What a maturity level they have …. The girl in green sound raw and real she has exposed the harsh reality …. Such issues need a generalised approach .: the girl in green has put it so nicely . I am sure … she will be a very sensible. Citizen… she has lot of capabilities…
When you are from haryana ... You know the girl in the green T-shirt is showing the true picture.... while others are just polishing ....... And talking about expectations (like me ) ...but the majority are facing what she(green one) is (describing......
So, you want to stereotype a whole state on the basis of few cases that you saw 😅...grow up !!! By the way, looking at the increase in number of rape cases every year, age for marriage must be decided by the family only...what has our law and order system delivered so far? Do you feel safe for your sister/daughter in the existing environment? 😢...and the irony of our government is, to be an eligible voter, one must be 18 year old but for marriage, a girl must be atleast 21 😬😬...So basically, even the rules and regulations are framed keeping elections in mind.. nobody cares about ordinary citizens ✋✋..my point is, if the government can not deliver then they should just get out of the way as far as social issues are concerned 🙏.
@@rajeshmalik5254 I am not talking about any politics and any thing like this ...I am just saying these things happen ... I don't know about other states but I know about Haryana and this is the truth I am not saying other states are better or anything but facts should be stated and this is the reality of today also one can't say " No this is not right ..this don't exist just because this my state and one can't talk I'll about it ......".... Truth must be stated .... And it doesn't mean I don't like my state or I want others to say wrong things ....But when you know; you know.
Arre ek do example leke didi ne generalize kr diya. Ye wahi ladkiyan hai jo bina kam ka feminism dikhati hai jaise hariyana me ladkiyon ne bus me ladko ko koot diya tha 😂
Real india lives in villages....so her experiences are true... Similar conditions in my village During my graduation i use to teach in govt school on vacations ....girls who were hardly 14 or 15 got married Some were from muslim community while mostly adivasis
Ji nhi sabhi ladkiya neutral h bas family ka difference hota h ... Green tshirt 👕 vaali ladki bhi bilkul sach bol rhi h but vo cheeze sirf lack of education and thinking ka difference h
@@abhinavsharma2179Acha toh ladkiyo ka upar jana bhi ladko se sahi nahi hai manta hu kisi ko kishi ke niche dabna galat hai par jo tum keh rahe ho toh pehle yeh jaan lo ki ajj is desh me ladkiyo se jada sanskar ladko me hai
The only Green Shirt girl being truthful and explaining things which she actually saw. Other girls just trying to sound Intelligent and mature but they are not..
@@patronam9396 They are pretty avearage GEN_Zs and talking like them. They are not going to suddenly become mature and sensitive to other factor of topics and life (at least in current time). I don't need to research their whole life to understand it. No body needs to..
lol she only saying things which benifit her. No saying about the endless properties and as as possible salary of boy they keep looking for while choosing groom. Why would any rich guy choose a gurl like whom he has getting lots of proposals?? Also she can say she wont marry anyone who asks dowry simple. But such grooms wont be earning significantly more than her so she will deny.
@@shorthand7030brabri nhi kr skte to mar do unhe right?? Are bhai agr itna hi asan hai job lena aur responsibility lena to house husband ka concept kyu nhi hai?? Ldke to taiyar hai pr ek bhi ldki taiyar nhi ho rhi, imagine kro jaise ldke sarkari jobs ke liye 30 ya 35 tk prepare kr rhe hai tumhe lgta hai koi ldki 30 ya 35 tk life de skti hai sarkari job ke liye?? Mtlb sbkuchh chahiye free me,
The green shirt girl is saying correctly, I live in Haryana and notice when a girl's family is not capable to dowry, the boy's family just rejects that relation silently. This green shirt girl tried her best to explain the situation, but at last she became silent. This is the way we make silent "the truth".
बाकी लड़कियां सिर्फ डिप्लोमैटिक बातें कर रही हैं... एक तो बोल रही है दहेज नहीं देते हैं लड़की को समान देते हैं ताकि वो ही उसे इस्तेमाल करें... हरी शर्ट वाली बहन आपको कोटि-कोटि प्रणाम...
First time i feel ashamed of these educated girls who couldn't speak truth abt dowry system in haryana.... They r just trying to portray a better picture but it's all true. I feel proud of this green t shirt girl, she has guts to speak. She was too well off but she spoke for other girls
Hm grib log the meri bhn k liye koi sarkari nokri wala rista nhi aaya sb berojgaro kriste aate the 2018 me sub inspector bni ab uske liye professor teacher doctor k riste aa rhe h phle kyo nhi aaye ye doctor teacher jb ldke bina dhej berojgar se sadi nhi kr skte to job wali ldki berojgar se sadi kyo kre
पत्रकार साहब ऐसे सवाल पूछ रहा है कि पढ़े लिखे लड़कियों की भी दाहेज देना पड़ता है क्या ,जैसे यह मंगल ग्रह से direct आया है. अरे भाई लड़की अगर simple constable बनती है तो शादी करने के लिए कोई बेरोजगार नहीं और नहीं constable, उसे direct ASI चाहिय और तुम भी यहि करोगे पत्रकार.
