If you liked this video, I recommend watching my last sailing trip: th-cam.com/video/Ns9d1AAwRis/w-d-xo.html Consider support as little as $2.50/month to help keep this channel going: patreon.com/sailingpivo 🙏😍
I would definitely love to read your book if you write 1. Bet it would be an amazing experience for both writer and reader. You are a natural storyteller x
@@SailingPivo in my 30’s my husband (at the time) and I were heavily into sailing. (We had 3 sailboats during our 12 year marriage (loved it). I’m 69 now. Things (life) has really slowed down since my husband is a lot older (90) than me. We hike every morning with our cattle dog (we haven’t missed a day in our 22 yrs). If I camp(I have to do it alone) since my hubby can’t really crawl around in a tent. We could get an RV but haven’t. Since this is my last year in my 60’s , I want to make it a great year- push myself to do more. But it’s not easy to leave my comfort zone.
@@rrichardson53 I love that you’ve set that goal for yourself. Start small I think. Push yourself a little, and build up trust in your resourcefulness. And let me know what you do as the year progresses!!!!! 😁😁😁
I appreciate your drive, determination, and overall genuine-ness. I really feel all of this self care and self confidence building. It's something I've been struggling to do in my own life so it's encouraging to see you figuring it out, and I'm glad your sharing your journey with us. Keep it up, you've got this 💯
Felt like I was camping with you and along on your journey of defining your mission :) love ya DK! P.S the video editing is amazing and you’re gonna crush all your adventures ❤
Hi Daniella! Love your content, you could definitely turn your long videos into two! I think your views will stay the same but will also give you twice as many chances with thumbnails and titles to get a video to go viral to help build the channel. Anyway, I'll be here supporting and watching throughout 2023.
Heya Tommy, You caught me just as I was online. Firstly, thank you for the encouraging words! I do have a plan to put out weekly videos now, and I think the focus will help heaps to help me grow. BUT, TH-cam is saying they will be pushing the longer videos now as they are trying to convert to a Netflix-like platform. Also, I make more money off longer videos!!! Idunno… weirdly, I think a change in scarcity to abundance mindset I’ve had lately is going to change everything, but we’ll see. 🤷♀️💜💪
It’s super cool that you are sharing this very important time in your life. Life handed you a major shift that made you have to change all of the plans that you had for a new way of life that made sense for you. You are taking what you have and pivoting to something else sustainable from where you have had to pick up the pieces of your shared dreams with Connor and finding your path for doing it all on your own. I first thought that I would in-sub because I wanted to see videos about sailing and living life on a boat, but I opened my mind to being open to your process through all of it. Thank you for sharing it. Do you see Connor in your long plans? I was wondering if you could share the program that you are doing, or share a little more about it so that we can also pivot with you. I need to find me again which is probably as dangerous as living on the sea, but I have to if I do want to survive. Again, thanks for sharing your life with us. I am so grateful.
Firstly Lilly, I would like to thank you for your kindness in this comment. It is very thoughtful, thank you. And sailing will always be the focus!!! I think what's interesting about this journey is the sometimes hateful or mean comments which are angry that I am doing something alone without him. But for us, that was the basis of our relationship. It was only in the last 6 years Id say that we became enmeshed. But I used to go camping with my girlfriends, long hikes alone all the time. YES, we need to have common interests and shared hobbies ALSO, but that does not mean the alone time should be dismissed. IN FACT, that becomes toxic codependency. The course I am taking is through @DrMorganCoaching. Her structure is legit, though I'd say her video quality could be higher. start with her free podcast I'd say. It's a bit hard to get into at first, but really valuable information!!! I sure hope Conor and I are in each other's lives long term. Commitment is one of my core values. 💜💜💜
That looked like a Portuguese Man of War. VERY dangerous sea creature. Hey, a goal is a goal, no matter what it is. My goal this year is to complete a pair of knitted socks, and learning double unders jumping rope.
It’s definitely a man o war, but not sure what type. Yah… they kill dogs all the time, sadly. The tentacles thing is super interesting. Just learned that!
