Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Lyrics)
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Lose You To Love Me Lyrics
[Verse 1]
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
Set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off-key in my chorus
'Cause it wasn't yours
I saw the signs and I ignored it
Rose-colored glasses all distorted
Set fire to my purpose
And I let it burn
You got off on the hurtin'
When it wasn’t yours, yeah
[Pre-Chorus]
We'd always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
[Chorus]
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
[Verse 2]
I gave my all and they all know it
You turned me down and now it's showing
In two months, you replaced us
Like it was easy
Made me think I deserved it
In the thick of healing, yeah
[Pre-Chorus]
We'd always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
[Chorus]
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
[Verse 1]
You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
Set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off-key in my chorus
[Chorus]
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
[Outro]
And now the chapter is closed and done
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us
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Hi
Ok
That’s mean
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I hope Selena finds someone who loves her for real. She deserves it.
Everybody does
She did. Abel (The Weeknd) and turned him down for trash
Yes you are rite she needs it
sooo true
same here
This song is about acceptance, self love and letting go
It's about Bieber.
And moving on ,shes grown up
Abusive relationships
@@paulinaperez714 getting out of abusive/toxic relationship
Yeah, so why is Hailey so insecure about it?
The message of that song is so heartbreaking.
Allynna Saripada yeah it is
Yep..truest😐
and a true heartbreaking story
Nope, it isn’t. It’s actually about moving on, acceptance and self love.
@@belina3570 it will stop, it is a process of healing, that's how artist heal and she might be thinking I will put this pain in to something constructive and Inspire everyone going thru same, what's wrong in that.
4 years out of an abusive and toxic relationship, I now couldn’t be happier, living my best life with the man I met 2 years ago, who showed me what true love is.
i’m so happy for you.
Omg congrats!!!
God bless you..!
❤
Happy for you..i pray you get all the deserved love forever ❤️🥰
"In two months, you replaced us. Like it was easy." - I felt that. 😭
💔😭
Jay he also got back together with his ex like a month later. You can’t compare her relationship with Abel to Justin
I feel I too,
Lol who cares. They use this shit to sell records
Sameee :(
I love that picture of her.
She is absolutely gorgeous
She's looking soo sad and deep 😢
@@mahamalik3309 😂
I totally agree!!
Seniorita
Yeah photoshop really does wonders 💙
Taylor Swift - "She lost him but she found herself and somehow that was everything"
which song??
@@cbg01 Out of the Woods
@@cbg01 it was a quote at the end of the music video
@@dangui5205 oh thank you so much
@@cbg01 Ahhhh armyyyyyyy purple you 💜💜💜💜💜
who's feeling the pain of selena??
and her song lyrics
👇👇👇
Me
Me..😔😔
Mee 😣
You are like addicted
Like beggar
"In two month you replaced us"
My ex Replaced me in 1 month with girl he called 'only Friend'
I felt that
violetta Diana jethicia Lestrange “two months you replace us” and my almost girlfriend replaced me in 4 days, i really felt that too
So relatable
violetta Diana jethicia Lestrange same girl. same
Same story with me
Here in 4 days, also to the girl I didn't need to be worried about (Sorry for my English. It's my 4th language)
This young girl, has given me at 34, the extra fire in my belly I’ve needed while leaving a 12 year toxic ass relationship. I was with this man since I was 22, and before him I was married at 16 while becoming a mother and divorced by 22.. I’ve NEVER had time to grow into my own womanhood-confident and independent. I’m so ready for this journey.
Good for you, mommas. You're growing. You're beautiful, and so is this journey you're embarking on. ❤️ I'm proud of you, you can do this.
Get it girl! Self discovery is beautiful, you will fall in love with yourself and everything you have to offer and no one will ever be able to take advantage of you again cause you will see them and recognize the bs.
You need nobody but yourself
Good luck, my love!
You go girl! 💪💪
This song makes me feel depressed but I can’t stop listening to it
Me either 😢
He is gonna feel it when she falls in love again
Mood
Same here
Amanda McDonald I felt that way at first but I think little by little I feel better and it becomes so uplifting. Like you can feel her getting better
*Self-love is not selfish, it's important.*
@@simranfatima5785 Yep!