sirf 1 he ladki ne achhe se bhat ki or sawalo ka bhe seda seda jawab diya jo ki sach hai , baki sab tho diplomatic ans de rehe hai . thumbsup if u agree with me
Lallantop is doing a great job - bringing the unprompted ground level interviews and information. I hope it will encourage women to be more independent
Ek hi sherni he❤❤❤baki bichari sanskar bacha rhihe Jo bach nhi pa rhe😅...the truth is ki abhibi balvihah bhi he and dahej bhi he😅... ladkiya padhate he but dahej dena pdta he vrna shadi hoti hi nhihe ...ldke magte nhihe pr dahej nhi denge to reject kr denge ldkiko ...ldkike papaa ko lgta he ladki padhi he to pdha likha ldka mil jaye aur pdha likha ldka dajej ke bina shadi nhi krta ...jaise taise ho bhi gyi to shadi ke bad diggat hi diggat he isliye pehelese hi dahej de dete ki ldkiko sunna na pde badme ....ab kuch log offend ho jayege😂bichare hidden sanskari mmy ke lal
Achi baat hai ki woh galat ke khiladiyon awaz utha rahi hai par ek stree ka yahi dhram hota ki apne gharwalo ke samman ki raksha kare or gharwalo ki stree ki rakhsa kare
माता पिता अपने सपने बच्चों पर क्यों थोप देते हैं, जो मैं नहीं कर पाया वो ये करेंगे, जिसको जैसा समझ में आता है वह वैसा ही करेगा, हर इंसान अलग अलग होता हैं,हर किसी की क्षमताए अलग अलग होती हैं
दीदी बिल्कुल सही बोल रही है मेरी भी शादी होने वाली है और जो मेरी बीवी बनने वाली है उसकी उम्र केवल 15 साल है सातवीं कक्षा में पढ़ती है मैं बीएससी कर रहा हूं आने वाले नवंबर में भाई के साथ मेरी शादी होने वाली है मुझे बड़ा दुख होता है मैं अकेला रोता हूं पर अफसोस किसी से कुछ कह नहीं सकता शादी के लिए जोकर्ज होगा उसके लिए घर वालों ने पहले ही बोल दिया है शादी के बाद मुझे कमाना पड़ेगा शायद इसी तरह मैं भी इस गरीबी के कुचक्र में फंस जाऊंगा हम दोनो की जिंदगी शायद ऐसे ही बर्बाद होने बाली है please आप लोग मुझे कुछ सलाह दे😢😢😢😢😢
शादी करने से मना कर दे और कोई नोकरी या part time job कर , और अपनी कमई का उपयोग खुद पर कर , कोई exam की तयारी कर या खुद का काम शुरू कर , अगर शादी से पहले खुद के मेहनत से पैसा कमाकर खुद पर सही चीज के लिए खर्च करेगा तो कोई नही रोकेगा , कोशिश कर भाई
@@sanjuBaba-rd2ku इतना आसान नहीं है भाई मना करना, और तैयारी तो मैं कर रहा हूं 2nd grade teacher की लेकिन अभी वेकेंसी नहीं है और एक महीने बाद शादी है मेरा पास बहुत कम टाइम है
अगर दहेज लेना गलत है तो..?? 1) लङके की सरकारी नौकरी कमाई देख के ही लङकी देना भी गलत है ..जब तक नौकरी नही लगती शादी की Date नही निकलती. 2) लङकी 10 लाख दहेज लाये ..पर जब तलाक हो तो लङका जिंदगी भर उसको गुजारा भत्ता देता है जो 10 लाख से कई ज्यादा है .!
Ladke ko alimony na Dene pe jala kar mara nahi jata .....ladka bhi alimony claim kar sakta hai ladke ke pass nukri nahi hai to ...or ek baar is pe apne aas paas dekho kitne logo ki Saadi Hui or kitne logo ka divorce aaye bade or tum jo sarkari naukari wali baat kar rahe ho ....vo sab ke pass nahi or jinke pass he unko bhi ek qualified maid chahiye apne ghar ke liye ....or itne hi dikkat hai to le aao naukari karne wale bahu or apne maa baap ka khyal kud rakho or bahu apne maa baap ka khyal rakhe or kya 2000s me jab bahu naukri karne ko bolti thi to vo saas bete ke kaan bhar kar us bahu ke khilaaf bhadkati thi or ye saari baate ladko ki maa or ladkiyo ki maa dono pe lagu hoti hai damad chahiye Ram jesa or beta agar bahu ke saath thoda kam bhi karvale to haae haae karne lagti hai ye inlaws ......
@@AnushkaSingh-uq2uu kyun apne mayake me kaam na kare kya......aur agar nhi kaam karna to vaisa ghar dudho ya bahar naukrei karo......tum mat naukrani bano apni saans se karao seva apni lathsahab
राजस्थान और हरियाणा में लड़कियां की कमी है इसलिए छोटी उम्र में लड़कियों की शादी फैमिली के रिश्तेदार के रिश्तेदारों की फैमिली में कर देते हैं छोरा कुंवारा न रह जाए 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I am from harayana, and all are saying about green clr t-shirt girl, but I am sure that all are saying truth , not only green but all are right, it all depends on family to family, things are getting change, much better now, Sari chize h, kuch jldi kr de rhe h, but reason b to suno
लड़का जब सरकारी नौकरी वाला ही चाहिए तो दहेज तो देना पड़ेगा समाज मे बेरोजगार लड़के को जब कोई पूछता नही है और जब वही लड़का रोजगार वाला हो जाय तो समझ लेना फैज़ल😂😂😂😂 सबका बदला लेगा
@@AM-nx2iw बिल्कुल सही बात कहा आपने वही तो मैं कह रहा हु,जब या तो सरकारी लड़का चाहिए,या पुस्तैनी दौलत वाला मतलब गरीब लड़का तो बिल्कुल नही चाहिए तो कीमत तो देनी होगी,आखिर खास डिमांड किया है तो कीमत तो होगी
@@pushkalkumar6316 barabri wale case mein bhi dahej lete hain bhai jaake dekh ladki to ghar ke kaam ki jimmedari purikrlegi jaydad wale ke case mein lekin aisa ladka kahi kuch krne wala nhi hota sirf kheton ke theke par chaudhary bnta hain
Aisa h k ladke ladki ko pehle hi sab bat kr Leni chahiye..alag ghr me b rehne chahiye..ghr pas me ho ma baap k..agr ladki city me h to ladka pehle hi writen me sb krwa le k kitna ma ko dena h..vasiyat b bna le...aur ma baap b apni property se jo dena chahe ladki ko wo bta de...na dena ho to wo b bta de .. dono sasural Wale b bta de k ek log mar gaye to property me kya denge...sab pehle hi contract bna lo .aaz kal yehi sahi h..apne apne maa baap ki sewa b kro jb tym mile
Bhai ager uske paas rupye hee nhi honge to Ghar ka kharcha kasse chalega ?, aaj to sala Pani bhi rupye ka milta h 👍, bhai Tum apna pyaar ghar lekar aate ho nhi ki koi Mashin 👍
