@@krypton9773 having a career, and job, going for higher education, having fun and enjoying my life, hanging out with friends, taking care of my parents and family, taking care of my mental and physical health, and deciding my retirement plans, etc., etc Most importantly having my own life and be what I am
@@Ankit-hs9nb Yea and don't you prefer someone like yourself who got their own life and all that stuff? Cause "Bitch" here means such a person. Whereas "Good girl" Is someone needy which her world goes around another person, her self validation depends on other person not her own self. you see? So u gotta prefer "The Bitch" naturally.
@@AnaElSout I saw the video again and I will say again that I need a good girl who needs me, so I do not worry about losing her, and I can focus on other aspects of life equally I don't need bitches who play games to make me feel special sometimes and fake disinterest just for her personal reasons.
There's no difference. Both women have the same exact behaviors in their physiology. The only aspect is that one acts like that with the right man and the other one acts like that with the wrong man .
Genes? Dude theyre def two different people There's absolutely a difference between women who are really independent and ready to throw u if u don't appreciate her and who doesn't make her life revolve around that man and between the one who doesn't. Genes have nothing with psychology or personalities
@@Sarahh929 independent nah I don't think so. Just that dey haven't met a man at that level to make her head over heels. At the highest hierarchy is always men. Ronaldo is desirable to any woman even billionaires but Rihanna isn't.
I prefer being a good girl because I won’t sacrifice my values and kindness just to attract men by being bitchy of “pulling someone’s self steem down”. Being a quality person is much important for me than showing a fake archetype.
But what’s the point of doing all that at the expense of your integrity? If you truly don’t want to sacrifice yourself you should learn to put yourself first, not be dependent on another person to feel whole - the way she described a good girl’s behaviour in the video.
Wait until you get your hear broken a few times from being kind and sweet. You'll see....being kind and sweet gets you stomped on and discarded. Sad reality of the dating world word of advice stay single because once girls like you get hurt you turn into Demons hurting every man who crosses your path!
I read The book "Why Men Love Bitches" and "Bitch" is not someone who playes with your/others emotions or play games and stuff. It's just someone who acts respectfully with her own self and others and on the other hand can easily walk away or leave when they are not getting treated with respect. She defined "The Bitch" personality wrongly. "The Bitch" Is nice, respected, understands you, listens to you, and all that stuff. Just doesn't stays in a situation that is NOT comfortable for her. That's it. Don't know where these Games come from?
How's that being a bitch then? Shouldn't it be "how to actually be normal". Bitch/dickhead is generally referred to people who play silly manipulative games and is usually used as quite an insult. How people can take pride in being "the bitch" absolutely baffles me let alone coming up for reasons to justify it/change the meaning. Let's stick to being normal. A normal person treats others with respect and responds to a bad situation by leaving it when a solution cannot be found through appropriate communication than developing some "bitch" personality. - just my opinion though
@@wissal101 Well the author used the term "Bitch" just in a humorous way. The book also has been written in some type of humor to describe a certain personality. Nothing serious or objective here in using the term "Bitch".
Those type of girls have a securely attachment style...they grow up in loving and harmonious family...if you grew up with chaos or other people bully you, you will get insecure attachment style and most of the people are not aware of their attachment style... it's only when i meet a dismissive avoidant and i kept on searching why they are confusing...all of the 3 insecure attachment style have core wounds and inner childhood trauma..
@@Anonymityfan men do ..men chase high value women aka securely attached vs the anxious preoccupied attachment who have fear on abandonment and who stays even the man cross their boundaries and disrespect her.. unless she already have self awareness and do some inner work..(shadow work)
Why has dating/loving become so difficult in today's times? It's like you'd have to take up a proper course on "how to love a man?" I watch so many vids just to understand why did my ex didn't want a future with me and what i must hv done wrong. But.... Love just happens and it's effortsless. The right man wuld treat u right no matter how u behave. If u'r bad then he'll talk it out. If he's bad at something you'll help him out. It just works "simply."
@@ariantor529 The 'playing' comes from a need to control the outcome of a relationship. They just don't want to get hurt in the relationship, all stems from bad attachments from childhood. God. Every person is hurt these days. Wth happened?
I was a good girl til i realized good girls doesnt get the man and love and attention and care they deserve. So i became a bitch then i realized it still doesnt get the man and most specially the respect and genuine admiration. So i become both. Im good woman that is also a bitch. I will be tough when i needed to be tough and soft when i needed to be soft. I change the things i have that i think i should change. I soften the rough edges when needed. But i stopped blaming myself if a man didnt treat me right or didnt chose me because most of these guys doesnt even really know what they want. He gets good girl, he didnt find any drama he find her suffocating so he went to the bitch then he complains its too dramatic and the woman is being a bitch herself. Just do you focus on you and carry on
Literally sounds accurate asf, dating is too complicated. Like wtf now we have to go to school basically and study how to act, when to and when not to act a certain way, the why’s. It’s too much. Too many games
@@briannanickson6656 It is complicated because of America. Americans tend to over complicate simple stuff. Pretty funny if you think about it.. 90% of the (useless) dating advices or ´yt channels´ comes from America lol.
YESSSSS 🫶🏾👏🏾 When you're a complete good girl, you get taken advantage of... when you're a complete b*tch, you still don't get true love. So it's better to be both. The saying goes "too much of anything is bad" and in this case, that is still true. Being both balances out your self worth and respect but also your kind heart and honest wanting for love as a woman. 🤷🏾♀️.
There is nothing better than good girls 👧And as you say.. A lot people tend to use pull and push techniques..A lot people needs a validation because probably in their childhood they couldn't live up to their parents expectations. A child who can sense that they're not living to their parents expectations becomes and adult who betrays themselves for validation
@@idrk1507 yeaaaa you go girl. Destroy yourself over someone elses shit attitude cuz yeaaaa thats how you fix things. Ruin everything and expecting the asshole to magically come back to fix everything for you
No this world isn't for "good girls" or "nice guys" Relationships are about getting benefits from one another and good girls/nice guys will get used and then people would get bored of them
In these last two decades I've realized how unbelievably uncapable people are are in not only dating people but also keeping their love interests. They treat dating like a game and relationships are just an exciting adventure for their ego until someone better comes along. It was no surprise to see videos like this in this "modern time", but still I am really disappointed of how cold the people got and how difficult it is for them to prioritize love and careness for a potential partner rather than their ego.
Me who pretends like a good girl but is actually a bitch. Men have no idea. I'm just kidding! I actually have avoidant attachment style so anxious men keep getting attracted to me like a moth to the flame. I show interest in an attempt to return thiers, but ends up feeling overwhelmed and ghosts them, which makes them even more anxious and i get even more avoidant. When i feel like they've calmed down, i go back to them and the cycle repeats. I know I have issue and i need to get my shit together before i consider being in a relationship, nowadays i turn men down no matter how they chase me knowing how hurt they'll get if I keep being an avoidant, it terrifies me. At the same time I never chase anyone except if they stole something from me and ran away. P.S : I'm going to therapy that's why I have self awareness. I've rarely got into a relationship, and the fact that I've still got my V-card. It's just hard for me to be intimate with people but exactly 3 people who are very very close to me. Even my life's goal is to spoil them/pamper them. I'll be fucking lonely without them.