I love love these vlogs so much better than the written ones, you seem sooo much happier, look one thing how is Conor doing I know this is your channel but like alot I got into watching when all the stuff went down, we know he doesn't want to be on here but as a caring Aussie soul lol I wondered what's the latest, I love being alone it's therapeutic you can sort out your thoughts, make positive plans, reflect on the ups and downs and how far we all have come, and you my friend have weathered the storm and are now riding the rainbow of life, it's easy to forget you were the partner who went thru this too, your a treasure keep being you , don't worry about utube too much just post and we will follow love from Sydney 🌺🐨🦘p.s pop over here some day or try get in to the Sydney to Hobart yacht race this year you'd love it x
Heya Sandy, firstly, thank you for your kind words. This episode was interesting to edit because one strategy I am trying lately is modeling. Basically, the recommendation is go to your favourite big creators, pick an episode of theirs that is similar tot he topic you want, analyse their style, and use it as a model. I learned so much about editing and story telling in the process, and I am so pleased with this how this came out. I felt I was able to capture the spirit of what I wanted to say AND also show a bit more of my personality. Conor is good, but unfortunately asks me not to provide updates as he wants his privacy. 💜 I’m hoping to visit a friend in the blue mountains this year. I’ll definitely post on the community tab if I’m headed to Sydney, and would love to meet you and go for a sail. 😁🤝💜 I hope you’ve had a lovely weekend!!
@@SailingPivo aw thanks for your reply, pls just let Conor know he's always thought of and never forgotten , and that your adventures shows the strength you give to him and others 🥰
So are you and your husband separated or separating? I recall a video wherein you said (I think) that Conner gave you one year to grow your channel or return to work. I noticed he’s no longer in the channel name as well. I’d love a video about his recovery and how you’re both adjusting
Have a think if that would be a normal, respectful question to ask an acquaintance? Wouldn't you wait for them to tell you if they were ready? I'm still a human on the other side of this computer, and despite sharing a lot of my life online, I still have a right to privacy. Conor has also said he no longer wants to be on this channel and has asked for his privacy in this video: th-cam.com/video/NyNJz5pwmcQ/w-d-xo.html
Danielle, two things. 1) I think that you inherited this tendency to want to pee. I don't know that it is all anxiety. 2) I think that you would be good at teaching in a make a youTube video course. You seem to break down your points or bullets rather well and I think that it would translate to a good teacher for this video course. As you may or may not know, I have done a lot of coursework via video and if you want me to review it, I can do so.
Heya Gavin, Sweet! Good to hear. As to your inquiry with Pivo. Currently she is hiding under the bed next to me, but I didn’t include her in this video because I was dog sitting another dog too… and filming near them both was impossible! Pivo alone woulda been great but the two of them together would have led to a broken camera. I had to film this episode after handing the puppers over to friends!
Hey Daniel, growing up in a big family. You would think that you would always feel that you were never alone, and I came to realize that’s not the way it was no matter how many of my family and brothers and sisters were around. I always felt alone because I had ideas and dreams that I wanted to fulfill for myself but to find out nobody in my family believed in my ideas the way I did and what I wanted to do with my life I came to realize I was never more alone in my life not having anyone to believe in me and what I wanted to do I definitely knew flying would be part of my life and I love to ride motorcycles and hang glide all things, my family thought was stupid and would not amount to anything for me knowing all that I started my journey. Anyway, I wanted to fly and rode motorcycle since I was little even raced motocross hang gliding, was just something I did for fun that was for me but still all my family could say was you’re going to kill yourself one day but I figured what a way to go doing something I loved I know you came from a big family to mine was just a little bigger. There was 15 of us in all that was just brothers and sisters but when everything was said and done, I realized I didn’t do this for anybody else. It was for me it was what I needed. I feel accomplished, and then I finally accomplished in my mind what, was my goal for my life, enough rambling, but I just wanted you to know that I know how you feel even in a room full of people you can still feel alone, but when it’s all done and over, believing in yourself is still the only thing that matters good luck, kid and everything you do the sky is the limit
I didn't realise you had such a big family, John! Wow! Thanks so much for sharing your story! I don't know if your adventuring days are up just yet though!