Ladkiya jaldi mature hoti hai you can see here, but the girl in green is way mature in years. She is speaking truth from experience. Maybe the other girls have previliged and progressive parents and the girl in green doesn’t. Or maybe she is just an empath feeling bad for her friends who had to marry while she is studying. Feel bad that she was sidelined in the end. The reporter was also keen on painting a good picture. I wishh all the best to that girl in green. To all girls too but especially that one. Now go and ask the same question to guys that age. You will see how privileged they are and not a care in the world coddled as a boy child by indian parents
Ladaki ne sachi baat kahi....10 kar li...bahut padai kar li...Karo shadi.... school college Jane se phle Ghar ka kaam karke jao...shaam ko khana banao.... itni fast training kyun for....jaldi training jaldi byaah
Meri mosi haryana me byahi h or february m unki beti ki shadi thi unhone bola ki ladkevwlo ki koi demand nhi h pr dena to pdega 30- 40 lakh ka dahej diya h ladkevalo ko ac tv fridge washing machine bike kapde sona jewellery bartan chimney geyser sab kuch or ladki padhi likhi h bsc and msc in zoology or ladka ba pass or kapde ki shop h 😅
दहेज लेना बुरी बात है, लेकिन लड़की वाले भी पहले पूछते हैं लड़का कितना कमाता है ,सरकारी नौकरी की बहुत मांग होती है, लड़को का भी दर्द दिखाया करिए। ये भी तो अटल सत्य है।
Kyuki sarkari naukri mei security h. Ladka ladki ke ghr rehne nhi aata h , ldki jaate h ldke ke ghr rehne k liye shaadi ke baad. Toh yeh toh puchna hi pdega wo kitna kma ra h. Kal ko agr kuch nhi kamaega toh ghr kharch kaise chlega. Secondly ab kuch budhijeevi log kahenge ladki bi toh kma skti hai, bilkul kma skti h aur aaj ke time mei kmati bi hai. Lkin yeh param satay h ki ghar grihsti mei jitna samay aurat ko dena pdta hai utna aadmi ko nhi dena pdta. Agr sirf aurat ki eklauti kmane wli hogi, toh jb aage jaake parivaar bdhega us parivar ki dekh bhal kon krega. Aur chlo maan liya pita dekhbhal bi krlega , lkin pregnancy ka time hai uske baad ka time hai aise mei kon kaam krega?
@@BhaktarajPal dahej ko sahi nhi bta rhi mai, dahej samaj ko peechle kheenchne wali prampara. Mera jawab us baat ke liye tha ki ldki wle bi sarkari naukri puchte h
I am feeling shameless as an NCC cadet. ... Ye bat khul kr nai rkh pa rhe. Green tshirt wali Le ki ko chor kr ... Apna dekh rhe ... Macro level pr bat kro n
My story: mere Di ki shadi honi thi mere papa ke dost ke ladke se ...my di meet him and they are in relation last 5 year ... once my father said..ham dahej nahi dege hamare pass payesa nahi hai ..sara payesa bachho ke padhai me laga diya hai ....from that day ...they stop talking and said. Shadi nahi hogi ... after 1year later my Di cleared NEET exam and get good government medical college and she became first female to clear neet in our community and around the village....my di still in relationship with him ...when she cleared boy called to my father and said sorry and there family came our house for Rista... still my parents taking loan for marriage....and for gift and dahej ...when i said my mother why are you giving. All these stuff...she said ..if we not give them ..they poke, maybe be disrespect us ..or say something to my sister .... Truly they are not want to give but they are bounded..this is Dark Reality of Today's Marriage (UP). I am against all this ..even i fight with my family for this. Still i can't stop them.
Sirf ek larki me guts hai sach bolne ki...proud of you sister
Correct bola ekdum 🙃🙃🙃
इसका भी हाल vineesh फोकट होला होगा 😂😂😂😂
Same feeling 😊
Sach to sabhi ladkio ne bola
@@Foodveda_ 100 mei se 3% ki khani sunane ko sach nahi bolte 😂
Jo 97%ke saath ho raha hai ussey batana sach hota hai
What a maturity level they have …. The girl in green sound raw and real she has exposed the harsh reality …. Such issues need a generalised approach .: the girl in green has put it so nicely . I am sure … she will be a very sensible. Citizen… she has lot of capabilities…
Very talented girl's ❤
When you are from haryana ... You know the girl in the green T-shirt is showing the true picture.... while others are just polishing ....... And talking about expectations (like me ) ...but the majority are facing what she(green one) is (describing......
she is saying what you want to hear and believe.
@@AbsolutezeroK0 she is saying what I saw
So, you want to stereotype a whole state on the basis of few cases that you saw 😅...grow up !!! By the way, looking at the increase in number of rape cases every year, age for marriage must be decided by the family only...what has our law and order system delivered so far? Do you feel safe for your sister/daughter in the existing environment? 😢...and the irony of our government is, to be an eligible voter, one must be 18 year old but for marriage, a girl must be atleast 21 😬😬...So basically, even the rules and regulations are framed keeping elections in mind.. nobody cares about ordinary citizens ✋✋..my point is, if the government can not deliver then they should just get out of the way as far as social issues are concerned 🙏.
