Hey, Don't Be Mean To Yourself! (Insecure Listener ASMR)

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  • @Kokiri-Kid-07
    @Kokiri-Kid-07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    As a man who uses self deprecating humor I feel personally attacked lol

  • @sightlylime1149
    @sightlylime1149 ปีที่แล้ว +160

    The idea that someone outside of family could say this kind of and actually mean it is inconceivable to me

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  ปีที่แล้ว +32

      No one should be mean to themselves, everyone is beautiful!! :3

    • @catgirlcataclysm
      @catgirlcataclysm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Its_Captain_Jack_Sparrow same here lmfao

  • @HeroGhost
    @HeroGhost 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    “You deserve to see yourself the way I see you” I’m trying every day to get there. I’m so grateful you’re here by my side when I’m struggling in the depths of my doubts. Beautifully heartfelt and very touching audio Mindful! Hope you have a fantastic day, stay safe and well-rested!
    An important message is woven into this beautiful audio. Hope you’re doing well Mindful!

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Thank you, I hope you are also doing well!!!

  • @shadowdevil126
    @shadowdevil126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    That was a nice 10 minute break from the loneliness to bad it hurts a little more after it ends

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I'm sorry, I hope you're okay!!!

    • @SlutForCynthia
      @SlutForCynthia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You either cry about it or move on. There's so many factors when it comes to loneliness. I recommend working on yourself. Stuff like working out is your bodies natural "no depression" pill.
      “He who has a why to live can bear almost anyhow.”

  • @calamoron1117
    @calamoron1117 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    You gotta thug that shi out🗣‼️

  • @dudepop1456
    @dudepop1456 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I wish I could have a girl's shoulder to cry on,but I would feel like a burden. I have been going from video to video crying my eyes out listening to people tell me that it's okay. So thank you

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I hope you're okay!!!

    • @osuisdabomb1
      @osuisdabomb1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No, you don’t because she will use everything you cried about against you in the future. Or outright leave you because she thinks your a pansy

  • @themarinefan
    @themarinefan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "Don't be mean to yourself"
    Me and my variant about to start a lethal fist fight: cowabunga it is.

  • @DubbleOboyz
    @DubbleOboyz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    As someone who struggles with self worth. I NEEDED THIS! Thank you asmr girl

  • @callmebarry
    @callmebarry หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm cooked. Cooked beyond ashes.

  • @Just2Comment789
    @Just2Comment789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    As an Insecurity Officer, I see this as a quality product of your effort 👏
    thank you, miss

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I do what I can :3

    • @shlimbop
      @shlimbop 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      insecurity officer is so reative, you are funny

  • @derpscythe
    @derpscythe หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And from the depths of its so over we find ourselves faced yet again with being so back.

  • @Boogieman23905
    @Boogieman23905 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    solid cry , ill rate it 6/10

  • @ryderweaver9621
    @ryderweaver9621 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bro this made my spine shiver

  • @heisenbergpinkman2265
    @heisenbergpinkman2265 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I actually did mess up some stuff pretty bad at work...... and I just felt bad. this video helps alot with that. Thank you ❤ I'm getting teary now

  • @Orion69_34
    @Orion69_34 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you. I feel asleep for the first time in 30+ hours listening to this. I hardly ever get a real break that's not just me feeling like crap for the time I have off. I don't think it will ever end but it's nice to get a break from the insecurities and the loneliness for a while.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope you're doing okay!!!

    • @Orion69_34
      @Orion69_34 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mindfulmessasmr Thanks, made it this far

  • @JP5150_
    @JP5150_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    People need to understand that low self-esteem is not a bad thing. It shows that even though I put myself down I am actually ensuring everyone else around me is elevated higher than me. It's just truthful statements disguised as insecurities, personally I don't think its wrong to have low self-esteem. I have lived with it for 20+ years and even though each day feels worse than the last, at least everyone else is better than me. And that's not being insecure, its admitting my own flaws and acknowledging that I am meant to become lesser than so others feel uplifted, truthfully that makes me happy.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Uplifting others by putting yourself down is not healthy and can hurt your overall wellness. I hope you can find someone to talk to about this!!! There are ways to make others feel good about themselves without harming your own self-image!!!

