Good morning/evening rau ib tsoom phooj ywg nyob txhua lub Teb chaws nej los koom kuv rau hnub Tshiab. Thov Huab Tais Ntuj Foom Koob Hmoob rau nej txhua tus ❤❤❤
I’ve been big and I’ve been small. My husband has been there to see it all. 210lbs and 125lbs and everything in between . He has loved me whole heartedly through it all. Outside opinions aren’t important. They must be miserable to be saying stuff like that about other people. Be kind. You never know what other people are going through.
I never cared about what people say about my wardrobe. I just wear what is comfortable to me. Im not going to spend lots of money on evening gowns that I will only wear a few times.
You are so true about the beautiful ladies keeping their house clean. So so true sister! I’ve seen beautiful ladies with houses that are not even livable. I’ve seen beautiful ladies with bedrooms full of clothes on the ground that shoes litter the front door.
That aunt is nothing but a bully! She's probably been bullying people her whole life because most people were too polite to tell her off. Sounds like she even bullies her own daughters. The only way to stop bullies is to stand up to them and tell them the truth of what you and others really think of them and their bullying ways! Remember, bullies can only bully you if you let them!
Agree! I had an auntie who would always criticized me for being skinny. Every time she sees me anywhere she would say to me that I’m too skinny and don’t look sexy. My husband will leave me for a bigger woman. I always ignored her but one time when she said that to me I said to her, “ Are you jealousy because after having all my children I still look good?” She looked at me and walked away. Ever since then when she sees me she doesn’t say it to me anymore. 😆😆
Nws tsis yog tias cov niam tsev tu tu cev ua zoo nkauj es txawm yuav paub ua zoo nkauj xwb tsis paub ua zoo niam tsev tseem ceeb li koj hais os. Yus tsis zoo thiab tsis xav nkim nyiaj tu yus tus kheej ces txhob mus xav phem rau cov nyiam ua zoo nkauj nawb. Cov niag tsis tu cev kiag mas yim huab tub nkeeg ov.. neeg nquag thiaj tu tau du dais hos
I agree with you 👍 It’s not 100%, but some people tsis tu cev because they are so lazy & some of us tu2 cev but we still do everything else because peb nyiam2 zoo. We like our homes very clean, we take good care of our kids, we cook for our families
My older sister is one. 😂 She always says that I'm fatter than her, but I just let her believe what she want to believe if that's what makes her happy. It doesn't bothered me because inside your heart and mind you know the truth. People like that likes to put others down just to make themselves are the poorest people alive. They don't have enough confidence, so they say mean stuff like that to make themselves look good.
😂😂😂oh i hear you loud and clear sista aw😂😂. Im glad you finally realize that its because of jealousy only! Been there, still doing it with people around me! Just be you! Ignore the rest, they dont feed, pay your bills. As long as you keep your health at check, its fine! 😂
We have too many overweight/obese individuals in our community. Maybe it's good that some shame others into taking a look at themselves, and therefore loosing weight as a result of that.
We all have one of those “Aunties”. We women need to uplift one another and not tear one down. There is a better way that comes from love to encourage one to be a healthier version of themselves.
So true. People are rude no matter what. My husband used to be big but lost a lot of weight due to unknown medical reasons. He’s skinnier than me now. Every time I post pictures, he gets a call from his mom because all the relatives are calling her asking what is wrong with him. Mom is tired of answering questions just like us. 😆 I just tell people he’s my new husband. I don’t know what happened to the old one. Koj rog me me xwb los lawv thuam ib zaug. Yuag los thuam ib zaug. 🤦🏻♀️💆🏻♀️
Koj tus Phauj yog leej twg ua cas yuav hais lus saib tsis tau neeg? Kuv kuj yog noob nom back in the old days, but I would never put a sister down. I would like to give that low class phauj of yours a lesson on what true beauty is.
