Would You Get Plastic Surgery If Your Partner Likes You The Way That You Are?

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  • @DavidSmith-bt8vx
    @DavidSmith-bt8vx 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +275

    "i don't care what my husband say". Is a wild statement .

    • @ChristianGriffin-s5g
      @ChristianGriffin-s5g 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

      (Seemingly) Majority of American women 'feel' that way 🤷🏾

    • @kashaka0934
      @kashaka0934 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      Her body

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

      And men still want marriage? Yikes 😂. Stay single fellas and save your money

    • @Carlostheyankeefan
      @Carlostheyankeefan 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      @@kashaka0934 so if her husband wants to get face tattoos it’s okay cause it’s his body?

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

      @@kashaka0934typical cringe response. My body my choice is so childish

  • @jahnaet8289
    @jahnaet8289 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    Not caring about the possibility of leaving your kids for a bigger butt is crazy.

  • @jaykleckley5535
    @jaykleckley5535 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    I didn't hear Charlemagne say anything about mental health.... Knowing that the same women that are making these decisions are crazy.

  • @owill1081
    @owill1081 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +197

    Probably why she has 3 husbandsssssss

    • @rogueonevo
      @rogueonevo 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Had

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Stay single fellas

    • @premierproperties240
      @premierproperties240 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      ​@@PlatinumHustle choose wisely

    • @PlatinumHustle
      @PlatinumHustle 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@premierproperties240 nah ain’t no choosing just stay single and live like a free agent 🤣🤣🤷🏾‍♂️ no man should be entertaining marriage in 2025 and forward after social media has proven over and over again, how theee broads are

    • @ANYTHINGISPOSSIBLEBELIEVE
      @ANYTHINGISPOSSIBLEBELIEVE 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Some women can't get one😂 so which one is worst?

  • @dashyzen
    @dashyzen 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    The selfishness is at an all time high in today's society smh... & Don't nobody love themselves any more.

    • @Colormetat
      @Colormetat 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I hear this a lot…typically from people that dont even appreciate natural beauty, or the more substantial things that warrants a suitable partner.

  • @brandonf.8360
    @brandonf.8360 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +56

    You can't get plastic surgery on self esteem and worth.

    • @DarkTimes-l5u
      @DarkTimes-l5u 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      The best comment hands down

    • @deshawnthomas9023
      @deshawnthomas9023 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lol, right, but we don't need to put therapists out of business now.

    • @ribhkahperkins8111
      @ribhkahperkins8111 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      👏👏👏👏

    • @lildre889
      @lildre889 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Talk that talk my G

    • @brandonf.8360
      @brandonf.8360 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@deshawnthomas9023when did I say or imply that? However some of them don't deserve their jobs because they only care about the money not the people.

  • @Kwami357
    @Kwami357 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +86

    'It's my decision " and when they are in trouble they say their partner wasn't there for them😂😂😂😂

    • @dapatman9827
      @dapatman9827 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      "Your decision, your trouble" and now you should take your responsibility with yourself.

    • @brittanyjohnson375
      @brittanyjohnson375 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Your partner making decisions for themselves vs being in trouble for something completely different is not the same thing. This mindset is the reason why men, especially blk men are not respected.

    • @MCarter719
      @MCarter719 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      💯

    • @Colormetat
      @Colormetat 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right, because any bad choice you make-cosmetically or not, is your responsibility, you deserve no support, empathy, love, compassion, forgiveness, and etc. That was sarcasm by the way.

    • @jason20021
      @jason20021 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Colormetat If someone asks you to avoid something and you ignore them and do it anyway; then if things go wrong, don’t look for support from the person who warned you. That’s lunacy.

  • @DiViNELOVE7-77
    @DiViNELOVE7-77 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +132

    All this plastic surgery and they still look horrible😩🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @NunyaDamnBiz1984
      @NunyaDamnBiz1984 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Thank you!! Inside and out!

    • @fsmith1826
      @fsmith1826 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      That’s part, especially that bottom lip looks like it’s drooping down.

