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As a red-pill guy, your teachings really align with my convictions. Women are too complex. I decided not to study women anymore to concentrate on food and beer, and my life as well.
I was thinking the same thing, I've been having issues with with my best friend. I could do all these to work things out but she's the manipulative type. I fear that any move I make to resolve it would just give her the power. So I decided to ignore her instead. I'm even willing to walk away for good.
I don't usually listen to women because I consider myself a red-pilled guy. However, your advice aligns with my beliefs. You are spot on with everything.
The truth of the matter is that even if you try to do all of these things you will just be wasting your time, all in all women are so complicated, it's better to just focus on working on your goals rather than pursuing a woman!
*When both partners feel heard and understood, it builds trust and deepens the connection. Small daily conversations can make all the difference in maintaining a strong relationship.*
@@ModernDatingMastery even that leads nowhere half the time. I communicate often with my spouse and it often causes issues. I think women mostly desire surface to mid-level love. Anything deeper becomes complicated for them.
Man I needed to hear this. The universe has guided me to your channel at the right time. So many things you have said .... in detail .... that my wife has said not as deep. Through this and several other videos of yours, I am able to connect the dots that have been present over time and work on them. Thank you so much.
So true! Well said! Some struggles in a relationship can actually solidify it better! Facing the issues that will pop up in every relationship shows maturity!
Jessica I love your work, first of all, also I've seen a lot of these relationship videos and reading information about it, but it seems like the man has a ton of things they have to do just to maintain a relationship. It seems like it's more than an actual job. Almost seem like men have to be a slave, leader, protector, be stable, and whatever else women need. Only break we get is when we sleep!
I hear you! It can feel like a lot to juggle. The focus of this channel is to build men up in ways that enable them to form healthy relationships with women. It's the reason i focus on what men need to you. You want to lead? It comes with a lot of responsibility.
very enlighting, jessica you are amazing for your knowledge. I myself shall take this knowledge to heart and mind refect on myself and apply all of this video, even though my current marrage is over do to those small cracks and disrespect not having this knowledge and being that emotional leader for her, I will grow and become better with this new understanding. Thank you
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I embrace conflict and advise to embrace differences in opinion. Its an opportunity to learn to communicate. Who better to have a difference of opinion with then someone you care about and someone who cares about you.
While I agree with your list of misconceptions and I also agree that emotional leadership will play an important role in a relationship, you're still missing the two most important factors a happy long term relationship cannot work without, meaning these two come way before emotional leadership. - Genetic compatibility, women can literally smell whether or not a mans genes are compatible to her own, the more compatible they are the better the woman will like the mans natural smell and that's nothing you can influence with parfume or anything, you either have it or you don't. - Bedroom compatibility, as in wanting the same things with the same boundaries same often, another thing you cannot influence with your behavior, you either have it or you don't and if you don't it's a cheating waiting for an opportunity by whichever side has more desires than the other can or wants to fulfill.
@@JessicaOSHi , I got a problem and I need your help, I think I’ve caught feelings for my best friend and seems she has too but I’m scared and we both can’t talk about it….. Please any help? We’ve come a long way I don’t want to lose her 😢
How can you lead when she questions every decision you make. You make decisions even on the small things. What happens when she constantly questions every decision you make? Because you avoid conflict, you given in and go with what she decides.
Be you and have no mask on... Listen to her... Make sure your woman talks more than you and finally bring up the little important information you gathered cause that showed you listen and be creative and busy sometimes
Jessica is Correct💯 This is true, but you have to be the man she has chosen… If not, she would follow an emotional wreck of a man if she chose him while he was playing possum. This is because ladies do not like to be wrong about their choices.. So make sure you were chosen, by sticking to your course as Jessica has mentioned, then emotionally leadership falls into place…
All said & done,also add women don't know what they want that's why the Word of God records deal with her according to knowledge you received from the Lord.Thanks
if she loves you she will accept all the bullshit if she hates you will pull all the tricks and she wont comply until she looses you and screwed from the streets then she realises after 20 diks later so be yourself stop acting
Will Queen can you tell me the number one secret for building with you I'm asking for a friend❤❤❤ this is absolutely fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I used to think like that thank God for change
Is it possible to build a healthy marriage with a wife who hs withdrawn emotionally coz i am broke right now, always criticizing, sexually manipulating me, seriously flirting with other men jess ?
