WE HAVE ANSWERS…UPDATE ON MY APPALOOSA

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  • Hey Horse Lovers, I have an update regarding Prince Charming my Auction Appaloosa Horse. Over the past 12 months we have been on a long journey and a roller coaster of a ride regarding his rehabilitation. In this video I'm going to give you the results of what we discovered during his MRI at OSU and what our plan is following that. When you own horses there is a lot of good, but their can also be difficulties. I am here to share my journey with you no matter what happens good or bad. This is a very difficult video to make, but it is my goal to share all aspects of what I do with you. Please keep us in your thoughts. IF YOU ENJOY OUR CONTENT SUBSCRIBE!
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  • @CheriChristensen-if9wh
    @CheriChristensen-if9wh ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Dying is not the worst thing for a horse. Being in pain and locked in a stall is no way to live for a horse, and is worse than death. You made the right decision.

  • @shiatsuequino1121
    @shiatsuequino1121 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    I’m a 63 Year old woman and an Equine PT, and we have a small equine sanctuary. I support you fully. Your journey and videos are so valuable for people to understand the complex & complete responsibility in being the best partner with our horses. Thank you for sharing your story/love with Prince Charming 💗prayers for you 💗

  • @Norunormii
    @Norunormii ปีที่แล้ว +189

    You gave him the biggest love you could give and that’s letting him go. No more suffering. The love between him and you is forever.❤️

    • @Aubs.peteman
      @Aubs.peteman 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I agree

    • @DebraLoft-q1i
      @DebraLoft-q1i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I lost my beautiful equine partner in February severe. Arthritis laminitis and bursitis he was in so much pain short periods of being ok, mostly not. I said goodbye to my love. He rests now no more pain. I will never get over this. I was there when he was born, he passed when he was 22. My dressage partner my best friend. I am crying with you.

  • @adelejay7747
    @adelejay7747 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    When you pass through the gates of heaven Prince Charming will be galloping to meet you…without pain or condemnation. God bless you both.🙏🏼💗

  • @andifox6534
    @andifox6534 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I don't know if anyone has said this but, I'm proud of you. From start to finish, you've been his hero. 💜

  • @lesliemoiseauthor
    @lesliemoiseauthor ปีที่แล้ว +732

    Thank you for loving him enough to let him go. Not everyone is brave enough to do what is best for their beloved animals. HUG 🫂

    • @suecastillo4056
      @suecastillo4056 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Agreed! You’re the best Dearest… you did the right thing for the right reason… bless you for that♥️no one loves their horses more than you do… you walk like you talk… ♥️♥️♥️☮️😢🙋‍♀️🥰I’m so sorry, but you did the right thing…

    • @Swimkid1
      @Swimkid1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let the horse do his own thing in the pasture. I’ve had arthritis for years.
      The issues only started off with a slight limp, it’s not severe yet I’m afraid lovely. Let all the vets go and let the horse live his life in the pasture until it’s too bad.
      When you originally showed us this horse - he looked in a lot less pain than me, and I’m okay. I think you are assuming he’s in untold pain. Hey’ perhaps I’m wrong.
      Regards, Dave Uk

    • @deborahharker4392
      @deborahharker4392 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen ❤

    • @vernaedwards7263
      @vernaedwards7263 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I know how you deal..... It hurts,!!!!!!?

    • @dianaburris7231
      @dianaburris7231 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Proverbs chapter 12 verse 10. Comfort from above for your broken heart . this Bible truth helped me reason unselfishly when confronted with a euthanasia decision.

  • @daphne10120
    @daphne10120 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    My vet said to me “sometimes the kindest thing you can do is say goodbye” and it will always stick with me. 100% agree with your take on quality of life. It is an unfortunate fact that many pet owners have to face. So sorry you are going through all this. Everyone knows you poured your heart and soul into this sweet boy.

    • @porkchop8542
      @porkchop8542 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Bless you for what you do. You did what you had to do.

    • @keriannedavidson6005
      @keriannedavidson6005 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It truly is the greatest act of love. as my vet would say

  • @judiasay5060
    @judiasay5060 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    The hardest thing we have to do as animal lovers is the last act of kindness. Prince Charming came to you for the final chapter of his life.💕💕. You were both blessed💕💕

    • @BeverlyDuke-z5f
      @BeverlyDuke-z5f ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😢 So sorry you had to make that decision Your decision is a sound and humane one.

    • @sarahwheeler1594
      @sarahwheeler1594 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Beautiful comment Judi. ❤️🥰

  • @madelineevans128
    @madelineevans128 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I agree 100% with your decision. I recently had to have my 15 year old dog euthanized due to severe arthritis in her legs. She had been too loyal a companion to let her suffer in pain and with a decreasing quality of life. It was the hardest decision I have made in my life but it was simply wrong to let her suffer because I was unwilling to be without her. Keep your memories of Prince Charming close to your heart. ❤

  • @kerithoma1955
    @kerithoma1955 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    You have done everything possible for that horse. He has had the last 12 months or so treated with respect and everything and you’ve done such a great job taking care of him.

