+porchdallas It took time and prayer to work up the courage... Cause it was my sin that did the damage. Thank you for your prayers. Today I reached out, and made sure he knew of my heart felt need for his forgiveness. Thank you again for your prayers, and for you ministry. God is working through you. God bless you all.
Thankyou for this. Before this video,I was angry for no reason. Every thing that went even a quarter wrong set me off . Had me blazing angry. Can't wear this jacket because its still in the washer,jaw would clench. Fist would ball and I'd be steaming with anger beyond belief. I don't know if that is a demon that was within in me. But tonight,I asked God to take full control of My life again and I thank you for this video,because it gave me a true understanding and Haa put me In a place of peace and biblical understanding. Thankyou
Tunisia Belle I know you wrote this comment a long time ago now but I was wondering how your life has been for the last 3 years since you asked The Lord to take full control over your life... Please tell me, even if it hasn't been perfect to ups and downs or maybe it didn't work at all, I would really love to know how your walk has been. Hope I hear from you!! God Bless!!
I'm at work, and I spent an entire week designing some new graphic material for my company. And my boss turns me down, bc it's not her style. And inside of me welled up this big ugly thing that seems to be coming more often lately. And I went to the bathroom, and I paced my office, and I wrote about 5 angry emails and have them sitting in my drafts folder, and I thought to myself, I am HIS child, I HATE THiS FEELING! And I get online and I search youtube, "How to deal with anger as a christian" and this sermon comes up. And now I'm choking up at my desk because during the sermon this small thing that seemed to set me over the edge seemed somehow eluded my mind and I remember some things that have truly bothered me to my core and upset me and how I haven't made it right and now I'm a blubbering fool crying at my desk. And thank you......... bc this is Jesus, this is his word, and I needed this..... thank you.
@@yungblade7 it's demons. I dealt with those monsters for years, still do by they don't owe me like before. Don't give them a window. I'll pray for you.
We all have issue with anger and dont know how to deal with it but praise God for internet that we dont have to pay someone to teach us how to overcome it God has given us enough word to overcome, its time to put it into practice..
This was amazing ! Helped me so much ! I went for a walk , and ended up walking really far cause I didn't want to stop listening ! Praise God for this message !
What a man of God! He’s preaching about practical things! Christians must pursue peace at all times.Ive been dealing with this for years. This video really helped.
In the middle of this video, the lord provided the opportunity to reconcile with my brother who I cussed out in two languages and insulted him in a volcanic explosion the previous day. It's like I took my Christian self off and stepped back two decades in my unbelieving carnal state. It was vile and embarrassing, but the Lord gave me the courage to confront my brother and own my part and ask for his forgiveness. Thank you so much for helping me make things right and be able to worship Jesus again.
Thank you, I sufferer with anger, bi polar explosive disorder, I understand can not thank you enough for your your help with understanding this message. I am trying to get to really know Jesus again, I have been lost for years, but now I got a lot of work to do on myself, Prayers please,
Thank you for this sermon. I had just Google a sermon on anger because I was upset about something and didn't like what it was producing in me. I have castes that thing out in Jesus' name. I LOVED the stroty about your friend giving you 800 dollars and also the one about the young man who was abused and owned 100% of his 2% and went to his father about it and his father gave his life to Christ. I was so moved by it I told my husband about both those stories and he didn't even watch the sermon but was moved by the stories as well. Great reminder that it doesn't matter the injustice or what people do. We are to forgii. Period. And 100% own up to whatever % is out part of the conflict. THANK YOU!!!!
What a powerful and convicting sermon...probably the clearest and best I’ve ever heard on the evil, truly satanic and infectious epidemic of anger that every one of us sinners carry in our DNA! Thank you and God bless you, Pastor Jonathan, for shepherding me and helping me work out my salvation!!! After discovering your sermon serendipitously amidst the hurt (and anger) of a fresh eruption of anger between me and my husband (over an incredibly trivial matter...shamefully almost always the case) and listening to it twice, I literally just applied your godly guidance to ask for forgiveness (regardless of who the perceived guilt belonged to) and I obeyed Jesus’ command to be a peacemaker...and it instantly blessed me and my husband?and, thus, my family, because the fact is that we contaminate every other part of our lives when we have anger, even when/if we’ve deluded ourselves into thinking we’ve contained it or protected our children from it just because they didn’t witness it first hand. May God protect, preserve and bless you and your family!
idk why I cry when I hear the word of God. I am an ex pastors son. I always cry in church and when I hear the Word. you sir are not a false prophet like these "prosperity Gospel preachers'. I'm not even 20min in. I have very bad anger issues, lust issues, addiction.....God bless you. wish I could reach out to you
Alberto Reyes I do this as well. I have come to realize that it's bc we listen with our heart and not our ears. Be it a gift or a curse, embrace it.. I wouldn't change the emotions I get when I hear a true deliverer of the word. Much respect to you, hermano!
loved what you said about, it provides an opportunity and we have to decide how we use that opportunity to show off our flesh and emotions or the character of Jesus Himself!
God's teaching me some reality of his kingdom. Time to make it right for my anger part. Got the message. Let's see how the seed grows me. Don't let it be sowed on the rocks or picked away by the devil. I Take it in.
