Gabe Deem Full Interview From Porn On The Brain

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  • @danronder3575
    @danronder3575 8 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Gabe is such a well rounded, cool and open dude. Props to him.

  • @christianhanson7009
    @christianhanson7009 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Thank God for a man like him

  • @jasonvoorheestheslumpgod
    @jasonvoorheestheslumpgod 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The people who make porn and or are affiliated with the pornography industry as well as people who are deeply addicted and don’t want to accept they have a problem and also people who are simply blind to the fact that porn is a damaging stimulus are the people who are saying you cannot be addicted, the science is there bruh.
    Porn is a trap.
    Props to you Gabe for such a good interview

  • @funkyshade
    @funkyshade 8 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Gabe you're awesome for still putting in work for the movement, spreading the word and such!

  • @tmitchell6552
    @tmitchell6552 8 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    30:10 "I had no drive to be a better man" I relate to that

  • @_sstyloideuss_
    @_sstyloideuss_ 9 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Thank you Gabe
    My life is changed thanks to you and Gary Wilson

  • @ДанилаНайденов-ц6и
    @ДанилаНайденов-ц6и 8 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Thank you a lot Gabe for your story and your project. I've been moving thru zero-libido flatline for almost 100 days of no PMO (you know that feeling, don't you? haha) and still don't see a light at the end of the tunnel. Only stories like yours give me some hope and support.

    • @therebootnation
      @therebootnation  8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      +Данила Найденов Yes, I know the feels my man.... just hang in there, and continue to pursue other healthy things in life, and spend time around real people and a potential partner, the reboot will take care of itself. Hope the best for you. And congrats on over 100 days! Keep truckin.

    • @jamesmasebe8230
      @jamesmasebe8230 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Данила Найденов i so wish i was on day 100. i am still to start! hang in there... we look up to you!

    • @amonraii7273
      @amonraii7273 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Daniel Naid How's it going now bro?

    • @vadim6921
      @vadim6921 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did you recover?

    • @richardrussell4065
      @richardrussell4065 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine was fucking 2 years.

  • @tmitchell6552
    @tmitchell6552 8 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Anyone who doesn't think that porn is addictive has obviously never become addicted. My porn addiction has got out of control , caused me P.I.E.D amongst other things and now I'm going hard mode on it. Great video

    • @melissas7821
      @melissas7821 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's a real pickle salad of neuronic BS to fathom but once it sinks in it's like WOW.....

  • @raphownsyou
    @raphownsyou 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    really appreciate your words man

  • @djcorner7747
    @djcorner7747 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What a brave, intelligent, eloquent young man. Keep up the good work bro!

  • @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa
    @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm not one for crying but damn, I never knew about this reboot stuff. I got into such rut with this the past few months in my early 20s too. Thank you so much for putting this out

  • @bradbowley7716
    @bradbowley7716 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I recently discovered that I was suffering from a porn addiction and it's crazy that it can come at any point... I've been listening to everything I could get my hands on about people situations and their stories, and it all Vibes the same.

  • @GillyBurrito
    @GillyBurrito 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This was very informative, and spoke very eloquently. Good job!

  • @xTruncz
    @xTruncz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    True man with heart

    • @fallenslave6684
      @fallenslave6684 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Simple Balance
      With fear of Lord Jesus

  • @amorfati1990
    @amorfati1990 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Proud of you Gabe. Greetingz from Germany!

  • @jefferyclayborn4227
    @jefferyclayborn4227 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Merry Christmas Gabe. Thanks for the gift of your testimony!

  • @thehealthbodyfitness
    @thehealthbodyfitness 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    yeah I'm 25 i stop porn yesterday LOL I learned a lot from this video I'm getting into Bodybuilding Gym CrossFit no more Flap no more porn Awesome Amazing video

  • @kizildere
    @kizildere 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    @Gabei you are a true inspiration man. It's so awesome of you to be so open about this subject. I am in the process of rebooting myself (almost finishing day 7). You and all others who share their stories give me hope. Cheers.

