"I SAW A GUY CHOKING HIS GIRLFRIEND & SHE WAS PREGNANT!!!" IS IT BETTER TO MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS?
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If you beating a pregnant woman, there is no love lol Victims do what they want to after the fact but Math stopping that dude from choking her at that moment was the right thing to do. Anything after that you can’t be responsible for.
These women who think they have to protect these men are usually traumatized from childhood and don't know healthy relationships or are so battered that they think that it's love.
Exactly. So how can u blame her!!!
@@justaone4128 I didn’t take that from what was just said?!?
They also know the comeback will be worse if they didn't do something to "protect" the abuser from somebody who's trying to intervene and help her.
You are absolutely right.
@@ccole99 Math said you might have to mind your business because a delusional woman may try to protect an abusive man. The original post applies. Maybe you should listen to what he said again.
It's a slippery slope just be mindful of the consequences that come with trying to be a stand up guy. I seen dudes get killed for not minding their business but I've seen lives saved as well just be careful yall
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U right!
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Agree bad thing is a lot of women put other men in a terrible position
Mind your business... but call the police. Simple
Calling the police is literally not minding your business & you shouldn’t mind your business when you see foul shit. I had to edit that because I worded it poorly. 😂
@@Skywalker721 You should call the police, physical intervention might lead to fatal consequences for the person trying to help who lack professional training experience in dealing with the situation.
@@sahulianhooligan7046 my comment is you shouldn’t mind your business when you see foul shit. Calling the police is the right thing to do.
Only black men think like this. Non protectors
I truly truly am appreciating this show more and more. Just wanted to share some insight on "Why won't she just leave?"
75% of IPV (intimate partner violence) victims are murdered when they are attempting to actually leave the relationship. It is in fact the most dangerous decision of their lives.
There are consequences and casualties that come with being superman and trying to subdue a potential volatile situation
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@@pistolpete007 pistol Pete??? From nyc tho
Math still did the right thing tho.
Thank you 🙏🏽 please share the vid
Maybe not knocking homie into a seizure, but definitely intervening in general. 😂
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U can never downplay this Platform as a battle rap show! This Brother is producing life learning Jewelz everytime I tune in!!!
Agree I wasn't a fan of Math when he was bullying battle rappers however he matured and his podcast is one of my favorite to watch while killing time at work
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I hate relationships that abuse one person and leave the other person completely broken and scared, it breaks my heart to see anyone hurt. Even if I don't know them. Let's hope these ppl get the help that they need.
Love shouldn't be resolved by violence
No it’s not. Men should be allowed to be men. If u rescue a woman from a DVI the law shouldn’t get involved in what you do to protect her! Now, u could pull that man up to make him be a MAN not some manipulative abusive jerk! Whatever she did-leave her not beat her.
This show is outstanding!!Great content❤Very informative discussion.
You don't necessarily have to mind your own business. But you have to keep in mind that you can lose your life for being a hero so is it worth it to you?
True but you can also lose your life being around negative people that’s heading towards destruction = jail or death.
A guy was choking his pregnant girlfriend around my way, a motorist got out his car to stop him and the guy that was choking his baby mother knocked the other guy out and killed him. She still post "Free him". It aint worth it
Wow!
Just because it didn’t go the right way doesn’t mean it’s wrong to address the issue. If you can’t defend yourself, you shouldn’t put yourself in harm’s way. Sometimes telling someone you’re going to call the cops from a distance is the best answer. People have to use their common sense & instincts properly. Some battles can be won & others can’t. That doesn’t mean reacting like a helpless coward is the right answer. I can’t support allowing bullshit in the hood to continue. It perpetuates a disgusting culture that needs to be shutdown. Someone should at least call the cops if they can’t get involved. Keepin it movin is wack af.
Like 10 years ago it was a dude raping a chick in the alley, and a husband and wife tried to help her and the rapist shot and killed the husband and wife. That happened in Philly. Shit was sad.
