Ladies and girls please stop going into long term relationships whilst you're still young. Love yourself before you start loving someone otherwise you'll get lost without knowing yourself.
Going to leave an abusive relationship today! It all starts from parents as well. I witnessed my mom and dad get violent with each other and it affected me so much. I fell into 2 toxic abusive relationships and realized I had childhood trauma. Time to focus on myself and learn to love myself .
One my toxic ex didn’t like me wearing makeup and made me cry once cuz the eyeshadow I was wearing that day .But I got compliments of the same eyeshadow he didn’t like. Right now in my life I wear the makeup I enjoy wearing and if a guy in my life doesn’t like it he can keep it moving..
Girl... my ex bf bought me a ring for Mother’s Day. We broke up and I gave it back. So he gave the ring to his new girl. She confronted me one day and I laughed and said it was cute on her. They ended up having a baby and he went to jail. Lol
selena herrera lol yes but thank god I dodged a bullet!!! I can’t imagine what my life would of been like if I stayed with him! I do with his family the best!
That’s how I felt too girl but I realised seeing and hearing other people’s experiences first made me less vulnerable when it came to it, don’t get me wrong you should let yourself fall in love but it also helped me notice red flags 💜
Girl, don’t let these stories scare you but you can always keep your guard up and dont ignore any red flags either! But don’t expect everything to be all “lovey dovey” all the time because it won’t be, trust me. I’m turning 23 in a month and I’ve been in my first actual relationship with my boyfriend and we’ve been together for over 3 years now & let’s just say, we’ve hit a few rough patches but we both learn that communication and trust is key.
Pay attention to the red flags. A guy should not put his hands on you and even verbal abuse is NOT okay in any relationship. But I hope you find a good guy 😇!
One of my ex’s told me I’d never find anyone as good looking as him or make as good of money as him & I met my fiancé who makes 10 times the amount he did and is 100 times better looking & we are engaged with a babygirl on the way I’m super happy I love this video you did boo ❤️
Ugh, it hurts me to hear so many women have been through this shit. I’ve been in so many toxic and abusive relationships 🥺‼️ I’m so thankful to have survived. I was saved by God’s love and grace 🙏🏼 I swear, never again.. I know my worth! 👏🏼💯
I was with a person, many years ago, who’s brother killed his girlfriend, they had three little girls.I stayed, and he threatened me for years that if I left him, he’d kill me like his Bro killed his girlfriend. So I slept for years, with a knife in between my mattress at night, because I was scared and stupid, humiliated. I lost myself sooo bad. I could of told my older brothers but I didn’t want them in prison because of my dumb choices. I took a lot of shit, cheating, abuse, verbal abuse. One day, I looked in the mirror, and said that was enough, I felt like a zombie. I didn’t feel anymore, I took food care of my son, but I didn’t want that life for him, because he was getting bigger, and starting to notice what was going on. So, I applied for housing a year before, they called, I bounced, and left him. I was scared af. But I did it, I can tell you reading this, if your in my shoes, LEAVE AND DON’T LOOK BACK! THEY NEVER CHANGE! LOVE ISN’T SUPPOSED TO HURT! ! So, I got an apt. I got my G.E.D. and began college, traveled, had fun with my son and my parents. I stayed single almost three years, and met the love of my life, my soulmate, my sexy white beefcake lol. Have two kids together, been with him since 2011. It does get better, don’t give up! Your beautiful, your strong, your loved!!! Get help if you need it. (By the way, my ex, passed away back in 2014 from a drug overdose). Sad, but that was an addiction he could never leave, even when I was with him. Best of luck to all of you going through shit. Don’t give up!
Manipulative people comes in all colours,shapes and genders.Girls,keep your eyes open and don't let anybody dictate your life or tell you what you can or can't do,not even your own parents have that right.Be the owner of your own life and future.✨Jas,you should do more videos of this type or maybe videos talking about how bad your last relationship have been.Im sure you could help a lot of girls by talking about it.💪😘
My ex broke my jaw now I have permanent plates and screws. He was also cheating on me with like the whole city AND was in a relationship with both me and his baby momma!?!?!?! Didn’t find all this out until we broke up. Now he can barely show his face in El Paso because I put him on blast and all these people threaten him. 🤷🏾♀️
Miriam Martinez it’s okay I’m way better now I was in such a dark place but it opened my eyes now I have my 9 month old son and a wonderful husband. Thank you for your kind words ❤️
Jasmine can you tell us the ur story behind “didn’t mean it “ I know it’s a fase you wouldn’t want to talk about but some of us go through that same domestic sht and seeing where your at now can make people understand that we can surpass that and get away 💖
I like what you said about “I’m a plain girl I’m a cute girl,” Us average Joes over here screaming yassss 😂💘 lol but I don’t think I would call you plain. I consider myself simple. I think you’re that way too. Simple life is the best life. 😎
One firstly I’m living for that phone case. Also dated my high school sweet he was extremely abusive physically emotionally and everything. Had the courage to leave and finally with my husband and we had our son he’s 8 months. ❤️
I watch so many youtubers and never comment on any of their content but here I am !! I love your videos I really wish you’d post more !!❤️ you’re so strong and beautiful I’ve been watching you since you were in your old relationship and I love how you’re still you !!