    • @therebootnation
      @therebootnation  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Basar Kizildere Thanks for taking the time for the kind words and feedback... Congrats on 7 days man! Stick around this channel and our forum if you need anything! Much Love and keep truckin.

    • @kizildere
      @kizildere 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Gabe. The problem is now I am getting addicted to all these rebooting videos :) The science behind this is amazing and thank you for taking the time to research and prepare all these informative videos, articles, etc. Best wishes!

    • @mohit5940
      @mohit5940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you ok how?

  • @Edis97
    @Edis97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great interview appreciate the guys honesty and the interviewer giving interesting and non-judgemental questions!

  • @toddbrdusek7571
    @toddbrdusek7571 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Its amazing that he recovered 9 months considering he was doing for ten yrs.

  • @marcjones2993
    @marcjones2993 8 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    It's more or less a drug addiction.

    • @therebootnation
      @therebootnation  8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      +Marc Jones Just for the record, one can masturbate without watching porn. The increase in young people with sexual dysfunctions with partners, is caused by internet porn, and not simply masturbation.

    • @marcjones2993
      @marcjones2993 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +The Reboot Nation Ya know, I've heard that some other more metaphysical stuff is going on there. That's it's not just the porn but the Mix of porn via this electromagnetic cum surveillance device.

    • @Floxxoror
      @Floxxoror 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Marc Jones What the......... WHAT?

    • @Floxxoror
      @Floxxoror 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Marc Jones I don't know what you are talking about. At least I don't get your point, but never mind.

    • @masterchief5437
      @masterchief5437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@therebootnation Your probably right, but masturbation doesn't help when it comes to quitting porn... at least with some people with the addiction

  • @jasonjones2733
    @jasonjones2733 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ur really honest nd good working for novel cause may god bless u

  • @perishwicky1030
    @perishwicky1030 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    nice interview really helped me

  • @josethegameplaya7775
    @josethegameplaya7775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for the very informative video!

  • @tranceformer9309
    @tranceformer9309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He's describing my problem, thank God I'm on my way to fixing it but it's not easy.

  • @187BURNZY
    @187BURNZY 9 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Why is it every porno mag a kid first finds is in some tree or bush , same shit happened to me and my friends as kids.

    • @CatnipEntertainment_
      @CatnipEntertainment_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +187BURNZY Same here lol

    • @progressorx7183
      @progressorx7183 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +productionrs same here dude that's weird as fuck

    • @mangoman7042
      @mangoman7042 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +187BURNZY same i was like 9 or 10

    • @omnigon4
      @omnigon4 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +187BURNZY it was the government

    • @Japanese_one_Tokyo
      @Japanese_one_Tokyo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The devil

  • @Krysen07
    @Krysen07 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for the amazing video! Its really helping me keep motivated knowing I'm not alone. I've been dealing with a lot of stress lately and have problems with being Lethargic, or unbelievably angry most of the time. Its been about 3 months since I've watched porn, and started when I was about 10. I'm 21 now and have been slowly losing my lobido for the past 2 years. Never realizing that I was destroying my actual sexual life until I heard about Gary Wilsons videos

    • @therebootnation
      @therebootnation  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Mark Knoble Well glad you found the videos, Gary's work is my most recommended material for recovery. Thanks for watching the vid and the feedback, you're certainly not alone! Hope the best for you.

    • @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa
      @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +The Reboot Nation Great video. Can I get some help please?
      I feel like I've virtually broken my penis, I cannot get hard when with even the hottest girls. Despite being having an athletic body (I train most days), being early 20s and dieting reasonably well, I cannot get or stay hard .. Its getting me very depressed as, because I am on my university's sports teams, girls often want to hook up. But I can't. This has already lost me a girlfriend and now its affecting my mental health.
      Please advise, I am NOT addicted to porn but masturbate once daily. Its often just before bed when I am tired and so I finish as quickly as possible and, sometimes, when half erect. I know this is an unhealthy habit but I'm not sure what is the best way to fix it.
      I can't talk to anyone about this for fear of embarrassment/shame. This shouldn't happen at this age and I can only imagine that its going to cause me problems if I don't fix it. I simply cannot be intimate with a girl let alone have a girlfriend.
      Thank you so much for reading this comment.