The things is in this world a lot of things varies. Men loves both of them but not just one. For me...if a girl is humble,looking at how she treats strangers,how she relates and how she talks when she's angry also talks more about her and when i see all these as good vibes and values.They become attractive to me. Also for me, if a girl loves me for who I am and not for what i have and or what i can provide her...she's had me already. It's not easy for you to be loved. Finally,don't take anybody for granted.
Well, what if she accepted u the way you are and invested a hell lot of time, and turns out u r no longer interested in her? I don't understand everyone has this thought that girls should accept them the way they are. Sir, we do!!!. But for that we need commitment, we should feel secure after all we are a woman and so yes we seek security....
This is what a narcissist does to feel powerful, they do not know how to actually be vulnerable with anyone, including themselves so they have a very self inflated image. They constantly set subliminal expectations in their relationships so they never feel like someone appreciates and loves them by what they are doing, so it's never thrilling when they are met. It's a very sad way to live your life, and if it has to do with severe attachment issues, please get the support you need to stop driving people mad.
No one wants a mean girl but men get sugar overload when a woman is sweet as pie. Which is sad because the worst girls are Never single but the sweet girls are🤔
Yeah, a girl that is sweet as pie so that you can devour it completely. Lol. And being a B doesn't mean to be a mean girl, it literally means to be strong and self-sufficient. You need to read the entire book to get it.
Thank you fanceska for giving me good advices how to protect myself from bitches like the last one I had. Seriously I feel so stupid to have become the victim
Hi there! Found your channel at 2 in the morning and find your videos very interesting. Would love to see longer video where you explore more on those subject. You've got a subscriber.
As a girl I have nevah dated someone and I don't want to ..Yk when there's a toxic and amazing chocolates kept in a chocolate box it's better to keep the box away 😑
Jesus. Can't I just be myself. This is so exhausting. Yes, we don't technically need relationships to survive in this day and age, but mentally, we all need people. Otherwise, why would anyone bother with dating apps if we didn't NEED a partner? Our society has become too individualistic, there is nothing wrong with admitting we all want a romantic relationship.
Theres no "good" Girl image. If you come to think of it, both of these girls are the same person. Its just that these two different personalities Starts showing in different phases of her life
I've the both of the qualities I can be a bitch and a good girl at the same time but for my man I'm his and only his no matter what kind of behaviour I have..
Tender, delicate, sensitive, soft-spoken, compassionate, has self-respect (not egoistic); i.e. a purely feminine being is what personally I find to be beautiful and amazing. I love to honour and protect these type of women. Anything else, avoid.
Hmmm this is related with our core wounds and attachment style...the girl whose become needy and clingy have a fear of abandonment she was triggered, the other one i guess she have secure attachment style so she's fine and confident within herself... People's attachment style develop since we're baby if the parents or caregiver can't meet our needs we get insecure attachment styles... But honestly even I'm completely fine with other men and I'm not triggered, if you meet a dismissive avoidant you will become anxious preoccupied and questioning yourself trying to prove that your worthy... it's only when i learned about personal development school about this stuff ..and it's hard and painful for woman who become anxiously attached, and we have to be strong enough in stating our needs and boundaries especially with avoidant attachment men...hope this helps..
I asked a lot of men who confessed they found "the one" , who proposed to someone, or had "the one that got away", what made them consider that. They all said it was because of her soul, and her kindness. Sooo...maybe men love bitches, to mess around with and pass the time, but they will never see them as "the one"
I have to say you did a marvelous job explaining relationships dynamics between a man and a woman the woman does need a man there is things a woman can not do that a man could do with no problem say for instance things like opening a jar of spaghetti sauce a woman might have a taste for Italian tomato sauce she would be left with no choice but to get creative
Can't believe I'm about to say this but I think I'd given up all hope lol 😆 my close friend is a womanizer and his "good girl" knows he's slept around like crazy and trust me she is good because he's kept her and she's a single mom with 3 kids.. but good girls put up with stuff like this which is insane to me.. I'm at the point of just becoming asexual not trusting anything any girl has done before fr.. fr. I be seeing them settle with the bare minimum and be thinking my God what is it that I'm lacking 😆🥴...oh
As a Man, I'd desire a woman who feels a genuine desire/need for me and not who only shows appreciation on the surface but plays with my emotions. Good girls over Btch$ any time.
Singularity is what makes me the 1st place winner, I don't need a girl, I do self respect, self appreciation, self discipline. I don't need no girl or woman
I am not clingy and I really don't like clingy people. Just imagine someone is working very hard and someone constantly wants your attention omg. Mature person won't do that.
I honestly thought that you were going to say something that would be uninformative, but you actually said some great stuff. We as women don't have to act sweet or hard to get I think what will get us a guy, is if we strive on working on bettering ourself, be independent, but know when to act feminine. Such as being caring, when and ask questions or be soft and comforting when it is appropriate . If you are interested in the guy, let him know that, and stop when you feel like you're giving too much. I think the downfall of what is making failed relationships, is one of us act too independent but don't know how to socially talk and act like a feminine and the other half of us is acting too feminine and not being independent. My biggest downfall is acting too independent nowadays and acting more like a masculine than a softie.
We men hate these mind games and bitches🙂 These things apply to both sex if they have avoidant attachment style...... I just love innocent and good girls😇❤️ But sadly they don't exist.
This is stupid thinking. If a good girl respects me I'm providing my services and primal energy for life with her. Men with a brain, dignity and rules to live by have no problem with this nonsense
So I am a fan and I've been a follower of the channel and appreciate the thoughtful and insightful content but when I saw the clip I didn't recognize her at first...I don't know what it is but she looks super cute in this clip (always thought very attractive) but here there's something different...no makeup ? Anyway keep up the good work and thank you. (I'm never sure if the person making these vids ever read these comments tbh).