    • @jrose1999
      @jrose1999 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Beauty is subjective. Yall are not so hot by a lot of people standards but doubt u would want people saying u look HORRIBLE

    • @DiViNELOVE7-77
      @DiViNELOVE7-77 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@jrose1999I look better than them and you lol. I’m not worried hun.

    • @jrose1999
      @jrose1999 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@DiViNELOVE7-77 lol that was unnecessary I didn't go out my way to insult you Im saying everyone beauty standards are different. And babyyy on my worst day you couldn't look better than me lol ur cute but not that cute beloved. Don't let your head get gassed.

  • @Marlon-yu9ir
    @Marlon-yu9ir 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    Why ask a man a question to something your gonna do anyway that'll piss me off asking me in the 1st place!

    • @death24314
      @death24314 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Right don't ask me anything if you are going to do it anyway. Don't waste my time

  • @robertwatkins3939
    @robertwatkins3939 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +68

    Surgery will never make you happy

    • @bodega1515
      @bodega1515 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Actually it does. Ask any man thats had a hair transplant.

    • @SupreemTeam
      @SupreemTeam 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Sza would disagree

    • @patriley9501
      @patriley9501 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@SupreemTeamsza still don’t love herself fully

    • @robertwatkins3939
      @robertwatkins3939 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SupreemTeam as is not a real person she is a construct of record companies you sound like a child

    • @Clyn84
      @Clyn84 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Getting a lift with implants absolutely did ! First child at 19 breast fed both my children lost 80 lbs . I wanted breast for ME I didn’t go big didn’t have a desire to go big and look silly but I am extremely pleased but I loved myself with my pancakes also

  • @ninabella9300
    @ninabella9300 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I had surgery and still wasn’t happy. It’s really within.

  • @DiViNELOVE7-77
    @DiViNELOVE7-77 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    Look what happened to DC Young Fly baby mama. So not worth it ladies and fellas try your best to convince them to not go through with it because it’s a risk that you could lose her, if she doesn’t wanna listen then leave her.

    • @marcscott7382
      @marcscott7382 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      uncalled for

    • @DiViNELOVE7-77
      @DiViNELOVE7-77 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@marcscott7382 Definitely called for!

    • @rawman18
      @rawman18 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@marcscott7382 the truth is always called for

    • @deshawnthomas9023
      @deshawnthomas9023 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'll take your advice Pickmeisha.

    • @deshawnthomas9023
      @deshawnthomas9023 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I mean Natalie Nunn 🤣😂

  • @jerronjohnson1991
    @jerronjohnson1991 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    “Forget my husband and kids feelings… I HAVE to be happy.. even if it kills me”

    • @qtippz
      @qtippz 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      "...because I'm worried about the world's perception of me and the attention I get from it!..."

  • @BlowWord.
    @BlowWord. 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    she over there collecting husbands & y’all asking if she right … smh

    • @everardthegoat
      @everardthegoat 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      And she said it like a flex smh

    • @Shewins23
      @Shewins23 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No collecting husbands 😂

  • @nikkiervinmusic
    @nikkiervinmusic 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Man, every now and then Envy catches me off guard!! 😂 2:26

    • @123f89
      @123f89 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂 best question

    • @tanQBeauty
      @tanQBeauty 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bbl 😂😂😂

    • @sshoegirl30004
      @sshoegirl30004 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂

  • @mikemitchell9979
    @mikemitchell9979 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +58

    Women be competing and comparing with each other..bbl's and all ..men dnt care about that ish..smh

    • @kashaka0934
      @kashaka0934 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Lmfaooo yes yall do

    • @GHOST91141
      @GHOST91141 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      ​@@kashaka0934no we don't, don't let social media fool y'all with that nonsense

    • @TOPHITTA463
      @TOPHITTA463 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂u right we gonna get it anyway.

    • @TheBasher-_-
      @TheBasher-_- 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Yeah and we men do stuff for us women don’t care for. Men who have weird almost gay gym regimes, getting buff and swole for no reason. 😂 most women don’t want that that’s scary.

