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- Think that being shy is a disadvantage? Well, think again! Here are 9 reasons why being shy makes you great.
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I just went here when I saw ur post
yeah same
hello hello hello :)
I am!
@@Mary-fo2uv Same
I can't tell if I'm shy, introverted, or just socially awkward...
+Dylan Sepasyar Same with me
Dylan Sepasyar I'm Socially Awkward but definitely not shy. So some people ocasional y are forced into situations where they have to talk and they mumble something weird, I force myself into those situations and loudly exclaim whatever serial killer fun fact pops into my head
Dylan Sepasyar same
I´m all of them😂
Dylan Sepasyar I'm all of the above.
being shy sucks. When I was in college, I could never find a job because they wanted an outgoing person. I did horrible in interviews no matter how much coaching I got. Even being friendly, they didn't like my softness. Nowadays, it's honestly more anxiety than it is shyness.
Ari Abs You don't have to be outgoing in a job :) About like 50% of my class isn't capeable of comunicating with eachother like the norm of poeple does. (I'm doing an appranticeship as a web developer)
Lumination I'm very narrow in my interests and proud of it. I can talk about 1)choral and organ music, 2) Gothic architecture, and 3) why I love woods and forests but not meadows and fields, all day.
That's why I'm so scared to go to college because I feel like the same thing is gonna happen to me...
Ari Abs tip: try imagining they only hear your voice.
@PROADAM xx I tuly hope so, thank you so much for your sweet message. I go to college in a few months and I'm feeling super anxious but I hope everything will be alright...
i'm shy but I have a resting bitch face
Indecisive Ink I also once had a girl in my class at high school that used to be disliked by all other girls in the class because they considered her arrogant. Turned out she just was shy and looked arrongant. When I first talked with her I noticed that she was very kind and interessting, she just always gave off those arrogant bitchy vibes
Haha i feel her! My friends say that when they first saw me they thought i was a bitch or just emo :'D But my best friend has the same problem, and it's worse because she's even shyer than I am
Indecisive Ink Haha just keep doing you! You and your friend will both find your ways :) I wish you the best of luck
Lumination thank youu ^^ have a nice day :))
SAME
Im both introverted AND shy. Im the quietest person ever and i feel like i'll be single forever, because guys won't pay attention to me anyway.
If I knew you, I'd want to get to know you °v°
If you were here in Melbourne, Australia is set you up with a friend of mine
Cloudclaws AJ. what you need to understand is that you are the protagonist of your life. YOU are the one who makes the movie. I often find myself wondering if i was a viewer of my life, would i watch Myself?
you may have social anxiety then, if you are also afraid of the people you are quiet with.
Cloudclaws AJ lmao I was about to scroll down then I saw guys and I was like wait a second...
I like shy girls more
Mostly because I'm shy myself
Being shy is so fuckin annoying. I'm been annoyed that no businesses have called me about my job applications. But when they finally do call, I'm afraid to call back.
+GameAddict51 One of the down sides of being shy. =/
+SlimDre1999 That's never a good idea imo. While drinking can help us being more confortable and talkative, it can become an addiction...
I feel ya
Being nervous about calling someone doesn't always mean that you're shy. I hate phone calls because I like face-to-face conversations; especially if I don't know the other person very well. I'm usually never the same on a phone call as I am in person.
GameAddict51 lol, this totally different but I am afraid of hightes, but I like swinging..
I'm loud as hell with friends and family, but I suddenly become really shy when they're not around...
xTwilightWolvesx same thing
you're not the only one!
xTwilightWolvesx I'm very extroverted with close people but when I'm around new people, I get very shy and nervous
xTwilightWolvesx omg same
That's me XD
This video really made me feel better
+Bee124 Mission accomplished!
+Psych2Go I am going to subscribe you seem nice!
Mission accomplished again haha. Jkjk. We will give you good psychology content. Feel free to request any at psych2go@outlook.com
Being introverted is needing time alone to recharge your energy, not a choice to be less social. It's the exact opposite. In fact, there was a study that concluded that you're born either an introvert, or an extrovert. And I'd be happy to site that source.