@@rajeshmalik5254 I am not talking about any politics and any thing like this ...I am just saying these things happen ... I don't know about other states but I know about Haryana and this is the truth I am not saying other states are better or anything but facts should be stated and this is the reality of today also one can't say " No this is not right ..this don't exist just because this my state and one can't talk I'll about it ......".... Truth must be stated .... And it doesn't mean I don't like my state or I want others to say wrong things ....But when you know; you know.
Not just haryana , u.p , m.p , Bihar m bhi same situation h
Green tshirt Real Brave Girl 🔥🔥 Sigma Female 💀💀
😂😂
Great 👍
100%
😂😂😂☠️
Bhai Aisa hota h lekin bhot kam hota aur iski vjh ye h ki vo padhai p dhyan naa dekar ishqbaazi k chakar me fass jaati h to Aisa Krna pdta h
Green colour की टी शर्ट वाली लड़की एक मात्र ईमानदारी से बात कर रही हैं
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Bhai Aisa hota h lekin bhot kam hota aur iski vjh ye h ki vo padhai p dhyan naa dekar ishqbaazi k chakar me fass jaati h to Aisa Krna pdta h
Sahi baat baaki Sab Jhooth aur cover kar rahi 😊
Assa bhi nhi h accha padne vaalo k saath bhi hota h
Green वाली को यही पता नहीं 18 और 80 मे अंतर है
पढ़ाई में जीरो है
ऐसी लड़कियां घर वालों से भी बाहर होती है
1 लड़की सच बता रही है और अन्य लड़कियां उसका confidance गिराने में लगी हुई हैं.....हमने तो नहीं देखा आज तक ऐसा कहीं
भाई जो सोच रहे हो वैसा नहीं है
@@pradeepsaharan9165Sch bol rhi h ye ldki all india rural area me yhi haal hai 18 sal ki ldkiyon k to 2-2 bche ho jate h
Bete....baaki ki ladkiya ..uusee jydaa samajdar hAii
Arre ek do example leke didi ne generalize kr diya. Ye wahi ladkiyan hai jo bina kam ka feminism dikhati hai jaise hariyana me ladkiyon ne bus me ladko ko koot diya tha 😂
🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️Sach toh baki ladkiyo ne bhi bola
Real india lives in villages....so her experiences are true...
Similar conditions in my village
During my graduation i use to teach in govt school on vacations ....girls who were hardly 14 or 15 got married
Some were from muslim community while mostly adivasis
Mere yaha to ladkiya 30 ...35 mae karti aur physical relationship chalta rahta hai 😂😂😂😂 kalyug hai
Adivasi in my locality they rarely marry they mostly live relationship
@@importantquotes-ss8hd Ha pr sb aise ni hote strict family v hoti hai😊
Ye ladki bhai.. jabardast.. baki ladkiya to sanskari bechari apne sanskaro ko bachane me lagi hai
Dahej kabse sanskaar hai. Mardo ke neeche dabna sanaskaar hai ?
Ji nhi sabhi ladkiya neutral h bas family ka difference hota h ... Green tshirt 👕 vaali ladki bhi bilkul sach bol rhi h but vo cheeze sirf lack of education and thinking ka difference h
Dahej Sanskar hai ya nhi, pucho brahman se 😂
@@abhinavsharma2179
Sanskar?
@@abhinavsharma2179Acha toh ladkiyo ka upar jana bhi ladko se sahi nahi hai manta hu kisi ko kishi ke niche dabna galat hai par jo tum keh rahe ho toh pehle yeh jaan lo ki ajj is desh me ladkiyo se jada sanskar ladko me hai
The only Green Shirt girl being truthful and explaining things which she actually saw. Other girls just trying to sound Intelligent and mature but they are not..
No need to out down other women dude.. Ek interview se u judged all those women
@@patronam9396 They are pretty avearage GEN_Zs and talking like them. They are not going to suddenly become mature and sensitive to other factor of topics and life (at least in current time). I don't need to research their whole life to understand it. No body needs to..
Right 👍
lol she only saying things which benifit her.
No saying about the endless properties and as as possible salary of boy they keep looking for while choosing groom.
Why would any rich guy choose a gurl like whom he has getting lots of proposals??
Also she can say she wont marry anyone who asks dowry simple. But such grooms wont be earning significantly more than her so she will deny.
Green T - Shirt girl is Sigma girl...... 😎😎😎😎😎
Confidence of haryana girls is on another level❤❤
specially village girls
That green tshirt girl is such a pure , presenting truth !
Ek hi ladki sach bol rhi h... Haryana ki sacchai bta rhi hai
ohh bhai sari sach bole h family ka difference h bs aaya bda sachai ki kehn aala
सिर्फ हरी वाली लड़की में साहस है, सच बोलने का। मुझे गर्व है , उस बेटी पर।
Green t-shirt wali straightforward bat kar rahi banki sab lipapoti kar rahi ekdam diplomatic jawab de rahi
green vali katai zahar h, society ki sari pol patti khol rhi h 😂
Green वाली लड़की को सैल्यूट है 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Simp
The girl in green has seen the world, others have only read books!!