Just sent this to my kids. I've dealt with angry all of my life, I can remember being 11 years old being in a range over the smallest things. I'm 46 years old and barely I see a huge change in myself and the way I handle conflict. I've taught my kids nothing but anger, fighting, we are right and we have a right to lash out... but I was wrong. I see it now. I was the worst example to them because now they are just like me. I have been praying over myself over my kids and grandchildren. I pray that the pain the let down the feeling of doubt and no self control be released from my family. I pray that God's love fills us all and that we can learn how to deal with life's conflicts. That the holy spirit be within us, that we can be lead in the spirit and not the flesh. God has brought me this far and I would like prayer for Daniel, Christian, Armando, Breanna, baby Daniel, Bella, Leo, Enzo and Ariel. God's promises will endure forever ❤
NOTHING IS WORTH COMPROMISING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THE TRUE GOD. DO NOT LOSE WHAT YOU HAVE GAINED BECAUSE OF NOTHING THAT CAN COMPARE TO WHAT HE IS AND HAS FOR YOU.
Well spoken sermon the truth hurts but it only hurts the flesh and pride. There is pain in real growth in the Lord. But it's well worth dying to self as we gain more of Christ. Thank you dear brother
God used this message to teach me how to handle conflict when last night I had an intense conflict with my parent. Thank you 🙏 may God bless you and this channel
Thank you for allowing God to use you. Thank you for this message and man is God something else. My goal for my life to is fix my heart, for my heart of stone to be transformed to a heart of flesh. I am declaring this over my life, I am healed, I am patient and the Spirit of God is working in my life and I am letting go of anger.
im happy to God that I came across this, because He has been dealing with me about my attitude. God can not operate in me through the Holy Spirit with a bad Attitude, I do not want to grieve the Holy Spirit anymore. I have some conversations to have
JP I just found you on you tube and I'm on my 4th sermon. I have an anger problem and really loved this and truly feel I was supposed to watch this. I just contacted my sister and asked for forgiveness. Amen brother and thank you
I am born and raised in Dallas and I'd love the chance to speak with this man. I have the exact same rage in me that he speaks of in the beginning. It's terrible. I could use any and all insight on what may be causing the type of rage I have struggled with since I turned 15 years old .. I'm now 32. I'm talking about an ever blinding and all encompassing anger that causes me to see nothing but red ! All sense of self and understanding flee my mind and there is nothing left but to destroy that which is in my sights. I do all I can to control my rage and 9-10 times, I can consciously keep the anger at bay... but that one time that I am unable to suppress it , it is an Earth shaking and world scorching fire that must burn itself out once it is started. Any and all in my path during that time stand no chance be them friend or foe. If I'm honest, it's a bit scary. Curious to get your thoughts on the cause. This is not a normal anger... this is the type of reaction that is triggered during life or death moments. Like my back is agaisnt the wall and the only way out is to go straight through that what's in front of me... or face death. Anyways... now that I sound like a complete psycho, I thank you for your time. All the best and God bless ! KJ
KJ.. I feel you for what you are saying. I have wrath problems, it is one of my big weaknesses. I have discovered that the enemy exploits a weakness and then hammers it. I have decided to approach this with as much courage as anger. I resolve that with God I will defeat the enemy. He will not take my weakness and leave me in defeat. Because that would only make me angrier. Resolve to beat that anger. You can do it as I can do it. With God all things are possible. I will pray for ya my friend.
Get delivered! You are dealing with a spirit of REJECTION. Learning to receive Gods love and only his is important. Also FORGIVENESS another important key. Forgive yourself and others.
Praise God! Thank you for this powerful message that I needed to hear. I have been dealing with anger for a long time I've prayed forgiveness ask the Holy spirit to change me and set me FREE then the anger came many times to my fiance definitely wrong please pray for me God bless.
I came here because I have wrath problems. Not so much anger but wrath, and it builds. And though I assure people around me I am working on it they act as though Im doomed because it happened in the first place..... Deep breath....that's why Im here. Never give up on yourself, God doesn't give up on us.
One of my biggest issues. I get stressed or irritated it ends up in anger. I have a good long time being with self control. But like you said sometimes things don't get resolved and the frustration never goes away. And then the peace is taken. It can become a cycle.
I've been feeling like these are demons or the devil making us/me angry. As in us I mean people on TH-cam watching this. I've been so dedicated to God and following his rules, being kind, reading the Bible every night, and today suddenly my anger just came out. I was filled with this horrible rage and I was being dangerous on the road, saying hurtful stuff, and being who I used to be. I'm confused and wondering if maybe I haven't changed at all...
You're not alone. I am right there with you and I'm struggling too. These are growing pains. God is shaping us into the image of Jesus. The fact that you are aware that your anger is a problem is a good thing because now you can change by the Holy Spirit! Submit (surrender) to God, resist the devil (anger, lust, fear, resentment, the will of the flesh), and he will flee from you!
What if you have abusive parents? And what if you have ptsd? I’ve asked for forgiveness and tried to reconcile with my dad. I’ve tried everything.. I’m not giving up. I guess I need prayer or just anything. I know he isn’t a hopeless case.
Because of anger, addiction and sinful patterns i am separated from my family who i love very much. Thank you for this message. I'm ready to change and i know it can only be lasting and right through Jesus. Will you please pray for for me to have the courage to hang in for the long haul and make healthy choices out of love and not live in fear and resentment anymore? Thank you.