  • @bendalymckenna6271
    @bendalymckenna6271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We all have days where we just need a kind voice to make us feel better. If people use a stern voice telling us to not be mean to ourselves because they love you.

  • @ShadowNinja9620
    @ShadowNinja9620 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “..My name’s Blurryface and I, care what you think…”

  • @rudyflorestheswitchblade4462
    @rudyflorestheswitchblade4462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "Hey, don't be mean to yourself".
    Me:🥺 *hugs

  • @justaforklift2155
    @justaforklift2155 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am a forklift that has left mayoral office, and has since written a best selling autobiography!

  • @Bucket0rocks.
    @Bucket0rocks. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Man, this video showed me how badly I needed reassurance like this…and probably a hug too.
    Thank you so much for the audio mindful, and previous audios too while I’m at it since I don’t comment often.
    …I don’t really know how to wrap this comment up so have a smiley face :)

    • @HeroGhost
      @HeroGhost 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I know a virtual hug doesn’t help much but I hope you’re doing okay and that things get better for you!

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I hope you’re okay!!!

    • @Bucket0rocks.
      @Bucket0rocks. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m better, thank you both.
      Without getting into sob stories I’ve just moved a bunch and I guess constantly losing every friendship over time got to me.
      I promise I’m fine though, really. Not in the pretending to be fine way, I’ll honestly be okay.
      That probably doesn’t sound convincing at all since it’s difficult to convey tone over text and now the comment is just getting really long…
      TLDR: Thank you both for the concern, I’ll be okay.

    • @HeroGhost
      @HeroGhost 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Bucket0rocks. That’s completely understandable. Wishing you all the best. Take care and I hope things get better.

    • @Sir_Dippingsauce
      @Sir_Dippingsauce ปีที่แล้ว

      :))

  • @chrisholland2016
    @chrisholland2016 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Wow this touched my 10 year emotional wound bottled up to myself. When it comes to having autism it gets extremely difficult and scary to express how I'm feeling. Wish I can have a girl's shoulder to cry on but I feel like a burden and such a waste of time when I do that. And of course I end up getting brutally hard on myself at work everytime I make a mistake. IDK I just beat myself up way too much. But this is one of the types of audios I needed to hear.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I hope you're doing okay!!!

    • @Embersofthedark
      @Embersofthedark ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand, as I, have a brother who has autism and have helped him with it I thought him how to talk, but I had to learn an entirely different language he now calls "dumbass linguistics" P.S. he's my twin so we can read each other like an open book

  • @christofferthorsson607
    @christofferthorsson607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Feel like we could all use these kinds of people in our lives. I know I would

  • @cherrylimester8105
    @cherrylimester8105 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you truly this means a lot even as just a video, hope you’re having a better day whomever is reading this

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@cherrylimester8105 I hope you’re doing okay!!!

  • @SansAU-ef2rb
    @SansAU-ef2rb ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As a guy who got bully when I was little,I got bully from elementary school to high school,sadly,I also had Tourette Syndrome,this audio saves me😢,
    You are a kind guy
    Hope you have a wonderful day.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm a girl, but thank you!! :3 I hope you also have a wonderful day!!! I hope you have someone you can reach out to and talk about this with

  • @bill6
    @bill6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Trees that smile? Sounds spooky

  • @churchilltank659
    @churchilltank659 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the first of your audios I’ve ever listened to but it was nice it was very chill and you’ve got a great voice for it it’s 3am and I still can’t sleep but this made me a little bit more sleepy even if it didn’t help my horrible self esteem so thank you for that oh and happy new year too!

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Happy New Year!! I’m sorry it didn’t help you’re self esteem, but I think you’re wonderful!! Being human is hard, so I admire people who can get through the day

    • @churchilltank659
      @churchilltank659 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mindfulmessasmr thank you for your kind words

  • @SpacedOut457
    @SpacedOut457 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I always set unrealistic expectations for myself and then destroy myself if I don’t reach them.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh no!!! It's okay to not reach certain goals/expectations, life can be difficult :3 but there are still so many wonderful things to enjoy!!!