    • @kashaka0934
      @kashaka0934 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Im 41 years Old, yes you all do.

  • @SIK50H
    @SIK50H 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Can’t be with a woman who don’t love her natural self

    • @Beloupa
      @Beloupa 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same

  • @niciahoward2814
    @niciahoward2814 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    The fact that MOTHERS!! are saying they would leave behind their children for plastic surgery is like WOOOOOOOOW!! Why are we here? You are so insecure you would die before you care about your children. Like ladies YOU ARE NOT INSECURE, you are being programmed to think you are not good enough!!! You are good enough!

  • @bradleyjames1379
    @bradleyjames1379 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    For the women who say they don't care what their man thinks, what would be real crazy work is if you got that stuff done and then your man left you for a woman that looked like the old you.😅

    • @DavidSmith-bt8vx
      @DavidSmith-bt8vx 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lol 😂

    • @gideoninc8687
      @gideoninc8687 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You know their narcissistic asses will continue to duck accountability and blame him for that too 😂

  • @joeowens9061
    @joeowens9061 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Women love attention. They are not just okay with their husband loving them the way they are. They want everyone to love it. They say it's for them, but getting the attention from people is what's really for them.

    • @qtippz
      @qtippz 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly. You show me one one woman who gets a breast implants that don't try to show them off in some way. You name me one dude who got swole from the gym who doesn't try to show off their gains...yeah aight...

  • @QuiteHermit25
    @QuiteHermit25 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    This conversation is for the affluent. Regular women ain’t doin all that. And you got something wrong with you if you wanna alternate your body besides working out. Just be glad and blessed you’re born with two arms and two legs and everything is working

    • @TheLavionicaJayShow
      @TheLavionicaJayShow 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      When in fact there are regular women out here getting BBL’s I know a few lol

    • @bigolbabyhuey
      @bigolbabyhuey 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Most of the women who get botched surgeries and end up getting unalived on the operating table are "regular women"

    • @patriley9501
      @patriley9501 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheLavionicaJayShowkeeping up with the Jones.

  • @MrAwesome85
    @MrAwesome85 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    I hope and pray I find a wife that’s happy with herself and not insecure about her body.

  • @frederickifill3107
    @frederickifill3107 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    That chick had 3 husbands……she’s definitely the issue

    • @infomanaging8534
      @infomanaging8534 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Facts

    • @amac23557
      @amac23557 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And a big a$$ tat on her chest🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @qtippz
      @qtippz 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Facts. And saying it like its a flex. Maannn...🙄

  • @CnellFrmHell
    @CnellFrmHell 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    As a husband I love my wife exactly the way god made her! I wouldn’t want anything changed but it’s ultimately up to her. Now don’t get mad if I don’t like the new plastic add ons if you don’t care about my opinion lol

  • @Jazzydking
    @Jazzydking 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Her choice her body so is the man choice to stay or go.

    • @MRLONG758
      @MRLONG758 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      And if the results bother me enough, i'm out

    • @252thepack
      @252thepack 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      But men don’t have the choice to leave without paying for it. Women have that choice because when they leave they gain. If she leaves, she wins. If he leaves she wins so how is that a real choice especially based on something like voluntary plastic surgery.

  • @wharris123184
    @wharris123184 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    PPP for BBL is nuts 😂😅😂😅

  • @good_speed_0h
    @good_speed_0h 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

    For ppl that gets plastic surgery is like telling God he made a mistake

    • @GHOST91141
      @GHOST91141 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      🎯💯

    • @Kwami357
      @Kwami357 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Exactly

    • @mylesgaines8743
      @mylesgaines8743 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Right I feel that

    • @drejonesj85
      @drejonesj85 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Amen to that I say the same thing all the time God created you in his perfect image

    • @Realest1ne
      @Realest1ne 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Have you observed the human species?? He most definitely made a mistake 🤣

  • @wharris123184
    @wharris123184 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Repeat offenses for the ant body is egregious. 😂

  • @ez-duz-it
    @ez-duz-it 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Now granted, every woman has a choice to do what they want with their body, but what trips me out is seeing BLACK women getting lip filler smh, as if our genetic as black people wasnt enough, I get the BBL thing in certain cases, down here in FL it’s becoming more popular amongst white and Hispanic women even more now than ever lol

  • @robertwatkins3939
    @robertwatkins3939 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Last comment jus tells me we is cooked what’s the point of marriage if everyone jus doing what they want anyways.

