Things to avoid if You must develop Yourself

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  • @TheLegend-uq1gz
    @TheLegend-uq1gz ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I like your points. To buttress your point, one wise person stated: Before you break your back for others, first & foremost, find out who will push you when you are in the wheelchair. Don’t kill yourself for people who don’t care about you.

    • @CastleHassall
      @CastleHassall 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Very good point.. i was in a relationship with a woman who told me she loved me... but when we were watching a film the guy in the film was injured and had to be looked after by his wife for the rest of his life
      my girlfriend asked me if i would look after her for the rest of her life if she was not able to move and i felt and said "yes of course! ..i love you"
      then i thought, hey i had better ask her the same question.. but when i asked her if she would look after me if i could not move she said no
      i should have thrown her out of my house immediately.. but i stupidly convinced myself it did not matter
      but later in our relationship she brutally did some terrible things that i still am traumatised by
      if someone tells you they would not make sure you are ok then please please please folks protect yourself and get away from them immediately no matter how nice it is to be with them they will not think twice about breaking you
      but

  • @blessingpereye1258
    @blessingpereye1258 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Life will ask you questions.... Be prepared!

    • @4formation4mike-mike4matic
      @4formation4mike-mike4matic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the questioning is getting out of hand..lol..i prepared 4 it..but life is asking me too much question..life must be a police officer..

    • @MrTrebor_
      @MrTrebor_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I didn't prepare for life's questioning. It asked, I became dumb and because I couldn't answer her, appropriately, she knocked me hard. I'm a man who has tasted my own version of Biblical Job's misery; No I haven't lost anyone in my family to death but I lost every wealth I had. Everything burned to the ground. At this moment, whoever reads this, please pray to me for God's mercy and divine encounter meet someone that could take me out of this misery.

  • @reelfarm
    @reelfarm ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I wonder why this video has not reached 100k views. This is what people pay millions to discover. God bless you sir.

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks so much please help share with others.

    • @catherineumeike5830
      @catherineumeike5830 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Because no be their yeye comedy skit

    • @KeturaYisrael
      @KeturaYisrael 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      WOW! The journey of Great men has never been easy. Today I came to this channel not by chance, but destiny. May the Most High continue to bless you Super Abundantly.

    • @festuswilliam9815
      @festuswilliam9815 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KeturaYisraelexactly

    • @CastleHassall
      @CastleHassall 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it's a lot of views compared to some channels! ... Doctor Apoki i hope you don't mind me saying but i do a channel called "Potential Techniques" to try to help people get through crisis and to beat depression and to heal trauma and most of the videos getn one view every month.. but i keep doing them in case i can help one person get through a day that is close to beating them

  • @Mavi_odes
    @Mavi_odes 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    After we lost our Dad in 2015, I was a teenager then and the fifth born, we are six in numbers. our most elder brother who was suppose to manage the legacy and assist us, he failed and squandered every of our late dad’s properties including our dads car and a piece of land. He sold that land while my mum was still on her mourning attires. He mismanaged the fuel station and borrowed money with our house. Then, I was so angry and always want to fight him. One day, he cursed me while we where quarreling as usual and he said I will go to prison some day, and it actually happened I was imprisoned in one neighboring Africa country. I did one year, I came back home And returned to the same country the next year, after one month there, I bought a very big land very close to my late dad’s land that was sold by my eldest brother, and also mould a lot and lots of bricks to start my building. I even fenced the land. So, I really get your point Sir and I appreciate your kind. I love your speech and you make me laugh a lot especially when you are saying, I remain your friend Dr Charles Apoki. 😊😊😊😊😊😊❤

  • @godsonnsofor1554
    @godsonnsofor1554 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    How i i wish sumone told Me all this in my university days government really meed to include talks like this in our school curriculum . Nice one daddy u already have a staunch fan in me 💯

  • @ranjusranjus143
    @ranjusranjus143 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    1. Women
    2. Women
    3. Women
    Do your hustle, succeed, and women will follow you

  • @enobongjackson2484
    @enobongjackson2484 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thank you Dr. I agree with you on carrying family problems on one's head. I've learnt my lesson the hard way. After all the sacrifices, some are really ingrates, who didn't seem to appreciate anything I did for them. I focus now on developing myself.

    • @EkeneJoshua-k4o
      @EkeneJoshua-k4o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly... I'm regretting mine now
      Cus after every thing nobody appreciates

    • @odugaamos8843
      @odugaamos8843 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Reality my dear

  • @namwandimarkus8857
    @namwandimarkus8857 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I am a fan of Dr. APOKI. He spits wisdom. Much love from Namibia 🙏. Keep up the good content Dr.