I believe what you just explained is more of an interchanging spectrum present in most girls if not all, "bitch" or otherwise, with a hint of one side being manipulative narcissist and the other timid and weak that you just described falling in extreme cases category. Also, I think with us men the term "bitch" do not corelate with mental acts but rather more towards physical, superficial (think "bitch resting face", hangry, etc.). Also please be advised that most girls often mirror their inner selves when trying to explain why men do what they do and how to go about it - a silent knowledge between men - easily picked up on and suddenly, boom! Your "software" gets hacked. i.e. Girl: "girls should play hard to get, or be Bad bitchy 'Girls'..." Men: "Aha! E=mc^2. = non needy bad boy with this one... checked!". But I assure you, men do not like "bitches", rather, men LEAVE "bitches" (when her negative traits comes up on first impressions) and I saw in many cases, men tells "the legend of the bitch" to other men to stay away from... and more than half will do just that. Having said that, girls will show subconscious future-offspring-preservation signals anyway as an important tool for their survival (I like your term "to have better chance of their cubs' survival" in your other video - that was BRILLIANT!!), and when (hopefully single) boys sees this while something managed to spark briefly during one encounter, they'll go "ah, the usual mating game..." and their brains will go: IT'S HUNTING SEASON BABY! Regardless she's a "bitch", "good girl", shy girl, maid, butcher, sewer worker, serial killer, or even their "bitchy" boss at work, etc. Can I add? Sorry I just had triple espressos and you're interestingly brainy... Men have the capability to fall in love at first sight, while women don't and this is important, women have attraction at first sight instead, but she still needs to check him out... is this correct? Otherwise yall would diminish our qualities of human civilization in less than a thousand years (in-line with your "cubs" theory). If you and I were to meet and I said "Hi" and we chatted, you will already see ten, 100 "faults" in me and conjure "red flag/green flag" in that very moment. While I, probably only see one, two, or won't even see any faults of yours at all. And this is equally important for humanity's sake as our job is to _chose a mate_ and yours is _to accept a mate_ . Not all of your "negative traits" will show unless you chose to do so at first sight, either to further deter or attract me. Because men, have the capability to fall in love at first sight with a severely anxious vampire for example, then gets revealed of her detrimental faults and vulnerabilities later... and the opposite happens: he has already determined to be protective and accepting of those vulnerabilities. If she cries and screams and hit, he'll give a hug. Now imagine a girl showing her hangry trait on steroids on first "Hi", the relationship will probably almost never happen. I think this phenomena is where you were going/ what you meant by saying why men likes "b's" (I hate that word, sorry), is that we find faults later and are incline to tinker with solutions patiently to best protect your needs and comfort as best we can instead of running to the hills. Once we chose, _we chose_ , too late, the protective chemicals have been activated. Just my theory though, thanks for reading all the way down :) (oh shit this is not quora?!😅)
so most of yr points are right I just wanna ask you That what If a female like a man how he can bring him in relationship or make him like her?? coz you mention first sight concept hope u try to explain it..
@@mojojojo9778 Hi, I can't answer anything that Francesca is covering on her channel because this is what it's for, otherwise it'll be an impolite hijacking. But if you're asking me to explain myself on that first sight "concept", can you clarify your question please as I don't quite understand... Are you asking (to my understanding) "what If a female _likes_ a man, how _she_ can make him like her" ?
@@zxenon555 Alright Mr. President, strange wordings there I know, I'll explain... (Hhh why do I always start this youtube typing binge every time I have my espressos made specifically for work deadlines lol!) *"Software hacking":* When girls comment on how to get a man crazy and _actually tries to explain the psychology of a man in the process_ , that's time for you to listen in - usually she's accidentally compromising how her own brain works and this could backfire on to herself. Dunno why this keeps happening all the time, try it, ask any girl how to get a man and listen to their answers... they never learn, sometimes :p *"Future-offspring-preservation signals":* Why the _Mating Games_ of course! The way they act when you approach. Here's an old European saying from my great grandmother my mom told me: "The Boy will chase the girl until... _She_ catches him!" Now imagine being ignored in a text and you go haywire - she'll know you're gonna be some dangerous over-controlling lunatic one day. Or they might smell that you're a loser because your shoes look dilapidated as an office worker. It's bye-bye for you, she won't _catch_ you. You might think they're being snobby, but actually not, they're being instinctively protective to the future un-borns that will rule the world one day - will you give them good leverage for your children's childrens to continue living on? Or will your family line perish before the next 100 years because she chose _you_ with all your tricks putting her under a spell. The *signals* are the tests. The test is to see if you're a good candidate to guarantee *future preservation* to the human line of existence. Of course, they don't think deliberately this way! I'm talking about instincts and why they do what they do. Sometimes words that comes out of their mouths boils your blood in 1/1000th of a second - your response? Make her fall to the floor rolling in laughter. A sign of good EQ from the guy, he handled her well. Good EQ = usually successful people. You get accepted. Tell her about her nasty mouth later in a good seductive way (in case you're afraid she might offend some people while you're not around to protect her), you WILL still get into trouble doing that, but hey, she's snuggling safely in your big arms. _and if you care to read on..._ I've been living the DiCaprio's "The Beach" life in Bali for 5 years, here they sell you motorbike stickers with funny texts. Mine reads (translated from Indonesian, might sound weird in English): _"Only Broke Guys Complain About Girls Are Materialistic!"_ . You won't believe how many girls on motorbikes pull up right beside me just to see who's behind the helmet lol! But why are they attracted to this? Because girls are needy: need money, need beauty products, need comfort, need protection, need food materials, need understanding without being judged, etc. ...because subconsciously, it is so that they could take care of _Your_ children better! ...and they will test you with lots of dramas in the process, i.e. the the signals. BUT: This is because girls are designed to Carefully Accept the best genes subconsciously and not just any random man - otherwise our species will be doomed to oblivion. Good jaw line, good immune system, smells addictive when nearby (a sign that the boy's DNA does not belong to her close relatives), wealthy line of family, hard earner, etc. Sadly, these positive "needy" traits get ridiculed as "high maintenance, gold diggers, materialistic", etc. A 20 year old marries a super-rich 70 y.o. and the world made fun of her as a gold digger. Yes he will die sooner, but so will she, then what happens? Her personality might get the brunt of ridiculing all her lifetime but her basic instinct is actually saying, "I'm in the right. Can you imagine our children and their offsprings doing well with the kind of leverage we as their ancestors gave them above everybody else in the world?" _That's what her evolutionary body is actually saying!