This was a really good stream. I like the point where you mentioned that she really didn't appreciate the validation that came from her husband. She fell for the temptation of getting it from many men rather than one man. It's the difference between eating fast food and a home cooked meal. I believe that's some of the proof she had self-esteem issues. Often, people have to feel like a lot of people are attracted to them for them to feel good about themselves. You were spot on love. 💯
I remembered a friend of my said when she got married she never realized how much washing, cooking and cleaning was involve in married life. I asked her what she thought her mother was doing when she's was growing up. She said she never had given it a thought. I told her get it together because it's twice as much when baby comes. Women have this fairy tale, fantasy in their mind about marriage, and when they do get married their expectations are short lived and they cannot function and want to get out.
I have been married for a while and I have single friends and we always hang out or do girls night and go on girl trips. And I will never consider divorce. My life is peaceful with my husband, he makes my life easier and happier. My husband fills my cup, he is my best friend and ALWAYS shows up for me. No matter how single and interesting my single friend’s lives are, I’m not giving up my husband for nothing.
I think Tia’s problem is she is self-centered and immature. FOMO is the great relationship killer. If you remain single, you’ll regret not getting married and having children. If you marry, you’ll wonder what you’re missing in the streets. That’s why you make sound decisions using solid principles upfront and don’t look back. There’s always better looking out there. There’s always more money out there. There’s always more exciting out there. As a grown up, we should be able to understand that what looks better from a distance often sucks once you’re in it. Often, the sad truth is you already peaked. With maturity, it all makes sense. The problem is there a lack of maturity out there. When you’re a whole person, you understand good enough and enough.
She’s making excuses saying she never was alone having a twin the marriage. Well your sister is doing just fine so maybe just be accountable and say you wanna wild out.
Tia lacks self awareness about whst she's doing to herself snd her childre. Imagine a 40 something old woman and mother is talking about going out and having fun.
Divorce tour is crazy but thats what she essentially did and then cashed out of breaking up her family with reality tv. Its cheap and opportunistic and screams of a midlife crisis.
As a man I wholeheartedly agree with this video. Men have to deal with similar issues but doesn't have the luxury to blame other reasons or people to not take care of our responsibilities. We also have to choose our friends wisely. This often leaves us to move apart from the group and move independently. Since we can't openly be vulnerable for our women, our brethren is our anchor ( for those of us who have people we can talk to). We try to keep wise counsel in close quarters.
(Still watching) but if Tia would have taken Megan Good and Devon Franklin approach-when they got divorced they went their separate ways quietly and did their own thing. Tia took the most weirdest route- to go on every show known to man to tell everyone about her “graduation” of her marriage. I wouldn’t have given it a second thought if she made her announcement and moved on. By her being this public about her divorce leads me to believe it was her.
She was planning to release this show thats why.. someone pouched her about monetization probably before she even filed. Cause she talked as if she been wanted to leave him..
My wife & I have been married for 3 years. And… our marriage isn’t perfect. But we always trust God in our marriage. I love my wife very much. And I would never divorce her.
When you're married, find married friends where you can take your kids on playdates together. Most single friends are toxic when you have a. Healthy relationship. The things the women say are unbelievable
Ok, you got me watching your videos from today on! When you said, “you can not make anyone your support animal, but God then your husband” you were spitting facts 💯!!
Some people want attention for the good and for the bad. She wanted attention because she was selfish. Be careful what you wish for. This is the result and she can't handle it. I wish she get better and I don't want her to suffer. She didn't prepare for the aftermath of her actions and she gotta deal with it. Tamera got her own family. No she don't wanna go out Tia. She's a wife! She don't got time to give her sister more attention than her husband and kids. Tia grow up! Get some therapy like frfr My comment might get deleted and I apologize in advance but it seems like Tia is.....on something. Smh. Idk what it is but it a substance. I can't put my finger on it.
10:22 As the saying goes, “You don’t know what you HAD until it’s gone!” It’s time to take FULL accountability for the decision she made and that goes for ALL of us as women and men. Now if you are ok with the decision then be ok! It’s your life. And……. Life is the sum total 🟰 of the choices you make.