  • @doinglifewithkingwoman
    @doinglifewithkingwoman ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Be at peace with all men.
    This is my personal mantra

  • @chinaecheremezenma8720
    @chinaecheremezenma8720 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Thank you so much Dr. Charles Apoki, my mum introduced me to your channel.
    I have learnt it's wise to;
    ❤️‍🔥REFLECT more and DEVELOP myself, build my finances, my family, my mind and my capacity, because it's myself I would give a report of.
    ❤️‍🔥Also to focus on Christ, the Author and Finisher of our Faith.
    ❤️‍🔥Not to carry family, tribal and denominational/interdenominational matters on my head.
    I am super grateful sir😊

  • @charlesotim2522
    @charlesotim2522 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for addressing these difficult and thorny African family issues. I completely agree with you.

  • @sandrawithoutborders5631
    @sandrawithoutborders5631 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That’s is loaded with wisdom. I have been binge watching since I came across your channel this week.

  • @Xenlacasa45
    @Xenlacasa45 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your my favorite channel for life advice now god bless you sir

  • @DrPwol
    @DrPwol 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Any time I hear you, you talked like a father to me. You words come from a heart of love and a desire to see your listeners succeed and do well in life.
    Thank you sir.

  • @gregorycanady2530
    @gregorycanady2530 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Somehow, the words of this man speak to me ..................Religion balanced with common sense..........nothing demanded of me.

  • @brightdominica1923
    @brightdominica1923 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are a blessing to mankind

  • @emmihunters1803
    @emmihunters1803 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re always on points my father.
    Thank you always for the truth sir.

  • @SenaJabulani-rr9fq
    @SenaJabulani-rr9fq ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The bottom line is don't try to impress others but yourself

  • @relaxingt1728
    @relaxingt1728 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Migwo sir. Thank you for always impacting my life.

  • @stephenkaloi5139
    @stephenkaloi5139 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dr Apoki you are a blessing and God send in my season. I appreciate your speeches on this platform. Im becoming!!!

  • @XQRobertz
    @XQRobertz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    May Almighty Father in Heaven please kindly bless you Dr Apoki, You're wisdom is real top notch!! thanks a lot ❤

  • @dorcas3966
    @dorcas3966 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Am so blessed to listen to wisdom from your. Thanks Dr Charles

  • @CoachCollo
    @CoachCollo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    yes you are my friend a dad figure I never had man am learning alooooot from you. thanks

  • @LillisM
    @LillisM 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing such profound wisdom, Sir. I didn't come across your channel through any recommendation but rather stumbled upon (or perhaps it was divine orchestration! )
    Every point you made resonates deeply and touches a raw nerve within me.
    All the way from South Africa!!!🇿🇦

  • @johnfamous6316
    @johnfamous6316 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    100 years goes faster than I thought. I was under my granny at igbogbo ikorodu in 1984. Wasiu Ayinde K1 would performed at a night club named club 24 right across from Pa Awolowo UPN campaign Town Hall.

  • @gentlegiant3683
    @gentlegiant3683 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dr. Apoki,this raw wisdom.Thank you very much sir.

  • @yh6896
    @yh6896 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I must thank you for your views on religion.
    ❤ from Canada

  • @namwandimarkus8857
    @namwandimarkus8857 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am a fan of Dr Apoki. He spits wisdom. Keep up the good content Dr 🙏 . Much love from Namibia ❤

  • @HominisLupis
    @HominisLupis 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love you Dr. Charles, from India

  • @blessingchukwu3967
    @blessingchukwu3967 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    God bless you Sir.

  • @VoliqueServices
    @VoliqueServices 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Life will ask me lots of questions. I will focus on developing myself first.
    Don't struggle property with siblings. Make it and buy property.

  • @nourishbmercy2148
    @nourishbmercy2148 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loveeeeeeee listening to you. Thank you sir. I will love to meet you in person some day

  • @Anonymous121
    @Anonymous121 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beautiful message Mr dr Apoki my friend bless you and your family brother we love you over here in California ❤❤❤

  • @yusuftemitayoayobami5149
    @yusuftemitayoayobami5149 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well done sir, you’re blessed,and I love you❤

  • @t.kayoung5304
    @t.kayoung5304 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank You Dr. Charles Apoki .... Following from Cameroon

  • @soglobalresources753
    @soglobalresources753 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you sir
    You actually said everything right😊

  • @uyordestiny8075
    @uyordestiny8075 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rational advice to us all.
    God bless you more sir 🙏.
    Best regards from Nkem Collections.