    • @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa
      @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Reboot Nation Honestly, thank you for replying. I watch it sometimes, other times I used the imagery of girls I've almost or half fucked (as pathetic as that sounds). I will go to the doctor, he said to abstain from drink, drugs but that advice is redundant because I don't do them anyway.
      My penis doesn't work fine when masturbating without porn but I can last longer and the erection is slightly fuller (not as full as it used to be).
      I'm not familiar with the porn induced ED test, could you explain or provide a source? Thank you so much

    • @therebootnation
      @therebootnation  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      The account The PIED test is real simple (I'm making a video on it soon) but all you do is compare your erection with and without porn masturbating. If your erection is better with porn you likely have porn-induced ED. It rules out organic problems because simply turning on porn doesn't make organic problems disappear, and if you can't masturbate without porn it rules performance anxiety because no one is nervous about pleasing their own hand.

    • @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa
      @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Reboot Nation I see, thanks. I will try this and also wait for the video. Otherwise, I've not looked at porn for a few days now and hopefully never again.
      I've just got 2 more questions please: (1) How does it take to get better, more fuller erections etc after that abstain from masturbation and porn? Part of the problem is that I feel so disinterested in having sex, even with stunning girls. It's embarrassing as they'll ask if you don't find them attractive and even if your gay. Right now, it feels like this won't change..
      (2) At the risk of sounding ridiculous, will your penis shrink if you abstain from masturbation or haven't had a full erection for a long time? I've seen some advice saying this but it could be bullshit.
      Thank you for your replies, this really could be the beginning of a changed life for me. Peace

  • @plc24_max10
    @plc24_max10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Technology is changing how we live, however online HD porn, variety, and its availability all over the places is a major and ugly issue with a destructive impact on everyone with addictive personality. this can start at any age no matter what so ever, wasting your valuable time and energy or simply ruin your life. thanks for your informative videos Gabe.

  • @vegan_skye
    @vegan_skye 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Legend!!!!!!!

  • @dickout123
    @dickout123 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Do not test guys, that is only a disguise for the underlying addiction. Keep going.

  • @Mooniscool-w8g
    @Mooniscool-w8g 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very informative video
    Thank you for uploading

  • @yaryyary2327
    @yaryyary2327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He is brave porn is destroyed my life

  • @yaryyary2327
    @yaryyary2327 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am 20 started today if you saw my comment after 1 year ask me how it feels when you recover

  • @sebastianpoblete381
    @sebastianpoblete381 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Chris benoit has been reborn

  • @katiesmith8501
    @katiesmith8501 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for saying that porn is NOT sex positive. I throw up in my own mouth whenever "progressives" and "feminists" who out to know better say that crap about "empowerment" and "sex positivity."

    • @katiesmith8501
      @katiesmith8501 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes and no. Their fathers did allow porn to take hold in ways it should not have. On the other hand, their fathers had no idea what would be next. As damaging as the porn of their fathers was, I don't think they had any idea where porn would end up. If you said to young men's fathers that porn was dangerous, they'd be thinking what they grew up with...Playboy 30-40 years ago which WAS misogynist and damaging...but they'd laugh at the idea that this was extremely harmful to their SONS as well as their daughters. They don't understand the world their children live in. They can't even imagine things like rosebud porn or gagging. With the static image porn their fathers grew up with, there was still SOME need for imagination and the development of one's own ideas about sex. Okay, it's a naked woman sprawled out on a Harley Davidson, but how did she get there? Why is she there? What would you say to her? What would you two do together? There were all things that men and boys still had to come up with. Today's porn has taken away all imagination. There is an incredibly limited script now, but the endings are all the same...it's all complete degradation, debasement, and harm to woman and men are PLEASED to see it and do it.
      I think if most fathers had any idea what their sons were watching, they'd step up a bit.....or maybe they wouldn't and I'm giving men too much credit, lol!