This sounds as if she’s going through a midlife crisis made an impulsive decision and now has regrets the result is trying to make money off of it with the reality show I 💯 agree with you on this
No need to think. Tia is absolutely the problem. I am taking much delight that she is probably going to miserable for making the foolish decision to leave her husband for no legitimate reason.
Even when you’re a twin you have or should have your own life. C’mon now that’s no excuse. Even as a twin you’re born alone. You share a womb but typically born one at a time. We are born alone and we will die alone and stand before God alone. It’s all a solo process. That’s why I’m a firm believer that it’s important to learn to enjoy your OWN company.
Do you? and That look 👀 Gone Bella tell ‘em 😂that was a mommy look like girl you betta get it together 😂 just subscribed already loving the content All Praises to the Most High! I love your look too very beautiful 💐👏🏽👏🏽
This WHOLE situation is so SAD! She’s put her feelings and FOMO over her family. Does she not know that the internet is FOREVER?!?! Her kids will see all of this and how will they view her?😢
If her new show is about how she is navigating her new life why in the blue hell is she talking so much about the old one smh😮😮😮😮😮her friends are not real friends cuz all they do is tell her what she want to hear. We have choices in life but I don't get chose the consequences of these choices
I think Tia most likely is the problem. But i dont know her reasons for the divorce. I dont know if Corey was too boring for her. I think Tia should be handled with more care divorce is hard even if inigiated it.
Would you have this same concern if the roles were reversed and Corey was the one who initiated the divorce, claiming he graduated from marriage, and now complains about how hard it is to date? Would you tell people we should handle him with more care, because divorce is hard even if he initiated it?
@@HeruUrAusar I personally would. People fall out of love, it hurts but it's not unique and not a reason to withhold compassion from someone. If it's a mistake to end their marriage, it's theirs to make.
Nobody knows what actually happened! Tia has always behaved as if Corey's underwhelmed energy around her was ok. Now lets b real my man ain't gotta match my bubbly energy but when u look at me or even into my eyes I need to see some emotion, a spark, an acknowledgement that u see me. Not jus sayin u love me with empty eyes. Corey always acted like he ain't really into her & like he could take it or leave it. My man can be the quiet chill type but to not show any passion or interest like bein wit me makes no difference to u then NO! I can't. Not to say Corey did anything but woman have & will fall on the sword for their kids by not outting they daddy. It's a reach whats being said about Tia. And this was a long marriage with a man she say she lost her virginity to & always lit up around him, he ain't show that energy and we don't kno what the straw that broke the camels back was so why we speculating when this marriage was a success. Longevity don't determine success in a marriage as much as the mutual respect that was shows a truly healthy dynamic. They was & still are respectful of each other. It ain't last til death but some marriages that do be a shame. Some of yall got what Michelle Obama say is the Goldilocks syndrome, y'all looking for people & situations to be perfect when none of us will ever be. When u tire urself wit judging small issues God will leave u wit bigger ones. Outta frustration of not finding 100% of ur wants, ur stuck wit the 20%, u gave up the 80% for. Quit judging Tia's lack of 20% when some of yall ain't even got the 80% she working wit.
Not gonna blame the other two girlfriends because when the girl fed her the pickle the other black girls looked at her like wtf? The one that fed her the pickle is the only one that talked her into it plus the light dude she acted with in a project she thought he wanted her. So she left after dude hit it he didn't buy tge cow so you have fall out.
No one really knows why she chose to file for divorce. It is important that we respect her choice because it was HER marriage and she chose to end it. This speculation of why she ended her marriage sounds like judgement. No. It is not ok to invalidate her feelings. It is not ok to judge her choice to be divorce. She is the one that was in the marriage. None of the rest of us were in it. We will never know her reasons for divorce the way she knows them.
Thank you for watching my speculatory commentary on Tia’s marriage/divorce, beloved. I hope you grasped the lessons imbedded within as so many others did. Come again✨
You don't have to have a University degree to know she has a lot of issues. If members of your own family are having issues with you, that is a red flagged.