  • @edwardaburuayi3296
    @edwardaburuayi3296 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow. Dr. Charles is an asset. Keep it up Sir

  • @demelvah7236
    @demelvah7236 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are a blessing sir
    Keep teaching

  • @okoteteprudence5970
    @okoteteprudence5970 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good advice...

  • @KeturaYisrael
    @KeturaYisrael 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr Charles Apoki just came to your channel and subscribed. You're talking to me. Thank you!

  • @graceasantewaatwumasi
    @graceasantewaatwumasi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is wisdom! Thank you for sharing Sir

  • @dianakumwenda7976
    @dianakumwenda7976 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Powerful video.

  • @anthonyomoko6433
    @anthonyomoko6433 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Grace and Peace to you, Dr. Akpoki! ✨️🙏 💛
    Greetings from Delta State ❤🎉

  • @gborowme
    @gborowme 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wise man

  • @okhuosuyiosazee5556
    @okhuosuyiosazee5556 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Powerful message ❤

  • @chisaraprisca-eo6bd
    @chisaraprisca-eo6bd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm blessed to share in your words of wisdom sir.

  • @gborowme
    @gborowme 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good advice

  • @amjentertainment1842
    @amjentertainment1842 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MY adopted mentor,you videos are my morning tonic.Good message from a good man.thank u sir.. Chief Christopher Geoman

  • @byaikubofrancis1452
    @byaikubofrancis1452 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you very much papa for the advice am from Uganda

  • @obieneonemi1980
    @obieneonemi1980 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God bless u sir

  • @EMMANUELTUESDAYJUNIOR
    @EMMANUELTUESDAYJUNIOR หลายเดือนก่อน

    Words of wisdom

  • @obinnanwakanma2059
    @obinnanwakanma2059 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Dr Charles for being a blessing.

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are very welcome

  • @Marvin_Shandy
    @Marvin_Shandy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your guidance always hit home keep up the good work.

  • @gilbertwarui593
    @gilbertwarui593 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Dr,for those great words⁹

  • @ifeanyiamah1711
    @ifeanyiamah1711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Sir

  • @CJILMinistriesprotruth
    @CJILMinistriesprotruth 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderful and much needed counseling.

  • @africasvanguard
    @africasvanguard 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Doc🔥🔥🔥

  • @gayorwisdom75
    @gayorwisdom75 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless you sir 🙏🏾❤️

  • @CJILMinistriesprotruth
    @CJILMinistriesprotruth 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Words etched in gold.

  • @sabi_doctor
    @sabi_doctor 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Brilliant sir

  • @oriyomiomowale6572
    @oriyomiomowale6572 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Baba, well done

  • @Mr.Oct___
    @Mr.Oct___ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your words are wise & a boon. -Thank u.

  • @lucienasone5751
    @lucienasone5751 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wise man, you talk all the time but every phrase that comes out of your mouth is super important. We thank God for your wisdom and for the passion you have to share with others.

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I appreciate that

  • @felixa6997
    @felixa6997 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very wise words sir

  • @EbiAnderson
    @EbiAnderson หลายเดือนก่อน

    O! Thank you so much Sir.

  • @meneedwin8460
    @meneedwin8460 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you sir Charles Apoki ❤

  • @sylvanascott1166
    @sylvanascott1166 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💯Percent correct

  • @eghobrown
    @eghobrown ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank sir

  • @timileyinafolabi2842
    @timileyinafolabi2842 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks sir 🙏

  • @bryandutches2282
    @bryandutches2282 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree 💯

  • @ghostflxxer9171
    @ghostflxxer9171 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All Facts. Thank you for sharing your Wisdom.

  • @userhome000
    @userhome000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Golden

  • @sylvesteruwadiae8825
    @sylvesteruwadiae8825 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice one!

  • @Beacons-of-Light-JustBeIT
    @Beacons-of-Light-JustBeIT 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great points. No need to fear GOD. God is in You. So Why Be Afraid of You Who Were Created in The Image of GOD.

  • @gladunegbu4021
    @gladunegbu4021 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true my Papa

  • @chantkressmyfavouriterockstar
    @chantkressmyfavouriterockstar 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thank you

  • @ngoziuche5159
    @ngoziuche5159 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank U sir 🙏🙏

  • @GregoryValentineAnimations
    @GregoryValentineAnimations 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very good.