Even if it is selfish, what's the problem 🙂
Exactly 😍
yes!!!!
Sometimes it isn't easy.
When Selena said: “I needed to lose you to find me”, I FELT THAT.
Nicky The Realest I FELTT
Same
Same here!
SAME
I felt that
*I'm not even broken-hearted, but why this song makes me cry*
It's heart breaking Even if you not in a relationship
because you have sense
@@Hirak_JT exactly.
It reminds me of my mom :(
She's not dead, I just never ever see her, and it's all my fault.
@@PayTheBidwell I don't know you, you don't know me but I want you to know that it's never too late to make peace with your mom. The person that carried you on her womb for 9 months. I don't know what you have been through with her but I know she is missing you too. Cheer up now and do the right thing. hugs x
Honestly in the past, I have not been too interested in Selena Gomez’s songs. But this song is beautiful. 🥺😭❤️
Edit: Wow...I am very flattered with the likes 😂I don’t know what to say..🥺❤️🌺
*-•Mocha Gacha Banana•-* same. Right here 🇬🇧
Sameeee
Same💖
me too but how could he certainly do that
same here
I’m not a fan of Selena but she is seriously so strong ! I love her music and everything she is such a strong human hope someone enters her life to treat her like what she deserves ! ❤️❤️❤️
I feel everything she said in the song.
Norasyikin Razali ok same
same
Same. One of my exes did everything in this song. I needed to lose him to find me.
Amber savage 21 yeah my ex did the same things to, but he break up with me and the same day he had another. So i know how selena is feeling :’(
@@abigailwanty2263 you are doing great honey. Love yourself first!
😢 My sister recently passed away and I remembered our conversation when this song came on the radio
Me: “Change it I hate this song it’s overplayed”
My sister: “Why? it’s my favorite song”
Just today I came out of the store and out of reflex I went to the passenger seat (My sister would always drive and I recently learned how to 😂). When I turned on the car, the radio was playing this song and it made me sad. I looked over to the passenger seat and imagine my sister sitting there... 😢
I miss you sis ❤️
Ragna Thebloodedge sorry for your loss 💔🙏🏾
Sorry for your loss😢
May the Lord be with you
Ragna Thebloodedge 😭 I am so sorry
I'm so sorry for your loss. I bet shes proud of you! 💖💖
Awww girl you made me cry 😢
Addicted to this song. So honest, painful and vulnerable. Hope she finds someone who deserves her.
Hope everyone going through the same thing finds someone who loves them truly....
Right
@@haran213 hope everything is going to be alright in everyone's life❤️
@@Movie_nerd.
There's no hope for me
I'm totally lost
@@haran213 just hold on, you will be fine bro, i've been there bro to the Lowest point of life, let this time shape you not break you. Give everything time give yourself time.
Most importantly walk away from those things or those persons who couse you nothing but damage.
I was in a toxic relationship for 5 years. I can totally relate to the lyrics of this song. I literally had to "lose you to to love me" and it's the best feeling ever.
Bravo 👏 stay strong 💪🏼 all the best ❣️🙌
SPLENDID LOVELY SELENA ‼️🙏👒🌺🍀💋🌹
How did you cope up with it,did you stayed
I know your comment is old but I just escaped mine of 6 year. When I tell you the first line I instantly started bawling and just cried the whole song cause this is exactly it
“In two months you replaced us” 😭😭😭
Sirenita213 my dance teacher played this at dance and told my bsf to listen to the lyrics cause she has been crying every night bc of this boy who broke up with her. They were together for 1 month and a couple days.😭 I feel so bad for her and I don’t know what I can do to help her....😕
Gayle Zirlott comfort her! Or if she doesn’t want that, give her a little space bc sometimes you need to have your own time :) cheer her up! Take her mind off things too! Buy her her favorite chocolate lol and give her a huge hug! I’m sure that’ll help probably 😭😭 do stuff that she likes and hype her up 💗
Gayle Zirlott I’ve never had a friend that went through that but if they did that’s what I’d do and I’m sure of it
Anna we should all have a friend like Anna.