The issue with your statement is that you speak of her feelings and that’s the problem. Marriage isn’t about feelings it’s about A CHOICE when you do or don’t feel like it. People get in covenants and try to drive a vehicle that’s a stick and they used to an automatic. We gotta learn what marriage really is. Otherwise people will keep going in with expectations that will never be met.
Still, it was her marriage and her choice to get a divorce. None of our ideas, thoughts or beliefs matter in another person’s marriage and what they choose to do/ not do with it.
@@bwari01Thats a huge problem today, behavior will get judgement, especially when one complains about the outcome of those behaviors. Unfortunately this is becoming a huge issue with today's women, particularly with those in the public eye. 20-30's they get attention rained on them...THEN it stops. They get divorced, have family break downs and ultimately regret those decisions. Incoming...Cat mom.
This was a really good stream. I like the point where you mentioned that she really didn't appreciate the validation that came from her husband. She fell for the temptation of getting it from many men rather than one man. It's the difference between eating fast food and a home cooked meal.
I believe that's some of the proof she had self-esteem issues. Often, people have to feel like a lot of people are attracted to them for them to feel good about themselves.
You were spot on love. 💯
Thank you for watching!✨🩷
@@BELLARINGSTia found out the hard way that neither her life nor her Marriage isn't a White Folks' Rom-Com.
Very well said and acknowledged 🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯
I remembered a friend of my said when she got married she never realized how much washing, cooking and cleaning was involve in married life. I asked her what she thought her mother was doing when she's was growing up. She said she never had given it a thought. I told her get it together because it's twice as much when baby comes.
Women have this fairy tale, fantasy in their mind about marriage, and when they do get married their expectations are short lived and they cannot function and want to get out.
I have been married for a while and I have single friends and we always hang out or do girls night and go on girl trips. And I will never consider divorce. My life is peaceful with my husband, he makes my life easier and happier. My husband fills my cup, he is my best friend and ALWAYS shows up for me. No matter how single and interesting my single friend’s lives are, I’m not giving up my husband for nothing.
You might not give him up but he might give you up, IF he gets put on to red pill content them "girls trips" aint gonna fly.
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Them girls trips smh
Girls trips? Sounds like you still be sneak dicking
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I think Tia’s problem is she is self-centered and immature.
FOMO is the great relationship killer. If you remain single, you’ll regret not getting married and having children. If you marry, you’ll wonder what you’re missing in the streets.
That’s why you make sound decisions using solid principles upfront and don’t look back.
There’s always better looking out there. There’s always more money out there. There’s always more exciting out there.
As a grown up, we should be able to understand that what looks better from a distance often sucks once you’re in it. Often, the sad truth is you already peaked.
With maturity, it all makes sense. The problem is there a lack of maturity out there. When you’re a whole person, you understand good enough and enough.
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She’s making excuses saying she never was alone having a twin the marriage. Well your sister is doing just fine so maybe just be accountable and say you wanna wild out.
Tia Mowry is strong and independent. She'll be fine. But seriously, it's sad to see her going down in flames. And Tia has nobody to blame but herself.
Big krit- serve this royalty
Why do you say she’s going down in flames?
Tia lacks self awareness about whst she's doing to herself snd her childre. Imagine a 40 something old woman and mother is talking about going out and having fun.
Divorce tour is crazy but thats what she essentially did and then cashed out of breaking up her family with reality tv. Its cheap and opportunistic and screams of a midlife crisis.
As a man I wholeheartedly agree with this video. Men have to deal with similar issues but doesn't have the luxury to blame other reasons or people to not take care of our responsibilities. We also have to choose our friends wisely. This often leaves us to move apart from the group and move independently. Since we can't openly be vulnerable for our women, our brethren is our anchor ( for those of us who have people we can talk to). We try to keep wise counsel in close quarters.
Not a single friend’s problems, it’s a her problem. End of story. She was married.
(Still watching) but if Tia would have taken Megan Good and Devon Franklin approach-when they got divorced they went their separate ways quietly and did their own thing. Tia took the most weirdest route- to go on every show known to man to tell everyone about her “graduation” of her marriage. I wouldn’t have given it a second thought if she made her announcement and moved on. By her being this public about her divorce leads me to believe it was her.
