I wouldn't worry about it. You're doing what you love doing. You're so young and life can change in so many ways! Maybe you'll meet someone with the same goals, maybe you'll choose to settle in one place when you're older, who knows? I travelled for 15 years and settled down in my 40's, and I don't for a second regret those years abroad, it was what I wanted to do and I loved it so much!
I’m not out there travelling but I understand the struggle. Chasing your passion means you don’t have time to commit/settle and it’s better to be honest about it. Relax, it’s fine, a relationship is not your priority right now, and trust me, you’ll know when it becomes one. Till then, have fun travelling to all the places on your list!
Exactly, sometimes we have to make sacrifices and it's better to have tried then to wake up one day and regret all the things you didn't do. Life always finds a way 🌍🌎🌏, thanks for your motivating words🙏 I hope you find everything you're looking for in this great life
@ don’t stress, bro: older we get, more we have to offer. Travel isn’t always easy, being away from close connections makes you crave them more no doubt. Just don’t be the oldest guy in the ‘club’ 🤪
@cliffedge546 Men are usually the reason couples struggle with infertility. Sorry but this is just a myth that men get better with age. not in this economy and not with that hairline buddy. Too many fat lonely men sitting around wishing they hadn't listened to men like you. If you want to settle at 40 you better stay away from porn and find 40yo women attractive because you won't be entitled to a young wife. Again, another myth. Most young women want to date men roughly their own age. Not 40 year olds. Men's sperm counts and testosterone has plummeted in recent decades. Its quite risky to wait until 40 to have a family. Don't be delusional and expect a loyal woman at the end of your casual sex tour around the world.
I think you're rationalizing. Traveling 24/7 is not a 'passion' in the sense that mastering a skill is a passion. It's a 'passion' in the sense that jerking off to porn all day is a passion. It's just short term pleasure with no work involved and, again, no commitment. And without commitment, you can't find meaning. I think, rather than waking up at 40 and finding someone, you'll wake up at 40 and realize you're completely alone in the world; that you prioritized easy enjoyment over the difficult but ultimately much more rewarding work of addressing your character defects and building relationships, both romantic and platonic, that will not always be fun. You seem to be looking for something, but you won't find it, because that something doesn't exist except as an idea. If you want it, you need to build it. And if you don't work on the skill now, you will, at 40, be just as incapable of building the thing you want as you are today; you'll just be full of regrets that will make it far harder for you.
This video has related to people more than I could imagine, and also some interesting opinions - in terms of following a skill travelling it'll be filmmaking which I absolutely love - however I completely get where you're coming from, travel cannot fill that void of trying to find meaning, ultimately meaning comes from your inner self - what I find really useful from travelling is the lessons I have learnt from the world which has shaped me as a character and maybe even brought some skills but I do understand in the long term it could be unsustainable - thank you for your input though
I think you meet lovely people often when travelling, but in the end it always comes down to seeing a joint future. So if your plan is travelling forever, the only way love life can work for you seems to be with a person that wants to do the same. So maybe next time, talk to the 60 year old traveller in your hostel ;)))) Just a joke haha. But I do understand your pain. I have been in your situation on travels and I never found a solution, mostly because either 1) the other person was living there and couldn't/didn't want to leave, or 2) as a solo traveller I had a very unique style and objective in travelling, and the other partner did so too with different plans, type of travelling and objectives, so it didn't make sense either. I don't know, they say if you find the right person, you will just manage to do it together, but we'll see... (both)
@@Jonas-yv6lo 100% anything is possible 🤗😊 - I think 26 or any age really can be confusing with so many life decisions to make , it's terrifying but also exciting
I wouldn't worry about it. You're doing what you love doing. You're so young and life can change in so many ways! Maybe you'll meet someone with the same goals, maybe you'll choose to settle in one place when you're older, who knows? I travelled for 15 years and settled down in my 40's, and I don't for a second regret those years abroad, it was what I wanted to do and I loved it so much!
@@michellekaufmann5154 that's such a lovely and inspiring thing to say ❤️ thank you so much, life always finds a way thank you
literally same here. i love traveling but have accepted that it makes relationships impossible.