Viv ncaus koj tus phauj ntawm koj tsis tas hu phauj no li yog kuv ces twb tsis ntsia nws lawm os txhob tu siab yus hnav li yus nyiam xwb os txhob nyuaj siab kiag li os
Me ntxhais aw peb ib pab neeg yeej muaj ib co poj niam thuam thuam neeg li os, kuv thiab kuv tus niam ntxawm wb ces yog lawv hais tias ua cas wb rog ua luaj no ces wb teb rau hais tias Haub yaub koj tseem has li koj ua dab tsi na kuv twb yuag kawg lawm os yog koj pom kuv ob peb hnub tag los no mas kuv tseem rog tshaj no hos, tab sis yog neeg pom cov yuag yuag li koj ces lawv nug koj hais tias koj mob qhov twg es koj yuag yuag na luag tej tseem xav hais yog mob cancer no thiab hos, Tab sis lawv pom peb cov rog no lawv tsis nug peb li os vim lawv paub hais tias peb noj qab qab nyob zoo zoo no hov ces lawv tsis teb dab tsi lawm as hivhivhiv vim yus rog rog no lawm ua kom yuag tsis yooj yim os mog.
Nej cov pojniam txhob mus ntseeg tas tas tias nej tus txiv qhua nej tsis Xav li cas qhov ua nej rog thiab hna li Homeless. Hais ncaj 100% tias lam hais xwb ov vim thaub ob lug qhov muag mas nyiag saib luag tej pojniam sexy xwb 😂😂😂. Peb ua tibneeg nyob ntiajteb ces peb sawvdaws yeej nyiam qhov zoo xwb. Nej cov rog los yuav tau hlub nej tus kheej thiab. Txhob tos thaum nej tus txiv muaj nej nrauj tag cem hos mus ua exercice rau luag lwm tus
Oyo, don't waste your time and energy on negative people and what they are saying. Just thank them and appreciate their criticisms. Use it as a motivating factor to live your best life. By feeling hurt and taking it personally, you're doing yourself a disservice and adding fuel to that fire. That's the goal of these negative people.
Ntshe nws yog kuv niag ex tus sister tus ntxaib pob. Kuv niag ex tus muam ma yuag yuag pim qhuav tas tiam sis pom kuv thaum twg ma thuam kuv rog, pom kuv tus nxthais thaum twg los thuam tias rog. Nws niag txiv thiaj mus yuav kiag niam mos ab lawm
Tus neeg rog yeej nyiam noj ncauj dua tus neeg yuag. Yog xaiv kom lub cev yiag yuav tau xyoo txhob noj ywj siab hos. Txawm luag hais yus los txhob tu siab thiab mas, tej zaum tej lus thuam ntawd yog kev qhuab qhia kom yus txawj Ua neeg zoo xwb os
Lady just because you don’t take care of yourself Doesn’t mean all women who likes to look nice are lazy either. Some are lazy but definitely not everyone
Some people are jealous how you are. So they just call you fat yo make you unhappy. I have one sister in law call me fat for over 30 years. One day I look at her and see that she is short and fat. So I think she is jealous of me that is why she say that to me. I’m taller than her and look better than her.
Everyone has their own excuses, fat or skinny, unhealthy or wellbeing, poor or wealthy, ignorant or considerate, and so on. Our excuses put us right where we are. I’m the opposite. My knowledge and words have value to me so I don’t say it freely. You can enjoy dieing in your pool of fat or enjoy wearing your crappy clothes to whatever event and don’t even care to realize that you’re embarrassing yourself or making their event looking less. ‘I will do I and let you do you’! Until that day you realize you are destroying yourself and come to ask me for a word or two of insight and wisdom, I will still smile at the mirror keeping myself looking good and feeling good for me and dressing up for the occasion in respect to the event owners and their event.
Good morning/evening rau ib tsoom phooj ywg nyob txhua lub Teb chaws nej los koom kuv rau hnub Tshiab. Thov Huab Tais Ntuj Foom Koob Hmoob rau nej txhua tus ❤❤❤
Good morning, sister Jenny
I’ve been big and I’ve been small. My husband has been there to see it all. 210lbs and 125lbs and everything in between . He has loved me whole heartedly through it all.
Outside opinions aren’t important. They must be miserable to be saying stuff like that about other people. Be kind. You never know what other people are going through.
I never cared about what people say about my wardrobe. I just wear what is comfortable to me. Im not going to spend lots of money on evening gowns that I will only wear a few times.
You are so true about the beautiful ladies keeping their house clean. So so true sister! I’ve seen beautiful ladies with houses that are not even livable. I’ve seen beautiful ladies with bedrooms full of clothes on the ground that shoes litter the front door.
