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grwm + girl chat | realities of a long distance relationship + saying YES to the dress?!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ต.ค. 2022
- Time for some girl chat! Get ready with me for a content day while we chit chat about... EVERYTHING. Mental health, realities of a long distance relationship, saying YES to the dress?! Hope you enjoy, xo
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Long distance is a beast! It's also hard when your relationship has been more long distance than in person because you are still trying to figure each other out, develop the relationship and maintain it with the long distance. I do agree that you need to find the right person to go through it with but when you are building a relationship and trying to find out if it's the one for you, you are finding out if the person is the right one to go through it with. I trust that God has a plan for all of us even when we find ourselves in situations we never thought we would be in or never thought we could go through. I send you all my love and courage!
whew it is so hard but yes we have surrendered to the process and placed all trust in God 🙏🏾 thank you so much for your encouragement!
@@AlyssaMarieXo You are very welcome!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Okay, I am a 70-year old boring white woman but I have never stopped learning and growing. Seeking to find the balance between “selfish” and “humble” is an ongoing process that will be with you for life. Being beautiful and influential go hand in hand with kindness and caring for others. I commend you on your journey to find what is right for you!
I love this! thank you so much 💕
1st off, I never realize how "old" I am til ppl say their still in their 20s and I'm like, lawd, I'm 5 yrs away from 40 🥲 lol... but, anywayzzz, great video! My husband and I did long distance for 2 yrs, and it was the hardest journey of my life (felt like, lol). Your tips are right on pt! Especially the "date nights" and "constant communication". Those 2 right there really helped. Fortunately, I work for an airline, so we got to see each other every wkend (for free) so that helped as well, but also hurt because it was always quick trips and I just wanted to hold him daily 😔 Long distance isn't for the weak lol. But stay strong, and just keep the future in mind, that'll help too 😉 You got it girl
thank you for sharing your story! it gives me so much hope! 💕
one thing I’ve definitely learned with my adult friendships & maintaining them is attachment styles & compromise. I have some friends that are “needy” as you said & maintaining them requires more quality time/time spent together but i don’t find it overbearing always. I’ve learned to just develop boundaries with them while respecting that that’s how they communicate. There are some friends i wanna talk with more frequently but their communication style doesn’t match that. Ahhh such a learning process
My entire relationship was long distance with my now husband! Thankfully we were both in the USA but he was in his first year of medical school in CA, while I was a teacher in SC! So opposite sides of the country! We dated 4 months before he proposed. We’re engaged 6 months, all long distance. I planned our wedding with his Mom, Sister, Aunt, & Best Friend and my Mom Sister. He couldn’t really help plan because medical school was his priority! & I refused to move unless we were married lol. We are Christian’s so we didn’t live together or have sex before marriage. & honestly long distance definitely helped with That! & it forced to have better communication because of the 3hr time difference, Him being a med school student, & me already being established in my career as an educator. It also helped us to have a secure relationship, & not develop codependent habits/behaviors/emotions. God is the foundation of our faith, & marriage. & our entire relationship! A chord of three strands is not easily broken! ❤
You got this!
Long distance can definitely be hard especially in those moments when you’re feeling emotional and just long for a hug or embrace but definitely being intentional and putting in the effort to see each other as much as possible helps and working towards being together in the same place sooner than later is key! All the best and take your time with the wedding planning .. it’s definitely expensive and can be overwhelming (I’m newly married- and what helped was keeping it small and it was a beautiful wedding)
Congratulations again!🎉
whewww yes girl lol congrats on getting married!! 😍💕
@@AlyssaMarieXo thanks mama
I can 100% relate to this feeling of growing into being more selfish. I’m 22 and I feel like there are so many expectations of me and I really can’t give until I am well off on my own especially being in the field of Public Health and healthcare because that’s makes me a hypocrite to give people advice on health and wellness while still not managing my own emotions, health and wellness. Great chat!
yes to allllll of this! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Woww! Im so glad I watched this! Thank you for being vulnerable Alyssa Marie! I am too in the same exact situation in regards to being in long distance relationship and my fiancé is also living in another country and we are in the process to be able to live in the same country. It is truly challenging and emotional but its encouraging that I’m not alone im my situation after hearing your story! 🥰🙏🏽🤍 Keeping you and your fiancé in my prayers! Blessings!
So happy & proud of you ❤!!!You and him will be together soon 🫶🏾
It is a journey to put yourself first as we have been raised in the Caribbean to be self-less. I'm currently in a long-distance marriage, after having a long distance relationship. We've been together for about 7 years and married for almost two but migration is a process. We usually travel every couple months to make it easier. You'll get through it
omg YES that’s so true about a caribbean upbringing. and whew 7 years plus 2 married long distance! that really gives me so much hope, thank you for sharing 🫶🏾 when you find the one, they’re the one & you just do what it takes at the end of the day!
@@AlyssaMarieXo Exactly 💯 . You're welcome 🤗
Okay that whole thriving off of productivity and never being able to rest is SO me. And you’re so right it’s so toxic and burnout approaches quickly if you’re not careful. I’m a second year med study and I experience this at least once a week. It’s so hard to just relax! Loved this video, more girl chats needed for sure!
Because you hit the nail on the head with the humble stuff. People look at me crazy when I say I’m not “humble” and then when I tell them what it means they’re like oh snap lol 🤣Words are so important!
right!!!
The makeup is giving!! Can you list the products?
People pleasing is definitively a Libra trait. I am working on being more selfish for my mental health. Your makeup is flawless.
me toooo it’s a constant work in progress!
I’m in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend it’s hard ❤️but it is worth it! Wishing you blessings into your marriage that is coming soon❤
you're so real with us. thank you for this❤❤
"Adult"...yes it is an "a" but there are varying pronounciations for the letter "a". In this case, the "a" makes the schwa sound which is reduced, neutral vowel sound. It's phonetic symbol is ə. At the same time, language constantly evolves...
Yes more videos like this. We love you!!!!
thanks for the feedback!! it means sooo much because I was nervous to post this 😩💕
Wow I needed to see this ❤
Lol i say “ahdult” not stressing the “A” as much and “uhdult” sometimes 😂 (I’m Jamaican)
Thank you so much for this. It definitely is a journey😭, but all things will work out in the end❤️
Definitely a libra thing, gotta be careful not to lose yourself trying to please others.
thank you! I absolutely agree
Lol 😂😂😂put the myth to rest. There was and never will be a problem when one spoil thy self. 🥰🥰🥰. I spoil my self by buying high quality jewelry. Going to get my second Tiffany 4 carat 💍 ring. Because I want it! 😂😂😂😂❤️🌺 . Loving your new hair style and this gorgeous makeup 💄 you are wearing now! 💗💗💖🌹🌹
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