  • @nitricacid2516
    @nitricacid2516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man this hits close to home

  • @arcwiz
    @arcwiz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    It's hard to not be insecure tho

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m sorry, I hope you’re okay!!

    • @iluv_lyfe
      @iluv_lyfe 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ik it’s hard bro but focus on the things u can improve about yourself and trust me it helps

  • @CrimsoNolf
    @CrimsoNolf 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I always am willing to bring comfort to my friends, but the minute people try to cure my inner lonliness and lack of confidence i feel scared, scared ill scare away my only friends with my problems, its happened before and im aware it might happen again, yet despite that fear, theres still the part of me thats desperate for SOME form of love

  • @leeryarch3523
    @leeryarch3523 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this. First cry to an ASMR, and for a long time in general. I really needed this.

  • @bright1359
    @bright1359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All I do is be mean to myself constantly and it is gonna take a hell of a lot to change that but this helps, even if its just a little it still helps.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you’re okay!!!

    • @bright1359
      @bright1359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mindfulmessasmr I think I'm ok for now. Thank you for your concern, it makes me feel as though someone actually cares lol

  • @Cossack_Cobra
    @Cossack_Cobra 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's just so hard when you see all the happy couples around, and it makes me physically hurt inside.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I hope you're okay!!!

    • @Cossack_Cobra
      @Cossack_Cobra 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @mindfulmessasmr all good!

  • @maskedherophil5405
    @maskedherophil5405 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for always being here with me. Your kindness has touched my heart with comfort and warmth. As you cuddle me in your arms and kiss your forehead. Hold me tight as I rest my head on your shoulder my loving sweetheart.

  • @SuperSpike47
    @SuperSpike47 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wonderful audio. I hope you are having a great day 🐰

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you, I hope you’re having a great day as well!!!

  • @pizzam4nn
    @pizzam4nn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Cool char design.

  • @yoxhi5044
    @yoxhi5044 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Algorithms be damned. I needed this regardless, thank you

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad this was helpful!!! :3

  • @walterknilsson7129
    @walterknilsson7129 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How lonely do i have to be to listen to this and cry into a pillow

  • @eds7012
    @eds7012 ปีที่แล้ว

    As someone who *_L O A T H E S_* themselves with absolute *_CONTEMPT_* ,this helps me through the harder times

  • @crazedbutcher6672
    @crazedbutcher6672 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am I broken to have heard this entire thing and to still think that I'm absolutely worth nothing and don't deserve anything either?

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope you're doing okay!!!

    • @crazedbutcher6672
      @crazedbutcher6672 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mindfulmessasmr I'm really not but that's okay

  • @Akiduy
    @Akiduy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am dumb!
    Almost 3 Years ago I lost my scholarship cuz I can't maintain high grades. And I hate myself cuz deep inside me I feel like I intentionally fail some tests. I feel stupid, I was stuck, I just can't... learn anything even tho I study everyday. I was tired. At that time I didn't think anything of it.
    And now I regret it so much. That was the first time in my life that I failed something and probably dissapointed my family.
    I still cry whenever think about it to this day. It's one of the reasons why I'm still unemployed.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please find someone you can reach out to and talk about these feelings!!!

    • @artratengo
      @artratengo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      literally me failing my hs graduation both times, couldn't learn to speak the nation's language because I've been enrolled in minority language speaking school all my life and had no friends outside the school, who i could practice and gain understanding with.. and to use the school's diploma in electrician field i would have to know the language and the technical stuff in it too..

  • @JayMazzitelli
    @JayMazzitelli 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou So Much For This Video, Even if it Was Only For 10 Minutes it Really Touched My Heart Hearing All These Beautiful Words From You. ❤😊

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm glad you enjoyed!!!