  • @chidij20
    @chidij20 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @virtualcreativecollaborations
    @virtualcreativecollaborations 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ♥️ Beautiful Blessings

  • @Mathefusions18
    @Mathefusions18 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks alot sir....but sir, how can one develop himself or her self ? Can you please elaborate a little more on it?

  • @jerekclothing_Worldwide
    @jerekclothing_Worldwide 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you sir ❤

  • @jabulanisena6288
    @jabulanisena6288 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's my man

  • @FirstTen-w8q
    @FirstTen-w8q 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My bruhda!!

  • @EkeneJoshua-k4o
    @EkeneJoshua-k4o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What about churches that are in error? I mean the church that still practice old testament ritual,like killing of pigeons and so on in the name of sacrifice,
    Won't you correct them wit scriptures rather than leaving them in thier errors?

  • @godsroseinbloomh3246
    @godsroseinbloomh3246 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dr. Please tell me why and when you stopped practicing medicine?

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I stopped in the year 2020. I had made up my mind in 1983 that I would not practice medicine beyond the age of 40, because I wanted to be a business man. I felt that for me to become a professor of medicine I won't be able to acqualise my visions for myself and my family.

    • @godsroseinbloomh3246
      @godsroseinbloomh3246 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @DrCharlesApoki Thank you for your answer to my queries. I appreciate your transparency and willingness to share that personal information. I'm enjoying your videos and your titles are eye-catching. God bless. Keep up the good work. Again, thank you very much.

  • @mcdion6820
    @mcdion6820 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Llive your life like you are alone in this world. No one dies for the other or will want to die because you are dead. You are on your own.

  • @Baniyeye
    @Baniyeye 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello Dr Apoki,
    How can one reach you via email? Warm greetings Sir

  • @nazywamsie2304
    @nazywamsie2304 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏🏻

  • @gmanjordan4154
    @gmanjordan4154 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dr. Charles, you tend to philosophically contradict yourself from other videos! 😂😂😂

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @gmanjordan4154.
      Truths are parallel. God is love but God will people into hell. You must learn to compartmentalize truths. It takes intellectual maturity to do that.😂😂😂😂😂

  • @vieopulente7268
    @vieopulente7268 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR PROJECT!
    YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR PROBLEM!
    YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR ASSET!
    -Dr. Apoki🎯

  • @numberone4326
    @numberone4326 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You lied when you said that Jesus broke the scriptures. Let God be true, but every man, a liar. Do whatever you want, but please don't misinterpret scriptures to justify your ways. Jesus did not break the scriptures but fulfilled them.
    Regarding the issue of washing of hands before eating, that is a tradition of the Jews and not an ordinance given by God.
    Regarding the woman caught in adultery, those who wanted to stone the woman to death wanted to fulfil scriptures, no doubt, but by showing her mercy, Jesus showed love. And scriptures says all the laws are summed up in love. God is love.
    Again, regarding the keeping of the Sabbath, the Jews would readily rescue a donkey that fell into a ditch on a Sabbath day but frowned at Jesus for healing the sick on a Sabbath day. Between a donkey and a human being, which is more valuable to God? It is human, of course. But the Jews considered healing the sick a violation of the Sabbath but didn't think so about helping a beast of burden from a ditch. If at all Jesus violated anything, it is human traditions. But not God's ordinances or scriptures.

  • @jmmanuelseale823
    @jmmanuelseale823 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My name my friend is not Jesus...it was never Jesus..that was the name of a slave ship ..and some white god..my name is jmmanuel(Manuel).in China it was issa..in India yuz assaf....there is something I would like you to share with your listeners..speak on meditation...please..most are so caught up in doing and having...but only a few in a state of being...which in fact is the state that both of these other states should emerge from ...I enjoy listening to you and find only one thing that is concerning..you are too focused on preparing for death..2000 years ago....all I ever spoke on was eternal life and that is immortality..I'm back in a body ..last one for ever.. indefinitely.. every day is that ..ever lasting..one day I will meet you before you leave that body and revitalize it and you will change your mind on death..peace always be with you my friend... jmmanuel..2024 feb

  • @jeangray6863
    @jeangray6863 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You're experiencing late midlife crisis. You're in mourning because you're getting older

  • @ighorashekeh7465
    @ighorashekeh7465 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless you sir.

  • @uzodikepaulinuschukwudi3696
    @uzodikepaulinuschukwudi3696 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless you Sir 🙏

  • @timileyinagbaje4022
    @timileyinagbaje4022 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you sir