I am so sorry you were in a very bad relationship, Queen. I am glad that you got out of it as soon as possible and that you are a lot happier now. Many blessings to you and your family. God Bless!
My ex told me after 6 months of dating that she hasn’t been attracted to me in a while , sometimes she is , sometimes she isn’t and she felt pressure to stay in the relationship because I introduced her to my family.
Most definitely. Some men will really play with your mind, tell you you’re not enough or nobody else will want you & you start to believe their words after them telling you so much 🤦🏻♀️😪 that’s mental & emotional abuse.
I’m so proud of how much you have grown, I’ve seen you since the video of just a friend then I saw didn’t mean it. You honestly have grown and became so amazing and beautiful I’m proud of you 💕💕💕
The worst thing an ex has ever done to me was drive off while I was hanging off on the side of the window. I was trying to get my phone back and my neighbors called the cops. He even trapped me in his house and wouldn’t let me leave all because he went through my phone while I was asleep. He even connected my phone with his and would get all of my texts. I stayed with him on and off for almost 2 years.
My baby's father pushed me while I was holding my lil one..got a restraining order after that ...we good now, better than ever . ! It's hard to let go, but you gotta ask yourself what's more important.
I was in a relationship where he had a pregnancy scare from another girl not me and tried to say it was before me but we had already been dating for a year and the girl was barely going to her first ultrasound with him. I loved him so I kept it strong and I let him go to the ultrasounds with her and doctor appointments with no worries . Constantly reminded him that I will stick by his side no matter what.. next thing I know he told me he loved me but that he wanted a family that I couldn’t give and left me for her.. they married and had the baby. I was so devastated I lost myself. And I truly just didn’t care about myself anymore. Didn’t wanna know about love or men at all
DUDE! That Divorce paper from Afghanistan 1... SeriouslyFucked up! Also that anorexia story... Ladies be your curvaceous selves if that is what you are, if you are fit women, go out and be your happy fit queen selves! God bless us all.💙
My toxic ex was my ex fiancé and he was so abusive. Like so much to the point to where I’m surprised that he didn’t kill me. He almost did though 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
In my last relationship he would compare me to another girl she was a mutual friend that we both knew he would say why can't you be more like her, he kept saying words and phrases that he knew hurt my feelings, cheated lied about it and threatened to hit me if I ever quote got out of line or if I ever cheated on him which I didn't. I also wasn't allowed to be myself or have guy friends.
I was with the father to my daughter he cheated on me a lot of times and wanted to move to AZ and I didn't and told me if anything happens to his grandpa he will hate me for the rest of his life.
@@kristinaarcos5524 I know. Very traumatic. The idiot threw the gasoline can under my neighbors car, which had his fingerprints. He got 3 years for arson.
Jas im huge fan of you since i was fifteen and is lovely see you so happy is so nice I hope you are doing good and your family saludos girl and good vibes 🌻🌼
Ladies and girls please stop going into long term relationships whilst you're still young. Love yourself before you start loving someone otherwise you'll get lost without knowing yourself.
Going to leave an abusive relationship today! It all starts from parents as well. I witnessed my mom and dad get violent with each other and it affected me so much. I fell into 2 toxic abusive relationships and realized I had childhood trauma. Time to focus on myself and learn to love myself .
im hurt just watching this. Girls find yourself a God fearing man !
This part!! 💯👑🙏💖
One my toxic ex didn’t like me wearing makeup and made me cry once cuz the eyeshadow I was wearing that day .But I got compliments of the same eyeshadow he didn’t like. Right now in my life I wear the makeup I enjoy wearing and if a guy in my life doesn’t like it he can keep it moving..
that's right baby!! don't let anyone bring u down !
so f*cked up!!!