if all of this is happening then she is already checked out. I mean if you are broke then it's a great time to divorce her if you don't have kids already
@@dennismaringa6017 I don't wanna be mean or something, but marrying a single mom was a mistake (there might be a reason why the first guys didn't stick around after a baby), and you deliberately let her mess with your boundaries either through not implementing them or not paying attention. State them clearly, start implementing them, stand up for yourself and say you are my wife and I will not take any of that shit anymore. If she changes good, and if she refuses know that she's probably cheating on you already, so better part ways with her before discovering her in another dude's bedroom/ with another dude in your bedroom. I feel your pain man, hope things work out in the good way possible, peace ✌🏼
Thanks for speaking up your mind Next thing is man up i mean take the courage speak to her when she is happy and tell her the issue. If she lovesyou she will change
Sorry for a commwnt that is not related to Topic of the day.. What does one do in a situation were you were in a 5years reationship and this person decides to Ghost you and you just decide to keep no contact. But there are things he or she knew that you were going to do for them on a certain day e.g (maybe buy them a snicker) do you still buy that snicker and give it to them or you just drop that plan and let them be in their GHOST LAND?
but isn’t safe to safe to say that, when women meet a guy like this it’s too good to be true and they run away? cause I’m that guy or is it because I’m a sigma male?
Why is it always about the women and her feelings and what she wants ? When is it about what guys want ? Like a women that hasn't been ran threw and full of aditude and damaged . I think I will pass the prize is not worth the price of the game .
Great advice but i do all these, i am giving more room for my partner to be lazy... My partner is 100% lazy and even blames our daughter for her laziness. She is of the opinion i provide and she does nothing Yes, i used to allow her dictate my feelings and allow her get the worst of me. Moreso, i found myself talking to much. I just decided to keep mute and create a new world in me for the sake of peace. some WOMEN are very complex and if you allow them, they will drain you!!!
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As a red-pill guy, your teachings really align with my convictions. Women are too complex. I decided not to study women anymore to concentrate on food and beer, and my life as well.
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🤣🤣 I like this guy.
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Correct me if I'm wrong...this advice works perfectly if she also plays her part and is not resentful
I was thinking the same thing, I've been having issues with with my best friend. I could do all these to work things out but she's the manipulative type. I fear that any move I make to resolve it would just give her the power. So I decided to ignore her instead. I'm even willing to walk away for good.
If she is resentful, leave her
If she is resentful you haven't vetted her properly in early stages of dating
Yh .
All this will work only if you are with a partner that also play her part. Is is possible to still lead emotionally and they will still walk away
'if she also plays her part and is not resentful' = she must be in her feminine energy most of the time if not all the time.
Put yourself first, always.
Best tip I can give is…NO tips or tactics will work with the WRONG woman….
ehh, gold diggers and women who want to sue you will pretend to be agreeable to get stuff from you, but their heart isn't actually with you
I don't usually listen to women because I consider myself a red-pilled guy. However, your advice aligns with my beliefs. You are spot on with everything.
The truth of the matter is that even if you try to do all of these things you will just be wasting your time, all in all women are so complicated, it's better to just focus on working on your goals rather than pursuing a woman!
*When both partners feel heard and understood, it builds trust and deepens the connection. Small daily conversations can make all the difference in maintaining a strong relationship.*
@@ModernDatingMastery even that leads nowhere half the time. I communicate often with my spouse and it often causes issues. I think women mostly desire surface to mid-level love. Anything deeper becomes complicated for them.
"If you won't stand up TO me; I can't expect you to stand up FOR me!"
Women constantly test men. Never forget that fact.
Man I needed to hear this. The universe has guided me to your channel at the right time. So many things you have said .... in detail .... that my wife has said not as deep. Through this and several other videos of yours, I am able to connect the dots that have been present over time and work on them. Thank you so much.
So true! Well said! Some struggles in a relationship can actually solidify it better! Facing the issues that will pop up in every relationship shows maturity!