  • @charliewildfire9354
    @charliewildfire9354 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Porn addiction is real . Ive got PIED I'm in my 30s divorced and a porn addict .

    • @SuperMaxxxey
      @SuperMaxxxey 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      go hardcore noFap bro u'll get cured..

  • @yangyu4489
    @yangyu4489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    damn this guys an absolute legend. dudes probably flogging the ladies left and right now LOL

  • @Baneheart666
    @Baneheart666 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What you described at 16:45 so far simply describes me "asexual zombie" ahahaha

  • @OVI-Wan-Kenobi-8
    @OVI-Wan-Kenobi-8 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    High speed internet porn ??? Pfffft.
    Back in the 80`s I actually had to do real work to get my porn! lol

  •  8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    4 thumbs down. That says it all.

  • @toddbedusek6263
    @toddbedusek6263 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm freaking out , don't feel like leaving the house ,it's winter 2019,almost Superbowl and Valentine's day ...

    • @EvilPhoenix007
      @EvilPhoenix007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you improved for the past two years?

  • @alfonsobernabe4291
    @alfonsobernabe4291 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have extreme anxiety and suicidal thoughts I feel scared and think about all the bad in my life and keep dwelling on it

    • @alfonsobernabe4291
      @alfonsobernabe4291 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      only 8 days in

    • @therebootnation
      @therebootnation  8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Alfonso Bernabe Watch the video on our channel about withdrawal symptoms. Learn from the past and take one step at a time towards a life you want. If you keep taking 2 steps forward and one step back, over time you will be miles ahead of where you started. Hope the best for you. If you need a community post on our forum! You're not alone, and your situation is very common.

    • @alfonsobernabe4291
      @alfonsobernabe4291 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +The Reboot Nation I think I will create an account on the forum I really need it man I am extemley depressed and it's not so much of me quitting from ed but me wanting to quit because of the affect it has had on my life I first watched it when I was 5 started really watching it at age 12 and I have just quit about a month ago going strong just extreemly depressed and feeling sad and lonely inside I start to think about things that don't matter and I get restless and anxious thank you man everything you have told me has helped me and every time I watch Ur video it gives me hope

    • @alfonsobernabe4291
      @alfonsobernabe4291 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Alfonso Bernabe I am 20 and I glanced at enough to look for a couple minutes at some porn my friend was watching should I start clean again ?

    • @therebootnation
      @therebootnation  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alfonso Bernabe Don't worry so much about "starting over" and crap when you see a pic or a video. Just keep taking small steps towards recovery, and avoid ALL artificial sexual stimulation. Sure you can reset your counter, but recovery started when recovery started, it doesn't start over every time you see porn. Read this page for more: www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?topic=58.0
      Hope the best for you!

  • @chrisramos9852
    @chrisramos9852 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I blame my parents for not actively protecting me from that shit let that be a lesson to you young mothers and fathers out there

    • @nahidawani7158
      @nahidawani7158 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can relate. I sometimes think my mother got me into it, by watching rape scenes and dirty scenes on tv and movies with me sitting beside her.

  • @johndee759
    @johndee759 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do porn stars think about the NoFap movement? I understand that pornography is just like any another job, a means to make money. Any habit that becomes an addiction is destructive. I think that pornography needs to be recognized to have the same addiction potential like drugs such as alcohol, tobacco, marijuana and gambling. Pornography needs to be regulated in such a way that access is made more difficult. There has to be a way that whoever wants to watch it, this person has to pay for the viewing. In the end, the porn industry can earn their money and the viewer understands that they have bought a service.

  • @simonArmenia1
    @simonArmenia1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Important stuff

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He was born in 1987

  • @Hamzazaie
    @Hamzazaie 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't underestimate the wisdom of the elders. If porn addiction makes you unable to see your potential as a virile man, if you're unable to see how it destroys your sexual psychology, if you're unable to see women for the beautiful and sexy beings that they are instead of endless pixelated pleasure, then porn really does make you BLIND.