_ So who will have the last laugh? Their 70,000 line of offsprings in the year 2527 who had the best leverage to start with above most people on this planet! But you know what? YOU and I in this future we're living in are actually the product of these SMART women throughout the millennia.... So, do non-materialistic girls ever existed in this world? Of course they did! But they've all perished tens of thousands of years ago... along with their sick children and crappy choices of men, because crappy choices makes for very low competitive leverage in the living world and then they die sooner to health issues and bad immune system, bad nutrition absorption or famine with no wealth, status, connection and education to help them get out of trouble. Yes, I'm aware some of their DNA's manage to slip thru family heritage in trace amounts today, so here's a lifetime experience in observing people: Almost all who pushes to marry quickly to the "wrong" person being the long-awaited man of a girl's love, are the girls and sometimes with their moms together, "Ah! We'll worry about his work details later! We have your father's business your future husband could handle for us!" - but when things go south, the wives, the very same people, were the first to utter these very words: "apparently you can't eat out of love... :(". The man who accepts these offers are toothless lions to begin with. Us men are hunters, our fangs fall off when we're given things easy. _Even children understood all this!:_ _I was 10 y.o. playing with my cousins when our moms were gossiping on how one of our super-duper rich friend of one of our aunts got so pissed off because her daughter married a loser she loves, her mother had said furiously, "why, his whole salary is less than the cost of her lipstick!" us kids found that fact to be stupidly ridiculous and funny and started giggling! (and worry about that girl's sake whoever she was)_ Opposite to the above story, there are dirt poor people who rise up from sufferings and poverty (the world is still a nasty game of chance and competition after all) and worked so hard he became rich and powerful - but this is a tell-tale sign that their ancestors were not a nobody in the past. Might be a general, a warrior, a die hard. Good genes pass on, bad genes don't get picked, good genes will survive all challenges, bad genes dies with the simplest of bacterias, there's a reason why the human race is called "race" - we ARE racing against all odds designed to kill us - so if you listen to what women want, listen deeper beyond the surface of where her wording lays before you label her. Wanting cars, houses, expensive skin care products and money might sound like it got nothing to do with biological talks about DNA - think again. Many women can smell "Future-offspring-preservators" thru the sweat on your shirt. Alright it's 01:33 A.M. now dang... beach time. Am I mistaking youtube for quora again? Thanks for reading anyway😁
Not a single guy i know loves a woman that plays games and is a bitch. Generally if a woman is a headache... Thats where men draw the line. Most men have either been rejected, ignored or have had some weird experience. Last thing were waiting for is a headache to make our lives even more miserable 😂
@@mi4f_195 explain your logic please. How am I to blame when I have been the good one here? You men don't make any sense. You might say you don't like the b*ches but you do
@@BlueBlue23 how are you so sure you've been good, and how are you sure you even gave the dudes that were actually nice to you a chance? See women dont understand that they hold all the power when it comes to selecting whoever they want. The fact of the matter is.. most women dont like men that treat them well, take the badboy syndrom as an example. So you most likely fell for the badboy, since distant men tend to be more attractive (doesnt matter what youll tell me) i know this from experience. Maybe give that dude that's been trying to reach out to you a chance.. he might surprise you, but you wouldnt since hes not attractive to you
The "Bitch" described in the video is how think a woman should be. In my opinion, a woman should be independent and self sufficient so that when/if she respects her man, the man really is capable of being respected. I don't know why she is labeled as a "Bitch". She is just trying to protect herself and have a "back bone" in this era. I don't blame her.
The problem lies here is - every other girl may think herself as a good girl, and not a bitch, while the percentage of bitches may be much higher, than the 'individual perception' of every girl thinking about herself. Hence the problems...
My ex was unique, some times she was a good girl, and some times she was a bitch, I loved everything on her, but her bitch phases would always cause conflict between us, and after having more and more bitch phases, she ended up leaving me
Guys maybe you didn't understand that's why saying why would a man want a bitch girl if she uses mind games... The thing is you now know this after watching this video..but what if you didn't know this exists, cuz the girl won't be saying that I'm gonna start ignoring you from this day..so yeah understand the video.
I am attracted to beautiful and smart girls like you. Where do I find one is beyond me... I am against the dating culture that has been installed recently and against modern society as a whole, but that is another topic.
Uh-uh ! 👎Big NO ! I'm a straight guy 100%. And I disagree! I will always go for the "good girl". No one's perfect but what people look for in a friend, it's the same traits we look for in a relationship. Faithfulness and loyalty and trustworthiness and kindness. And I read below in the comments that most guys agree with me and still prefers good girls.
Who wants games? Relationships need to be real. Respect yourself and the other person first, until then you are not ready to offer and receive love in any relationship.
As a man i prefer a good woman, you hate going to clubs & parties doesn't like hook up culture your a shy hopeless romantic, and college age like me, damn i do anything in world for a woman like that 😩
I've been with both types. Personally, I'd avoid the bitch personality. Now that I recognize it for what it is, I'd just let it go. It's not worth the headache, and wondering when the inevitable leaving/rejection will occur. It can become a self fulfilling prophecy if you dwell on it. To me that is just as unhealthy of a personality as the clingy type. If a woman can just toss you in the weeds, so to speak, when she sees you as an annoyance, then there is no loyalty, no love. It's one step up from a woman of the streets imo, regardless of their profession.
am I the only one who likes good girls and not bitches?
I have so many things to do in life than just being in this game of dating
Good girls are not actually good .
Like what?
@@krypton9773 having a career, and job, going for higher education, having fun and enjoying my life, hanging out with friends, taking care of my parents and family, taking care of my mental and physical health, and deciding my retirement plans, etc., etc
Most importantly having my own life and be what I am
@@Ankit-hs9nb Yea and don't you prefer someone like yourself who got their own life and all that stuff? Cause "Bitch" here means such a person. Whereas "Good girl" Is someone needy which her world goes around another person, her self validation depends on other person not her own self. you see?
So u gotta prefer "The Bitch" naturally.
@@AnaElSout I saw the video again
and I will say again that I need a good girl who needs me, so I do not worry about losing her, and I can focus on other aspects of life equally
I don't need bitches who play games to make me feel special sometimes and fake disinterest just for her personal reasons.
In short, "Be NICE, but not TOO NICE".
Live by this quote and make your life easier. ✨
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True love is effortless, it just flows
There's no difference. Both women have the same exact behaviors in their physiology. The only aspect is that one acts like that with the right man and the other one acts like that with the wrong man .
Genes? Dude theyre def two different people
There's absolutely a difference between women who are really independent and ready to throw u if u don't appreciate her and who doesn't make her life revolve around that man and between the one who doesn't.
Genes have nothing with psychology or personalities
@@Sarahh929 Exactly.
Exactly,
@@Sarahh929 independent nah I don't think so. Just that dey haven't met a man at that level to make her head over heels. At the highest hierarchy is always men. Ronaldo is desirable to any woman even billionaires but Rihanna isn't.
@@Sarahh929 Physiology was the word i was looking for more. Sorry. Haven't spoken English in years.
I prefer being a good girl because I won’t sacrifice my values and kindness just to attract men by being bitchy of “pulling someone’s self steem down”. Being a quality person is much important for me than showing a fake archetype.
But what’s the point of doing all that at the expense of your integrity? If you truly don’t want to sacrifice yourself you should learn to put yourself first, not be dependent on another person to feel whole - the way she described a good girl’s behaviour in the video.
I think men love more good girls, at least masculine men but it’s also an opinion
How good you and how cute you sound I hope you get a Good and real men
And always stay this way
You are a good girl please remain the same
Wait until you get your hear broken a few times from being kind and sweet. You'll see....being kind and sweet gets you stomped on and discarded. Sad reality of the dating world word of advice stay single because once girls like you get hurt you turn into Demons hurting every man who crosses your path!
I read The book "Why Men Love Bitches" and "Bitch" is not someone who playes with your/others emotions or play games and stuff. It's just someone who acts respectfully with her own self and others and on the other hand can easily walk away or leave when they are not getting treated with respect.
She defined "The Bitch" personality wrongly.