Haha Go Niam tais!!👏🏼👏🏼 This is why you should never hold back when dealing with disrespectful people.😄
Everyone always has THAT one Auntie or SIL.🤦♀️😂
Yes…so true ❤
Koj hais yog kawg os
That aunt is nothing but a bully! She's probably been bullying people her whole life because most people were too polite to tell her off. Sounds like she even bullies her own daughters. The only way to stop bullies is to stand up to them and tell them the truth of what you and others really think of them and their bullying ways! Remember, bullies can only bully you if you let them!
Agreee
Agree! I had an auntie who would always criticized me for being skinny. Every time she sees me anywhere she would say to me that I’m too skinny and don’t look sexy. My husband will leave me for a bigger woman.
I always ignored her but one time when she said that to me I said to her, “ Are you jealousy because after having all my children I still look good?” She looked at me and walked away. Ever since then when she sees me she doesn’t say it to me anymore. 😆😆
Nws tsis yog tias cov niam tsev tu tu cev ua zoo nkauj es txawm yuav paub ua zoo nkauj xwb tsis paub ua zoo niam tsev tseem ceeb li koj hais os. Yus tsis zoo thiab tsis xav nkim nyiaj tu yus tus kheej ces txhob mus xav phem rau cov nyiam ua zoo nkauj nawb. Cov niag tsis tu cev kiag mas yim huab tub nkeeg ov.. neeg nquag thiaj tu tau du dais hos
I agree with you 👍
It’s not 100%,
but some people tsis tu cev because they are so lazy
& some of us tu2 cev
but we still do everything else
because peb nyiam2 zoo.
We like our homes very clean,
we take good care of our kids,
we cook for our families
Yog kawg os yus rog lawn es xav yuag los yeej tsis yuag os tus viv ncua aw kuv los yeej rog kawg thiab os
My older sister is one. 😂 She always says that I'm fatter than her, but I just let her believe what she want to believe if that's what makes her happy. It doesn't bothered me because inside your heart and mind you know the truth. People like that likes to put others down just to make themselves are the poorest people alive. They don't have enough confidence, so they say mean stuff like that to make themselves look good.
Koom koj nawb❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yus txawm muaj npaum cas los yuav tau txos hwj chim thiab os. Kuv los yeej tsis yog ib tu fancy person thiab os
My party had no VIP tables. I treated everyone who came to my party equally.
😂😂😂oh i hear you loud and clear sista aw😂😂. Im glad you finally realize that its because of jealousy only! Been there, still doing it with people around me! Just be you! Ignore the rest, they dont feed, pay your bills. As long as you keep your health at check, its fine! 😂
We have too many overweight/obese individuals in our community. Maybe it's good that some shame others into taking a look at themselves, and therefore loosing weight as a result of that.
We all have one of those “Aunties”. We women need to uplift one another and not tear one down. There is a better way that comes from love to encourage one to be a healthier version of themselves.
Peb ib cov niam tsev, including me😂😅😅...peb pheej ua tus nquag ua niam tsev xwb. We need to focus on ourselves, too.
Kuv ces yog nyab npab nauj!
This is Hmong women feminist empowerment. 👍
Very true, beauty is from the heart.
I agree with you, but being overweight comes with too many health issues, and it should not be accepted.
So true. People are rude no matter what. My husband used to be big but lost a lot of weight due to unknown medical reasons. He’s skinnier than me now. Every time I post pictures, he gets a call from his mom because all the relatives are calling her asking what is wrong with him. Mom is tired of answering questions just like us. 😆 I just tell people he’s my new husband. I don’t know what happened to the old one. Koj rog me me xwb los lawv thuam ib zaug. Yuag los thuam ib zaug. 🤦🏻♀️💆🏻♀️
Yes preach it sister 👏👏👏👏
Aunties, you're so funny . You just the perfect size.
Yog lawm👍👍
yeej muaj tej tus neeg thuam2 neeg li ko os
Look at all ya body shaming us skinny women who likes to dress up too geez. What did we do to some of ya lol. 😂
Yes, It is America, we need to stand up to these bully ogs who thinks they can bully people around..
My auntie is like that...
