Wedding Story Time: Jeena's 3-Hour Late Arrival! | Hair Care & Family Bonding with the Wilders
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 มี.ค. 2023
- Today, Jeena and Drue are sharing an unforgettable wedding story time while unbraiding their daughters' hair. Get ready to laugh and empathize as they recount the tale of Jeena being 3 hours late to their wedding! 😱 Hear both sides of the story - Drue's experience waiting at the altar, and Jeena's side as she washes their daughters' hair. Stick around for a heartwarming family moment and a recap at the end. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button for more fun family stories and hair care adventures with the Wilders!
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Even as an African and a Nigerian, 3 hours late is too much for a bride. Mostly, guests are the ones coming late to occasions but not up to 3 hours. Well all is in the past but moving forward she should respect time because it's precious to people.
You guys are just the cutest couple. Jeena even for us Caribbeans three hours is a lot! Poor guy.
As a person who struggles with being prompt, I feel so sad at how harsh most of these reactions are. I am never TRYING to be disrespectful to others. I am usually in a panic, berating myself and very upset, while rushing to try to make myself a little less late. I have been this way all my life (I have ADHD), and all my life, I have CONSTANTLY worked on improving this part of myself.
I love that Drue did not give up. I love how unconditionally they love each other. 💕
I was not late to my own wedding, but I did arrive about 10 minutes late to my daughter's wedding. They waited for me. I was quite embarrassed.
🤦♀️😥😔
I have to admit that after an hour I would have been afraid Jeena was a no-show. By three hours I would have been in panic mode. But in the end, it worked out and you have a wonderful marriage and a beautiful family. 😊
❤
Hey they don’t have 5 kids for now reason. He love him some her and I love that for her.
They are such a fun family! They always do fun things and always with love 💕 love
He loves her! Look at the way he looks at her !❤
He's afraid of her! She has her a whimpy white man😂
I love you, girl, but I never liked people saying late is our culture considering so many of us are never late. That's my experience anyway. I'm happy that you have a _happily ever after_ 🤭🤗💝💐🦋
My husband’s parents were 45 mins late to our wedding and I was so stressed! 😂 I think everyone would’ve left if we started three hours late!
Cow’s subtle smile when y’all kissed shows you are perfect examples of what love looks like…even if jeena was 3 hours late to her own wedding LOL! 😂
The way their daughter smiles after they kiss is so wholesome. 6:04 ✨
I love hearing couples talk about how they met, when they were engaged, their wedding and then how’s it been since. Jeena was really only an hour late, the next 2 hours was taken up by her mom and sister. And now you’re celebrating your 11th Anniversary, which is so wonderful!!!
HAPPY 11th ANNIVERSARY!!!🥳🥳🍾🍾🥂🥂💥💥💐💐
THIS! 👏❤
Nails could have definitely been done the day before. It’s disrespectful of your mother and sister to do that to you. Your husband is very kind and patient. You are so blessed.
I’m Haitian too and yes it is “normal” for Haitians to be late everywhere 🤣🤣 it really doesn’t start on time. I personally am a stickler for time. I can’t stand tardiness. But I would feel completely at home if you were late 🤣🤣
3 hrs is a little excessive though ngl 😂
I have in laws who are always late for everything. When possible we just start things without them but I think it’s very disrespectful not to be considerate of other people’s time.
Like what did the guests do? What about the venue? Was it rented for a specific time? This must've been a wedding at someone's house or community center because the photographer, caterer, etc had to be family.
Que hermoso amor se tienen, y que tierno él ayudando a su esposa a peinar a su pequeña, muchas gracias por compartir su vida con nosotros, él se ve un hombre enamorado de su esposa, TODAS queremos un hombre así de tierno y cariñoso
I’m Trini and yes, Caribbean people usually run on “West Indian” time lol! But tbh, 3 hours is a little much. Even I would’ve been freaked out. 😂😭
Three hours is pretty late. LOL - My wedding started late as my mother was helping my grandparents, who lived next door to the church, get ready, and the best man and his mother had to hitch hike halfway across Nevada because their car would not start.
