Kabu, you can not misbehave like this. You are international business man. Simply because you decided to kulala na wengine na unamistreat bibi yako na ni yeye ilitoa idea ya biashara. Pesa shows who people are. Wherenever you let a third person in your marriage, then it is doomed. ❗️❗️❗️
Very true most of us women like hiding but men destroy publicly without caring. Kidogo kidogo bibi anakufa ndio stories zinaimage. Most narcissist can't even kill a fly
I know. Only women who've been through it can understand. Abusive marriages leaves you with some emotional mental dents. We however heal with time and good self care. She'll be fine
To be fair before judging don't believe one side of the story ...listen to both...because also women can be something else than they act victims....I don't condone going physical for either(wife/ husband).
Exposing your husband will not solve anything... just separate and move on....people will not help they will laugh at you. Look for therapy and justice in court .......
Am married to one 😢😢😢am dead inside,self esteem down,he separated me from my family😢they believe him 😢😢wamenitenga😢😢sina mtu ni mimi na my 2 kids 😢😢worst thing ni am jobless n I depend on him financially 😢😢it is really painful
I truely understand Sarah Kabu,i underwent the same violence.And in public we played the best couple,but once behind the closed doors i would automatically be turned into a devils advocate and strungling me at nught.Thanks God i left the Misri too.
I do understand Sarah!Men with money and they make themselves so nice n good ppl in community but at home they are more than a snake....speaking from experience...I left all behind n run with my son
This is sad 😭 i secretly admired your marriage from the time you showed up in DJ Mo ad Size 8 show! I am truly sorry for your sufferings, may you find the grace to forgive and heal.
Now I know why he released that video of her beating the nanny. He was threatening her to keep silent about the abuse. Narcissists always know how to manipulate every situation. I applaud Sarah for coming forward and advocating for Domestic Violence!! May God give her strength.
Yep now this is the whole plot Sarah threatened to talk about And he went ahead to make her public Yep narcissistic men will use anything to tarnish you So you have no reasoning n be quiet I bliv Sarah Whether she fought back she was defending herself Kabu is guilty of domestic violence Narc are very big pretenders They wear masks in public and are demons behind closed doors I know this too well And they will threaten you with anything if you try to report them or leave Sarah run for the hills
Oh no am so sorry Sarah its so easy for peopel to judge without listening to both sides of the story.....i had the privilege to attend your wedding and have watched you grow the bonfire brand to what it is today and it saddens me learn this sad truth. May God give you peace as you handle things and praying that no more drama will be witnessed again and for the sake of your children. May the truth prevail when all is said and done
Weh kaireto umejaribu,I was married by a narcissist weh sema kujifanya in public,nilikuwa nachapwa nikikataa kushikwa mkono jiani.nilikuwa nakataa nikikumbika vile nafanyiwa behind the bar.hio marriage iliisha haraka after 3 years.
I hatemen who see other women better than theur own wives ..nonsence .who is supposed to hire nanies sually...who is supposed to take care of the wellbeing of the kids in the house??? Hizi ninmawhat wanaume wanatupitushia?? Narcissists..na wakienda nje ..the pretence ...they are seen like angels yet kwa manyumba zao ni vitu zingine hazieleweki.
I believe we get everything we want and put God as second .let's learn to put God first in everything we do and have .that's the only secret lise is full of a lot of pressure dear ones.
At least umeongea imekutoka😢😢mimi ni soldier kwa office yenu nilikuwa naomba kama kuna voucher munipee niende maasai mara juu nachunga office vizuri ❤❤❤ nipitieni tugrow pamoja
I believe you sarah 100%.pole for what you went through..people should remember abusers are not abusive all the time they can be sweet sometime until they are angry then you will know their true colours…Ogopa watu wafupi hasira wanakuanga nayo
Thank you Sarah, it wasn't easy to come on social media. But it may save other women out there. Also it solidifies your own decisions. Many narratives come from partners but its in justifications. Stand with your truth and let friends and family surround you for support.
At some point spouses become enemies and when it happens the best decision is to separate and live far from each other. Sadly for public figures they continue staying together to protect their image which hurts them further due to piled up resentment. Anyway time heals and would wish that you reconcile in future. But for now give each other space and avoid sharing your issues online for the sake of your children. Marriage works but doesn't work when portrayed online because it forces spouses to always act good which is not sustainable. Women like Romeo and Juliet portrayal of love and romance but that is a house of cards. NB: Marriage is never really about love. Marriage operates like politics or warzone in order to create conducive environment for both spouses and children. Thus it needs vision, strategy, negotiations, compromises, boundaries, rules on duties and responsibilities, agreements on sharing resources, exit clauses and ability to use coercive power not violence when necessary.