Kuv tsis nyiam cov niag neeg thuam neeg li niag pog no. Cov neeg no yog cov neeg tsis paub cai xwb tsis yog neeg tseem ceeb dabtsi li os.
Ua tsaug koj tuaj shear koj zaj os kuv ces twb yog ib tug raug thuam 3 zaug tsis tsauj ntuj Vim yus ua taj laj neeg Pom yus txhua txua hnub lawv xav tias yus yog niag neeg noj taus taus tab sis lawv twb paub tias yog yus muaj mob yus thiaj uas tsis taus excised es yus thiaj pab tsis taus yus
Agree nrog nej cov hluas kawg nkaus li os cov me ntxhais aw...Koj thiab kuv wb hnav tib tus number xwb vivnaus aw.
Txhob tu siab vim nws ua rau koj ras thiab yuag kom healthy xwb. 😅
Good Morning to you too sister Jenny ❤
Koj tus Phauj yog leej twg ua cas yuav hais lus saib tsis tau neeg? Kuv kuj yog noob nom back in the old days, but I would never put a sister down. I would like to give that low class phauj of yours a lesson on what true beauty is.
Cov niam tsev es nyiam ua zoo zoo nkauj ces zoo deev xwb twb tsis tsheej niam tsev kiag li nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...
Txhob chim rau tus Phauj qhov tshuaj ua rau koj zoo nkauj tuaj
Viv ncaus koj tus phauj ntawm koj tsis tas hu phauj no li yog kuv ces twb tsis ntsia nws lawm os txhob tu siab yus hnav li yus nyiam xwb os txhob nyuaj siab kiag li os
Cov poj niam nyiam nyiam mus party mus noj mus haus es hnav haib haib ces muaj qee tus yeej thuam thuam lwm tus kawg li. Thuam luag cev dress thuam luag rog, luag yuag, luag me, luag qig taub txhua yam li os.
Me ntxhais aw peb ib pab neeg yeej muaj ib co poj niam thuam thuam neeg li os, kuv thiab kuv tus niam ntxawm wb ces yog lawv hais tias ua cas wb rog ua luaj no ces wb teb rau hais tias Haub yaub koj tseem has li koj ua dab tsi na kuv twb yuag kawg lawm os yog koj pom kuv ob peb hnub tag los no mas kuv tseem rog tshaj no hos, tab sis yog neeg pom cov yuag yuag li koj ces lawv nug koj hais tias koj mob qhov twg es koj yuag yuag na luag tej tseem xav hais yog mob cancer no thiab hos, Tab sis lawv pom peb cov rog no lawv tsis nug peb li os vim lawv paub hais tias peb noj qab qab nyob zoo zoo no hov ces lawv tsis teb dab tsi lawm as hivhivhiv vim yus rog rog no lawm ua kom yuag tsis yooj yim os mog.
Hahaha 😂😂😂 yog kawg Ua tsaug koj cov lus txhawb siab os Niam laus.
😂 When you get a dose of your own medicine. 😂
Cov neeg ntawd ua maum thab ntxiab xwb, yog tib co poj niam toob nkeeg xwb.
100% cov pojniam tus tus cev, Tsis tu vaj tus tsev, tsis tu me tub me nyuam, tsis txawj ua noj ua haus.
Not 100% true at all
Not in this generation!
Maybe 50%??
Maybe 30% ??
Some of us do it all!