This girl have a lot of courage
She can confornt each and every thing
She is saying true harsh reality in some places
5:30 fridge, bed washing machine सिर्फ उनकी लड़की use करेगी और ससुराल में कोई नहीं, what a logic
Green tshirt bali girl ko chhodkar baki sab smart ban n e ki koshish kar rhi h
😂😂fadu
सही बात है ऐसा ही होता है
😂😂
Bro yeh whatsaap university waale bacche hai 😂😂😂😂inka IQ itna hi level tak jata hai 😂😂😂😂
green t shirt वाली बहन सही बोल रही है सच्चाई।
Haryanvi language me confidance to hai bachi ka interview sabse best laga
भाई ये सिर्फ हरियाणा में ही नहीं हर जगह यही हाल हैं, महाराष्ट्र में
शिपाई से लेकर कलेक्टर तक सबके रेट अलग अलग हैं भाई 😢
Sabki usi rate se thukai bhi honi zaruri hai phir
15000 की नौकरी वाले लड़के को कोई दाहेज नहीं मिलता. अगर सरकारी नौकरी वाला चाहिए तो भरना भी पड़ेगा एंट्री फीस.
@@shorthand7030brabri nhi kr skte to mar do unhe right?? Are bhai agr itna hi asan hai job lena aur responsibility lena to house husband ka concept kyu nhi hai?? Ldke to taiyar hai pr ek bhi ldki taiyar nhi ho rhi, imagine kro jaise ldke sarkari jobs ke liye 30 ya 35 tk prepare kr rhe hai tumhe lgta hai koi ldki 30 ya 35 tk life de skti hai sarkari job ke liye?? Mtlb sbkuchh chahiye free me,
@@AFA111 kisne kaha nahi milta? berojgar bhi dahej lete hai, maine dekha hia madhya pradesh me,
@@AFA111good agar problem h to mat karo sadi
The green shirt girl is saying correctly, I live in Haryana and notice when a girl's family is not capable to dowry, the boy's family just rejects that relation silently. This green shirt girl tried her best to explain the situation, but at last she became silent. This is the way we make silent "the truth".
हरियाणा में बहुत लड़को की शादी ही नहीं हो रही , क्योंकि वो बेरोजगार है , इसीलिए लड़कियों को अधिक choise मिल रही है
Har jagah ka yahi hai success ho gye tab to 24
..25 tak shadi nhi to 30 ...35mae kisi aur ki gf se shadi yahi sach hai baki sab Gyan dete rahte hai
In ladkiyon k bhai dahej lete h 😂
😂😂😂
Ladkiya bhi bina property salary dekhe shadi nhi karegi koi😂😂😂😂😂
@@importantquotes-ss8hdAra Bhai hum Tera ko moka de rha hai tu Kara Dena aapni behan aur beti ki ek gareeb londa se 😂
@@stutikhanna987 तुम कर लो
haha
Dahej shaadi ki BAAT to thik h,but hame to sister ki haryanwi sunkar maja aa gaya
सबसे पहले तो जो लड़की हरी शर्ट में है उसे मेरा सलाम... बहुत ही बहादुर हो तुम बहन... समाज की सच्ची बिना हिचकिचाए सीधे शब्दों में तुमने रख दी...
बाकी लड़कियां सिर्फ डिप्लोमैटिक बातें कर रही हैं... एक तो बोल रही है दहेज नहीं देते हैं लड़की को समान देते हैं ताकि वो ही उसे इस्तेमाल करें... हरी शर्ट वाली बहन आपको कोटि-कोटि प्रणाम...
By watching this video I can say India is progressing. The thoughts and mentality of the current and previous generations are also progressing.
the green shirt girl is very brave....hats off to you girl....go ahead in your life, best wishes👍👍👍
True ! Hota h abhi bhi but mostly in poor or lower middle classes.
0:30 she is the bravest among them ,
I am a proud brother of my little sister ❤
Girl in green is brave... while other girls are just trying to be cute
all girls are saying truth ..they just have different opinions
First time i feel ashamed of these educated girls who couldn't speak truth abt dowry system in haryana.... They r just trying to portray a better picture but it's all true. I feel proud of this green t shirt girl, she has guts to speak. She was too well off but she spoke for other girls
Boys ke bhi interview liya karo sahab
Society ke hisaab se ladkon pe kabhi atyaachaar aur pressure nahi hota..ye sab sehna unki zimmedari hai.
Society mujhe lagta hai ki ladkiyo par koi atychar nahi hota
ज्यादा लोग जरूरी नहीं की हमेशा सही हो इसका सबसे अच्छा उदाहरण है
Wo sabhi pita jo apne baccho ko padhate unko koti koti naman
The attitude and flow of speech, fabulous....!
girl with flowers shirt is actually spitting facts. awesome !
one real is better than 100 fakes.❤❤proud of you 👏sis..............
Green shirt girl right and brave
the confidence they display on camera is commendable.
एक लड़की को यदि सरकारी नौकरी लग जाए तो वह किसी भी हाल में एक बेरोजगार लड़के से शादी नहीं कर सकती
That's biology
Hm grib log the meri bhn k liye koi sarkari nokri wala rista nhi aaya sb berojgaro kriste aate the 2018 me sub inspector bni ab uske liye professor teacher doctor k riste aa rhe h phle kyo nhi aaye ye doctor teacher jb ldke bina dhej berojgar se sadi nhi kr skte to job wali ldki berojgar se sadi kyo kre
तो अपनी बहन का बेरोजगार से करवा दो। तब न जाने तुम ये सब नहीं देखती😅😅
@@pinku_124 ये तो है लेकिन लड़का नौकरी वाला हो फिर भी बेरोजगार लड़की से शादी कर लेगा।
@@Pinkisuthar158sarkari nokri ka rishta k lia dahej v moti deni padti wo socho.. kamse kam bach gayi ab
Boss Lady in Green Shirt is spitting Facts..😎😎
Only green girl ne asli sachai dikhayi puri ek dum sahi baat boli shidhi baat no bakwaas baaki sari ladkiya to ab 😂😂
Only green 💚 girl has amazing thought otherwise all Papa's pari type
Truth alone Triumphs, kudos to girl in green, satyamev jayate
पत्रकार साहब ऐसे सवाल पूछ रहा है कि पढ़े लिखे लड़कियों की भी दाहेज देना पड़ता है क्या ,जैसे यह मंगल ग्रह से direct आया है.