    • @JayMazzitelli
      @JayMazzitelli 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I Enjoyed it, Thanks Again. 😊

  • @mvt289
    @mvt289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    some people are really selfish.
    so there is this friend that i told I'd help him do some (absolutely not important it's just some bs) things, then the next day i got a call that i had to be at school because of a test and that was the same day i was supposed to go to my friend's house and help him with that thing, the same day i fell sick, i had to skip school and told my friend i couldn't be there, dude gets mad because i just ditched him like that, dude didn't even care i was sick he just straight up started yelling at the phone, although it lasted 2 minutes, that truly took a toll on my emotions, this happened yesterday and since yesterday my whole brain has fogged up, literally couldn't even have lunch nor dinner, it's 10 am in the morning and I haven't ate since yesterday.
    some people really aren't worth it and he's one of those people, small words do big damage :(

  • @camtendo64
    @camtendo64 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    MY BLOODLINE ENDS WITH ME LET’S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • @taolin9445
    @taolin9445 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wish i have a friend like this irl ❤

  • @pzdzqqz
    @pzdzqqz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have very peaceful voice like an angel ❤

  • @angelw1ngs_
    @angelw1ngs_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “your not stupid” my dad doesnt think that 🥲

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you’re okay!!!

    • @angelw1ngs_
      @angelw1ngs_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      trucking along also i live your audios they make me very happy 😊

  • @nather5509
    @nather5509 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woah... I am seriously rethinking my anger issues and social problems now
    thank you

  • @Tulf42
    @Tulf42 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate at 5:23. One time I made a mistake, I'm not sure if I should say on here about specifics, but I acknowledged that it was my fault and was okay with it, but my Dad was so p***ed off that he really made me feel guilty as if I had committed murder or thrown a fortune away, and he refused to lose the argument even if I said it was an accident with the little breath I had left before I had to cry in my room for the rest of the night.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you're okay!!!

    • @Tulf42
      @Tulf42 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mindfulmessasmr I'm better now than I was at the time, thanks, but I find it hard to look at the broken family antique whenever I walk past it.

  • @epicsandvich014
    @epicsandvich014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As someone who uses self depreciating humor often and has self worth issues, I’ve heard a lot of things somewhat similar to this from some people I know.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you're doing okay!!

    • @epicsandvich014
      @epicsandvich014 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mindfulmessasmr thank you, it means a lot to hear. I’m managing. A lot of the negative things I hear about myself and say about myself have really just become things I believe, but I’m trying to work through it with some very good friends of mine

  • @peanutman2784
    @peanutman2784 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm such a fool🤣 I hate myself too much to believe this

  • @Antonio-is2cn
    @Antonio-is2cn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for looking out for me!

  • @sveninatorsw
    @sveninatorsw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You made me cry 😢

  • @wavezics
    @wavezics ปีที่แล้ว

    IVE HAD A FUCKINTG TERRIBLE DAY THANK YOU FOR THIS VIODEO I NEEDED THIS

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I HOPE YOU ARE FEELING BETTER!!!

    • @wavezics
      @wavezics 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mindfulmessasmr i love you.

  • @PeytonCrews
    @PeytonCrews หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why does this hurt more than actually telling myself horrible things?

  • @humor_n
    @humor_n 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a creepy image of a smiley tree in my head, naah ty fam.

  • @dragonjames4500
    @dragonjames4500 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't be mean to myself... It's not easy but it never hurts to try.

  • @paulekechukwu8481
    @paulekechukwu8481 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Nothing matters,not even me everything is negative 🖤asmr is saving my life on the line not to kill myself

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@paulekechukwu8481 everyone matters!!!

  • @endergem957
    @endergem957 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey! I use self deprecating humor to cope with my internal self deprecation.