You see....smh
@@stuckinthe90sThegoldenera damn
That's what I say.... "what happened?" This way the blame can go either way lol
*HAPPY SPOUSE, HAPPY HOUSE*
I made a post about it. If you want your team to win, you've got to make sure the whole squad is good.
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Yo Mr Mecca stop quoting Patrice O'Neal " men live under the presumption of guilt" skit and claiming it was a conversation you had with your boy!😂
Verzuz: KRS ONE vs Big Daddy Kane (Oct 17)
I don't get involved
NO TO HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE! YES
TO HAPPY SPOUSE, HAPPY HOUSE!!!
First call of business is Black men are not being a HUSBAND to a woman and is fine with the title "my baby momma" and "my baby daddy". GOD is not pleased. I rarely see a HUSBAND slaughtered in the street by police. A WIFE slaughtered by a police. A husband and a wife slaughtered by police. Just baby daddy's and sometimes baby mommas. ijs.
Proverbs 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.
Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”
Once black men honor the black woman through marriage he can find honor with other nations. This is the main reason why black men stay losing and getting killed or locked up and they WILL NEVER see this because they are too blind. WAKE UP JUDAH!! WAKE UP!!
That’s y you shouldn’t be calling the cops. Handle your own issues cops will bring a bigger issue your way. U are better off calling a family member or a mutual friend as a black man during a domestic dispute
Mind your business because there are guys that lost their life trying to save someone who didn't want to be saved. I've seen couples go from fighting each other to fighting the person trying to help and leaving him leaking for the ambulance. You not a superhero. If you really concerned call 911 anonymously and keep it moving.
I got arrested defending BM cuz getting whooped.also preggo...me $50k bail..him $300..she pressed charges on me..and dropped his..make it make sense..so now its F that none of my BIZ..sorry but not sorry.
If a dude is choking his woman, I'll try to deescalate then call the cops if he doesn't want to listen. People will frown upon that but I have no sympathy for a man choking a woman in public. I don't care how much love they supposedly have for each other. They shouldn't even be a thought when you see domestic violence.
At least use your voice to check the temperature then decide if it needs to go beyond that point.
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These clips get a nigga thru da day fr fr.
Na Math, can’t rock with this one homie. It’s never love if people are putting hands on each other. Passion is not love. Neither is pain. I can mind my business if the situation hasn’t gone left. If it has, it’s never cool to keep it movin & ignore a serious problem. People don’t get a pass for being flawed & harming other people. I don’t have patience for that shit & neither should anyone else. People better learn what love is & how to control their emotions as adults. No passes for bullshit.
I respect your stance because it's my own. But that woman will press charges against you for protecting her. And I've put myself in more than a few situations.
@@WHG369 I’ve seen this happen that’s why it hard for me to just jump into anything. I’ve also seen both the victim and the abuser go after the dude trying to help 🤦🏾♂️this world is crazy lol
Best to mind yours, the law is blind!
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@@WHG369 you can defend someone or come to their aid without getting violent enough to catch a charge. If you become the aggressor & fold somebody, you have to know they might press charges. Even battered women don’t like to see you beat their man up. It has to be approached responsibly with restraint. We can’t respond to crimes by committing another crime.
9:32 that’s the key word. Damaged! If it’s happy wife happy life, it miserable life for the man. I don’t care what you say. If it ain’t miserable today it will be in the next year or two. I believe in happy spouse happy house. The problem is dudes get the woman they dealing with pregnant and try not to mess thing up and they get scared to pay child support. So they not trying to mess that situation up because they know the government taking that money if he don’t act right. There’s a difference in scarcity and happiness. So yea I’m not with that happy wife happy life bs.
Thats not love that is the cycle of abuse --is she didnt care for that dude her life would have been in danger---its a emotional and mental warfare its hard as hell to break
Hoffa I have stopped helping girls in trouble in the street too king
Call the cops ASAP!! Everyone should keep their damn hands to themselves!! And, above all, she’s pregnant for Gods sake!!! Wtf?!!!