It certainly makes them so much more challenging, but life always finds a way 🌞
@@SpenceTravels very true! the "maybe i'll settle down at 40 idk" vibe is so real
I’m not out there travelling but I understand the struggle. Chasing your passion means you don’t have time to commit/settle and it’s better to be honest about it. Relax, it’s fine, a relationship is not your priority right now, and trust me, you’ll know when it becomes one. Till then, have fun travelling to all the places on your list!
Exactly, sometimes we have to make sacrifices and it's better to have tried then to wake up one day and regret all the things you didn't do. Life always finds a way 🌍🌎🌏, thanks for your motivating words🙏 I hope you find everything you're looking for in this great life
Settling down at 40, for a guy, is absolutely no problem.
@@cliffedge546 true haha maybe should've picked a later age 🤣
@ don’t stress, bro: older we get, more we have to offer. Travel isn’t always easy, being away from close connections makes you crave them more no doubt. Just don’t be the oldest guy in the ‘club’ 🤪
@@cliffedge546 hahahah those are some wise words, thank you though apprecaite it :)
@cliffedge546 Men are usually the reason couples struggle with infertility. Sorry but this is just a myth that men get better with age. not in this economy and not with that hairline buddy. Too many fat lonely men sitting around wishing they hadn't listened to men like you. If you want to settle at 40 you better stay away from porn and find 40yo women attractive because you won't be entitled to a young wife. Again, another myth. Most young women want to date men roughly their own age. Not 40 year olds. Men's sperm counts and testosterone has plummeted in recent decades. Its quite risky to wait until 40 to have a family. Don't be delusional and expect a loyal woman at the end of your casual sex tour around the world.
I think you're rationalizing. Traveling 24/7 is not a 'passion' in the sense that mastering a skill is a passion. It's a 'passion' in the sense that jerking off to porn all day is a passion. It's just short term pleasure with no work involved and, again, no commitment. And without commitment, you can't find meaning. I think, rather than waking up at 40 and finding someone, you'll wake up at 40 and realize you're completely alone in the world; that you prioritized easy enjoyment over the difficult but ultimately much more rewarding work of addressing your character defects and building relationships, both romantic and platonic, that will not always be fun. You seem to be looking for something, but you won't find it, because that something doesn't exist except as an idea. If you want it, you need to build it. And if you don't work on the skill now, you will, at 40, be just as incapable of building the thing you want as you are today; you'll just be full of regrets that will make it far harder for you.
This video has related to people more than I could imagine, and also some interesting opinions - in terms of following a skill travelling it'll be filmmaking which I absolutely love - however I completely get where you're coming from, travel cannot fill that void of trying to find meaning, ultimately meaning comes from your inner self - what I find really useful from travelling is the lessons I have learnt from the world which has shaped me as a character and maybe even brought some skills but I do understand in the long term it could be unsustainable - thank you for your input though
I think you meet lovely people often when travelling, but in the end it always comes down to seeing a joint future. So if your plan is travelling forever, the only way love life can work for you seems to be with a person that wants to do the same. So maybe next time, talk to the 60 year old traveller in your hostel ;)))) Just a joke haha. But I do understand your pain. I have been in your situation on travels and I never found a solution, mostly because either 1) the other person was living there and couldn't/didn't want to leave, or 2) as a solo traveller I had a very unique style and objective in travelling, and the other partner did so too with different plans, type of travelling and objectives, so it didn't make sense either. I don't know, they say if you find the right person, you will just manage to do it together, but we'll see... (both)
@@Jonas-yv6lo 100% anything is possible 🤗😊 - I think 26 or any age really can be confusing with so many life decisions to make , it's terrifying but also exciting
Have you thought about traveling with your partner?
@@kartikbagdi9548 100% but sometimes it doesn't quite work if you wanna travel long term 😊
@SpenceTravels pretty understandable, I hope you find someone who can travel long term with you
@@kartikbagdi9548 Cheers mate 🤗 life always finds a way, gotta enjoy the great moments ❤️