@@SailingPivo as long as I’m breathing, every day will be an adventure maybe not as exciting as when I was younger, but just as much appreciated by the way, I do have an extra guitar. If you ever get this way again, you can have it.
@@SailingPivo hey Danielle, I just thought of something there’s this awesome TH-camr named Lauren Bateman she gives guitar lessons for free online on TH-cam. She teaches chords, strumming everything you need to know to play songs might want to check her out she’s really good she makes guitar easy.
If you liked this video, I recommend watching my last sailing trip: th-cam.com/video/Ns9d1AAwRis/w-d-xo.html
Consider support as little as $2.50/month to help keep this channel going: patreon.com/sailingpivo 🙏😍
I would definitely love to read your book if you write 1. Bet it would be an amazing experience for both writer and reader. You are a natural storyteller x
Daww. Thank you. Such kind words from you always! Thank you so much. I hope you’re having a fabulous weekend!!! 💜💜💜
Love ❤️ love love this video!!!
Awww. Thank you! I’m so glad you enjoyed it. Something you already do or need to do more of? Thank you for your kindness. 💜💜💜
@@SailingPivo in my 30’s my husband (at the time) and I were heavily into sailing. (We had 3 sailboats during our 12 year marriage (loved it). I’m 69 now. Things (life) has really slowed down since my husband is a lot older (90) than me. We hike every morning with our cattle dog (we haven’t missed a day in our 22 yrs). If I camp(I have to do it alone) since my hubby can’t really crawl around in a tent. We could get an RV but haven’t. Since this is my last year in my 60’s , I want to make it a great year- push myself to do more. But it’s not easy to leave my comfort zone.
@@rrichardson53 I love that you’ve set that goal for yourself. Start small I think. Push yourself a little, and build up trust in your resourcefulness. And let me know what you do as the year progresses!!!!! 😁😁😁
I believe in dreams ❤
Dawww. That’s awesome! Belief is step #1 to an awesome life!!! 💜💜💜
@@SailingPivo it sure is ❤️❤️
I appreciate your drive, determination, and overall genuine-ness.
I really feel all of this self care and self confidence building. It's something I've been struggling to do in my own life so it's encouraging to see you figuring it out, and I'm glad your sharing your journey with us.
Keep it up, you've got this 💯
Awesome! Thank you Evan, and it’s so encouraging to hear you say that! 💜💜💜
Well said keep up the good work x x
@@sarablakemore1117 thank you!!! 🙏🙏💜💜
So excited for you! I love your way of story telling. I have no doubts that you will be successful in your new adventures!
Aawww, thanks Ziva! Really appreciate the kindness and encouragement! 🫶💜💪
I love being alone, and not lonely! Right on Daniella…🌷😎
Thank you Joyce! It’s so lovely this resonates with others. Definitely a part of me I am grateful to be claiming back. 💜💜💜
You're so kick ass. Keep it up lady. I believe in you too!!!!
Awww. Erika, thank you so much! I really appreciate the encouragement! I hope your weekend is going well!! 💜💜💜
Felt like I was camping with you and along on your journey of defining your mission :) love ya DK! P.S the video editing is amazing and you’re gonna crush all your adventures ❤
Dawww, thanks Angela! Love you right back, and thanks for the comment! It helps heaps!!! I'm gettin' there....slowly but surely!!!!
Have a very Blessed and Joyous New Year ❤
Thank you so much Susan! Right back at ya!!!
1 more thing. Hope you have a healthy and happy New Year.x
And right back at ya!!!! 💜🫶
thanks gorl, I needed the laugh
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Hi Daniella! Love your content, you could definitely turn your long videos into two! I think your views will stay the same but will also give you twice as many chances with thumbnails and titles to get a video to go viral to help build the channel. Anyway, I'll be here supporting and watching throughout 2023.
Heya Tommy,
You caught me just as I was online. Firstly, thank you for the encouraging words!