Huyu ndiye alikuwa ana advice the Wajesus how to be married. What part did you take What did you do? So you are an Angel? Women are harassing men too nowadays
Before anything I want to hear both side. Sarah is on camera with a 🔪 pushing/ harassing another woman . My trust and sympathy are on empty. Why wasn't she talking before the video came out? Sort your mess/issues off camera
Ni vizuri Sarah ameongea..ndio wenye wamezoea kuenda kwa online couples kusema "I tap these blessings " mjue..kwa public na private ni totally different
Ooh,My God all along I thought it was true love with just little normal marriage challenges, only to hear this shocking message I don't trust social media love and lovers
Our society is no longer able to support marriages... All marriages whether rich or poor have issues...The difference lies on how to handle these issues.
People in Africa should not stay in any abusive situation beate you are. Rich big names or small tukae kama erupo country hakuna kiwaiste time ati ufirahishe watu Sara ondokea ur inner peace ndio muhimu na live
Sarah you have fought for your marriage and i swear no woman wants to leave her marriage some die trying to salvage,Am sorry for you Sarah and the children but God is coming through for you.
Hivo ulinyamaza na kutufanya tukae yatima wa mapenzi unyamaze hivo hivo..mkikosana mnataka tutake sides why na wakati mlikua mnatuonyesha vile mnapendana tulinyamaza..
Love you Mama Sarah Kabu, yes most people will be like we will be praying for you for restoration, but eish let them pray, however Mama Sarah run for your life my dear your children's, especially needs you. That justice challenge is almost all over Africa 😢
I'm a married man and I know that women don't just wake up and make up wild allegations about their husband unless there is some truth in it.
Pewa kitu kwa bill yangu, I salute you
Sarah stand up for ur life. Am praying for u. Marriage is not everything without peace.
You are a simp.
Aki😢😢😢
That's exactly why you're married
Team Sarah! Girl power💪🏾
Hope milly and diana are ok juu siwezi imagine them going throw this i pray for all celebrities too all to be well with them
My mother is in the grave for 20 years now for believing that a narcist can change.Mimi nikiona dalili zozote i murife run immediately
I had to cancel my wedding coz wueh it's not easy 😢
Keep talking and telling your story.Do not go silent. Fear not! God will see you through.
Kabu, you can not misbehave like this. You are international business man. Simply because you decided to kulala na wengine na unamistreat bibi yako na ni yeye ilitoa idea ya biashara. Pesa shows who people are. Wherenever you let a third person in your marriage, then it is doomed. ❗️❗️❗️
The reason it got this far is because she did not act sooner and wanted to save face and avoid embarrasment. Sad
That's what so many women do ! Ad then when u get courage to get out u realise how strong you are!
Very true most of us women like hiding but men destroy publicly without caring. Kidogo kidogo bibi anakufa ndio stories zinaimage. Most narcissist can't even kill a fly
Why was she chasing the other woman with a knife , the reason she says this is because she was exposed in the cctv
Am I dreaming.....
Brave lady....I hv always loved you.
I must pray for you
She looks messed up aki woishe...needs to go for a counselling...Mungu ni mwema you have money mommie
I know. Only women who've been through it can understand. Abusive marriages leaves you with some emotional mental dents. We however heal with time and good self care. She'll be fine
Ameen@@zara.smithwick
I feel you,I walked away from my marriage last year after 10yrs,I choose peace, and I choose peace.dealing with a narsist is the worst feeling ever
It is draining. Narcissists dont deserve to live aki ni mashetani na miguu 12.am with one😢😢😢
To be fair before judging don't believe one side of the story ...listen to both...because also women can be something else than they act victims....I don't condone going physical for either(wife/ husband).
Hi Sara, thanks for the courage. You have the power to help so many women through your story. Please keep us going.Dont look back. You are my Hero.
Exposing your husband will not solve anything... just separate and move on....people will not help they will laugh at you. Look for therapy and justice in court .......
That's how Narcissist behave. Am a survivor I left and we are now comfortable with my kids as I let God to avenge for me.
Am married to one 😢😢😢am dead inside,self esteem down,he separated me from my family😢they believe him 😢😢wamenitenga😢😢sina mtu ni mimi na my 2 kids 😢😢worst thing ni am jobless n I depend on him financially 😢😢it is really painful
@fridahiminza8659 , listen or watch about Narcissist and you will be well guided. Anza kujipanga financially hata kama ni pole pole.