"The Bitch" Is nice, respected, understands you, listens to you, and all that stuff. Just doesn't stays in a situation that is NOT comfortable for her.
That's it. Don't know where these Games come from?
How's that being a bitch then? Shouldn't it be "how to actually be normal". Bitch/dickhead is generally referred to people who play silly manipulative games and is usually used as quite an insult. How people can take pride in being "the bitch" absolutely baffles me let alone coming up for reasons to justify it/change the meaning. Let's stick to being normal. A normal person treats others with respect and responds to a bad situation by leaving it when a solution cannot be found through appropriate communication than developing some "bitch" personality. - just my opinion though
@@wissal101 Well the author used the term "Bitch" just in a humorous way. The book also has been written in some type of humor to describe a certain personality.
Nothing serious or objective here in using the term "Bitch".
Those type of girls have a securely attachment style...they grow up in loving and harmonious family...if you grew up with chaos or other people bully you, you will get insecure attachment style and most of the people are not aware of their attachment style... it's only when i meet a dismissive avoidant and i kept on searching why they are confusing...all of the 3 insecure attachment style have core wounds and inner childhood trauma..
Men don't care at all about a woman's independence lol
@@Anonymityfan men do ..men chase high value women aka securely attached vs the anxious preoccupied attachment who have fear on abandonment and who stays even the man cross their boundaries and disrespect her.. unless she already have self awareness and do some inner work..(shadow work)
Why has dating/loving become so difficult in today's times? It's like you'd have to take up a proper course on "how to love a man?" I watch so many vids just to understand why did my ex didn't want a future with me and what i must hv done wrong. But.... Love just happens and it's effortsless. The right man wuld treat u right no matter how u behave. If u'r bad then he'll talk it out. If he's bad at something you'll help him out. It just works "simply."
I know! People treat their relationships anymore like a hobby.
Yes... more like a business venture - they try to foresee the benefits and probable losses they might face in being wid someone.
Its probably because everyone wanna love and not play but end up playin? IDK BUT YEA.
Thank you! These dating coaches are exhausting
@@ariantor529 The 'playing' comes from a need to control the outcome of a relationship. They just don't want to get hurt in the relationship, all stems from bad attachments from childhood. God. Every person is hurt these days. Wth happened?
I was a good girl til i realized good girls doesnt get the man and love and attention and care they deserve. So i became a bitch then i realized it still doesnt get the man and most specially the respect and genuine admiration. So i become both. Im good woman that is also a bitch. I will be tough when i needed to be tough and soft when i needed to be soft. I change the things i have that i think i should change. I soften the rough edges when needed. But i stopped blaming myself if a man didnt treat me right or didnt chose me because most of these guys doesnt even really know what they want. He gets good girl, he didnt find any drama he find her suffocating so he went to the bitch then he complains its too dramatic and the woman is being a bitch herself. Just do you focus on you and carry on
Literally sounds accurate asf, dating is too complicated. Like wtf now we have to go to school basically and study how to act, when to and when not to act a certain way, the why’s. It’s too much. Too many games
Okay narcissistic
@@briannanickson6656 It is complicated because of America. Americans tend to over complicate simple stuff. Pretty funny if you think about it.. 90% of the (useless) dating advices or ´yt channels´ comes from America lol.
YESSSSS 🫶🏾👏🏾
When you're a complete good girl, you get taken advantage of... when you're a complete b*tch, you still don't get true love. So it's better to be both. The saying goes "too much of anything is bad" and in this case, that is still true.
Being both balances out your self worth and respect but also your kind heart and honest wanting for love as a woman. 🤷🏾♀️.
@@niahernandezlove2194 No just be normal.
There is nothing better than good girls 👧And as you say.. A lot people tend to use pull and push techniques..A lot people needs a validation because probably in their childhood they couldn't live up to their parents expectations.
A child who can sense that they're not living to their parents expectations becomes and adult who betrays themselves for validation
I was a good girl and got heartbroken. Time to become a bitch
@@idrk1507 yeaaaa you go girl. Destroy yourself over someone elses shit attitude cuz yeaaaa thats how you fix things. Ruin everything and expecting the asshole to magically come back to fix everything for you
@@idrk1507 That’s not the right way and you know it. She said in the end of the video that both sides are extremes.
@@idrk1507 it will do no good for you.
No this world isn't for "good girls" or "nice guys"
Relationships are about getting benefits from one another and good girls/nice guys will get used and then people would get bored of them
In these last two decades I've realized how unbelievably uncapable people are are in not only dating people but also keeping their love interests. They treat dating like a game and relationships are just an exciting adventure for their ego until someone better comes along. It was no surprise to see videos like this in this "modern time", but still I am really disappointed of how cold the people got and how difficult it is for them to prioritize love and careness for a potential partner rather than their ego.
Men who need validation like this type of woman. They feel they invested more so value them more.
Basically she is saying narcissists can do anything in this world
Tbh they can
sad but true, it's a kind of art to keep yourself detached while beeing nice and friendly ..at least until you got married haha
"the best is to find a balance between the two" !!
Me who pretends like a good girl but is actually a bitch. Men have no idea. I'm just kidding!
I actually have avoidant attachment style so anxious men keep getting attracted to me like a moth to the flame. I show interest in an attempt to return thiers, but ends up feeling overwhelmed and ghosts them, which makes them even more anxious and i get even more avoidant. When i feel like they've calmed down, i go back to them and the cycle repeats.
I know I have issue and i need to get my shit together before i consider being in a relationship, nowadays i turn men down no matter how they chase me knowing how hurt they'll get if I keep being an avoidant, it terrifies me. At the same time I never chase anyone except if they stole something from me and ran away.
P.S : I'm going to therapy that's why I have self awareness. I've rarely got into a relationship, and the fact that I've still got my V-card. It's just hard for me to be intimate with people but exactly 3 people who are very very close to me. Even my life's goal is to spoil them/pamper them. I'll be fucking lonely without them.
U r me
@@eaglejay uffff
I can relate I'm a fearful avoidant sis
This is dark
I am 3 inches of man baby 😉
The things is in this world a lot of things varies.
Men loves both of them but not just one.
For me...if a girl is humble,looking at how she treats strangers,how she relates and how she talks when she's angry also talks more about her and when i see all these as good vibes and values.They become attractive to me.
Also for me, if a girl loves me for who I am and not for what i have and or what i can provide her...she's had me already.
It's not easy for you to be loved.
Finally,don't take anybody for granted.
Easy males6
Well, what if she accepted u the way you are and invested a hell lot of time, and turns out u r no longer interested in her? I don't understand everyone has this thought that girls should accept them the way they are. Sir, we do!!!. But for that we need commitment, we should feel secure after all we are a woman and so yes we seek security....
Gone Girl monologue is playing in my head right now.
This is what a narcissist does to feel powerful, they do not know how to actually be vulnerable with anyone, including themselves so they have a very self inflated image. They constantly set subliminal expectations in their relationships so they never feel like someone appreciates and loves them by what they are doing, so it's never thrilling when they are met. It's a very sad way to live your life, and if it has to do with severe attachment issues, please get the support you need to stop driving people mad.