@@gaylezirlott9737 Just be there for her, but ultimately she has just gotta let it burn, it sucks but time is a healer ❤
When you’re happy, you like the song,
When you’re sad, you understand the lyrics
Edit: ty for 1.6k! I didn’t think I’d get so many likes! Since I did, I just want to say that btw I did copy this so don’t give credit to me UwU
Majestic Oreo thats some deep shit what you just said👍🏾
so true
Then I understand every song.
True
@MajesticOreo you said that exact same comment on Lost Boy by Ruth B
It’s super sad that I relate to every word in this song
KellxRaiser95 Me to
KellxRaiser95 same
Me to
I am curious about your stories..I wonder if they are deep and sad and hurtful like mine ..I wonder if this feeling is made only by a romantic relationship that is so friking deep and makes you codependent as fk that you can't let go even when you can't stand the pain of the reality that the relationship is not working... you got me? That is happening to me. I must let him go..but hell..it hurst me more than when he hurts me with his actions..wich is everyday
Felt it too
She loved him not anyone else even after getting the news of him cheating on her a 1000 times
Salute to you Selena
That was obsession. She was not in love but obsessed.
@@catalina8601 how can you say that??
@@catalina8601 thats bullshit
@@catalina8601Maybe you never loved anyone as much as selena loved him
@@catalina8601 yeah totally
I don’t even like Selena’s music, but this resonates so hard with the core of a heartbreak
Rigggghhht!
Shamaya Shawante same.
same ive never listened to her until now...
I kinda KHS's version ot Lose You to Love Me though...
So like then you do like her music?
Here’s to all the women who feel for a guy that broke there heart. Every step is getting closer to healing. You got this! All us women rule the world❤️
Savannah Yefchak songa mbele kama injili naniii😂😂😂
@@logical3403 acha hizo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Everyone does❤
Its not just women that get there heart broke
@@albertmast6732 exactly
"Set fires to my forest, and you let it burn" Sounds like a very toxic relationship. Glad she's moved on 💜 Beautiful song
lalala123star that’s exactly what I thought !
I really hope selena will find her true love. She must..
She already has - herself. ❤️
She don't need anyone to complete her.
Hope so
This song sounds like heaven but hurts like hell :(
Follow me on ig: princesssxkay
So true
That is true
Yeah
Light vs darkness.
So true ;'(
“And now the chapter is closed and done” “And now it’s goodbye, it’s goodbye for us”
*omg no words 😭... this hurts*
😭
Not to be rude but what have i missed?
@@KyraRenken everything
@@livia8307 yeah i get that but what exactly did i miss
Manasa It really Hurts, it really Does 💔
👇🏻 How many ppl cried listening to this song.
🙋♀️
Girl right here👋
me
I did
Not me lol
i’m a 20 yr old guy and nobody would ever expect me to listen to this song but i really love it, great song to listen to when feeling down.
Hey! It'd be great if you could check out my cover of this song and tell me what you think! Thanks :) th-cam.com/video/foV01Y3Hn_s/w-d-xo.html
Ima thug my dude and shit bro this shit hits my soul
I'm a guy too and I listen to this song almost everyday
@@pelefaapepele9947 i was crying and this made me laugh 😂
Holy s***
To all the girls out there ✋a boy cannot change your future study hard chase your goals I know it's easy to say but self love is first step to happiness I love u we worth it😇💝
That's so true. Even if we feel love we can be betrayed but studies won't betray us.
Oh yeah u r right
Shy girl
YOU NAILED🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️ THIS
AMEN THANKS POSITIVE WORDS ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
!!!!
But all the boys r not same n all the girls are not same hope u understand
@@kakisuminaga4726 ikr
She beautifully pours out her emotions to her audience...only an artist like Selena can do this...Stay strong Selena!U are an idol of millions!Love u
ok poo
"in two months you replaced us, like it was easy"
that hit hard...
She was talking about herself. I felt this song sooo much....
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@Marcia Wright when are we going to stop bringing Justin's name with Selena. "I need to lose you to love me, lose you to love me" lyrics of the song was for herself. She had to lose her self so she'd have the reason to love herself. It's like she's saying that it was a lesson she learn from a heartbreak. If this song has something to do with Justin. At least in the end of the song she said.. " and now the chapter has closed and done. It's goodbye for us" which means she had truly moved on and it's time to love herself.
