The Desperate Wife: Impatience | Lust | Loss of Hope | Forfeiting the Promise

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  • @abriahserenity
    @abriahserenity  3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    God doesn’t take it away the promise, however the person can walk away. You can walk away from something and choose not to have it by actively choosing everything EXCEPT what the Lord wants or the opposite of what we claim to want. Forfeiting means “surrender” or “to lose or be deprived as a penalty for wrong doing”. You can be deprived because of your own self, God doesn’t have to do that. People miss out on what God is trying to give them all the time. God is not going to force you to be married to a specific person or force something on you if you truly do not want it.
    Even if you “say” you want it, doesn’t mean you do if your actions don’t reflect that. So if you forfeit something you are the one surrendering it, God is not taking it.
    You CAN forfeit your promise and choose not to accept something the Lord wants to give you.

  • @HebrewHoney777
    @HebrewHoney777 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I appreciate this open rebuke. This is God speaking to me.

  • @Sunshan3
    @Sunshan3 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This is actually a word for separated from their spouse but also single woman waiting for their kingdom spouse 🔥

    • @abriahserenity
      @abriahserenity  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Two for one special‼️

  • @sweetsunshinejoy
    @sweetsunshinejoy 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    this is confirmation for me. thank you! God bless you sister ♥️

  • @amberpalmer3708
    @amberpalmer3708 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Please pray for me, I moved when I shouldn’t have moved instead of waiting on God. I’m feeling so anxious and sad. I should’ve waited, but I didn’t and I’m left with what I’m left with. I’m praying to God I’m calling out so please help me sister

    • @mybrownsparklez
      @mybrownsparklez 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      It’s not all lost. Pray to god about it. Sometimes god is just revealing to you the areas that you need to work on.

    • @spiritualbeauty1075
      @spiritualbeauty1075 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I did the same, but pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and get back in the fight!!!! You got this sister, and God's got you!!!! Just confess what you did, repent, and ask for forgiveness....then forgive yourself!!! Now this time, go harder, stay in a posture of prayer, repentance, and gratefulness!!! Im rooting for you! LET'S GO!!!🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

    • @YaraLavreniuk
      @YaraLavreniuk 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Same for me, but God now i know for sure, i dotn need confirmations or be stubborn and run and do things on my own or trying to take the control, u are in control my God and nothing can stop what u planned for us. I believe it

  • @yvettecurtis617
    @yvettecurtis617 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen. Wait on the Lord and again I say wait.

  • @themakingsofmahogany1201
    @themakingsofmahogany1201 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow! This. I was definitely recently trying to let an old fling back in but this is very convicting. This is the second time I’ve heard a similar TH-cam message. Sheesh. I know I’m a wife but I’ve definitely been acting like a bird. 🐦 this was soooo necessary!

  • @taneyat6_33
    @taneyat6_33 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I agree with 90% of what you said. Huh forfeiting the promise? Thats the only issue I have with the message. We need to not be adding our own words. God is not going to take away the promise. It might get delayed and it could not happen due to death but its not because God took it back. As far as not making men an idol and falling in Love with God is awesome. I do feel like the word came from God just not the part about losing the promise.

    • @abriahserenity
      @abriahserenity  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@taneyat6_33 God doesn’t take it away, the person walks away. You can walk away from something and choose not to have it by actively choosing everything EXCEPT what the Lord wants or the opposite of what we claim to want. Forfeiting means “surrender” or “to lose or be deprived as a penalty for wrong doing”. You can be deprived because of your own self, God doesn’t have to do that. People miss out on what God is trying to give them all the time. God is not going to force you to be married to a specific person or force something on you if you truly do not want it.
      Even if you “say” you want it, doesn’t mean you do if your actions don’t reflect that. So if you forfeit something you are the one surrendering it, God is not taking it.

    • @brittneygibson3636
      @brittneygibson3636 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree sis! @taneyat6_33 Can’t forfeit the promise. God extends grace and mercy to us.

  • @CrystalJonesChannel
    @CrystalJonesChannel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Needed to hear this Thanks

  • @InfluenceHerWithBeeRenee
    @InfluenceHerWithBeeRenee 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow Good revelation to God be the glory.

  • @spiritualbeauty1075
    @spiritualbeauty1075 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Father God, for this warning!!! This was for me! And thank you my beautiful sister @abriah for letting God use you to straighten us out!!! I love how straight forward you are! God bless you sweet sister!❤

    • @abriahserenity
      @abriahserenity  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Awww hey how are you?

    • @spiritualbeauty1075
      @spiritualbeauty1075 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@abriahserenity I'm doing well! Trying to stay focused on God, and drown out the destractions...😄 ....sometimes it can be difficult by when I catch my mind wandering off, I just start praying. I pray all is well with you and your babies! Blessings and Love to you all!🙏🏽❤️🙌🏽

  • @luffystar5194
    @luffystar5194 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Definitely getting harsh and or contradictory stuff and discussions popping up on my timeline causing me to respond like i have a problem instead of it being seen as it is a response to an issue that is not mines; Definitely be careful and quiet this season for some theirs social engineering thought it mightve been a positive intended one but it seems like some videos are coming from a more negative or other source; Probably best I be quiet and not respond; Thought it mightve been something of interest of my person but probably just more social engineering from somewhere or someone trying to get in the way
    "Have to allow time for God to perfect things and do things right, persistence and patience some complaints and or misunderstandings can cause delays and living by faith and actions always leads to the best results and gives everyone time to become who they need to be; Definitely don't lose control and I don't cheat; Those can also cause delays and other problems. Good things take time and are always worth it; I don't fully understand it but it all sounds interesting; One can empathize i wonder why this popped up on my timeline :/"
    Was what I finally wrote when i could wrap my head around it didnt make much sense to the overall narrative. That is good advice for some that i wrote though