3 hours lol God gave Drue the Patience he needed that day :) It didn't matter cuz ya'lls love was on time:) Such a great family:)
I am in an interracial relationship as well, and yes we do have differences...
He lives by, If you are 15 minutes EARLY, you're on time. If you're on time! You're late!
I am ALWAYS late! He now calls it "Connie time!" lol
He keeps threatening to LEAVE ME BEHIND when I'm not ready on time, but I don't think that's ever gonna happen! 😂😂
I met him when I was 15! I'm 54 now!
I think you are both very lucky to have found each other.
My husband and I celebrated our silver wedding anniversary this year and we have been together 30 years and we kept our wedding low key. I absolutely love both of your laid attitude to absolutely everything and nothing seems to phase either of you, so you must be a perfect match. ❤
Three hours is disrespectful. Like Geez Jeena. 😂😂😂
I was afraid to say the same thing. You’re right.
Totally, haha. I adore them and this family so much - and I too am Caribbean, since I am from Puerto Rico. I am always on time but I know all about lateness because it is a thing here as well. Everyone else is always late and events and celebrations start a lot later than stipulated and we call it "Puerto Rico time".
BUT, 3 hours is wild, hahaha. I'd have freaked out if my spouse was 3 hours late to our wedding.
She said she had to wait two more hours for her mom and sister. She would have been one hour late otherwise
@Pokii that's still unacceptable. Had it been the guy, there would've been an uproar. Most people make appointments and let the stylist or tech know they have a wedding to attend so as to allow enough time to be on time.
@@Rasputiahowyoudoin that's what it is.. okay.
I’m Haitian
I am on his side
Last time I went to a weeding
The reception was 4 hours late
Because the bride was changing dresses 🥹
You all have your priorities straight in that a marriage is far more important than a wedding.
On a side note, watching Jeena wash and style the girls' hair is oddly soothing. It relaxes me. Anyway, here's to another 11 years. 🥂
Y’all are so sweet. I love following y’all’s stories.
Watching you guys puts a big smile on my face. Love you guys, you are a true example of what a happy marriage looks like. Watching from Kenya 🇰🇪
😊 thank you
Your children are beautiful. They have there beauty from their mommy and daddy.
I think an hour late if I had been warned she would be late but that does seem very extreme to me. What about everyone else waiting, the vicar guests etc… leaving having nails done on the day seems too late I would get those things done in the days before. Glad you are still so happy together. Xx
I agree. Total disrespect for everyone else.
@@kathleenhunter4331 it’s all good Kathleen I promise to be 5 hrs late for our vow renewal! 😂
You two are so precious together! 💕❤️💕
I’ve never been more than 20 minutes late to anything. Ever.
I’m early. Because I respect others.
Yeah some people are very self centred
I love your explanation at the end of the video. Got all the drama out of the way before “I Do” and it’s been smooth sailing ever since ❤❤❤
i would think 30 min- 1 hour is late but 3 hours?! lmao. i would’ve been a lil nervous too.
love your videos btw! i have been binging since i found you 😂❤🎉
Yay. We appreciate you being here! Which has been your favorite video so far?
@@HeyThereWilders i love water day & the juneteenth episode 🫶🏾
How cute you two are, I love how you caringly communicate. It’s a happy feeling🫶
Beautiful love’s story ❤
Une belle histoire d’amour❤
You guys have such a beautiful family.
You two are just SO cute together!
I find your family pleasant,lovable and adorable...god bless you guys...
Thank you for sharing your life and journey. It’s a sweet and wonderful journey watching your family grow. 💕💕💕💕💕
Cow’s sweet smile when you gave Jeena a little smooch. So cute. 🥰
I would have been wigging out y’all, but you know each other so it was no big deal. Thanks for sharing your story. I pray many blessings to your beautiful family.