@@SETSUNA_-zp3uq Marcia's not wrong. Every "you" in the song was def about Justin.
Jezebel Imnida she literally said it was about him lol. This song and look at her now are about him. They were written two years ago. The other ones in the album are not about him
Just a Person yes she said so in an interview. This Jezebel spirit person is being cocky to Marcia for no reason😂
This song is really very emotional.. whenever I listen it I feel very sad for Selena..may God bless her with all the happiness she deserves
Don't chase them, replace them.
Only then, you'll find yourself.
heal first before you replace them, so that the baggage of the past didn't go in the present. If you do not heal, you will bleed in others.
If only, if only... tears your soul in ways nobody deserves... relief from it, somehow... if the replacement is the 'right one ', thank Gxd 🖤
Dont replace/revenge. Just let them go. Only then u can find urself . Replacing someone won't give u satisfaction, instead it will make u feel guilt for ur deeds.
Wow exactly thought 😍👍
Well said
Which one let selena more broken?
Justin: like
Weeknd: comment
If anything Selena broke the weekend
she never liked the weeknd. She cheated on him with justin and then left him for justin lol. But is ok, because Abel also didn't love her. She was just his rebound from Bella. He said that himself in a song
Not really both Justin and Weeknd are pretty shity people
In case with Selena because she is a good person people like to befriend her then walk over her like a doormat.. Pretty Sad if I say so myself
Anesa Šemsović I agree
I think she hurt the weekend he was the one tha was sad
"You promised the world and i fell for it"
I felt that
Edit: oh my God, I never got so many likes. Thank you so much!
Same
Me too...
Oof
SAME and I love this song because I can relate to it
Hey! It'd be great if you could check out my cover of this song and tell me what you think! Thanks :) th-cam.com/video/foV01Y3Hn_s/w-d-xo.html
Okay I'm crying 🥺😭I hope everyone finds their soulmate 🤞
Justin2015 :go and love yourself
Selena2019:i needed to lose you to love me
Edit: thank u soooo mush for ur likes❤❤❤❤
Never thought to compare the two, but WOW!
Oh shit, you right
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Deeeeep😲😲😲😲😮
I feel like this song was for Justin Beiber. I feel her pain. My ex put me through the samething. I saw the signs, but all i did was ignore it and followed my heart. Funny, we both move on though. I found someone better.
Hey! It'd be great if you could check out my cover of this song and tell me what you think! Thanks :) th-cam.com/video/foV01Y3Hn_s/w-d-xo.html
Sorry for the pain you went through. I been the cause of one of my ex. Was engaged but I was too immature at the time and I caused the break up. Its been 10 years and I'm still paying for the pain I caused her. Also the pain at knowing I had a great woman friend but didnt know it at that time. I lie with a perfectly charming smile, and say I have moved on completely. But the pain is there. Till This day I havent found another to love me like she did.
Justin Bieber isn't even worth singing a break up song about.
Glad you found someone better. I made the same mistake, ignored all the signs. Unfortunately I still haven't found someone the way I felt about her, it's been 3 years and I'm starting to lose hope.
@@NicoledelaCruz hey I am sorry but your cover was terrible!!
1 Peter 5:7 “Turn all your anxiety over to God because he cares for you.” Jesus loves you dont give up on him!❤!
Amen
Thank You! God bless You!
🙏🏽
amen
AMEN
Who do u like more
Selena like
Hailey comment
I like selena more
Simon Jnr Kachepa Hailey at least she’s not an abuser
@@Bloodygreys when was this
Kim Taeyoung when Selena slapped Justin in the face in public and mentally abused him 🤘🏻
@@Bloodygreys could have been a reason but ok
Kim Taeyoung he just wanted to make a photo with a fun and she slapped him for that. There’s no reason to abuse a person. Lmao check on yourself zoomer.
It take more than 4years, but at the end she loved her self
" In two months, you replaced us like it was easy, made me think i deserved it"😪I felt those lines.
When I heard this song. My heart broke for her but then when she said it's GOODBYE for us. I was like yesssss!! She's finally moving on. Love her. I never wanna see her sad. Yes Selena. 🌺🌺🌺
Who do u like more??
Selena - like
Taylor Swift - comment
Edit : In my opinion I really really like both..