The thing with me is that I'm so shy that I have a literal panic attack whenever someone that I'm not close to approaches me. I hate talking, I hate interacting and I only open up to a few people. I constantly feel uncomfortable in social situations, and I feel that anyone laughing nearby is laughing at me. I adore solitude, but at the same time, I want to have a lot of friends and I want to be outgoing, but I can't since it takes all my courage just to say "hi" to an acquintance.
Fangirl Of Everything you are me
aah I especially hate that. Whenever I hear people talking near me in a hushed tone and laughing I feel like they're laughing at me and it sucks. You'd call that anxiety I guess
I feel the same😞 and it sucks
That's social anxiety
That is social anxiety
Summary:
1. Modesty is attractive - 0:45
2. Cautious - 0:56
3. Sensitive to details - 1:14
4. Approachable - 1:34
5. Calming affect on others - 1:48
6. Human service / Empathy - 2:03
7. Trustworthy - 2:24
8. Deeper friendships - 2:33
9. Successful at solitary work - 2:51
I am both shy and introvert+ the cherry on top of social anxiety I got the triple hit. Sigh sometimes I hate myself for being stuck with these and sometimes I appreciate it as the few good friends I do have (all of whom are mainly online) are some of the best people I have ever met.
I am shy and a introvert. Yes, I'm approachable, but at the same time feared from. I don't like talking, so I don't have any friends.
Mari Camino same. .
Mari Camino also me..
Mari Camino yup
I'm just a lonely introvert. But I don't care.
In a world where it seems like being shy isn't seen as a good thing (in terms of career etc.), this video makes me happy.
I love the narrator's voice in this video, and the background music c:
Roy Rieder i tought she was sadness from inside out lol :D
Even though she said her name is joy, haha X)
I've been told I'm very shy, but I'm excitable around my friends. It's just something about people besides friends and families, such as teachers, employers, strangers, and people I barely know.
If shyness was a person, I'd kill it.
same
this video really helped me a lot because my (small group) of friends always want me to be more outgoing with others and that kinda makes me sad because i feel like they're trying to change me but this video made me realize they most likely like me for who i am so thanks
+Aleahsya Yeah, I can relate. You don't have to. Just focus on what you are good at.. and over time, you will be appreciated by those who appreciate you for those things instead. What are your current passions and strengths?
MoonStruck
yeah same with my group of friends. They aren't the popular kind of people either, but they are way more out going than I am. Sometimes I'd loose some of them...I think it's because I'm not as outgoing as they are. It kind of sucks when some of your friends leave you for someone better, right? Has anyone else had that? :l
I used to be shy. Now I'm on top of the world! My personal advice would be to help yourself feel more confident. You'll achieve your dreams!
I don't think I'm a social butterfly, because I'm not a very popular person in school. but I do find it super easy to talk to people and to be loud and act in a very joking manner around everyone. I'm never afraid to raise my hand and say my opinion. I'm also rlly blunt and I wish more people were that way as well. I'll just say my raw opinion without sugar coating it and I'll make bold statements that other people might be too reserved to say. the person I like comes across as a more reserved person while i just put myself out there and say random stuff and I feel like that comes across as weird, improper, and invasive. there are also times where I would rather do anything else than socialize. not because I'm afraid to be around people, but because I just want to go home and sit down and draw and watch anime for hours. but when I am with people, I get super energetic and I want to be around them all the time. I guess it just depends on my mood and what I feel like doing that day.
Same I'm not shy but I'm introverted. I love being loud and funny and sometimes annoying, but I don't like approaching people and embarrass my self whenever I try.
Skyllar Rose Kuppinger I don't think you need to be popular to be outgoing........