Jessica I love your work, first of all, also I've seen a lot of these relationship videos and reading information about it, but it seems like the man has a ton of things they have to do just to maintain a relationship. It seems like it's more than an actual job. Almost seem like men have to be a slave, leader, protector, be stable, and whatever else women need. Only break we get is when we sleep!
I hear you! It can feel like a lot to juggle. The focus of this channel is to build men up in ways that enable them to form healthy relationships with women. It's the reason i focus on what men need to you. You want to lead? It comes with a lot of responsibility.
Paying attention to her is far better than impressing her. Argue with your phone
Apparently its all about what women want.
This is the truest comment that should be heard more often!!!
dont slmp
Yup
very enlighting, jessica you are amazing for your knowledge. I myself shall take this knowledge to heart and mind refect on myself and apply all of this video, even though my current marrage is over do to those small cracks and disrespect not having this knowledge and being that emotional leader for her, I will grow and become better with this new understanding. Thank you
Needed this! Thank you!
You got this!
Thank you so much for this🙏🙏 Notes ✍️ taken
You’re welcome! I hope they help you 😊
if she loves you she loves you if she dont she dont
Spot on💯🎯🔥
I really insightful and encouraging , i ❤ it. Thanks Jess.
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This is Powerful💯✔️,thank you 🙏🏽
Thanks for listening
I embrace conflict and advise to embrace differences in opinion.
Its an opportunity to learn to communicate.
Who better to have a difference of opinion with then someone you care about and someone who cares about you.
Thank you for your video
While I agree with your list of misconceptions and I also agree that emotional leadership will play an important role in a relationship, you're still missing the two most important factors a happy long term relationship cannot work without, meaning these two come way before emotional leadership.
- Genetic compatibility, women can literally smell whether or not a mans genes are compatible to her own, the more compatible they are the better the woman will like the mans natural smell and that's nothing you can influence with parfume or anything, you either have it or you don't.
- Bedroom compatibility, as in wanting the same things with the same boundaries same often, another thing you cannot influence with your behavior, you either have it or you don't and if you don't it's a cheating waiting for an opportunity by whichever side has more desires than the other can or wants to fulfill.
You can jump the hoops, but if she is a dismissive avoidant she will run for the hills because of you being good to her…
Yes yes.. I completely agree with you.
Thank you Jesica OS. I love your content.
Good stuff.👏👏
Thank you for the love! 🙏
@@JessicaOSHi , I got a problem and I need your help, I think I’ve caught feelings for my best friend and seems she has too but I’m scared and we both can’t talk about it….. Please any help? We’ve come a long way I don’t want to lose her 😢
@@maryhamper7991 Hi, book a call with me here and lets talk: stan.store/JessicaOSGH/p/book-a-11-call-with-me-12z6w
1 and 2 are nuggets, great video all around. Jessica had me cracking up when she said I'm not talking about security where u lock doors at night.
lol
This Is Invaluable
How can you lead when she questions every decision you make. You make decisions even on the small things. What happens when she constantly questions every decision you make? Because you avoid conflict, you given in and go with what she decides.
Okay ooo
We hear you!
We go try😊
Thanks for this😊
You're welcome! 😊
More videos like this would be highly beneficial!!! More how to treat a woman and what they like, ect.
Wise advice! I totally agree!!
Sent by God! Thank you for the advice. Keep up the good work. Blessings 🙌
You're welcome, blessings to you too! 🙏
This is so good and and very classical message that you are passing unto me
God bless you ❤
Thanks for your advice
God bless you
Thank you too
Happy x mas🎉, Jess
This coming from a very beautiful woman, makes it platinum.
Perfect content. Very rich
Spot on & precise nuggets here for those on both sides of the spectrum (including those getting into a relationship or those about to)
Thanks Jess!
I appreciate your time
Be you and have no mask on... Listen to her... Make sure your woman talks more than you and finally bring up the little important information you gathered cause that showed you listen and be creative and busy sometimes
not you describing the end of my current relationship that im desperately holding onto
This is Gold ❤
Where are you from?
I really like the way you express everything
Jessica is Correct💯 This is true, but you have to be the man she has chosen… If not, she would follow an emotional wreck of a man if she chose him while he was playing possum. This is because ladies do not like to be wrong about their choices.. So make sure you were chosen, by sticking to your course as Jessica has mentioned, then emotionally leadership falls into place…
Connection to both being yourself is the key 🔑
I’d love to tell my story, but I doubt there’s enough room in this space!!