I love your family!
You guys are sooooooo adorable ❤ 🙏❤️🙏❤️
Cute couple - you two are just so precious 😊
Thank you!! 😊
@@HeyThereWilders You are so welcome. You are a TRUE Proverbs 31 woman and your husband is a TRUE man of G-d. It is so evident in all of your videos. Blessings always🙏
I love your story ❤you guys are the most loving and caring couple , blessed you
I’m glad Drue was so understanding! I actually would not be able to imagine having a partner that can’t understand cultural differences. Every event hosted by African family and friends that I attend will typically start late. It’s known. You plan around it. If the start time is said to be 5, we know that if we show up at 6pm there is a high chance that set up will still be going on and we will be helping. Three hours late was something tho 😂 Congrats on your upcoming anniversary!!
You guys are adorable . I wish you two many happy anniversaries
Love the Wilder Family, May God continue to bless you abundantly. Mrs W, love your hair, you're rocking that look👌😊♥️💐
Drew your hilarious and Jeena your beautiful. Love your smiles
I'd say late is 30minutes😂
💕Phew Jeena, I would have been sweating with concern but, as you said, full communication was going on and you kept Drew updated. Question, how did you and the rest of the guests, pass the time whilst waiting?💞
Yes Jena agreed late but not 3 hours. I felt his pain. I love you both so much.
I was waiting for this story😂😂 If I’m not ten minutes early, I’m in a complete panic. THREE HOURS is so freaking funny. Yeah it’s a long wait but everyone there loves Drue and Jeena and they know Jeena is chronically late, they probably thought it was amusing, I would! After all the day is 100% about Drue and Jeena, and not about the guests. If it were someone else’s event, that would be a different story for sure
You make your family proud 👏 J
Amo esta familia
I love you guys and if you're okay with 3 hours everybody else should be to you guys look really happy and you have a beautiful family and I wish you many many years of happiness❤
If you know it's to early reset the time of the Wedding??? Sorry Jeena! Being late is disrespectful..
Yes.....very disrespectful!
@@kathleenhunter4331 eh maybe I’m just a disrespectful person. But I’m just who I am too old to change it now 😂
Thanks for sharing
Beautiful family 💓💜🛐🙋🏾♀️
So happy to know now, how you
spell Jeena! Just listening to this
now!👍
Mary🇺🇸🥰🙏❤️👍
Have a lovely day! ❤
You too!!
We were about fifteen minutes late for ours (26 years next month), but only bc I was horribly sick. I was 7 months, almost 8 months pregnant with my son at the time, and it was an awful pregnancy, so many things went wrong. But anyway...
But my friend who is Greek got married and she was still getting her hair done and chilling, 2 hours after she was supposed to be getting married at her hometown cathedral. She hadn't gotten dressed yet by 3 hours after. Nobody seemed to be worried at all except for us bc we didn't know this is normal for them. When we finally all got there (everyone went together, a huge convoy of cars through the town), we still had to wait for her husband lol who was about half an hour after that. And the reception went on until 2-3 am, AND they had an after-party, but I got lost, so didn't go. I guess they didn't roll in until 8am the next morning lol Greek weddings are something else. 😅
I love y’all family❤
I 100% would not have expected this from this couple LOL - we have ‘Vietnamese’ time too where we are always late ( i try not to be, maybe 15 - 20 mins max ) I would’ve been throwing up crying if my partner was 30 mins late if im being for real, but maybe that’s the beautiful thing about couples being different and working for each other. We can’t fit every single person’s taste, I pray to God that one day someone who likes me will find me. It sounds like you guys found each other, cheers
Late would be 10 minutes tops before I’d start freaking out!😅
BTW - what were the guests doing during those 3 hours?