In the hood, call the cops?!? Karen’s 🤦♂️
Coming from a "Karen"??? I should have known that answer.
@@drfangaz-pronouncedlikefan4019 come on man I already said that 😂
Idk where ur from but I’m from the Inner city of Detroit & wn we call the cops, they show up!! Yep, they sure do!! And, btw, I’m NOT that Karen!!
@@kve1247 doesn’t matter where either of us are from. We’re talking about where they are and whether it’s a good idea for black men to call the cops in general. Might get arrested or worse for trying to help
listening to kings 🤴🏿helps me threw similar situations 💯💯
Mind your business and keep it moving.
Just call the police. That ez let them handle it that's there job . You dont know what the person's have in them in case dont take those chances . U just dont know.
Real talk! I got a friend that got shot in the neck trying to protect a woman from being assaulted by her boyfriend. She wouldn't testify on his behalf...smh
WOW
Lmao the title is crazy
Let’s keep it a buck…..if you are beating your girlfriend/wife you are not a man
I feel like Vado has a valid point. I don’t think either person should have total control tho. In a heathy relationship y’all both have to be willing to follow and ready to lead. I feel like that def is necessary.
In what situation should a man follow the leadership of his woman? If a woman looks to a man for leadership & protection, how can he turn around & try to follow her?
@@Skywalker721easily I'm a beta wit a simp mentality this definitely resonates
@@Skywalker721 it’s all about having an open mind and willing to put egos aside and understand your man or woman has better idea or perspective. It’s about trust . If one or both people in this equation is to childish the relationship not lasting anyway
@@Skywalker721 lol men are supposed to " lead and protect", is that why these women fire thier husband's n boyfriend manager when they realize that degree they got from University of Phoenix is bullshit
@@Cosdamotto as a man & a leader, a man can designate tasks to his women in areas she is more experienced in. He should still lead in the overall situation like when a manager delegates during a project at work. That doesn’t mean the manager puts someone else in charge of everything. In what areas should a man completely submit to a woman’s leadership? I’m looking for specifics because it’s to my knowledge that woman look to a man for leadership. If anything, men who look to women to lead in the relationship are viewed as weaker & less attractive.
Happiness and respect is across the board, u realize how lacking men r in that cause of perception, it's cool fa a happy wife happy life but women be doing the minimum sometimes wen acknowledging wen men need a break
All Facts no cap 💯
Happy spouse happy house... means it's not one sided.
This is a wild conversation. I say one thing men need to understand a REAL WOMAN has the BLACK MAN BACK over all. No matter what the issues, but you not going to dump on us an we just take it.
I stepped in on TWO different situations both times I was thanked. Both times the chicks ran off with the dude that put hands on them.
In Illinois you get more time for domestic violence than drug trafficking. Mandatory 90 days county jail before you see a judge.
Happy wife happy life , guess I’m never getting married.
I disagree! It’s our duty as black men to protect our black woman.
Same, I know a lot of women who will try to protect black men like stand in front of the police. But you have to observe your surroundings and be careful
But when is it too far
I honestly wouldn't do anything because I don't know the situation. What if she slept with one of his friends? Not saying she would deserve to get choked, but at the same time I'm not calling the cops or intervening. What if the nigga got a gun & pulls it on me? All because I'm tryna be a hero
Normally yeah it’s better to mind your own business but yeah if she pregnant tho you gotta get involved
If you playing hero only do it if you got sumn on you we was raised to mind our business but every real nigga know they never wanna see some shii like this or a rape happening you wanna do sumn but make sure you can protect yaself in every way
i only choke them when they ask me to.
