Not too sure what the point of this video is... Just me capturing some of the thoughts I've been feeling recently... maybe some of my new grad viewers can relate? It's all just part of the journey.
I think the hardest friend to make is yourself. Having other people in our life is very fulfilling because we are social creatures. But I do think that learning how to be happy/content alone is important to learn. When I first moved to college I felt kinda like this and it took me learning to love being alone for room to make itself available for new people in my life that I can now call friends. My best suggestion is feel all you have to feel while you can. It’s odd, but one day you won’t be able to be where you are and how you are now ever again and so taking in the moment now will make today and tomorrow feel better. Sending support! Take care of yourself. You’re not alone in feeling lonely.
Super valid emotions brother. You are a genuine human for being willing to share those emotions. I experienced the same thing. I would argue in general it can be more challenging to make friends post high school / college. Work can be a great place to meet people but it’s just not the same as school where more people are close in age with similar interests.
Hey Chris. Moving away for work after college can be hard. I did it myself. Moved coasts. Hope you cherish the quiet and find something that resonates with you in your third space. You got this. 🙂😎
Hey Chris, Are you really all right? I'm a bit concerned about you. Without having a "real-time" friendship with you, I am still hearing/seeing some very unsettled feelings from you. I am one of your subscribers...and I just watched (again) the video you shared about your family...your mother more specifically. It's such a beautiful video. I watch all your videos. And I've taken your suggestion on some of the books and the movies you've mentioned too...enjoyed them very much. I apologize if this is being intrusive...me asking if you're all right. I've been told I feel too much of other peoples' emotions.
I think the hardest friend to make is yourself.
Having other people in our life is very fulfilling because we are social creatures.
But I do think that learning how to be happy/content alone is important to learn. When I first moved to college I felt kinda like this and it took me learning to love being alone for room to make itself available for new people in my life that I can now call friends.
My best suggestion is feel all you have to feel while you can. It’s odd, but one day you won’t be able to be where you are and how you are now ever again and so taking in the moment now will make today and tomorrow feel better.
Sending support! Take care of yourself. You’re not alone in feeling lonely.
Super valid emotions brother. You are a genuine human for being willing to share those emotions. I experienced the same thing. I would argue in general it can be more challenging to make friends post high school / college. Work can be a great place to meet people but it’s just not the same as school where more people are close in age with similar interests.
Definitely need more third spaces as you highlighted, wishing you well
Hey Chris. Moving away for work after college can be hard. I did it myself. Moved coasts. Hope you cherish the quiet and find something that resonates with you in your third space. You got this. 🙂😎
Hey Chris,
Are you really all right? I'm a bit concerned about you. Without having a "real-time" friendship with you, I am still hearing/seeing some very unsettled feelings from you.
I am one of your subscribers...and I just watched (again) the video you shared about your family...your mother more specifically. It's such a beautiful video. I watch all your videos. And I've taken your suggestion on some of the books and the movies you've mentioned too...enjoyed them very much.
I apologize if this is being intrusive...me asking if you're all right.
I've been told I feel too much of other peoples' emotions.
Commuting three hours is crazy😭 I hope u can live in a walkable city near your job🙏
Miss ya dawg
dude I go to UC, im from the east coast, and im a senior.
Thanks for posting ❤