    • @joycemorrell1293
      @joycemorrell1293 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is sad for you because you understand what is happening and all of the issues around that but the horse knows none of this. He is in pain. He knows that. You can end the pain and you know the issues around trying to keep him. Your decision is the right one. He will simply peacefully go to sleep. I put a horse to sleep because he had permanently injured his front leg. He was a lovely sweet horse. I could not afford keep a horse that could not be ridden. It is always very sad for the owner who cares for that horse. It is not sad for the horse, who knows nothing. You know you did everything you could do.

  • @debbiejastrzebski6722
    @debbiejastrzebski6722 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Oh my gosh, you have been the best person to have come into his life at just the right time for him. I'm sitting here with tears coming down my face. I totally understand your whole explanation. I have to come to the same decisions with my pets. You have all my prayers and love, and so does Prince Charming. I grieve so bad when I have to make these decisions. Love and light, to you and Prince Charming and your hubby. Debbie Jay

  • @gaypreator8547
    @gaypreator8547 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    You did the right thing. Trying to squeeze a week or few more months is not the right path. Loving them enough to let them go - is the greatest gift. Limping, flinching is response to pain. Prince Charming was fortunate to have come to you. Time to begin a ‘“Wall of Fame”: all the horses, that have come and gone - crossed through your life. Sweet Meeko and Prince Charming will be kicking it up.❤️ ❤️ God Bless.

    • @freespiritequestrian
      @freespiritequestrian  ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yes. That’s exactly what I thought too. This would have been the end result eventually.

  • @rebekahwitter4517
    @rebekahwitter4517 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    This is the hard part of life; but you truly are doing the kindest thing for Prince Charming. This is also a very VALUABLE lesson for all your subscribers to witness and accept. Your are doing the right, responsible, compassionate thing. Love and Hugs all around....

  • @This.is.Ambimane
    @This.is.Ambimane ปีที่แล้ว +148

    As a person In vet school im 100% sure you did the right thing. These things happen and you are very strong. Not many People spend 13-27k on a horse med wise. You are the best horse owner a horse choud ever ask for. Thank you for being so brave and strong i cant thank you enough. ❤️

  • @mango8918
    @mango8918 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Shae...I know this is late, but I just wanted to thank you for the love, care and attention you've given to Prince Charming (and all your horses). It's takes someone with an unselfish, loving heart to devote their life to giving these magnificent animals the love and respect they deserve. Thank you!

  • @valerieshaw3344
    @valerieshaw3344 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    As a horse owner of 40 years we have had to make this type of decision several times. Just last week I had to put down my retired trail horse because of neurological problems. The vet was confident there is no fixing the issue and the incidents would happen again and more often. The strength you have to make this kind of decision is releasing Prince Charming from a future life of pain. Thank you for caring so much for your horses and giving them the best life possible. Sending hugs your way.

    • @barbarakiser5622
      @barbarakiser5622 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m so sorry about your horse😢 sending you hugs.

  • @angelalibi1
    @angelalibi1 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    I am 50 and a retired RN. I know it's hard for some people to understand that throwing money and medicine at a problem can make it worse but you have made the right decision. I am so proud of you for sharing it on the channel it is so BRAVE. You could have lied and made up a "colic" emergency or something easy like that. I had horses when I was younger and hope to have some in the coming year or two. I APPRECIATE SO MUCH the knowledge you share about buying auction horses and how to be prepared. It hasn't scared me off, it has made me more sound in my decision. Please dont let any negative comments make you feel any worse than I know you already are, it is a hard choice to make on behalf of an animal, but the right choice. Kudos to you for being a properly concerned animal lover. Thank you!

    • @lesliemoiseauthor
      @lesliemoiseauthor ปีที่แล้ว +11

      💞💓💞

    • @SDWolfe
      @SDWolfe ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So true! Also-repeatedly getting injections can cause more pain and you risk introducing bacteria!!! Injections HURT!!! I have had SO many into joints & into my spine!!!

    • @Wqbbarrelsnroping
      @Wqbbarrelsnroping ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes and for something you love and want to give a life that’s what you do for it a horse is the best friend you will never be able to replace but I’m to young to be spending money on my horse just to save her for a few years and my parents won’t spend the money I think it would just be best to put her down now yet they are making her suffer by saying she still has life and she doesn’t she made the best decision I hope he’s better even though she spent money that she could have saved she did it anyway and gave him another year of life in a good home

    • @janesnyder8977
      @janesnyder8977 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I appreciate your honesty, common sense, and courage to show heartfelt emotion. Don't allow anyone to cause you to second guess any of your decisions. They were sound in every way. I am glad Prince Charming's last year was with you, and if he could talk he would tell you it was a tremendous blessing to him, tho I know it has been hard on you. Take comfort in the fact that you tried every wise option and put in many, many hours of work in an attempt to save a sweet and gentle soul. You gave him a year of wonderful care, and he knew he was loved. Please keep up the amazing work and application of your gift!!!
      ❤❤❤

  • @heavensotaku126
    @heavensotaku126 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I’m so sorry… there’s nothing any of us can say. I’m glad that you have your husband and friends to support and help you through the emotions. We all love the horses as you’ve introduced them, but please take time to take care of yourself right now as well. Sending prayers ❤.