“Bing,bang,boomp” 🤣🤣🤣
Man with that I mind my business tbh I mean that woman love that man don’t matter how physical it get she’s not going nowhere smh 🤦🏾♂️
Mind my Business and not bc of consequences but merely since women got too much power let em help themselves even my family im minds my business no matter what
Happened to me b4 helping a female after I saw her man punch her in the face and I got cut on my back and the chick told police I started it
What's a nigga to do? When you call the police but the triggers on you?- Mick Jenkins
Men were created in God’s image. If you don’t stand for something you will fall for anything
This advice can save your life 🙏💯
#MindYourBusiness
yes. always mind your business. you dont know her. you dont know what she did
Yo you could of got blasted for knocking dude out math
I don't expect anyone to help me, but I often help people. In this situation, I wouldn't do anything. It's none of my business. I'm not playing hero. I'm not calling cops either cause they've lost my trust
Happy spouse happy house, no one ways in any relationship
There are stories of guys who wanted to help, got shot and killed by the man and the woman leaving with the killer without even calling 911… if a woman says she’s been in a abusive relationship, first ask her who was the abuser then ask her how long she stayed… in life it’s best to mind your business… misery loves company
This is a DEEP ONE.....
I've literally been in this situation on TWO OCCASIONS!!!!
One occasion, I was at my girl (at the time) apartments.... And a guy was beating up his chick in the parking lot, so I immediately jumped in and grabbed dude.... The next thing I feel is someone HITTING ME IN THE BACK OF THE HEAD....
(IT'S HIS GIRL)
From that day on, I vowed to never get involved in anyone else's situation.....
Then... A few years later,
I'm at a friend's barbeque,
And this couple gets into it...
And the guy SLINGS the woman across the yard, and she falls OVER A TABLE....
As dude walks over towards her
(while she's still on the ground)
I said fuck it,
And tackled him...
We tussled for quite awhile....
A couple of other men at the event eventually jumped in and we finally subdued him....
Afterwards, the lady he was assaulting....
LEFT WITH HIM.....
And some of the other people at the party told me that, that's why they didn't get involved....
Those two were known to have physical altercations in public....
And for the SECOND TIME....
I felt DUMB ASF!!!....
(But I've also been involved in a few other situations where it was
NEEDED & APPRECIATED....
So, I can't just judge either way💯)
5:12 nothing but facts
Lol Nigga said happy man happy plan 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I still rather be a man then a women by far. To me being a man is the sht😂😂
It would be extra weird if you preferred to be a woman homie. This comment is crazy. 😂
Then again also have to pay attention to how she be when getting choked is she saying “yes daddy fkin choke me king” or “Help he’s going to kill me please help I’m pregnant” or “ maybe she’s already passsed out and can’t say shit in that case gotta figure she needs help or passsed out before she could say the safe word should probably knock him out regardless cuz either one his deserves it or two they into that kind of thing.
That's that Whitney & Bobby.
Bigga looks high af over there!
Well Jesus could have mind his own but he died for the world by not turning the other cheek. The question is are you a King or Not!🤔🤔
Maths reacting to a dude choking up his girl and leaning her over a fence at the same time 😭😭😭😭😭😭💎💎💎💎💎💎🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑🔑
"What you do?"
What she do?
I’m sorry but I rather call the cops cuz I’ve heard few stories on the news where ppl have died who tried to help smh and it’s sad
I know this a serious matter but when he said the world gonna tell us we’re a special bum I started crying 😂
Or and regardless if we run this place or not....we should get treated like a human. MATH!
True Facts!
Facts
5:13 Who is “we”?
There’s no other podcast that ends clips as good as or better than Math! Out of nowhere you hear a gunshot. Love that shit!
❤🖤💚🏁💯✊🏿💪🏿 ALL FAX.. GOOD LOOKN MAFF!!!!
Idve broke that situation up. Sometimes, you just have to go with what YOU are not willing to ignore, no matter what. Which "I shudda" are you willing to live with?
You dont know if he is armed, has better hands, and could leave you in critical condition. Is it worth risking your life over other peoples crappy relationships?