Fire N Ice :3 I agree, I think I'm an outgoing person but I don't think I'm a social butterfly meaning I don't think I'm very good at social interactions and making myself seem likable by using social interactions, as evidenced by the fact that I'm not at all popular
Skyllar Rose Kuppinger oh sorry I misunderstood :3
No I would say as a generally shy person trying to get out of it, I don't have much friends and kid of vibrate a "awkwardness vibe" where people don't know how to approach me. It's hard to talk to strike a conversation on someone who only answers back with one word and outgoing is more attractvie
I'm shy but I wish I was outgoing most of the time because of how heavily school is dependent on group work, and in some instances I get panic attacks because of it
Kimberly Kenyon OMG GROUP WORK NOOO I HATE IT 😭
Yeah, about shy people talking less and listening more...
I can listen to my friends fine, but I couldn't listen to the teacher if my life depended on it.
I like the shy types. They really are easy to approach, and sometimes you just want to protect them from the world.
I'm quite a shy person until I become more comfortable around someone, then I'll open up to them. Personally, I feel as though teachers tend to like me more and are more inclined to believe me as a result of my timidness. I confess that I've taken advantage of this before to avoid getting into trouble.
I feel the same way. I've done some bad things and have gone away with it becuase of my shy nature, even though some others have done an similiarly bad thing, but have a more confident personality and gets punished.
I agree with that.
I agree with ya ^w^
I am both shy, and introverted. it's hard to strike up a conversation, but once i get it going it's fun. After while of being somewhere public i feel drained and i always need Adobe time for myself to recharge
Strawberrysunset23 Totally know what you mean. Thanks for sharing!
+Strawberrysunset23 Same here. I don't indulge in social situations because I don't appreciate them, but when I do I'm like in a corner because I'm so shy. And I feel so exhausted afterwards
But I'm also that person who's shy & introverted at first, but once you get to know me I'm bouncing off the walls lol
Its kinda fun being shy. For once I could just any group of people and they wouldn't care if I was with them in school.
+Bruh 64 I guess that's a plus side if you mean it :)
Psych2Go
Same with me, I have a direct friendship with the most popular kids in school, even though no one else knows me. It's kinda strange though.
i am a very shy person myself i'm 19 going to be 20 on dec2 & it's hard sometimes , i can relate to most of these. but i do try my best to get out of my comfort zone. especially when meeting new people can be tough sometimes. & other things socializing activities. i'm a very nice person though. ♥ but i don't like it when some people assume things about me like coming off as a stuck up person or even a total beyatch because of my resting bitch face i seem to have going on lmao. But i'm absolutely none of those things. ♥♥
Happy early birthday ^-^
+Deborah Napoakesik ~ Same! I'm 13 btw. Anyway at school or social events I normally don't talk at all unless one of my best friends are there. And I don't really talk to new people. My mom calls me Stuck up and I try to explain to her that I'm really anti social but she keeps saying I'm stuck up because people have to talk to me first for me to talk to them. And if she does consider that I'm shy she says to get over it! Like, "Thank you for your helpful advice. How about I take away some of your confidence and you go do that." It's not that simple!
Omg, you just described the way I am and how people assume negative things about me sometimes.
i know its tough. but we shy people try :)
logically speaking I see no reason to be shy. And don't let this fool you either, being outgoing doesn't make you unintelligent, unfocused or a drama causer. It just means you're comfortable in your own skin. I used to be shy, but I came across the realization that I'm going to die some day. Why not learn to be self aware and push yourself to new heights. Business opportunities, relationships life experiences are hard when you close yourself off. My advice is become self aware challenge yourself because we don't have forever to live.
I'm shy myself
but once you get to know me I start to act silly
it's just that some people ditch you for others who are popular
I have a friend who is slowly drifting away from me. She wants to become one of the ghetto girls (even though she's white.. ) and I usually don't say or do anything about it because I'm shy and weak ;-;
and it's true that shy people are more peaceful and others can go to u when they need help :3
+Ghost boo Please don't say you're weak haha. Shy people have their advantages, generally being more loyal and authentic. They are also more attractive as people in our eyes too!
;w; oki
Humane mien shows might.
Let nothing else fool you, for the strength is of those who truly do more and talk less.
Most are all bark, but no bite.
I don't say anything, cause if I do, I'm afraid that the other person will play the victim UwU I love using UwU UwU do I over use UwU?