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Bob, its all kind of effed up , married roomies basically.

  • @Kwami357
    @Kwami357 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I will always love my natural women

    • @bradleyjames1379
      @bradleyjames1379 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same.

    • @deshawnthomas9023
      @deshawnthomas9023 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sadly, I know some male co-workers who like BBL's for obvious reasons. They want a playmate, not a wife.

  • @Gator87
    @Gator87 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I don't want no woman who has had any type of surgery done. To me that shows she's insecure snd care too much about what people think of her. She doesn't love the skin she's in.

  • @20V1Shutdown
    @20V1Shutdown 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I’d leave her

    • @rawman18
      @rawman18 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      This is the only correct outcome.

  • @wickedwes22
    @wickedwes22 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    😂Dj Envy 11:06 😅”ok , I feel you… na but she need to get her phone done but I get what she sayin”

  • @kingba7749
    @kingba7749 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    That babe really think her lips look good, crazy

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      she goofy

  • @Pou1gie1
    @Pou1gie1 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    @4:40 I have a hard time believing that Gia (Envy''s wife NEVER had surgery). She had like 6 kids with no surgery... and still looks like that??? With the way he talks it's like he's against it for his wife, which doesn't track.

    • @amac23557
      @amac23557 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah she definitely went under the 🔪

    • @oasisfullfilled7617
      @oasisfullfilled7617 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Some women have good genes. Like me and my sister had kids and had no stretch marks. You know why because my mom didnt have stretch. Some people dont get big after kids and can snap back

  • @DarkshinastaReborn
    @DarkshinastaReborn 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    CTg is the last man you want to listen to when it comes to conversations about women.
    If your HUSBAND disapproves of it, it would be ignorant for you to say "skip what my HUSBAND says" because you hear people like CTg statements.
    These modern women and men are wild.

    • @amac23557
      @amac23557 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯 💯 💯

  • @Getchy-a-done
    @Getchy-a-done 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    As a married man of ten years if I got a natural woman you can't just pull up with a build a bear body looks do matter that ain't fair

  • @iBryanDBrown
    @iBryanDBrown 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    If we are married there isn’t a me…it’s WE. Once you do it for “me” (yourself)…consider yourself single.

  • @troywheeler1238
    @troywheeler1238 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I want to do what I want while the Husband is still expected to lead is insane 😂

  • @SalterGames
    @SalterGames 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    what happen to just loving yourself god mad you like that for a reason. if you cant get it naturally you dont need to have it, i just dont understand why you need it so bad because its not for you its for you to impress other people or to make yourself feel like you belong

  • @Kenn6723
    @Kenn6723 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Did she say "when they start looking like a vehicle thats on them" 😂😂

  • @cidneymc
    @cidneymc 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    What ever you do should be for you.

  • @4everOcean
    @4everOcean 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Self esteem is such a personal thing. Without it you're lost.

  • @KureGene
    @KureGene 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Just don't make a selfish decision once you have a partner. Especially if you know the man that you're in a relationship already disclosed he doesn't agree with, and it's been said it wouldn't get done. Just don't be selfish when making said decision unless you're single.

  • @MJreacts2K
    @MJreacts2K 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Getting plastic surgery against your husband’s wishes is a little disrespectful

  • @Xavier-Valentino
    @Xavier-Valentino 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    She gonna do what she wants and he gonna leave her ass. That's why women are single. A man marry you for who you are once you start making changes to yourself that he don't like, he'll leave. Period!!!!

