The Dating Brain in the Digital Age

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  • Online dating has changed the way we approach and pursue relationships. Like so much in modern life, potential partners are at the mercy of an algorithm that decides who we interact with. But has technology actually changed what we’re looking for? Can attraction and desire be predicted? Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist and Chief Science Advisor at Match.com, has been on the front lines of the clash between a centuries-old phenomenon and relatively new technology. In this episode, she talks to CNN Chief Medical Correspondent Dr. Sanjay Gupta about what has and hasn’t changed about the dating brain.
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  • @patriciajump9511
    @patriciajump9511 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Uh, I have been dating "online" since we could only post "personals" on the last page of the paper. I am now 73, lost my partner 6 years ago. There are way fewer people on the dating apps still alive and interesting in dating in my age range now. And I see the options offered to be checked off now are way fewer. I also see that many people in this age range are checking "any" rather than specific heights, years of education, etc., etc. My gosh, my experience is exactly the story in the play, "I love you, Youre perfect, Now change."

    • @marniekilbourne608
      @marniekilbourne608 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am 43 and hate online dating! There never has been much choice since I gave it a try in my 30's! A lot of guys are on there but not all of them are actually single and few are looking for a real connection. The men treat you like they are ordering a hooker! They don't want to take you on a date or have a relationship! It's disgusting and most of these "men" would never say what they do to a woman's face! I had a better dating experience in high school and college and it should be the opposite.

  • @ripadipaflipa4672
    @ripadipaflipa4672 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How is it that our brains haven’t changed? I am thinking no one has been able see the firing of the dead brain from our ancestors in a FMRI along with the living human brain??? It’s definitely curious and intuitively believe what she is saying however what I have learned in my almost 7 decades on earth is that we have have so much more to learn.

  • @janespitfire9884
    @janespitfire9884 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want to date online and face to face one day but so very nervous. I like the male species a lot but scared no one will like passive shy me.

    • @kelvinjunior3359
      @kelvinjunior3359 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are wrong. It’s funny how what girls think we don’t like is what we actually like.

    • @annwrog
      @annwrog ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, ditto.
      I wish I could date or find someone, but I am convinced no one will like, or be attracted to me.

    • @annwrog
      @annwrog ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm in my '60s and have been single for 11 years (widowed)
      It's been a horrible, dreadful experience.
      Men in their '60s and '70s somehow still expect to find young, slim, blonde, attractive women in their 30s and '40s.😢
      I don't stand a chance.

  • @marniekilbourne608
    @marniekilbourne608 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well, I didn't find this very helpful at all. Ugh! Online dating is HELL and always has been. Most men on these "dating" sites are NOT looking to date! They are just looking for immediate sex and treat the women on them like hookers! Even "normal" dating has only gotten worse!

  • @MaridithSmith
    @MaridithSmith ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This podcast was great! Thank you!

  • @TheTfk6
    @TheTfk6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If service is free, then you are a product …

  • @michellerene3622
    @michellerene3622 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Super interesting

  • @Brukudinov
    @Brukudinov ปีที่แล้ว +2

    May be AI will solve this task for us in future :)

  • @pokemongo-pilot9849
    @pokemongo-pilot9849 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dr. Kupta...

  • @TheCommunicationCoach
    @TheCommunicationCoach ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What brains? Some stranger online makes a fake profile and lies all over, and some fool falls for it and gets robbed or raped or kidnapped or just infected with an STD.

  • @saundra2smart
    @saundra2smart 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm curious about older adults who already have children. What is it that we are looking for or I am looking for,
    dating at this age? I still feel strongly that I would like a companion. I tend to still be attracted to a man that I would want to mate with, but obviously, at my age now, I wouldn't be able to reproduce. Why do I still want that companionship?

  • @RemoteViewer1
    @RemoteViewer1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Come on JOE! You have the US facing wars on 5 fronts.. Get out there and BRIBE like the wind blows!

    • @marniekilbourne608
      @marniekilbourne608 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      NOT the topic! Troll elsewhere!

    • @RemoteViewer1
      @RemoteViewer1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @marniekilbourne608 CNN refuses to report it so YOU get to hear about it in the comments. CNN spent MONTHS reporting on Ukraine day in and day out to COVER for reports that were coming out on Joe Biden's BRIBES. CNN is SILENT on Ukraine now and YOU were FOOLED by CNN.... again. WAKE UP!

  • @MohamedElias-de3gp
    @MohamedElias-de3gp ปีที่แล้ว

    23yera work Malaysia. You tube video live from ?

  • @ula4334
    @ula4334 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Matthew 7:7
    “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:”.

    • @ula4334
      @ula4334 ปีที่แล้ว

      Believe in your heart that how Jesus died and rose again and you will have everlasting life ,.

    • @marniekilbourne608
      @marniekilbourne608 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OK crazy. Troll elsewhere!

  • @TheTfk6
    @TheTfk6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Romantic love drives you into surviving ❤

  • @zoson-os9rd
    @zoson-os9rd ปีที่แล้ว

    All countries must pick up trash also from seas, rivers, basins, ponds, lakes and canals. Those countries located on seashores must clean the oceans and pull out the wrecks of sunken ships so that the seabed has no trash.

  • @markcosenza3274
    @markcosenza3274 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Let's talk about the epidemic of black youth crimes destroying Democrat Cities. Memphis just set a new homicide record. Mayor Bowser of DC has declared a crime emergency. We see it,can we acknowledge it?

    • @marniekilbourne608
      @marniekilbourne608 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OR NOT! Troll elsewhere! That is NOT the topic of this video for F's sake!

  • @denkk4282
    @denkk4282 ปีที่แล้ว

    Глава Пентагона заявил, что у США нет волшебной палочки для ВСУ.
    p.s.
    как то неоднозначно прозвучало...)

    • @denkk4282
      @denkk4282 ปีที่แล้ว

      им просто никто не рассказал о разнице между реальным миром и Голливудом... шоу - это шоу. а воина - это воина...

    • @denkk4282
      @denkk4282 ปีที่แล้ว

      жертвы рекламы...

  • @e4t662
    @e4t662 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In the immortal words of Bill Burr, "women are overrated".

  • @josephsonora3787
    @josephsonora3787 ปีที่แล้ว

    In the end what's everyone really out to get? Da Nookie 😂

    • @marniekilbourne608
      @marniekilbourne608 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mature. They wonder why women HATE online dating and dating these days!

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Men are. Not women.

  • @facitenonvictimarum
    @facitenonvictimarum ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I bet a bunch of dying children in Gaza could sure use Dr.Gupta right now.

    • @facitenonvictimarum
      @facitenonvictimarum ปีที่แล้ว

      Another Massacre of the Innocents by King Netanyahu of the Chosen People, like King Harrod did 2000+ years ago looking for the Messiah, but this time for land for settlements.

    • @marniekilbourne608
      @marniekilbourne608 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh, shut UP! NOT the topic!

  • @beckettman42
    @beckettman42 ปีที่แล้ว

    Juice ain't worth the squeeze.

  • @letsgorandall9848
    @letsgorandall9848 ปีที่แล้ว

    Quack Doctor

  • @bobkabala8407
    @bobkabala8407 ปีที่แล้ว

    fake news