You two are such a beautiful example for your children of a solid loving marriage and I love how you really listen and respond to each other.😊
since the first time i watched your vlog .I love watching your vlog i love the way you love your family and i just love you guys.🥰😘😍
You have a good husband and a man who has patient and family support, cherish every moment of it. three hours, my husband would have left and went home 😂
I do agree 👍
Loving the videos too 😁
Thank you!
Nice video 🙂
I really like the both of you and I wish my marriage was much like yours. God bless u both
Love from the islands 🇯🇲🫶🏾🇭🇹
You all are so cute
Yo por un hombre tan guapo y cariñoso, hubiera esperado un año, pero mira bonita, valió la pena pa espera, ERES linda y muy amada, felicidades excelente matrimonio,
Am an African and we're always late but 3 hours is way too late!!!
Wow! I know that there's "a thing" about black people always being late, but I've never heard of anyone being this late for a wedding, especially not their own. 😮
I say that thirty minutes is long enough to wait for a wedding to begin. That's the longest I've waited for one, and the guests were beginning to wonder about the situation after twenty minutes.
There was mention of it being part of the Haitian culture. If so, how do you guys make arrangements for the venue if it's someplace that's open during certain hours? I've been to weddings where the officiant had two weddings back to back, and though they allow for extra time, and it's usually about an extra hour in case things run late.
I understand paying for a full day of venue use, but what happens if the day runs out before your event begins? What about catering, bands/DJs, and decorators? I dabble in event planning/decorating and I expect to have my decorations down and packed by the time we agreed on. I know that a lot of people have family and friends who handle _everything_ , so maybe that was something you guys had on your side.
I can relate to "black people being late", as I'm "black" (African, Native American and European descent), but I can't relate to Haitian culture. Still, I'm late to everything and I hate it. 😕
There are times when I'm on time, but I'm late more often than that. I think it really depends on what the event is, because I was right on time for all the weddings I've been in as a bridesmaid (always a bridesmaid, never a bride🫤) because I know weddings and funerals are extremely important to family and friends.
If the bride, groom or their immediate family hadn't had been ill or injured, or absolutely had no way to get there, as a guest, I probably would have left after an hour.
Like the saying goes "It was worth the wait", and it seems to be true for you guys. 🙂
You guys are a beautiful family and I enjoy watching your channel, but I must say that this story of how late you were to the wedding gave me palpitations...LOL. Glad it all worked out...the marriage is the most important thing in the end.
Most African weddings I been too, it's usually one or one half hours late. Some times some of the important guests are late.
That poor man God bless him he is a man dear God take him though I will pray for him what a good heart I love him .
I was 45 minutes late to my wedding so you aren't alone Jeena. BUT, Drue's expressions had me WEAK this entire video..he was like mmhmm girl, go ahead and explain but you was LATE LATE!
Drue had plenty of warning! And I was in constant communication. This dude was playing pranks on his poor mama! lol
@@HeyThereWilders because he wasn't even worried...he knew he was getting the prize. Even though the prize was on CP time😂
@@christenford3864 ...and she was worth the wait...Jeena is such a beautiful lady and I have to say Jeena that all the kids look like dad😂❤️😘
❤🎉at least Jenna showed up what a great story you have a beautiful family ❤😊🎉
@@HeyThereWilders
The prank made me sad, but later, I also thought it was a _little_ bit funny as payback for all the times he had to wait for her. Oh, that Drue. 🤭
I would say an hour would be considered late but three hours would have the groom climbing the wall.
I love your new beautiful hair do. It is very flcattering I appreciate you sharing your "love" story. Dating a long time for at least all 4 seasons would be good. But dating for 2 years would be better.
Love the intro😂
lol thank you !! 🤣😭
My family is from the island of Puerto Rico and we are notarious for tardiness. And i forewarned my parrish priest i might be a little late. Now that i am older and have more responsibilities i have to train myself to be organized, and disciplined with others' time.
No judgement and i commented bc you gave permission.