Damn!! Definitely part 2 girl
I got u !
"Left gifts at my door, but never gave me gifts when we were together" FELLLT THATTT🤣
Girl... my ex bf bought me a ring for Mother’s Day. We broke up and I gave it back. So he gave the ring to his new girl. She confronted me one day and I laughed and said it was cute on her. They ended up having a baby and he went to jail. Lol
Wow men are some else
selena herrera lol yes but thank god I dodged a bullet!!! I can’t imagine what my life would of been like if I stayed with him! I do with his family the best!
Ms _Vannary yes thank god you got lucky
Karma mama thank god for u !
it started off so wrong but ended just karma. Good story girl. You won lol
Been a Fan for 10 years and counting ❤❤❤
I’ve never been in a serious relationship before and I just turned 23 last month, hearing about these stories has me scared lowkey 😳
Nicholas Wong tu también, bendiciones ☺️🙌🏼
That’s how I felt too girl but I realised seeing and hearing other people’s experiences first made me less vulnerable when it came to it, don’t get me wrong you should let yourself fall in love but it also helped me notice red flags 💜
Girl, don’t let these stories scare you but you can always keep your guard up and dont ignore any red flags either! But don’t expect everything to be all “lovey dovey” all the time because it won’t be, trust me. I’m turning 23 in a month and I’ve been in my first actual relationship with my boyfriend and we’ve been together for over 3 years now & let’s just say, we’ve hit a few rough patches but we both learn that communication and trust is key.
Pay attention to the red flags. A guy should not put his hands on you and even verbal abuse is NOT okay in any relationship. But I hope you find a good guy 😇!
NANDOE BANKS oh if course not I would definitely defend myself and leave lol
One of my ex’s told me I’d never find anyone as good looking as him or make as good of money as him & I met my fiancé who makes 10 times the amount he did and is 100 times better looking & we are engaged with a babygirl on the way I’m super happy I love this video you did boo ❤️
Congrats 🙌🏾 my ex told me the same thing and here I am happy in my new relationship with my baby boy 🥰
Ugh, it hurts me to hear so many women have been through this shit. I’ve been in so many toxic and abusive relationships 🥺‼️ I’m so thankful to have survived. I was saved by God’s love and grace 🙏🏼 I swear, never again.. I know my worth! 👏🏼💯
I was with a person, many years ago, who’s brother killed his girlfriend, they had three little girls.I stayed, and he threatened me for years that if I left him, he’d kill me like his Bro killed his girlfriend. So I slept for years, with a knife in between my mattress at night, because I was scared and stupid, humiliated. I lost myself sooo bad. I could of told my older brothers but I didn’t want them in prison because of my dumb choices. I took a lot of shit, cheating, abuse, verbal abuse. One day, I looked in the mirror, and said that was enough, I felt like a zombie. I didn’t feel anymore, I took food care of my son, but I didn’t want that life for him, because he was getting bigger, and starting to notice what was going on. So, I applied for housing a year before, they called, I bounced, and left him. I was scared af. But I did it, I can tell you reading this, if your in my shoes, LEAVE AND DON’T LOOK BACK! THEY NEVER CHANGE! LOVE ISN’T SUPPOSED TO HURT! ! So, I got an apt. I got my G.E.D. and began college, traveled, had fun with my son and my parents. I stayed single almost three years, and met the love of my life, my soulmate, my sexy white beefcake lol. Have two kids together, been with him since 2011. It does get better, don’t give up! Your beautiful, your strong, your loved!!! Get help if you need it. (By the way, my ex, passed away back in 2014 from a drug overdose). Sad, but that was an addiction he could never leave, even when I was with him. Best of luck to all of you going through shit. Don’t give up!
Thank you for sharing this❤️ it definitely gave me hope. Happy that you are doing good after all you went through💕
I’ve been a jasminator for as long as i know, i am so proud of the beautiful woman you have become babygirl.
Manipulative people comes in all colours,shapes and genders.Girls,keep your eyes open and don't let anybody dictate your life or tell you what you can or can't do,not even your own parents have that right.Be the owner of your own life and future.✨Jas,you should do more videos of this type or maybe videos talking about how bad your last relationship have been.Im sure you could help a lot of girls by talking about it.💪😘
I love this content!! I love it when your videos feel like we're actually having a one-on-one conversation ❤️
In conclusion, GUYS AINT 💩!