;)
Selena
Taylor ❤
#Livelife 2019 Selena 💞💞💞💞
Selena
Both💖
when selena said " You promised the world and I fell for it."
Then?
perfectly imperfect I felt that man my ex promised me and our daughters the world, our youngest was 2.5 when he walked away moved to a new country and got a new girlfriend whose kids he treats like gold and never even calls our daughters, just acts like they never existed, they don’t even ask for him anymore because they have an amazing stepdad who would never dream of ever leaving them
Chels S aww yay :)
Selena is a beautiful soul, a singer, and I will never give her up.
How many people love this song 👇👇👇👇👇
Me
@MARJORIE NG'ANG'A the ending makes me sad
Holly Holcomb 🙋🏻♀️
I Iove her so much...😭
This is sad and you don't need a boyfriend
All the broken hearts are going to transform in the most invencible hearts
Because they won’t take the risk to get broken anymore
Not only a boyfriend but even toxic family members❤🇰🇪
fighting! you can do it! I'm here to support you because we're on the same boat
Yeah I don't get along with my siblings and mom they don't talk to me so I moved out....but I'm happy I did it for the sake of my peace of mind n happiness
the most painfull thing is to have a shity fam that trys it best to drive u out of ur mind instead of being beside u and next to u , and to make u show always like the bad one . i felt ur word and am having the same thing .... am sorry for everyone like us , my God forgive them !!!
( in my case i wont )
tatsika k.e do I need to adopt a chold?
True
" In two months , you replaced us " 💔
Selena deserves a person trillion times better than justin.....
Love you selena
And justin deserves hailey the best girl
@@jasi4586 siiiiiike🤢
@@jasi4586 yeah, cuz selena was the one who turned him down.
@@mousumimukherjee5539 please?? She slapped him in public the video is still on TH-cam and he said to her "dont do that we're in public" she's not the angel y'all think
@@jasi4586 I don't think her an angel. Justin is an angel,he saves so many lives and helps
When you’re happy you enjoy the music but when you’re sad you understand the lyrics 🙌🏻💗 all my love and support goes to Selena she deserves better things
This song is so inspirational that I’m literally crying..
Emily The Gamer how
Ikr
@@user-yo4dz5np7g when you been through what is being said it touches you
kristina j thxs
Okk boomer
The song is truth from start to finish, really underrated. We see you Selena, a true work of art really love and appreciate this sound that you`ve shared. Thanks so much
“I needed to hate you to love me” yup that’s where I’m at and then once the hate is gone there will be nothing left. “It’s goodbye for us”
Justin you just lost one of the most beautiful treasures in this world and one of a kind also. You will regret what you did to her, whether you accept it or not.But don’t worry she will find her perfect match one day you’ll see.❤️
Cmon we totally know nothing about their relationship, their life, and what theyve been thru. Stop assuming. Nobody lost nobody. Guess they are just not meant to be.
Wish them living their life well.
Sometimes it just doesn't work out. Justin did say sorry you know. I'd like to think both Justin and Selena are in a better place now.
Thai Prince Nichkhun Hottest X VIP Hayley is better for him.
@@topsbb1276 totally agree, maybe they were just not fit to be together that's it, two good person but with different personnalities and all..
Treasures aren't much important than a true love of ur life😍😍 got it so lemme ask u a question😑😑....would you marry a rich😛 women/men but she/he is already old enough than u 🤣🤣🤣🤣answer me u stupid 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
This song brings tears to my eyes everytime I hear it. I too feel her pain. I recently spent 2 years of my life loving someone who started out wonderful and loving and eventually broke me. Anything and everything he could do to hurt me, he did and then told me that he did all of it because he loved me. He used me, lied to me, cheated on me, beat me and the last day together raped me. He then ghosted me. Left me in a pile of rubble. Within a week I lost my home, lost my job and figured out that I had lost myself. The same day he left. He had left me for another woman. I endured harassment from him, his new woman and all their friends for several months. I had to delete all my social media accounts, change my cellphone number. Two months after he left he married her on the weekend of our already planned honeymoon for our wedding wearing my tshirt. To this day I do not know why he hated me so much.