  • @catherinewilliams9680
    @catherinewilliams9680 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    A married girlfriend of mine had her breasts reduced from a D cup to a B cup. He became so unattracted to her smaller breasts he no longer wanted to have sex with her. He had asked her not to have the surgery, but she went ahead with it.
    I had known him since we were kids and he had never dated a woman with small breasts. He even confided in me her breasts were what had attracted him to her. I warned her. His brothers warned her. But, she claimed to be blindsided when he no longer wanted to have sex with her.
    It's been three years and he's admitted that they haven't had sex since.

    • @missjones8123
      @missjones8123 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He must be having sex with someone.. Did she reduce it for health reasons?

    • @oasisfullfilled7617
      @oasisfullfilled7617 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Did she have the surgery because her back was hurting. I know some women get a reduction because they have back pain

  • @greenwooddistrictstudios
    @greenwooddistrictstudios 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You should have known something about those insecurities before yall got together. That would have foreshadowed something like this.

  • @StephenMykal
    @StephenMykal 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was always raised to believe that the husband and wife, their bodies are there own, and each others. They have become one unit and committed to considering the impact of each other. In this individualism based society most people cant see the benefits of community and so they will get the rewards for that approach.

  • @fsmith1826
    @fsmith1826 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    If it’s an unnecessary enhancement, I would consider my husband’s advice. If it’s a blatant oddity on my body that made me feel uncomfortable, then I would negotiate with him.

  • @justtwizzey2429
    @justtwizzey2429 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The way Envy jumped @ 5:23 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @integrafreak1
    @integrafreak1 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yeoooo that thumbnail 😂😂😂

  • @Petermomo5050
    @Petermomo5050 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    All these women with these aggressive personalities are quite wicked. I would divorce such a person, and the men who tolerate these actions are merely beta males. She said, "she was married three times" who want that?

  • @shadex3736
    @shadex3736 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I read a blog about a man whose wife decided to get some work done. He didn’t want her to, but she went ahead with it anyway. Later, she realized that they weren’t having intimate moments like they used to. When she confronted him about it, he admitted the truth-he wasn’t as attracted to her as before. She went crazy, shaming and guilting him for not finding her attractive.
    That’s wild! She expected him to accept her changes, even though she didn’t consider his feelings in the first place. I’ve always said that women don’t dress up for their spouses-they do it to get attention from others, whether it’s other men or women, or for social media posts.
    I remember calling out my ex when she thought she was fat. I told her she looked great, but she dismissed it, saying I was just lying to make her feel better. However, when some guy at the store tried to hit on her and told her the same thing, she got excited-until she mentioned she was in a relationship.
    I always say that when women are in a relationship or married, their spouse’s compliments carry less weight than a stranger’s. Remember when Steph Curry's wife complained about not getting attention?

  • @ribhkahperkins8111
    @ribhkahperkins8111 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's scary how many women say they don't care what their husband thinks or they don't care about risking their life for plastic surgery.

  • @Yusuf2.Isl.444
    @Yusuf2.Isl.444 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I would love to hear their relationship status on the ones that said they don't care what their mates felt. Crazy

  • @everythingistemporary736
    @everythingistemporary736 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    They do it for other men’s attention

    • @bradleyjames1379
      @bradleyjames1379 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      This makes sense. If you're a married woman changing your appearance, you come off as if you are fishing.

    • @everythingistemporary736
      @everythingistemporary736 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ facts look for validation from other people

  • @MRLONG758
    @MRLONG758 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    If the cosmetic surgery is that much of an issue, divorce

    • @SmooveTV718
      @SmooveTV718 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s sad that people don’t have the same mindset of this comment. A man of substance is gettin rid of that woman.

  • @jjdrum22
    @jjdrum22 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My wife asked me this hypothetical, and I told her she’s fine the way she is, natural! And she KNOWS that!!

  • @miquearre1776
    @miquearre1776 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    All natural will always be better but more power to you.