I do have a plan to put out weekly videos now, and I think the focus will help heaps to help me grow. BUT, TH-cam is saying they will be pushing the longer videos now as they are trying to convert to a Netflix-like platform. Also, I make more money off longer videos!!!
Idunno… weirdly, I think a change in scarcity to abundance mindset I’ve had lately is going to change everything, but we’ll see. 🤷♀️💜💪
It’s super cool that you are sharing this very important time in your life. Life handed you a major shift that made you have to change all of the plans that you had for a new way of life that made sense for you. You are taking what you have and pivoting to something else sustainable from where you have had to pick up the pieces of your shared dreams with Connor and finding your path for doing it all on your own. I first thought that I would in-sub because I wanted to see videos about sailing and living life on a boat, but I opened my mind to being open to your process through all of it. Thank you for sharing it. Do you see Connor in your long plans?
I was wondering if you could share the program that you are doing, or share a little more about it so that we can also pivot with you. I need to find me again which is probably as dangerous as living on the sea, but I have to if I do want to survive.
Again, thanks for sharing your life with us. I am so grateful.
Firstly Lilly, I would like to thank you for your kindness in this comment. It is very thoughtful, thank you. And sailing will always be the focus!!!
I think what's interesting about this journey is the sometimes hateful or mean comments which are angry that I am doing something alone without him. But for us, that was the basis of our relationship. It was only in the last 6 years Id say that we became enmeshed. But I used to go camping with my girlfriends, long hikes alone all the time. YES, we need to have common interests and shared hobbies ALSO, but that does not mean the alone time should be dismissed. IN FACT, that becomes toxic codependency. The course I am taking is through @DrMorganCoaching. Her structure is legit, though I'd say her video quality could be higher. start with her free podcast I'd say. It's a bit hard to get into at first, but really valuable information!!!
I sure hope Conor and I are in each other's lives long term. Commitment is one of my core values. 💜💜💜
I think that was an amazing idea ! I love going to the mountains and walking for hours you NEED TO WRITE A BOOK ❤️❤️❤️
I have like a million diaries from since I was 12 and it’s been on my mind, but I don’t know if I want to write sad stories anymore!!!
Good idea now it’s a memory and let new in and days continue and be safe I hope someday I get to meet you ❤
@@jacks316 me too! We probably will. Paths seem to cross somehow. 🫶🤝
Agreed ! Keep it real and be safe doing it ❤️❤️🥰
That looked like a Portuguese Man of War. VERY dangerous sea creature. Hey, a goal is a goal, no matter what it is. My goal this year is to complete a pair of knitted socks, and learning double unders jumping rope.
It’s definitely a man o war, but not sure what type. Yah… they kill dogs all the time, sadly. The tentacles thing is super interesting. Just learned that!
I love love these vlogs so much better than the written ones, you seem sooo much happier, look one thing how is Conor doing I know this is your channel but like alot I got into watching when all the stuff went down, we know he doesn't want to be on here but as a caring Aussie soul lol I wondered what's the latest, I love being alone it's therapeutic you can sort out your thoughts, make positive plans, reflect on the ups and downs and how far we all have come, and you my friend have weathered the storm and are now riding the rainbow of life, it's easy to forget you were the partner who went thru this too, your a treasure keep being you , don't worry about utube too much just post and we will follow love from Sydney 🌺🐨🦘p.s pop over here some day or try get in to the Sydney to Hobart yacht race this year you'd love it x
Heya Sandy, firstly, thank you for your kind words. This episode was interesting to edit because one strategy I am trying lately is modeling. Basically, the recommendation is go to your favourite big creators, pick an episode of theirs that is similar tot he topic you want, analyse their style, and use it as a model. I learned so much about editing and story telling in the process, and I am so pleased with this how this came out. I felt I was able to capture the spirit of what I wanted to say AND also show a bit more of my personality.
