Things to avoid if You must develop Yourself

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  • @TheLegend-uq1gz
    @TheLegend-uq1gz ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I like your points. To buttress your point, one wise person stated: Before you break your back for others, first & foremost, find out who will push you when you are in the wheelchair. Don’t kill yourself for people who don’t care about you.

  • @solomonjohn1481
    @solomonjohn1481 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    Things to avoid
    1. 3:46 Friendship that is not taking you anywhere
    2. 4:01 church politics
    3. 5:05 always weigh whatever men are doing with the word of God
    4. 6:07 dont carry family matters on your head
    5. 8:27 dont carry tribal matters on your head
    6. 9:24 dont carey doctinal matter on your head
    7. 11:18 dont destroy the body of Christ.
    Thank you Dr. Charles Apoki.

    • @margaretnjoka5169
      @margaretnjoka5169 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amen I totally agree don't fight for family ptoperties

  • @blessingpereye1258
    @blessingpereye1258 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Life will ask you questions.... Be prepared!

    • @user-yf2zm9eu4s
      @user-yf2zm9eu4s 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the questioning is getting out of hand..lol..i prepared 4 it..but life is asking me too much question..life must be a police officer..

    • @MrTrebor_
      @MrTrebor_ หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I didn't prepare for life's questioning. It asked, I became dumb and because I couldn't answer her, appropriately, she knocked me hard. I'm a man who has tasted my own version of Biblical Job's misery; No I haven't lost anyone in my family to death but I lost every wealth I had. Everything burned to the ground. At this moment, whoever reads this, please pray to me for God's mercy and divine encounter meet someone that could take me out of this misery.

  • @reelfarm
    @reelfarm ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I wonder why this video has not reached 100k views. This is what people pay millions to discover. God bless you sir.

    • @DrCharlesApoki
      @DrCharlesApoki  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks so much please help share with others.

    • @catherineumeike5830
      @catherineumeike5830 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Because no be their yeye comedy skit

    • @user-ho2qt1qh5v
      @user-ho2qt1qh5v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      WOW! The journey of Great men has never been easy. Today I came to this channel not by chance, but destiny. May the Most High continue to bless you Super Abundantly.

  • @user-jz2tp4sy4t
    @user-jz2tp4sy4t 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    After we lost our Dad in 2015, I was a teenager then and the fifth born, we are six in numbers. our most elder brother who was suppose to manage the legacy and assist us, he failed and squandered every of our late dad’s properties including our dads car and a piece of land. He sold that land while my mum was still on her mourning attires. He mismanaged the fuel station and borrowed money with our house. Then, I was so angry and always want to fight him. One day, he cursed me while we where quarreling as usual and he said I will go to prison some day, and it actually happened I was imprisoned in one neighboring Africa country. I did one year, I came back home And returned to the same country the next year, after one month there, I bought a very big land very close to my late dad’s land that was sold by my eldest brother, and also mould a lot and lots of bricks to start my building. I even fenced the land. So, I really get your point Sir and I appreciate your kind. I love your speech and you make me laugh a lot especially when you are saying, I remain your friend Dr Charles Apoki. 😊😊😊😊😊😊❤

  • @enobongjackson2484
    @enobongjackson2484 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Thank you Dr. I agree with you on carrying family problems on one's head. I've learnt my lesson the hard way. After all the sacrifices, some are really ingrates, who didn't seem to appreciate anything I did for them. I focus now on developing myself.

  • @ranjusranjus143
    @ranjusranjus143 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    1. Women
    2. Women
    3. Women
    Do your hustle, succeed, and women will follow you

  • @solomonjohn1481
    @solomonjohn1481 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    2:44 i don't stop i must finish anything i start -Dr Charles Apoki

  • @doinglifewithkingwoman
    @doinglifewithkingwoman ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Be at peace with all men.
    This is my personal mantra

  • @namwandimarkus8857
    @namwandimarkus8857 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I am a fan of Dr. APOKI. He spits wisdom. Much love from Namibia 🙏. Keep up the good content Dr.