  • @jerronjohnson1991
    @jerronjohnson1991 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “The man gonna do what the man’s gonna do regardless” .. image hearing that on this platform lol

  • @LawrenceAdjah
    @LawrenceAdjah 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    God often whispers before He thunders. As if the loss of such young beautiful women under the knife was not a nudge enough that this is not God’s best for you, we still want play Russian roulette to counter what God never intended you to have. Let alone, the more people get these procedures the more they all look the same. As a husband, it is an abdication of your role to be laissez-faire, it’s an automatic and unwavering no.

  • @K.DatBamaBoi
    @K.DatBamaBoi 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I'm all for her doing whatever she wants to do. You're right her body her choice, where it don't make sense to me is you still have to go to the gym eat right & do all the other things that you would have had to do to build your body that way anyway, so honestly the surgery is negated. But I want to know the real question. Am I wrong for leaving her because that's not something I want to be feeling on or touching on?

    • @oasisfullfilled7617
      @oasisfullfilled7617 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Some women are built like their dads or shape like sponge bob

  • @richardlovelace8134
    @richardlovelace8134 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You see the self centered approach to answering the question and it greatly shows me why marriages/relationships fail so frequently among black people.

  • @JocTillery
    @JocTillery 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    It's wild how so many women don't care what THEIR MAN want. I see it so much where I'm from
    *if the man like natural bodies, then the women go doing all these surgeries/procedures.
    *the man like natural hair, the women do all these wigs and weaves.
    *the man doesn't like makeup, the woman keeps her face caked up.
    Im like why yal always do the opposite of what yal man like. We listen to yal, yall don't want no broke man, he gotta have his ish together, yal don't want no ugly man. So we follow that guide everyday make sure we handling business, get our money and we're established, we stay in the gym and stay fly. We do what women like but alotta women stay doing the opposite of what men like that's wild to me. I'm talking about women that actually want a man and don't kno why she can't keep one or why guys always playing games, im like you doing the opposite of everything he's looking for

    • @BriKay-k7e
      @BriKay-k7e 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Because women say men pay $ the most to women who have all of that.

  • @MrYoungmoe
    @MrYoungmoe 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If somebody isn't comfortable with they self it will never matter how someone else feels about them

  • @integrafreak1
    @integrafreak1 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    For me NO, but everyone’s relationship have different boundaries. I’d be out

  • @MCarter719
    @MCarter719 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It all boils down to selfishness. Willing to die from plastic surgery is ludacris. Gonna leave your children or your spouse behind just to look like a balloon. We are really in a world of hurt. Its no more real love out here. For self or others

  • @Chi4evr
    @Chi4evr 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    If the surgery is truly unnecessary, unlike when people lose weight and get surgery to lose extra skin then they are doing it to get attention from other men or women. There is no need for plastic surgery if there’s nothing that needs to be fixed and if your partner likes the way you are.

  • @LRain-jf5hr
    @LRain-jf5hr 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It depends on what it's for. Every surgery is NOT successful. If it's for your health after a child, understandable but for cosmetic? The truth is you're making a life or death decision for a cosmetic purpose. I think that women just need to let that sink in and not be surprised if your spouse disagrees. They're looking at it as, what am I going to do without you if you don't make it? Women can do what what they want. However, just be prepared for anything that can happen. Prepare yourself and your family. Your happiness is important, and so is your family's because they want you in their life. I was terrified when I had to get a cesarean, and I will never go under the knife to cover my scar. The recovery is never something I want to experience again. Everyone doesn't see it the same way. I just hope women are prepared for any outcome it brings 🙏🏾

  • @TYHW
    @TYHW 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This why she was married 3 times! “Don’t care what her husband says!” Our women are outrageous and disrespectful

  • @dianaconnelly3450
    @dianaconnelly3450 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The point that she is now an advocate against women getting BBL surgeries should have really been the focus.

  • @Realest1ne
    @Realest1ne 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sierra was so pretty when she first got on L&HH

  • @AllenInRealLife
    @AllenInRealLife 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Keep that same energy when a man wanna make money in the street! Putting his life at risk but that makes him happy. Imagine telling his woman and mother of his kids "this ain't got nothing to do with you".