Ok! I see that you mentioned it lol.
She was planning to release this show thats why.. someone pouched her about monetization probably before she even filed. Cause she talked as if she been wanted to leave him..
Your analysis is spot on Bella. Thank you for breaking this down! 🙏🏾💯💎
Nneka! Thank you so much for watching! I greatly appreciate your feedback, come again 🩷✨
This all screams midlife crisis.
100 % nothing but the truth! Signed, sealed and delivered by Bella! Excellent content! Thanks 🙏🏾
My wife & I have been married for 3 years. And… our marriage isn’t perfect. But we always trust God in our marriage. I love my wife very much. And I would never divorce her.
Hello David, I want to caution you about using the word never. The enemy has a way to test you and your marriage.
Bella! One of Crimson’s mods! Went on head and thowed that subscribe in there for ya! Tia say she don’t want the TROOF!
When you're married, find married friends where you can take your kids on playdates together. Most single friends are toxic when you have a. Healthy relationship. The things the women say are unbelievable
Tia say she wants to be known for her work. Quick name a movie youve seen Tia in the last 10 years.
9:13 You’re right, Tia does seem like she’s perfectionist. Good point. I think you made excellent observations in this one. Menopause?😂💯
She absolutely regrets her decision. I’ve never watched her show, however it’s a bad look. Smh.
Ok, you got me watching your videos from today on! When you said, “you can not make anyone your support animal, but God then your husband” you were spitting facts 💯!!
I think.
She cheated on her husband and husband know about it. This is the problem told her husband and he probably says stay away from her
🔑" This is why you have to get real friends who will tell you the truth "
Thank you for this. This was the realest synopsis of this situation 💯. I had a "Tia".
He hit the nail on the head with everything you said.
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Some people want attention for the good and for the bad. She wanted attention because she was selfish. Be careful what you wish for. This is the result and she can't handle it. I wish she get better and I don't want her to suffer. She didn't prepare for the aftermath of her actions and she gotta deal with it.
Tamera got her own family. No she don't wanna go out Tia. She's a wife! She don't got time to give her sister more attention than her husband and kids. Tia grow up! Get some therapy like frfr
My comment might get deleted and I apologize in advance but it seems like Tia is.....on something. Smh. Idk what it is but it a substance. I can't put my finger on it.
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Just randomly stumbled across your page and this is absolutely refreshing! Thank you!
The truth is delivered with LOVE.! 💗 💕
Awesome video. Keep up the good work 💫
She stll like the attention even though it might be negative.
10:22
As the saying goes, “You don’t know what you HAD until it’s gone!”
It’s time to take FULL accountability for the decision she made and that goes for ALL of us as women and men.
Now if you are ok with the decision then be ok! It’s your life.
And…….
Life is the sum total 🟰 of the choices you make.
Gotta go back to that sister sister episode when the ladies got their hair done wit their mom
Hi Bella rings
I just found your channel today. Good stuff so far
I’ve had to learn to turn off my empathy let people suffer the consequences of their foolishness.
This sounds as if she’s going through a midlife crisis made an impulsive decision and now has regrets the result is trying to make money off of it with the reality show I 💯 agree with you on this
All facts, Bella
I’m just so confused with all of this. It’s only been a year on top of that.
No need to think. Tia is absolutely the problem. I am taking much delight that she is probably going to miserable for making the foolish decision to leave her husband for no legitimate reason.
Even when you’re a twin you have or should have your own life. C’mon now that’s no excuse. Even as a twin you’re born alone. You share a womb but typically born one at a time.
We are born alone and we will die alone and stand before God alone. It’s all a solo process.
That’s why I’m a firm believer that it’s important to learn to enjoy your OWN company.