  • @kristhetankhunter2730
    @kristhetankhunter2730 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice

  • @JakeSm4sh
    @JakeSm4sh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If M were to reply what would she say Thanks for bringing my idea to fruition here since you did my idea here this is for you🐰🐰🐇🐇 and you did it in my favorite voice you high-pitched one yay I'm excited

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I do what I can :3

    • @JakeSm4sh
      @JakeSm4sh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mindfulmessasmr I'm glad you do what you do to make us happy

    • @-Lucifer__
      @-Lucifer__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing idea, and amazing person 🫡

    • @JakeSm4sh
      @JakeSm4sh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@-Lucifer__ Awww you flatter me too much Lucy

    • @HeroGhost
      @HeroGhost 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The idea turned out beautifully! Great suggestion!

  • @JyrTheCrumbling
    @JyrTheCrumbling 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WE ARE STARTING TO BREAK APART WITH THIS ONE 🗣️🗣️🗣️📣📣🔥💯‼️💯💯

  • @strikerslicer5010
    @strikerslicer5010 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I doubt myself a lot and hard on myself.

  • @absbee98
    @absbee98 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No one would every feel like this towards me
    , I'm done of trying, my loneliness is done. Thank you for the asmr.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can find your person one day!!!

    • @mylife8806
      @mylife8806 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Real

  • @JosEngel-po7js
    @JosEngel-po7js 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everyone was rude to me in the past and now it beacame worse my friends dont play i dont see them so i got no friends and i feel like that i hate my self like my stress is so bad and depression too that i dont know what exitment and love and comfront and attention feels like and i never feel these 😐😢

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope you have someone to talk to about these feelings!!!

  • @prufilioyiftheg8615
    @prufilioyiftheg8615 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hate that ive fallen so low as to seek comfort through asmr roleplays

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope you're doing okay!!!

    • @prufilioyiftheg8615
      @prufilioyiftheg8615 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mindfulmessasmr it's okay, hope you have a good day or night

  • @AdderoYuu
    @AdderoYuu ปีที่แล้ว

    This morning I was having some sort of dream about being locked in a house with someone and they were talking to me and reassuring me, I don't even remember what the circumstance was but it was your voice because this video started playing while I was asleep

  • @muhzanast
    @muhzanast 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    on my lowest dawg

  • @varsame
    @varsame ปีที่แล้ว

    Sweet lord how down bad am I

  • @lostsoup
    @lostsoup 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh trust me I have already hurt my own feelings way to many times......I know everyone messes up sometimes but the biggest mistake anyone could of made was having me.........

  • @thecmoose4754
    @thecmoose4754 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3 AM gang wya?

  • @meowmers504
    @meowmers504 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anyone else up at three in the morning dreading tomorrow doesn’t come… :)

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope you're doing okay!!!

    • @meowmers504
      @meowmers504 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mindfulmessasmr thank you I’m just having mental health issues

  • @banana_pancake7171
    @banana_pancake7171 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eh, too bad, I am not willing to change myself enough to feel promptly satisfied, so I just excuse myself in my own little pity party of pathetic excuses to keep my ego down instead of dealing with the fact that I just hate myself and changing for the better. I am not willing to be a better person, I find comfort in the familiarity of Sadness and the shallow praise I receive from putting the bit of effort others are not willing to so I have something to boast about to myself. No, I was not a good student because I really put that much effort, nor do I do well at my job because I am particularly smart or charismatic, I am just functional, and that seems to be enough for most.

  • @Ghillie_Dhu_
    @Ghillie_Dhu_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I dont know what happened, I was going really well and then things messed up, I thought I knew the solution but I'm sure I've made it worse.

  • @presleynotalt5530
    @presleynotalt5530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Like at this point I'm good at being insecure. At least I finally did something right in my life 😆

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh I hope you're not being mean to yourself!!! Everyone is absolutely wonderful :3

  • @CassieAngelica
    @CassieAngelica ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you❤ I have been coming back here for some time now. You’re just generally amazing.💖❤️‍🩹💐

  • @goldernie
    @goldernie 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    10 hour version?

  • @lonewolfgamingplus379
    @lonewolfgamingplus379 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a guy who complies his existence every day, and has the lowest self-esteem, and self-worth every day. Thanks, I guess. I'll just go on to going into the shadows as I always do.

