Are Colombian Women 🇨🇴 BETTER Than American Women?

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  • @WheresWes
    @WheresWes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @ColoradoConquistador
    @ColoradoConquistador ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I found my wife in Uruguay after giving up on American women that want to be men and think it's socially acceptable to not take care of their bodies. What you say is spot on and it's the same thing I found when I decided to go looking for a foreign woman to share my life with. My wife is so incredibly amazing. And makes most american women look like men. I feel like I created my own dream woman like on the movie Weird Science. Thank you for your content. Keep doing what your doing. You're very good at it.

    • @GentiluomoStraniero
      @GentiluomoStraniero ปีที่แล้ว

      Brother, you hit the nail on the head. re:"American women that want to be men and think it's socially acceptable to not take care of their bodies". This feminism and fat acceptance movements are a huge turn off. They want to feed us a shit sandwich and have us say we like it. No thanks....time to find REAL WOMEN. Colombians are certainly attractive and are more in line with the family value we look for.

  • @TheEddieToro
    @TheEddieToro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Wes your info is pretty much on point. I've been dating Colombian women for 24 years and they are quite different from American women. I did date American women for about 5 years before leaving the US and got those ideas you touched up on. I lived in the States until I was 23 and then went back for two more years from 37 to 39 years of age. I prefer Colombian women over American women but I do know that there are some American gals who are as affectionate and down to earth as Las Colombianitas. There are some Colombian gals that I want to run away from as soon as they show their true colors or they just start talking that '''I am a very masculine woman'' crazy stuff. Good job Wes 😎😎👍👍

    • @thecooler170
      @thecooler170 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hmm. Does living in America big city counts as "Americans"? America is huge. And me living in one state/city in America, i see lot of cultures and local communities in every block. I haven't yet explore all states in America. So yeah we can't really say this is better than that.

    • @TheEddieToro
      @TheEddieToro 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thecooler170 As it is said in Colombia 🇨🇴 "Entre gustos no hay disgusts" and that simply means everyone has their own view on this or that but it's not for everyone.

    • @mrxiong2567
      @mrxiong2567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That pretty much sums it all up

    • @caralhoguy
      @caralhoguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And those American gals turn out to be us born Hispanic

    • @juzrhyme712
      @juzrhyme712 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thecooler170 American women from big cities to a small rural town are similar, cause women in the USA all are hooked on social media, and are feminst in general

  • @JaeFleming
    @JaeFleming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Dating outside the country has its problems. It's never going to be perfect. But I will say it's definitely better.

    • @MotivationalMovements
      @MotivationalMovements 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

    • @alexanderivkin7086
      @alexanderivkin7086 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Plus you gain experience which nobody can steal from you. And experience as a man is very important.

    • @whitegirllover32
      @whitegirllover32 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro anywhere is better than USA as a UK guy even if you went to another western country it's better

  • @Erv704
    @Erv704 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wes, you're on point with your comments especially with the women here in the U.S. I've heard so many successful relationship with latin women and especially with Colombian women. That's why I plan on making several visits to Colombia early next year. Wish me luck and thanks for sharing.

  • @cyrolacorte6469
    @cyrolacorte6469 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am here in Medellin walking around Unicentro and the amount of beautiful women here is mind blowing. I met a Colombian on Colombian Cupid, met her first time a couple days ago, so far, this girl is the best woman I have ever been with- I am Brazilian and speak Spanish fluently , our connection from the get-go was very strong. They love Brazilian men here and our cultures are very similar.

  • @Mecduhall91
    @Mecduhall91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I left the US and I went to Haiti, and I can tell you, it’s definitely better dating outside of the US.
    now we’re married and we have a daughter.

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks for sharing

    • @DJV94022
      @DJV94022 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you..and i mean it..haiti women have no grabbed my attention just because its a nation thats known for witchcraft

  • @AustonHolleman
    @AustonHolleman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great video bro! Tune into tonight! I’ll see you soon!

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      sure thing bro I'll hop on when I can

  • @xpmedia8660
    @xpmedia8660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Not dating a Colombian, but an Eastern European. I met her while studying abroad. More women than men in her country. She admitted that she likes me...but I had to earn her love. I'm studying engineering, and I have a good job lined up after graduation.
    When we began dating, I was so shocked. With how she treated me. She bought me medicine when I was sick, made me food. Though I had to learn Russian.
    My American ex cheated on me while I was in the hospital, with a broken leg. My girlfriend, when I was running a fever the other day, had made me tea and sandwiches. And I was honestly so moved...and shocked apart of me thought
    That something was wrong. But then I learned there are women out there who respect you when you're doing the right thing by them..and also yourself.

    • @shekondog
      @shekondog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thats how it is supposed to be. She seems to be a good long term candidate. However, do not be too predictable and never give her a hint of your feminine side. Russia and Slavic ladies are used to a hyper male dominated society - they like men to take charge and lead in all aspects. Moldova, Serbia and Latvia are my choice for fun!