I thought I was gonna watch this video and be mad but you actually explained everything great
Man are only after bitches to fuck and leave them forever. Man only want to marry good girls.
I hateeeeeeee mean girls. Instant turnoff. I want a girl that is sweet as pie
No one wants a mean girl but men get sugar overload when a woman is sweet as pie. Which is sad because the worst girls are Never single but the sweet girls are🤔
@@winninginlife Nah, no such thing as sugar overload
Yeah, a girl that is sweet as pie so that you can devour it completely. Lol. And being a B doesn't mean to be a mean girl, it literally means to be strong and self-sufficient. You need to read the entire book to get it.
How to stay single 😂
Thank you fanceska for giving me good advices how to protect myself from bitches like the last one I had. Seriously I feel so stupid to have become the victim
Who in their right mind would want such a narcissist who plays games with you and doesn't take you seriously? Sounds like a bad time to me.
Easy males
@@kyrak.4143i like it😂
Remember kids, don't ask a fish how to catch a fish
She is so spot on :)
I love those cute clingy girls a real man can balance them by giving both love and discipline
I’m a good girl no wonder I’m single 😅
All fun, no commitment, that's why.
me looking at my female dog: "which one are you?"
When you can be the baddest bitch that any man would desire but still choose to be a good girl instead.... That's a Queen's behaviour.
By her description I have the feeling I am both 😂😂😂
What I like in a woman is when she makes me feel that she does no need me. Then I view it as a challenge to earn her trust.
Hi there!
Found your channel at 2 in the morning and find your videos very interesting.
Would love to see longer video where you explore more on those subject.
You've got a subscriber.
As a girl I have nevah dated someone and I don't want to ..Yk when there's a toxic and amazing chocolates kept in a chocolate box it's better to keep the box away 😑
As a Man, I will always pick the good girl over the bad girl. I don’t have time for games
In one word, the bitch doesn't love the man and the good girl really loves him. There are always two options in life. But you can't have it all.
I HATE "bitches" like wtf? C'mon now I didn't expect that😮 lol
Jesus. Can't I just be myself. This is so exhausting. Yes, we don't technically need relationships to survive in this day and age, but mentally, we all need people. Otherwise, why would anyone bother with dating apps if we didn't NEED a partner? Our society has become too individualistic, there is nothing wrong with admitting we all want a romantic relationship.
1:24, no. I give her double the treatment she gives me, ignore her and she will be shocked why aren’t you simping for her like all the other men.
Theres no "good" Girl image. If you come to think of it, both of these girls are the same person. Its just that these two different personalities Starts showing in different phases of her life
I've the both of the qualities I can be a bitch and a good girl at the same time but for my man I'm his and only his no matter what kind of behaviour I have..
Tender, delicate, sensitive, soft-spoken, compassionate, has self-respect (not egoistic); i.e. a purely feminine being is what personally I find to be beautiful and amazing. I love to honour and protect these type of women. Anything else, avoid.
Hmmm this is related with our core wounds and attachment style...the girl whose become needy and clingy have a fear of abandonment she was triggered, the other one i guess she have secure attachment style so she's fine and confident within herself...
People's attachment style develop since we're baby if the parents or caregiver can't meet our needs we get insecure attachment styles...
But honestly even I'm completely fine with other men and I'm not triggered, if you meet a dismissive avoidant you will become anxious preoccupied and questioning yourself trying to prove that your worthy... it's only when i learned about personal development school about this stuff ..and it's hard and painful for woman who become anxiously attached, and we have to be strong enough in stating our needs and boundaries especially with avoidant attachment men...hope this helps..
I like the workbook about mindfulness called 30 Days to Stop Being a B*tch by Harper Daniels. It goes well with Sherry's book as a compliment.
I asked a lot of men who confessed they found "the one" , who proposed to someone, or had "the one that got away", what made them consider that. They all said it was because of her soul, and her kindness. Sooo...maybe men love bitches, to mess around with and pass the time, but they will never see them as "the one"
Why does it feels like i've been treated by the first kind of girl that too whom I love so much. It's like totally relates to her.
I have to say you did a marvelous job explaining relationships dynamics between a man and a woman the woman does need a man there is things a woman can not do that a man could do with no problem say for instance things like opening a jar of spaghetti sauce a woman might have a taste for Italian tomato sauce she would be left with no choice but to get creative
With all due respect, "good girls" just don't want to play games and if a guy after so many childish games, "the good girl" will lose interest.
Can't believe I'm about to say this but I think I'd given up all hope lol 😆 my close friend is a womanizer and his "good girl" knows he's slept around like crazy and trust me she is good because he's kept her and she's a single mom with 3 kids.. but good girls put up with stuff like this which is insane to me.. I'm at the point of just becoming asexual not trusting anything any girl has done before fr.. fr. I be seeing them settle with the bare minimum and be thinking my God what is it that I'm lacking 😆🥴...oh
As a Man, I'd desire a woman who feels a genuine desire/need for me and not who only shows appreciation on the surface but plays with my emotions. Good girls over Btch$ any time.
Singularity is what makes me the 1st place winner, I don't need a girl, I do self respect, self appreciation, self discipline. I don't need no girl or woman
I am not clingy and I really don't like clingy people.
Just imagine someone is working very hard and someone constantly wants your attention omg.
Mature person won't do that.
Did anyone else hear “Coke head archetype”?😂
Definitely both extremes are wrong find out the balance
Literally just described all men
This helped me so much thanks!
It’s like dating/living with a narcissist.
THE WERST THING YOU CAN DO IS GET MARRYED THEN YOU LOOSE EVERTHING YOU GO BROKE AND THAY STILL WONT MORE AND FUCKEN MORE
Domestic violence has entered the chat.
I honestly thought that you were going to say something that would be uninformative, but you actually said some great stuff. We as women don't have to act sweet or hard to get I think what will get us a guy, is if we strive on working on bettering ourself, be independent, but know when to act feminine. Such as being caring, when and ask questions or be soft and comforting when it is appropriate . If you are interested in the guy, let him know that, and stop when you feel like you're giving too much. I think the downfall of what is making failed relationships, is one of us act too independent but don't know how to socially talk and act like a feminine and the other half of us is acting too feminine and not being independent. My biggest downfall is acting too independent nowadays and acting more like a masculine than a softie.
We men hate these mind games and bitches🙂
These things apply to both sex if they have avoidant attachment style......
I just love innocent and good girls😇❤️
But sadly they don't exist.
Don't exist for you 😢
They do exist , my friends call me innocent 🤣🤣🤣
Ohh really, may be I would get someone innocent someday🤞🏻
Happened to me became one of the worst days mentally.
That's why knowledge before dating.