College education & a Career too! 🙂
peb ua tib neeg nyob muaj 3 yam tib neeg uas sib txawv tsis zoo ib yam ov mog,
Yam 1.. Yog cov zoo niam tsev, Yam 2.. Yog cov niam qhev, 3..Yog cov niam dev,
Yam 1.. Yog cov zoo txiv tsev, Yam 2.. yog cov txiv qhev, 3 .. Yog cov txiv dev,
peb cov txiv neej yuav paub tus tib neeg tshaj lij yog mus yov hav zoov ua ke ces paub kiag li lawm, tsaws li kuv nria los mus thiab pom los mus ov mog,
😂😂😂yog tshaj. Thank you! 🙏🏽
Cov neeg tawm rooj cuab thaj zoo nkauj ces you neeg tsis Hlob. Niam tsev os
Some Hmong people and or older generation, have no filter. They say offensive stuff and they think it’s okay. SMH
Kuv twb mag tus nyab thuam kuv thiab nws tias cas kuv yuav rog ua luaj thiab tsi nws twb rog ib yam li kuv thiab nws tseem qig taub tshaj kuv nas es nws twb muaj lb ib yam kuv nas
Wow high class ppls
Just like my MIL
Nej cov pojniam txhob mus ntseeg tas tas tias nej tus txiv qhua nej tsis Xav li cas qhov ua nej rog thiab hna li Homeless. Hais ncaj 100% tias lam hais xwb ov vim thaub ob lug qhov muag mas nyiag saib luag tej pojniam sexy xwb 😂😂😂. Peb ua tibneeg nyob ntiajteb ces peb sawvdaws yeej nyiam qhov zoo xwb. Nej cov rog los yuav tau hlub nej tus kheej thiab. Txhob tos thaum nej tus txiv muaj nej nrauj tag cem hos mus ua exercice rau luag lwm tus
Mus koom cov neeg coj zoo li no ua dabtsi
Cov niag neeg es pom luag lwm tus es pheej nyiam2 thuam mas cia ntxim mag cov noj taus2 hais taus2 rau mas thiaj li paub tab ntag ov
Yog kawg cov niam tsev yuag yuag haib haib ntawv yog tub tub nkeeg es twb tsis ua noj li es yoo li yoo xwb thiaj sexy xw
Oyo, don't waste your time and energy on negative people and what they are saying. Just thank them and appreciate their criticisms. Use it as a motivating factor to live your best life. By feeling hurt and taking it personally, you're doing yourself a disservice and adding fuel to that fire. That's the goal of these negative people.
Size 10 is not even fat. True people have diseases or could be on birth control that makes them heavier. Everyone comes in different sizes.
Ib cov poj niam txiv neej thuam neeg khav theeb yog lawv tsis puv puas thiab tsis paub txaj muag.
Ntshe nws yog kuv niag ex tus sister tus ntxaib pob. Kuv niag ex tus muam ma yuag yuag pim qhuav tas tiam sis pom kuv thaum twg ma thuam kuv rog, pom kuv tus nxthais thaum twg los thuam tias rog. Nws niag txiv thiaj mus yuav kiag niam mos ab lawm
Tus neeg rog yeej nyiam noj ncauj dua tus neeg yuag. Yog xaiv kom lub cev yiag yuav tau xyoo txhob noj ywj siab hos. Txawm luag hais yus los txhob tu siab thiab mas, tej zaum tej lus thuam ntawd yog kev qhuab qhia kom yus txawj Ua neeg zoo xwb os
Lady just because you don’t take care of yourself
Doesn’t mean all women who
likes to look nice are lazy either.
Some are lazy but definitely not everyone
Nyuam qhuav haum cov neeg thuam neeg
Txhob tu siab...tu neeg txawj txawj thuam neeg nws tsis yog neeg ntse tsab ntse xwb...tu neeg ntse nws pom koj xwb nws yeej paub tias koj khwv npaum li cas rau hnub no....xam txim rau tu neeg raum tsab ntse
When did Hmong become so arrogant?
Some people are jealous how you are. So they just call you fat yo make you unhappy. I have one sister in law call me fat for over 30 years. One day I look at her and see that she is short and fat. So I think she is jealous of me that is why she say that to me. I’m taller than her and look better than her.
I have an auntie like this.. she criticizes whoever is fat.. but guess what, she always wears the same outfit to every party
Everyone has their own excuses, fat or skinny, unhealthy or wellbeing, poor or wealthy, ignorant or considerate, and so on. Our excuses put us right where we are.
I’m the opposite.
My knowledge and words have value to me so I don’t say it freely.
You can enjoy dieing in your pool of fat or enjoy wearing your crappy clothes to whatever event and don’t even care to realize that you’re embarrassing yourself or making their event looking less. ‘I will do I and let you do you’!
Until that day you realize you are destroying yourself and come to ask me for a word or two of insight and wisdom, I will still smile at the mirror keeping myself looking good and feeling good for me and dressing up for the occasion in respect to the event owners and their event.
Haubyauj! Graduation party xwb es tseem hnav evening gown/wear thiab? Tus npabnauj yog koj niag phauj ntag lau!! Ntxim ntxub ua luaj!