    • @xpmedia8660
      @xpmedia8660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shekondog actually...My gf is Ukrainian and she's been okay with my showing some feeling. She actually gets annoyed when I don't 😂😂 I like to think i got lucky in that department 😂😂

    • @shekondog
      @shekondog 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xpmedia8660 Ok good bro! Be careful if you marry and bring her to US. Her previous flings Vlad the implaer will be somewhere in Brooklyn waiting for paycheck. Every Ukrainian woman here in NYC has a local dude who is smashing her when rich husband is working at Goldman Sachs. Husband thinks he ownes the securities and wealth when his own home is getting raided by Vlad or Stanslav, the implaer.

    • @xpmedia8660
      @xpmedia8660 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shekondog I'll probably be in Europe when we're done down here

    • @akawhippy
      @akawhippy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shekondog The most patriarchal societies are the Middle East.

  • @sertyuhg
    @sertyuhg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hi Wes, i really appreciate you speaking your mind. I feel like nowadays everyone is afraid of expressing what they truly feel

  • @mascode1
    @mascode1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My point of view as a Colombian Woman living in US is:
    -Colombians aren't more submissive than Americans we are just more feminine.
    -Yes we do care more about how we look and most don't let go.
    -We are more clean, we care more about personal hygiene and our place being clean.
    -I find actually that Americans are more excited about getting married than Colombians where the majority of couples just live for many years without ever being married unless you are a religious person is not important to be married.
    -It's true that Colombians are more clingy and jealous.
    -Americans are more independent from Men emotionally and financially.
    -Colombians are more loving and caring with their partners.
    -I feel like Medellin can be compare to LA regarding the plastic surgery tendency, since people are pushed to look very good in order to fit.
    -Americans are more open-minded in general.
    -Colombians are more close to their families and it's also important to have friends, hangout, party and celebrate. In another words, we like to socialize and have a good time.
    And about the percentage of single women I have to say that men are more irresponsible and unfaithful in Colombia so that's why the statistics.

  • @tonymacias9087
    @tonymacias9087 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m a American married to a Colombiana. My wife is the greatest ever!!!

  • @amandaburleson2035
    @amandaburleson2035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    colombians are very expressive with their emotions, they dont keep their emotions to themselves. they are actually in a werid way, more human than americans.most i know are very attatched to thier family. a siblings birthday is a big deal they will all make sure to celebrate the birthdays of everyone in their family, they dance smile laugh cry more than americans. i know this becuase i have been dating colombians for 8 years...

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah good point

  • @121sh1213
    @121sh1213 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You made a lot of good points in this video 👌🏽 well done

  • @wickman.r4662
    @wickman.r4662 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Many Medellin women take pride looking fantastic. Yesterday met a mother whose appearance is slim fit very beautiful having nails pedicured. She has 3 children.

  • @djdufunk
    @djdufunk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Speaking the truth my brother

  • @YungMex713
    @YungMex713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    But I will be in Colombia this December I can’t wait !!!! Im SUPER DUPER excited , I’m tired of America !!!

  • @ProjectUntethered
    @ProjectUntethered 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best. Thumbnail. Ever. 😂😂😂

  • @TheGaryp310
    @TheGaryp310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Wes for your info/video!!!..even if I cant be agree with everything... I watch many youtubers in or leaving in Colombia...I will come in 2023.

  • @paulc1014
    @paulc1014 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have not been to Colombia but I come to Mexico frequently and all the Colombian women I've met here are friendly, feminine and beautiful. Plus I love their accent. I'll take a Colombian woman over an American anytime, anyday.

    • @alexanderivkin7086
      @alexanderivkin7086 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh yeah, and mexican women really are jealous against colombianas in Mexico.Because let´s be real: Mexican women are okay and some of them are really hot, but colombianas, that´s like another planet. Same goes with venozolanas, Mexico has them as well. How do I know? Well 6 weeks of holidays in Mexico in 2021/2022 and long time passport bro.

    • @paulc1014
      @paulc1014 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alexanderivkin7086 all the beautiful Mexican girls are in Jalisco, Sinaloa, Sonora, Baja California..... in Mexico city you gotta go to certain areas to find really nice ones

    • @alexanderivkin7086
      @alexanderivkin7086 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@paulc1014 Sinaloa is famous for having nice mexicanas. For me, I really don't care if she is from Tijuana or Punta Arenas, I know that I just like them and find them attractive and hot.

    • @paulc1014
      @paulc1014 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alexanderivkin7086 me too, I just try to avoid ones who have kids, and lots of Mexican girls have kids these days

  • @fabledreamor
    @fabledreamor ปีที่แล้ว +1

    About plastic surgery, when I looked at the dating sites, the Medellin women looked more attractive but I did not feel attraction toward them. I like the Barranquilla women's natural look better. Now I know why. Thanks, Wes!