How did you start?
@RuthBoro-g2g , it's not easy my relatives have been assisting. Am hustling here and there but I trust that the new year will be better.
They believed when I played for the the video of abuse and threats
Lemmi send this to my mom coz she needs to leave coz she is now healing wounds as we speak
😢 OMG
Soo sorry darling
Pole sana
May God heal her completely
Waaah ebu atoke mm nilitoka last year with 4 kids,na GOD is faithful
I am team Sarah.....men with money are not easy....am speaking out of experience
Mee too
even those without money are even worse,it rains everywhere
Those without money do not have a are ignorant that's the reason u don't hear them.
I think it cuts across ,because even the poor still abuse ladies.
Same..men with money r so proud
I truely understand Sarah Kabu,i underwent the same violence.And in public we played the best couple,but once behind the closed doors i would automatically be turned into a devils advocate and strungling me at nught.Thanks God i left the Misri too.
Women's are going through hell😭😭
Whaaat? Am scared
Wueh!! pole..
Kabu you don't employ a house girl
Hiyo ni strictly sector ya mama
Respect your family.
That is not a house girl
You can but some jobs should be strictly done by the wife and also an unfaithful husband will always cheat. Whether you have a house girl or not.
I do understand Sarah!Men with money and they make themselves so nice n good ppl in community but at home they are more than a snake....speaking from experience...I left all behind n run with my son
This includes men who are always in church i think not only rich but also poor ones. Thanks Sara your story has been an eye opener.
Pole Sarah mtalii, kwa kuvumilia hiyo madharau yote😢this kabu should know there's God ooo!
I went through beating from my x..thank God I left
This guy is a narcissist 😮
Mimi nikikumbuka she bought a home at nanyuki to kabu then the range Rover discovery she was gifted let me keep off
Remember ata eluas alikua hapa na tulikua tunamlaumu
This is sad 😭 i secretly admired your marriage from the time you showed up in DJ Mo ad Size 8 show! I am truly sorry for your sufferings, may you find the grace to forgive and heal.
Now I know why he released that video of her beating the nanny. He was threatening her to keep silent about the abuse. Narcissists always know how to manipulate every situation. I applaud Sarah for coming forward and advocating for Domestic Violence!! May God give her strength.
Yep now this is the whole plot
Sarah threatened to talk about
And he went ahead to make her public
Yep narcissistic men will use anything to tarnish you
So you have no reasoning n be quiet
I bliv Sarah
Whether she fought back she was defending herself
Kabu is guilty of domestic violence
Narc are very big pretenders
They wear masks in public and are demons behind closed doors
I know this too well
And they will threaten you with anything if you try to report them or leave
Sarah run for the hills
Justice in Kenya ni ngumuuu, mimi hata child surport siwezi itisha and by God's grace my kids have never lacked. Muache Mungu and ujionee maajabu
We applaud you Sarah! Walk away. Walk with God. The devil is a liar and will always be exposed. 🙏🏽💪🏽🤎💯
I would advise all women to keep an eye on red flags aki, and walk away before things get worse choose your happiness.
If he turns physical , run for your life, he doesn’t deserve a queen like you.
Hypergamy does not care , hypergamy does not wait. Men learn .
He is defending nanny what a shame.umelaaniwa sana mzee
Looking at Kabu you can tell he is lying.
Yes he is lying
Fear such..
Oh no am so sorry Sarah its so easy for peopel to judge without listening to both sides of the story.....i had the privilege to attend your wedding and have watched you grow the bonfire brand to what it is today and it saddens me learn this sad truth. May God give you peace as you handle things and praying that no more drama will be witnessed again and for the sake of your children. May the truth prevail when all is said and done
What I know is no woman will walk out of a happy marriage just like that. Find peace mama
Weh kaireto umejaribu,I was married by a narcissist weh sema kujifanya in public,nilikuwa nachapwa nikikataa kushikwa mkono jiani.nilikuwa nakataa nikikumbika vile nafanyiwa behind the bar.hio marriage iliisha haraka after 3 years.
I hatemen who see other women better than theur own wives ..nonsence .who is supposed to hire nanies sually...who is supposed to take care of the wellbeing of the kids in the house??? Hizi ninmawhat wanaume wanatupitushia?? Narcissists..na wakienda nje ..the pretence ...they are seen like angels yet kwa manyumba zao ni vitu zingine hazieleweki.
Ten years ago,i was in a such situation,i thank God for saving my life,i let it go and choose my peace.