  • @paulaackerson4027
    @paulaackerson4027 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    You’re a true equestrian Shae. And a very courageous and intelligent young woman. I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • @paige1778
    @paige1778 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I’ve never owned a horse but the now the pain of loosing a loved animal. Thank you for doing what was best for him. No matter what your fans will be here for you. ❤

  • @sabrinag573
    @sabrinag573 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Dear Shae, thank you for taking the time in the face of your grief to include us, and to express everything so well. You were his angel. ❤

  • @jillismyname100
    @jillismyname100 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    The final act of kindness

  • @barbaradickinson8314
    @barbaradickinson8314 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    As a 66 year old woman who has had dogs all my life. I’ve had to put down several pup babies. It’s never an easy decision but I myself wouldn’t want to live like that. You made the best decision for Prince Charming. He couldn’t live pain free that’s no way to live. There comes a time when it’s the best for him. Prayers for you!!

    • @lesliemoiseauthor
      @lesliemoiseauthor ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💯💯💯❣️

    • @juliamurphy5299
      @juliamurphy5299 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      After having to put my 2nd young cat down in less than a year(4 years/5 years old), I was broken hearted and questioning my ability as a pet owner 💔. I was told by a co-worker that God gave me the special kitties that needed to be heartly truly loved

    • @juliamurphy5299
      @juliamurphy5299 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I have always remembered that generous sentiment that helps me to understand we don't know why things happen. We just need the faith to know that God does. Prince Charming knows what being heartly truly loved means ❤️

    • @roanwolf6389
      @roanwolf6389 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Agreed, because we don't want our furbabies to suffer. And we have the responsibility to let them go peacefully and pain free.

    • @cindybowden4017
      @cindybowden4017 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Best decision possible. I would not want to have one of my pets living in pain. I have 2 pasture horses. One is doing great, the other one is not doing as well as I think he should. I’m working through his issues and praying I find the formula to get him back on the road to health. Completely agree with the decision.

  • @rebeccavanbrussel9460
    @rebeccavanbrussel9460 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Oh Girl... my heart just broke... I only recently found your channel here on TH-cam and I am slowly going through all the videos so I can really grasp the idea and get to know the horses and your story... and waaaw... Prince charming got me ... this is so sad 😢... I just want to say ... thank you for investing so much time, love, money and effort into this beautiful and gentil horse... you made the right decision... a very difficult one but one that had to be made in his benefit... so thank you for loving him so much... I truly wish you all the best and love to see and hear more from you and the horses ... ❤❤❤

  • @lynneatwood2536
    @lynneatwood2536 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Hi Shae, this is almost a year later, but you did the right thing.
    You know that we are spirits having a physical experience. Ask him to come to you in a dream and let you know he’s all right.
    I had that happen with my first Sheltie. He’d been gone for about 2 years. I spoke to his spirit , saying “Noah, you’ve been gone for two years and you haven’t even come to see me in a dream.”
    A couple weeks later, i had a dream where we were at the veterinarian’s office where he was put down, only this time he was lying in a box and my Mom, Dad, the veterinarian and I were all dumping cups of water (emotion) over him. Gradually the water covered him.
    In a moment, I saw one of his ears twitch, then he raised his neck and then he jumped up and shook off all the water. “Look at me, I’m as good as new and you don’t need to be sad any more!”
    He was no longer in the old, broken-down body. He was back in his prime, letting me know he loved me and was as good as new in the spirit realm.
    Maybe Prince Charming will visit you in dreams if he hasn't already.
    It's hard to let them go, but you've done him a great kindness by giving him a loving ending to his earthly life. I know he's grateful!

  • @rockysmumakagma
    @rockysmumakagma ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Noooo, this isn’t the news I was expecting. I’m so so sorry Shae, I cried right along with you the whole video 😭 You’re such an amazing horse woman, the care, the love you give to these beautiful creatures, just everything you represent is amazing. Your a strong woman, In your time of sorrow, you took the time to make this video to explain to all of us what the results were, your decision and why you made it. My heart has broken 💔 for you and Prince Charming. RIP Prince Charming, may you run in those luscious green pastures free of pain, you will be missed 🕊️❤❤❤

  • @Open2OpenUT
    @Open2OpenUT ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I very much applaud your decision to give Prince Charming the Last Act of Kindness, it can’t have been easy but it’s the right thing to do. He has known love and kindness in your care and it’s testament to your love for him that you have reached this decision. Hugs ❤️

  • @simplefloridagirl
    @simplefloridagirl ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The last act of kindness is the best thing you can do. From one horse owner to another, I send my love to you. Just remember he's running pain free now, and will forever be watching you and will be with you.

