I was searching in TH-cam for meaningful and useful information re: Marriage or Couples Resentment. These 2 men were excellent. They spoke in a practical way that made it understandable. I clicked on some other videos and found the same to be true there. I’ll almost certainly be interested in viewing all their work. Probably from the beginning. Thanks fellas.
I loved this topic but don’t feel I totally understand it. I would love if you would say more. I think I tend to stonewall from a point of overwhelm and not understanding my own feelings. Also not wanting to say the wrong thing…fear. I’m working on it.
Same , it’s for protection and almost a involuntary. If a person comes in at me I feel no emotion or empathy for them until they disengage and then those emotions comes back and I try to fix what ever the issue is not so much for their benefit but my own. I will have anxiety of that confrontation happening again until it’s resolved
I really do agree that a lot of people stonewall each other because they never really get down to the root of the problem and there is a lot a lot of underlying resentment in both parties in my opinion and they never actually address it so you are correct. I think both people are stonewalling each other even though one person thinks the other person is stonewalling. They’re actually doing it in a much passive way, but that doesn’t mean they’re not stonewalling because I think they are, in my opinion
They seem to be at odds in communicating their points. There seemed to be debating instead of explanation, which on the end of a viewer/ listener like me, we couldn't quite get to the comprehension and explanation of types of stonewalling in order to have a defined, clear view. Instead of debating the definition or the types, it would be more helpful for you guys to have figured that out amongst yourself and then used the podcast to teach instead of debate. I feel like a fly on the wall or a person outside listening in to two peoples private debate, instead of feeling like I'm a participant in a teaching session.
I agree. I have never heard stonewalling be defined the way that the guy on the left has defined it. My resentment came from my partner stonewalling. I wouldn't have been resentful without the stonewalling.
I’m just glad your name is Pye
This was so good!!!!
I was searching in TH-cam for meaningful and useful information re: Marriage or Couples Resentment. These 2 men were excellent. They spoke in a practical way that made it understandable. I clicked on some other videos and found the same to be true there. I’ll almost certainly be interested in viewing all their work. Probably from the beginning. Thanks fellas.
Super helpful 🙏 thank you so much for this video and all the wise advice and insight triggering conversation. 🙏🙏🙏
You are so welcome!
I loved this topic but don’t feel I totally understand it. I would love if you would say more. I think I tend to stonewall from a point of overwhelm and not understanding my own feelings. Also not wanting to say the wrong thing…fear. I’m working on it.
Same , it’s for protection and almost a involuntary. If a person comes in at me I feel no emotion or empathy for them until they disengage and then those emotions comes back and I try to fix what ever the issue is not so much for their benefit but my own. I will have anxiety of that confrontation happening again until it’s resolved
I really do agree that a lot of people stonewall each other because they never really get down to the root of the problem and there is a lot a lot of underlying resentment in both parties in my opinion and they never actually address it so you are correct. I think both people are stonewalling each other even though one person thinks the other person is stonewalling. They’re actually doing it in a much passive way, but that doesn’t mean they’re not stonewalling because I think they are, in my opinion
I wish i saw this with my ex before we broke up
This is so good
They seem to be at odds in communicating their points. There seemed to be debating instead of explanation, which on the end of a viewer/ listener like me, we couldn't quite get to the comprehension and explanation of types of stonewalling in order to have a defined, clear view. Instead of debating the definition or the types, it would be more helpful for you guys to have figured that out amongst yourself and then used the podcast to teach instead of debate. I feel like a fly on the wall or a person outside listening in to two peoples private debate, instead of feeling like I'm a participant in a teaching session.
I agree. I have never heard stonewalling be defined the way that the guy on the left has defined it. My resentment came from my partner stonewalling. I wouldn't have been resentful without the stonewalling.