I used to think I was an introvert, but after this, I'm starting to reconsider whether I'm just shy. I don't make many friends, but I do have friends. I don't often brag, and my feelings can be easily hurt.
I don't agree with the approachable part. I'm an extrovert with anxiety. I don't know how to talk to quiet people because I'm afraid I'm bothering them and I have no idea what they're thinking. I like the people who are outgoing like me because they communicate what they're feeling through how they talk and I don't need to be on watch for anything wrong because it'd be obvious if they were upset.
I know that. What's your point? o.O
Silverfish What makes you think I'm unsure? It said that quiet people are more approachable but I disagreed.
I'm really shy and don't like loud/obnoxious groups. But I'm nice and kind. I'm bullied for no reason. I cry when I'm alone it honestly really sucks. I'm smart as well lol😊 I'm always the last person to get a partner in middle school. But I always deal with it and never over react😄
Like if you have similar traits!!!
I used to be very shy to the point where it would've had a negative impact on my life had I remained that shy. But people pushed me too hard to be outgoing. So now I feel an obligation and pressure to be outgoing when all I want is to sit back and listen and observe. It's caused such a negative impact that is one of the reasons I've developed extreme social anxiety. I guess my point is that it's just better to be yourself than to try to be something you're not. You'll find more happiness in life when you're you.
I used to be shy, but now I'm an outgoing person. I still have a shy person's traits like having deeper friendships and good at solitary works, or maybe I'd rather be alone but also be in a group of people. But it all just depends on the situation/mood.
I'm one of the shyest people I know, but I talk a lot to the people I know well. I never talk about myself, so when I go home and am able to talk to the people I want to, I want to get all of my ideas and everything about my day out because it's been bubbling inside me forever so I have to let someone else see it. So, I'm shy, but I really talk a lot.
Once I met a Russian boy in Turkey.
same
cool
Albin Einstein He was inside a turkey? Explain this to me oh great Albert Einstein.
I didn't understand what you tried to do there.
Albin Einstein that one sentence was more interesting than this entire video. Tell me more.
I relate to everything here, but im really loud too with my friends.
Harrison Ford was Shy and worked as a carpenter until he was 35. He started acting to get over his painful shyness. After being told he would never make it in the film industry, he went on to become one of the most well known A-list actors in history.
There are many examples of shy people achieving great things. This is just one
I am something between shy, introverted and socially anxious, I am not entirely sure anymore. Anyway, here is how each of these 9 characteristics apply to me:
1: I usually don't even think I did that well as an A is my standard grade.
2: I had a plan for my life when I was 13 already..
3: I do not notice details at all and love rollercoasters.
4: Whenever people want to talk it might be annoying at first but I can open up quite quickly when I feel I can trust them.
5: My silence usually makes people nervous.
6: I'd like to be a psychiatrist actually.
7: I used to gossip but I never enjoyed it. I always felt horrible after this.
8: I also kept friendships I rather should have given up as I felt I had no other people or chances at meeting people.
9: Working alone makes me 20 times as efficient as working in a group. Anybody can relate?
being shy or outgoing is neither bad or good its how you see yourself and how others see you, both have an equal amount of pro's and con's due to our society being unique, so in reality the best thing to be is to be yourself because there are people who will like you the way you are and hey you might change after a while but your still you.
I'm both shy and introvert and I can't help it but feel that my devotion to my two best friends has been screwing up my life for the last 4 years, and, during the last year, everything got so bad, I really began to have issues, I'm currently 21yo and I think I lost the ability to feel right by myself, but I've been doing all kinds of stuff to fix things up and leave my confort zone...
Sharing my story to the point, maybe it might give someone somekind of inspiration/something to relate to...
-Got a tattoo.
-Got drunk with some casual friends in a social environment
-Got in touch with friends I stopped seeing when I graduated from school
-Began a checklist of weird stuff I want to do (and stuff I should do by myself)
-Somehow meeting with some people who happen to be as weird as me and staying up until 3AM memeing hard with em
-Taking some risks, I asked my best fem friend out and her reaction really bothered me (she didn't even say "No", a rejection would have been better than that passive-aggresive mistrust I got but it was still worth it since it helped me realize some stuff about my relationship with her).