  • @FleepacShakur
    @FleepacShakur 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ladies stop it. You’re absolutely not doing it for “you” you’re doing it for the people who are gonna see you and like your pictures.

  • @ygtchris1626
    @ygtchris1626 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The caller Raven was funny 😂

  • @justicebanks
    @justicebanks 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What’s up with these women not respecting what their man got say 😂🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @murphyslaw2102
    @murphyslaw2102 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    And she wonder why she's on husband number 4 smh 🤡

  • @MJFlairs
    @MJFlairs 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's wild to say they don't care what their husband say 🤨 but to each it's own..but for me and mine, I definitely have a say in a decision like that. But tbh idk if I'll approve or not, it's many factors...the main question will be are you doin it to impress others or yourself? And then we'll start the discussion figuring this out. And yes, WE!

  • @LilHondaCivic808
    @LilHondaCivic808 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    10:37 y’all just allowed this ?

  • @SneakerQu33n
    @SneakerQu33n 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not Jess having the chest of Trey Songz 🤦🏾‍♀ 😂🤣.

  • @AltoKeyz
    @AltoKeyz 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    They got it from us … we got it from LATINA BRAZILIANS . Interesting

    • @Pou1gie1
      @Pou1gie1 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Slavery happened in Brazil too. So, there is a large Black community out there. In fact, Brazil was the last country to end the transatlantic slave trade and stop enslaving Africans. So, many Brazilians are "us".

  • @Beloupa
    @Beloupa 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow! She said she doesn't care what her husband said... All natural for me.

  • @phillipsimmons5586
    @phillipsimmons5586 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It has EVERYTHING to do with attention... If you're married then you've been chosen. What more do you need?

  • @josephatkinson5693
    @josephatkinson5693 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Damn can the editors please edit out the parts that are been played 5x damn, the TH-cam channel doesn't need the constant reminders of the topic there's no commercials here

  • @oasisfullfilled7617
    @oasisfullfilled7617 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    At the end of the day it is the person’s body. A lot of time they dont want you to get it because you will get a different type of attention

  • @Yusuf2.Isl.444
    @Yusuf2.Isl.444 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    In a marriage, it's no longer self it's us.

  • @DOUBLEJOE850
    @DOUBLEJOE850 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I personally think women look beautiful WITHOUT the surgery

  • @anthonylandren5598
    @anthonylandren5598 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "She need to get her phone done" 😁

  • @sunshined823
    @sunshined823 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not the Cat Lady 😹😹

  • @JazeeJ
    @JazeeJ 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A lot of women are still getting butt shots, being mistaken for bbls. Skinny bbls are a thing too, which looks more natural.

  • @rockohype
    @rockohype 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Why post those old photos of them?

    • @ptk4392
      @ptk4392 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Bc that's what they look like

  • @TheLOTSChannel
    @TheLOTSChannel 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not caring what your husband thinks is why she been married 3 times

  • @anthonydhatton
    @anthonydhatton 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She got it done to make herself happy… next sentence… been married THREE TIMES

  • @themandinkafamily
    @themandinkafamily 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Women lie when they say they put foreign substances in their body for them. That's such a cop out. Just say that you compared yourself to society's standards and didnt love yourself enough to try and understand that your natural self is actually the better option.

  • @briwilliams7773
    @briwilliams7773 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There’s a story on Reddit, where a man and I want his wife to get plastic surgery. He begged her and when she got it, he was very unhappy, and he proceeded to file for divorce.

  • @princesssheabutter
    @princesssheabutter 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You MUST take your husband's decision into consideration. It may truly affect your marriage if you go against his wishes. If we're not married then it's a different story.

  • @missjones8123
    @missjones8123 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ok make sure if your botched you keep the same energy 😂

  • @hueyfreeman474
    @hueyfreeman474 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My bros mama died getting her body done she was in her late 40s.. couldn't nobody tell her not to do it... if they die, they die 🤷🏾‍♂️.