  • @Strawb_milk5
    @Strawb_milk5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @leosamurai1910
    @leosamurai1910 ปีที่แล้ว

    No offense or anything, but the fact that i needed this video shows how messed up and lonely i am.
    Anyway, still, good video, im glad you are helping me and other with it.

  • @sogeking4541
    @sogeking4541 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey M i hope yor doing alright
    Recently I've got this feeling that ... I'm not a good person, and the more I think about it the more I see the bad guy in my personality
    I don't have someone to talk about this with him
    Soo that's why im commenting this
    Im not saying that I'm going full villein mode, but
    the fact that im a bad person is just annoying me.i don't wanna take your time with a reply ,You reading this is good enough for me 💙
    I just wanted to talk about it to get it out of my head . :)

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sorry you’re going through this, I hope you can reach out to someone who can help and talk about this with you

  • @topoo-kw8zr
    @topoo-kw8zr ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to this makes me feel like validating my inability to do things. I'm talentless, worthless. Man i hate my mind.

  • @spidergalva
    @spidergalva 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    But being means easier than being nice!

  • @TheGreatMcPain
    @TheGreatMcPain 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm at the point where I just assume that people don't want to interact with me. Even if someone tries to get my attention I just assume they're talking to someone else with the same name.
    I do get compliments sometimes, but I don't take them even if they slapped me in the face.
    Even videos like these don't really do much for me anymore.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sorry, I hope you're doing okay!!!

  • @-Lucifer__
    @-Lucifer__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👋.

  • @goldernie
    @goldernie 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Who else up wishing they mother hadn't been neglectful 🙋

  • @shaferhilke1193
    @shaferhilke1193 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If mindful was to respond, how would she feel if she was the Lorax?

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I do care about the environment, but I wouldn’t like being the Lorax xD

    • @shaferhilke1193
      @shaferhilke1193 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mindfulmessasmr xD

    • @G.S.Productions
      @G.S.Productions ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m hoping you’re not talking about the one voiced by Danny DeVito.

  • @TiT0.
    @TiT0. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🖤✨

  • @hjiopufdhiodubjniopd
    @hjiopufdhiodubjniopd หลายเดือนก่อน

    came here from ufc reddit after Max Holloway ko...

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't know what that is, I'll have to look it up :3

  • @vormic
    @vormic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Close the door and pretend it's not there" as the old ones say "out of sight out of mind"
    If M where to say what are her favorite 6 words of the day?

  • @sgtforcenico
    @sgtforcenico 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do i find a girl that is even close to being like you?! ❤🥺

  • @Channel-URL1
    @Channel-URL1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hallo, I go by the name Adler and I want to share my story if my comment gets recognized. Cause this actually made me feel a bit better even though it wasn’t the topic I feel the way I am about.

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad you feel better!!!

  • @GUMGUM_LUFFY84
    @GUMGUM_LUFFY84 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I dont need a girl to tale that im not stupid im a sigma 🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿.

  • @Scarecrow7274
    @Scarecrow7274 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    im tryna go ghost and just disappear gng

  • @benmoore4697
    @benmoore4697 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But what if i dont deserve to be positive about myself

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It may seem that way, but I'm sure there's something positive or happy or even just pleasant that you can admire about yourself!!! :3 We are our own worst critics, so you may see yourself entirely different from how others see you

  • @JosEngel-po7js
    @JosEngel-po7js 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Actely people where alot mean to me and now worse so i feel like um ugly and trash and i never smile

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sorry, I hope you're okay!!!

  • @lol-2247
    @lol-2247 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello there,

  • @Embersofthedark
    @Embersofthedark ปีที่แล้ว

    As a man who thinks mistakes make me useless, i feel attacked by you (im not upset its funny to me

  • @hyperscalerafsan8913
    @hyperscalerafsan8913 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mann what am i doing with life. Exam in 4days. Laying in bed. I hate myself. I wish i could just erase myself Peacefully

    • @mindfulmessasmr
      @mindfulmessasmr  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope you can reach out to someone to talk about these feelings!!!