-In the last few months I've had lots of alcohol and after all this stuff... I've been keeping it low and getting my shit together, also, I don't feel I rely on my ego as much.
-There's much more stuff, but I won't give any more details since this comment is already too long.
i came from tumblr for you, good job keep going ;)
Thank you!
I have my moments of being shy alot. At times of happiness it seems to be earier to approach people but its a different feeling the being shy. But for the most part im just reserved.
+Orkin Smash Would you say being shy and reserved are similar?
Being shy is fine and good for me! Because when I have hard time making friends and when I do, I make sure I appreciate how much I need my friends to be by my side. But the down side to be shy that it's hard for me to throw rude words back since I'm very hesitant with my words around enemy to make sure I'm not looking like a fool. Not to mention that when I had to be in a team with my enemies, I'm an all-4-types introvert so I think a lot, then they said I'm an ignorant, rushing me for answers. When in reality, I have no answers and I'm trying to think or rushing me for answer will lead me to lying or wrong answers.
I'm really shy, but my friends are all popular and always drag me into conversations, so I have a lot of friends, but approaching someone I am not friends with still is hard for me.
My girlfriend is extremely shy and I'm extremely friendly to everyone. No wonder we're together. She was really approachable when I started talking to her.
Your audio has definitely improved in the last few years. Good improvements.
helped me a lot . thank you
+prasanjit devnath That's great to hear :)
I used to be super shy, I still am, but less extreme. When ever I would tell my friends that I consider myself shy, they don't believe me. The thing is, I've gone to the same big school for my whole life, and i've always known everyone there making me more comfortable. Just me trying to ask the guy at the counter for some change makes me have a panic attack.
I'm 11 years old and have a good dancing talent, but I'd only show it to good friends or myself. But I went to a camp last week and had a dance at the zoo why'll we were there. I was a little shy, but doing around people who were doing the same thing made me more comfortable even though I barely knew them at the start, and I even got asked to be in the dance battle. They said 1 person from every cabin shall be picked, it was a choice between me and a girl named Harley, so it was me, but Harley put herself in doing half cartwheels and stuff.So I asked my friends if I should, and they said go for it! So I stepped in and Harley left. I felt so embarrassed and scared when millions of campers were watching me in a circle with 5 other campers, but I did it, I may have not won(a 9 and a 1/2 year old boy won) but I put myself out there. I hope this inspires many people who are shy, maybe sometimes shy people should do what their heart wants them to do.
I'm both shy and introverted and I actually can relate to most things in this video. The only thing that bothers me though is that people tend to think of me as unapproachable, boring and negative (I think the last one is mainly bc I say things that people don't want to hear although they know what I'm saying is true) but in reality I can be really funny, interesting and awesome - as my few close friends have told me - once you get pass my "awkwardness". The "bad thing" about this is that I suffered a lot when I was younger bc of my personality since I used to be bullied a lot during middle school and high school and a lot of my so called friends back then left me alone and took the side of the bully since apparently that was easier than stick up for me. And bc of that I was really self-concious about myself - and I still am but less than before - and I used to wonder if something was wrong with me and I tried really hard to be another person so I would be accepted until I stumble across this really awesome guy - he's one of my best friends now - who made me realise I don't need to change for anyone and that I needed to love myself for who I am and that it doesn't matter if I'm different bc that makes me unique.
THIS. IS. SO. CUUUUUUUUTE!!!!!
At high school I was always so loud or louder and more talkative when with my friends, but in class or with teachers, I go into this state of quietness.
And there was a time in my earlier years in primary school where I was talkative to anyone, most of the time, sometimes even came off as a bully, which I can't wrap my head around, but it changed as the years passed, then again I was belittled by one of my teachers and it just weighed on my self esteem. It's hard when someone expects nothing more of you than to fail, right?