  • @QBPassportFlexin
    @QBPassportFlexin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well said Brodie!!!

  • @zamora1084
    @zamora1084 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video brotha your on point congrats!

  • @CanaryKin
    @CanaryKin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Analysis:
    Colombian woman
    - cook for you happily
    - I’ll stay home and take care of you when sick
    - feminine
    - caring
    - fit
    - in shape
    - beautiful
    - we are together
    - family first
    - great lovers
    - strong family values
    Hmmm 🤔

  • @jesperjensen293
    @jesperjensen293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome video, spot on Wes! +1

  • @captainarrow5177
    @captainarrow5177 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was perfect, thank you

  • @andrewlindell8626
    @andrewlindell8626 ปีที่แล้ว

    Going to a different country will definitely change your point of view than what is here in America

  • @joehoward9905
    @joehoward9905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I met a Colombiana in Panama , yes I speak Spanish and three other languages. The Colombiana I met and dated smoke American Women by miles . I did things the smart way .

  • @shaystar9347
    @shaystar9347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good breakdown

  • @davidcruise4978
    @davidcruise4978 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have met a man on the internet who lives in Manizales and we seem to click. I am in my 60',s and he is in his twenties. Am I getting used for my money, maybe but he and his family need help and I have no problem sharing. And what do I get in return , good conversation and it aliviates my loneliness! As long as it's honest it is win/win

  • @sugarbear1225
    @sugarbear1225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Colombian women 🇨🇴💯 love your videos👍🏾

  • @sgtlazar
    @sgtlazar ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in Panama and recently visited Colombia for the first time a few weeks ago. Panama has had too much American influence. I was surprised by how much obesity is a problem here. I've met some rude Panamanians as well. Dating is... interesting so far. But... When I was in Colombia I swear every woman I saw was gorgeous, well-kept, and feminine. Colombians were so kind and welcoming in comparison to Panamanians.

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  ปีที่แล้ว

      Same observations I've made

    • @DJV94022
      @DJV94022 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man panama women are just mean and have attitude problems and it starts off the airport...i went this summer to medellin and panama was the middle plane and the women just had vibes both trips going and coming back one yelled at me for not having passport ready in hand when i was 100th person away from the gate...even tho later she was staring cause i had ignored her ..if i would of had the chance i would of fked her and dumped her to teach her lesson just for that..maybe thats what she needed tbh

  • @melissareece8656
    @melissareece8656 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have an American daughter who moved to Medellin two years ago from NYC. She loves it. She has zero "princess" mentality. What he fails to mention is a single, childless young woman earning six figures American $$/Euros can have whatever she wants all in her own there ❤

  • @MomentswithDavid
    @MomentswithDavid ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, you are very perceptive and articulate, you made great points here 👍.

  • @jonsnow9700
    @jonsnow9700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "No quiero estar cerrado en casa". Hahahaha. You nailed it.

  • @domenicdapice7218
    @domenicdapice7218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There is one con about Colombian woman. It's that they tell you that they will do a certain thing and they don't or the timing is off. But it's no big deal.

  • @LonelyGamr
    @LonelyGamr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    your life is pretty awesome. you've accomplished what a lot only dream about.

  • @JasonVaughnMamba80
    @JasonVaughnMamba80 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm coming to Colombia!

  • @thefilipinapee
    @thefilipinapee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lost it 😆when video showed those massive 6x6 brick house USA females vs the slender Colombian female.

  • @charlesbennett7688
    @charlesbennett7688 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good video very helpful video

  • @cornellscott9106
    @cornellscott9106 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing video after I get done with my master in business
    I'm moving

  • @TexyHampp
    @TexyHampp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like the blunt truth

  • @Brookyo222
    @Brookyo222 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The MAN is talking Truth, married to a Colombian Woman. Just stand up for yourself and stay to your principles. Date a Latin to understand better.

  • @user-or6yn8pm3c
    @user-or6yn8pm3c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes they are. Dated one for a year so far and would never go near an American woman again.

  • @oldschoolweekend
    @oldschoolweekend 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good stuff Wes, I just don’t have the time to spend in Colombia to find a good one. Gotta find a Latina here in FL. Maybe you could touch on the difference between Colombian-American women vs Colombian women. Seems they change as soon as they get here. After all, they say don’t bring one to the US, go there instead. Either way, I guess all us me can agree, the “American woman” has shot herself in the foot

  • @cheekeebandito
    @cheekeebandito 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The "entitled" attitude in Canada by many of the women there , means that I have dated my last Canadian woman .... I can't really speak for American women , but from my experience , I'll stay with my Colombian lady .... My ex in Canada wouldn't put any effort into keeping the marriage going ..... she was quite happy to throw the family unit into the trash for her own personal gain ...... She wiped me out financially , destroyed my family unit , and was proud of herself for doing so ... many of her friends and family have initiated the same ... they cheer each other on , while destroying a good husband's hard work and effort ....... I know that some guys can be douchebags and horrible husbands and fathers ...... I was the complete opposite, but the courts don't care about that , and the guy loses BIG TIME ...... Colombian ladies are a bit old fashioned , in a good way ...... they put more effort into a relationship , are very passionate , and treat their man like a king ...... no going back to Canadian women , thanks !