  • @loversdontH8
    @loversdontH8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Shae, you are the kind of horsewoman horses need. I feel that Prince Charming was meant for you because you would do the right thing for him rather than prolong his pain. Thank you for setting such a good example and inspiring so many with the fabulous work you do. Know that so many of us love you, are heartbroken with you, and support you. ❣️

  • @nisawallace5903
    @nisawallace5903 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Shae,my heart goes out to you and Kyle. Yes,you did all you could to help rehabilitate Prince Charming and you gave him most precious of all your love. You know he knows that,right? The Native peoples called the horse the sacred dog. If you love deeply you know the connections that are made with all animals. You gave him in the last time of his life the best care and love he could have ever gotten...you are a blessing of immense measure to the horses and the horse world. You are both an immeasurable blessing and example to all of us as well. You show how to be loving and caring to the animals in your care and also to each other. Here is my vision for you....way in the future when you cross the rainbow bridge__ waiting on the other side will be a herd of horses and Prince Charming will be at the lead and happy,happy neighs( not sure about that spelling) will be sounding loudly and joyfully on that day! Love.

    • @freespiritequestrian
      @freespiritequestrian  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thank you 😊 it’s such a lovely thought.

    • @ricklaurelnovotny4829
      @ricklaurelnovotny4829 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shae and Kyle , my heart goes out to you. You made the hard but best decision for your beloved PC. You are a constant inspiration to me. I've blocked many channels Due to worsening my depression. I find such comfort and education from yours. If I lived closer I KNOW we would be best friends. God is with you, Kyle and PC plus your entire crew!🙏❤️

    • @ricklaurelnovotny4829
      @ricklaurelnovotny4829 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I still think about your sweet sweet meeko! You are the best , shae. ❤

  • @maddie.xanimalsx1644
    @maddie.xanimalsx1644 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    You really gave him a second shot at life. There was so much time, passion, dedication, and hard work put into this gelding. Y’all tried your absolute hardest to give him a quality life. You will be so very missed Prince Charming. RIP. 💔💖💛

    • @freespiritequestrian
      @freespiritequestrian  ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Thank you. 💔

    • @annpriddy3870
      @annpriddy3870 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Thank you for loving Prince Charming enough to make the correct decision. It’s not an easy thing to do but it is the kindest thing to do.
      He knew he was loved, and that’s the greatest gift you could have given him.

    • @darlenestassen977
      @darlenestassen977 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤😢he will be waiting for you in heaven. God will take care of our animals

  • @TheNadincita
    @TheNadincita ปีที่แล้ว +65

    My condolences to you, dear Shae, I feel sympathy for your sorrow... How difficult it is to say goodbye to a friend! You can be at peace knowing you made the best decision for Prince Charming... And as a spiritual person that you are, you know what shines through is all the love you invested in his life! You are a brave and wise horsewoman and you deserve our admiration... A big hug Shae from a Horselover all the way from Spain!! ❤😢❤

  • @nancyfairbrother716
    @nancyfairbrother716 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Shea. I know these things happen in spite of our best efforts, and we just have to adjust despite our grief. You honored your debt to him as a horse lover, and I know eventually you will be comforted by that thought. Much love to you and everyone at Free Spirit Equestrian. ❤

  • @whatsinaplant4417
    @whatsinaplant4417 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Everything you have said and done fits with the deep love and compassion and respect you have for these incredible horses with whom you cross paths. The most loving act is to let go. And thank you for letting us in to witness your beautiful journey as well as each horse’s. Bless you ❤️

  • @sueterwilliger4193
    @sueterwilliger4193 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I’ve had horses for 60 years and have experienced the same issues in one of my horses. They will never get better and will only get worse over time. And to the person that said he wasn’t in pain, limping is from pain. No pain, no limp. You are 100% doing the right thing for Prince Charming. It hurts my heart as he looks just like a mare I had that was one in a million. Again you are doing the kindest thing for him. Prayers

  • @dpelli
    @dpelli ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Kudos to you for being brave enough to make this call. People who refuse to put animals down when they are in a condition like this tend to do so for their own selfish reasons. You’re a WONDERFUL horse mama and you’ve been put in a spot no animal lover wants to be in. Sending all the love and hugs ❤

    • @GPwithme
      @GPwithme ปีที่แล้ว +8

      So well said. ❤

    • @donnazerbe8000
      @donnazerbe8000 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Agree with difficult decisions made are hard with all furbabies!

    • @lesliemoiseauthor
      @lesliemoiseauthor ปีที่แล้ว +12

      💯 Agree. Keeping an animal in pain isn't love, it's selfish abuse.