I'm painfully shy but I'm really good at hiding it, especially in my voice. I sound confident but I'm shaking like a leaf on the inside every time I say ANYTHING during a class or to a stranger 0_0 But it's all about showing confidence, guys, that's the name of the game. Don't let em know. Don't let em know.
It's great to learn about the benefits of being shy. Most of the time I have seen it as something negative on myself. Do you have any more videos on shy people? I know there is a lot of videos on introverted people in the channel, but I would like more info too about those who are just shy. Thanks.
It's really nice to see the pro's to being shy :) makes me feel like it's okay to be this way.
^ - ^
I can't exactly say that introversion is really a choice, exactly. I can't say this for everyone, but I know that some introverts (including myself) simply get exhausted in some social situations.
The middle way would be preferred. Shyness kind of means stepping away from people and being aggressive implies over powering people. But are not really productive. Just being aware and sensitive to people is the way to go.
Being introverted is not choosing not to be with people. Being introverted is needing alone time to restore your energy. I know many introverts who are quite social - they just need some time afterwards to recharge. Being introverted is not a bad thing.
And even if someone did choose not to be with people a whole lot, that's not bad either. It's just a choice the person made actively or passively.
This is so true. I have few friends and a hard time Making friends, but the few I have are really close ones. I have known my best friend since I was 3 and we still have contact.
This video is so adorable with your soft voice and the cute drawings and yeah I'm a very shy person and I hate it but this video made me feel a little better about it so Thankyou 😊
I'm shy and introverted but those close to me wouldn't guess my shyness if they weren't informed.
I'd also like to think that I'm quite creative and empathetic.
I literally fell asleep to her voice. Its so soothing.
I'm not shy and I'm like this.
People think im weak because im shy
but in reality i get really strong when someone makes me mad like i could hold a door shut with my 6ft dad and sister pushing on the other side with my bale hands but pissing me off would be a challenge!
I'm shy when with strangers but outgoing when with people I know
This makes me feel better about myself
Im Shy but act truthful all the time so when I want to I can tell lies and people will believe me, I start drama but never get caught in it.
Having watched this I can say that I wish I had the qualities of shy people like attention to detail. But I'm generally ok with being outgoing. Those moments of meeting interesting people (like Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders, people who are into martial arts like you, or people who just been all around the world) in random places no less are great. I like that even though I don't find myself attractive, I never care and am completely comfortable with talking to women. However I do find plenty of moments when I wish I was a little more shy (or at least cautious). Normally people find me funny, but I have no filter so that can lead to moments when people find what I say as too offensive and the tension in the room gets high because now these people I just met probably think I'm an asshole but I'm actually nice and can be sensitive to your feelings if you tell me what you find offensive, it's just sometimes I say things without thinking, please don't hate me.
On a side note, am I the only outgoing person here?
I don't care if I'm approachable, it just makes me vulnerable to be picked on and it gives me anxiety.
I'm pretty shy. I asked my mom how shy I am on a scale of 1-10, and she said about a 7 or an 8. Meaning a lot of these things tend to apply to me.
at the beginning, " hi guys my name is joy" in the most monotone voice humanly possible, sorry I love your voice!
I'm what people consider shy, and for most people I am not very approachable ^^; I feel like I scare them or something. My sister told me that one of our cousins wanted to get closer to me but found that I was so quiet and just found it awkward to approach me.
I'm shy with always looking like an idiot or saying something extremely wrong and that people may not like me because of my personal opinions, so I just keep it to myself and post it online since the amount of criticism is mainly towards my opinion instead of me, and I very rarely show others what I like since I'm scared of judgement, and how, when I'm talking, my thoughts often wander somewhere else, making me talk wrong or babbling, and it's really fucking awful because of the embarrassment, and let's not talk about showing my insecurities and flaws, specially towards someone who I know won't understand, I just, keep it to myself, talk it on the internet, and hope someone will give a possible solution
I'm a shy introvert and I love who I am. People like me and people trust me. Friendships are very important to me,I have deep conversations
It's great to have self love!