  • @bemisillo
    @bemisillo 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Gabe. Love your work. I've built up a pretty good streak recently but been cheating by looking at porn and not masturbating. Will this still cause PIED? I feel this is contributing significantly to me remaining in the flatline for an extended period of time. Thank you for everything you do.

    • @therebootnation
      @therebootnation  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +An Archon Porn is the problem if you have PIED. It is porn-induced, not masturbation-induced, so yes, looking at porn while not masturbating can still cause PIED. It is wiring your arousal to pixels. Masturbation and orgasm are not necessary to develop PIED. Keep try truckin and hope the best for you! Thanks for the kind words, Much Love.

  • @shortislife6627
    @shortislife6627 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What about a M without P ? For long streak (100days+) is it healthy when guys not fap ? How long should they rest ?

    • @paulhunton2156
      @paulhunton2156 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NoFap always seemed a little extreme to me

  • @herrypotter9167
    @herrypotter9167 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gabe has a book about that or much more advice from a detailed story?

  • @SupersetTed
    @SupersetTed 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    fuck yeah... just subdcribed

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    How did you pull this off in 9 months , since hs, college , etc , I'm freaking out stubborn flat line ,tried all kinds if supplemnts etc .. I'm currently I wellbutrin and taking something called noopept , and I bought the Fisher Wallace device ..

  • @elguardianero
    @elguardianero 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi guys, many people talk about ED for watching porn, but I cant find anyone talking about premature ejaculation, I've known porn can cause this also. So, all these testimonies say about recovering from ED industed by porn, but I want to listen if some guy has experimented recovery of premature ejaculation... The reebotcures both? I need to find some information about it. Thanks guys. Men dont know how deep is rhis problem and thank y'all for your brave testimonies, is suc a wonderful help and hope for others. Blessings!

  • @tyrdunbar
    @tyrdunbar 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It took him damn near a year😭 i dont think i cant hold off that long. I watched porn 10 minutes ago

    • @therebootnation
      @therebootnation  6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      10 minutes after I last watched porn I would have thought the same thing. You got this

  • @Ash99Ob
    @Ash99Ob 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The music and laugh at the end is FUCKED UP

    • @therebootnation
      @therebootnation  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      what you talkin bout? The little sound effect outro? If that's what you're talking about, that's not a laugh.. just a sound effect.

  • @FuturisticPriest
    @FuturisticPriest 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yay

  • @toddbrdusek7571
    @toddbrdusek7571 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My back is killing me from the death grip

  • @KingFishVlogs
    @KingFishVlogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's real

  • @MrPixmoable
    @MrPixmoable 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would like some statistics regarding how many % of ppl watching porn this affects!

  • @chrisrox62
    @chrisrox62 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    lol just like my story

  • @falaahblackwell1535
    @falaahblackwell1535 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I see all the dislikes🤔 Who would dislike this but a porn producer

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dr oz show never mentioned the withdrawal. ..systems

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel broken ..

  • @pavel6073
    @pavel6073 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    For me it's mastubation, not porn. Porn stimulates you to masturbate, but isn't it the masturbation which causes the harm? Would it be harmful if one watched porn without masturbating? An interesting topic for a study.
    Moreover, one can easily jerk off to imagination. And this habit might be quite harmful. If people stopped watching porn it doesn't mean they'd certainly get rid of masturbation addiction.
    On the other hand, are masturbation addiction and porn addiction the same things? As an addict of the former, I can say that for me it's simply like a kind of drug I take to feel good and relieve depression. I tried smoking and it got me rid of fap addiction, partly because it suppressed arousal but partly because it relieved stress, just like fap. As I stopped smoking it all returned. The addiction to porn itself is something different in nature, I suppose, though I can totally relate to the stuff said about becoming apathetic to things in the outside world because of the addiction.

  • @saishbhise8794
    @saishbhise8794 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    11:44 ^receptors

  • @toddbedusek4137
    @toddbedusek4137 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not just a young person issue trust me

  • @EveryoneHarmonyPeace
    @EveryoneHarmonyPeace 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    How many days has this guy NoFap?