I’m soo sorry please stay strong I love you 💕❤️
This is wickedness. I pray you heal.
❤️❤️❤️😔
Omg he was not worth of f u i hope he will get his karma sooner or later plz move on n forget that asshole
I promise you I know what you're feeling. I can say he showed you how much he hates himself. He didn't hate you. He is a very miserable little boy who only feels alive when he's being admired or hurting others. Im there with you
This song does not depict the sadness after breakups BUT the courage to move on ..live for urself
Who better
Likes: Selena Gomez
Comments: Justin bieber
👇😭
Both
I guess both but I'm a number 1 fan of Selena's all the way one hundred..
Both)
I love them both, but Selena is the best 😍😍😍
@@Shine_Fullsun06 yes I agree with you!!!!
I wonder what Justin will feel when he listens to the lyrics. It is obviously all about him and how he didn't appreciate her at all.
He probably gonna cry so bad 💔😭💯
The Curious Cat he doesn’t feel shit lol
porcelain you don’t know what he went and is going trough stop assuming stuff on people just because they’re celebrities , they’re still human
Cmon we totally know nothing about them, and the truth they really thru. Stop assuming
he doesn't give a fuck. He is happily married to somebody else. If he loved her, he would be with her in the first place. He move on long ago. Selena is the one stuck
Justin: Love Yourself
Selena: I needed to lose you to love me!
(What's going on? 🙁🙁)
Hmm...
Ikr
Idk?
No one Understands What Going on but Move on Selena Gomez 😔
Love your self was not for her It was written by Ed Sheeran so do your homework
Our girl, Selena, NEVER disappoints. Always stay like you are, and keep up the good work! Love ya! 👍👏😊
Selena gomez is my girl
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I was stuck in a manipulative relationship for 10 months... my partner constantly putting me on a pedestal to isolate me so I'd only care about his problems.... he'd constantly guilt trip me into doing things and apologizing if I got upset at him... it was horrible, I avoided the awful signs cause I thought it was OK since I "loved" him.....my anxiety, paranoia, and my self image just grew awful over time and I started having suicidal thoughts..when I said I was having an anxiety attack he called me 15 times, but then turned around and said "don't scare ME like that! I don't want to be scared like that!" Deliberately putting down my feelings......
He got together with another girl merely 2 months after he tried to force me into a polyamorous relationship and I refused...we broke up but somehow that didn't work.. we got back together and a day later we finally fully ended it after he tried to guilt trip me again.....
Here I am now, listening to this song and crying because of how heartbreaking yet beautiful it is...it to resonates with me a lot as I understand those feelings...... I understand now that after the suicide attempt, after the panic attacks, after all the horrible times I hated who I was...I learned to love myself after getting out of such a toxic relationship....
This story has a better ending though..as I'm typing this me and my current boyfriend are about to celebrate our 1 year anniversary together... he's done so much for me, I love him with all my heart... he's helped me gain back my confidence and helps when I'm too socially anxious to do something..he's done so much for me and I couldn't be happier. I'm happy that through all the pain and trauma I've experienced I finally found a healthy relationship.
There's always hope, no matter how many heartbreak you experience.. there IS someone out there who will give you a better life, who will help you love yourself, who will love you unconditionally..... it's hard to find, it takes pain. But hold onto hope no matter how much that pain hurts.
Wow
I hope you get better soon! Stay strong!💝
You go babe xx 💋
Wow, thank you so much for sharing this💙💙
Wow that was actually a good speech
I know the feeling oh so well.. swears he loves me and wants me back, only gone two months and he has someone pregnant, the women he swore to me they were just friends
sorry to hear that :(
😔♥️ m sorry to hear that .
That's low but I'm sorry.
😭💔
I know what you mean. My ex and I broke up back in May 2014.. he was already married and expecting a child by the end of 2014 to a girl who he was "just friends" with lol. But it's all good. I have someone amazing now whom I love more than life itself. I wish you the best❤
Damn I felt her pain in this song. She's a legend, I love you selena💖
This song made me discover myself some time back. God bless you selena ❤️
"AND NOW THE CHAPTER IS CLOSED AND DONE", The most powerful sentence from the song, so proud of her❤
This is how many people just can’t stop watching this
(Me)
(and me)
(Meh!)