    • @sarahwheeler1594
      @sarahwheeler1594 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lovely comment Devan! ❤️🥰

  • @lonnaseeley6807
    @lonnaseeley6807 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    My heart is breaking for you, and poor Prince Charming. You have gone above and beyond, given so much love and time and compassion…You have to make one of the hardest decisions a horse owner has to make. I‘VE been through this myself…😢 My thoughts and prayers for You and Sweet Prince Charming 😢

  • @rodandjudibowen5665
    @rodandjudibowen5665 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Shae, dear. You and Kyle did the most loving thing for your Prince Charming. Blessings

  • @kirstingooge3918
    @kirstingooge3918 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Shae, your Prince Charming shorts video popped up on my feed tonight so I came to your channel to hear more. I just wanted to tell you I’m so incredibly thankful that he had unconditional love, the best veterinary care, the best farrier care, the best diet and the best love for the last 12 months of his life. Because of you he knew love and acceptance in what can sometimes be a cruel world. Thank you 💜

  • @jennifermastin7169
    @jennifermastin7169 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Shae you did your best and Prince Charming is so grateful for you I know. He isn’t in anymore pain and he’s running in the greenest pastures now… you are in my thought and prayers

    • @marshawalling710
      @marshawalling710 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's the same with humans the kind souls go first,I believe he found you for whatever time he had you gave him a better life at the end of his for all of us that are shedding tears with you and remembering how we felt when we had to let go you made the right decision God bless,love

    • @juliamurphy5299
      @juliamurphy5299 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      With people they say "only the good die young." I think they completed their earthly assignment earlt all
      animals are angels and they all die before we are ready to let them go. I am 65, so I will have a lot of angels, meeting me once I cross the rainbow bridge.

    • @jennifermastin7169
      @jennifermastin7169 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wish I could give Shae( you) a hug girly.. your such a kind soul

  • @jillfatucchi8264
    @jillfatucchi8264 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    So sorry Shae. You are being a responsible horse owner and giving him the last act of kindness, not sending him off to an auction to be dragged into the slaughter pipeline. I applaud your decision. Big hugs and lots of love. XXXXXXX

  • @s.f.3627
    @s.f.3627 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    To actually make this decision, after so many months of trying and all the money and love that you gave him, shows that it wasnt taken likely. His well being was above all and to take this road shows how strong you are!

  • @janaespiker3127
    @janaespiker3127 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I know this is an older video and I don’t want to open wounds but I very much appreciate this video and without a doubt you made the right decision for Prince Charming. I have been in dog rescue for 13 years and recently read the greatest article about how the rescue community has almost gotten out of control with saving animals often times at the detriment to the animal they are saving. When I was a vet tech my biggest issue was people waiting too long to end suffering for their own selfish needs. This is a brave video and you should be proud.

  • @LeilaniLight11709
    @LeilaniLight11709 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My dog just all of a sudden went from healthy to kidney failure, and I just took him to the vet yesterday and I had to put him down. I had to think of HIS quality of life plus the money in doing ICU for three days plus vet charges, could be 10,000 to have him be sick and feel bad. It's really hard. I understand. I send prayers out to you. You did the BEST you could. He taught you what he was to teach. You both completed your contracts.

  • @Austin-it3sd
    @Austin-it3sd ปีที่แล้ว +90

    This was such a hard decision for you to make. Please know that the fans that are here, truly, understand that. You're looking out for him in front of your own needs. I'm just so glad that Prince Charming ended up in your hands, and not somebody else's. We are behind you 100%. I'm thinking of you in this difficult time.

    • @cynthiaadkins-rb3wy
      @cynthiaadkins-rb3wy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My heart breaks for you. I just had to make this decision with a beloved senior rescue dog and the pain is still raw. Thank you for loving him and giving him your all.

  • @punkierawker04
    @punkierawker04 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I 100% agree with you decision. So so hard but you're doing the best for this boy. Thank you for all you do. You're such an amazing person and have a heart of gold. Sending love and prayers your way. ❤

  • @annastrand5144
    @annastrand5144 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    You took so much care with Prince Charming. It's heartbreaking to know that his injuries were not curable. It's a part of animal ownership and you're right about measuring the horses needs, quality of life and to make sure we're not keeping them in pain for our wants or the avoidance of the difficult decision. I'm sorry for your loss and the sadness you feel right now. ❤😢❤

  • @Pandora_369
    @Pandora_369 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It feels weird to give a thumbs up for a video that is so heartbreaking. It is so damn hard to have to make this decision, but you always do what is best for each horse. I'm so sorry the outcome couldn't be different for Prince Charming and for you. Love and prayers.

  • @felbrook
    @felbrook 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I don’t own a horse. I would love to have one… l have just sat and watched this video and cried with you… You don’t need to explain what you have done… The love you give to your horses is amazing and you always put your horses first… l live in England but if l lived near you l would come over and give you a great big hug 🥰

  • @Shannan845
    @Shannan845 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    “Why is it always the good ones?”
    “When you pick flowers, don’t you always pick the prettiest ones?”
    It’s so damn hard to say goodbye but you did your best and he won’t be suffering anymore. If you didn’t get him, someone would’ve surely pushed him through his pain and probably never known the true extent of his issues. Rest easy sweet Prince, you will be missed.