My ex broke my jaw now I have permanent plates and screws. He was also cheating on me with like the whole city AND was in a relationship with both me and his baby momma!?!?!?! Didn’t find all this out until we broke up. Now he can barely show his face in El Paso because I put him on blast and all these people threaten him. 🤷🏾♀️
Aw I’m sorry you had to go through that stay strong ❤️
Miriam Martinez it’s okay I’m way better now I was in such a dark place but it opened my eyes now I have my 9 month old son and a wonderful husband. Thank you for your kind words ❤️
Lmao that moment where she was quiet and digesting the info and then was like “wait girl its your house!”
I love how real genuine and humble you truly are.
Also you are beautiful 😊
Jasmine can you tell us the ur story behind “didn’t mean it “ I know it’s a fase you wouldn’t want to talk about but some of us go through that same domestic sht and seeing where your at now can make people understand that we can surpass that and get away 💖
I like what you said about “I’m a plain girl I’m a cute girl,” Us average Joes over here screaming yassss 😂💘 lol but I don’t think I would call you plain. I consider myself simple. I think you’re that way too. Simple life is the best life. 😎
Jasmine u dont need those lashes guurrlll your gorgeous!!!
love you jasmine! Been following you forever, and you're such an inspiration. I fw you heavyyy. Don't let anything get u down, ur amazing.
One firstly I’m living for that phone case. Also dated my high school sweet he was extremely abusive physically emotionally and everything. Had the courage to leave and finally with my husband and we had our son he’s 8 months. ❤️
I watch so many youtubers and never comment on any of their content but here I am !! I love your videos I really wish you’d post more !!❤️ you’re so strong and beautiful I’ve been watching you since you were in your old relationship and I love how you’re still you !!
Part 2 please!! Girl we been waiting for this
We are a different type of strong 💪🏼 💗💗
So smart and beautiful…wow!
Some of these gave me war flashbacks😂😂
amazing video your amazing Jasmine V. I support you no matter what
I am so sorry you were in a very bad relationship, Queen. I am glad that you got out of it as soon as possible and that you are a lot happier now. Many blessings to you and your family. God Bless!
My ex told me after 6 months of dating that she hasn’t been attracted to me in a while , sometimes she is , sometimes she isn’t and she felt pressure to stay in the relationship because I introduced her to my family.
😥
Love your videos!!! Can we get more life advice content
yes babe!
Most definitely. Some men will really play with your mind, tell you you’re not enough or nobody else will want you & you start to believe their words after them telling you so much 🤦🏻♀️😪 that’s mental & emotional abuse.
I know who 1:49 seconds was about but i won't name drop lmao love you beauty queen Jas 😍❗ and the video
Had to change the time sorry lol
I been following you since beforeeee one of your really, bad relationships 🥺
I’m proud of you! ❤️
Ameera is looking so much like her mom now 💖
After watching this it made me remember my first boyfriend who I wish I never got with. I say my biggest regret was saying "hi".
Love this video Jas 💖 such an eye opener
OMG girl, I see Mizo in you soooo much right here!!! 😭 #Twins
I’m so proud of how much you have grown, I’ve seen you since the video of just a friend then I saw didn’t mean it. You honestly have grown and became so amazing and beautiful I’m proud of you 💕💕💕
Loved this video thanks for you’re feedback and kind words 🥺💓
The worst thing an ex has ever done to me was drive off while I was hanging off on the side of the window. I was trying to get my phone back and my neighbors called the cops. He even trapped me in his house and wouldn’t let me leave all because he went through my phone while I was asleep. He even connected my phone with his and would get all of my texts. I stayed with him on and off for almost 2 years.
Damn I've been through a lot of these myself. Ooof! 🥺
girl I had to edit some out Bec it would've been obvious who I was talking about Bec a lot hit close to home for me lol delete delete delete
@@jasminev feel you! it's understandable why you cropped those out! protect your peace boo.
Same I'm very nice to you I will your music and playlist and songs 💍🌸💞
Love you I always listen to your songs you are strong, kind and one of the best!❤️
Your soo beautiful jas 😍
Watching all your ads so you get your coin❤️
Your lashes 😻😻😻
My baby's father pushed me while I was holding my lil one..got a restraining order after that ...we good now, better than ever . ! It's hard to let go, but you gotta ask yourself what's more important.
Love how mature you are!