Good stuff
Thank you
Welcome!
All said & done,also add women don't know what they want that's why the Word of God records deal with her according to knowledge you received from the Lord.Thanks
God comes first
How can I present my gift, Jess
if she loves you she will accept all the bullshit if she hates you will pull all the tricks and she wont comply until she looses you and screwed from the streets then she realises after 20 diks later so be yourself stop acting
Kudos
Will Queen can you tell me the number one secret for building with you I'm asking for a friend❤❤❤ this is absolutely fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I used to think like that thank God for change
Is it possible to build a healthy marriage with a wife who hs withdrawn emotionally coz i am broke right now, always criticizing, sexually manipulating me, seriously flirting with other men jess ?
if all of this is happening then she is already checked out. I mean if you are broke then it's a great time to divorce her if you don't have kids already
@mostafamahtab7349 met her in 2014 with a son from another man i added her another one she's now 42yrs old
@@dennismaringa6017 I don't wanna be mean or something, but marrying a single mom was a mistake (there might be a reason why the first guys didn't stick around after a baby), and you deliberately let her mess with your boundaries either through not implementing them or not paying attention. State them clearly, start implementing them, stand up for yourself and say you are my wife and I will not take any of that shit anymore. If she changes good, and if she refuses know that she's probably cheating on you already, so better part ways with her before discovering her in another dude's bedroom/ with another dude in your bedroom. I feel your pain man, hope things work out in the good way possible, peace ✌🏼
I don't tk your advice lightly. Thanks man
Thanks for speaking up your mind
Next thing is man up i mean take the courage speak to her when she is happy and tell her the issue.
If she lovesyou she will change
Sorry for a commwnt that is not related to Topic of the day..
What does one do in a situation were you were in a 5years reationship and this person decides to Ghost you and you just decide to keep no contact.
But there are things he or she knew that you were going to do for them on a certain day e.g (maybe buy them a snicker) do you still buy that snicker and give it to them or you just drop that plan and let them be in their GHOST LAND?
@@SRuneli88 you've answered your question already
But I seen a man that practice this but the relationship fail the woman left for a rich guy
I guess she wasn't right for him
I wish love was a professional career, I would cram everything I listen to in your videos,
Why is ur sound faded after advert?
Jessica where are you from, in which part of Africa?
You’re a badass! Thanks 🙏
Wow❤
Jessie i stay in Accra how can i make a rich girl i go to church with to fall for me
WHO DO THEY THINK THEY ARE IS EASY TO BE NASTY THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT THEY ARE ONLY AFTER YOUR MONEY ALWAYS QUIT TALKIN
but isn’t safe to safe to say that, when women meet a guy like this it’s too good to be true and they run away?
cause I’m that guy or is it because I’m a sigma male?
So if first thing is true.... Then she will not mind signing a prenup!
❤
but here’s a real question from my own experience bare in mind I’m only 24: DO GIRLS/WOMEN REALLY JUS WANNA TALK?
Why is it always about the women and her feelings and what she wants ? When is it about what guys want ? Like a women that hasn't been ran threw and full of aditude and damaged . I think I will pass the prize is not worth the price of the game .
Bro go and have a secure skills. Then you never worries for all this drama
Great advice but i do all these, i am giving more room for my partner to be lazy... My partner is 100% lazy and even blames our daughter for her laziness. She is of the opinion i provide and she does nothing
Yes, i used to allow her dictate my feelings and allow her get the worst of me. Moreso, i found myself talking to much.
I just decided to keep mute and create a new world in me for the sake of peace. some WOMEN are very complex and if you allow them, they will drain you!!!
If only Nigerian girls can listen to you. Dt relationship is nt a transaction or poverty alleviation scheme
Im not that mature,what ever you say.
This is why that homeless guy in the Walmart parking lot gets so many women. They have a good personality and give the women attention.
Its easy a masculine man aligns with a feminine woman if she modern she deserves a 50 50 dude get in line with what u need .....
This advice is for 20 year olds
Thank you.
Thank You
You're welcome