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lost my girl Sept 2017

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A decade and he recovered in 9 months , wrong .. I'm 46 ..

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm having a very stubborn flztline

  • @peterock7502
    @peterock7502 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    when ur on the reboot can u still look at girls etc

    • @therebootnation
      @therebootnation  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Pete Rock Yes. Just avoid seeking and searching for pics/video, especially for sexual stimulation, on a screen.

  • @benno8699
    @benno8699 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm 14 I am addicted, not that bad tho I watch maybe like every 5 days. However I have crazy drive for everything, however I hate watching it. I stopped for 6 months but started again and the last time it was just videos on Instagram, which there was some hardcore stuff on there, it was as easy as deleting Instagram, but now I started watching on Google. I don't know how to tackle this one yet but yeah. And just for the record if there are any parents wondering if there kids are addicted to porn 9/10 if they are male they are. Probably almost every guy in my grade watches it.

  • @muscleking984
    @muscleking984 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need help, what can I do to stop it?

    • @JuliusCaesar108
      @JuliusCaesar108 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +GoneVegan I've done counseling and also have sought an accountability partner. There is no magic bullet, but there are tools to help you to stop.

    • @johndee759
      @johndee759 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out. I am glad that you ask for help. If you are college student you may go to a college psychologist. In school you can also find a psychologist. This is a good first step.

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    My ex would get mad me on the phone bc she had to repeat things bc of my memory and other things .. I lost her and I'm convinced, if though she claims it didn't matter but I'm sure it was part of it .we broke up a year ago . And she probably went for some one else with more ambition and motavataion and a working pec Ker, the thought of her with someone else sucks. I'm 46 i got nothing ..

    • @mig2cool982
      @mig2cool982 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don’t you say that. There’s people out there who really have nothing. Be grateful for what you have vs what you don’t have and only then things will get better for you. Quit smoking get on nofap. Quit video games. Limit Tv. Meditate. Lift weights. You’ll be fine.

    • @susanwjoh0re735
      @susanwjoh0re735 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She did you a favor. Forget about her and focus in yourself

  • @toddbrdusek7571
    @toddbrdusek7571 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Feeling suicidal its 2017 I'm freaking

    • @nofacevisuals4382
      @nofacevisuals4382 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Todd Brdusek Jesus christ can take away all your pain and problems as long as you surrender unto him.

    • @toddbedusek6263
      @toddbedusek6263 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      2020 I got nothing

    • @fefe2222
      @fefe2222 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@toddbedusek6263 Hey man. How are you doing now?

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is weight gain part of this

  • @agilesg9872
    @agilesg9872 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    iWonder how Ted Bundy got into it as deep as he did, back in his days.

    • @TheOnePath570
      @TheOnePath570 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      i feel like ted bunny used it partly as a scapegoat, porn wouldn't make you do the things he did, there was much more beyond his addiction that drove him to the disgusting acts he carried out. but i will say, i definitely believe him in that his addiction played a part. but hey, most of the men addicted to porn aren't going around raping and killing women!

    • @agilesg9872
      @agilesg9872 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      scapegoat or not, how would we ever know? :) if he didn't share enough about it during his last interview, well then, he took that with him. He did mention though about men he met in jail, who committed violent crimes, and fbi studies on serial homicide - that the most common interest among serial killers is porn.
      I’m with you about most porn addicts are not being ted bundies today. Perhaps not so much so, on that level of extreme. Today it is a bit on a scale. “Ted bundies” today don’t have time to reach a portfolio as the real Bundy did, because they are back to searching and clicking and tugging in the comfort of their homes to todays 100 billion industry; while back in 1970’s it was just all getting started shall we say? (and there was no online porn)
      whiteribbon.org.au/white-ribbon-importance this links I’ve noticed some posting on Instagram about - one woman killed every week as a result of intimate partner violence. If we know porn industry today is 100 billion dollars, so then, isn’t it easy to see on what scale it dominates and contributes today? Ted bundies everywhere, only scattered.