  • @davoupwol736
    @davoupwol736 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Any time I hear you, you talked like a father to me. You words come from a heart of love and a desire to see your listeners succeed and do well in life.
    Thank you sir.

  • @chinaecheremezenma8720
    @chinaecheremezenma8720 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thank you so much Dr. Charles Apoki, my mum introduced me to your channel.
    I have learnt it's wise to;
    ❤️‍🔥REFLECT more and DEVELOP myself, build my finances, my family, my mind and my capacity, because it's myself I would give a report of.
    ❤️‍🔥Also to focus on Christ, the Author and Finisher of our Faith.
    ❤️‍🔥Not to carry family, tribal and denominational/interdenominational matters on my head.
    I am super grateful sir😊

  • @godsonnsofor1554
    @godsonnsofor1554 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    How i i wish sumone told Me all this in my university days government really meed to include talks like this in our school curriculum . Nice one daddy u already have a staunch fan in me 💯

  • @SenaJabulani-rr9fq
    @SenaJabulani-rr9fq ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The bottom line is don't try to impress others but yourself

  • @VoliqueServices
    @VoliqueServices หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Life will ask me lots of questions. I will focus on developing myself first.
    Don't struggle property with siblings. Make it and buy property.

  • @Xenlacasa45
    @Xenlacasa45 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your my favorite channel for life advice now god bless you sir

  • @CJILMinistriesprotruth
    @CJILMinistriesprotruth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Words etched in gold.

  • @charlesotim2522
    @charlesotim2522 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for addressing these difficult and thorny African family issues. I completely agree with you.

  • @user-ho2qt1qh5v
    @user-ho2qt1qh5v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dr Charles Apoki just came to your channel and subscribed. You're talking to me. Thank you!

  • @sylvanascott1166
    @sylvanascott1166 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💯Percent correct

  • @chidij20
    @chidij20 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @sandrawithoutborders5631
    @sandrawithoutborders5631 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That’s is loaded with wisdom. I have been binge watching since I came across your channel this week.

  • @ghostflxxer9171
    @ghostflxxer9171 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All Facts. Thank you for sharing your Wisdom.

  • @Mr.Oct___
    @Mr.Oct___ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your words are wise & a boon. -Thank u.

  • @Marvin_Shandy
    @Marvin_Shandy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your guidance always hit home keep up the good work.

  • @CJILMinistriesprotruth
    @CJILMinistriesprotruth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wonderful and much needed counseling.

  • @CoachCollo
    @CoachCollo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    yes you are my friend a dad figure I never had man am learning alooooot from you. thanks

  • @relaxingt1728
    @relaxingt1728 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Migwo sir. Thank you for always impacting my life.

  • @gborowme
    @gborowme 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wise man

  • @GregoryValentineAnimations
    @GregoryValentineAnimations 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very good.

  • @anthonyomoko6433
    @anthonyomoko6433 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Grace and Peace to you, Dr. Akpoki! ✨️🙏 💛
    Greetings from Delta State ❤🎉

  • @africasvanguard
    @africasvanguard 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Doc🔥🔥🔥

  • @uzodikepaulinuschukwudi3696
    @uzodikepaulinuschukwudi3696 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless you Sir 🙏

  • @edwardaburuayi3296
    @edwardaburuayi3296 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow. Dr. Charles is an asset. Keep it up Sir

  • @soglobalresources753
    @soglobalresources753 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you sir
    You actually said everything right😊

  • @felixa6997
    @felixa6997 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very wise words sir

  • @t.kayoung5304
    @t.kayoung5304 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank You Dr. Charles Apoki .... Following from Cameroon

  • @brightdominica1923
    @brightdominica1923 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are a blessing to mankind

  • @gentlegiant3683
    @gentlegiant3683 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Dr. Apoki,this raw wisdom.Thank you very much sir.