Do you? and That look 👀 Gone Bella tell ‘em 😂that was a mommy look like girl you betta get it together 😂 just subscribed already loving the content All Praises to the Most High! I love your look too very beautiful 💐👏🏽👏🏽
This WHOLE situation is so SAD! She’s put her feelings and FOMO over her family. Does she not know that the internet is FOREVER?!?! Her kids will see all of this and how will they view her?😢
Salute @BELLA RINGS
Perhaps her role on the Game and it’s influence affected her in a negative way🤔
If her new show is about how she is navigating her new life why in the blue hell is she talking so much about the old one smh😮😮😮😮😮her friends are not real friends cuz all they do is tell her what she want to hear. We have choices in life but I don't get chose the consequences of these choices
I think Tia most likely is the problem. But i dont know her reasons for the divorce.
I dont know if Corey was too boring for her. I think Tia should be handled with more care divorce is hard even if inigiated it.
Would you have this same concern if the roles were reversed and Corey was the one who initiated the divorce, claiming he graduated from marriage, and now complains about how hard it is to date? Would you tell people we should handle him with more care, because divorce is hard even if he initiated it?
@@HeruUrAusar I personally would. People fall out of love, it hurts but it's not unique and not a reason to withhold compassion from someone. If it's a mistake to end their marriage, it's theirs to make.
Nobody knows what actually happened! Tia has always behaved as if Corey's underwhelmed energy around her was ok. Now lets b real my man ain't gotta match my bubbly energy but when u look at me or even into my eyes I need to see some emotion, a spark, an acknowledgement that u see me. Not jus sayin u love me with empty eyes. Corey always acted like he ain't really into her & like he could take it or leave it. My man can be the quiet chill type but to not show any passion or interest like bein wit me makes no difference to u then NO! I can't. Not to say Corey did anything but woman have & will fall on the sword for their kids by not outting they daddy. It's a reach whats being said about Tia. And this was a long marriage with a man she say she lost her virginity to & always lit up around him, he ain't show that energy and we don't kno what the straw that broke the camels back was so why we speculating when this marriage was a success. Longevity don't determine success in a marriage as much as the mutual respect that was shows a truly healthy dynamic. They was & still are respectful of each other. It ain't last til death but some marriages that do be a shame. Some of yall got what Michelle Obama say is the Goldilocks syndrome, y'all looking for people & situations to be perfect when none of us will ever be. When u tire urself wit judging small issues God will leave u wit bigger ones. Outta frustration of not finding 100% of ur wants, ur stuck wit the 20%, u gave up the 80% for. Quit judging Tia's lack of 20% when some of yall ain't even got the 80% she working wit.
Not gonna blame the other two girlfriends because when the girl fed her the pickle the other black girls looked at her like wtf? The one that fed her the pickle is the only one that talked her into it plus the light dude she acted with in a project she thought he wanted her. So she left after dude hit it he didn't buy tge cow so you have fall out.
No one really knows why she chose to file for divorce. It is important that we respect her choice because it was HER marriage and she chose to end it. This speculation of why she ended her marriage sounds like judgement. No. It is not ok to invalidate her feelings. It is not ok to judge her choice to be divorce. She is the one that was in the marriage. None of the rest of us were in it. We will never know her reasons for divorce the way she knows them.
Thank you for watching my speculatory commentary on Tia’s marriage/divorce, beloved. I hope you grasped the lessons imbedded within as so many others did. Come again✨
You don't have to have a University degree to know she has a lot of issues. If members of your own family are having issues with you, that is a red flagged.
The issue with your statement is that you speak of her feelings and that’s the problem. Marriage isn’t about feelings it’s about A CHOICE when you do or don’t feel like it. People get in covenants and try to drive a vehicle that’s a stick and they used to an automatic. We gotta learn what marriage really is. Otherwise people will keep going in with expectations that will never be met.
Still, it was her marriage and her choice to get a divorce. None of our ideas, thoughts or beliefs matter in another person’s marriage and what they choose to do/ not do with it.
@@bwari01Thats a huge problem today, behavior will get judgement, especially when one complains about the outcome of those behaviors.
Unfortunately this is becoming a huge issue with today's women, particularly with those in the public eye. 20-30's they get attention rained on them...THEN it stops. They get divorced, have family break downs and ultimately regret those decisions. Incoming...Cat mom.
It’s crazy cuz I never hear her ex in any BS hard to do that in Hollywood 🫡💎🖤