अरे भाई लड़की अगर simple constable बनती है तो शादी करने के लिए कोई बेरोजगार नहीं और नहीं constable, उसे direct ASI चाहिय और तुम भी यहि करोगे पत्रकार.
😂 bilkul sahi baat 💯🔥
भाई आजकल तो पति की कमाई से पढ़ लिख कर नौकरी लगे तो बीवी पति को ही छोड़ दे रही है , इस बारे में भी पूछना चाहिए पत्रकार साहब को😂😂
to is hisab se sarkari naukri walo ko randua marna chahiye
@armyot7508or jab ladki harrsment karti ho yeh bolkar ki jhuta case kar dungi or jhote dowry ke case kar deti hai
1:40 बताओ भाई 😂😂 हरवानवी लड़की सच ओर संस्कारों के साथ ❤❤❤❤❤
sirf 1 he ladki ne achhe se bhat ki or sawalo ka bhe seda seda jawab diya jo ki sach hai , baki sab tho diplomatic ans de rehe hai .
thumbsup if u agree with me
Ye teen titliya kisi or duniya ki lgti h bcz dehej ek sacchai h
😂
Or alimony leagal sacchai hai but dehaj illegal
To sadhi ke vqt ldke ki job kyu dekhte ho
To sadi ke baad naukrani kyu banate ho nahi banao nahi naukri dekhegi@@Viratians-l6d
Haryanavi ladkiyo ko salam❤
लड़कियों कि नोलीज अच्छी है बातो से लग रहा अपने भविष्य को लेकर काफी सीरयस है भगवान इनका भविष्य उज्ज्वल करें
Girl with green t shirt...save her at any cost...❤
❤
U save urself shaquib 😂
Lallantop is doing a great job - bringing the unprompted ground level interviews and information. I hope it will encourage women to be more independent
Ek hi sherni he❤❤❤baki bichari sanskar bacha rhihe Jo bach nhi pa rhe😅...the truth is ki abhibi balvihah bhi he and dahej bhi he😅... ladkiya padhate he but dahej dena pdta he vrna shadi hoti hi nhihe ...ldke magte nhihe pr dahej nhi denge to reject kr denge ldkiko ...ldkike papaa ko lgta he ladki padhi he to pdha likha ldka mil jaye aur pdha likha ldka dajej ke bina shadi nhi krta ...jaise taise ho bhi gyi to shadi ke bad diggat hi diggat he isliye pehelese hi dahej de dete ki ldkiko sunna na pde badme ....ab kuch log offend ho jayege😂bichare hidden sanskari mmy ke lal
दहेज legalise hoga bh@dwe abhi भी है बोल कर क्या साबित करना चाहते हो ।।
होगा ही , दहेज को proper framework bnai जाएगी
दहेज legalise hoga bh@dwe abhi भी है बोल कर क्या साबित करना चाहते हो ।।
होगा ही , दहेज को proper framework bnai जाएगी
Achi baat hai ki woh galat ke khiladiyon awaz utha rahi hai par ek stree ka yahi dhram hota ki apne gharwalo ke samman ki raksha kare or gharwalo ki stree ki rakhsa kare
1 percent hi sahi kisi ne to sach bolne ki himmat to ki. God gives you more and more bravery
Salute है प्यारी बहनों को नए भारत की नई सोच ❤
Kash single log bhi child adopt kar pate 😢
every girl sounds so clear.
माता पिता अपने सपने बच्चों पर क्यों थोप देते हैं, जो मैं नहीं कर पाया वो ये करेंगे, जिसको जैसा समझ में आता है वह वैसा ही करेगा, हर इंसान अलग अलग होता हैं,हर किसी की क्षमताए अलग अलग होती हैं
Her heryanvi is so cute😂
Abhi bhi aisa hota hai ye sachi hai
Desh ki Beti
Green t shirt girl is really brave and showing mirror to the society
❤
6:30 ये जरूरी नहीं है की सिर्फ पढ़े लिखे पैरेंट्स ही आपने बच्चो को पढ़ाते है,
Sir , thankue...
Thankue...to all your team members
Haryana wale logye kitna clear bolte word to word full sentence without nay break...noice!
kudos to all fathers who supports their child
4 log kya bolenge ye wahi log bai aur Akeli ladki sabka samna kar rahi hai ❤❤❤
Green shirt wali Tanu weds Manu 2 wali Kangna and other 1 wali 😂😂
Green shirt girl real brave
Straight forward sach bola green dress vali ladki ne ......
दीदी बिल्कुल सही बोल रही है मेरी भी शादी होने वाली है और जो मेरी बीवी बनने वाली है उसकी उम्र केवल 15 साल है सातवीं कक्षा में पढ़ती है मैं बीएससी कर रहा हूं आने वाले नवंबर में भाई के साथ मेरी शादी होने वाली है मुझे बड़ा दुख होता है मैं अकेला रोता हूं पर अफसोस किसी से कुछ कह नहीं सकता शादी के लिए जोकर्ज होगा उसके लिए घर वालों ने पहले ही बोल दिया है शादी के बाद मुझे कमाना पड़ेगा शायद इसी तरह मैं भी इस गरीबी के कुचक्र में फंस जाऊंगा
हम दोनो की जिंदगी शायद ऐसे ही बर्बाद होने बाली है please आप लोग मुझे कुछ सलाह दे😢😢😢😢😢
शादी करने से मना कर दे और कोई नोकरी या part time job कर , और अपनी कमई का उपयोग खुद पर कर , कोई exam की तयारी कर या खुद का काम शुरू कर , अगर शादी से पहले खुद के मेहनत से पैसा कमाकर खुद पर सही चीज के लिए खर्च करेगा तो कोई नही रोकेगा , कोशिश कर भाई
Ghar chodke bhai kamane chala Jaa
@@sanjuBaba-rd2ku इतना आसान नहीं है भाई मना करना, और तैयारी तो मैं कर रहा हूं 2nd grade teacher की लेकिन अभी वेकेंसी नहीं है और एक महीने बाद शादी है
मेरा पास बहुत कम टाइम है
@@Gaurav-xu8lo फिर पढ़ाई का क्या होगा
Mai green t shirt wali ladki ke saath hun aise hi rahna bahan 💯🫡🫡
छोरी नै पढाई के साथ साथ समाजिक ज्ञान भी बढिया है
Green t shirt girl was right 👍
The accent😂
अगर दहेज लेना गलत है तो..??