  • @okhuosuyiosazee5556
    @okhuosuyiosazee5556 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Powerful message ❤

  • @graceasantewaatwumasi
    @graceasantewaatwumasi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is wisdom! Thank you for sharing Sir

  • @dianakumwenda7976
    @dianakumwenda7976 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Powerful video.

  • @sylvesteruwadiae8825
    @sylvesteruwadiae8825 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice one!

  • @ifeanyiamah1711
    @ifeanyiamah1711 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Sir

  • @HominisLupis
    @HominisLupis 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love you Dr. Charles, from India

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless you sir.

  • @obieneonemi1980
    @obieneonemi1980 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    God bless u sir

  • @jerekclothing_Worldwide
    @jerekclothing_Worldwide หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love you sir ❤

  • @gayorwisdom75
    @gayorwisdom75 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless you sir 🙏🏾❤️

  • @namwandimarkus8857
    @namwandimarkus8857 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a fan of Dr Apoki. He spits wisdom. Keep up the good content Dr 🙏 . Much love from Namibia ❤

  • @virtualcreativecollaborations
    @virtualcreativecollaborations หลายเดือนก่อน

    ♥️ Beautiful Blessings

  • @demelvah7236
    @demelvah7236 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are a blessing sir
    Keep teaching

  • @gborowme
    @gborowme 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good advice

  • @meneedwin8460
    @meneedwin8460 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love you sir Charles Apoki ❤

  • @sabi_doctor
    @sabi_doctor 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Brilliant sir

  • @okoteteprudence5970
    @okoteteprudence5970 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good advice...

  • @byaikubofrancis1452
    @byaikubofrancis1452 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you very much papa for the advice am from Uganda

  • @dorcas3966
    @dorcas3966 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Am so blessed to listen to wisdom from your. Thanks Dr Charles

  • @Anonymous121
    @Anonymous121 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beautiful message Mr dr Apoki my friend bless you and your family brother we love you over here in California ❤❤❤

  • @gladunegbu4021
    @gladunegbu4021 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So true my Papa

  • @amjentertainment1842
    @amjentertainment1842 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MY adopted mentor,you videos are my morning tonic.Good message from a good man.thank u sir.. Chief Christopher Geoman

  • @uyordestiny8075
    @uyordestiny8075 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Rational advice to us all.
    God bless you more sir 🙏.
    Best regards from Nkem Collections.

  • @user-hm2ic1xz2g
    @user-hm2ic1xz2g หลายเดือนก่อน

    My bruhda!!

  • @yh6896
    @yh6896 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I must thank you for your views on religion.
    ❤ from Canada

  • @XQRobertz
    @XQRobertz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    May Almighty Father in Heaven please kindly bless you Dr Apoki, You're wisdom is real top notch!! thanks a lot ❤

  • @obinnanwakanma2059
    @obinnanwakanma2059 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Dr Charles for being a blessing.

    • @DrCharlesApoki
      @DrCharlesApoki  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are very welcome

  • @chantkressmyfavouriterockstar
    @chantkressmyfavouriterockstar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thank you

  • @gilbertwarui593
    @gilbertwarui593 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Dr,for those great words⁹

  • @timileyinafolabi2842
    @timileyinafolabi2842 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks sir 🙏

  • @eghobrown
    @eghobrown ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank sir

  • @jabulanisena6288
    @jabulanisena6288 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's my man

  • @nourishbmercy2148
    @nourishbmercy2148 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loveeeeeeee listening to you. Thank you sir. I will love to meet you in person some day

  • @stephenkaloi5139
    @stephenkaloi5139 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dr Apoki you are a blessing and God send in my season. I appreciate your speeches on this platform. Im becoming!!!

  • @gregorycanady2530
    @gregorycanady2530 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Somehow, the words of this man speak to me ..................Religion balanced with common sense..........nothing demanded of me.

  • @chisaraprisca-eo6bd
    @chisaraprisca-eo6bd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm blessed to share in your words of wisdom sir.