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thanks for sharing bro

    • @domenicdapice7218
      @domenicdapice7218 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What a waste of time dating in Canada. Spent most of my adult life . In Canada the slightest thing and they are ready to dispose you like a disposable lighter. Until I traveled to Colombia. Finally have a nice girlfriend who acts like a real woman.

    • @1412millos
      @1412millos 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts… especially women in Vancouver.

    • @esotericfrequency96
      @esotericfrequency96 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WheresWes they are not more feminine in Colombia. It’s the laws that reflect on the culture. That’s why you hear all the stories about going to the states and then doing a 180.

    • @HulaguKhan2020
      @HulaguKhan2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      In Canada, particularly Toronto & Vancouver, you are better off banging escorts than dating regular women.

  • @rickfarr8491
    @rickfarr8491 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I met a beautiful Colombian woman over the internet 13 months ago. I’ve seen how this woman is very devoted to me and very affectionate. We probably will end up getting married and I plan to propose to her in a couple of months. She wants to move here and I’ll plan on visiting her family every year to avoid her being homesick. I would definitely recommend dating Colombians. You won’t be sorry if you do. Funny how she relies on affection like kisses so much when I see her, text her, and video chat.

    • @alexanderivkin7086
      @alexanderivkin7086 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don´t be so quick. If you have the opportunity first invite her for 90 days to your country if possible and see if her actions are equal to her online behavior. That is really important. Don´t be naive, women aren´t angels just because they are from another country.

    • @RKELS69
      @RKELS69 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dnt get her to the states keep her in colombia all that will go out the window once in the states

  • @jamiestar3376
    @jamiestar3376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Colombians love mexican culture and men.. I had good luck in colombia but.. I feel the mexican culture is a bit more old fashion..

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing

  • @cfG21
    @cfG21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wouldn't say submissive..they understand we have roles..but the video is on point.

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yeah agreed

    • @cfG21
      @cfG21 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WheresWes fyi my cousins are kind of con the woke side but gringos would not date my university educated cousins because they dont dress like prostitutes even if they are feminists.

  • @dctvadventure3069
    @dctvadventure3069 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know my Spanish my family is from Mexico I had no problem talking to girls in Colombia when I was Colombia

  • @sammiejohnson2618
    @sammiejohnson2618 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the main reason that I love my fiance from Bogota Colombia 🇨🇴 she's so lady like and a great caretaker as you say!

  • @williamarbelaez5382
    @williamarbelaez5382 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    One important thing to point out is you must be a good dancer specially in Cali and if you making laugh is even better they really like to have a good time.

  • @MotivationalMovements
    @MotivationalMovements 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yup, when I went to Japan, I got a glimpse that most people value your status more then race…in America even among African Americans. They will be racist towards one another and disqualify each other because of their shade of color or because they aren’t “gangster” and the guy will be a top notch guy that when he goes to Africa, Japan, Latin America it’s all love for the most part…like Andrew Tate said, it’s about values or lack there of…

  • @TCGTales
    @TCGTales 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The thumbnail speaks a million words and truth! Americans are beyond obese yet they want to mold their new fat into a new norm of healthy. Body positivism has gone mad with unhealthy standards that will ultimately be our down fall. Then again, the big industries are banking on the ignorance of millions! The health, food, tobacco, gun, car, oil, insurances industries main goal is to keep you unhealthy! Anyway, we went from praising bodies such as Cindy Crawford to the fatness of the Kardashians! It is insane!

  • @Spenglish
    @Spenglish 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💯 I heard nothing but truth here. Good job Wes!

  • @compass_Matt
    @compass_Matt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That thumbnail haha

  • @net2dev
    @net2dev 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    ill share my experience, yes they are better as long as you dont bring her to the states. The moment you bring her to the states you'll run the risk of losing her if she drinks the americanized entitled woman attitude koolaid. In my case she got poisoned by other colombian women in the states that told her she can do better and dont need to settle with me, That If she got divorced I would have to support her with alimony. She stopped all off sudden being feminine. Controlled intimacy and started demanding, no helping just demanding. Again, americanized woman. Ended up divorcing her and getting wrecked by family law court. Had no kids thankfully but still Im paying $3k a month in alimony until 2025. I still have the goal to find a colombian woman once I leave the US which Im already getting prepared to do so. But I will live in Colombia or any other country that doesnt have this US toxicity.

    • @RuthlessandDisciplined
      @RuthlessandDisciplined 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Isn't it funny how you brought her to the States from a 3rd world dump and she "rewarded" you by divorce graping you?