I was in a relationship where he had a pregnancy scare from another girl not me and tried to say it was before me but we had already been dating for a year and the girl was barely going to her first ultrasound with him. I loved him so I kept it strong and I let him go to the ultrasounds with her and doctor appointments with no worries . Constantly reminded him that I will stick by his side no matter what.. next thing I know he told me he loved me but that he wanted a family that I couldn’t give and left me for her.. they married and had the baby. I was so devastated I lost myself. And I truly just didn’t care about myself anymore. Didn’t wanna know about love or men at all
This made me so sad 🥺 I’m sorry you had to go through that but I hope you’re in a better place now! Don’t ever lose hope in finding genuine love!
7:46 “inbreaded” in people 😂😂
I love Jasmine’s personality period! She’s speaking facts 🥳
Loved ALL YOUR ADVICE!!! 🤗😘
Put that in the compilations guys 😂😂😂 I was rolling😂😂
so crazy to think i've been a fan of you since I was 14 and i'm 26 now !! CRAZY
Yaaaasssss part two! I really enjoyed this video. Nice to know we're not alone lol Love you! ❤️
Lol she said embreadded
Jazz out here clowning them letting them know what it is but respect to her
I 🤍 your honesty
DUDE! That Divorce paper from Afghanistan 1... SeriouslyFucked up! Also that anorexia story... Ladies be your curvaceous selves if that is what you are, if you are fit women, go out and be your happy fit queen selves! God bless us all.💙
Your looking so pretty it would be nice to hear some new music from you your voice is beautiful.
Told me I was nothing w out him sometimes and others that he's proud of how far I've come !
OMG I hate cheaters soooo much like why the fuck do it 🙄 anyways love the video!
I love you you’re so real jasmine!!
Make your own book I got to do I got six of them
I love you, how can I view your most recent videos you post? All I can see is your old music videos...
My toxic ex was my ex fiancé and he was so abusive. Like so much to the point to where I’m surprised that he didn’t kill me. He almost did though 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Wow Mizo is legit your twin!!! That’s all I see in you! 😍
Love this & love u !!
Part 2 !!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
My ex gave me and a other woman same gift for valentines
In my last relationship he would compare me to another girl she was a mutual friend that we both knew he would say why can't you be more like her, he kept saying words and phrases that he knew hurt my feelings, cheated lied about it and threatened to hit me if I ever quote got out of line or if I ever cheated on him which I didn't. I also wasn't allowed to be myself or have guy friends.
I can relate with this this one it sucks.
I agree sis, it’s time to leave the movie theater
I love you friend you can come birthday I knew w you're so busy I love your music 💕💖💃🏻
“Time to leave the movie theater” YESSS GIRLLL
I Can Relate On Some 🤦🏼♀️😭
I was with the father to my daughter he cheated on me a lot of times and wanted to move to AZ and I didn't and told me if anything happens to his grandpa he will hate me for the rest of his life.
Pls make more videos like this girl I loved it 😅😂❤️
Why do I relate to you soo much. Literally you are my twin flame. Your my favorite ❤️
i feel like you’re a real ass friend!
I broke up with a crazy ex and he burned my new car for revenge ☹.
Wow what a p.o.s. I'm so sorry! Did you press charges?
@@kristinaarcos5524 I know. Very traumatic. The idiot threw the gasoline can under my neighbors car, which had his fingerprints. He got 3 years for arson.
@@reeree1 good, that's what his ass gets! Hope you are healing from all of that girl & that you're feeling better, positive & strong.
@@kristinaarcos5524 Thank you sweetie 😘. It left me with ptsd but I'm a survivor. Sending you lots of good energy. Stay safe 🙏 ❤
Love this video ! This is real life stuff
Hey Jas love you ! the worst thing that happened to me was an ex dated me for a little bit then dumped me for my friend.
Girl Imissyouuu! Love this Vid 💕 part 2 pls
Where did you get the custom phone case?
Part 2 😈
Wow we all grown now 🥺 it’s been years girl
My ex had a baby with my best friend
I’ve missed your videos ! 🥺❤️
I love your nails
I relate to hitting with girls I know while were still together.. the bad thing no one told me I found out for myself super duper late..haist
Do some story times 💖
I loved this, ure so lovable and amazing❤️❤️
The fact you posted this today!!! I honestly think i am finally done! 💔
Jasmine you will always be an inspiration to me so much love beautiful 🥰🥰❤️🥺
You're gorgeous 🤩
Jaz, can you put out a vid telling us why you and Omar decided to call things off?
Jas im huge fan of you since i was fifteen and is lovely see you so happy is so nice I hope you are doing good and your family saludos girl and good vibes 🌻🌼