Sarah you're already looking good and at peace
I believe we get everything we want and put God as second .let's learn to put God first in everything we do and have .that's the only secret lise is full of a lot of pressure dear ones.
At least umeongea imekutoka😢😢mimi ni soldier kwa office yenu nilikuwa naomba kama kuna voucher munipee niende maasai mara juu nachunga office vizuri ❤❤❤ nipitieni tugrow pamoja
😂
Penye imefika,nimeshindwa,kutetea Kabul, let him face the law,😢
I believe you sarah 100%.pole for what you went through..people should remember abusers are not abusive all the time they can be sweet sometime until they are angry then you will know their true colours…Ogopa watu wafupi hasira wanakuanga nayo
I agree 💯.
Short men are dangerous 😅.
I can relate 😢.
Am so sorry 😞 to Sarah Kabu 😢.
There's too much to these people beyond money 💰.
Hii story ya Media ni upuzi. Imagine how children will feel when they grow up and analyse their parents videos😢
It's better they grow up and see... Rather than suffering in silence.. Men are selfish
Thank you Sarah, it wasn't easy to come on social media. But it may save other women out there. Also it solidifies your own decisions. Many narratives come from partners but its in justifications. Stand with your truth and let friends and family surround you for support.
Men with money is issue, men without issue, aki hii maisha ni God tuu.
But why yaani issues Kila mahali😠😠
No balance in this life 😢😢😢
The poor ones are messed ones
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Let's say no to domestic violence,I was there two years ago with a narcissist I had no peace.
Women women women trust your guts, red flags all round.... run run your life matters.... these material things will surely take us to the grave
At some point spouses become enemies and when it happens the best decision is to separate and live far from each other. Sadly for public figures they continue staying together to protect their image which hurts them further due to piled up resentment. Anyway time heals and would wish that you reconcile in future. But for now give each other space and avoid sharing your issues online for the sake of your children.
Marriage works but doesn't work when portrayed online because it forces spouses to always act good which is not sustainable. Women like Romeo and Juliet portrayal of love and romance but that is a house of cards.
NB: Marriage is never really about love. Marriage operates like politics or warzone in order to create conducive environment for both spouses and children. Thus it needs vision, strategy, negotiations, compromises, boundaries, rules on duties and responsibilities, agreements on sharing resources, exit clauses and ability to use coercive power not violence when necessary.
Na nilikua nime tap blessings kwa hii couple 😢😢. Nitaenda deliverance 😢
I usually see people do that and I just warn them but some thinks am jealous never tap things U see on media some are just lies
😂😂😂😂😂umenifurahisha
Ata bible imekata kutamani maisha ya wenyewe live yours and be thankful
😂😂😂😂😂
Deliver yourself first.tongue has power.Disconnect with violence n claim peace in ua marriage n happiness too
Going through kind of similar shit after yeye kupatia side chick mimba...i am sensing their evil plans but trusting God to prevail
Strong lady. It's not easy..I used to fake my marriage is ok until I faced reality with health issues..
It's high time we do away with marriage kila mtu akae kwao
Na wengine watatoa wapi kwao?
Thank you God for everything today in the Name of Jesus Christ 🙏❤️💯.
Awesome 👍.
Amen and Hallelujah 🙏.
No one to be trusted 😭 in this world 🌎.
Mimi social media haiwezi nipea pressure,I take one step at a time
Yeah happy couples don't need to prove they are happy hapa,couples that are happy wako off media🙌🙌
I begin to doubt the wajesus juu size 8 na djmo ,alafu pia the kabus na wote ni mabeshte
@@fridahiminza8659 yeah na akina Bahati,social media is a scam!
Ha, ha, wajesus na kujifanya ni watu wa mungu@@fridahiminza8659
@@fridahiminza8659ha, ha wajesus na kujifanya ni watu wa mungu
I got you Sarah .it's hard to convince society what you going through when you live a narcissist .no one can trust you but God knows.
I am praying for you Sarah. May God lift you and heal your trauma. When this is over, please seek therapy. It helps alot.
Huyu ndiye alikuwa ana advice the Wajesus how to be married. What part did you take What did you do? So you are an Angel? Women are harassing men too nowadays
I agree, and it's only women who talk,we don't hear the other side of the story..we are all human
Who will believe you as a man@@monics145
I thought she was a second wife, Ist wife has been praying
Before anything I want to hear both side. Sarah is on camera with a 🔪 pushing/ harassing another woman . My trust and sympathy are on empty. Why wasn't she talking before the video came out?