    • @net2dev
      @net2dev 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RuthlessandDisciplined Sadly the US is a moral dumpster. Support and companionship beliefs here are null. Individualism reigns. I was following my heart and not my mind when I got married with the intention of living with her what Ive lived with her when we were dating, thinking it wouldve been the same in the states. I was wrong, didnt count the mentality here wouldve jeopardize the relation and it sure did. The term 3rd world dump also is getting more and more visible in the US. Just go to any part of Southern and Northern California and you shall see homeless everywhere. No different that what Ive seen in Colombia. More and more people relying on welfare and stimulus payments. Ive been in so called third world countries and its no different from what I can see happening in California, socialist utopia.

    • @cheekeebandito
      @cheekeebandito 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow , this sounds familiar to the attitudes of a lot of Canadian women .... let the man pay all the bills for decades , then blow up the family , and take everything..... in my case , it was my house (that I paid for for 26 years , by myself) , and a big chunk of the 32 year pension , that I worked for .... it's hard to believe the courts are okay with this ...
      I understand why some decent guys completely lose their shit and do bad things in response ..... I had to leave the country .... I kept my cool.... .my ex tried her best to try to provoke me to assault her .... it was the most surreal thing , like a bad dream .... glad it's behind me now

    • @net2dev
      @net2dev 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cheekeebandito its quite frustrating. The courts are actually incentivizing women to divorce by stripping men of financial assets. Its even worse in my case due to California being a nofault state. Your spouse could cheat on you and the outcome wouldve still be the same. They just see numbers dont care whos at fault.

    • @SamaKaNa
      @SamaKaNa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think it’s same for almost all foreign women.

  • @othienoburton5432
    @othienoburton5432 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good vid man

  • @alexanderivkin7086
    @alexanderivkin7086 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You said the right thing, always keep your masculine frame. And what helps a lot with these emotional latinas, is to be a pinche bloque de hielo sometimes. From my personal experience I can say, that they are very friendly, respectful and are having a happy vibe even if they are poor and struggle. Being a german like me is really a big fat bonus in latin america. They are addicted to my blond hair and my nose. In Mexico, in Brazil, colombianas, venezolanas. They are fetishizing my whiteness. I let them. For me it´s not rude, I tolerate that. When at home, we have a lot of professionals 🙃 here in Europe from Latin America and NOT ONCE I had a passive starfish. When I was younger, I was shy and cautious. Latinas helped me a lot to man up. MAN UP the western feminists always bark at us men. Okay, bark louder, I deleted you from the dating pool and I am proud of that. Last year I invited a woman from Rio de Janeriro, we met in 2021 there, to Germany for 90 days. It was a pleasure to watch all these post-wall german women literally killing her with their looks. Summarized: If you are a beta-simp at home, don´t go to Colombia. If you are a masculine type and intellectual like me, you have to do it, it is your duty.

    • @panchovilla701
      @panchovilla701 ปีที่แล้ว

      What hair?

    • @Chainbreak2023
      @Chainbreak2023 ปีที่แล้ว

      Being white and blond, they will put you on the pedestal. Is like this in Thailand, all Asia, Africa where white skinned is a fetish and worship. When at home in your home country in Germany, they don’t give a toss about you. You are a king and will be treated like one if you go to a third world country 😂

    • @vagabundodeldharma5968
      @vagabundodeldharma5968 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I m not masculine type, its too late, I am fifty, but I,ll try Colombia, the western women dont LOVE us