I pray God's word that says you have all that retains to life and godliness over you. That the Holy Spirit will strengthen you in your inner man and enable you to cross every hurdle across your way in Jesus way.
The root of anger is REJECTION. Please get delivered from rejection which is the main cause of so many problems we have like bitterness, hated, and so forth... Forgiveness definitely is the key to all this.
i'd put things in a different perspective, starting from looking at these words: anger, judgment... What is anger? It really starts as just a thought of ~'i've been wronged by...' and becomes anger when is allowed to turn into emotion that may trigger violent reactions towards the 'by...' who appears to have caused the 'wronging'. When anger subsides and deeds are done, is when 'judgment will come' followed by 'hell' and this is not external- it comes from within bringing remorse, guilt and a feeling of disgust with the self and even 'self-hate', and all is... hell. Just look inside yourself and check if this is not so; if it is, then what to do?! Firstly see that thoughts of any kind [that of anger in this case] are not yours [otherwise why would you choose to have bad thoughts?!]; they come from... somewhere [subject to another discussion but for now, who cares?!- 'putting out the fire' is more important]. What is important to see is that you have the choice to 'subscribe' to the thought and keep doing what you've been doing so far [the old way of the world 'an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth'] or ignore the thought as soon as it arises, preferably before it becomes emotion. How you do that? By simply observing and allowing/accepting the 'piercing of the heart'= the visceral scream for 'explosion'. Look at the mechanics of the thought [and to any internal manifestations of distress, physical discomfort...] as not yours, as to a scene in a movie; you are not the character having a fit of anger on the screen; you are the screen that allows this manifestation and which remains the same, unperturbed after the character 'is done'. Also look back at your own experience- how long a thought lasts- 2-3 minutes, at best?! It would soon be replaced by a different thought [in case of anger- just another 'justification' in support of the initial thought of 'i've been wronged/i have to defend my rights...' So, can you go through the present 2-3 minutes of hell now or prefer the longer [sometimes much longer...] lasting hell following 'judgment'? "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven." This refers first of all to your own self- do not judge, condemn yourself but forgive any 'slips' and get back to being the witness, not the victim or the aggressor.
I think Jesus has a deeper meaning than to simply equate anger to murder. Unresolved anger and unforgiveness will land is in the same place as murderers
I myself grew up in an abusive HH. Although, my " used to be step-dad " didn't always beat us, but if he wasn't beating us, he was he was verbally and mentally abusive. I found out at an early age in life the his own mother was the phyisal and verbal abuser, but growing up. I resented my mother cause she would always tell me that if we'd only shut up and be quiet he would quit. Like why would you put us through such a thing, mother? Why? So, I would plan his murder. I had planned on waiting until I was old enough to buy a gun and then I was going to torture him slowly like he did me, mother, and our family. However, the Lord....he had different plans. I grew up in the church but didn't finally start living for him better than I was when I turned 27. I realized than that mother was being a Christian those times she would allow him to call her names and verbally and mentally abuse her and just be quiet. The resentment for her about that left me when I realized what she had been doing all along touched my heart and my life. I then wanted to have what she had. Able to contain her anger so she could keep the peace. ( I'm 38 now and still deal with bad anger issues, cause of always being in that defense mode and I also have gossip issues, both of which I can't seem to stop. Please pray for me on that one, Preacher.) Anyways, God encouraged me to forgive this man that I hated so so much. And When God presented me with a chance to forgive this man, I did with my whole heart . Forgiveness gave me a chance to start living again. The very day I did, weight was lifted off of my shoulders. I felt like I was floating. Like this black cloud that I'd been carrying around with me finally left my soul. I truly started living again from that point in different aspects. Pray for my mother though cause she hasn't forgiven him yet. I want her to feel what that peace feels like, but she won't listen. She says she's forgiven him but her actions prove otherwise. Breaks my heart. She deserves nothing more than to be happy. I've had a few heartbreaks and slid off from God when I started going back to school and began to be more rebellious than I ever had been. Now my verbalizing ex lives me cause I almost lost my home. It was 4 years ago that he moved in. It was only supposed to be for a few months. Crazy I know, but that's what happened. Then I became everything I hated. Now, I truly am trying my best to Walk in God again, as of three years ago. This time in my Walk, a few family members and I got baptized and I read the Bible almost daily. The anger I can not stop in my own strength and gossiping, well it follows me and I also bring things up I shouldn't. God has a lot of work to do in me, idk whether I'm coming or going but I do know this anger issue is staying to get out of hand and all I want to do is be drama free. Everything seems to be my fault according to my family. I just want to walk humbly every day. I really needed to hear this sermon but I need to put it into practice. I just need to learn be slow to speak and swift to hear, instead of getting offended. I Thank you for being dry and uncut with your truth about your own reasons of anger. I so needed this sermon. I thank God for His deligence. He has a lot of work in me to do that's for sure. I need Help Jesus. I can't stop getting angry over the littlest things. I get angry at myself cause I get angry? Haha. IDK perfectly how to stop yet, but with God's help, I will learn and master it, to start stomping on my anger, in it's tracks. Just need to focus on the teachings. I'm ready to win back my life again, before I lose my soul. Please place your finger on my pic and pray over me to stomp anger with prayer as soon as it arrives. I get angry unhealthily too fast. That is not not not normal..I want to be Holy like He is Holy, but I need to find a way to master my anger.