Sort your mess/issues off camera
I also feel like not trusting this woman
Sarah we are behind you dear
Sarah😢...you've gone through alot. May justice prevail & may you get your peace back.
That's the problem of social media.
Kabu no any other amount of shame u can bring Sara!she is now healed and wil tell ur story!best u can do is to own up your mistakes!!!!
So sorry dear but its good you spoke out early enough before losing your dear life
Dear Sarah achana na Kabu
Look for a man who can take care of you.
He doesn't deserve you.
Move on Sarah and keep Bonfire going
Sara God is on your side.
Ni vizuri Sarah ameongea..ndio wenye wamezoea kuenda kwa online couples kusema "I tap these blessings " mjue..kwa public na private ni totally different
Say it again
😂😂😂
Add volume 😂
@Judith, you have made my day.
Add volume, repeat repeat repeat
Like Sara says I also wish to relocate😢...Women are in trouble
Big up Sarah for bracing yourself and saying no to toxicity
Ooh,My God all along I thought it was true love with just little normal marriage challenges, only to hear this shocking message I don't trust social media love and lovers
Sara i relocated from kenya too because of that
Kabu this is ur down fall man pls u never lay ur hands on ur woman pls pls Mugikuyu weninaa.
Woishe
Walking away is the best option, say no to domestic violence 😔
Nikama Kabu anatembea na huyo dame anatetea, shame on you kutetea nanny badala ya wife wako, pthuuu nimetema mate
Nanny recruited by HR, GM ni nanny tuu? Mbona wasiwasi hivi?
I pray for you and your children to ease the pain. Find your own happiness Sarah. Kabu ni makanga tu, not even money can change that about him! Nkt!
Sarah am Soo proud of you doing this is not easy I hope it goes well with you and your babies.hugs mum
Kabu you wanted freedom have it to the fullest we are all equal get busy it is recovery time don't look for words
Our society is no longer able to support marriages... All marriages whether rich or poor have issues...The difference lies on how to handle these issues.
Never never be someone witness in this country
Sarah with you,we support you,been their,am on my way out
❤❤❤I support Galtoto always Sarah keep going 💪 ❤️ Gal
Trust in God he will see you through it all let God be your lawyer Sarah and your case will favor you may God give you peace
Love you ❤may God protect you always.
People in Africa should not stay in any abusive situation beate you are. Rich big names or small tukae kama erupo country hakuna kiwaiste time ati ufirahishe watu Sara ondokea ur inner peace ndio muhimu na live
Ha aaiya,Mimi mtu ajaribu ndio atajua hajui
Jipende mama...hakuna ki2 mzuri kama amani ya moyo..pole mummy
Yeah ✌🏾🥀💙, say that AGAIN
Wah hope business yake iko sawa pekee yake😢
Marriage should be on contract basis....watu Wanachoshana Sana..... instead of all this dramas...maskini na mabwenyenye...all are suffering...😡😡😡😡😡
May God be with you through this
Justice for Sarah....maisha ya social media isikupee stress
Hutu to bibi tufupi Wacha tu😢team sarah
I feel for Sarah 😢. Wish you share the Company. Bonfire Adventures & Bonfire Ventures, n believe me Sarah you're go far 🙏
Why didn't you report right away? What were you wanting for??
Lemie tel you maina. Its not easy dealing with narcissists weuh...you forgive hoping them to change invain...
Awoo shame Sarah my lovely sister, this broke my heart bt u mst knw I'm praying for u sisi. ❤ frm South Africa ❤
Sarah you need to go for Counseling.... during separation parties involved go through Loss and grief.... grieving is a process.... you will get better
Sarah you have fought for your marriage and i swear no woman wants to leave her marriage some die trying to salvage,Am sorry for you Sarah and the children but God is coming through for you.
Hivo ulinyamaza na kutufanya tukae yatima wa mapenzi unyamaze hivo hivo..mkikosana mnataka tutake sides why na wakati mlikua mnatuonyesha vile mnapendana tulinyamaza..
Sara
You are a blessed woman...you did the right thing by leaving ❤.for your safety and that of your kids
It's a shame Simon umakanga bado iko dani yako
Love you Mama Sarah Kabu, yes most people will be like we will be praying for you for restoration, but eish let them pray, however Mama Sarah run for your life my dear your children's, especially needs you. That justice challenge is almost all over Africa 😢
good woman, run and never look back
Wuui, my God I can't believe she couple was fighting. Girls run run run
Sarah praying for you let God be your judge domestic violence it's a big No !