@@sahulianhooligan7046 This one here is tough tough situation because you don't know if she is a real victim or if it is a product of them having an unstable dysfunctional relationship. If I armed I try and break it up just to get him off of that pregnant lady, but if not I will just have to scream out this fight is being recorded and the cops are around the corner in hopes he gets off of her.
All in All Math did the right thing at that moment so Salute even if that crazy lady took dudes side instantly.
I enjoy all of your shows But this right here what you just said you are totally wrong and I'm ashamed to say that I'm watching the show because I am one of those women who were abused physically for many years and how I prayed that somebody I mean somebody would help me and nobody did today because of those beatings I have Permanent back injuries I barely can walk with a Walker and I have no trust in men at all I never know what they're gonna do so you are totally wrong bro you don't mind your business when it's a woman a woman can't physically win a fight with a man and you know that also if you have a daughter hold on because she just may be going through the same and no.one will help her.FACTS!
Understood. May God heal your pain. 🙏🏽
They say "what you do" because they do know you better. Stahp it 😂
Remember in NY shorty that got beat to death with a crowbar in the middle of the street?, what yall doin in that situation
All that can be done is calling the cops. Sometimes telling someone the cops are on their way could save a life even if you didn’t actually do it. You can’t handle that type of situation without using a weapon yourself, so I think calling the cops is the only reasonable option. I can’t just watch that happen or keep it movin myself. That’s a crazy situation though. That person should be locked up, but you might not be able to save the woman.
@@Skywalker721 I feel you on, in that situation I just can't not do nothing, but yeah dude got locked up there was a video of it...really disturbing/sad
Facts good shit math 💯💯💯💯💯
This is some real ass shit bro
Peace
Good build.........
This is a trill convo!
Real love ❤️
It Kind of Depends! But If It Iz A Situation Like That In Tha' Streets,Itz Open 2 Interference 2 Happen! But If Itz Behind Closed Doors At A Residence 4 Da' Most Part,Then It Kind of It : "IT IZ WHAT IT IZ THEN,BUT 2 A CERTAIN EXTENT"!
Glad you finally got rid of the intro bragging about killing fiends
I saw this situation yesterday I looked and kept it pushing
First of all the Workd cares about fragile
I wish Math would provide more details on his story. Like, was he in Brooklyn? If so, what part of Brooklyn? Because, honestly? As he tells the story, people instantly envision a black man choking a pregnant black woman, simply due Maths skin complexion. When, in all actuality, his story is really a Caribbean man choking a pregnant Caribbean woman.
Who said anything about Caribbean
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Reread and get back to me.
That type of shit doesn’t even matter because people of all races do it. You’re focused on the wrong things in this situation. The victim of the actual situation is all that matters. If this story makes someone look at black people a certain way without hearing the details, that’s a personal problem & it goes beyond a Math Hoffa story bruh.
Lmao we all people of color you idiot .. same struggle smdh
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Black Americans are the only people who are told to not worry about what people think of them as a group.
Question: Why do you think mainstream media waited decades to halfway condemn Woody Allen?