1) लङके की सरकारी नौकरी कमाई देख के ही लङकी देना भी गलत है ..जब तक नौकरी नही लगती शादी की Date नही निकलती.
2) लङकी 10 लाख दहेज लाये ..पर जब तलाक हो तो लङका जिंदगी भर उसको गुजारा भत्ता देता है जो 10 लाख से कई ज्यादा है .!
Achha तो फिर dhej ke bad fir baitha ke khana diya kare to kam ku karate hai ( dhej bhi chahiye+ naukarani bhi chahiye )
Ladke ko alimony na Dene pe jala kar mara nahi jata .....ladka bhi alimony claim kar sakta hai ladke ke pass nukri nahi hai to ...or ek baar is pe apne aas paas dekho kitne logo ki Saadi Hui or kitne logo ka divorce aaye bade or tum jo sarkari naukari wali baat kar rahe ho ....vo sab ke pass nahi or jinke pass he unko bhi ek qualified maid chahiye apne ghar ke liye ....or itne hi dikkat hai to le aao naukari karne wale bahu or apne maa baap ka khyal kud rakho or bahu apne maa baap ka khyal rakhe or kya 2000s me jab bahu naukri karne ko bolti thi to vo saas bete ke kaan bhar kar us bahu ke khilaaf bhadkati thi or ye saari baate ladko ki maa or ladkiyo ki maa dono pe lagu hoti hai damad chahiye Ram jesa or beta agar bahu ke saath thoda kam bhi karvale to haae haae karne lagti hai ye inlaws ......
@@AnushkaSingh-uq2uu tumko bhi top 10 % amir chahiye top wala
Koi chaprasi tumhe pasand nahi ata
@@AnushkaSingh-uq2uu kyun apne mayake me kaam na kare kya......aur agar nhi kaam karna to vaisa ghar dudho ya bahar naukrei karo......tum mat naukrani bano apni saans se karao seva apni lathsahab
Bilkul shi bahi
राजस्थान और हरियाणा में लड़कियां की कमी है इसलिए छोटी उम्र में लड़कियों की शादी फैमिली के रिश्तेदार के रिश्तेदारों की फैमिली में कर देते हैं छोरा कुंवारा न रह जाए 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Bohot galat hai yeh isliye nahi ki shadi huyi isliye ki unko bacho ko pata hi nahi ki shadi hoti kya hai or unki shadi kara di
बहुत अच्छी बातचीत 👌🏻✨✨✨
I am from harayana, and all are saying about green clr t-shirt girl, but I am sure that all are saying truth , not only green but all are right, it all depends on family to family, things are getting change, much better now, Sari chize h, kuch jldi kr de rhe h, but reason b to suno
True
Agr...ldke vale direct hi dowry mange to reject kro...or ldki agr govt job m nhi h...wo bhi govt job wala ldka mange to use bhi reject kro....😮😮😮
Ye thk h
लड़का जब सरकारी नौकरी वाला ही चाहिए तो दहेज तो देना पड़ेगा
समाज मे बेरोजगार लड़के को जब कोई पूछता नही है और जब वही लड़का रोजगार वाला हो जाय तो
समझ लेना
फैज़ल😂😂😂😂 सबका बदला लेगा
Pushteni jamin ke balbute bhi nakara ladko ki demand hoti hain fortuner ki haryana mein
@@AM-nx2iw
बिल्कुल सही बात कहा आपने
वही तो मैं कह रहा हु,जब या तो सरकारी लड़का चाहिए,या पुस्तैनी दौलत वाला
मतलब गरीब लड़का तो बिल्कुल नही चाहिए तो कीमत तो देनी होगी,आखिर खास डिमांड किया है तो कीमत तो होगी
Achaa bhikari
Phir ladki apna ghr chd kr aaye ,bachee paida kre ,ghr ka kaam kre ,tere parivar ka dhyaan rakhee
Tb kaha mr jate ho 😂😂
@@pushkalkumar6316 barabri wale case mein bhi dahej lete hain bhai jaake dekh
ladki to ghar ke kaam ki jimmedari purikrlegi jaydad wale ke case mein lekin aisa ladka kahi kuch krne wala nhi hota sirf kheton ke theke par chaudhary bnta hain
@@AM-nx2iw
फिर मत दो दहेज
क्या तुम्हारे पापा ,दादा ने नही लिया था दहेज
चौधरी तो तू बन रहा है
समाज मे बदलाव चाहिए और अपना स्वार्थ भी चाहिए
She sounds like geniune
लड़की वाले पहले लड़के को देखेंne se पहले संपति लड़के का बैकग्राउंड हसियात देखा जाता है तो दहेज गलत कैसे 😂😂😂😂😂
Aisa h k ladke ladki ko pehle hi sab bat kr Leni chahiye..alag ghr me b rehne chahiye..ghr pas me ho ma baap k..agr ladki city me h to ladka pehle hi writen me sb krwa le k kitna ma ko dena h..vasiyat b bna le...aur ma baap b apni property se jo dena chahe ladki ko wo bta de...na dena ho to wo b bta de .. dono sasural Wale b bta de k ek log mar gaye to property me kya denge...sab pehle hi contract bna lo .aaz kal yehi sahi h..apne apne maa baap ki sewa b kro jb tym mile
Bhai ager uske paas rupye hee nhi honge to Ghar ka kharcha kasse chalega ?, aaj to sala Pani bhi rupye ka milta h 👍, bhai Tum apna pyaar ghar lekar aate ho nhi ki koi Mashin 👍
Ladake bhi sundarata kaam kaji gharelu guni dhundhate h
Dahej lele tu pr fir usse Kam Mt krvana Ghar ke bachhe Mt palvana na paaida krvana na ma bap ki seva krvanaa smza bete
@@humananchalye bhi hai
judde wali ladki so brave and confident🦁🦁🦁
Education is necessary for everyone ❤❤