Wait, Jesus referred to anger towards a brother and sister. Is it the same when dealing with an unbeliever? They don't fear God so their offense is often far worse. Should we deal with them the same?
Watching this felt like someone sat there and slightly pressured me to eat a cactus because if I didn't eat that one cactus, I'd be forced to eat 8,000 cacti later. Hard pill to swallow to say the least.
Yeah, i hate scams... once I had this traveling sales chick stop by the pharmacy I worked at and she was selling those "magic" heat bags you can pop the little disc inside which begins a reaction that heats up the bag, and then you can boil it later and the reaction reverses so you can crack it again later (apparently it wears out after a while too). Anyway she said she was selling them for like $40 each and that they'd bought them for $10 so she'd sell them to me as the retailer for $20. I spent $400 of the company's money and bought them. Then I went across the parking lot to get lunch from the grocery store and they were set up there selling them for $20 each. I was pissed. Then I went online to see how much they cost and they were sold in bulk, 1000 units for a thousand $... means $1 each. not fun.
A 4 years old child shouldn't have to apologize for getting beat everyday of his life. There is no 2%...Jeaus got angry...GOD got angry...it said be angry and sin not.
Wait. That little boy who was beaten by his dad under alcohol how come the little boy has part in the conflict? Even if he is now an adult. The anger that he inflicted on his son has pushed him to curse him back. It's normal. Why 2%? Nah the father has 100% the son has none to me.
Great message but what do you do when someone doesn't want to talk to you but wants you to talk to their daughter instead which is obvious they will take this opportunity not to accept your apology but put you down and say lies to you about you in your face. Sorry but this message doesn't apply to every situation. The examples given were not complicated situations.
This message of telling a survivor of child abuse that it was his fault is demonic. The story's obviously a lie as well. I don't know how pastors like this live with themselves. Please don't allow yourself to be damaged by this manipulation. God loves you.
so you suggested to this man to go and ask for forgiveness of his violent father for beating the daylights out of him every day as a child. That is unchristian and twisted. How dare you. You would tell a little sexually abused child to ask their abuser for forgiveness? Absolutely twisted. Same thing as telling that man to apologise to his violent abusive father. This is not Godly.
I have to agree with you. I think that you can forgive someone without going to them. I think the man was carrying so much anger that is was blocking his relationship with God. Anyone can recommend something to a person and if they choose to do it, it is up to them. In this case it seemed to work but in many it would not. Sometimes our "part" in the conflict is simply learning to forgive ourselves or others by praying for them as we cannot always reconcile with people who are very toxic to our relationship with God. There are many ways to let go of anger toward a person. Going to them is merely one of the options.
@@amberolson6364 that is a cop out if ever I heard one. You don't have to take his advice. I too attended a church that had an attitude of victim blaming like this clown podluka. Telling him he us to blame for his father's violence. Idiot. If you are broken from violent parents and then hear that it is so destructive to a person's health and walk with Christ. Off course forgiveness is important but victim blaming. How dare he. How bloody dare he.
“Sometimes you do the right thing and it turns out really really bad but God makes sense of it in heaven” let me tell you how I just screamed YES and started clapping real loud in my apartment alone LOL I felt thattttt
Im about to have one of the hardest talks of my life. Please pray for me. Thank you for the teachings.
praying for you Thad
+porchdallas It took time and prayer to work up the courage... Cause it was my sin that did the damage. Thank you for your prayers. Today I reached out, and made sure he knew of my heart felt need for his forgiveness. Thank you again for your prayers, and for you ministry. God is working through you. God bless you all.
Praying for u rn hope it goes well
Thankyou for this. Before this video,I was angry for no reason. Every thing that went even a quarter wrong set me off . Had me blazing angry. Can't wear this jacket because its still in the washer,jaw would clench. Fist would ball and I'd be steaming with anger beyond belief. I don't know if that is a demon that was within in me. But tonight,I asked God to take full control of My life again and I thank you for this video,because it gave me a true understanding and Haa put me In a place of peace and biblical understanding. Thankyou
Tunisia Belle I know you wrote this comment a long time ago now but I was wondering how your life has been for the last 3 years since you asked The Lord to take full control over your life... Please tell me, even if it hasn't been perfect to ups and downs or maybe it didn't work at all, I would really love to know how your walk has been. Hope I hear from you!! God Bless!!
I had a shot temper there was a time when didn't tolerate what I thought was ignored people when in reality I was being ignorant
Romans 10:9, Colossians 2:6, Hebrews 2:18, 1 John 1:9
I'm at work, and I spent an entire week designing some new graphic material for my company. And my boss turns me down, bc it's not her style. And inside of me welled up this big ugly thing that seems to be coming more often lately. And I went to the bathroom, and I paced my office, and I wrote about 5 angry emails and have them sitting in my drafts folder, and I thought to myself, I am HIS child, I HATE THiS FEELING! And I get online and I search youtube, "How to deal with anger as a christian" and this sermon comes up. And now I'm choking up at my desk because during the sermon this small thing that seemed to set me over the edge seemed somehow eluded my mind and I remember some things that have truly bothered me to my core and upset me and how I haven't made it right and now I'm a blubbering fool crying at my desk. And thank you......... bc this is Jesus, this is his word, and I needed this..... thank you.