The more I watch this podcast, I realize I can no longer watch this crap! I guess I didn't know enough about Math. I respected his talent and done interviews where I thought he was pretty intelligent, a little immature yes, but he was young, it was expected. I thought he was better, and had higher degree of moral grounding. If he intervened solely, in order to protect the baby, his job was done. I still respect and applaud that, it won't ever change th. He saI thought he was going to say the girl attacked him, filed fraudulent charges against him, or even cursed him out, or just something that might cause him some semblance of regret even just momentarily. You saved the child's life and hers, perhaps minimize the amount of cognitive and physical challenges that man caused to what might be, his own child. That is the most common cause for miscarriages in black women and a leading brain damage in infants who survive such an attack in utero. Yet he expresses regret because she mitigated. the damages caused by his much needed intervention. Asking him to stay back and refrain from further violence since the threat had been centralized. Saving Math from an unnecessary possible manslaughter charge. Wow! now mad that he can't be cool with the scumbag baby killer. Why would you care to be in good terms with scumbags with like that? I know in his mind, he thought he had no problems with the guy and didn't want to make any. He always had problems with a cowardly snake like that, he just never realized it. Those kind of individuals are a plague on our communities. I digress...It is called battered person’s syndrome (aka battered women's syndrome, but it is not specific to gender) for a reason, it doesn't sound like she was upset with Math, but she didn't want to die nor did she want her child’s father to die. A man choking his pregnant woman to death, has zero to do with love. This is why he was so emotional and upset 😩 😭 when Smart was talking about manhood and what it means to be a good father and husband. Saigon is the same type of person, can't even pretend to treat women well long enough to remember to call them their proper names. He is still mad, the presented himself as a bufoon on Love &hip hop. A woman cannot make a man do anything, certainly not make him act like a buffoon if he isn't already have a buff on. These men attract a low caliber of women around them because that is all they can attract. He can't be in my space talking like that, certainly not around my mother, much less my body. If I would not ever want my mother to be subjected to someone , we can't associate, period. I am grown, being associated with me can have consequence for everyone around me. He certainly could not be anywhere around any children I have in my charge. They both have no clue about their role as men and especially as fathers. That's why they would not let Smart finish a thought. They are not used to having many good ones. They could have learned so much. These kind of men aren't man enough marriage and/or children. These are the kind of men who remind the women they are using up that they will never have, as if they could ever be a husband or father in its true definition. Yes we have all been damaged to an extent. This is a sad demonstration of the power stereotypes and troops have in programming, the people. This is a sad demonstration of just how cowardly, and child like Black Men's minds have become . Bo other race of men proudly stand by as their women are attacked while their wives, sisters, and daughter’s are being attacked and say they need to defend themselves. No other race if men think they don't have to raise or provide for children they’ve scattered all over. The individual dead beats of every race maybe a, but in such large numbers collectively, other men are prise of the lifestyle afforded their women and children, and they build massive homes and compounds so the children are raised up under him. His body ps he trains to protect the, and run the family business to provide for the family after his tea. The breeding farms during slavery and conjugal visits. created under nass incarceration and the common practice of forged marriage certificates, so the prisoners could have many women, to remain docile. The visits lowered escape attempts, and rebellions keeping these men in total control of their warfather, the warden. or uncle Sam. They controlled everything where, when, and with whom theand they had sex with and pricreated with. The reason why do many black men have no life skills or characteristics of a grown man. They seem uttered unable to control their fertility. The exact choice only men are afforded in every society, the white man seeks to control the women’s fertility. They do the same with Black men by promoting these practices through the generations. At one time, we saw this less often with foreign black males, but now subject to ed t the same poison they are behaving the same now. GoI saw this clear as day when attending weddings from different ethnicities. It night and day Black Anerican males from the North were the worst! No men wanted to t catch the garter, even if his girl caught the bouquet, whereas I have seen men brawl over that garter, when their girl had already caught the bouquet. ,It was seen as an affront to their manhood, if other man tried a little too hard to catch it. One big and very successful Korean gu I recall, let everyone know beforehand that was his fiance, and he had no problem competing because he was confident he would prevail. Most who can't afford to date and/or marry are not bothered about a woman who has standards. If they can easily maintain those standards by themselves, they don't care. I know that this wedding example may not be all that significant, but it really stood in stark contrast in attitudes toward marriage, family and wealth. If being married to a woman makes his life happier, but his wife us unhappy by the way he treats her, if course, she will be unhappy and leave. Thereby, causing further unhappiness to that nan, Of course, that statement is correct when it comes to family life. Wow, and men winder why women file for divorce first. As I’m typing this Ray J is suffering in the hospital alone, wondering why Princess hasn't been there with him. Really
Happy Husband or happy Nothing 🤷🏾♂️🤔🤔
There is no clear right thing to do, it can go so many ways regardless.