@@Psych2go yes def
I hate being shy, when ever I talk to people I dont know, my hands sweat, and I'm very quiet. It's annoying
Stop being so close to the mic jfc I can feel the spit
ASMR but more educational xD
She's shy.
the two concepts still sounds very alike to me. although i do notice the differences. I am both, but i am pushing myself to go "out".
well from what i get true i knew that beeing shy is good for u but it wodnt help u in ur life bcs the ones who arnt shy will get what u wanted but u were shy to get that
actually shyness is an obstacle you should overcome like for real.
thank you, i've struggled being shy all my life, and an introvert.
I'm shy even when I'am with my friends and sometimes I tell them jokes that is actually corny and they teases me and I'll be just be smiling and laughing.
I'm kind of between on shy and outgoing because one minute I'm talking talking but the next I'm very quiet and observing.
I don't even know what I am. I go to school and in every class I act different. 1 period usually quiet but talks when friends come over. 2 period, more outgoing and talks a lot more. 3 period, quiet and doesn't participate in conversations or class work. 4 period, again I am more out going and talkative. 5 period, talks more but is still a bit quiet. 6 period, happy and out going. 7 period, quiet. When I'm at home, loud, outgoing, weird, crazy. I'm so confused
Actually, I think being shy is really awesome! I mean, you look different and mysterious and that's really interesting!
I'm shy and introverted....well, sort-of shy? You would know me as that person who's mute at school. I don't talk because of my bad breath problem. But I like to make facial expressions to show that I'm not THAT shy as people think I am, but they don't seem to get the message. I isolate myself at lunch & group projects cuz they might get a whiff of my breath.... And that's not good. People bully me because of it, but I can't help it. I have perfectly straight teeth, no cavities. My bad breath is caused by tonsil stones, which are horrible smelling beady-things at the back of my throat. I'm really tired of this "shy act" and I really want to talk to somebody at school, so the next time I go to the doctors, I'll ask for tonsil stone antibiotics (I already checked in with my dentist and she told me to go to the doctors to get it fixed). Thanks for reading this~
me being shy made me decide to not be around others..its a lot easier to just tell people I am an introvert so they don't ask me why I'm so quiet..
im already shy and i like it because then you just dont have to do much and i was watching the bad things about being shy then i saw way more vids about the good things of being shy and i want to be shy like i am right now
Even tho these things are true is the negative side stronger, I'm so shy that I can't say no or even be near others, so it's annoying af
I'm shy, rebellious on the inside, introvert, and I have trust issues. I know how to deal with people. I see people as just a bunch of emotions walking around to manipulate others. People are fucking pricky that's why I have become picky.
I love this womans voice!
I'm so Shy, every time I want to make a Friend I always seem to wait for someone because I don't know who to talk to because I feel like I'll make it awkward...
I'm 20 and I'm still shy. but in school people called me the "depressed kid that everyone feels sorry for".
It's so hard answering questions because then I stutter. Oh my gosh. The stuttering.
I'm fairly shy but I lack a lot of understanding. I guess I'm introverted and shy.(and a bit of clueless) When I'm with a group of friends I never really try to involve my self with the conversation willingly. I may laugh maybe once here or there if something is funny, or respond when someone mentions me in the conversation, but other than that I just get lost in thought. I have a problem talking to someone and making eye contact with anyone who isn't in my family. And I hate things like presentations or asking questions in class because I don't want to be the center of attention for even a second around others. And I say I lack understand because in a conversation with even someone close, I struggle to really be empathetic. Then again this sounds more anti social than shy or introverted.
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I once cried when a woman had her cats taken away from her, and I was literally bawling.
well this makes me feel better,but sometimes shyness can be annoying,like shy people mostly get treated as if they are stupid or not existent,which is something that hurts me alot,even though alot of shy people are better than those loud ones,not all but mostly,or maybe i am just saying that cuz shy people understand me,idk really lol
I'm an introvert but, I like talking to people I'm not shy. I'm cautious and don't like bragging. I don't get when I am .-. Life is so hard