  • @LylaReid-i8q
    @LylaReid-i8q 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I was in agreement with your dream and it confirmed the betrayal that resonated with my marriage however, the wife(me) in the dream is not a description of whom I represent. No lusting, no begging, no desperation-only God and prayer. My issue would be that I could not accept that my husband is not the person he portrayed himself to be and that my 30 yr marriage was all an illusion. For the woman who does resonate with the one in your dream, you are giving great counsel for their situation. God bless you ❤

    • @abriahserenity
      @abriahserenity  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Definitely both parts give different lessons. Accepting that what we thought was real was an illusion is the hardest part that takes a long time for people to accept, it took me years to finally accept certain relationships were never what I thought they were. Even when I released them, I hadn’t fully accepted that it was all an illusion. I had to accept that a lot of people knew exactly what they were doing and acknowledge that an apart of me always knew it wasn’t that, I just didn’t want to believe it.

    • @LylaReid-i8q
      @LylaReid-i8q 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ⁠@@abriahserenitythank you for sharing your experience with these fake/evil people of the world. Because you are right, they
      DO know what they are doing. Accepting truth and not living in the illusion like they do is the hardest but should be the first in healing. It is necessary. God is helping with that. PRAISE THE LORD! ❤

  • @laneka456
    @laneka456 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jesus!!!
    Thank you!!!!!
    Amen! Amen! Amen!

  • @brittanyritenour4695
    @brittanyritenour4695 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Look I am tired of people saying my feelings don’t matter, my needs, and my desires are not important. I cannot be alone anymore. God never answers my prayers and I’m sorry I’m not the perfect Christian all these women are. God keeps his promises!
    That is one thing you are wrong about, yes we can sabotage it. God already knows what we will do before we do it. He already knows the mistakes we make, but he Never goes back on his promise, ever. So I’ll never ever believe anyone who says that. I’ve literally been alone my entire life and had one relationship. Yes I’m tired.
    I am allowed to be tired and I’m tired of people or myself making me feel guilty for what I feel or the things I need. God does not have someone for me. No prophetic word Ever spoken over me ever came to pass ever, but even in all my doubt I know for a fact God doesn’t come down on his promise. If he does he is no better then people who raised me. Whose love change like a the weather, and show a confusing version of love.
    I am tired of listening to these videos. Nothing I ever hear is for me and the ones that felt so accurate, I cried on, even those never came to pass. I had so many things spoken by Christian’s. None of them ever came to pass, throughout my life. It really makes me skeptical about prophetic people. These people have wrecked my belief in God because God doesn’t change his words and if they really heard from God then I’d come to pass.
    I don’t believe God has anyone for me at this point. The man I care about is permeantly damaged and there’s no healing that can bring it back. No prayer is ever answered. There’s no man in this world I love, I hardly find men attractive especially at 31, I’m not attracted to older men, I’m rare I know but I’m not. I rarely find men attractive. After this one, I know I’ll never find someone.

    • @rajwoods195
      @rajwoods195 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sis, you have to be careful what you say out of your mouth because you shall have whatever you say. Death in life are in the power of the tongue. Remember, God formed this world by speaking into it, and we have the same power. You need to align yourself with Gods will for your life. You can only have what you believe, Hebrews 11:1. God says without faith it is impossible to please him! We prolong our life because we still need to be molded the way God wants us, we have to die to the flesh, meaning out wants, desires, and understanding. God says to acknowledge him in all of our ways and he will direct us. What I’ve learned is, I have to marry and submit to God first! With all of those emotions you have, how can God bring it to pass? You will get there Sis! I’m waiting to, but seek God, concentrate and fast! I love you! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @brittanyritenour4695
      @brittanyritenour4695 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ I did believe! I believed for 31 years God had someone for me, now I gave up hope. I’ve done all the things you said. Anything God ever did for that was good was when I least expected it. I choose to believe God doesn’t change his promises like everyone speaks on here.

    • @brittanyritenour4695
      @brittanyritenour4695 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I know so many people who have good marriages who weren’t even devoted to God yet and God changed their lives around and still blessed it. I know so many of them. I’ve seen good marriages we thought , fall apart. Te amo

    • @rajwoods195
      @rajwoods195 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Sis, God can not lie! You have to position yourself for the promise. Keep in mind, it’s not about us. God gets the glory! Release control and surrender to Gods will. You are trying to do it in your own strength. It’s not suppose to make sense! God says his ways are past dinging out. You must die to your flesh. You can do it! Get out of the way and let God be God! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @brittanyritenour4695
      @brittanyritenour4695 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@rajwoods195 Okay! Thank you!!

  • @richellepeace4457
    @richellepeace4457 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wonder why God releases some from a marriage and some of us he makes stay with abusive narcs who are obsessed with domineering their wives even unto rape and violence? Only thing I can figure is its like who God will vindicate and some not, he has favorites.

    • @abriahserenity
      @abriahserenity  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@richellepeace4457 Look, I will never and have never promoted or prophesied that anyone stay in an abusive situation. The opposite actually. And the Lord doesn’t want anyone to stay in those situations, they stay because they choose to stay and prayed their way through. Not because the Lord wanted them to stay, if the abuser got delivered or there was a spirit causing it or even witchcraft, I still would encourage someone to pray for them but to get far far far away from them.

  • @brittanyritenour4695
    @brittanyritenour4695 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This video wasn’t helpful for me at all and it makes Christians sound like you have to be a 100 percent perfect

    • @abriahserenity
      @abriahserenity  5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If that’s what you got from that, I don’t know what to tell you.