Not books....But this knowledge
My ex is a huge bitch,broke my heart,but hope theres guy that finds the right girl whos treat u right
This is stupid thinking. If a good girl respects me I'm providing my services and primal energy for life with her. Men with a brain, dignity and rules to live by have no problem with this nonsense
Thank you
So I am a fan and I've been a follower of the channel and appreciate the thoughtful and insightful content but when I saw the clip I didn't recognize her at first...I don't know what it is but she looks super cute in this clip (always thought very attractive) but here there's something different...no makeup ?
Anyway keep up the good work and thank you.
(I'm never sure if the person making these vids ever read these comments tbh).
And the same to opposite bad boys lol
This is true man.
I love witches 😀
I believe what you just explained is more of an interchanging spectrum present in most girls if not all, "bitch" or otherwise, with a hint of one side being manipulative narcissist and the other timid and weak that you just described falling in extreme cases category. Also, I think with us men the term "bitch" do not corelate with mental acts but rather more towards physical, superficial (think "bitch resting face", hangry, etc.). Also please be advised that most girls often mirror their inner selves when trying to explain why men do what they do and how to go about it - a silent knowledge between men - easily picked up on and suddenly, boom! Your "software" gets hacked. i.e. Girl: "girls should play hard to get, or be Bad bitchy 'Girls'..." Men: "Aha! E=mc^2. = non needy bad boy with this one... checked!". But I assure you, men do not like "bitches", rather, men LEAVE "bitches" (when her negative traits comes up on first impressions) and I saw in many cases, men tells "the legend of the bitch" to other men to stay away from... and more than half will do just that.
Having said that, girls will show subconscious future-offspring-preservation signals anyway as an important tool for their survival (I like your term "to have better chance of their cubs' survival" in your other video - that was BRILLIANT!!), and when (hopefully single) boys sees this while something managed to spark briefly during one encounter, they'll go "ah, the usual mating game..." and their brains will go: IT'S HUNTING SEASON BABY! Regardless she's a "bitch", "good girl", shy girl, maid, butcher, sewer worker, serial killer, or even their "bitchy" boss at work, etc.
Can I add? Sorry I just had triple espressos and you're interestingly brainy...
Men have the capability to fall in love at first sight, while women don't and this is important, women have attraction at first sight instead, but she still needs to check him out... is this correct? Otherwise yall would diminish our qualities of human civilization in less than a thousand years (in-line with your "cubs" theory). If you and I were to meet and I said "Hi" and we chatted, you will already see ten, 100 "faults" in me and conjure "red flag/green flag" in that very moment.
While I, probably only see one, two, or won't even see any faults of yours at all.
And this is equally important for humanity's sake as our job is to _chose a mate_ and yours is _to accept a mate_ . Not all of your "negative traits" will show unless you chose to do so at first sight, either to further deter or attract me. Because men, have the capability to fall in love at first sight with a severely anxious vampire for example, then gets revealed of her detrimental faults and vulnerabilities later... and the opposite happens: he has already determined to be protective and accepting of those vulnerabilities. If she cries and screams and hit, he'll give a hug.
Now imagine a girl showing her hangry trait on steroids on first "Hi", the relationship will probably almost never happen. I think this phenomena is where you were going/ what you meant by saying why men likes "b's" (I hate that word, sorry), is that we find faults later and are incline to tinker with solutions patiently to best protect your needs and comfort as best we can instead of running to the hills. Once we chose, _we chose_ , too late, the protective chemicals have been activated.
Just my theory though, thanks for reading all the way down :)
(oh shit this is not quora?!😅)
so most of yr points are right I just wanna ask you That what If a female like a man how he can bring him in relationship or make him like her?? coz you mention first sight concept hope u try to explain it..
@@mojojojo9778 Hi, I can't answer anything that Francesca is covering on her channel because this is what it's for, otherwise it'll be an impolite hijacking.
But if you're asking me to explain myself on that first sight "concept", can you clarify your question please as I don't quite understand...
Are you asking (to my understanding) "what If a female _likes_ a man, how _she_ can make him like her" ?
@@captainjj7184 yeah you got me right How to make him love a girl When i like him?
@@captainjj7184 yeah you got me right How to make him love a girl When i like him?
@@zxenon555 Alright Mr. President, strange wordings there I know, I'll explain... (Hhh why do I always start this youtube typing binge every time I have my espressos made specifically for work deadlines lol!)
*"Software hacking":* When girls comment on how to get a man crazy and _actually tries to explain the psychology of a man in the process_ , that's time for you to listen in - usually she's accidentally compromising how her own brain works and this could backfire on to herself. Dunno why this keeps happening all the time, try it, ask any girl how to get a man and listen to their answers... they never learn, sometimes :p
*"Future-offspring-preservation signals":* Why the _Mating Games_ of course! The way they act when you approach. Here's an old European saying from my great grandmother my mom told me: "The Boy will chase the girl until... _She_ catches him!"
Now imagine being ignored in a text and you go haywire - she'll know you're gonna be some dangerous over-controlling lunatic one day. Or they might smell that you're a loser because your shoes look dilapidated as an office worker. It's bye-bye for you, she won't _catch_ you.
You might think they're being snobby, but actually not, they're being instinctively protective to the future un-borns that will rule the world one day - will you give them good leverage for your children's childrens to continue living on? Or will your family line perish before the next 100 years because she chose _you_ with all your tricks putting her under a spell.
The *signals* are the tests. The test is to see if you're a good candidate to guarantee *future preservation* to the human line of existence. Of course, they don't think deliberately this way! I'm talking about instincts and why they do what they do. Sometimes words that comes out of their mouths boils your blood in 1/1000th of a second - your response? Make her fall to the floor rolling in laughter. A sign of good EQ from the guy, he handled her well. Good EQ = usually successful people. You get accepted. Tell her about her nasty mouth later in a good seductive way (in case you're afraid she might offend some people while you're not around to protect her), you WILL still get into trouble doing that, but hey, she's snuggling safely in your big arms.
_and if you care to read on..._
I've been living the DiCaprio's "The Beach" life in Bali for 5 years, here they sell you motorbike stickers with funny texts. Mine reads (translated from Indonesian, might sound weird in English): _"Only Broke Guys Complain About Girls Are Materialistic!"_ . You won't believe how many girls on motorbikes pull up right beside me just to see who's behind the helmet lol!
But why are they attracted to this? Because girls are needy: need money, need beauty products, need comfort, need protection, need food materials, need understanding without being judged, etc. ...because subconsciously, it is so that they could take care of _Your_ children better!
...and they will test you with lots of dramas in the process, i.e. the the signals. BUT: This is because girls are designed to Carefully Accept the best genes subconsciously and not just any random man - otherwise our species will be doomed to oblivion. Good jaw line, good immune system, smells addictive when nearby (a sign that the boy's DNA does not belong to her close relatives), wealthy line of family, hard earner, etc.