Beautiful. Always can count on the Lord. 🙂
Its really hard for me my anger swells daily and i cannot stand it
@@yungblade7 it's demons. I dealt with those monsters for years, still do by they don't owe me like before. Don't give them a window. I'll pray for you.
This man truly have the gift of teaching.
AMEN!❤💯🙏
We all have issue with anger and dont know how to deal with it but praise God for internet that we dont have to pay someone to teach us how to overcome it God has given us enough word to overcome, its time to put it into practice..
Thank you, Jonathan. This beats all those self-help videos i've been watching.
We don't need self-help we need God's help.
@@p.r.9982 YESS! So true 🙏🏼😭
Wooow!! This was POWERFUL😮. The word of God is true. "A soft answer turneth away wrath".
Powerful sermon! This has changed my whole perspective on anger (including Passive Anger).
Rhiannon Surage ... I agree
Rhiannon Surage ... me too
Amen! 🙏🏼❤️
This was amazing ! Helped me so much ! I went for a walk , and ended up walking really far cause I didn't want to stop listening ! Praise God for this message !
What a man of God! He’s preaching about practical things! Christians must pursue peace at all times.Ive been dealing with this for years. This video really helped.
In the middle of this video, the lord provided the opportunity to reconcile with my brother who I cussed out in two languages and insulted him in a volcanic explosion the previous day. It's like I took my Christian self off and stepped back two decades in my unbelieving carnal state. It was vile and embarrassing, but the Lord gave me the courage to confront my brother and own my part and ask for his forgiveness. Thank you so much for helping me make things right and be able to worship Jesus again.
Thank you, I sufferer with anger, bi polar explosive disorder, I understand can not thank you enough for your your help with understanding this message. I am trying to get to really know Jesus again, I have been lost for years, but now I got a lot of work to do on myself, Prayers please,
Thanks for helping me understand myself more
Thank you for this sermon. I had just Google a sermon on anger because I was upset about something and didn't like what it was producing in me. I have castes that thing out in Jesus' name. I LOVED the stroty about your friend giving you 800 dollars and also the one about the young man who was abused and owned 100% of his 2% and went to his father about it and his father gave his life to Christ. I was so moved by it I told my husband about both those stories and he didn't even watch the sermon but was moved by the stories as well. Great reminder that it doesn't matter the injustice or what people do. We are to forgii. Period. And 100% own up to whatever % is out part of the conflict. THANK YOU!!!!
Thank you so much for this! It's the first step towards saving my marriage and working through my husband's anger. God bless you.
What a powerful and convicting sermon...probably the clearest and best I’ve ever heard on the evil, truly satanic and infectious epidemic of anger that every one of us sinners carry in our DNA! Thank you and God bless you, Pastor Jonathan, for shepherding me and helping me work out my salvation!!! After discovering your sermon serendipitously amidst the hurt (and anger) of a fresh eruption of anger between me and my husband (over an incredibly trivial matter...shamefully almost always the case) and listening to it twice, I literally just applied your godly guidance to ask for forgiveness (regardless of who the perceived guilt belonged to) and I obeyed Jesus’ command to be a peacemaker...and it instantly blessed me and my husband?and, thus, my family, because the fact is that we contaminate every other part of our lives when we have anger, even when/if we’ve deluded ourselves into thinking we’ve contained it or protected our children from it just because they didn’t witness it first hand. May God protect, preserve and bless you and your family!
idk why I cry when I hear the word of God. I am an ex pastors son. I always cry in church and when I hear the Word. you sir are not a false prophet like these "prosperity Gospel preachers'. I'm not even 20min in. I have very bad anger issues, lust issues, addiction.....God bless you. wish I could reach out to you
Alberto Reyes I do this as well. I have come to realize that it's bc we listen with our heart and not our ears. Be it a gift or a curse, embrace it.. I wouldn't change the emotions I get when I hear a true deliverer of the word. Much respect to you, hermano!
This is the answer I'm waiting for. Thank you, Lord, for this message.❤️
So this message hit me today🙏 3.12.22 I'm so tired of being angry for pittiful things🤐 I want to be a peacemaker 🙏
What's crazy about this whole things is that
It ALL MAKES SENSE.
PTSD and RUMINATING On Offense is beneath us! Lord help us overcome this wickedness in Jesus Name! Amen!! ❤️
loved what you said about, it provides an opportunity and we have to decide how we use that opportunity to show off our flesh and emotions or the character of Jesus Himself!
My goodness, is this the hardest thing in following Jesus? I think yes.
God's teaching me some reality of his kingdom. Time to make it right for my anger part. Got the message. Let's see how the seed grows me. Don't let it be sowed on the rocks or picked away by the devil. I Take it in.
Just sent this to my kids. I've dealt with angry all of my life, I can remember being 11 years old being in a range over the smallest things. I'm 46 years old and barely I see a huge change in myself and the way I handle conflict. I've taught my kids nothing but anger, fighting, we are right and we have a right to lash out... but I was wrong. I see it now. I was the worst example to them because now they are just like me. I have been praying over myself over my kids and grandchildren. I pray that the pain the let down the feeling of doubt and no self control be released from my family. I pray that God's love fills us all and that we can learn how to deal with life's conflicts. That the holy spirit be within us, that we can be lead in the spirit and not the flesh. God has brought me this far and I would like prayer for Daniel, Christian, Armando, Breanna, baby Daniel, Bella, Leo, Enzo and Ariel. God's promises will endure forever ❤
NOTHING IS WORTH COMPROMISING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THE TRUE GOD. DO NOT LOSE WHAT YOU HAVE GAINED BECAUSE OF NOTHING THAT CAN COMPARE TO WHAT HE IS AND HAS FOR YOU.