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Video games

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rubber band tesicals ..

  • @jagero78
    @jagero78 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    loodiha nengg tawwhanaa

  • @donnieharvey9094
    @donnieharvey9094 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn 8?? Lool

  • @majidalavi3368
    @majidalavi3368 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This person clearly didnt watched live cams.LOL but seriously porn is bad. It saves one to be vulnerable and avoid rejection of a real woman though.

  • @barberjourney3698
    @barberjourney3698 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a tan an I was porn addicted

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Weight gain ..

  • @toddbedusek2780
    @toddbedusek2780 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    2013 Dr oz show .. it's 2018 I got nothing ..

  • @toddbedusek6263
    @toddbedusek6263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm freaking out it's 2019, I got nothing . lethargic no motivation for anything,no energy .back pain frequent urination, flAtline,pavols dog theory,Gary said some guys never recover .weight gain etc ...

  • @nathanfitch5726
    @nathanfitch5726 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Whenever I want to watch porn, I watch a reboot vid instrad

  • @testsubject0099
    @testsubject0099 9 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Great vid. It's nice that you're spreading awareness. I believe that alot of guys are still unaware of this sad addiction. Good thing guys like you and some scientists are serious about researching and spreading awareness of PMO addiction.

  • @jpej173
    @jpej173 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The man is a legend. Back then there was very little information about porn and he managed to succeed without even relapsing..
    People like me nowadays have everything laid down in front of them because of the successes of pioneers like him.
    Puts people like me who relapse constantly even with all this information in shame. Its good news to the whole world to have someone like you on the internet Gabe. Thank you.

    • @jpej173
      @jpej173 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      By the way day 25 no pmo ;) 0 urges to watch porn, made a huge difference contributing to his forum, rebootnation

    • @bulletdugdugdug1385
      @bulletdugdugdug1385 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nick Johnson close to 10 months ☺

    • @jpej173
      @jpej173 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ROYAL ENFIELD LOVER congratulations man I cant wait to reply at my 10 month anniversary.

    • @bulletdugdugdug1385
      @bulletdugdugdug1385 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nick Johnson sure man mine case is worse then gabe😥😥

    • @bismajoyosumarto1237
      @bismajoyosumarto1237 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jpej173
      Yo, it's been two years, how's it been?

  • @janifaferguson
    @janifaferguson 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Brave. Essential narrative for this time. Truth-Talker. Brother in arms.

  • @samcuthbert1266
    @samcuthbert1266 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'd like to have a beer with this guy lol

  • @cryptoanalyst5058
    @cryptoanalyst5058 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    You look great, Gabe! you're an inspiration to us all.

  • @felicianothorpe8998
    @felicianothorpe8998 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is good bro.Thanks for sharing your story

  • @haronwaqar4781
    @haronwaqar4781 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks Gabe for sharing your story. Appreciate alot.

  • @chelleweatherspoon2226
    @chelleweatherspoon2226 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing. This is a problem when porn influences young minds and forms unhealthy behaviors and attitudes about sex that effects us as adults in so many ways. It's as bad as giving a kid a loaded gun.

  • @borges3099
    @borges3099 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks Gabe.

  • @mas6729
    @mas6729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi, I always watched this interview because it helped me to overcome my addiction and it inspired me to keep going, but since When and Why did TH-cam put an AGE RESTRICTION on it!!? I think that especially young people should see this.

    • @dolanddrumpf6344
      @dolanddrumpf6344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TH-cam is part of the cult that wants you to not excel in life, but sit behind the screen and keep clicking.

  • @damienprince1077
    @damienprince1077 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. You have given me & a lot of others hope. Time to start my reboot. Peace and once again thank you.

  • @rhenanboyediwow7685
    @rhenanboyediwow7685 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very well said God Bless this guy he is telling the truth! Porn addiction can destroy yourself and you must stop it inmediately! Thank you

  • @Freidenker888
    @Freidenker888 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you want to see porn, you should pay for it. It shouldn't be free for everyone! Then a huge number of people would not be affected.