Sadly, these positive "needy" traits get ridiculed as "high maintenance, gold diggers, materialistic", etc. A 20 year old marries a super-rich 70 y.o. and the world made fun of her as a gold digger. Yes he will die sooner, but so will she, then what happens? Her personality might get the brunt of ridiculing all her lifetime but her basic instinct is actually saying, "I'm in the right. Can you imagine our children and their offsprings doing well with the kind of leverage we as their ancestors gave them above everybody else in the world?"
_That's what her evolutionary body is actually saying!_
So who will have the last laugh? Their 70,000 line of offsprings in the year 2527 who had the best leverage to start with above most people on this planet!
But you know what? YOU and I in this future we're living in are actually the product of these SMART women throughout the millennia....
So, do non-materialistic girls ever existed in this world? Of course they did! But they've all perished tens of thousands of years ago... along with their sick children and crappy choices of men, because crappy choices makes for very low competitive leverage in the living world and then they die sooner to health issues and bad immune system, bad nutrition absorption or famine with no wealth, status, connection and education to help them get out of trouble.
Yes, I'm aware some of their DNA's manage to slip thru family heritage in trace amounts today, so here's a lifetime experience in observing people: Almost all who pushes to marry quickly to the "wrong" person being the long-awaited man of a girl's love, are the girls and sometimes with their moms together, "Ah! We'll worry about his work details later! We have your father's business your future husband could handle for us!" - but when things go south, the wives, the very same people, were the first to utter these very words: "apparently you can't eat out of love... :(". The man who accepts these offers are toothless lions to begin with. Us men are hunters, our fangs fall off when we're given things easy.
_Even children understood all this!:_
_I was 10 y.o. playing with my cousins when our moms were gossiping on how one of our super-duper rich friend of one of our aunts got so pissed off because her daughter married a loser she loves, her mother had said furiously, "why, his whole salary is less than the cost of her lipstick!" us kids found that fact to be stupidly ridiculous and funny and started giggling! (and worry about that girl's sake whoever she was)_
Opposite to the above story, there are dirt poor people who rise up from sufferings and poverty (the world is still a nasty game of chance and competition after all) and worked so hard he became rich and powerful - but this is a tell-tale sign that their ancestors were not a nobody in the past. Might be a general, a warrior, a die hard. Good genes pass on, bad genes don't get picked, good genes will survive all challenges, bad genes dies with the simplest of bacterias, there's a reason why the human race is called "race" - we ARE racing against all odds designed to kill us - so if you listen to what women want, listen deeper beyond the surface of where her wording lays before you label her. Wanting cars, houses, expensive skin care products and money might sound like it got nothing to do with biological talks about DNA - think again. Many women can smell "Future-offspring-preservators" thru the sweat on your shirt.
Alright it's 01:33 A.M. now dang... beach time. Am I mistaking youtube for quora again?
Thanks for reading anyway😁
Not a single guy i know loves a woman that plays games and is a bitch. Generally if a woman is a headache... Thats where men draw the line. Most men have either been rejected, ignored or have had some weird experience. Last thing were waiting for is a headache to make our lives even more miserable 😂
I disagree... whenever I have been good I have been hurt
@@BlueBlue23 well get ready to live with 12 cats then
@@mi4f_195 explain your logic please. How am I to blame when I have been the good one here? You men don't make any sense. You might say you don't like the b*ches but you do
@@BlueBlue23 how are you so sure you've been good, and how are you sure you even gave the dudes that were actually nice to you a chance? See women dont understand that they hold all the power when it comes to selecting whoever they want. The fact of the matter is.. most women dont like men that treat them well, take the badboy syndrom as an example. So you most likely fell for the badboy, since distant men tend to be more attractive (doesnt matter what youll tell me) i know this from experience. Maybe give that dude that's been trying to reach out to you a chance.. he might surprise you, but you wouldnt since hes not attractive to you
@@mi4f_195 no bad boys for me...but people changes and not always in a good way
The "Bitch" described in the video is how think a woman should be. In my opinion, a woman should be independent and self sufficient so that when/if she respects her man, the man really is capable of being respected.
I don't know why she is labeled as a "Bitch". She is just trying to protect herself and have a "back bone" in this era. I don't blame her.
Yep this is textbook definition of the dark-side elements of femininity from each of the extremes.
The problem lies here is - every other girl may think herself as a good girl, and not a bitch, while the percentage of bitches may be much higher, than the 'individual perception' of every girl thinking about herself. Hence the problems...
My ex was unique, some times she was a good girl, and some times she was a bitch, I loved everything on her, but her bitch phases would always cause conflict between us, and after having more and more bitch phases, she ended up leaving me
Guys maybe you didn't understand that's why saying why would a man want a bitch girl if she uses mind games... The thing is you now know this after watching this video..but what if you didn't know this exists, cuz the girl won't be saying that I'm gonna start ignoring you from this day..so yeah understand the video.
I am attracted to beautiful and smart girls like you. Where do I find one is beyond me... I am against the dating culture that has been installed recently and against modern society as a whole, but that is another topic.
Interesting points. Did you get a degree in Psychology ? If so what is it ? Not to offend you but I am searching for a career path. Thanks
Uh-uh ! 👎Big NO ! I'm a straight guy 100%. And I disagree! I will always go for the "good girl". No one's perfect but what people look for in a friend, it's the same traits we look for in a relationship. Faithfulness and loyalty and trustworthiness and kindness. And I read below in the comments that most guys agree with me and still prefers good girls.
I'm more focused on being a good human being, that's it
Who wants games?
Relationships need to be real.
Respect yourself and the other person first, until then you are not ready to offer and receive love in any relationship.
Thank so much
First time I felt I disagree to this point ..
I feel most myself somewhere in between to be frank
Where on earth are the in-between women at 🤣
There is toilet paper on the top of your wardrobe 😅
Ohh..so that's the reason..my bf broked up 🙄
I love yer vedios . please recommend me any book for pyschological trics .human behaviour
Are you describing Dismissive Avoidant Type?
As a man i prefer a good woman, you hate going to clubs & parties doesn't like hook up culture your a shy hopeless romantic, and college age like me, damn i do anything in world for a woman like that 😩
I like high vibrating women
Personly i like good girls😻
In invest less in manipulators because I don't need them.
I was a good girl and then men turned me to a bitch. Now I use them then discard and detach. Need to find a balance.
I love women like u Francesca
"good girls" and "nice guys" should be extinct from this universe.
My Sacrifice
Creed
People need to stop playing games in relationships..
I've been with both types. Personally, I'd avoid the bitch personality. Now that I recognize it for what it is, I'd just let it go. It's not worth the headache, and wondering when the inevitable leaving/rejection will occur. It can become a self fulfilling prophecy if you dwell on it. To me that is just as unhealthy of a personality as the clingy type. If a woman can just toss you in the weeds, so to speak, when she sees you as an annoyance, then there is no loyalty, no love. It's one step up from a woman of the streets imo, regardless of their profession.
But is this going to get me just a healthy relationship?
one for the commitment and the other for games
Same for nice males and bast.
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