Well spoken sermon the truth hurts but it only hurts the flesh and pride. There is pain in real growth in the Lord. But it's well worth dying to self as we gain more of Christ. Thank you dear brother
Miracles are done by God and God works in Natural ways
This message has just touched my heart. Thank you Jesus.
God used this message to teach me how to handle conflict when last night I had an intense conflict with my parent. Thank you 🙏 may God bless you and this channel
Your transparency has TRUELY blessed me! Thank you PEACE IS POWERFUL!
I needed to see this video I'm always short tempered an don't wanna be this way no more. 🙏
Thank you for allowing God to use you. Thank you for this message and man is God something else. My goal for my life to is fix my heart, for my heart of stone to be transformed to a heart of flesh. I am declaring this over my life, I am healed, I am patient and the Spirit of God is working in my life and I am letting go of anger.
Wow!! This really spoke to me. I really deal with anger, and getting angry so fast.
im happy to God that I came across this, because He has been dealing with me about my attitude. God can not operate in me through the Holy Spirit with a bad Attitude, I do not want to grieve the Holy Spirit anymore. I have some conversations to have
Wow im guilty of all these things this video is Gods gift
thank you for teaching GOD’s word
Got me in tears
Amen thank u for sharing such an amazing message we need to listen to this
JP I just found you on you tube and I'm on my 4th sermon. I have an anger problem and really loved this and truly feel I was supposed to watch this. I just contacted my sister and asked for forgiveness. Amen brother and thank you
This was so good! 😭 The Holy Spirit knew I needed to hear this message. I’ve been struggling with anger for years 🙏🏼🕊 Thank you JP ❤️
I am born and raised in Dallas and I'd love the chance to speak with this man. I have the exact same rage in me that he speaks of in the beginning. It's terrible. I could use any and all insight on what may be causing the type of rage I have struggled with since I turned 15 years old .. I'm now 32. I'm talking about an ever blinding and all encompassing anger that causes me to see nothing but red ! All sense of self and understanding flee my mind and there is nothing left but to destroy that which is in my sights. I do all I can to control my rage and 9-10 times, I can consciously keep the anger at bay... but that one time that I am unable to suppress it , it is an Earth shaking and world scorching fire that must burn itself out once it is started. Any and all in my path during that time stand no chance be them friend or foe. If I'm honest, it's a bit scary. Curious to get your thoughts on the cause. This is not a normal anger... this is the type of reaction that is triggered during life or death moments. Like my back is agaisnt the wall and the only way out is to go straight through that what's in front of me... or face death. Anyways... now that I sound like a complete psycho, I thank you for your time. All the best and God bless !
KJ
KJ.. I feel you for what you are saying. I have wrath problems, it is one of my big weaknesses. I have discovered that the enemy exploits a weakness and then hammers it. I have decided to approach this with as much courage as anger. I resolve that with God I will defeat the enemy. He will not take my weakness and leave me in defeat. Because that would only make me angrier. Resolve to beat that anger. You can do it as I can do it. With God all things are possible. I will pray for ya my friend.
Extreme anger such as that is often a sign of suppressed pain. The anger masks a wound. I'd pray earnestly to God for healing my friend. God bless.
Get delivered! You are dealing with a spirit of REJECTION. Learning to receive Gods love and only his is important. Also FORGIVENESS another important key. Forgive yourself and others.
Its helpful preaching. Thank you sir.
Praise God! Thank you for this powerful message that I needed to hear. I have been dealing with anger for a long time I've prayed forgiveness ask the Holy spirit to change me and set me FREE then the anger came many times to my fiance definitely wrong please pray for me God bless.
This is crazy good! I’d love to go to this church
I’m not sure who you are...., but I’m so impressed by you! This is the one and only video I’ve watched of you! So powerful
This really was a beautiful message.
Thanks a lot. After hearing this sermon it has really helped me.
Thank you for this message, might have changed my life
I came here because I have wrath problems. Not so much anger but wrath, and it builds. And though I assure people around me I am working on it they act as though Im doomed because it happened in the first place..... Deep breath....that's why Im here. Never give up on yourself, God doesn't give up on us.
One of my biggest issues. I get stressed or irritated it ends up in anger. I have a good long time being with self control. But like you said sometimes things don't get resolved and the frustration never goes away. And then the peace is taken. It can become a cycle.
I've been feeling like these are demons or the devil making us/me angry. As in us I mean people on TH-cam watching this. I've been so dedicated to God and following his rules, being kind, reading the Bible every night, and today suddenly my anger just came out. I was filled with this horrible rage and I was being dangerous on the road, saying hurtful stuff, and being who I used to be. I'm confused and wondering if maybe I haven't changed at all...
You're not alone. I am right there with you and I'm struggling too. These are growing pains. God is shaping us into the image of Jesus. The fact that you are aware that your anger is a problem is a good thing because now you can change by the Holy Spirit! Submit (surrender) to God, resist the devil (anger, lust, fear, resentment, the will of the flesh), and he will flee from you!