Thank you for not begging for likes, you are a god..! ♥️ 😔✌️
@@yandere-chanuwu5748 UwU
Me
"I saw the signs and I ignored it" Oh dear, this is just so...😭😭
Part of this song is a final goodbye to someone you deeply loved. Yet I also see the joy in this song, the peace, the clarity of understanding when saying goodbye to someone that didn’t deserve you, your energy and time, and prohibited you from growing. Basically it can be a song for two different types of exes!!
“ in two months, you replaced us!” I felt that
Who is listening in 2020
🙋
Me
Shut the hell up
Universal Chode how about you shut the hell up because she didn’t say anything she just asked a question got a problem with that
Me today 2020
@@universalchode7232 ur an idiot
It’s a true eye opener that when you love someone, you love them forever and there’s no certain time to where the pain of losing that person in any way shape or form will go away, there’s no say on when or how the heart break will completely heal and go away. She truly fell, fought, and gave herself in love of Bieber for many years and it’s a true Merry go round of emotions and feelings and when you love someone so so deeply you just want to hold on as long as you can because despite all the signs, like she said, you ignore them and for some reason when it comes to love you have hope, hope that someday there might be a ‘maybe’. During that timeline she grew, and bacame stronger and learned to finally love herself and her broken heart finally is mended, it surely will have a bittersweet scar, but she knows herself and loves herself and she’s stronger than ever; when Bieber got married it was just icing on the cake and even more reason to close that chapter in her life. This song tells that story and we all know her story between him and herself and everything in between and we also know the pain of love and heartbreak. She tells the story of herself and many others and what better way to do so in such a raw and real way.
Wow. Impressive:) I feel so bad for Selena!!!
@Gerhard Schöner thank you. You wrote that very very well it just hit me super hard I'm legit crying rn❤️
@Gerhard Schöner I'm sorry for if your heart has been broken before....you deserve all the love💛
I love this song i felt her pain and mines i listen to this song everytime i feel like giving into my kids father. It took me four years to rebuild and move on
For anyone who wants to play this on guitar, here's how :)
- Standard Tuning - Capo 4th Fret -
- Structure Of The Song -
Verse, Chorus, Verse*, Chorus*, Verse, Chorus*
- Verse Chord Progression & Strum Patterns -
C, Dm, Am, G
For each chord, strum: ↓
*For each chord on the * verses, strum: ↓ ↓
- Chorus Chord Progression & Strum Pattern -
F, C, G, Em
For each chord, strum: ↓
*For each chord on the * verses, strum: ↓ ↓
Hope this helps you out! If you get stuck or need a little extra help, I just posted a video tutorial for this on my channel :)
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I love your guides
Dude love your tutorials! Thanks
Thanks but I don't have
Omg I love you THANK YOU SO MUCH
2020 is gonna be better than 2019✔️
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zimop Crox i wont say tht if i were u
20,000,000 tress boooi,and especially we got selena back
It's been a year of finding myself since I broke up my relationship with a manipulative narcissist. I can relate to this song so much I cry every time I hear it. Being in a toxic relationship was the worse yet the best thing ever happened to me. I met God during the process and now I love myself more than ever.
A girl in treatment sang this song to me on my birthday it was so beautiful everyone cried ! She has no idea how much it still effect me!
I could never hate him but I realized how much I needed to except not just about him but about me.
Thank you for this song!!
Shut up, you think he cheated on her by having secret relationship with Hailey right? Lol! Really u think their relationship was this much easy? Sis, Justin said he wants to marry Hailey in 2016 so Hailey and Justin clearly had feelings for each others since a long while. And he wasn't with Selena when he said that. Now your question be like- then Why did Justin take Selena back in 2017. It seems cheating.
Actually he wasn't sure about his feelings that plus he was afraid he would hurt Hailey he never had stable relationship so we can say he was very unsure and afraid.
Selena and Justin broke in 2012 after that whenever they came together it only lasted 1-2 weeks. Jelena was never a stable relationship plus Selena was very controlling he won't even let him take pics with fans, I can send u legit video if we are on fb.
So these were the reasons he posted on his Instagram in 2019 ''i wasn't faithful''. And fuckin people and media turned this post into ''Justin Bieber admitted on cheating on Selena Gomez on instagram'' see how toxic y'all are!!!!