Conor is good, but unfortunately asks me not to provide updates as he wants his privacy. 💜
I’m hoping to visit a friend in the blue mountains this year. I’ll definitely post on the community tab if I’m headed to Sydney, and would love to meet you and go for a sail. 😁🤝💜
I hope you’ve had a lovely weekend!!
@@SailingPivo aw thanks for your reply, pls just let Conor know he's always thought of and never forgotten , and that your adventures shows the strength you give to him and others 🥰
Awww. That’s a lovely thing to say and I will be sure to pass it on. 🫶💪💜
Nah old age is going to be great! Bring on the cathedar and colostomy bags!
Haha, I can't remember what I said about old age, but yes...I actually love growing up!
So are you and your husband separated or separating? I recall a video wherein you said (I think) that Conner gave you one year to grow your channel or return to work. I noticed he’s no longer in the channel name as well. I’d love a video about his recovery and how you’re both adjusting
Have a think if that would be a normal, respectful question to ask an acquaintance? Wouldn't you wait for them to tell you if they were ready? I'm still a human on the other side of this computer, and despite sharing a lot of my life online, I still have a right to privacy. Conor has also said he no longer wants to be on this channel and has asked for his privacy in this video: th-cam.com/video/NyNJz5pwmcQ/w-d-xo.html
Does New Zealand ever have a summer?
Ha. I don’t know. It certainly is staying pretty cold right now!
Danielle, two things. 1) I think that you inherited this tendency to want to pee. I don't know that it is all anxiety. 2) I think that you would be good at teaching in a make a youTube video course. You seem to break down your points or bullets rather well and I think that it would translate to a good teacher for this video course. As you may or may not know, I have done a lot of coursework via video and if you want me to review it, I can do so.
Thanks for that, I appreciate the kind words. 💜💜💜
Hey, I’m all in on you camping alone. But, what’s happened to Pivo?
Heya Gavin,
Sweet! Good to hear.
As to your inquiry with Pivo. Currently she is hiding under the bed next to me, but I didn’t include her in this video because I was dog sitting another dog too… and filming near them both was impossible! Pivo alone woulda been great but the two of them together would have led to a broken camera. I had to film this episode after handing the puppers over to friends!
Hey Daniel, growing up in a big family. You would think that you would always feel that you were never alone, and I came to realize that’s not the way it was no matter how many of my family and brothers and sisters were around. I always felt alone because I had ideas and dreams that I wanted to fulfill for myself but to find out nobody in my family believed in my ideas the way I did and what I wanted to do with my life I came to realize I was never more alone in my life not having anyone to believe in me and what I wanted to do I definitely knew flying would be part of my life and I love to ride motorcycles and hang glide all things, my family thought was stupid and would not amount to anything for me knowing all that I started my journey. Anyway, I wanted to fly and rode motorcycle since I was little even raced motocross hang gliding, was just something I did for fun that was for me but still all my family could say was you’re going to kill yourself one day but I figured what a way to go doing something I loved I know you came from a big family to mine was just a little bigger. There was 15 of us in all that was just brothers and sisters but when everything was said and done, I realized I didn’t do this for anybody else. It was for me it was what I needed. I feel accomplished, and then I finally accomplished in my mind what, was my goal for my life, enough rambling, but I just wanted you to know that I know how you feel even in a room full of people you can still feel alone, but when it’s all done and over, believing in yourself is still the only thing that matters good luck, kid and everything you do the sky is the limit
I didn't realise you had such a big family, John! Wow! Thanks so much for sharing your story! I don't know if your adventuring days are up just yet though!
@@SailingPivo as long as I’m breathing, every day will be an adventure maybe not as exciting as when I was younger, but just as much appreciated by the way, I do have an extra guitar. If you ever get this way again, you can have it.
@@JohnSmith-zt7ci I actually have a guitar and ukulele here! Learn to play it and then we can duo!!
@@SailingPivo you got a kid
@@SailingPivo hey Danielle, I just thought of something there’s this awesome TH-camr named Lauren Bateman she gives guitar lessons for free online on TH-cam. She teaches chords, strumming everything you need to know to play songs might want to check her out she’s really good she makes guitar easy.