God bless you pastor jp😢
This is so beautiful. Thank you so much for this sermon🙏✨
Good word. Watching from India 🙋🏻♂️
What if you have abusive parents? And what if you have ptsd? I’ve asked for forgiveness and tried to reconcile with my dad. I’ve tried everything.. I’m not giving up. I guess I need prayer or just anything. I know he isn’t a hopeless case.
My problem is ego. I'm still learning to control it.
Because of anger, addiction and sinful patterns i am separated from my family who i love very much. Thank you for this message. I'm ready to change and i know it can only be lasting and right through Jesus. Will you please pray for for me to have the courage to hang in for the long haul and make healthy choices out of love and not live in fear and resentment anymore? Thank you.
I pray God's word that says you have all that retains to life and godliness over you. That the Holy Spirit will strengthen you in your inner man and enable you to cross every hurdle across your way in Jesus way.
The root of anger is REJECTION. Please get delivered from rejection which is the main cause of so many problems we have like bitterness, hated, and so forth... Forgiveness definitely is the key to all this.
Thank you 🙌🏻
Greetings from Singapore! Thanks for the upload. A refreshing message indeed to help me cope with my anger.
I will play this video to my mother in law and husband
Needed this...
Wow I needed that
i'd put things in a different perspective, starting from looking at these words: anger, judgment... What is anger? It really starts as just a thought of ~'i've been wronged by...' and becomes anger when is allowed to turn into emotion that may trigger violent reactions towards the 'by...' who appears to have caused the 'wronging'. When anger subsides and deeds are done, is when 'judgment will come' followed by 'hell' and this is not external- it comes from within bringing remorse, guilt and a feeling of disgust with the self and even 'self-hate', and all is... hell. Just look inside yourself and check if this is not so; if it is, then what to do?! Firstly see that thoughts of any kind [that of anger in this case] are not yours [otherwise why would you choose to have bad thoughts?!]; they come from... somewhere [subject to another discussion but for now, who cares?!- 'putting out the fire' is more important]. What is important to see is that you have the choice to 'subscribe' to the thought and keep doing what you've been doing so far [the old way of the world 'an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth'] or ignore the thought as soon as it arises, preferably before it becomes emotion.
How you do that? By simply observing and allowing/accepting the 'piercing of the heart'= the visceral scream for 'explosion'. Look at the mechanics of the thought [and to any internal manifestations of distress, physical discomfort...] as not yours, as to a scene in a movie; you are not the character having a fit of anger on the screen; you are the screen that allows this manifestation and which remains the same, unperturbed after the character 'is done'. Also look back at your own experience- how long a thought lasts- 2-3 minutes, at best?! It would soon be replaced by a different thought [in case of anger- just another 'justification' in support of the initial thought of 'i've been wronged/i have to defend my rights...' So, can you go through the present 2-3 minutes of hell now or prefer the longer [sometimes much longer...] lasting hell following 'judgment'?
"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven."
This refers first of all to your own self- do not judge, condemn yourself but forgive any 'slips' and get back to being the witness, not the victim or the aggressor.
daisilui Amen and Amen 💓
Wow the last example was very good.
Ephesians 4:26 - Be angry and sin not.
I needed this ❤️
Needed this
I think Jesus has a deeper meaning than to simply equate anger to murder. Unresolved anger and unforgiveness will land is in the same place as murderers
Conflicts are opprutunities to show your faith. Either respond in the flesh or in the spirit ---- which is worship to God
On my search bar was “How to deal with Anger” because I was feeling sooo Furious and Frustrated with my husband 😂!!
Amen
wow, thank you
How did you read me/my personality like that? Thank you I needed to see this 😊
I'm honestly anticipating deliverance cause it's terrible
wow wow wow
I myself grew up in an abusive HH. Although, my
" used to be step-dad " didn't always beat us, but if he wasn't beating us, he was he was verbally and mentally abusive. I found out at an early age in life the his own mother was the phyisal and verbal abuser, but growing up. I resented my mother cause she would always tell me that if we'd only shut up and be quiet he would quit. Like why would you put us through such a thing, mother? Why? So, I would plan his murder. I had planned on waiting until I was old enough to buy a gun and then I was going to torture him slowly like he did me, mother, and our family. However, the Lord....he had different plans. I grew up in the church but didn't finally start living for him better than I was when I turned 27. I realized than that mother was being a Christian those times she would allow him to call her names and verbally and mentally abuse her and just be quiet. The resentment for her about that left me when I realized what she had been doing all along touched my heart and my life. I then wanted to have what she had. Able to contain her anger so she could keep the peace. ( I'm 38 now and still deal with bad anger issues, cause of always being in that defense mode and I also have gossip issues, both of which I can't seem to stop. Please pray for me on that one, Preacher.) Anyways, God encouraged me to forgive this man that I hated so so much. And When God presented me with a chance to forgive this man, I did with my whole heart . Forgiveness gave me a chance to start living again. The very day I did, weight was lifted off of my shoulders. I felt like I was floating. Like this black cloud that I'd been carrying around with me finally left my soul. I truly started living again from that point in different aspects. Pray for my mother though cause she hasn't forgiven him yet. I want her to feel what that peace feels like, but she won't listen. She says she's forgiven him but her actions prove otherwise. Breaks my heart. She deserves nothing more than to be happy. I've had a few heartbreaks and slid off from God when I started going back to school and began to be more rebellious than I ever had been. Now my verbalizing ex lives me cause I almost lost my home. It was 4 years ago that he moved in. It was only supposed to be for a few months. Crazy I know, but that's what happened. Then I became everything I hated. Now, I truly am trying my best to Walk in God again, as of three years ago. This time in my Walk, a few family members and I got baptized and I read the Bible almost daily. The anger I can not stop in my own strength and gossiping, well it follows me and I also bring things up I shouldn't. God has a lot of work to do in me, idk whether I'm coming or going but I do know this anger issue is staying to get out of hand and all I want to do is be drama free. Everything seems to be my fault according to my family. I just want to walk humbly every day. I really needed to hear this sermon but I need to put it into practice. I just need to learn be slow to speak and swift to hear, instead of getting offended. I Thank you for being dry and uncut with your truth about your own reasons of anger. I so needed this sermon. I thank God for His deligence. He has a lot of work in me to do that's for sure. I need Help Jesus. I can't stop getting angry over the littlest things. I get angry at myself cause I get angry? Haha. IDK perfectly how to stop yet, but with God's help, I will learn and master it, to start stomping on my anger, in it's tracks. Just need to focus on the teachings. I'm ready to win back my life again, before I lose my soul. Please place your finger on my pic and pray over me to stomp anger with prayer as soon as it arrives. I get angry unhealthily too fast. That is not not not normal..I want to be Holy like He is Holy, but I need to find a way to master my anger.