  • @paintedpony6394
    @paintedpony6394 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I'm a 54 year old woman whose a veterinarian tech plus owned horses and other animals my whole life. You are honestly doing what's right for your horse. It comes down to 100% quality of life and he will always be in pain even on bute. I know it's hard and truly heartbreaking but you made the right decision. ❤
    I'm giving you a huge hug❤❤❤

  • @kerrieonmywaywardson
    @kerrieonmywaywardson ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Fellow horse lover here. I just wanted to say thank you for doing what is best for him, despite all the pain. These situations are the hardest when it comes to rescuing and rehab, as you know, and i just wanted to say I commend you for doing what is the best for him. Sending all the love your way ❤

  • @mdaly23md
    @mdaly23md 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I know this is late, that happened a year ago. This and the video before that I watched. You did the kindest thing you could for him. That is the point, it is all about what is best for Prince Charming. Our feelings do not trump what is best for a living creature to live a quality of life without pain. To do otherwise is selfish in not wanting to let go. That is the greatest love you gave him, you gave him a chance, and you did everything possible to make him physically comfortable. God bless you for making the hard decision of doing what was best for him. And not looking at how much it is going to hurt when he dies.

  • @westvirginiahillbilly9596
    @westvirginiahillbilly9596 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You made the right decision. God bless you..

  • @arrow21OG
    @arrow21OG ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I had to put down my horse last November. The decision is utterly heartbreaking. You have my deepest sympathy and I hope you find peace with your decision, I know you did the right thing for him.

    • @sandrabeck8788
      @sandrabeck8788 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good people do what you did. Not good people haul them to an auction for a few $ and leave them to untold misery and pain, until they are sold to kill buyers.

  • @Starrynight058
    @Starrynight058 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Your devotion and endless love for Prince Charming shows us all that you made the profoundly difficult right decision for him. So sorry for the loss of a beautiful horse who was so special and deeply loved. I share your tears. ❤❤❤

  • @Wyome67
    @Wyome67 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I’m so sorry for your loss, just know your horse lover army is 100% behind you and supporting you and giving you a virtual hug. Rest assured you are so loved Shae. The amount of dedication and love you pour into your horses is real and genuine. Just know your horse lover army is here for you, always.

  • @jacquelynmedina5401
    @jacquelynmedina5401 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sometimes the most loving and compassionate thing you can do is release them from chronic pain. Bless you.

  • @yehudisillions3999
    @yehudisillions3999 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My heart was breaking with yours, Prince Charming couldn’t have been in better hands. So much compassion and respect for you and your work ❤

  • @mooniepiereilly8923
    @mooniepiereilly8923 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Oh dear ❤ Shae.
    Yes, he was in pain. I saw that clearly.
    I believe you, I believe in you and the decision you are making for this poor prognosis, for PC's best interests.
    The hardest decision any of us can make who live with animals is the ability to make this decision when it's needed.
    My heart weeps for the pain for you and Kyle, but this is absolutely the right decision. If he could talk I'm sure he'd tell you he loves you for SO MUCH you've done for him, tried to do for him. And you gave him an awesome life in your care.
    Be very kind and gentle with yourself. You are so needed, and so appreciated, for all you do.

  • @rhondabibeau3940
    @rhondabibeau3940 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Oh Shea, this breaks my heart for you and Prince Charming. Take some time for yourself and love on Belle as you are greaving. We will all be here for you whenever you are ready to post again. Hugs to you both ❤

  • @joeunderwood1468
    @joeunderwood1468 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Remember that you gave Prince Charming the best possible care and love while he was alive, and that you made the difficult decision to end his suffering when it became necessary. Cherish the memories you shared with him and know that they will always hold a special place in your heart.

  • @alexisk7736
    @alexisk7736 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You did all you could do with such kindness. My heart breaks for you. Prayers for you and Prince Charming. ❤

  • @pegasusa1609
    @pegasusa1609 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You did the best for him you could possibly do, and no one could ever say anything different. He wouldn't be happy and he would be grateful for your kindness. I worked in the vet field for 16 years, animals mask their pain, they can't tell you they are hurting, look at these animals that look so bad but are wagging their tail, and not showing they hurt. There are people who don't understand how animals are and what you need to do to make sure you take care of them. We in the Veterinary field know and understand them differently than regular people 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @I_Love_Bread_318
    @I_Love_Bread_318 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This was so emotional to watch. I don't know how hard it was to let him go, but I know it was. We all support you and your decision, Shae. He is happier here than he was at the auction. You gave him a better life.

  • @barryheaps9948
    @barryheaps9948 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    You have my deepest sympathy. Yes its very hard to put down a pet. I've never owned a horse but, I can only imagine your difficulty. God speed and may Prince Charming rest in peace. Love ya Shae

  • @Ebeanzz
    @Ebeanzz ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You gave him a good life and you guys fought. This was the kindest thing you could’ve done for him.
    Prince Charming will be missed ❤

  • @sarahwheeler1594
    @sarahwheeler1594 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Aw Shae, I’m very sorry for you and Kyle, to hear about Prince Charming. Take solace in knowing you did everything you could for him and that you gave him so much love and care for the last eleven months of his life.
    A beautiful passage from Shakespeare’s Hamlet, “Now cracks a noble heart. Good night, sweet prince, and flights of angels sing thee to thy rest.” 👑❤️
    Love from Maine! 🦞🥰

  • @Da_Honse_Lover
    @Da_Honse_Lover ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You gave Prince Charming the best end to his life possible. Thank you for not just making a video of you crying and telling us of your loss, but instead properly explaining it. I know it was hard. You 100% made the right decision, no doubt.
    R.I.P. Prince Charming.
    I honestly don't know what else to say, this is absolutely heartbreaking.