  • @chandie5298
    @chandie5298 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There are 3 categories (well really four but platonic friendship is outside of the context of this video)
    1. Man looking for a wife to have children with and have a family.
    2. Man just looking to party and have sex.
    3. Man looking for companionship with a sexual relationship.
    Just from my viewpoint (yours may vary) I think 30-ish is the latest a guy should be thinking of marriage for children.
    If you are 30yo and have a child with your wife then you will be 50-ish when your child is 20-ish. Thats fine. You are still able to do things with your child... to go fishing, hunting, woodworking, hiking, day trading... shared interests....passing on your knowledge.....interacting with your child in such a way to have great interactive memories rather than your 20-ish/yo child looking at their elderly father who can't keep up.
    Category 2 applies to any age all depending upon what you want......and the lost opportunities that go with it.
    Category 3 - This is what I think is best for men approaching or over 40yo.
    It might be a life-long committed relationship.... it could be a GFE.... it could be a "gf-ish" for a few months then depending on what both of you want, switching to a new one. The point is that you are NOT MARRIED. Thus you remove the risk of her "finding her soul-mate (always will have more money and resources than you offer) and taking half your shit with her.
    Gents.... if you are not looking for a wife to bear you children.... avoid marriage at all costs. You can have a life-long committed relationship without signing a legal document of the state giving her rights to half of your assets. Legal marriage is something of state law, not love. It has exactly zero to do with love and commitment between two people, it has EVERYTHING to do with legality and finance from the perspective of the state. Marriage is fine if you want to have children and you want to be legally and financially bound to your wife.
    Here is the tough truth about life in this context.
    7:53 Here in the video the speaker seems to be viewing the situation where the woman wants to be with the man strictly due to the financial benefit to her.
    I get what he's saying, and he's not wrong......but it is incomplete information.
    Nearly every single relationship you have ever witnessed and nearly every single relationship you will ever see has this same aspect.
    This includes the relationship between your mother and father.
    A large percentage of women (and 100% of women who you would ever want to sleep with) can have sex every day of the week, any time they want, any how they want, with nearly any guy they want. For women, sex is not the same as it is for men. The women who you would actually want to sleep put out their efforts to keep away the numerous opportunities they have any day of the week to have sex with an entire series of men.
    What women seek from men is....in order.... resources (money in some form), security/safety (from other men), and companionship(which might mean that she can, at least, tolerate you and is willing to put up with you to gain the first two).
    This is true regardless of your age. A large part of the calculation for nearly every single woman on earth has more to do with the guys resources or at least future resource prospects. Guys value beauty, youth and pleasantness. Women desire the things I listed above.
    Oh.. you're 25yo and ripped and athletic? I can't tell you how many guys I've known from the gym who were doing ok professionally and were very athletic and lean and attractive....who've had their hottie gf dump then like a hot potato for a guy 25 years older who was well off. See it ALL THE FREAKING TIME.
    Women want different things than guys want.
    The young men who are critical of older men who have a young hot girl on their arm are jealous. They don't want the competition because honestly... considering what women value....the older, well off guy will win most of the time. I felt the same way when I was 25yo and now that I'm 55yo with a 27yo gf who left her 27yo bf who was younger than me, more athletic than me, taller than me, better looking than me, almost certainly 10x better in bed than me.....I still get to bang her every night and she snuggles up to me afterwards. I was not wrong to be jealous and critical of it when I was younger because.....well, who likes competition, especially when that competition has an edge that I didn't have? But its not rational and it is immature. I matured as I aged. We are all in competition with everyone else.
    If your community is only 25yo and you're 25yo then you are still in competition with everyone else. Is my hottie 27yo gf banging young hot guys behind my back because I can't keep up sexually with the 27yo guys? Possibly....but then my 27yo gf was banging me behind her 10/10 Chad 27yo bf's back before she left him for me. We all run that risk. All depends on the woman and if that is what she wants to do. Also, most women are smart enough to get away with it without ever being caught.
    I suppose what I'm trying to say is that..... male/female relationships of nearly any kind (except perhaps the fully platonic friendship type) are transactional at some level. You might not view it that way but the female almost definitely sees it that way. It is human nature. All peoples, all cultures... everyone. It is our nature.
    Here is my suggestion. Live your best life for yourself. Be your best version of yourself. Be good to yourself and do not destroy yourselves with additions such as alcohol, drugs, porn, video games, tv series or whatever. Try to become just a little bit better every single day than you were yesterday at things with goals in mind.
    If you do not want to have a long time marriage and children then....DO NOT GET MARRIED.
    If you are over 40....definitely as you approach 50yo......absolutely consider finding a woman as a companion that you will never, ever marry and if you get along well together.....stay in a life-long committed relationship and grow old and die together but DO NOT place your nutt-sack on an anvil and hand the woman (and the state) a hammer to smash your balls with.
    Hope this helps.

  • @jcclassybro9426
    @jcclassybro9426 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Like the way you think...I agree with you 100%... fake stuff dosen't cut it for me, Boobs and all that...when I touch something it's gotta be the reall thing, non of that silicone crap especially me, I'm a little rough when it comes to sex...lol...lol... so no plastic bubbles anywhere, I might pop something in the spur of the moment....Like your thinking Wes... I'm an Italian and that's the way we think, and also from what you say in your videos makes me wanna watch even more because when you describe the Colombian Culture is very similar to my Italian Culture , we're all about family respect word of honor family values and dignity. Thxs Wes for the valuable info your conveying here...because i have plans to move there sometime very soon....be good and Congratulations on your marriage and may i say you've found a " Pearl " your wife in your adventure....God Bless you both...Amen

  • @imagineyou3117
    @imagineyou3117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Facts.

  • @Mike.br80
    @Mike.br80 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great thumbnail! 😂

  • @TheSlashSlingingSlasher
    @TheSlashSlingingSlasher 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another great one Wes. I second learning Spanish or else you will get taken advantage by the "gringo hunters" lol

  • @caribbrazilian9518
    @caribbrazilian9518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The thumbnail is a violation for the USA 😂😂😂😂.

    • @TheSlashSlingingSlasher
      @TheSlashSlingingSlasher 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He really put big Bertha Becky in the thumbnail! Lol

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LMAO

    • @IamjustBruh
      @IamjustBruh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s genius tho. Wes knows what he’s doing 👏🏿👏🏿

    • @caribbrazilian9518
      @caribbrazilian9518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@IamjustBruh I'm sure lol. I just thought it was funny 😂😂😂

  • @tomix3568
    @tomix3568 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Did you just say “that whole feminism bullshit”?