Jennna, you are the most organized, disciplined, patient and creative mom i have viewed. But your family was wrong! 💜
I love the idea of weddings, and the start of your New Life together. Being a half hour to an hour I would have a little patience, but 2 hours 3 hours I'll be gone you'll just have to tell me about it. I also think just my opinion keeping your guests waiting 3 is so disrespectful. Just because others do it, you don't have to. I am glad y'all are happy together.
Three hours is SO late, that I would think the person wasn't gonna show lol I was about a half an hour late to my wedding. I think half hour to 45 minutes is acceptable. But wholly smokes Gina!
I would have loved to see more photos... So boo, only saw one. Also, What does a true Haitian wedding look like? I worked with some Haitian refugees at a center in Maryland. It was devastating because there was a lot of talk of sending them back. They had floated to the US on a small raft. And get this, we were told the white refugees 9x out of 10 get to stay, opposed to the black. But this was in the 90s, maybe it's different now...
@@parawomenradio 😮😮😮😮
WOW , How sad , hopefully it's different now then, then.
@@lisramirez1959 I know. It was a refugee center. So there was hope and sadness. I think about those people and hope they weren't sent home to be slaughtered. There were white refugees that I was told would be easier for them to stay due to our government. It was an entire summer there, really good summer. Also went to Howard and interviewed a professor of African American Studies (it's what they were calling it at the time) and met Gloria Steinem and learned Grassroots Demonstrations.
No am not waiting for 3hrs....but you're my favorite couple....
Love u guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You guys are beautiful
Ur really gentleman 🙏🙏🙏
I am a spaniard (from Spain) half an hour late as much for weddings.
Never been so early!
Yay!!! 🏆 you did it!
Late is like thirty minutes, and that's really late to me. 😱 Gina was three hours late. I'm dead ⚰️🪦😂😂😂
Jeena knows the 3 hours was a bit ridiculous, even for us Caribbean ppl, that’s why she’s being so defensive while hubby telling his side ☺️
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Your A Great. FUN FAMILY.. BESIDES. YOU TUBE. . THE WILDERS. SHOULD OPEN A RESTAURANT. ON. WEEKEND
You sound like Drue! Always trying to convince me to open a restaurant when taking care of family is enough already 🤣🤣
@@HeyThereWilders thanks for your reply . it was FAST have a great day I Live. in JOHNSTOWN . PENNSYLVANIA . Bye. and. thanks .💙💚💛🧡❤️🤎
Ohh looks like baby #6 will be in the works tonight
Jeena even by BMT you were late😅 Come on girl, you are setting new standard for BMT. I knew it as African time but it turns out to be BMTime. 😂❤
I love that this is a story that makes you smile...now. I would have gone without my mom and sister. 150 people were waiting, bride and groom were waiting. For nails? I love my mom and sis, but no.
Yep. No excuse. That is a terrible way to start your new life togeather.
@@kathleenhunter4331 So are you saying Kathleen if I would 5 hrs late Drue and I would’ve been even more happier than we are today?! I’m never gonna be on time for anything again take to you and your logic Kathleen.
@@HeyThereWilders Hope that works out for you!😀
She beat me , I was two hours late but it was due to hair salon guy and traffic. It's okay what counts is that you are together and have a beautiful blessed family. 💕
Lol...My husband and and I showed up together but he forgot the rings so my mother and I went back home to get them. It took about 45 minutes to drive back, find where he placed them, then drive back. He wasn't use to the drive so he wasn't aware of how long it took. He thought I wasn't coming back ...bahahaha...19 years later we still laugh about how nervous he got.
Ok. I'm about a minute in and I know this isn't even the point of the video but who else but me thought watching both of them take out the babies braids was cute!?! 🤗
Purposely to be 3 hrs late… Now that’s a lot 😂 Omg I feel for the guest.. but Cow holding up 3 fingers 😂