Justin has suffered for Selena too unlimited much meanwhile Hailey has never ever hurt him for once. Now see who was better, Selena or Hailey:)
U will never be able to imagine how difficult Jelena was, he didn't replace them in 2months its actually a different matter firstly their relationship was too unstable, I already told you how million times they had to break up. So the last breakup also wasn't abnormal. Secondly they were pr. Last but not the least both dated other persons specially selena she literally spended many romantic even almost inappropriate moments with other guys, legit proofs could be sent to you by fb or ig. Meanwhile jb just dated bestfriends which had been Selena's reason to even threw Justin out from own house and made him cry, wow how kind she is.
He is now happy with the perfect one Hailey, also I have told you all truths of JB and Selena, I would tell you more if we are on fb. Haha sister not without reason I changed my way of thinking cause once I also used to think Justin cheated but after researching I literally can feel Jelena was the worst and most toxic relationship in the world ever.
So I hope u will kindly stop blaming on Justin :^)
2:44 I’m pretty sure she said “I needed to HATE you to love me , Yeah”
Yeah it did
Yup, you're not the only one
Yeah
"In two months they replaced us, like it was easy" 😕 My ex boyfriend replaced me in just a week. I felt that 🤐😑
Derl’s World same girl 😕 with the girl who was just a “friend “
Daisy Rico omg i felt you so much 💔
Replaced me before I was even gone
Me in 2 weeks. Wow men are really a trash
Derl’s World I was replaced before he left me. 😢
At first when I heard this. I thought she was singing it as "I needed to lose you, for you to love me." And I thought it was a song about a girl never getting the love and care from her bf until they broke up, and then he realized he lost her and tried to get her back. But I realized now it's about a girl in an abusive relationship and it was her who finally was able to love herself when they split up. And now the song has a whole new vibe
Jennifer ...lol now I know I am not the only
One who thought that as well when I first heard it on the radio! I still feel like it fits my relationship the exact way you described it😉❤️
Jennifer same!!
I thought it meant it as in I needed to lose you make you love me
Exactly what I thought until I jusr read your comment lol
Adriana Salazar Hello
She deserves a person who really loves and supports her as all of us do. :D
I was in a toxic relationship for 2 years, and it was honestly daunting. I thought I fully evolved as a person during the time we were together, I and finally knew how strong I was. But in the end, when the moment arrived and I called it quits, I found my true self again. I was blinded by his ridiculous lies, while his actions proved other things. But oh well, love makes you blind sometimes.
"I needed to lose you to find me" And I *totally relate* 😣💔
We love you selena . Don't feel lonely ..... This turning point would surely make u a better person ahead . Wishing you a more happier life ahead .
From this song i learned :
You need to lose him/her to love yourself. The chapter is closed and just believe, you deserve better than before. Take the lessons and time will heals...
The fact that it took her this long to realize she needed to love herself just shows all the bull he put her through! She’s so amazing he never deserved her!!
This song ,especially the ending just breaks my heart. So raw.
Listening to this song made me cry. I hope she find someone who loves her for real. She deserves a better life.
A song about breaking up with a narcissist
👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 💯
So so true!
Yes 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
My last relationship is similar to this a verbally abusive boyfriend I got the strength to leave him I can relate to you. I’m here if you want to talk
PTPA StableSharkMom it’s is 💔
This song still isn’t old to me. I could listen to it for hours
This song makes me feel uneasy
My boyfriend just broke up with me cause im transgender and he’s not proud of me he’s with some cis girl and this song came on and it was my heart speaking to me I needed to loose him to love myself and he did promise me the world and I believed him but it’s time to move on it’s time for me to heal
U don't get upset about it you will find another person who will love you to the most
Saniya Sayyad I just hope I heal first all I feel is hurt every time I see him
Stay strong and live your best life
You will find a person who will love you no matter what happens
Stay strong my friend
you will do better things than he will, you are better off. 💕
mom : turn that off
me : why ?
mom: we have bigger speakers downstairs
Felt that
Same🤣🤣🤣
Like me literally ❤️😂
felt that
Thug life😎😎😎😎