  • @bryandutches2282
    @bryandutches2282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree 💯

  • @gmanjordan4154
    @gmanjordan4154 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dr. Charles, you tend to philosophically contradict yourself from other videos! 😂😂😂

    • @DrCharlesApoki
      @DrCharlesApoki  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @gmanjordan4154.
      Truths are parallel. God is love but God will people into hell. You must learn to compartmentalize truths. It takes intellectual maturity to do that.😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Mathefusions18
    @Mathefusions18 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks alot sir....but sir, how can one develop himself or her self ? Can you please elaborate a little more on it?

  • @lucienasone5751
    @lucienasone5751 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wise man, you talk all the time but every phrase that comes out of your mouth is super important. We thank God for your wisdom and for the passion you have to share with others.

  • @Beacons-of-Light-JustBeIT
    @Beacons-of-Light-JustBeIT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great points. No need to fear GOD. God is in You. So Why Be Afraid of You Who Were Created in The Image of GOD.

  • @nazywamsie2304
    @nazywamsie2304 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🙏🏻

  • @mcdion6820
    @mcdion6820 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Llive your life like you are alone in this world. No one dies for the other or will want to die because you are dead. You are on your own.

  • @vieopulente7268
    @vieopulente7268 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR PROJECT!
    YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR PROBLEM!
    YOU ARE YOUR MAJOR ASSET!
    -Dr. Apoki🎯

  • @godsroseinbloomh3246
    @godsroseinbloomh3246 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dr. Please tell me why and when you stopped practicing medicine?

    • @DrCharlesApoki
      @DrCharlesApoki  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I stopped in the year 2020. I had made up my mind in 1983 that I would not practice medicine beyond the age of 40, because I wanted to be a business man. I felt that for me to become a professor of medicine I won't be able to acqualise my visions for myself and my family.

    • @godsroseinbloomh3246
      @godsroseinbloomh3246 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @DrCharlesApoki Thank you for your answer to my queries. I appreciate your transparency and willingness to share that personal information. I'm enjoying your videos and your titles are eye-catching. God bless. Keep up the good work. Again, thank you very much.

  • @numberone4326
    @numberone4326 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You lied when you said that Jesus broke the scriptures. Let God be true, but every man, a liar. Do whatever you want, but please don't misinterpret scriptures to justify your ways. Jesus did not break the scriptures but fulfilled them.
    Regarding the issue of washing of hands before eating, that is a tradition of the Jews and not an ordinance given by God.
    Regarding the woman caught in adultery, those who wanted to stone the woman to death wanted to fulfil scriptures, no doubt, but by showing her mercy, Jesus showed love. And scriptures says all the laws are summed up in love. God is love.
    Again, regarding the keeping of the Sabbath, the Jews would readily rescue a donkey that fell into a ditch on a Sabbath day but frowned at Jesus for healing the sick on a Sabbath day. Between a donkey and a human being, which is more valuable to God? It is human, of course. But the Jews considered healing the sick a violation of the Sabbath but didn't think so about helping a beast of burden from a ditch. If at all Jesus violated anything, it is human traditions. But not God's ordinances or scriptures.

  • @jmmanuelseale823
    @jmmanuelseale823 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My name my friend is not Jesus...it was never Jesus..that was the name of a slave ship ..and some white god..my name is jmmanuel(Manuel).in China it was issa..in India yuz assaf....there is something I would like you to share with your listeners..speak on meditation...please..most are so caught up in doing and having...but only a few in a state of being...which in fact is the state that both of these other states should emerge from ...I enjoy listening to you and find only one thing that is concerning..you are too focused on preparing for death..2000 years ago....all I ever spoke on was eternal life and that is immortality..I'm back in a body ..last one for ever.. indefinitely.. every day is that ..ever lasting..one day I will meet you before you leave that body and revitalize it and you will change your mind on death..peace always be with you my friend... jmmanuel..2024 feb

  • @jeangray6863
    @jeangray6863 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You're experiencing late midlife crisis. You're in mourning because you're getting older

  • @ighorashekeh7465
    @ighorashekeh7465 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @blessingchukwu3967
    @blessingchukwu3967 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    God bless you Sir.