After 30 years happily married, we STILL do not have joint accounts. Trust isn't an issue, quite the opposite. This way we can safe guard at least half of our money. I dislike online banking, My wife loves online banking.
Never have joint accounts. I've known my wife for over 40 years and we still have separate finances. I own multiple houses and my wife likes shares. If one of us dies, then the other gets everything. We have all our passwords saved and stored in a safe for that fateful day. When we are both dead, it will be shared between the three kids.
OP, if your fiancée won't teach you even the basics of their language, BIG RED FLAG. You should have asked her if they had something to hide since she was so against you learning it. Also, when she started asking if OP had thought about adding her name to the finances, he should have said "I have thought about it and decided it was a very bad idea." ODG, OP, GET OUT OF THERE.
My brother is a PI. He says 80% of his jobs are men who think their wife or gf is cheating. More than 9 out of 10 times that's exactly what is happening lol.
Exactly! To quote the one juror from the original 12 Angry Men movie: "They come over here running for their lives and before they can take a deep breath they're telling us how to run the show".
He needs to rephrase as the "best worst possible way" Its the best way first because now he can both speak and understand their native language and worst way because he's understanding what their plotting.
What kind of sucker for love story is this? How much information do you need to know when it's time to leave a situation? No matter the verbal language, body language never lies, and irregardless to what the situation is with these people he should have immediately gotten out of it by this point.
Not sure about the language, but in terms of "culture", im guessing they were either East Indian or SE Asian. Its very common to have the in-laws move in with you or vice versa.
Hate me call me racist but guarentee the fiance and her family were Indian im talking Indian from India not native American. Whenever I hear scams like this it's always Indian accents that I hear never any other race
“Because everyone cries and screams about flower arrangements.” Actually… you’d be surprised about that tbh.
That's why you don't date Chinaman or Chiawoaman
After 30 years happily married, we STILL do not have joint accounts. Trust isn't an issue, quite the opposite. This way we can safe guard at least half of our money. I dislike online banking, My wife loves online banking.
Never have joint accounts. I've known my wife for over 40 years and we still have separate finances.
I own multiple houses and my wife likes shares. If one of us dies, then the other gets everything.
We have all our passwords saved and stored in a safe for that fateful day.
When we are both dead, it will be shared between the three kids.
Even more reasons why to just stay single. These people were beyond insane.
Ai stories
Phones have translation apps.
Guess OP didn't know, what with him working in tech...
😂.😂😂 Yep, funny that
Any lawyer will tell you that it's never RICO....but holy shizz, this is absolutely RICO.
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IV been with my wife for 26yrs and we still have our own back acct. Then a joint we can move money into
Omg!! 😮😮😮
OP, if your fiancée won't teach you even the basics of their language, BIG RED FLAG. You should have asked her if they had something to hide since she was so against you learning it. Also, when she started asking if OP had thought about adding her name to the finances, he should have said "I have thought about it and decided it was a very bad idea." ODG, OP, GET OUT OF THERE.
My brother is a PI. He says 80% of his jobs are men who think their wife or gf is cheating. More than 9 out of 10 times that's exactly what is happening lol.
This is how "respect other cultures" looks like 😂 Nothing more than an attempt to force your rules in a foreign country.
Exactly! To quote the one juror from the original 12 Angry Men movie: "They come over here running for their lives and before they can take a deep breath they're telling us how to run the show".
@QuickManEXE sounds like muslims in Europe 😅
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From the sound of it, it sounds like these people are Filipino. This seems like common Filipino behavior.
This tech guy didn't know how to use Google Translate all this time?
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My money was on Indian at first, but as it went on, I started to lean more Venezuelan/latin. Still a toss up though.
Co e on it took OP too long to even think about something to find out what was being said yea right
I would ask out that Emma girl she sounds like a really nice person
The moment I read the title I knew
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Been a while since we had a unique and interesting story
If I had to guess, Filipinos
This story has more holes than Swiss cheese…but, sit back and enjoy the fiction.
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He needs to rephrase as the "best worst possible way" Its the best way first because now he can both speak and understand their native language and worst way because he's understanding what their plotting.
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I heard this story with gender changed lol
Why would you date an Indian or a Pakistani girl?
What kind of sucker for love story is this? How much information do you need to know when it's time to leave a situation?
No matter the verbal language, body language never lies, and irregardless to what the situation is with these people he should have immediately gotten out of it by this point.
Laughing after giving you a concerning tone and look from the translator... Stupidity!
I first guess Chinese 2nd pinoy..
Donald Trump watching this "this is exactly why I'm going to do that"
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Get professional help for your TDS
Too much wasted time for plot to set in.
Plot twist...Emma was in on it too! To be continued.…
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What language were they speaking?
Not sure about the language, but in terms of "culture", im guessing they were either East Indian or SE Asian. Its very common to have the in-laws move in with you or vice versa.
Hate me call me racist but guarentee the fiance and her family were Indian im talking Indian from India not native American. Whenever I hear scams like this it's always Indian accents that I hear never any other race