Social issue is serious, but that side the Haryanavi accent of the girl on theright 😍
शादी की जो उम्र तय किए जा चुके है उससे निचे जो लोग मजनू गिरि कर रहें है उसे भी पनिशमेंट ऑफिसेंस कैटोगेरी में लाना चाहिए
Ladkiya jaldi mature hoti hai you can see here, but the girl in green is way mature in years. She is speaking truth from experience. Maybe the other girls have previliged and progressive parents and the girl in green doesn’t. Or maybe she is just an empath feeling bad for her friends who had to marry while she is studying. Feel bad that she was sidelined in the end. The reporter was also keen on painting a good picture. I wishh all the best to that girl in green. To all girls too but especially that one. Now go and ask the same question to guys that age. You will see how privileged they are and not a care in the world coddled as a boy child by indian parents
Mene bhi dekha 1 mandap main 3 logo ki shadi agr ladki ki age km h to vo apni age puri hone ke baad jati h pati ke ghr baki sb chali jati h
To bhai police ko phone kyu nahi kiya ushi time
Girl in green 💚 good very good confidently speak the truth
Ladaki ne sachi baat kahi....10 kar li...bahut padai kar li...Karo shadi.... school college Jane se phle Ghar ka kaam karke jao...shaam ko khana banao.... itni fast training kyun for....jaldi training jaldi byaah
She is a respected women 😊
Green T-shirt girl very seriously .
Meri mosi haryana me byahi h or february m unki beti ki shadi thi unhone bola ki ladkevwlo ki koi demand nhi h pr dena to pdega 30- 40 lakh ka dahej diya h ladkevalo ko ac tv fridge washing machine bike kapde sona jewellery bartan chimney geyser sab kuch or ladki padhi likhi h bsc and msc in zoology or ladka ba pass or kapde ki shop h 😅
दहेज लेना बुरी बात है, लेकिन लड़की वाले भी पहले पूछते हैं लड़का कितना कमाता है ,सरकारी नौकरी की बहुत मांग होती है, लड़को का भी दर्द दिखाया करिए। ये भी तो अटल सत्य है।
Kyuki sarkari naukri mei security h. Ladka ladki ke ghr rehne nhi aata h , ldki jaate h ldke ke ghr rehne k liye shaadi ke baad. Toh yeh toh puchna hi pdega wo kitna kma ra h. Kal ko agr kuch nhi kamaega toh ghr kharch kaise chlega. Secondly ab kuch budhijeevi log kahenge ladki bi toh kma skti hai, bilkul kma skti h aur aaj ke time mei kmati bi hai. Lkin yeh param satay h ki ghar grihsti mei jitna samay aurat ko dena pdta hai utna aadmi ko nhi dena pdta. Agr sirf aurat ki eklauti kmane wli hogi, toh jb aage jaake parivaar bdhega us parivar ki dekh bhal kon krega. Aur chlo maan liya pita dekhbhal bi krlega , lkin pregnancy ka time hai uske baad ka time hai aise mei kon kaam krega?
@@nancychhavniya4833 बात दहेज लेने की थी। सही है या गलत ,
आप तो सही साबित करने पर तुली हुई हैं।
@@BhaktarajPal dahej ko sahi nhi bta rhi mai, dahej samaj ko peechle kheenchne wali prampara. Mera jawab us baat ke liye tha ki ldki wle bi sarkari naukri puchte h
@@nancychhavniya4833 लड़की वाले भी कम नही होते है, वे ही लोग दहेज को बढ़ावा देते हैं। और आरोप लगाते हैं लड़के वालों पर।
lekin ladki k ghar wale uski tankhwaah apne ghar nahi le jate.
Green teshirt girl is green 🟢flag & have guts to show real actual picture of india✅👍👍
I am feeling shameless as an NCC cadet. ... Ye bat khul kr nai rkh pa rhe. Green tshirt wali Le ki ko chor kr ... Apna dekh rhe ... Macro level pr bat kro n
My story: mere Di ki shadi honi thi mere papa ke dost ke ladke se ...my di meet him and they are in relation last 5 year ... once my father said..ham dahej nahi dege hamare pass payesa nahi hai ..sara payesa bachho ke padhai me laga diya hai ....from that day ...they stop talking and said. Shadi nahi hogi ... after 1year later my Di cleared NEET exam and get good government medical college and she became first female to clear neet in our community and around the village....my di still in relationship with him ...when she cleared boy called to my father and said sorry and there family came our house for Rista... still my parents taking loan for marriage....and for gift and dahej ...when i said my mother why are you giving. All these stuff...she said ..if we not give them ..they poke, maybe be disrespect us ..or say something to my sister .... Truly they are not want to give but they are bounded..this is Dark Reality of Today's Marriage (UP).
I am against all this ..even i fight with my family for this. Still i can't stop them.