the dinosaur thing?
lookup kent hovind seminars, and trey smith..
God bless
I’m still angry and I still want vengeance
Just wow! Who's crying?
Wait, Jesus referred to anger towards a brother and sister. Is it the same when dealing with an unbeliever? They don't fear God so their offense is often far worse. Should we deal with them the same?
Watching this felt like someone sat there and slightly pressured me to eat a cactus because if I didn't eat that one cactus, I'd be forced to eat 8,000 cacti later. Hard pill to swallow to say the least.
Yeah, i hate scams... once I had this traveling sales chick stop by the pharmacy I worked at and she was selling those "magic" heat bags you can pop the little disc inside which begins a reaction that heats up the bag, and then you can boil it later and the reaction reverses so you can crack it again later (apparently it wears out after a while too). Anyway she said she was selling them for like $40 each and that they'd bought them for $10 so she'd sell them to me as the retailer for $20. I spent $400 of the company's money and bought them. Then I went across the parking lot to get lunch from the grocery store and they were set up there selling them for $20 each. I was pissed. Then I went online to see how much they cost and they were sold in bulk, 1000 units for a thousand $... means $1 each. not fun.
Wow
Anger is shame (read i thought it was just me by Brene Brown). Don't buy into other people's definition of who you are when they accuse you.
I’m always pissed off pray for me
the kids roll their eyes and sigh all the time and I find it so hard not to whoop on em
Wouldn’t it have been better to confront the brothers and forgive them to their faces ?
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Hold on are you saying it is not a MIRACLE you said not Miraculously ...
A 4 years old child shouldn't have to apologize for getting beat everyday of his life. There is no 2%...Jeaus got angry...GOD got angry...it said be angry and sin not.
Being a pig who gets women to break up with you over your rage and being a hero who saves a man from a fire...not the same thing...
Wait. That little boy who was beaten by his dad under alcohol how come the little boy has part in the conflict? Even if he is now an adult. The anger that he inflicted on his son has pushed him to curse him back. It's normal. Why 2%? Nah the father has 100% the son has none to me.
Great message but what do you do when someone doesn't want to talk to you but wants you to talk to their daughter instead which is obvious they will take this opportunity not to accept your apology but put you down and say lies to you about you in your face. Sorry but this message doesn't apply to every situation. The examples given were not complicated situations.
So this man is saying you CANT be angry? Is this man a monster?
This message of telling a survivor of child abuse that it was his fault is demonic. The story's obviously a lie as well. I don't know how pastors like this live with themselves. Please don't allow yourself to be damaged by this manipulation. God loves you.
so you suggested to this man to go and ask for forgiveness of his violent father for beating the daylights out of him every day as a child. That is unchristian and twisted. How dare you. You would tell a little sexually abused child to ask their abuser for forgiveness? Absolutely twisted. Same thing as telling that man to apologise to his violent abusive father. This is not Godly.
I have to agree with you. I think that you can forgive someone without going to them. I think the man was carrying so much anger that is was blocking his relationship with God. Anyone can recommend something to a person and if they choose to do it, it is up to them. In this case it seemed to work but in many it would not. Sometimes our "part" in the conflict is simply learning to forgive ourselves or others by praying for them as we cannot always reconcile with people who are very toxic to our relationship with God. There are many ways to let go of anger toward a person. Going to them is merely one of the options.
@@amberolson6364 that is a cop out if ever I heard one. You don't have to take his advice. I too attended a church that had an attitude of victim blaming like this clown podluka. Telling him he us to blame for his father's violence. Idiot. If you are broken from violent parents and then hear that it is so destructive to a person's health and walk with Christ. Off course forgiveness is important but victim blaming. How dare he. How bloody dare he.
“Sometimes you do the right thing and it turns out really really bad but God makes sense of it in heaven” let me tell you how I just screamed YES and started clapping real loud in my apartment alone LOL I felt thattttt
This is the answer I'm waiting for. Thank you, Lord, for this message.❤️
wow