hair natural in your photo?
(cos you look beautiful)
Shame on these parents for doing that to their children
Wow. As an adult it’s hard being a woman, but literally pushing your small child to grow up faster?! Seriously?! Not to mention the over sexualization of their baby.
To be fair, people have been doing this for years with beauty pageants and some people are so desensitized to it but it's always upset me
Toddlers and Tiaras is basically what I'm referencing btw
Right
Even toddlers? At this point we’re just doing to much!
No words 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
the woman asking "what are we supposed to do?" as her daughter is freaking out about the hot water... then mom proceeds to discuss her own scalp burn from hot water... then she goes back to "what are we supposed to do"...? i can't right now. it's like she can't imagine a world in which she can appreciate the natural "beautiful results" in her daughter.
A child shouldn’t get a perm until about 14-16 years of age
At 5:30 That baby has a red mark on her nose at the end and it wasn't there before Looks like a burn
Teaching nonsense so down the road when there much older they go on ebt and section 8 if not already pregnant!! We can afford nonsense though!!
Nope! Child abuse, traumatized babies ffs
I didn't put my daughter in beauty pageants because the standards weren't for little girls. Lipstick not lip gloss, grown women hair, full face of makeup and fake teeth. I was horrified so I withdrew before anything began.
😵😵😵😵😵😵 Terrible. I used to get in trouble for putting colored lip gloss on! Weave, wigs, eyebrow arches for kids....is crazy!🥺
same. i remember having to put on colored lip gloss after i left the house, because mom would have wiped it off if she saw me leaving like that, and that was in my early to mid teens.
They could spend their time doing the kids actual hair instead of this fake shit. We need emotional tests as a requirement for parents
Damn what happened to barrettes and bo bos. 🤦🏾♀️ Getting them started early on low self-esteem.
It’s so messed up. I really hope this is rare or at least stops even sooner than quickly cos w t h 😞
As much as I wanted a daughter after four sons and as adorable as she would be this is too far
African proverb coming. "When you use your neighbor's mirror, when they ask for it back all that you are left with is the vision that they gave you." 😢
I'm 46, and the first time I got a perm was when I was 23, and the first time I got braids with weave is when I was 18. My mom wasn't having any of the things. Sunday was washed day she would press it out, braid it, or barrets and bows. That's it that's all
This is tragic!!
Child abuse. Plain and simple 😢
This is what the colonizers primed us for since the beginning of our oppression. This will only further destroy the beauty standard and self esteem of our community. Not only that but ruin our hair even more in the process with texturism running rampant. My people are beyond brainwashed. It’s embarrassing, self destructive and extremely disappointing.
You want to wonder why these girls are getting pregnant younger and younger, well, stop sexualizing them when they are babies. This is disgusting. Letb thrm be children. Let them make a mess, play outside, be kids. Putting makeup and revealing clothes as children should be a crime. These parents need to be charged with child endangerment.