  • @daldog09
    @daldog09 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m so, so sorry to hear this, Shea. You have certainly done all you can for him. I’ve owned and trained horses for over 60 years. This is never easy. I’ve been where you are many times and I’m so sad for you and for him. You are making the right decision.

  • @r.trinkl4130
    @r.trinkl4130 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I am sending you a big hug. I've been in this situation twice with my horses and I totally agree, it has to be a decision FOR THE HORSE and not for us humans. Run free with the angels Prince Charming.

  • @user_76546
    @user_76546 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Shae, this broke my heart to see you upset. I am so so sorry you have to say goodbye, but I am so thankful you love him this much to do the right thing. Please know we are all here for you, I will be keeping you in your prayers.
    Much love and thoughts from Illinois. ❤️

    • @user_76546
      @user_76546 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ll be keeping you in my prayers not yours 🙂

  • @CJ-dj3cx
    @CJ-dj3cx ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Remember when you got him. You had a nice year of love and he got love through his pain.

  • @pattyiscool
    @pattyiscool ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I definitely feel for you shae, last night we had to put down our 26 year old gelding after a freak accident. You have really helped me get through the loss of my first horse and you have put a smile on my face. I bet they are running together painless in heaven right now. Thank you and I am so sorry for you loss but you made the best decision for him and I completely understand ❤

  • @BasementRuthie
    @BasementRuthie ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Everything you've said and explained makes 100% sense and I applaud you for laying everything out for us so clearly. I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my sweet cat on Monday so I really really understand what you're feeling. All my love and support to you through this time. ❤️‍🩹🤧

  • @kaylindsay3845
    @kaylindsay3845 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Believe me, Prince Charming is thanking you right now...never easy, but ALWAYS a part of having our four legged friends enrich our lives, for a time. Sobbing right now for you and Kyle. I commend you for being one of the smartest, strongest women I've ever known (and I do feel I know you!) Lots of love and hugs to you, and many, many thanks for taking on this beautiful creature and letting all of us be part of his journey. You're right. It's not all rainbows and butterflies, but for the time Prince Charming was with you, it was for HIM. He finally got the love and care he so deserved, for at least one of his 18 years of life!

  • @kendall_equestrian
    @kendall_equestrian ปีที่แล้ว +14

    You did the right thing, Shae. My barn had a sweet retired gelding named pickles we had to put down because he was in extreme pain. Most of the OGS at the barn (including myself) learned to ride on him and it was super sad to see him go, but it was right for him. I really do feel bad for our other retired horse though because he and pickles were best friends. Love from SC, Stardust Edits/kendall.

  • @TheNoonie50
    @TheNoonie50 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You have made the very best decision for Prince. I am a long time horse owner, and have had to make this decision 3 times. You went above and beyond the "call of duty" emotionally, physically, and financially. You put your whole heart into it. You must feel good about what you've done for him. hugs (new sub here)

  • @sydniebauch3748
    @sydniebauch3748 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Big hugs to you! ❤ Crying right alongside you too 😢 RIP Prince Charming 💔

  • @crypticvale
    @crypticvale ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I had to put down my childhood dog in college due to her falling ill at 13. I can't imagine how much harder it is with an animal that you have so much work into. Sending you virtual hugs.

  • @laraine2409
    @laraine2409 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m so sorry Shae. I completely agree that you are making the best decision for Prince Charming. It’s always hard to put a pet down. I’m so happy you found him and gave him the best life while he was here. Sending peace and support your way. ❤️

  • @kidstuff44555
    @kidstuff44555 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Charm had almost 18 years of life, and animals don't think about the future, they don't understand death, they just exist in the moment. They don't fear or worry like we do about the end of our lives. So when it comes, as long as its not painful, they have no concept of it. You did your best and that's all anyone can do. xx

  • @tracydockray
    @tracydockray ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My heart goes out to you. You and Free Spirit Equestrian did everything you could for PC. He was grateful and the horse community is too for the lengths that you went to help him. I hope the Prince Charming shape hole in your heart heals with time.

  • @devikamenon2675
    @devikamenon2675 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Prince Charming was a friendly, affectionate, goofy, vibrant soul. To keep a sweet, social animal like that trapped in a stall for months at a time, over and over, would be unkind. He would never have been able to run or play in the herd properly, at the risk of reinjuring himself. Trust when we say, having watched you every day. *You’ve done the right thing. He understands. And when you see him again, he will thank you.*

  • @zoo22u
    @zoo22u ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When you share your life with other living beings is a double-edged proposition...so much joy, so much sorrow. You made the right choice. God bless you.