  • @crazycolombian305
    @crazycolombian305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your a smart guy and everything you said was accurate. I love America but the ladies do nothing for me and I'm even talking about Miami where it's more conservative then most other cities. Family values are being destroyed intentionally all over the world mostly in western nations it's called cultural Marxism and yes it absolutely exists in Bogota with the young people but it's nothing like what's happening in America. ✌🏼

    • @kirkbean8197
      @kirkbean8197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Miami is very materialistic and shallow.

    • @crazycolombian305
      @crazycolombian305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kirkbean8197 Yes very much

    • @MoAdan28
      @MoAdan28 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      London is like that too but differently like New York but London is the mix of Miami, Houston and New york in terms of international reputation.

  • @jonathanescalada1584
    @jonathanescalada1584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for the video. In your time dating in Colombia, did you ever come across a girl who offered to split the dinner bill or offered to pay for something?

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah it happened with one of my exs, we went 50/50. My wife now will offer sometimes but I pay for 80% of everything.

    • @alexanderivkin7086
      @alexanderivkin7086 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WheresWes I rather pay a 20 $ dinner for two people in Colombia than a 100$ dinner in western europe or USA.

  • @ts4426
    @ts4426 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, by a longshot

  • @supermonk3y07
    @supermonk3y07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dang man. So very soon Colombian women will be indistinguishable from US women. How about in towns smaller than Manizales? I assume once that happens, there's no going back

  • @walkingstick6655
    @walkingstick6655 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Haaa! Flashing Wil Smith on "getting stepped on by women"...perfect. And thumbs up to the US (I'm from the US) culture now being so twisted that there's supposed to be acceptance of whatever someone looks like, weight-wise, calling "body shaming" when, in fact, someone is fat/obese. In the long run, being overweight is a health issue. You may be large and healthy now, but that isn't going to last long.
    My theory is that fat criticism is likely a very biological expression. Thinks about it, hundreds of thousands of years ago, as we eveolved, it was a rarity to have anyone be fat. It meant they weren't expending the energy consumed by hunting/gathering. Being fat was also a liability, unless it was for the others, when the lion caught up and ate the slow, fat guy. There are biological origins to reactions to fat people, just like there are biases in facial symmetry and some physical limitations. It's all about survival and viable mate selection.

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing

    • @alexanderivkin7086
      @alexanderivkin7086 ปีที่แล้ว

      The pharma mafia wants obese people and drug addicts. These are their cash cows. That is why they are promoting this BS called "Body positivity".

  • @hoppeanofasgard1365
    @hoppeanofasgard1365 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why are so many women flaky in Colombia Wes? And is this issue less in Manizales? Thanks

  • @amonzart2379
    @amonzart2379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Finding a good partner is almost like hitting the lottery in America or anywhere else . Having old fashion values not always guarantees she or he is a good human being. In COLOMBIA we have too much of double standards so I stopped relying on speech long ago. I prefer to judge actions before religion or family values.
    What you said about colombian men are almost 100% womanizers is true thats why its easy for our women to get poisoned by American or European culture. Most of Colombian women are sick to be submissive to their men just to receive betrayal.
    Most of them are going to state: I dont want to be that dumb girl anymore when I can have jewerly or green card from simps.

    • @cristianloquesea
      @cristianloquesea 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      todo a los extremos, salimos de un extremo para entrar al otro extremo.

  • @alexisalejandro832
    @alexisalejandro832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Las colombianas y venezolanas son las mejores!!!! Las boricuas se dañaron con las actitudes de las gringas.

  • @jonathanescalada1584
    @jonathanescalada1584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Wes, I’m just curious before you moved to Manizales did you stay anywhere else in Colombia like Cali or some other city?

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bogota and medellin. I went to Jardin but just to visit.

  • @alexandertraveler510
    @alexandertraveler510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That’s why I went to Brazil. Dating in Anglo sphere is like picking a needle in haystack

  • @deepvoice4195
    @deepvoice4195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even Asian dudes love Latin women. Latin women know they the shit

  • @johnsmith-ik8il
    @johnsmith-ik8il 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In short, it depends if they're Conservative or not.

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah and where u look

  • @Giablo1
    @Giablo1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Colombian women and Latinas are definitely better but I genuinely think it's getting worse and more similar to the West pretty much by the day

    • @supermonk3y07
      @supermonk3y07 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Terrible man. I guess once it's indistinguishable from the west, there's no going back

  • @jamiestar3376
    @jamiestar3376 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Women in colombia have more time than USA and Colombia tend to cook more because money is tied... the salary in colombia is 400 bucks.. I make that in a day in Los angeles..but most are more femine and dress well.

    • @ChezGonzales99
      @ChezGonzales99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you dont mind me asking, what kind of jobs in america pay like that? Im also from a Caribbean country and most people work for 20usd a day.

  • @ElenaCarvajal
    @ElenaCarvajal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm American (but raised by my Salvadoran mother, so).. My husband is Colombian. I was tired of American men's ways, and my husband was tired of Colombian women's ways. Together we are very happy!

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haha that's awesome

  • @timmartin638
    @timmartin638 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Say less I'm coming

  • @franklanksworth2235
    @franklanksworth2235 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Solid video. How do I get my Columbian friend to come visit me in the United States?

  • @neriedhansen5350
    @neriedhansen5350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    West I love your videos,specially your values and how you love family specially I love your strong faith. With all my respect I would like to highlight some points you should know about women of Colombia, and specially the way you downgrade single parents. The reasons why there are single parents in Colombia as the rest of the world, firstly let’s highlight as an example your mother in law who is a widow and it was no her choice she had to bring up your wife as a single parent, you have a good wife with good moral and fear of God, this is due mostly from the upbringing of her single parent mother. The past violence in Colombia let many widows, single parents, There are many marriages that failed because of men’s infidelity, there are women who decided to have a child on their own because they felt it was not easy to find a husband. There are women who had unwanted pregnancies and with the family support decided to have the child. There are women who were badly abuse by their husband. Those are few examples of single parenting. Most importantly in Colombia for one male there are ten women, no enough men to find a husband. This is why you may find a man with two families or more and the wife have to keep quiet so the husband won’t leave. Sad very sad. Women in Colombia like mature men more than their age and the “sugar daddy” doesn’t exist because when you see couples with big gap age, it is a real relationship, men in Colombia take advantage of being scarce by leaving their wife’s for a younger woman and this over the world. Women in Colombia don’t go for a man for their money unless you find women from very poor areas who are looking for someone to have the chance to find a partner who will help her out, this doesn’t mean she is using him, it means she is hoping he will stay for good with her. what I admired about single parents in Colombia specially the old generations is, they brought up their children so well sometimes they have as paisas families in the past they had at least six children those single parents used to bring the food to the table with hard work, those children from those generations grew up and nowadays they are the professionals, business people, and good husbands because of the example of the mother. This is why I think you should stop degrading single parents with all my respect.

    • @panchovilla701
      @panchovilla701 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why does a fool who is not from Colombia talk about how he thinks things are in Colombia?

  • @Goldton5
    @Goldton5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What city did you say the modest women are?

  • @savagelychill2858
    @savagelychill2858 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No culture is superior but not all cultures are compatible. Remember that If you’re from the U.S. Also recognize your money doesn’t buy you respect or loyalty. You’re just buying attention. Once your cash runs low it’s time to go.

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah agreed

  • @DJV94022
    @DJV94022 ปีที่แล้ว

    One thing about american women is ..when she has girls night outs you have to go pick them up when they get shyt faced..whats the point of going to pickup a person thats part of your life thats smashed up who possibly talked to men behind your back..thats the typical american women

  • @livanoguerrero3385
    @livanoguerrero3385 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is all relative...

  • @Brookyo222
    @Brookyo222 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also, Please learn Spanish, just learning in small amounts goes along way, and with her family.

  • @eddieonthegotravel
    @eddieonthegotravel ปีที่แล้ว

    Barranquilla has modified women. 😂

  • @status-xk8kr
    @status-xk8kr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about women originally from Colombia who have moved to the United States and have become U.S. citizens? Would they fit Wes' stereotype of an American woman? Since Colombia is in South America, wouldn't Colombian women be considered as American women as well?

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They retain their home values somewhat but I've found are more American than Colombian

  • @JamR0ck
    @JamR0ck 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ✈️✈️✈️

  • @dazafitness1
    @dazafitness1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Facts all the way… I don’t date any American women anymore

  • @hajarhajar8906
    @hajarhajar8906 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But your experience in your marriage was completely different from this

  • @JorgeCruz-zn2vn
    @JorgeCruz-zn2vn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video question. How are the Christain girls? I’m a devout Christian myself and I was wondering how the woman are? Are they super dedicated more than the states? How are they with sexual purity if sex is so open in the country?

    • @cristianloquesea
      @cristianloquesea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sex is not so open in Colombia, just because your social circle is, doesn't mean that the whole country is like that.

  • @davegarmendia1717
    @davegarmendia1717 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    AMEN

  • @jackmate2
    @jackmate2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    and yes American women are kind of Tomboy..a mix between woman and a man

  • @Toopain2125
    @Toopain2125 ปีที่แล้ว

    Easily Colombian women are the most beautiful women out there

    • @WheresWes
      @WheresWes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Greek women and Swedish are up there too

  • @xgtwb6473
    @xgtwb6473 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    funny people think asians are weak, go spar some in a thai gym lol

  • @devildog3799
    @devildog3799 ปีที่แล้ว

    It still beats the U.S.! F it! Lol