  • @ninakaiser2930
    @ninakaiser2930 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My deep compassion for making the right choice! 🌈 He will be there waiting for you when its your time and you will see him again ❤

  • @katherinestead708
    @katherinestead708 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Quality of life is way more important than Quantity for all our animals. As hard a decision as it is you made the right decision. Sleep softly Prince Charming you were so loved! Big hugs to you Shae!

    • @elsiecater156
      @elsiecater156 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If we love our animals we know them their happiness love for us and pain they suffer quality of life is most important to us all but our babies depend on us to love cherish and care and appreciate what love and acceptance they give and they trust us to do what is right for them I have been in your position and send love to you in your address and loss.❤

  • @JeanRoberts-e7t
    @JeanRoberts-e7t 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Not hocus pocus. He’s up in your heavenly pasture waiting for you.

  • @dorienmertens9368
    @dorienmertens9368 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hey Shae and Kyle i watched this video and take my hat off for all you do for all the horses and other animals in your care Prince Charming knew you loved him and did everything you could do in his best interest if he had a voice and could talk he d say a big thank you for not letting him suffer anymore despite the heartache i have immense respect for you both so keep your head up you did do the absolute kindest thing you could do for this precious appaloosa

  • @katrinathompson7828
    @katrinathompson7828 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Some time's the hardest part of owning Pet's is knowing the right time to say good bye 😢
    A friend who is a vet one day said to me when I asked how you know the time is right and her words stay with me every time I have to make this hard decision with one of our rescue's and that is... A day to early is better than a day to late ❤
    You 100% made the right decision here and did everything in your power to help him.
    You have a beautiful soul and I'm glad he got to know so much love with you, big hug's from The Team at Vada's Angels Animal Rescue ♥️

    • @sarahwheeler1594
      @sarahwheeler1594 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like you have a very wise Vet friend Katrina! 👏🏻❤️🥰

  • @heartlesskitten88
    @heartlesskitten88 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You truly gave Prince Charming the last act of kindness. He was a sweet boy who didn't deserve to live in pain and being locked up in a stall. He's running free in the fields on the other side.

  • @cosmoswhispers1796
    @cosmoswhispers1796 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your dream for Prince Charming was to find him someone who would totally love and value him - he found that someone the moment you walked into his life and gave him all of your loving care and dedication. Sending hugs xx

  • @rachelweinstein9008
    @rachelweinstein9008 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m sorry for your loss of Prince Charming. He was so sweet and special. You did all you could for him so you can be at peace. I pray you’ll find comfort in the coming days. You’re an awesome horsewoman and you based all your decisions on his wellbeing. I learn so much from you. I’m not a horse woman I have no experience with them. But I’m an animal lover and I feel your pain. I believe we’ll meet our loved animals again. Feel better ❤️‍🩹. 😢

  • @stinkycretingurl
    @stinkycretingurl ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I just honestly want you to know that all of us--the recent subscribers/watchers and others like myself who have been watching since the start--are surrounding you and Prince Charming with love, light and kindness in this moment. Prince Charming had a beautiful, beautiful last year of his life that was absolutely full of love. The love you gave him was a gift to him AND to all of us who watch your channel. Thank you for that gift and for the gift you gave to PC.

    • @sarahwheeler1594
      @sarahwheeler1594 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful comment Jennifer! 👍🏻❤️🥰

  • @easttexan2933
    @easttexan2933 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh dearest Lord, this is so hard for Shae. Deepest condolences Shae. May the good Lord bring you peace about this as we are 11 + months passed this news. God bless you. You are so loved in this community.

  • @BuckingPonies
    @BuckingPonies ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You put all you had into him and you should be PROUD you tried ❤ RIP prince charming 😊 you will be remembered 🥺🥺🥺

  • @leveidasternberg747
    @leveidasternberg747 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You gave him a last good year! Thank you for letting us know. I’m so sorry, but you did the best for him. Sleep tight Prince Charming!

  • @alycewich4472
    @alycewich4472 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shea I'm late to offer condolences as I just found out about Prince Charming with your celebrating his life video last night. As a fellow horsewoman who has had to euthanize several beloved horses/ponies over the decades, only YOU knew what was best for Prince Charming.
    The ones viewing you on your channel only get a small snapshot of what goes on in you life and the life of your horses. When I saw the last clip of Prince Charming, with his grade 4 out of 5 lameness. I knew it wasn't good. It's so hard to let go, hoping against hope that whatever is going on is fixable. I know you did the best for him even with your heart breaking. Ignore the ones who want to cast a stone in your direction. They have no idea of the pain you went through to come to the decision you made.

  • @carolynstewart8465
    @carolynstewart8465 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bless you for caring so much for a horse who had been thrown away. You gave him a wonderful last chapter of life. You did the best for him!❤😢

  • @dawnmaclellan7831
    @dawnmaclellan7831 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Animals cannot deal with pain like humans do.they can’t reason and make life adjustments. He is a horse inside and out just like you are saying. To make this decision is so very difficult, horrible, sad, distressing. I’m totally behind you. Wish could be there to give you hugs and in person support! Keep hanging in there! I know you will take the love you have and share it with another horse. Keep on keeping on!